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VICTOR MARX | The Unseen War (Ep. 789)

July 22, 2025 1h 14m Full transcript available
VICTOR MARX | The Unseen War (Ep. 789)
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In this episode, Kyle Thompson welcomes back Victor Marx to discuss his new documentary, 'The Unseen War,' which tackles the reality of spiritual warfare. They dive deep into the importance of recognizing the battle for our minds and the necessity of biblical literacy in combating the lies of the enemy.
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0:00 This is Undaunted Life, a man's podcast.
0:24 I'm your host Kyle Thompson, let's get into it.
0:26 All right, guys.
0:27 We've got a special return guest on the podcast today.
0:29 His name is Victor Marks.
0:30 I just love having Victor on the show.
0:31 He is a high-risk humanitarian evangelist, author, speaker, filmmaker, and philanthropist.
0:36 He's got to add some stuff to that.
0:37 I don't think he does enough things, but he has done a bunch of humanitarian work in
0:41 active war zones like in Iraq, Syria, North Africa and Southeast Asia.
0:45 He also has the world record.
0:47 You've probably seen this on TikTok or Instagram or somewhere like that for fastest gun disarm.
0:51 So he's like, "Wish him."
0:52 Right?
0:53 Snatch is a gun from somebody.
0:54 It's awesome.
0:55 He's also the founder of All Things Possible Ministries.
0:57 His autobiography is called the Victor Marks story, and he has a new book out.
1:01 This was a book that we talked about with him last year because he has an alum of the
1:03 podcast, episode 626.
1:06 That book was called The Dangerous Gentlemen, a call for Christian men to be courageous
1:09 and a culture of correctness.
1:11 But he's got a new documentary that is out, and again, guys, you can check all this out
1:14 in the show notes, but it's called The Unseen War.
1:17 It's all about spiritual warfare.
1:18 Oh, yeah, we're getting weird today, right?
1:21 And that's part of the problem is talking about stuff like this should not be weird,
1:24 but most of us just think it is, right?
1:27 But we don't have, we don't wrestle and battle against flesh and blood, guys, we're wrestling
1:32 against darkness, right?
1:34 That's who we're going to war with, and most of us don't really know that.
1:36 So he talks about in The Unseen War, he talks about that in The Unseen War documentary.
1:41 And then in this particular conversation today, we talked about, okay, why this documentary?
1:46 Why is the battlefield of our minds such an important thing for us to reckon with?
1:51 Because a lot of us, we don't know we're at war, which means we're behind, right?
1:54 And their thoughts are being put in our heads and they're not, you know, they're either
1:58 our thoughts, God's thoughts, or Satan's thoughts, right?
2:00 And so they got to come from somewhere.
2:02 But also how there's this overwhelming biblical illiteracy right now, and we talked about
2:07 that a lot on the show, but how that really goes into spiritual warfare as well, as well.
2:12 We talk about one of Satan's favorite tools to use is isolation.
2:15 He uses that against us.
2:17 Also using this to go after pastors, not just isolation, but any manner of temptation, because
2:22 if you can take down a great man of God with a large following, then it seems like you
2:26 can take down the people that are there around them.
2:28 And we weaved in and out of a bunch of other different subjects today.
2:30 So I'm not going to keep him from you any longer.
2:32 So without further ado, let's get into it.
2:36 Victor Marks.
2:37 Welcome back to the show.
2:38 You look fantastic.
2:39 And I heard a rumor that you just recently turned 60 years old.
2:43 That's six with a zero behind it.
2:45 Is that like a requirement from now on?
2:47 You have to wear the sport code or the jacket.
2:49 Is that what kind of has happened?
2:50 I'll complete the car.
2:52 I mean, my wife's like, listen, you are, you were more dangerous, now you're more gentleman.
2:59 You're mixing them.
3:00 So you're going to dress nice.
3:02 You're going to wear a nice watch.
3:04 Okay.
3:05 You're going to trim your beard and when you're in public face, I'm like, I'm like, yes,
3:12 ma'am.
3:13 Does at least have like a little bend to it?
3:16 You got a little flexibility there in the shoulders to where you can like, you know, sneak in,
3:20 look out if you needed to.
3:21 Actually, I actually trained in these, this is this is from a where to get this babe.
3:27 Y'all made me shop.
3:29 State Liberty.
3:30 I'm going to shout out state and liberty, which is kind of a young man's super cool sport.
3:39 But yeah, I actually trained drawing, shooting, blade work in jackets and what I wear when
3:47 I'm in public.
3:48 It's, it's the most comfortable code I've ever got.
3:52 See in Liberty.
3:53 All right.
3:54 We'll shout out.
3:55 And again, this is your second time on the show.
3:56 I don't know if you know this, but we do have a frequent visitors punch card that I need
4:01 to send you in the mail because once you get your fifth appearance, you get your six one
4:04 free on the show.
4:06 So this is number two.
4:07 So we're working our way there.
4:08 I feel like we're moving forward.
4:10 Hey, let me say something to Kyle, your program.
4:16 You're like really respected.
4:19 I mean, you're not a Sean Ryan.
4:22 You're not a Joe Rogan.
4:25 You're kind of next tier, but you are very respected in this realm.
4:32 And I really didn't know it till after the first program we did.
4:38 And people like, Hey, man, I saw you on Carl Townsend's program.
4:41 And I said, really, another person, Hey, really, I'm like, really?
4:47 So good on you.
4:48 I knew it, man.
4:50 And it has to do with that big lion behind you.
4:53 That's actually that looks like a team that looks like our logo on the Dangerous Children's
5:00 Society.
5:01 Yeah, it's similar.
5:02 My buddy, I mean, when we started this, this started even before the podcast, I had a buddy
5:06 put a logo together.
5:07 Like, Hey, lion, a Judah, but you know, I don't want it to be Sue, like, you know, two cartoonish
5:11 or two, like college football, helmetish or whatever like that.
5:14 And so back in 2016, my buddy, Joel Uber shout out to Joel, created this for us.
5:19 And you know, we never thought we'd have anything any use for it.
5:22 Now we got to project it up on walls.
5:24 We got dudes tattooed it on their, on their arms and everything.
5:26 And I appreciate you saying that because again, in this world, you're always compared
5:31 to the top 1%.
5:32 You're compared to the Joe Rogan's and Sean Ryan's and Jocko Williams and all those types
5:35 of guys.
5:36 And the thing is, is I'm not building this from the beginning.
5:39 I built this for an audience of one, right?
5:41 It's cathartic for me to get in front of the microphone and get some stuff off my chest.
5:45 And I never thought I had no illusions that this would eventually become the number one
5:49 podcast for Christian men in the world.
5:51 Like what?
5:52 That doesn't make any sense.
5:53 And then we launched a second podcast with a pastor, Joby Martin out of Florida called
5:56 The Daily Blade.
5:57 It's five minute devotional podcast Monday through Friday.
6:01 And so this is in dude, like Victor, you're, you're our people.
6:04 You know, a bunch of like soft squishy church dudes, they love a lot of the devotional content
6:08 out there because it's real breathy and there's a lot of music in the background and it's
6:12 just real, it's real poetic, right?
6:13 And that's fine.
6:14 Some people have that in their personality, but for the sawed off dudes with cauliflower
6:17 ears and crooked noses and you know, you know, a pistol in the appendix position, they don't,
6:22 they don't want all that they just basically want people like it's five minutes.
6:26 I got you for five minutes, treat it like it's a safety meeting out on a work side, treat
6:29 it like, you know, we're circled up after jujitsu or something like that.
6:32 And I got five minutes to get you some Bible and send you about your business.
6:35 And hopefully that gives you, you know, a thirst for the word and that's what we're out here
6:40 doing.
6:41 And so we're not trying to create huge audiences that I mean, you're telling me about how to
6:44 where do people find that one?
6:46 Yeah, the Daily Blade, it's everywhere.
6:48 So it's on Apple podcast, Spotify and we started January 1st.
6:53 And I mean, it's shot into the charts immediately.
6:57 It got shared around all over the place because we thought it was a pretty good idea.
7:00 Like, Hey, you know, daily devotional five minutes for tough guys, you know, that are
7:05 also Christians and it's so easily shareable because, you know, an hour long podcast, like
7:10 my normal podcast, like, Hey, yeah, that's what if this guy sucks?
7:13 What if he's redheaded?
7:14 I don't like that.
7:15 And then you get rid of it.
7:16 But this is five minutes.
7:17 It's not going to be a waste of your time.
7:18 If it's five minutes and it's just he does a week, I do a week, Matt Chandler came on and
7:22 did a guest week and it's just like, you don't have time to exegete, you know, or like break
7:27 down a Greek verb tense and all that you just don't, it's five minutes.
7:30 And so the daily blade or the daily blade.com and guys all over the world are loving this
7:35 podcast.
7:36 So we got to get it into more years, you know, I love it.
7:39 We on that note, we just started the dangerous gentleman society, which is based offline.
7:46 But we just started, I called it mass mentoring.
7:51 It's a, it's a daily email.
7:53 We call daily mission brief and that's going really, well, we've had a few thousand guys
8:01 sign up, like in the first week or so.
8:05 And it's me riding it just like your five minute devotion.
8:12 And I tell guys, you're not going to read it every day.
8:16 Most guys are not.
8:19 But some days you'll just be like, being, oh gosh, last night I wrote it for today.
8:26 And it was about a guy punching me.
8:28 A guy hit me three times on my deck here at my house and when he was praying for me,
8:35 three punches.
8:37 And my wife was like, she was standing right there and she was like, she couldn't believe
8:41 I didn't throw him over the, remember that, and throw him over the balcony.
8:45 So I just wrote a little, little, that's my little daily things, a little story, scripture.
8:52 Because I know how I am and I have got so much coming at me.
8:56 I sat on with him to full podcast, unless I'm driving or on my mower.
9:03 When I have my, you know, forest gun moments and I'm loving life.
9:08 Well, hey, and I'll tell you, do you know why you have a few thousand guys that have signed
9:12 up for that?
9:13 Do you have an idea?
9:14 Yeah.
9:15 It's because most guys don't have anything to look forward to in their inbox, right?
9:19 It's all work.
9:20 It's all junk.
9:21 It's all spam.
9:22 Yeah.
9:23 But when they get that from you, it's life.
9:25 They're getting a little bit of life because you're taking them back to the Word of God,
9:28 which is the source, right?
9:30 Same thing with the daily blade.
9:31 You got guys, and again, I love Joe Rogan show.
9:34 I love Sean Ryan show.
9:35 I love some of these long form shows, but sometimes guys go to their podcast happening
9:39 like, Oh gosh, a four hour podcast with a guy talking about magic mushrooms.
9:44 Oh, okay.
9:45 I don't know when I'm going to have time for that daily blade hits Monday through Friday
9:50 with posts at like three o'clock in the morning, right?
9:52 And then so when they wake up, it's right there.
9:54 And again, I don't give guys excuses, right?
9:56 So everyone has an excuse to lose.
9:58 I try to make sure guys find an excuse to win.
10:00 And look, I listen to podcast at two time speed.
10:03 So a five minute podcast, that's two and a half minutes, right?
10:06 You can listen to that walking or your trash cans out to the curb and coming back to the
10:11 garage once a week.
10:12 You know what I mean?
10:13 And guess what?
10:14 If you get behind a week, it's 25 minutes worth of podcast, two time speed.
10:18 That's 12 and a half minutes, right?
10:19 Go walk the dog and then you can listen to two weeks worth, you know what I mean?
10:22 It's like we're trying to give guys nuggets of life and also trying to remind them I'm
10:27 not the point.
10:28 Pastor Joby's not the point.
10:29 Christ is the point.
10:30 And guess what?
10:31 If you're not getting the word and you're given every excuse for why you can't read the
10:35 Bible, study the Bible, do it, whatever.
10:37 Okay.
10:38 Then don't do that.
10:39 Just listen to us and then guess what?
10:40 You're going to have that growing hunger and need for the word of God in your life because
10:45 it's not just applicable.
10:47 It doesn't just work.
10:48 It is the foundation to everything we have here.
10:50 You know what I mean?
10:51 It's the truth.
10:53 It's funny.
10:54 You mentioned the two and a half times on my team, guys, they tell me, Oh yeah, I listened
10:59 to everything into my ass, right, they go, including your voicemails to us and I'm sitting
11:09 here thinking, this is a perfect example.
11:12 This is how I talk.
11:14 You kind of live in two and a half speed.
11:17 That's actually true.
11:19 Most guys just talk so fast and I love it.
11:23 I actually think really fast, but something happens when it hits my tone.
11:27 It's like Novocaine and Cajun mixed in them.
11:31 I'm kind of like, Hey, Mike Vic was my favorite college football player and there would be
11:35 times when he would be running in the open field and it would just fall over and I finally
11:39 figured it out.
11:40 It's like, Oh, his legs are too fast for his feet.
11:43 He just kind of falls over.
11:44 And so sometimes my brain is going way too fast from my mouth and so sometimes I'll miss
11:48 speak or won't be as clear as I wish and I'll listen to it back and I'll be like, Oh, dummy,
11:53 you actually went to school, but nobody would be able to convict you of that in court.
11:56 But same thing with all this.
11:57 It's just like, I just got to get it out in the faster I get it out of the, you know,
12:01 easier.
12:02 It's funny because when I listen to someone at two time speed for forever and then I talk
12:06 to them in person, I'm like, okay, come on, let's go man, that is true.
12:13 I love it.
12:14 Well, hey, today we're here doing a little bit of business because you got a new documentary
12:18 out.
12:19 It's called the unseen war.
12:20 I watched it over the weekend.
12:21 By the way, guys, if you can watch the unseen war with a scotch and one hand and cigar in
12:25 the other, it does increase the experience for you.
12:28 So two thumbs up for that, I took a lot of notes while I was, was watching this and it
12:36 was made by your team because, you know, there are so many different subjects that you brought
12:40 up that are all diatribes that I've gone on at some point in the 800 podcast episodes
12:45 that we've done.
12:46 But let's just back up.
12:47 Let's start, you know, from 30,000 foot view, why the unseen war, why the documentary?
12:52 Why now?
12:53 Why you guys?
12:54 Yeah.
12:55 Well, I'm, I've called myself the reluctant exorcist and I've just, we just started getting
13:04 put in places for the last just three plus decades of what I would call evil being manifested
13:13 right in front of us.
13:15 That was kind of the first thing.
13:17 And just like fighting our combat, you had better trust the issue when you get your butt
13:24 kick.
13:25 And, and I had to, I had like three levels of understanding spiritual warfare, one that
13:31 it was real.
13:32 It's like, okay, this is really real.
13:34 It's undeniable.
13:35 Two, how do you handle it?
13:40 And I've seen two sides.
13:43 One is really extreme.
13:44 I mean, like every, they're just wanting manifestations and people are looking for it.
13:51 I'm like, that ain't me.
13:53 The other extreme is people's, you know, they act like it doesn't exist.
13:59 But then you watch their life or their church or the, and it's like, wow.
14:04 And then the third phase, which we hit was both started just personally where we had to
14:11 take authority.
14:12 To learn my authority and to learn the rules of engagement against demonic forces, demons
14:20 or, you know, forces of darkness.
14:23 And once I learned that, well, we, we just don't lose.
14:31 And so what you guys did with the unseen war is you're bringing something to the forefront
14:36 that a lot of churches, a lot of pastors, a lot of ministries, either think it's too
14:39 icky, too weird, too strange to reckon with, to talk about openly.
14:43 And you brought on, I don't know what three dozen or so people kind of giving feedback
14:47 on different elements of spiritual warfare, but you kind of alluded to it, their victor.
14:51 Most of us don't know we're in a war, which means we're behind, right?
14:55 And so, you know, Pastor Joby, who I do the daily blade with, he talks about how it's
14:58 so interesting that people call, you know, deer hunting a sport.
15:02 He's like, in a sport, normally both sides know that the game has started, but that deer
15:06 doesn't have any, any indication that this is the morning of first rifle season until
15:11 they start hearing shots going off in the woods, right?
15:13 And so it's not exactly that.
15:16 And he also says, you know, if you try to fight Satan in the dark, you're going to get your
15:19 butt kicked.
15:20 And so it's one of those things that people just, they don't want spiritual war to be
15:28 real.
15:29 They don't want spiritual oppression to be real.
15:30 They think if they just cover their eyes, plug their ears and pretend it's not happening,
15:35 that they're not like having it be an influence on their lives.
15:39 And it's just like, gosh, there's one, it's one thing to be behind.
15:42 It's another thing to still be in the locker room while the game's going on.
15:44 You know what I mean?
15:45 Yeah.
15:46 And I think the number one, because I had to, I really had to assess that.
15:50 Why are people so like, I don't hear about it.
15:54 When I speak in churches, I can talk about anything.
15:57 The moment I start talking about the demonic spiritual affair, the devil, you can hear a
16:04 pin drop.
16:05 Yeah.
16:06 And I'm like, there's only one reason why people get quiet or push back or passive.
16:11 They're afraid.
16:13 If we really, I'll say fears in them, one factor, the lack of understanding, which oftentimes
16:19 brings that fear on.
16:20 So, but I just look around and look, my bride and I, we've been doing this a long time.
16:30 And the most pushback we've gotten is from the church.
16:34 And there are reasonable reasons.
16:37 You know, back in the day, 70s and 80s, for sure, 90s, maybe there, this deliverance ministry
16:46 got carried away where people wanted someone to manifest demons and that it was, it was
16:54 a lot of sensationalism is real, but they wanted that to happen so that when the person
17:00 got delivered, they could say, yeah.
17:03 I'm super spiritual, look what I did, which was horrible.
17:07 So God taught us a new way, an effective way.
17:11 It's almost like my Dundas on, you know, I mean, it's been practiced since firearms
17:17 had a disarming person, but yet why do I hold the world record in it?
17:22 Why did I, you know, drill it down to, I think, point, I think it's 0.4 tenths of a second,
17:32 although today is my son's birthday, he's turning 20.
17:37 And he's going to attempt to beat my record for his birthday.
17:40 We're getting on video.
17:41 I was all in his head yesterday and last night, I was like, I'm gonna give you a hug.
17:46 I said, don't, don't tell us, get away from me.
17:49 Just I don't know what you got on you.
17:51 You may be trying to put some bit of drill on my skin.
17:55 So I think our approach and if people wants to film, we call it the retooling prayer.
18:02 You literally can see a person set free from any, I would say, assignments against your
18:09 mind, oppression.
18:13 We never use the word possessed.
18:16 I just, that's, you think of possessed, you think of the exorcists and all these things.
18:22 I just actually visited with the producer.
18:25 We were hanging out at an event of, what's that?
18:29 What's that last movie that came out?
18:31 What's the name that we liked?
18:33 Are you listening to me?
18:34 Are you on your phone, honey?
18:36 Come on.
18:37 What's the movie?
18:38 That's how I handle my woman.
18:40 That's how I talk to my, the one, it just came out.
18:47 The guys in prison, these manifest in a demon, there's a nefarious, thank you.
18:51 Oh, yeah.
18:52 That's right.
18:53 Yeah.
18:54 So I was using a producer in the Ferris and I go, you guys made it real for people to see
19:00 that it's kind of like the new scoot tick letters, but we got to take it a step further.
19:04 Now what, what do we do now?
19:07 So our approach to prayer, man, it's beautiful because within five to 10 minutes, I can find
19:15 out if a person has assignments against them, when they came, what's the purpose?
19:21 What lies they've been telling the individual?
19:24 And then what the truth is, and the most important thing is what God really wants a
19:30 person to know that he's been trying to communicate to their heart.
19:34 It's supernatural, but I mean, people don't even have to close their eyes.
19:38 They don't have to raise their hand.
19:40 They don't have to try.
19:41 All they have to do is be able to listen.
19:44 And some people are like, well, I don't want to listen and I said, well, you get tempted
19:48 all the time.
19:50 If you've had thoughts that you're like, that's demonic, you know, and so it's better to learn
19:58 how to, you know, who's, you know, who has loved this approach and embraced us more than
20:05 anyone, the special operations community.
20:08 Yeah, they've seen it.
20:12 And they get unconventional warfare.
20:14 I mean, I was in Iraq at a Delta, you know, secret little fob and we were doing some stuff
20:22 and a friend of mine, a colleague of mine, told this operator who was very, very well
20:29 known, legendary at the unit, he's like, hey, you ought to yell at Victor Czechy.
20:36 See, if you have any demonic assignments and this big Viking looking dude, his name is Anders
20:43 and Anders just goes, I know I have stuff.
20:47 Are you kidding me?
20:48 You know, I want, I'm killing people, it's evil over here.
20:54 And I prayed for him and seriously within less than 10 minutes, we identified it.
20:59 This guy was set free.
21:00 I remember his wife telling me, Victor, it changed his life in our family, just our marriage.
21:10 And we all rejoice, you know.
21:14 So yeah, I would just, I'd encourage people, don't push back.
21:19 Don't be passive.
21:20 Don't let fear stop you from learning about it.
21:24 And the unseen film, there's two ways you watch it as a film or do it as a study course.
21:32 And you don't have to be super spiritual, but all we've got some pretty amazing testimonies.
21:39 I posted one on social media, but you know, social media, like 1% of people really get
21:45 to see it, no matter how big the following is, but this guy was in an event.
21:51 And this dude, he actually reminded me of you, he's a pretty stout fellow.
21:57 And he had been in a task force and law enforcement for years.
22:01 And he just had to tell me, in the short of it is his ex-wife that lied about him, kids
22:10 got taken away.
22:11 He was struggling with the drink and he just got to point where he suicidal, that, you
22:16 know, everything was just like, gosh, and he wasn't any strong Christian at all.
22:25 He just kind of got caught up in the world.
22:28 Well, he went to a church and said, I need to talk to somebody.
22:32 Next thing you know, there's an old Marine saying, hey, why don't you come to our new
22:38 Bible study called Warriors for Christ?
22:40 He goes to it eight weeks to go over the unseen war as a, you know, modules at the end of
22:47 the eight weeks.
22:48 They're like, well, does anybody want to be prayed for?
22:51 Everybody looked at this one fellow.
22:53 He's like, yeah, I should be prayed for, boom, he found out there was a demon specifically
23:00 trying to kill him.
23:01 I mean, very specifically making one kill him, so he had been struggling with suicide.
23:07 And he got set free, like real freedom.
23:11 And one of the guys brought him home that night and he goes, I had a rope hanging because
23:16 I was going to kill myself tonight, if something, because he goes, I have to go to court tomorrow.
23:22 And if I find out I can't see my children anymore, he's like, I didn't want to live.
23:27 And he goes, well, do you want to carry stuff anymore?
23:30 He goes, no, I'll find out that demon wanted me to.
23:32 I have no desire.
23:33 He had to go to court, judge, warn them as kids.
23:37 And he was just given a testimony, it was unbelievable.
23:40 Again, all because of a five, 10 minute prayer, and I would just tell people, please, addictions
23:48 can be broken.
23:50 You know, affairs, craziness, just depression, all kind of things can be broken.
23:59 And there are breakthroughs that happen in people's lives.
24:02 So we, our ministry, what we do is we set capitalist free physically, emotionally and
24:08 spiritually.
24:09 And, you know, the most important actually is spiritually.
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26:25 When, Victor, you see this throughout the unseen war, obviously, you're talking about
26:29 the real battlefield being our minds because a lot of us, we're at battle with our bodies
26:33 and we'll get to some of the physical preparedness stuff a little later.
26:37 But there are thoughts that are placed in our brains that are not thoughts of God.
26:41 They don't come from a place of light, they come from a place of darkness.
26:44 If you believe in spiritual warfare, you know that these come from Satan and his minions
26:48 and things like that.
26:49 I remember, unfortunately, I think most of us have known people that have taken their
26:54 own lives and there was a situation that came up, can't obviously get into all the details,
26:58 but there was a friend who was having some struggles in business which led to some financial
27:02 struggles and all that.
27:04 Really long story short, we couldn't find them.
27:07 There was a lot of angst and anxiety as to where he was.
27:10 We ended up being able to, you know, I was communicating with his wife, she was tracking
27:13 his location on his phone and here I am like stuck in the car line at school.
27:16 If I was driving grave digger, I couldn't have gotten out of the parking lot.
27:19 You know what I mean?
27:20 I was that stuck, right?
27:21 You know, retaining all over here, cars everywhere.
27:23 And I just started getting on the phone, Victor, and this is why I tell guys all the
27:27 time, you got to have a foxhole of brothers of dudes that you can call because if you
27:30 wait until it's too late to develop those relationships, you're not going to be able
27:34 to take any withdrawals out of that, you know, account because you haven't been making any
27:38 deposits, right?
27:39 So I just start calling dudes, right?
27:41 And I call dudes that are in the general area of his house, get two guys headed over
27:44 to his house.
27:45 Well, he had left his house before they had gotten there.
27:48 Okay, we missed him.
27:49 I had gotten four or five guys out of their offices in the middle of the afternoon to converge
27:54 on his location, right, to try to find out what he was doing.
27:58 And long story short, he comes, you know, barreling out of this place.
28:02 He's walking like crazy, I'm in the parking lot waiting for him.
28:05 I know he's in a building.
28:06 I know he's not going to do anything while he's in there.
28:08 His truck's over there.
28:09 I'm parked in the middle.
28:10 I got everybody else in a coffee shop, just in case, you know, I need backup or something
28:13 like that.
28:14 Yeah.
28:15 And he comes be lining out of there, going to his truck, right?
28:18 So I already got my leg hanging out of the truck.
28:19 And so whoop, you know, I kind of take the angle and as soon as he sees me, it's shock,
28:25 it's embarrassment.
28:26 It's Oh my gosh, what's happening?
28:28 It's all those things.
28:29 I just put my arm around.
28:30 I'm like, Hey man, how's it going?
28:32 There you headed and it's love and it's love.
28:34 It's all those things.
28:36 And you know, he basically said, look, I was going home to kill myself.
28:41 What are you doing here?
28:42 Kind of a thing.
28:43 It's like, what?
28:44 And you know, and I just, you know, just say, well, that's not going to happen that we're
28:47 not going to let that happen.
28:48 And I call the rest of the guys out of the coffee shop and, you know, I take his keys
28:52 from him and I'm doing another guy.
28:54 And then I just start, you know, assigning duties, I was like, Hey, you're going to drive
28:57 him home and you're going to wait there until his wife gets there.
28:59 And we also had a team of guys go to his house and clean him out of his weapons.
29:04 And also we said, Hey, brother, we know that we've kind of gotten you calm down and all
29:08 that.
29:09 But if there's one that we didn't find, you better frickin tell us, right?
29:13 And he just basically goes, you know what?
29:16 I had a feeling if you guys found me that y'all were going to clean me out.
29:19 So I hit another pistol in the attic and I'm just like, love it.
29:23 Okay.
29:24 So, Satan is all over that situation.
29:29 That is loved by his bride and his children.
29:32 He is loved by his brothers.
29:33 He is loved by his community.
29:35 He has so much to offer to the world as a young man.
29:39 And yet he had come to the conclusion, a calm conclusion, mind you, that no, this is it.
29:45 Like there's no moving forward from this.
29:48 This hole is too deep to dig myself out of.
29:52 And so when you talk about how the real battlefield is the mind and the thoughts that are put
29:56 there from God, the problem is, is that there's room for those thoughts to even get in the
30:01 door.
30:02 Right?
30:03 Yeah.
30:04 Because you talk about in the, in the documentary, The Unseen War, again, guys, saw on the show,
30:06 notes, go check it out.
30:07 You can, you can get there.
30:08 And by the way, there's no exact amount you have to pay for this documentary.
30:11 It's a donation based thing.
30:12 I think you can buy it for like a dollar, but guys, he's been $10 on, you know, tall coffees
30:17 from organizations that give her a percentage of that to kill babies through Planned Parenthood.
30:21 So maybe you could donate somebody to Washington's documentary.
30:24 But you talk about in the podcast that God's word is the answer to most of these questions.
30:28 And when your brain and your heart and your soul is filled, filled with the words of God,
30:33 there's not a whole lot of room for other stuff.
30:34 There's not a whole lot of time for anything else.
30:37 The victor, we are biblically illiterate as Americans, as Americans, especially Southern
30:42 by living Oklahoma.
30:43 So if I trip and fall, I'm going to land on like four or five churches, right?
30:46 That's just how many, how, you know, covered up we are, but we have a stack of Bibles on
30:50 our bookshelf.
30:51 And if we take one off, we got to blow the dust off because we haven't been, been looking
30:56 at it.
30:57 And then you got these people and other places around the globe, Sub-Saharan Africa in the
31:01 Middle East, parts of China, Southeast Asia, where if you got them a copy of the book of
31:05 John, they would treat that like it was a block of gold, right?
31:09 But here we are.
31:10 We have all these Bibles.
31:11 We have five Bible apps on our phone and we haven't even opened them, right?
31:15 Like, what, what is the deal?
31:16 Is it like the, is it that we don't actually believe it's the word of God?
31:19 Is it that is just something that we think is part of our culture?
31:22 No, I liken it to firearms, we're, we're, we're a nation that has a bunch of firearms,
31:33 but very few know how to use them.
31:35 Sure.
31:36 And a lot of people carry that don't shoot.
31:39 Yeah, um, including police officers, I mean, you know, it's, we can go on and on that American
31:49 hands have become comfortable being a very nice front door.
31:55 Everything looks good, you know, but you open it, there's nothing in there.
32:02 You're just in a backyard.
32:03 It's like a movie set and we, we put a lot of emphasis on the front and nothing once
32:11 you walk through and the enemy knows that.
32:16 So he's comfortable with people buying bibles, uh, shoot going to church.
32:23 Um, all these things.
32:26 He's not comfortable with people knowing and learning how to apply the word.
32:32 The Bible says faith without works is dead.
32:35 So, um, that's what we see.
32:40 And I, I've had a lot of pastors come and guess me and say, you know, you shouldn't
32:45 be praying for Christians like this.
32:47 You shouldn't be.
32:48 I'm like, why?
32:50 Well, you know, we never see it in the Bible just like this and I go, yeah, I don't see,
32:58 uh, passing an offering plate either, uh, or a youth group or if I really want to hurt
33:05 your feelings, we're going to play semantics.
33:08 I've never seen the center sprayer in the Bible, but yet we use that to determine the
33:14 cause of a person's eternity.
33:17 So are those things wrong?
33:19 Nope.
33:20 God uses them.
33:21 So our approach to prayer, I just tell you, but you can, you can do a different.
33:27 The main thing is when a person is hurting, you know, just lives out of order, can't get
33:34 it right.
33:35 They're stuck.
33:36 Man, pray.
33:37 And, um, we've again, we've got so many thousands of testimonies of what God has done.
33:46 And it's not that hard.
33:50 It takes a little bit of faith, but the outcome was incredible.
33:54 So yeah.
33:55 Um, and this is what I tell people about a foot is to mine.
34:00 There's only three places you're going to get thoughts from yourself, your own cognitive
34:06 ability to, you know, oh, I need to work on my name was, I need it.
34:10 Those are eyes, um, or God, if God spirit is speaking to you in any way, uh, well, even
34:22 conviction, it's loving.
34:25 Even as conviction is, is loving can be harsh discipline, but it's loving, but it's it
34:32 going to push it to the cross line away, then the third place is the enemy.
34:37 That's the enemy of our soul.
34:38 And he's accusatory and oftentimes it be you can't, you're not, you won't be able to
34:45 use you.
34:46 And it says it from, get this a third person, you, it's accusatory.
34:51 When you start hearing you that you'd better start the bosses.
34:55 Take every thought captive.
34:57 You better take that though, Captain, go, what the heck?
35:00 That's where most people lose.
35:02 They start entertaining these thoughts and even discussing in your head, like, well,
35:09 I don't, you know, is it really bad that my wife must be brought back in the day when
35:17 I would struggle, like severely struggle, but warfare, mainly because I didn't know what
35:22 it was, or I just was trying to grow because she was way ahead of the curb on me on this.
35:30 She would see me physically just struggling, like, and she would go, Victor, Victor, I'm
35:37 like, what?
35:38 She'd go, are you negotiating with the devil?
35:42 Are you negotiating?
35:44 And I would be like, uh, no, yeah, and she would go, you scripture right now, you scripture
35:53 against it.
35:55 So whatever it was.
35:56 And I honestly, I mean, I couldn't think of no scriptures in the middle of it.
36:01 It's like being on a firefight or rolling on the mat with somebody is far better.
36:09 And you're, you're trying to go, well, wait, what does he do on my leg?
36:14 Wait, hey, you can't think of something if it's not it.
36:18 So my kids actually made me an ammo belt spiritually.
36:23 And it was just cards of scriptures that was laminated.
36:27 And they were holes put in them and put in a big ring.
36:31 And I'd carry that thing in my backpack.
36:34 When I started to feel myself slip in my mind and out of my backpack and I just start saying
36:40 the verses out loud and not everyone worked, but I just keep going until I got relief.
36:47 And for me, my, you know, my case may be more extreme than some because of my abuse is
36:53 a kid and the way my brain at function and drugs and I'd have a hundred and twenty three
37:01 visits to a trauma specialist because of being tortured as a kid left for dead.
37:08 And I would just say, man, if I can do it, anyone can regardless, but you got to be able
37:14 to take thoughts captive and then apply scriptures.
37:18 That's one of the reasons why I think your program is number one, Christian men, because
37:26 you're not just trying to throw stuff out there.
37:29 You're, man, you're directed men to the word the foundation because it's the fundamentals
37:34 that make us the best at anything.
37:38 Dan Horner, Daniel Horner, he's, he's a pro shooter for SIG, but using the Army's marks
37:45 on the ship unit for years, he's the number one instructor, he's the number one shooter
37:50 in the world.
37:52 And I don't think it's even arguably, but he's the chief instructor for Dav Groove shooting
37:58 the unit, other places, and he's our lead instructor and firearms for our ministry and
38:10 our task force, because I'm here in the studio, but we have a right next to us, we have an
38:16 indoor range.
38:18 And he was out here, when he teaches, it's just the fundamentals done perfectly.
38:23 The first time he came out, I was waiting for him to bring a weapon, open a case, lights,
38:29 music.
38:30 He never did.
38:32 Just our team here, go, hey, can I borrow your, it didn't matter what you gave him.
38:36 He pressed check clear and then he'd shoot him, and he was shooting better than any of
38:41 us.
38:43 So then get understand and spiritual warfare, you got to get those basics down.
38:47 I can do all things to crisis, strengthens me.
38:50 Greater is he used in me than he's in the world, right?
38:53 Just scripture that you can say out loud and applied to your mind in order to fight off
38:58 warfare.
39:00 One victor, it's scripture that can be used in the moment.
39:02 So you've alluded to it several times, second Corinthians 10 five.
39:05 So we demolish arguments in every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge
39:09 of God.
39:10 We take captive every thought and make it accountable to Christ.
39:13 Okay.
39:14 Why did I memorize that?
39:15 Because 15 years ago, I had a problem with, so the problem was actually with masturbation.
39:20 People think it's porn problem.
39:21 No, no, no, porn is used because you have a masturbation problem.
39:24 And then there's, you know, steps behind that like, okay, you're trying to fill a hole
39:27 because you're missing intimacy or, you know, whatever the thing is, but let's just stick
39:31 with the masturbation problem.
39:32 So I got guys all time victor, they'll send me this email and it's, you know, they're
39:35 pouring their heart out, right?
39:37 And it all boils down to, I just can't stop looking at porn.
39:41 Okay.
39:42 And they, they buy into the addiction language and they buy into the 12 step addiction model
39:46 like, no, I am, you know, I am an addict.
39:49 I'm all those things like, it's like, actually no, you're not because if I put you in a room
39:52 for 72 hours and I put food and water under the door, you wouldn't die because they're,
39:58 you're not going to die.
39:59 You're not addicted to it.
40:00 You're not dependent on it.
40:01 You like it.
40:02 You're not using it.
40:03 It is a compulsion, but I'm like, and I, I know this gets a little crass for people,
40:06 but this is on Dontalife.
40:07 A man's podcast.
40:08 So if you listen with your kiddos, I'm going to be a little bit straightforward here, but
40:12 I've told guys directly, I'm like, the next time you have a boner and you're thinking
40:16 about opening up your phone and going through the Rolodex of whatever porn site you normally
40:21 go to or going through your mental Rolodex of spiritual experience or like sexual experiences
40:27 or any of those types of things.
40:28 I want you to quote second Corinthians 10 five out loud, which you can't do unless you've
40:34 memorized it, right?
40:35 And let's say you just, oh man, you said it out loud and you still want to throw your
40:39 hand in your pants.
40:40 Well, say it in Spanish, which means you've had to have like memorized it in Spanish,
40:45 memorize it in the NIV and the ESV and the NASB and the King James and the message, which
40:50 isn't even technically the Bible.
40:52 Just memorize it in a bunch of different ways.
40:54 And by the time you run through this five, six, seven times, it's amazing.
40:59 It's like your boner runs away because it's like, oh, I'm bringing the right tools to bear
41:05 at the right moment in because that's the thing is what is Satan like to use?
41:10 He likes to use isolation.
41:11 You talked about that in the unseen war and he's perfect at it with guys because guys
41:15 have bought into this BS that this lone wolf thing is actually kind of like a good idea.
41:21 They'll get like a wolf tattoo on their calf and they're like, I'm a lone wolf.
41:25 I was like, have you ever watched Nat Geo or Discovery channel?
41:29 What happens to lone wolves?
41:31 You doofus?
41:32 They die alone.
41:33 They are put out from the pack.
41:35 Even if they used to be the alpha, they're put out from the pack and they either starve
41:39 to death, freeze to death, or they're killed by another animal.
41:43 Does that seem like an aspirational identity?
41:45 Like, what is wrong with you?
41:47 And so like, again, Satan loves when men are solo, right?
41:51 And I'm not saying you can't go out in the woods by yourself and hunt and think or work
41:54 out in your gym by yourself just so you can have some time to, you know, breathe in and
41:58 breathe out.
41:59 That's fine.
42:00 But if you are isolated, you are that baby deer or sorry, let's see you somewhere else,
42:04 like a gazelle.
42:05 You're a baby gazelle or a wounded gazelle that's away from the rest of the group and
42:10 the lion is going to find you first and Satan is prowling around like a lion that is looking
42:15 to steal, kill, and destroy you.
42:18 So let's talk a little bit about men specifically, Victor, that just think, nah, you know what?
42:24 I got this.
42:25 I don't need guys.
42:26 I don't need dudes, you know, putting their foot, you know, into my business or like grab
42:31 me by the scruff of my shirt or anything like that.
42:33 I got this.
42:34 Yeah.
42:35 Let's say first, let them look in their past, let them look what they've done, where they
42:42 are and be being honest, intellectual, to sense your life.
42:48 And if they've not done well, chances are it's not going to get better being alone and
42:55 trying to operate like that.
42:58 I have the privilege to mentor.
43:02 Now this is, it's my personal calling as an individual, but I mentor what I consider
43:08 like one percenters, men that are in unique places of either influence power wealth.
43:18 And believe me, the one percenter is no more special or better than the 99.
43:26 It's almost like Jesus left a 99 to go after the one.
43:31 But most people don't think is the top one percent of anything as being in need.
43:37 But it's actually the opposite.
43:39 It can be very lonely, very isolating, betrayal is dangerous, and I'm able to speak to and
43:52 with them about issues that they have.
43:57 So the number one thing I find with, then I mentoring that realm is they're pretty lonely.
44:04 They don't have close friends, and they're just out there doing it by themselves.
44:11 And again, I, special operations commanders, generals in the Pentagon, celebrities, extremely
44:22 wealthy people with bees behind their name, and a lot of times they just get more and
44:29 more isolated.
44:30 So, but a person can be a one percenter as a junior hire or a heist color.
44:37 You know, they're challenging life, and the key is to find someone first that you respect
44:45 that will tell you the truth.
44:49 I remember there's a fellow named Charlie Kurt, and we're flying on a plane and he came
44:56 and he said, "Hey, can I sit next to you?"
44:58 I said, "Sure, Charlie, it's your jet."
45:02 And he sits down and he just goes, "I was wondering, would you be one of my mentors?
45:07 I need a mentor like you."
45:09 I said, "What does that mean?
45:11 Because mentorship is friendship.
45:15 When somebody will call out your blind spots," and I said, "I can't waste my time telling
45:20 you how to cow eat some cabbage if you're going to get buttered pretty quick."
45:25 So, man, when you have a friend that will tell you the truth, and that's a gift.
45:32 Now, if they're idiots and they're just trying to speak to you and that's dumb, you don't
45:39 want to be around them, but don't isolate.
45:43 And I choose, man, I think about the wolf story where they've caught captured and killed
45:52 wolves by dipping a big, big blade into a bucket of blood.
46:01 And then when it freezes, they punch it into the ground, the frozen ground, and it's like
46:08 a big popsicle of blood in a draw wolf from ever away, comes, he starts licking it because
46:16 the scent and the taste, and then it goes all the way through until he hits the blade.
46:21 My then his tongue is numb, and then he starts chasing warm blood, hot blood, it's his.
46:31 And it'll keep licking, and then it'll last to reach his tongue until it'll actually bleed
46:35 out.
46:36 That's what I think the enemy does with the men in areas.
46:41 And all this can be short cut and stopped if you're just honest with someone or a group
46:48 of men.
46:49 I got a great friend, Dave Ubank, he's a colleague, he's a, he's a, we're brothers.
46:57 He says, I'm the older brother.
47:00 He never had.
47:01 I'm like, but Dave, I'm actually younger than you, because I know what I kind of, because
47:08 I can run faster than you.
47:12 That's not a big thing, I lost part of my hamstring.
47:15 I mean, here we're in Mosul, moving toward a village house by ISIS, we're in bed with
47:20 somebody.
47:21 We're running down this hill, it was, it was like a movie charge.
47:25 And we, he had a wall and ISIS didn't win, we were able to help some people, but I said,
47:31 Dave, you're running like an old woman.
47:34 I mean, you got to get your knees worked on, he's had so many jumps, and he goes, and yet
47:41 I'm still running faster than you, Victor.
47:44 But, but Dave will tell me, any and everything, and it's a great responsibility when someone
47:54 trusts you enough to tell you everything.
47:58 And, and that's why there are times you want to, my wife is my best friend, and, and my
48:04 bodyguard, because he's a black belt, and she can, she, we start doing archery, she shoots
48:11 better than me in archery, which I'm still kind of aggravated at.
48:17 But there are some things you may not want to tell your wife.
48:20 My wife can hear everything, and I hold back nothing.
48:25 I tell her, women hit only, I tell her if I struggle, looking at some, I mean, because
48:31 that's our relationship, but most women aren't there yet in marriage, and you don't want
48:37 to just pour everything out on them, or what I won't tell my wife everything about is
48:44 everything that God has me doing, pressures, relationships, challenges, you know, I don't
48:50 want to look for her for solutions to everything I have, because she's actually not called
48:57 like I am, we don't have the same calling.
49:01 We run in the same lane together, but we're calling it slightly different, and thank God.
49:08 So protect your wife, but it's good to have a friend you can just call him bellying, you
49:13 know, my brother, while he was still on earth, who died, how old was he, was he 61?
49:23 Yeah, yeah, gosh, just, he turned 60, he won the race of success, or related company, tons
49:35 of money, man, amazing.
49:40 I went to the 60s birthday party, just like I just had one, and he didn't make it, I don't
49:46 think a year, and he had all these plans, but the point being with him is he would call
49:53 a mayor for once in a while, bellying, just like I'd call him, but he'd call me like,
49:59 "Oh, brother, damn, lawyers, businesses," because, you know, he's verified, got a huge
50:05 car collection of which I tried to steal one of his cars.
50:08 The original bullet Shelby, you know, Shelby had signed, and my brother had him, he knew
50:16 I was going to try to steal it, so he took the battery out.
50:20 But I never get it, you know, he'd call me outside in the morning, he'd be like, "Hey,
50:24 brother, what's up, baby, he's just started bellying, you know, and I love that, I love
50:27 that he called me."
50:29 And I didn't have to figure out his problems, I'd just say to this, "Hey, brother, if you
50:34 lost everything today, everything, your businesses, cars, and you're just kind of left with some
50:43 stuff, could you buy a single ride and put it on a piece of property somewhere?"
50:49 A lot, and he'd be quiet, and he'd go, "I think I could get a double ride, brother."
50:58 And we'd start laughing, and I said, "Well, that's what we raised in a lot, so there wasn't
51:04 nothing wrong with that," before you started building huge homes and ranches, but again,
51:12 the need to have a friend or friends you could talk to, and they're rare, and there's got
51:19 to be a real sense of integrity, but there's nothing like a brother at a time of need.
51:27 I was struggling, I mean, struggling physically, emotionally, even spiritually, man, it was
51:36 just the three, oh my gosh, and I called a friend, I said, "Man, I'm in Atlanta, I'm
51:43 in Del Cab County, I'm speaking of law enforcement and church and men, and it's a hell of a county
51:50 down here, some of the worst child abuse."
51:52 I actually asked the chief detective of investigations for child exploitation, I said, "What's the
51:59 answer here?"
52:00 And I forget, they just looked at me and said, "There is not one."
52:06 And I was like, "Oh, it was that intense, but this friend of mine, I just remember praying
52:11 for me, I'm struggling, I am struggling, I just got to get through this, get home."
52:20 You know, he called a flight, flew in, and he stood there every place I spoke, and he's
52:28 just quiet, and he looked at me, and when I'd be done, he bumped me, his walked to the
52:33 car and say, "Two left, two left."
52:37 We go to a hotel, he didn't come to my room, he didn't call me, he knew, like all Victor
52:43 needs is a little bit of oxygen after he speaks, and someone quietly prayed for him, because
52:48 it would have taken too much energy to even visit with him, and then I said, "Oh gosh,
52:54 okay, now I'm done, we got to fly back, man, I can't be around people in my mind."
52:58 That dude brought his plane down, he brought his jet, we loaded up, big jet, ridiculous
53:07 amount, nothing fiscally responsible about it, per hour usage, and he flew me back to
53:14 my home, and he stayed in my town.
53:17 He stayed in my town about five minutes from me, and he just said, "I'm going to be staying
53:25 in that little hotel, doing work for the next couple of days.
53:31 If you need me, call me, text me, I'll come right over."
53:36 You see, that's a level of, they help a one percenter who helps one percenter's needs,
53:44 but prayer is what makes the difference in everything, and it's often times the last
53:51 thing we go to is prayer.
53:54 And Victor, with these men, it's a lot of things.
53:59 It's men that will be honest with you, and that you feel like you can be honest with them.
54:03 It's men that have their egos in check.
54:05 It's men that aren't that impressed by you, so I don't get interrupted very often, because
54:08 I have the weird job, I'm the angry ginger with the mic in front of my face, and I got
54:12 friends that will interrupt me, and I'm like, "Hey, hey, that's against the rules now, but
54:17 they don't care, because they love me, they support me, they're big fans, they're all
54:21 the things, right?" but they also know Kyle the Dude, not just Kyle the podcaster, and
54:27 something that came up recently, sometimes you're in a place where you're just not where
54:32 you can ask the question to get the thing that you need taken care of, but there was
54:36 a guy that was in town that was, he was in town doing some work with me, and while he
54:42 was here, a long story short, he perforated his bow, okay?
54:46 This is a serious situation.
54:48 Two straight nights going to the ER, first night I had nothing's wrong, second night,
54:51 holy crap, we got to get you into emergency surgery.
54:54 And so immediately I'm thinking, "Wait a minute, this guy's got a wife, a newborn kid, he's
54:59 got parents, he was going to be traveling to another city here in a couple of days."
55:03 So here I am, I'm in the room with him where we're getting the ambulance ready to go to
55:08 get him transferred to where he can go into emergency surgery, right?
55:11 And so, what do I got to do?
55:13 Well, I got to call his wife, I got to give her updates, I got to introduce myself, "Hello,
55:17 I'm Kyle."
55:18 Also, here's what's happening, I'm right here with him, call his mom and dad, called
55:22 near the people he was supposed to be going to their house the next day.
55:26 Called his, my tattoo guy, who was supposed to be getting tattooed by the next day, saying,
55:30 "Hey, by the way, he's not rude, he's just not going to be there because he's going
55:33 to be recovering."
55:34 And you know what was happening the entire time I was in the hallway taking care of logistical
55:37 business so that nobody would be out of the loop?
55:40 One of my foxhole brothers, Ryan, was in that room reading Psalms and praying his face
55:47 off with a stranger, he had never met this guy.
55:52 And this, another guy, Adam, well, guess what, when Ryan had to leave, Adam shows up, Adam
55:57 hops in his truck, we follow the ambulance, we go back there and guess what, this guy's
56:02 out of town, he lives in Ohio, he doesn't have anybody here.
56:05 He had me and Adam though, Adam didn't know this guy from Adam and we, you know, no pun
56:11 intended, and here we are, we're with him, we're praying with him before he goes back
56:15 to get surgery, we're praying with the nurses and the doctors, we're the only two people,
56:19 it's a middle of the night, it's one o'clock, two o'clock in the morning, we're the only
56:22 two people in the recovery space waiting for our guy to get out of surgery, right?
56:27 I did not ask Ryan to show up, I did not ask Adam to show up and to stay, but they understood
56:33 the assignment, right?
56:34 You know what I mean?
56:35 And most guys don't have anybody like that, and it's not just most guys generically, let's
56:40 talk about specific guys, let's talk about pastors, because if Satan uses isolation, he
56:45 got a lot of pastors, especially these blue checkmark pastors, these, you know, big sell
56:49 a lot of book pastors and all that, and then all of a sudden they create these churches
56:53 where there's, there's no accountability out all of a sudden, like they don't have, they
56:56 don't have elders, they don't have an elder board that can vote them out if need be, they're
56:59 kind of insulated from all that, they have advisors, right?
57:02 But there's nobody that can kick them out of their position, and the issue is, is that's
57:06 an isolation tactic that you were putting on yourself that Satan's just like, yeah, sure,
57:10 go ahead and take the low ground, I'll be up here on the high ground waiting for you to
57:13 mess up, right?
57:14 And, you know, creating some issues for that.
57:17 But you talk about in the unseen war that Satan goes after pastors like it's a military
57:21 tactic, because yes, if you can make a great man fall, everybody underneath them starts
57:27 questioning whether any of this is real.
57:28 I use Ravi Zacharias as an example all the time.
57:31 He has done some tremendous things in the Christian apologetic space in the, in the philosophy
57:35 space he's helped me personally.
57:37 But if you got saved in an RZIM event, and then now reportedly, allegedly, he was a terrible
57:45 sexual deviant for the majority of his ministry.
57:49 Now you're like, oh my gosh, am I saved?
57:51 Is he actually a Christian?
57:52 Am I, wait a minute, am I a Christian?
57:54 And it's just like all that had to happen was Satan had to get one guy.
57:57 He didn't go after the hundreds of thousands, if not millions of people that Ravi Zacharias
58:01 touched, he just had to go after one.
58:04 So let's talk a little bit about that, because I know there are pastors that listen to this.
58:07 We're very, very thankful for your pastors listening to this.
58:09 A lot of them kind of know they're in the crosshairs of Satan, but I don't think they
58:12 all take it as seriously as they should.
58:15 And that's so good.
58:16 You know, Ravi, we knew Ravi, I've spoken at events.
58:22 We've shared the platform together.
58:24 He was my, my bride's favorite apologist.
58:28 And as a matter of fact, yeah, I was just looking at some photos the other day of us.
58:35 And you know, the assumption is that if someone's gifted as a speaker, a communicator, writer,
58:46 whatever, that they're doing good spiritually, personally, it's not the truth.
58:52 It's a, you know, it's the mechanic who can fix your car, but he drives a jalopy, right?
59:00 It's, it's these things where martial arts instructors, we had a saying, don't teach
59:06 yourself out of shape, or you're just instructing, but you're not sparring, you're not rolling,
59:13 you're not testing yourself.
59:15 So Ravi, and I can tell you I'm good authority because it's the realm we work in.
59:20 Probably, you know, he, you know, he struggled.
59:22 He was a predator, so, and it's sad.
59:28 But what happens is you get that isolated.
59:33 And what I do feel for men like him is he, he didn't feel like he could trust somebody,
59:42 one person with his challenges.
59:45 And that's a problem.
59:47 Second, he had a wife that was, I believe, not only disbelieving, but probably passively
59:54 supportive.
59:55 Like, well, whatever you're doing, I don't, you know, just regarding just don't upset
1:00:02 the apple cart.
1:00:03 You know what I mean?
1:00:04 Yes.
1:00:05 Yeah.
1:00:06 And then when you're part of a ministry machine that becomes a business, nobody wants to upset
1:00:12 that, and I think that's what happens to a lot of pastors.
1:00:17 They feel the pressure.
1:00:18 I just was in a recent film, a doctor film, it came out on July 10th.
1:00:23 It's called, what is it called, the business religion, religious, the religion business.
1:00:31 Now I was only one segment.
1:00:33 I haven't seen the rest of the work they do.
1:00:36 I've watched a couple of segments, and my jaw hit the ground because the guy, it was
1:00:43 a 12 year program for them making this documentary.
1:00:48 And, and the basis of it is, is financial corruption within the church, the nonprofits.
1:00:56 And I'll just say this on their social media, a lot of their posts and reels are almost,
1:01:03 you know, it's almost like high schoolers making something, you know, blaming Ken's
1:01:08 Copeland, but the film, what I've seen so far, two of the seven, it's unbelievably professional.
1:01:17 It's like investigative journalism, and I'm going to encourage people to watch it.
1:01:22 Yeah, the religion, the religion business.com, it only streams from, you know, their platform
1:01:30 right now, then it's going to go to Amazon.
1:01:33 But some people are going to hate that film, but I'm like, man, if we don't start taking
1:01:38 care of ourselves in the church, that repulses non-believers.
1:01:42 Why would they want to come?
1:01:44 Robert Morris fell, you know, and it was based on stuff he did years ago.
1:01:48 He should have dealt with that thoroughly here in Colorado Springs.
1:01:52 The largest church is, was, you know, new life Christian and Ted Haggard fell years
1:02:00 ago, his replacement, Brady, Boyd, Boyd Brady, had lunch with him one time, and, you know,
1:02:09 I didn't stay away from professional ministry people, where they're just so, I'm just going
1:02:18 to say professional, that they won't move toward being authentic in some ways.
1:02:23 He just resigned, because he was on Robert Morris's board, and he never, he knew that
1:02:30 Robert had messed with some, you know, messed up stuff early, and didn't say nothing.
1:02:37 So to the pastor, look, don't be an idiot.
1:02:43 Surround yourself with men who will love you, who love God more, but we'll tell you the
1:02:48 truth.
1:02:49 Because if they just love you, one, they're never going to say the truth.
1:02:55 I had a, one of my board members for years, Phil Dart, he was a, he was a lawyer by trade.
1:03:02 Man, I can't tell you how many, and I was a mentor to him.
1:03:07 I mentored this guy.
1:03:09 I can't tell you how many times after board beings, I'd go, you bother me, Phil, because
1:03:18 I know that's why you have me on your board, and I go, I know, thanks.
1:03:24 So don't isolate yourself, and, and don't protect the Institute, and I'm going to say
1:03:35 this on your program.
1:03:39 There are, the church has been shut, but there are a lot of things going to happen.
1:03:46 They're going to really shake the church about sexual abuse.
1:03:52 And whenever there's money abuse, guarantee you this sexual abuse, and it's got to come
1:03:57 out, a purification has to happen, and everybody wants me to hunt pedophiles and disrupt things
1:04:04 until it's their pastor, until it's their board member.
1:04:10 And then it's like, wait, wait, and it's like, so the church needs to be pure.
1:04:16 Not perfect.
1:04:17 There's only one.
1:04:18 That's Christ.
1:04:19 So it's perfect.
1:04:20 Just like men.
1:04:21 It's not about perfection, men, or pastors, but it's about the right direction.
1:04:24 I mean, you blow it, struggle, whatever, just to say, yeah, that's me, I'm struggling right
1:04:31 now.
1:04:32 Repent, and then just get up and move on.
1:04:35 My wife, I remember telling my wife this was, and years ago, it was back when computers
1:04:40 and they were seeing an email, a link, you click on it, and then it would go to another
1:04:45 link, it's how they pulled you into a porn, and I remember, and I went to my wife from
1:04:51 my computer and hand, my laptop, I was like, hey, honey, I said, yeah, I just watched some
1:04:57 newty people doing newty things for far too long, and she, this is my wife, she looks at
1:05:05 me, she goes, what?
1:05:06 So I just clicked the link, I just went at it like a, you know, just a little dog, no
1:05:12 restraint.
1:05:13 And she goes, aren't you teaching at a man's group tomorrow?
1:05:18 Yeah, she goes, aren't you teaching on purity?
1:05:22 I'm like, yes.
1:05:24 And she's like, I mean, she's like, well, didn't you have a human moment of not relying
1:05:29 on the truth and who your identity is in Christ?
1:05:32 Well, you know, repat, get up and move on and go tell those men, they don't have to follow
1:05:38 that example of you following, I just thought, wow, is that easy?
1:05:43 My wife didn't brow beat me, she didn't look at me, she didn't check my computer, just
1:05:47 like, you're a man, you're a godly man, you get us to come to nothing.
1:05:52 It's your choice if you, I pray for you, but, you know, I'm not going to call you.
1:05:57 And certainly not going to brow beat you, wives, if there's any that watch this because
1:06:04 a lot of women watch our programs, the best thing my wife's ever said is honey, lead better
1:06:10 than that, or lead me better than that.
1:06:14 And that's all she says, hey, because what she's telling me is you're, you're a great
1:06:20 godly man, you're a great leader, now walk in that truth, don't believe a lie and don't
1:06:27 take some easy road out.
1:06:29 When I think that's a lot of good advice there and even going back to your point that you're
1:06:33 making about the churches and some things that have come out, there are people that
1:06:36 are nervous about, you know, churches that get exposed because they're afraid, but it's
1:06:42 like, hey, guys, who do you think's in charge of all this?
1:06:44 You think God's surprised that Robert Morris is a sexual deviant?
1:06:48 No, God wasn't surprised.
1:06:50 Like God, God knew about all that and kind of knows everything that comes off of that
1:06:54 that none of us will ever see or know.
1:06:56 And he still loves him.
1:06:57 Right.
1:06:58 He still loves Robert.
1:06:59 Right.
1:07:00 Because I saw a quote the other day, I may butcher it, but it's like, it's like, this
1:07:03 is what the gospel is.
1:07:05 The gospel is is that when Paul got to heaven, he was being cheered by the martyrs that
1:07:11 he killed.
1:07:12 Right.
1:07:13 That's what the gospel is.
1:07:14 Okay.
1:07:15 Wow.
1:07:16 Because that's essentially what it is.
1:07:17 Because people are like, how could someone like Jeffrey Dahmer, who reportedly gave his
1:07:20 life to Christ before he was executed for his horrific, devious, evil crimes, they're
1:07:25 like, how is that even possible?
1:07:27 It's like, because that's how sweet the gospel is, because you sit here in your seat of judgment
1:07:31 and having never killed someone and eaten part of their body and you think that somehow
1:07:36 you're not depraved.
1:07:37 We have different flavors of depravity, different intensities of depravity, but depraved all
1:07:41 the same.
1:07:42 Now, Victor, I got more questions, but we do not have more time.
1:07:45 So I'm just going to leave it with this.
1:07:47 Anything else we can expect out of you out of the near future?
1:07:50 Is there anything else you want to get off your chest before we let you get on with the
1:07:52 rest of your day?
1:07:53 Well, yeah, things that people need to keep an eye on is our ability to reach more men
1:08:04 through our devious gentlemen society.
1:08:08 And again, we'd encourage men to sign up to get our email notifications, our Protecting
1:08:17 Children's Task Force, which is by far the most dangerous thing we do because it's here.
1:08:24 That was, we launched that here in the US.
1:08:28 I did a post on Epstein, and all I said was that list will never come out.
1:08:35 And I've been saying it from the beginning, because the currency of videos and photos
1:08:41 of key people, raping children and abusing kids is the most powerful currency in the
1:08:48 world.
1:08:49 And unless Trump can figure it out, you know, the moment you prosecute someone, you lose
1:08:57 the leverage.
1:08:58 And so that people need to keep an eye on closely with us.
1:09:07 And then just people would be surprised on our online courses that we have for marriage,
1:09:14 for people struggling with porn, all the way up to situation awareness that'll be your
1:09:21 own bodyguard shooting it.
1:09:23 And we want to equip men marriages, want to use this media as much as you can, and our
1:09:30 missions are ongoing.
1:09:32 So if people, they can benefit being cursed by all that, but then I just ask, like, on
1:09:38 a personal note, that they would pray for us, Brian and I, our team, we're expanding,
1:09:44 we've been global, I just, we need prayer because money matters, and we're not broke
1:09:53 as a ministry, but we can't do what we're doing without it.
1:10:00 I mean, right before it came on, I get a text from our safe house in Southeast Asia and
1:10:05 a little girl that we had rescued.
1:10:07 We've been prosecuting this pervert who was, you know, from another country.
1:10:13 I'll just tell you, man, it takes a ton of money on the justice side, which is what we
1:10:21 man, recover is one thing, but we go after prosecutions and that matter so pray for us
1:10:30 in that way.
1:10:31 Because it is a spiritual battle and get close to God, man, I need everyone just get close
1:10:37 to God so we can all run in our lane just like you're doing.
1:10:41 And I appreciate you at town call.
1:10:44 Well, Victor, I appreciate that.
1:10:45 And I thank you for your time.
1:10:46 I think that'll help these guys get closer to God.
1:10:48 We'll talk again soon.
1:10:49 That was great.
1:10:51 There you guys go.
1:10:52 I hope you enjoyed Victor's latest appearance on the show.
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