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The Ugliness of Gay Adoption and Surrogacy (Ep. 426)

February 9, 2023 1h 2m Full transcript available
The Ugliness of Gay Adoption and Surrogacy (Ep. 426)
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In this heavy episode, Kyle Thompson tackles the disturbing realities of gay adoption and surrogacy, emphasizing the inherent dangers and societal implications. He argues that children deserve a mother and a father, and that the normalization of same-sex parenting is detrimental to their well-being.
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0:18 This is "Undaunted Life" a man's podcast.
0:21 I'm your host Kyle Thompson.
0:23 Let's get into it.
0:25 But whoever causes one of these little ones
0:27 who believe in me to stumble, it
0:28 would be better for him to have a heavy millstone hung
0:30 around his neck and to be drowned in the depth of the sea.
0:33 That is Matthew 18, 6.
0:35 Those are the words of Jesus.
0:36 Guys, we're so happy to have you here on today's episode.
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4:24 - So last week, last Thursday,
4:26 did an episode, just kind of low key.
4:28 Some people think I woke up and chose violence
4:30 and maybe I did last week.
4:31 But last week we talked about Andy Stanley being a hair tick
4:34 because he is in our last week's episode.
4:35 We didn't do any quick hitters
4:37 'cause I wanted that episode to stand alone.
4:38 This episode will stand alone as well.
4:41 But on the Andy Stanley episode,
4:42 I got some interesting responses from the audience.
4:44 So I did want to go over a couple of things.
4:45 So this may take me a little bit.
4:47 It'll make sense here in a little bit
4:48 before we get to the main, I guess, subject of today.
4:52 But a couple of questions came up
4:53 that I got from audience members that I wanted to address.
4:55 One question was this.
4:56 You encouraged anyone that currently attends
4:59 any of Andy Stanley's churches or network churches
5:01 to leave and find another church.
5:03 Shouldn't you encourage those people to stay there
5:05 and fight for what's right?
5:07 So I understand where this question is coming from.
5:09 And I agree with the sentiments of the question,
5:11 but your responsibility,
5:13 and this is exactly what I told to the person
5:14 that asked me this question.
5:16 Your responsibility is primarily to your family, okay?
5:21 To supporting your wife and your children.
5:23 That is what your primary responsibility is and should be.
5:27 Not the health of North Point Community Church
5:30 or any of the associated churches.
5:32 That is not your job, okay?
5:34 Your job is to make sure that you are spiritually
5:37 leading your family in a very good direction,
5:40 that you're performing headship over that entire process, okay?
5:43 So if Andy Stanley's churches go down in number,
5:46 which I don't assume that they will,
5:47 that's not really a problem
5:48 that you should necessarily be worried about.
5:50 But also the thing is, is,
5:52 let's say you go to one of the associated churches.
5:54 So not North Point where Andy Stanley actually preaches live,
5:57 but you go to one of the other ones.
5:58 You go to Buckhead Church or something like that.
6:00 Do you honestly think that you,
6:02 just as a singular member,
6:04 are gonna be able to change the entire Andy Stanley apparatus
6:08 by complaining?
6:11 Like, and you might, like you and your wife
6:14 and maybe your home group or I don't know what they do
6:16 over there, maybe they have Sunday school classes
6:17 or something like that.
6:18 But you all get together and there's a few dozen of you
6:20 and you're gonna make it uncomfortable for Andy Stanley
6:23 and the staff and all those different things.
6:24 Do you honestly think that you're going to change
6:27 Andy Stanley and his church?
6:29 Is that what you think is going to happen?
6:31 'Cause I'm gonna tell you something
6:32 that's way more likely to happen,
6:33 is that you're gonna get pulled down with his church.
6:37 That's what's most likely to happen
6:38 because again, they're very pragmatic.
6:40 And they're very attractive and the things that they say.
6:44 So the odds are is that the siren song
6:46 that they're singing is going to influence you even more.
6:49 So there's more to say there, but I'll leave it there.
6:50 The other question that I got is,
6:52 so how should people that work on staff at churches
6:56 treat gay people, right?
6:57 I had a staff member at a church say like,
6:59 how should we treat people that come in
7:00 and say that they're gay or whatever?
7:01 Like, aren't all sins the same?
7:03 So I would say to you, like treat them like any other sinner,
7:08 any other sinner in your church.
7:09 So don't ignore their sin, call out their sin,
7:13 point them towards repentance.
7:14 And if their sin persists and it's detrimental to the body,
7:18 expel them from the body.
7:20 I mean, we see this in the Pauline letters,
7:21 we see this in Acts, like this is pretty standard.
7:25 But in terms of sins all being the same,
7:27 again, I'll point you back to 1 Corinthians 6, 18
7:29 that I talked about last week,
7:31 free from sexual immorality,
7:33 every other sin a person commits is outside the body,
7:35 but the sexually immoral person
7:37 sins against his own body.
7:39 There's a description there that that sin
7:41 is wholly different than other sins.
7:44 Now, when Christ or when God is looking upon us,
7:47 he sees sinner, unless we have the blood of Christ
7:50 covering us, right?
7:51 Sinner, right, categorically,
7:52 you're either binary, yes, sinner or no, you know, covered,
7:55 you know, you're taking care of.
7:57 But to pretend that, you know, telling a white lie
8:00 and, you know, performing a homosexual act
8:03 is the same thing.
8:04 Like, again, that's like a church camp idea
8:06 that, oh, you know, all sins are the same.
8:08 And, you know, murderers are just the same
8:09 as people that cheat on their taxes.
8:11 No, it is a fundamentally different thing.
8:14 And if you kind of soft pedal homosexuals
8:17 that are in your congregations,
8:19 that becomes a major, major problem.
8:21 And all this kind of coalesce this week,
8:24 because, you know, here I am, I've got this clip
8:26 of this preacher, you know, doing these things,
8:27 Andy Stanley, and then I go back and look at his past.
8:29 And, you know, again, go back to listen to episode 423
8:32 from last week where I kind of unpack that.
8:34 But then I came across a clip this week
8:36 from Pastor J.D. Greer, okay?
8:38 So to be honest, I didn't know, I know the name.
8:41 Like, I know he's kind of prominent in the Christian sphere.
8:44 Like, he's the lead pastor of the Summit Church,
8:46 which is a multi-site church in North Carolina, I believe.
8:49 And he's formerly the president
8:50 of the Southern Baptist Convention, the SBC,
8:52 which is the largest denomination in America.
8:54 Then he was president from 2018 to 2021.
8:57 But this clip came across.
8:59 And again, I've never seen him speak.
9:01 I never watched, you know, an entire sermon of his.
9:03 I just, you know, tangentially knew about his name.
9:06 But this clip came out and there are some concerns
9:09 that I have about this clip.
9:10 So it's about a minute here.
9:11 So let's go to the clip.
9:13 - You say, you must say, I love you more than I love being right.
9:16 And so even if you don't see things my way,
9:19 I'm gonna keep bringing you close
9:21 and I'm gonna remain committed to you.
9:23 This is where the Christian community has so badly failed
9:26 to live out Jesus' ministry.
9:28 The church ought to be the safest place on the planet
9:34 for a teenager with same-sex attraction to reveal that
9:36 or to come out.
9:38 Because sinners are always safe exposing their hearts
9:40 to Jesus.
9:42 It does not mean that we consent or agree.
9:44 It just means we never turn away and we never stop loving
9:47 and we never stop drawing them close.
9:50 And we church, we must be the biggest advocates against,
9:53 biggest advocates against discrimination
9:56 and abuse against the gay community.
9:58 And where we have not church, we must repent.
10:01 And if some of you have been the victims of that abuse,
10:03 tragically often it was done in the name of Jesus,
10:05 that was not Jesus, that was Satan dressed up
10:07 and Jesus is close, because that is not what Jesus was.
10:10 - So to be clear from the jump here,
10:14 this clip alone, again, just under 60 seconds,
10:17 it's not enough to write off J.D. Greer entirely, right?
10:20 Because I saw some people doing that online.
10:21 It's like, I certainly don't think it's enough
10:23 to call him a heretic.
10:24 I don't think he's in the same category as Andy Stanley.
10:27 In all honesty, I actually also tried and tried
10:30 to find this entire sermon from where this clip
10:33 was taken and I spent a good amount of time on it.
10:35 I just couldn't find it because I wanted to watch
10:38 that clip in the context of the entire sermon.
10:41 So I couldn't.
10:41 So you can tinge the things that I'm about to say
10:44 through that lens that yes, I'm just basically evaluating
10:46 this one clip, but there are some concerns
10:49 and I have some questions.
10:50 So if I were speaking with Greer,
10:52 I would ask him several questions.
10:54 One would be this, you, so this was a, you know,
10:57 from this little clip here.
10:58 He said, you must say, I love you more
11:00 than I love being right.
11:02 So what I would ask him is, is Rightness over sin
11:06 included or excluded from that statement?
11:09 You know, you must say, I love you more
11:12 than I love being right.
11:13 But what if you're right about the person's sin?
11:15 Do you need to love them more than pointing out
11:19 the truthfulness of their sinful behavior
11:21 and their sinful heart?
11:24 Is Rightness over sin included or excluded
11:26 from that statement?
11:28 Also, you know, from a quote from the clip there,
11:30 the church ought to be the safest place on the earth
11:32 for a teenager with same sex attraction
11:34 to reveal that or to come out.
11:38 So we kind of stuck that on the end there to reveal that
11:40 or to come out.
11:41 So what I would ask him is, do you believe that identity
11:45 is found in Christ or in sexual preference?
11:48 Because just saying the words or to come out
11:50 in modern parlance, we take that to mean
11:52 someone is announcing to the world,
11:54 to their family and to the rest of the world,
11:56 that they are gay, that they are trans,
11:59 that they are non-binary, pansexual, whatever.
12:01 That's the language that we use.
12:03 And so, yes, you should be safe enough inside of a church
12:08 to reveal that you have same sex attraction.
12:11 But to come out, that's a wholly different thing.
12:14 Because if the church goes along with that,
12:16 they are saying, yes, your identity is as a homosexual person.
12:20 Not that your identity is found in Christ
12:22 and that you're a new creation,
12:23 but that your identity is found in your sexual preference,
12:27 which again, is a choice.
12:29 There's also a quote here, he says,
12:30 sinners are always safe exposing their hearts to Jesus.
12:35 What I would ask Greer is, what do you mean by safe?
12:38 And was their sin safe?
12:40 Because Jesus had this really pesky habit
12:44 of pointing out people's sins.
12:45 He also had this really pesky habit
12:48 of forgiving them for their sins.
12:50 But he didn't just skip over the pointing out their sins
12:53 and go straight to the forgiveness.
12:54 He didn't do that.
12:56 Because if you don't know that your behavior is sinful,
12:58 then what do you need to turn away from?
13:00 Because again, repenting means turning
13:02 like 180 degrees, go in the opposite direction.
13:04 So if you're not, if you don't understand your level
13:06 of depravity, then what exactly are we talking about here?
13:09 Another quote was, we church must be the biggest advocates
13:12 against discrimination and abuse against the gay community.
13:16 I would ask Greer, what do you mean by discrimination
13:18 and what do you mean by abuse?
13:20 And I guess this leads to another question I would ask him
13:23 is why do you feel the need to apologize to gay people
13:26 for generic and undefined things
13:29 like discrimination or abuse?
13:31 Is it possible that you're apologizing to people
13:34 with same sex attraction that merely had their sin
13:37 and depravity pointed out by a person
13:40 that was lovingly directing them towards Christ?
13:42 Because let's say that you're in a homosexual relationship
13:46 and you're acting out homosexuality.
13:47 Okay, so you don't just have same sex attraction,
13:50 but you're actually in a relationship
13:51 where you're acting out and doing things sexually
13:53 with somebody of the same sex, okay?
13:56 And somebody lovingly points out to you
13:58 that that is sinful and that you should repent
14:01 and not do that anymore.
14:02 In our modern times, that would be considered discrimination.
14:06 That would be considered abuse.
14:08 So J.D. Greer, I would like to know what you mean
14:11 by discrimination and abuse, because obviously
14:14 if people are being discriminated and abused
14:16 in an unjust way, I'll stand with you on that.
14:19 But pointing out someone's sin, yeah, I can't really cosign that.
14:22 So there's several reasons why a clip like that
14:25 is concerning even in context, okay?
14:28 So the first thing is, is he's reading
14:30 from what seems to be a notebook,
14:32 but the notebook, I guess, is supposed to look like a Bible,
14:34 which is just kind of strange to me.
14:35 And I mean, again, I've never really watched any of his sermon.
14:37 So is that like his thing?
14:39 Like what's with the notebook?
14:40 'Cause he was literally like reading his sermon to me.
14:42 I mean, I think that church has like 12 different campuses.
14:44 So you think they'd have enough money to like
14:46 buy the guy a podium or an iPad to make it not so obvious
14:48 he's just sitting there reading and serving to us, but whatever.
14:51 But the clip seems to be downplaying
14:53 the sin of homosexuality.
14:54 Again, I'm using this one clip without the context
14:56 'cause I couldn't find the context.
14:57 This clip seems to be downplaying homosexuality,
14:59 the sin of homosexuality.
15:00 This is kind of a new modern thing.
15:03 The clip also sounds oddly like many of the other,
15:05 you know, homosexuality is just a sin
15:07 like every other sin clips that we've seen from pastors recently.
15:10 I, you know, I addressed that just a few minutes ago.
15:12 But he was also once quoted as saying that the Bible,
15:16 and this is a direct quote, quote,
15:18 appears more to whisper on sexual sin.
15:22 Unquote, that the Bible appears to whisper on sexual sin.
15:27 I think there's a lot of people that were in Sodom and Gomorrah
15:30 that would maybe quibble with that,
15:32 would maybe disagree with the fact
15:33 that the Bible only whispers about that.
15:36 Now, I did hear somewhere that he said that he regrets
15:40 using those words and would not use those words today,
15:42 which, you know, I couldn't find out if that was true or not,
15:44 but let's just assume that it is true that he does regret it.
15:47 Does he still mean it though?
15:49 Because I've regretted a lot of things that I've said
15:51 that I still mean that I still believe in,
15:54 but I regret saying them because maybe it's wrong timing
15:56 or wrong place or something like that.
15:57 But I would be curious, like, do you still mean that
15:59 that the Bible appears to just whisper about sexual sin?
16:03 And again, that clip by itself is concerning,
16:07 but most of the things in it, you know, to be honest,
16:09 could be clarified or, you know, just explained away.
16:13 So that clip in a vacuum is just really not that big of a deal.
16:17 The problem is that clip isn't the only concerning thing
16:20 that J.D. Greer has said.
16:22 I'll try to go quickly through this
16:23 because we got a lot of ground to cover in our, you know,
16:26 main topic today, but he used to be the president
16:28 of the Southern Baptist Convention, like I mentioned,
16:31 during his annual address that he delivered in 2020,
16:33 as president, he called for all SBC members
16:36 to declare the slogan, "Black Lives Matter."
16:38 And in that same address, he denounced the use
16:41 of the slogan, "All Lives Matter."
16:43 Okay?
16:45 Now in that address, he said, "I do not align myself
16:48 with the Black Lives Matter organization."
16:50 But he wants all SBC members to shout their name and slogan?
16:54 I mean, how blind can you be?
16:58 Like, no, no, no, don't say "All Lives Matter"
17:00 'cause that's triggering, but yeah,
17:01 definitely say "Black Lives Matter."
17:02 So he's a guy that said that.
17:04 And then in 2021, during his speech that he gave
17:06 to the SBC Executive Committee, he addressed the fact
17:09 that conservative SBC members were publicly criticizing him
17:13 and the SBC leadership for, you know,
17:15 their left word drift on social issues,
17:17 which I think clearly they were doing.
17:19 And how did he respond?
17:20 By comparing those folks to terrorists.
17:23 Okay, so here's a direct quote from that speech
17:26 he gave to the SBC Executive Committee.
17:28 "Every moment that you or me or Dr. Floyd
17:30 engages in a silly argument or spends time debunking
17:32 on truth is a moment I'm not focused on the Great Commission.
17:35 I think we need an attitude like President George W. Bush
17:38 called for in 2001.
17:40 We make no distinction between those committing terrorism
17:42 and those who harbor terrorists."
17:44 What in the, so you get criticized by conservatives
17:49 and then you're like, yeah, they're just like terrorists.
17:51 Really?
17:52 And in that same speech, he said this, quote,
17:54 "We should mourn when closet racists
17:56 and neo-Confederates feel more at home in our churches
17:59 than do many of our people of color."
18:02 So there's a grandiose sweeping statement
18:06 that there are closet racists and neo-Confederates
18:08 in the SBC churches and that people of color
18:12 can't feel comfortable.
18:14 Like, that's, I mean, what in the world?
18:17 Like, what a crazy, crazy thing to say out loud,
18:19 much less think.
18:20 And then also in the same speech, he said this, quote,
18:22 "I received the emails and phone calls from people
18:25 in our Southern Baptist churches who do fit that description.
18:28 The reality is if we in the SBC had shown as much sorrow
18:31 for the painful legacy that racism and discrimination
18:34 has left in our country as we have passion
18:36 to decry critical race theory,
18:38 we probably wouldn't be in this mess."
18:41 Which is just an astonishingly stupid thing to say.
18:45 That all of the sudden, if you're a Southern Baptist church
18:49 that you are not concerned about racism
18:52 and you're not concerned about the sin of partiality,
18:55 but, oh, we're really, you know, concerned about CRT
18:59 and to do this false equivalency
19:01 that we didn't fight against racism.
19:02 So now we're fighting against CRT.
19:04 It's like just an astonishingly dumb thing for him to say.
19:08 But also, he literally describes the false accusations
19:11 made against him from the conservative members as demonic.
19:16 And this reminded me of what Matt Chandler did
19:17 a couple of years ago when he was, you know,
19:19 talking about race.
19:20 And he basically said, if you think he's Marxist
19:22 and you think the stuff that we're doing
19:24 is critical race theory and blah, blah and all that,
19:26 well, that's not coming from a holy place,
19:28 that's coming from Satan.
19:30 And I was like, really?
19:31 So someone criticizes you for buying a Marxist worldview,
19:35 hook line and sinker and then sneaking it into your church.
19:38 We're demonic.
19:40 Okay, that's rich.
19:42 But, and again, I promise I'm gonna go as fast as I can.
19:44 The most egregious thing that we know that he did
19:47 as SBC president, this is JD Greer,
19:49 was the crap that he pulled at the SBC convention in 2019.
19:53 So if you wanna deeper dive into all of this,
19:54 go back to the interview I did with Tom Askel back in December.
19:57 He gives some background, some details on this,
19:59 but essentially at the every SBC convention,
20:02 there are resolutions that are voted on in past.
20:04 My understanding is that no resolution comes to a vote
20:07 unless the committee on resolutions decides
20:09 that a resolution can be voted on.
20:11 Okay, so back in 2019 at the SBC convention,
20:14 the chair of the committee on resolutions,
20:16 a guy named Dr. Curtis Woods of Southern Baptist Theological
20:18 Seminary, he oversaw the passage of eight resolutions
20:22 in about 45 minutes, okay?
20:24 Each of those eight resolutions were voted on
20:27 and debated individually, okay?
20:29 But then, oddly, JD Greer, again,
20:33 the president of the SBC at the time
20:34 made a very, very weird move.
20:37 He called for a motion to pass resolutions nine
20:41 through 13 as a package.
20:44 So the first eight were considered on their own individually,
20:47 but then let's do nine through 13 as a package.
20:50 And 'cause again, all those other ones were debated
20:52 and voted on individually.
20:53 So why the sudden need to rush to approve
20:57 five resolutions simultaneously?
20:59 Well, it all hinged on resolution nine.
21:02 The name of that resolution was on critical race theory
21:05 and intersectionality, okay?
21:07 So that resolution, resolution nine,
21:10 would approve the SBC wide use of CRT
21:14 and intersectionality as, quote, tools of analysis, okay?
21:18 Tools of analysis.
21:21 So there was a bit of a curve level on the floor
21:23 to make sure that they debated resolution nine.
21:26 My understanding is that they did so,
21:28 but in an unbelievably brief and insufficient way.
21:31 And Tom Askel offered an amendment to resolution nine
21:34 that stayed to that CRT and intersectionality
21:36 were incompatible with Christianity,
21:37 but the amendment was denied
21:38 and the resolution actually ended up passing.
21:40 When the chair of that committee,
21:42 Dr. Curtis Woods, rejected the amendment.
21:45 He said this, quote, critical race theory
21:47 and intersectionality are simply analytical tools.
21:51 They are to be used as a tool, not a worldview,
21:54 but obviously with anybody with a functioning brain
21:57 and more than two brain cells,
21:59 knows that this is a farce.
22:01 Tom Askel was and continues to be 100% right
22:05 about CRT and intersectionality.
22:07 It is in fact a worldview that is a biblical
22:10 and antithetical to Christianity.
22:12 But again, I take you way back to in J.D. Greer.
22:16 Yes, the same J.D. Greer
22:18 that has this unbelievably awkward history
22:21 with saying things that sound like they were written down
22:23 for him by some purple haired,
22:24 nose ringed non-binary Cal Berkeley College professor
22:27 was the one that suggested that we must combine
22:31 resolution nine with four other resolutions
22:34 and just, you know, pass it real quick
22:35 so that everyone could go to, you know,
22:37 get dinner or something like that.
22:39 Excuse me.
22:40 So am I to just assume that it was a coincidence?
22:44 Like, am I just to assume that J.D. Greer
22:47 only had the most integrity-filled reasons
22:50 for wanting to do that?
22:52 Or was something more nefarious afoot?
22:54 And he was just blazing the trail for it.
22:56 Because here's the thing that I know.
22:59 In order for atheistic ideologies like communism,
23:02 now morphing into wokism, you know,
23:04 where you get CRT and all these other different things.
23:06 In order for those things to work,
23:07 in order for the plan to be carried out,
23:10 you need two kinds of people, okay?
23:12 Number one, you need conscious, nefarious actors.
23:15 And number two, you need kind-hearted, useful idiots.
23:18 That's what you need.
23:21 Because the people that are driving the ideology,
23:24 the people that are creating the ideology,
23:26 those are the conscious, nefarious actors.
23:29 But there aren't enough of those people
23:32 to really make society-wide change.
23:35 So you need a bunch of kind-hearted, useful idiots.
23:39 And so I think of it like, excuse me,
23:43 I think of it like when you have a public school teacher
23:45 that is teaching critical race theory things in their class,
23:48 but they call it something else.
23:50 They're like, oh, it's not critical race theory.
23:51 It's blah, blah, blah.
23:52 Well, who's what's it, right?
23:54 They're useful idiots.
23:55 And I'm not saying all public school teachers
23:56 or teachers of any kind are idiots,
23:59 but I'm just saying that they're so kind-hearted
24:01 and they don't even want to feel bad
24:03 and they don't want anybody to feel
24:05 as if they're being targeted.
24:07 So they will just go along to get along.
24:09 But that makes them a kind-hearted, useful idiot.
24:12 So in J.D. Greer's case,
24:14 I don't think he's a conscious, nefarious actor,
24:16 if I'm being honest,
24:17 but he certainly may be a kind-hearted, useful idiot,
24:21 I guess time will tell.
24:22 So just to kind of conclude this,
24:24 I do think that we need to keep an eye on Greer.
24:27 He seems to be trending in a very dangerous direction.
24:30 And hopefully he'll correct course quickly.
24:32 You know, and just a reminder, guys,
24:34 pastors, yours or someone else's,
24:37 they're not in any way, shape or form,
24:39 above correction or criticism.
24:41 Okay, if you have a public profile, just like me,
24:44 I get criticized all the time, believe me,
24:45 I should send you guys the emails.
24:47 I can criticize all the time.
24:48 If you're a public person,
24:49 it is okay for you to be corrected and critiqued.
24:52 And in this case, just like I said,
24:54 I've tried to be as fair as possible
24:55 to Andy Stanley last week
24:56 and to J.D. Greer this week,
24:58 I even tried to show you that there's a separation
24:59 between those two,
25:00 even though I think they're hanging out
25:02 in some of the similar philosophical circles.
25:04 So there, we'll just kind of go in,
25:05 put a bow on that for now.
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25:35 All right, so let's dig into what I want to talk about mainly
25:38 for today.
25:39 And in order to set up what I want to discuss with you today,
25:41 I need to go over a couple of news stories with you.
25:44 And again,
25:45 just quick content warning.
25:46 The first story that I'm going over
25:48 has some very, very graphic sexual details.
25:51 If you're listening to this with children,
25:53 I would highly suggest you listen to this first
25:55 and determine whether or not it's okay for your kiddo.
25:57 Again, this, it's rough.
25:58 Okay, so I'm not gonna sanitize the details
26:00 or the language in this story.
26:02 So discretion is encouraged
26:03 if you have young listeners with you.
26:04 So there I've said it.
26:06 But on January the 17th of this year,
26:08 townhall.com released an investigative report entitled
26:11 "Tapes".
26:12 We investigated a suburban LGBTQ pedophile ring.
26:15 Here's what we found.
26:16 So very ominous title and it only gets worse from there.
26:19 So I'm gonna give a link to the full article
26:21 and there's multiple articles
26:22 that I'll just put in the show notes
26:23 so you guys can read them later.
26:24 But this was actually a follow-up article
26:26 to a story that townhall.com ran in August of last year
26:30 of 2022 and I'll include that in the show notes as well
26:32 so you guys can both read those.
26:34 But this story is centered around William Dale Zullick,
26:37 Jr. and Zachary Jacobi Zullick.
26:40 Okay, so they are a gay so-called married couple
26:43 because again, you can't be gay and be married
26:45 but you know, technically in this country you can be.
26:47 They are activists and the LGBTQ plus movement
26:50 in an early 2018.
26:52 They were allowed to adopt two young boys
26:55 that were brothers and I believe they were six
26:57 and four at the time and they did so
26:59 through a so-called Christian special needs adoption agency.
27:03 Okay, so remember that, this is a gay couple, two men
27:06 that adopted a six-year-old boy and a four-year-old boy.
27:08 So many people said at the time and continued to say
27:11 that this was a great thing, that these boys were adopted
27:15 into a loving family and that this was a beautiful thing.
27:17 It's like, but this couple spent the next several years
27:20 taking those children, you know, gay pride parades
27:22 and going to do lobbying for a bunch of left-wing causes.
27:25 But then in August of last year, it was reported
27:28 that both William and Zachary were arrested
27:30 for sexually abusing their two young adopted boys
27:33 and forcing them to perform in child pornography, okay?
27:37 But now I just wanna read directly to you
27:40 from the updated town hall article from January.
27:43 Again, discretion is advised, I can't give any more warning
27:45 so let me get a quick drink and we'll get after it.
27:47 All right, here we go.
27:50 A months long town hall investigation reveals disturbing
27:53 new details about the affluent LGBTQ activist couple
27:56 accused of sodomizing their young adopted sons.
27:59 Now ages nine and 11.
28:01 The distribution of homemade child pornography
28:05 of the sexual abuse, or sorry, I messed that up,
28:08 but they're now ages nine and 11
28:10 and they distributed homemade child pornography
28:12 that they did with these kids.
28:13 So here, back to the article.
28:15 Half a year after the shocking story
28:16 made the national news, town hall is the only outlet
28:19 following up on the criminal case in Georgia
28:21 that has since seen zero headlines written about it.
28:23 We found that it's far, far worse
28:25 than what we first reported.
28:27 Not only did the married men allegedly rape the two boys
28:30 who were adopted through a Christian special needs adoption
28:32 agency, they were pimping out their children
28:34 to nearby pedophiles in Atlanta area suburbs,
28:37 town halls follow up investigation discovered recorded
28:40 jailhouse calls, a trove of never before seen court documents
28:43 and testimony from a family member who spoke exclusively
28:46 to town hall under the extent to uncover the extent
28:49 of the physical and emotional trauma,
28:51 the two elementary school aged brothers endured,
28:54 as well as the red flags that the state overlooked
28:56 during the same sex couples,
28:58 faster than expected adoption process.
29:00 The adoptive father's 33 year old government worker,
29:03 William Dale Zulloch Jr.
29:04 and 35 year old banker Zachary Zach Jacoby Zulloch,
29:07 who was previously accused of raping a child
29:09 from Oxford, Georgia, have been indicted by a grand jury
29:12 on charges of incest, aggravated sodomy,
29:15 aggravated child molestation, felony sexual exploitation
29:19 of children and felony prostitution of a minor.
29:22 William and Zachary are each facing over nine life sentences
29:25 and they pleaded not guilty.
29:27 According to a copy of the 17 count indictment town hall
29:29 has obtained, the adoptive dads allegedly performed oral sex
29:33 on both boys, forced the children to perform oral sex
29:36 on them and annually raped with their sons.
29:39 In at least one instance, the anal rape injured
29:41 the older Zulloch child who just turned 11 years old
29:45 in mid December.
29:46 Court records indicate that the child sexual abuse stretches
29:49 back to as early as late 2019 and intensified
29:53 in January of 2021, March, 2021, and December 2021
29:57 as the offensive or as the offense dates are listed.
30:00 William admitted to forcing his 11 year old adopted son
30:04 to perform an active sodomy aka oral copulation on him
30:08 with the intent to satisfy his own sexual desire
30:11 reads a sworn affidavit filed in support of Williams
30:14 his oversight arrest back in July 27th.
30:18 An updated criminal affidavit says the child sexual abuse
30:21 was filmed by Williams husband Zachary with whom
30:24 he routinely engaged in sexual abuse of acts on the boy.
30:27 Zachary, the household's breadwinner confessed
30:29 to being the cameraman and authorities allegedly found
30:32 a folder on his cell phone labeled us that contained videos
30:35 of Williams sexually abusing the child.
30:37 The indictment also charges the Zulloch codefendants
30:40 with soliciting two other men through the use
30:42 of popular social media platforms in the greater Atlanta
30:44 metropolitan region to perform an active prostitution
30:47 with their child that suffered physical injuries
30:50 from being brutally raped town hall is the first
30:52 to publicly identify these two alleged members
30:54 of the pedophile ring in the heart of the peach state.
30:57 27 year old Hunter clay lawless and 25 year old
30:59 Luis Armando Viscaro Sanchez, both of Loganville lawless
31:04 who snitched on the Zullochs told local law enforcement
31:07 he received numerous messages via Snapchat from Zachary
31:10 about quote effing his son tonight.
31:13 And I'm sanitizing just a little bit
31:15 but effing his son tonight and to be prepared to receive
31:18 images as well as videos of the father raping
31:20 the adopted child.
31:22 Zachary met lawless through a mutual contact
31:24 and an identified man going only by the first name Blake
31:27 on a gay dating app grinder.
31:29 Following the virtual introduction Zachary sent photographs
31:31 and videos to lawless of a little boy he referred to
31:35 as his son quote, I'm going to F my son tonight
31:38 stand by unquote Zachary allegedly messaged lawless
31:41 on Snapchat and then sent pictures of himself sexually
31:44 abusing his 11 year old child after he was busted lawless
31:47 tonight having any physical contact with the Zulloch boys
31:50 but told law enforcement officers that Zachary invited him
31:52 multiple times to engage in sexual acts with him
31:55 and his two children.
31:56 A list of the state's evidence includes 149 images collected
32:00 at the Zulloch home to flash drives containing Zachary
32:03 and lawless his phone data sexual assault nurse examination
32:06 results from the children's medical forensic exams
32:09 which garnered DNA evidence such as bodily fluids
32:12 and documented injuries a text message from lawless
32:15 a Snapchat letter to written letters from older brother
32:17 or from the older Zulloch child and a discontaining a data dump
32:21 from this caro Sanchez's iPad and iPhone.
32:24 So let's let that sink in for just a moment there.
32:29 It's it's unspeakable.
32:33 I mean as I was preparing this podcast I was like
32:36 I'm fighting back tears just so so mad
32:42 because I have two sons that are a couple of years apart
32:45 and these brothers for years were with these men.
32:50 These demons was probably a more apt way of describing them
32:56 and a side note to this story by the way.
32:59 To all of you be known for what I'm for
33:02 not what I'm against people.
33:03 What do you think about a story like that?
33:05 Are you against that or would it be unloving
33:07 to talk about it cowards?
33:10 And then also to all of the, you know,
33:12 all the people that think that the death penalty
33:14 for any crime is too harsh or for those that think
33:17 the death penalty, you know, is rarely appropriate
33:20 but only for murder and not for any other crime.
33:23 You still sure about that?
33:23 You sure?
33:26 Because these men are facing life in prison
33:32 and not the death penalty.
33:33 Do we need these two guys in society anymore again
33:37 innocent until proven guilty?
33:38 But the evidence is damnable.
33:40 At this point, they need to have their day in court.
33:44 But as I told you before, I don't think
33:47 that the death penalty should be limited to murder.
33:49 Especially in this country where we typically only
33:54 we'll take the lives of people that have murdered
33:55 multiple people and had other extenuating circumstances.
33:58 These two men, if convicted, should die immediately.
34:02 You know, they get, you know, one appeal and then that day.
34:06 So if their appeal is gonna wrap up by noon that day,
34:09 let, you know, anyone who still claims them,
34:11 no, hey, you're gonna have a couple hours with them
34:13 and then we're gonna take them outside of town.
34:14 We're gonna put a bullet in the back of each of their heads
34:16 and either the vultures will eat them
34:18 or you can come and collect their terrible worthless bodies.
34:21 That's what I think that should happen.
34:23 So that's obviously an extreme story.
34:26 But then there was also a picture
34:28 within the last week that went viral
34:29 that is gonna play into kind of what we're talking about today.
34:32 But it's a picture that was posted by Mark Lowen on Twitter
34:35 and it's a picture of two gay men holding a six week old baby.
34:39 And this is what they wrote.
34:40 "After six weeks in wonderful Canada
34:42 "and tearful farewells to our incredible surrogate and friend,
34:45 "it's time to go home to Lisbon with our new family member,
34:48 "our most beautiful hand luggage.
34:50 "Canada, you are a shining light of democracy and equality.
34:53 "Thank you for letting us fulfill our dream."
34:55 Okay, so two gay men, they obviously rented a woman's womb
35:00 and, you know, woman has this baby six weeks later.
35:03 These two gay men taking their baby back with them to Lisbon.
35:06 Most people, or I would say a lot of people, not most people,
35:09 a lot of people had very, very positive reactions to this.
35:12 They said it was very, very beautiful.
35:13 But then there were a lot of other people that said,
35:15 "Yeah, this is actually pretty sad."
35:16 And I would, of course, agree with those people.
35:18 I'm sorry, guys, for the multiple breaks.
35:21 So a voice is really, really struggling right now.
35:23 But with both of these kinds of stories,
35:26 at least generically, gay couples adopting children.
35:30 And in some cases, using surrogates to have a family
35:33 and we're being told that this is a beautiful thing.
35:35 There's a common word that's used to describe
35:38 what's happening, that it should be celebrated,
35:40 that it should happen more and more,
35:42 and that it's totally normal and healthy.
35:44 But this won't come as a shock to any of you.
35:46 I have a different view.
35:48 I think that gay adoption and surrogacy
35:51 is an ugly, ugly thing.
35:53 It should not be celebrated.
35:55 It should never happen.
35:57 And it's totally not normal and not healthy.
36:01 Now, am I saying that every gay couple
36:03 that adopts little boys will end up raping them
36:05 and pimping them out to other pedophiles?
36:07 Of course not.
36:08 Of course, I'm not saying that.
36:10 There are plenty of awful, demonic, sick parents
36:13 and heterosexual relationships.
36:15 But statistically speaking, children suffer physical
36:20 and sexual abuse at the hands of men
36:23 far more than they do at the hands of women.
36:26 So putting them in a household with two adult men
36:31 just increases the likelihood of abuse taking place.
36:35 Against statistically speaking, that is 100% true.
36:39 But as I was thinking through those two news stories,
36:43 I was thinking a lot about gay adoption and gay surrogacy
36:46 and really how ugly it is overall.
36:48 With gay, and there's so many different reasons,
36:50 but one of them is with gay marriage
36:52 it involves two consenting adults.
36:55 With gay adoption, the children cannot consent
36:57 to being raised that way.
37:00 And I mean, when that thought occurred to me,
37:02 I was like, that needs to be talked about way more.
37:05 Because yeah, especially if you're a libertarian,
37:07 it's like, yeah, they're just gay dudes
37:09 are gonna go do their own thing.
37:10 It doesn't bother me in my marriage.
37:11 But when they start having families,
37:14 when they start adopting children,
37:16 when they start doing this weird in vitro fertilization,
37:19 swirl thing where we don't know
37:20 who semen is gonna actually go into the egg
37:23 and we don't know we're gonna just gonna put in
37:25 some random woman's body or something like that
37:26 or 20, 25 years in the future
37:28 when we're gonna have synthetic wounds
37:30 or something like that,
37:32 that's when it becomes an issue.
37:34 'Cause children can't consent
37:35 to being raised in a family like that.
37:37 And another reason why I really think you should be
37:41 against gay adoption and surrogacy
37:43 is the father-mother children
37:45 or father-mother-child family structure
37:48 is literally the basis of human society and civilization.
37:51 Because obviously we don't get human society
37:55 and civilization without procreation.
37:58 That only occurs with a man and a woman.
38:01 Now we live in this modern time
38:02 where a man and a man are a woman and a woman
38:04 or a single man or a single woman,
38:05 they can just pretend that it's their child
38:08 and they can just have one created and a lab for them
38:11 or they can just adopt a kid or something like that.
38:13 And all of a sudden that's somehow supposed to be different.
38:17 But the basis of human society crumbles,
38:21 the foundation literally crumbles to ashes
38:24 if you don't have father-mother children.
38:27 Natural, biological, father, mother, children.
38:30 And also when you're researching things like that,
38:33 you'll find these studies, right?
38:35 These studies that discover that children
38:38 in same-sex households fare better
38:40 or the same as their straight,
38:42 mother and father counterparts.
38:44 But the thing about all these studies that I found,
38:46 when you dig in just a little bit,
38:48 those studies are riddled with errors and inaccuracies.
38:51 And I won't go into too much detail there
38:53 because I'm gonna link to a Heritage Foundation report
38:56 that looked at these things that,
38:57 you get the big headline on Washington Post or New York Times
39:00 or Vox or something like that.
39:02 Kids that are raised by two gay fathers or two lesbian mothers,
39:05 they actually fare better than all the straight kids.
39:07 No, actually they don't.
39:09 Another reason why I really think
39:11 that you should struggle and be against gay adoption
39:14 and surrogacy is there's actually great evidence
39:18 to suggest that children raised by homosexuals
39:21 have a much higher likelihood
39:23 of experiencing sexual and gender disorders.
39:26 And we've kind of seen this,
39:27 we kind of see this even just by looking at culture,
39:30 isn't it so interesting when you have these parents
39:33 in California or, you know, in Chicago or in Portland
39:37 or in Austin or in DC or in any of these liberal hubs, right?
39:41 You have this one parent that'll have three kids,
39:43 one of them's trans and one of them's pansexual.
39:46 It's like, really?
39:47 Like statistically speaking, that's almost impossible.
39:52 And I mean, Jordan Peterson even talked about this recently
39:54 on a Joe Rogan podcast,
39:55 it's like the chances of that are so unbelievably slim,
39:59 there's a much, much higher likelihood
40:01 that one, if not both of the parents
40:03 are destructive narcissists
40:05 and they're literally influencing their kids
40:08 to think that they are something that they're likely not.
40:12 You're being introduced to homosexuality in the household
40:16 and the normalization of these reprehensible,
40:19 abominable behaviors.
40:21 And then that leads to the child experiencing
40:23 sexual and gender disorders.
40:25 Again, not great evidence at all
40:27 for kids growing up in homosexual relationships
40:29 or homosexual households,
40:30 having good outcomes on the back end,
40:32 but great evidence to suggest that when that happens,
40:34 it's actually way more negative for the children
40:36 specifically because they create sexual and gender disorders.
40:40 Another thing that I thought about is,
40:42 we already thought, you know, as society,
40:43 as people that we could mess and finagle
40:47 with the traditional successful family structure
40:50 and model and experience no issues.
40:54 And just be honest, I don't think that we need to experiment
40:56 with doing that again.
40:58 Because, you know, back in the '60s, sexual liberation,
41:01 you get into no fault divorces,
41:03 there's tons of divorce families
41:06 and babies out of wedlock.
41:07 The government sold a bill of goods to single mothers.
41:10 Look, you don't need a man.
41:12 Actually, if you have a man in the house,
41:14 we're not gonna be able to give you any money.
41:15 So just, if you wanna have sex
41:17 and, you know, do all your different things
41:18 and you get pregnant, you know,
41:19 one will provide you a means to kill that baby,
41:22 but if you wanna keep that baby,
41:23 don't worry about baby daddy,
41:24 don't worry about any of that stuff,
41:25 we'll take care of you.
41:26 You know, Uncle Sam will take care of you.
41:29 And that has caused an unbelievable number of issues.
41:33 Society-wide.
41:34 There are, I would say probably the overwhelming majority
41:38 of societal issues, not governmental issues or whatever,
41:41 societal issues stem from fatherlessness,
41:44 because it's something that's been encouraged.
41:46 You know, hey, if this man's not meeting your knees,
41:49 just leave him, don't worry, we'll take care of you.
41:52 And the problem that it creates is, you know,
41:55 I guess why in the world do we think
41:57 that adding gay and lesbian parents to the mix
42:00 would be a good idea?
42:01 So we thought, you know, no fault divorce would be a good idea.
42:05 We thought, you know, women not having a man in their life,
42:07 you know, father's not being around their kids.
42:08 We thought all that was a good idea.
42:10 And now we're supposed to listen to you when you say,
42:11 oh yeah, having gay and lesbian parents,
42:13 that's gonna be no problem.
42:14 And I think it stems from another concern,
42:18 which is pretending like homosexual relationships
42:20 and heterosexual relationships are fundamentally the same
42:24 and superficially different
42:25 is literally the exact opposite of reality.
42:27 They're superficially the same and fundamentally different, okay?
42:33 Because homosexual relationships don't even provide
42:36 for the opportunity to naturally procreate.
42:40 So just by that one stance,
42:42 homosexual relationships and heterosexual relationships
42:45 are completely fundamentally different.
42:47 And yes, they're inherent heterosexual relationships.
42:50 There are people that biologically cannot conceive
42:52 for whatever reason, and it's typically heartbreaking, right?
42:56 And there are means by which that can be taken care of
43:00 and that you can work around that.
43:02 And there's different things that I'm not gonna get into today
43:04 where people can still have a family, okay?
43:06 'Cause I would certainly never say to anyone
43:09 that's an adoptive parent
43:09 that you're somehow doing something wrong.
43:12 I personally know women that cannot conceive,
43:16 but they're the best mamas
43:17 to the families and the children that they've adopted.
43:20 So obviously I'm not going against just normal adoption.
43:23 But to say that those types of relationships are the same,
43:26 fundamentally at its core when you're looking at truth,
43:28 it's just not real.
43:30 But then also promiscuity and gay relationships,
43:33 so specifically to men,
43:35 promiscuity in those relationships is astonishingly high.
43:38 That's kind of like a joke in the gay community
43:40 to where it's just like every married man
43:42 kind of also has boyfriends on the side.
43:44 That's just something that they do.
43:46 There's not this overwhelming focus.
43:48 Again, this is a satanic worldview
43:49 that even leads to where homosexuality is normalized,
43:52 but it's not even a normal thing for you to be
43:55 just dedicated to your one partner,
43:57 your one homosexual partner.
43:59 Again, that's a joke in the gay community
44:01 that they have so many sexual partners.
44:03 And so when you think about that in a family context,
44:06 if that happens in your family context,
44:09 don't you think that's gonna have an impact on children?
44:11 You're already showing them homosexual relationships
44:13 as if that's a natural thing.
44:14 It's not even, again, take spirituality, take God out of it.
44:17 It's not natural in nature.
44:19 Because again, if you just think with that,
44:20 we're all just highly evolved chimps
44:22 and there's just a bunch of highly evolved things
44:24 running around, like two females or two males
44:28 having sex with one another
44:29 doesn't lead to the propagation of the species.
44:32 And so they're already seeing that nonsense
44:34 in a human form in their household,
44:36 but then what if promiscuity comes in?
44:38 And I guess one last one that I wanna talk about here
44:40 is just surrogacy commodifies the wombs of women.
44:45 That's what surrogacy is.
44:49 I don't see a good argument for surrogacy for gay couples
44:52 where you literally just put this, you just inject this,
44:58 you know, sperm and egg and this zygote
45:00 and you just inject it into a woman
45:01 and you're basically renting her womb from her.
45:04 That was one of the things
45:06 that whenever Russia invaded Ukraine,
45:07 Ukraine is one of the biggest countries for surrogacy.
45:11 And that was really gonna hurt their surrogacy numbers,
45:13 which was gonna hurt their GDP.
45:15 But it's like, where are the second,
45:18 third and fourth-way feminists on surrogacy?
45:22 On women, 'cause we're not supposed to objectify women,
45:25 turn them into objects.
45:26 What is surrogacy for gay couples doing?
45:29 You're literally creating an object
45:32 that you're inserting something into
45:34 and then you're getting it out on the back end
45:35 and pretending it's yours and pretending it's beautiful.
45:38 But if I were to coalesce all this down,
45:41 I would say that my main reason for feeling this way,
45:44 that gay adoption and surrogacy is ugly
45:46 and that we shouldn't do it,
45:47 is that children deserve a mother and a father.
45:51 They indeed deserve a mother and a father.
45:56 Now, in our modern time,
45:57 the word deserve is definitely overused.
45:59 I deserve free healthcare.
46:00 I deserve to have you pay for my college.
46:02 That's obviously not something that comes into play here.
46:05 But children, literally long for their biological parents.
46:09 Gay adoption and surrogacy just exacerbates
46:13 the spade of children that live apart
46:15 from their mothers and fathers.
46:16 For any of you parents out there
46:19 that have adopted children, you know this to be true.
46:22 You painfully know this to be true.
46:24 That when the child figures out or finds out
46:27 that you are not their biological parents,
46:29 again, there's beauty in the fact
46:31 that you're parenting that kid.
46:32 So I wanna edify you in that way.
46:34 But they have a longing for their biological mother and father.
46:39 And so allowing gay adoption and surrogacy
46:41 literally increases the spade of children
46:44 that are gonna be going through that.
46:46 And also, in lesbian or, you know,
46:48 singer mother households caused by gay adoption or surrogacy,
46:53 it creates a very detrimental situation
46:56 where the children grow up without their fathers.
46:58 Again, I've talked about this a lot.
47:00 Go buy the boy crisis by Warren Farrell.
47:01 Read that.
47:02 When dads are not present, when fathers are not present
47:05 in a society, the society crumbles.
47:08 Again, the stats are damning.
47:10 For little girls, sexual promiscuity goes up,
47:13 grades goes down, criminality goes up,
47:15 STDs goes up.
47:16 For boys, violence goes up, murders go up.
47:21 Again, sexual promiscuity goes up, grades go down.
47:24 Like, you know, their ability to earn money
47:26 and get an education over their life,
47:27 it's all affected by whether or not dad is there.
47:31 And so in these single mother households,
47:33 'cause I know that there are people out there
47:36 that will literally have a sperm donor
47:38 so that they can get pregnant
47:39 so that they can be a single mother
47:41 hoping one day they'll have a husband.
47:43 And if not, they're choosing single motherhood.
47:46 And statistically speaking, you know,
47:49 they're exposing that child to an undue amount of risk
47:52 and children need both.
47:54 Because the same is true in the opposite.
47:56 In gay or single father households caused by gay adoption
47:59 and surrogacy, it creates a very detrimental situation
48:01 where children grow up without their mothers.
48:04 Because I know this is shocking to say in 2022,
48:07 mothers and fathers give different types of things
48:09 to their children.
48:10 You know, fathers speak to them in a different way.
48:15 They call them up in a different way.
48:16 They show them how to protect.
48:18 It's more aggressive, the rough housing,
48:20 all those different things.
48:21 Again, read the boy crisis.
48:22 It's a must read book for anyone with sons.
48:25 But then children need mothers too.
48:28 Literally this morning, I snuck in behind my son.
48:31 He's sitting at our, you know,
48:32 'cause we have these barstools
48:33 and he's sitting at our island.
48:35 And his face is basically at, you know,
48:38 eye level with the island, right, the countertop.
48:41 And I sneak up behind him and I go to like, you know,
48:43 blow a raspberry or whatever on his neck.
48:46 And he, you know, he laughs and like jerks his head away
48:49 and bangs his head on the counter, okay?
48:51 Completely my fault.
48:53 Immediately felt like I felt this big
48:56 and I felt like a heaping pile of crap.
48:58 Just the worst possible situation.
49:01 I go to hug him and oh, I'm so sorry
49:03 and I'm patting his head and all that.
49:05 And what do you bet he did?
49:07 He pushed me away and ran to mom.
49:09 Now, I was the source of the problem, right?
49:12 'Cause I'm the one that technically made him hurt himself.
49:14 So I'm the one that hurt him.
49:16 But had he even just fallen down
49:17 and any other time where he falls down
49:19 or bumps into something, he doesn't run to dad dad.
49:22 He runs to mama.
49:22 Children need that.
49:25 They absolutely need that.
49:28 And now of course that can't always be possible.
49:32 There are fathers that leave.
49:34 There are fathers that die.
49:35 There are mothers that die at childbirth.
49:37 This product of the fall is we have all these
49:40 detrimental things that happen to life.
49:41 So that's not always possible.
49:43 But we as a society should always shoot
49:47 for the ideal over the convenient.
49:48 Always shoot for the ideal over the convenient.
49:52 Because there's a situation that came up
49:54 even here recently and I have to be careful
49:55 'cause the person may be listening to this,
49:57 but it was a single guy.
49:59 And I met him 'cause there were some work
50:01 that we were both doing.
50:01 This was years ago.
50:02 And he's one of those guys at the moment
50:04 I shook his hand and met him, I'm like, oh, this guy's gay.
50:06 But then he started talking about his girlfriend
50:08 and some of his relationships had it gone awry.
50:10 And I'm like, oh, this guy doesn't realize he's gay yet.
50:12 And it was just something that popped up in my head.
50:14 It's like, this guy's very clearly a homosexual,
50:16 but he just hasn't gotten there yet, I guess, okay?
50:19 And this is a guy that goes to church
50:20 and he volunteers and all those different things.
50:22 And I found out years later that he had become somehow
50:26 a foster parent and he was fostering
50:29 like an 11 year old or 12 year old boy
50:32 and then he adopted this boy.
50:34 And then the next time I heard about this man,
50:36 it was because he came out as homosexual.
50:39 And again, I don't know this guy personally,
50:41 I have no idea what's going on in their house.
50:43 But it's not exactly a secret that a lot of adult
50:46 homosexual men have boyfriends that are underage.
50:51 That's something that gets a lot of people canceled
50:53 even talking about something like that.
50:54 Like there was a conservative commentator
50:56 that got canceled for pointing that out.
50:58 Like, what was his name?
51:01 Milo Yiannopoulos.
51:02 Yeah, he just pointed that out.
51:03 He's like, yeah, it's not that big a deal.
51:04 Obviously, I think it's a huge deal.
51:06 It's a huge deal because it's a homosexual relationship
51:07 but it's also a huge deal because it's pedophilia.
51:10 But this is something that is common in the gay community.
51:13 Again, I'm not making that up.
51:15 I'm not throwing stones, I'm just describing reality.
51:18 And so it's like, in that situation,
51:20 what was the wisdom behind giving this young boy
51:23 to this man?
51:24 Like, what kind of follow up is there?
51:27 Like, it's just, it's a terrible situation
51:29 all the way around, in my opinion.
51:31 But the bottom line here is,
51:32 as no matter who does the study,
51:34 as long as, you know, it's an honest and well done study,
51:37 when it's done, the truth is this.
51:40 More healthy children come from families
51:43 with a father and a mother both in the home
51:47 where the father is the breadwinner,
51:48 the mother is mainly taking care of the house
51:51 and where the family is involved in the local church
51:54 than any other kind of arrangement.
51:56 That's it, hard stop, period, end of story.
52:01 Father, mother, both living in the home, married,
52:05 father's breadwinner, mother,
52:07 typically takes care of the household
52:09 and the family is involved in the local church.
52:10 The outcomes for those children and those families
52:13 is higher than any other possible scenario
52:15 that you can put out there.
52:17 So when I talk about the ideal, that's what I mean.
52:20 So we shouldn't make it easier for us to usurp the ideal,
52:24 to chop out the foundations of the ideal.
52:28 But we also, as we wrap up here,
52:29 we need to talk about this from a biblical perspective, okay?
52:33 Because normalizing babies in same-sex scenarios
52:37 would continue to erode God's very first command
52:41 to Adam and Eve.
52:42 Be fruitful and increase in number, that's Genesis 128,
52:45 and then be fruitful and multiply,
52:47 that's repeated for Noah's family in Genesis nine.
52:50 So again, when you normalize babies,
52:53 being thrust into these same-sex scenarios,
52:56 you're going directly against God's mandate and commands.
52:59 Also, as I mentioned earlier, God gave us marriage
53:03 and he gets to define it,
53:04 'cause he's the one that invented it, okay?
53:06 So Genesis 224, therefore a man shall leave his mother
53:09 or his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife
53:12 and they shall become one flesh.
53:14 Where do we get this concept of marriage?
53:16 To highly evolved chimps being with one another?
53:20 That, that's where we get that idea, okay?
53:23 So the federal government of the United States
53:25 doesn't get to define what marriage is.
53:26 You don't get to define what it is for you and your truth
53:29 and your lived experience, God does.
53:32 But also, we see in Matthew 19 that Jesus upholds
53:35 the sanctity of marriage.
53:37 Read Matthew 19, it's very interesting.
53:39 And so I guess to kind of put a bow on all this guys,
53:42 this is a hard one for a lot of reasons.
53:45 This is a very difficult thing to talk about
53:48 because of the things that happen,
53:50 because of the negative things that happen.
53:52 All of this is a product of brokenness,
53:54 that we live in a post-Genesis 3 world
53:56 that we're even talking about these things
53:58 is because of that.
53:59 So above all of these things,
54:01 if you don't have the blood of Christ,
54:03 if you're not covered by the blood of Christ,
54:04 if you don't have your faith in the fact
54:07 that he is the resurrected savior
54:10 and he died so that you could have a way to the father,
54:13 that's a problem.
54:14 That's something that you need to reckon with.
54:16 You may have never prayed before
54:17 because you don't think that God exists.
54:19 Pray as if he does exist.
54:21 Reach out to him and say,
54:22 "Hey, reveal yourself to me.
54:24 "Get yourself a Bible."
54:25 I promise, wherever you're out in America,
54:27 you can find one in about five minutes, right?
54:29 You can download one on your phone in the next 30 seconds,
54:31 okay?
54:32 Read through the scriptures.
54:34 Read through the Gospels, Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John
54:36 and see if the story of Jesus resonates with you.
54:40 Ask God to reveal himself to you.
54:44 I think he'll be shocked at what you find.
54:46 So specifically to gay adoption and surrogacy.
54:48 Don't be one of those go along to get along Christians.
54:53 Don't be one of those loser cowards that's just like,
54:55 "Oh, I wanna be known for what I'm for,
54:57 "not what I'm against."
54:58 If things are ugly and sinful,
55:00 it is incumbent upon you to point it out
55:04 and fight against it.
55:05 When we talk about love, that's kind of the new thing.
55:08 Like, "Oh, you know, we're just gonna love.
55:09 "We're not gonna talk about your sin.
55:10 "We're just gonna love."
55:11 It is unloving to ignore someone's sin
55:14 'cause it's their sin that sends them the help.
55:16 So no, you should not support gay relationships.
55:20 You should not support gay marriage,
55:22 which is basically gay mirage.
55:24 It's not a real thing.
55:25 And gay adoption and surrogacy.
55:27 Don't be one of those Christians that I've talked to
55:29 that are like, "Well, I guess it's better for them
55:31 "to be in a gay household than it is
55:32 "for them to be in foster care."
55:34 How do you know that?
55:35 Why would you even say such a thing?
55:38 To pretend as if that you really agree
55:40 with a Judeo-Christian ethic and with the father, mother,
55:44 children's set up and then say something like that.
55:47 Oh, it's probably better.
55:49 If you think about it for any length of time,
55:50 that's not where you're gonna end up.
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