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The Modern Bystander Effect (Ep. 251)

November 2, 2021 51m 34s Full transcript available
The Modern Bystander Effect (Ep. 251)
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In this episode, we confront the disturbing reality of the modern bystander effect, where good men fail to act in the face of evil. Using the tragic story of Kitty Genovese as a springboard, we explore how societal apathy and fear prevent intervention during heinous acts, and we challenge men to embrace their responsibility to protect the vulnerable.
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0:00 This is Undaunted Life, a man's podcast.
0:21 I'm your host Kyle Thompson.
0:22 Let's get into it.
0:24 Thus says the Lord.
0:25 Do justice and righteousness and deliver from the hand of the oppressor, him who has
0:29 been robbed and do no wrong or violence to the resident alien, the fatherless and the
0:34 widow, nor shed innocent blood in this place.
0:37 That's Jeremiah 22 three guys.
0:39 Thanks so much for listening into the podcast today.
0:41 I really do appreciate it.
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0:49 since 2017, but we did launch a YouTube channel earlier this year.
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0:55 And thank you to the couple thousand subscribers that we have up to this point, but let's go
0:58 ahead and get into the rest of the content for today.
1:01 So I want to read a quote from one of my favorite movies and that movie is boondock saints.
1:06 Okay.
1:07 So this is a movie that's probably not appropriate and not probably, it's definitely not appropriate
1:10 for all ages.
1:11 It's a movie that I saw back in college, but it's a, it's a very interesting movie about
1:14 these two brothers that are basically trying to even the score with all these bad dudes
1:17 on the street.
1:18 Now there's some, you know, fairly sac religious things that happen in that they're using scripture,
1:22 you know, out of context to basically allow them to go and kill these people, these bad
1:26 men that are doing crimes in their area and all that.
1:29 But at the very beginning of the movie, there's a scene where these two brothers are in this
1:34 church or in this Catholic church and, you know, the, the, you know, whatever the priest
1:38 he's up there doing his thing and he's talking about this story that a lot of you have heard
1:42 about or maybe the first time you heard about it was because of this movie, but there's,
1:46 there's music.
1:47 It's kind of this buildup and it's the first time we get to see these brothers.
1:50 So I'm going to go ahead and read the quote and this is from the priest in the movie.
1:53 And I'm reminded on this holy day of the sad story of Kitty Genovese.
1:58 As you all may remember a long time ago, almost 30 years ago, this poor soul cried out for
2:02 help time and time again, but no person answered her calls.
2:07 Though many saw no one so much is called the police.
2:10 They all just watched as Kitty was being stabbed to death in broad daylight.
2:16 They watched as her assailant walked away.
2:18 Now we must all fear evil men, but there is another kind of evil which we must fear most.
2:24 And that is the indifference of good men.
2:28 And that really sends you into what's going on in that movie with these two guys trying
2:32 to evil in the score with all these evil men and take them out and all that kind of stuff.
2:35 Now this is actually a fictional movie, obviously referring to an actual murder, the real life
2:41 murder of a woman named Kitty Genovese.
2:43 So I'm going to get into that story here because it really springboards us into what
2:46 we're talking about today. So pay attention March 13th of 1964.
2:50 This was in Queens, New York City, Kitty Genovese.
2:53 She was a 28 year old female bartender.
2:55 She was stabbed to death outside of her apartment by a man named Winston Mosley, a 29 year old
3:00 Manhattan native.
3:01 Now, Mosley was arrested because of an unrelated incident six days later, okay?
3:05 But while he was in custody, he confessed to murdering Genovese.
3:08 Now at trial, he was found guilty of the murder.
3:11 He was sentenced to death, but his sentence was commuted to life imprisonment.
3:14 And so after 50 52 years of a life sentence, Mosley died in prison on March the 28th of
3:20 2016. Now guys, if that were all you knew about the story, you know, that that would
3:25 be terrible enough. Right? Like that that's a horrible, horrible thing that this woman,
3:29 this innocent woman was just murdered, right?
3:32 But there's there's worse things and there's worse details and we'll get into those here
3:35 in just a second.
3:37 But people being stabbed to death, unfortunately, is not that uncommon.
3:40 I mean, believe it or not, more people are stabbed to death in the United States every
3:43 year, then die because they were shot by someone with a rifle, right?
3:47 That's just a little factoid that I'm sure that'll send all the anti second amendment
3:50 people into a tizzy, but nonetheless, it's true, but I'll digress here.
3:54 There are more details that are interesting about this terrible day.
3:57 And so one thing that I thought, you know, Wikipedia is not always the greatest source
4:00 for something, but there were a lot of citations about this story on the Wikipedia page.
4:04 So I just want to read from the description as to what happened on this day, because again,
4:08 it'll really get us into the media, what we're talking about today, because there were
4:11 a couple of dozen different contributors to the history and the criminology of what was
4:15 happening at this time.
4:16 So I'll go ahead and read that here.
4:17 At approximately 2 30 a.m. on March 13, 1964, Genevieve's left the bar where she worked
4:22 and began driving home in her red Fiat while waiting for a traffic light to change on Hoover
4:27 Avenue.
4:28 She was spotted by Winston Mosley, who was sitting in his parked Chevrolet Corvette.
4:32 Genevieve's arrived home around 3 15 a.m. and parked her car in the Cugh Gardens Long
4:36 Island Railroad Station parking lot about 100 feet from her apartment store in the in
4:41 an alleyway at the rear of the building.
4:43 As she walked toward the apartment complex, Mosley, who had followed her home, exited
4:47 his vehicle, which he had parked at a corner bus stop on Austin Street armed with a hunting
4:51 knife.
4:52 He approached Genevieve's Genevieve's ran toward the front of the building and Mosley
4:55 ran after her overtooker and stabbed her twice in the back.
4:59 Genevieve's screamed, Oh my God, he stabbed me, help me.
5:03 Several neighbors heard her cry, but only a few of them recognized the sound as a cry
5:06 for help.
5:07 When Robert Moser, one of the neighbors shouted at the attacker, let that girl alone.
5:12 Mosley ran away and Genevieve slowly made her way toward the rear entrance of the building,
5:16 seriously injured and out of view of any witnesses.
5:19 Witnesses saw Mosley enter his car, drive away and return 10 minutes later, shadowing his
5:23 face with a wide-brimmed hat, he systematically searched the parking lot, the train station,
5:27 and an apartment complex, eventually finding Genevieve's, who was barely conscious and
5:31 lying in a hallway at the back of the building, where a locked door had prevented her from
5:34 going inside.
5:36 Out of view of the street and of those who may have heard or seen any sign of the initial
5:39 attack, Mosley stabbed Genevieve several more times before raping her, stealing $49 from
5:45 her, and running away again.
5:47 The attack spanned approximately a half an hour and knife wounds and Genevieve's hands
5:51 suggested that she attempted to defend herself.
5:53 A neighbor and close friend Sophia Farrer found Genevieve shortly after the second attack
5:58 and held her in her arms until the ambulance arrived.
6:01 Those of the earliest calls to police are unclear and were not given a high priority.
6:05 The incident occurred four years before New York City implemented a 911 emergency call
6:09 system.
6:10 One witness said his father called the police after the initial attack and reported that
6:13 a woman was beat up but got up and was staggering around.
6:17 A few minutes after the final attack, another witness Carl Ross wasted time calling friends
6:21 for advice on what to do before finally calling the police.
6:25 Genevieve's was picked up by the ambulance at 4.15 am and died en route to the hospital.
6:29 She was buried on March 16th 1964 in Lakeview Cemetery in New Canaan, Connecticut.
6:34 Mosley was married with three children and had no criminal history, criminal record rather.
6:39 While in custody, Mosley confessed to killing Genevieve's, he detailed the attack corroborating
6:43 the physical evidence at the scene.
6:45 He said that his motive for the attack was simply to kill a woman, saying he preferred
6:49 to kill women because they were easier and didn't fight back.
6:52 He stated that he got up that night around 2 am leaving his wife asleep at home and drove
6:57 through Queens to find a victim.
6:59 Mosley saw Genevieve's on her way home and followed her to the parking lot before killing
7:02 her.
7:03 He also confessed to murdering and sexually assaulting two other women and two committing
7:08 between 30 and 40 burglaries.
7:10 Subsequent psychiatric examinations suggested that Mosley was a necrophile.
7:15 Necrophiles are obviously people that love to have sex with dead people or dead things.
7:19 So the interesting thing about this story, because again, just an absolutely brutal story,
7:24 and it's not a unique story.
7:25 There are a lot of stories like this, there are a lot of predators out there.
7:27 I think the FBI estimates that there's something like 2,000 current and active serial killers
7:33 in the United States that are not behind bars.
7:36 People that are actively killing multiple people that usually involve some sort of a
7:39 rape or some sort of a sexual release.
7:41 But Kitty Genevieve's murder prompted the creation of a study of a social psychological
7:47 theory called the bystander effect.
7:50 Okay?
7:51 So hence the name of the episode today.
7:52 So the bystander effect or what other people call the bystander apathy effect or just bystander
7:57 apathy.
7:58 Now this story really led to research and that led to actually some fairly substantial
8:04 lab studies.
8:05 Okay?
8:06 And what these lab studies were looking at is they were trying to identify the factors
8:10 as to why someone would not intervene when another person was in trouble.
8:14 And during these studies, and again, these were lab states where they were putting people
8:17 in these crazy situations to see how they would respond.
8:20 They put them in situations where they were the only person that could potentially respond
8:23 where there were other people that they could respond.
8:25 They found a bunch of different factors that kind of led to this whole idea of bystander
8:30 effect or bystander apathy, the number of bystanders.
8:33 Okay?
8:34 So if there's a lot of people around, maybe you think I'm not the one that has to intervene
8:37 because there's all these other people.
8:39 Another factor they found is just general ambiguity.
8:42 Maybe you can't really figure out what's going on in this exact situation.
8:44 You're not sure exactly what's happening.
8:46 So there's just some ambiguity that you don't know how to get past.
8:49 There's also group cohesiveness.
8:51 Like are we all going to do this?
8:53 Or am I going to be the only one here?
8:54 You know, are we going to go in the same direction at the same time, which leads to
8:57 another factor, which they found, which was called the diffusion of responsibility that,
9:01 you know, again, this can't just be my problem.
9:03 Maybe we should all do this.
9:05 And if everybody's not moving at the same time, it's going to be hard for one person
9:08 to move.
9:09 But all of those factors, and there were many other factors as well in the research, led
9:12 to something called mutual denial, right?
9:15 So a lot of people, they see something going on that's evil.
9:18 They see something going on that is obviously wrong.
9:21 They have the capability of intervening, but they're just going to deny that it's happening.
9:26 They're going to put their head back in their books or in their newspapers or they're just
9:30 going to roll over and go back to sleep or in a modern context.
9:32 They're just going to go back to looking on their phones, or they're going to pull out
9:35 their phones and start recording, which we'll see more here in just a second.
9:38 Now, before anybody, you know, kind of throws it out there as this, you know, I did see
9:42 that there was some hubbub that had been made about this story, you know, that the New York
9:46 Times at the time allegedly embellished the facts of the case when they reported at the
9:50 time that 38 witnesses saw the murder.
9:53 And the thing about it is, is all these people that are basically saying that about this
9:57 murder like, oh, you know, the New York Times basically said that they mess up the reporting
10:01 and they really put it out there.
10:03 All that just distracts from the cases, the actual case, it distracts from the certifiable
10:08 facts about this case.
10:10 And there are three certifiable facts about this case.
10:13 The first is that people 100% witness this murder happened.
10:18 It may not have been the 38 people that the New York Times originally came up with, but
10:22 people 100% witness the murder.
10:24 This murder happened.
10:25 Multiple people did.
10:27 The second fact is that no one attempted to intervene.
10:31 We have no record whatsoever that anyone tried to intervene for Kitty Genovese.
10:35 And the third is that mostly returned to continue his assault when he realized that no one had
10:43 or would come to Genovese's aid.
10:48 So again, people 100% witness this, multiple people witness this murder happened.
10:52 No one attempted to intervene.
10:54 And mostly who had left returned when he realized that no one was going to come and help Genovese.
11:02 Crazy, absolutely crazy.
11:04 But the reason why I thought about this story in the last couple of weeks is because there's
11:08 two very, very recent stories about something similar to this happening.
11:11 They don't involve murder, but they do involve really heinous crimes.
11:14 So I'm just going to describe them both to you here.
11:16 So here's the first story I read the headline from USA Today, angry and disgusted.
11:21 Train writers help held up phones, didn't call 911 as woman was raped on Philadelphia
11:27 train.
11:28 Police say, so I'm going to go ahead and read from the article here, a man was charged with
11:31 raping a woman on a train outside of Philadelphia as fellow passengers watched held up phones
11:37 and did nothing to intervene, police said.
11:39 The man fished in Nagoi, 35 years old, harassed the woman, groped her and eventually raped
11:45 her as fellow passengers watched the assault through more than two dozen train stops last
11:51 week.
11:52 Authorities said two dozen train stops.
11:55 Police believe no one called authorities, though they are investigating whether any of
11:58 the witnesses may have recorded the incident on their phones.
12:02 Nestle, this is the nestle.
12:04 This is a guy.
12:05 He's a Southeastern Pennsylvania transportation authority police chief.
12:08 He said that both Nagoi and the victim got on the train October the 13th at the same stop.
12:13 The Frankfurt Transportation Center in Northeast Philadelphia, police said that they weren't
12:17 able to stop the assault until the train reached the 69th Street terminal in West Philadelphia,
12:22 rest Philadelphia on the market Frankfurt line, which was about 27 stops later.
12:26 Again, Nestle said that the officers responded within three minutes of the loan 911 call they
12:31 received from an off duty transportation employee, not any of the people in the car watching
12:36 from an off duty transportation employee back to the article here, police police and other
12:41 officials were troubled that no one witnessing the assault intervene and held a news conference
12:46 reiterating the need for people who see something unusual to report it immediately, even anonymously
12:51 and through the emergency buttons on the trains.
12:54 So that's first thing that happened.
12:56 This woman was brutally raped on a train car with other people and for dozens of 27 stops,
13:04 no one intervened.
13:06 But it seems like there's evidence to suggest that people pulled out their phones to record
13:09 this rate.
13:11 So that happened.
13:12 That was a few weeks ago when I found out about that one, but then it was just this last
13:15 week that I found about story number two.
13:17 And so this is from the Washington Examiner.
13:19 Here's the headline woman punched after telling man on a train to take a chill pill.
13:24 So this is from the article here, a man was recorded punching a woman in the face after
13:27 she told him to take a chill pill while riding the New York subway.
13:31 The clip showed the man standing over the woman who was sitting on the train.
13:34 No one seemed to help her during the entire incident.
13:36 So I'm actually going to show you a clip of this.
13:38 So again, if you're not watching this on YouTube, you won't be able to see the clip.
13:40 You'll just be able to hear it.
13:41 So guys, make sure that you subscribe and watch this over on YouTube.
13:44 But apparently before, you know, the person started because every time I see a video like
13:48 this, I'm always wondering what was happening right before the person started hitting record
13:53 or what was happening right before that they may have recorded and edited out.
13:56 But apparently from all the other people that were there, all the other witness testimony
14:00 before this clip, all right, before this clip started, this guy was screaming and yelling
14:05 from the moment he entered the subway car.
14:07 So imagine a subway car, most of us have been on one of those and it's crowded.
14:11 I mean, there was not a whole lot of elbow room.
14:13 From the moment he walked onto the subway car with his family, he was telling everyone
14:18 to get the F out of the way.
14:19 He was screaming.
14:20 He was kind of moving his elbows around saying, don't anybody get in my way.
14:23 Don't need to buy a mess with me and my family.
14:25 Okay.
14:26 So I'm going to go ahead and show the clip to you here and just fair warning.
14:29 It is a graphic clip.
14:30 For those of you watching and or listening, there is some foul language that I'm not going
14:34 to bleep out.
14:35 Getting there with kids, you might fast forward a little bit or come back to this later, but
14:38 let's go ahead and go into the clip here and say to my face name, say to my face now,
14:43 tell me to take a little bit.
14:45 Tell me, tell me to take a word and show them.
14:48 Oh, I'm going to take a word and show them.
14:53 Oh, I'm going to take a word and show them.
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23:06 just as capable as a man. Again, you see the convoluted way these attacks on gender happen, right?
23:12 Another reason that I thought of is that there's an over reliance on our society on someone else.
23:18 And you can just fill in the blank with who those someone else's are, right? This over reliance on,
23:24 oh, the police will take care of it. You know, if something were to ever happen to me or my family,
23:28 I would just call the police, even though I think the average response time for police in the United
23:32 States is like seven minutes. If they show up at all, because if you live in Seattle or if you live in
23:35 Los Angeles, they may not show up at all, right? This over reliance may be on the military, right?
23:40 Something really, really went wrong. The military would be there to protect us. Right now, what we're
23:44 seeing just in an era coming out of COVID and things like that is the government where we're
23:48 going to rely on the government. Why are we having such a problem with getting people to go back
23:52 to work? It's because the government has been paying people to stay home for over a year now.
23:56 People are getting used to it. They're getting used to life without having to produce anything,
24:00 right? They're relying on the government, maybe relying on parents, right? You heard about these
24:05 helicopter parents that are constantly hovering around the kid, making sure to push everything
24:09 that could possibly happen out of the way, all these negative potentialities. They're getting them
24:13 out of the way and they're reliant on their parents so much. They don't rely on themselves.
24:17 They don't rely on other people. They're relying on their parents. And so in this type of a setting,
24:21 we're looking at this situation. I'm assuming with law, these bystanders are looking at these
24:25 situations thinking, I don't need to intervene because something else or someone else is going
24:30 to intervene. I personally don't have to do anything. And another one I thought of is Black Lives Matter.
24:37 The organization and the movement has a lot to do with what we're seeing on this bystander effect,
24:44 okay? So Black Lives Matter and acolytes of critical race theory and all these different
24:49 things, they've convinced white people that they, that they, I guess we will say it this way,
24:56 they've convinced white people that aren't racist, that in fact they are racist, regardless of what
25:02 their personal feelings or worldview is, they're racist by dent of birth, right? By the level of
25:07 melanin in their skin. But they've also convinced black people that they're victims that need to
25:12 fight back. And I'm not going out on a limiter when I say that either. Everyone that's white is a
25:18 racist and everyone that's black is a victim and they deserve to fight back sometimes physically.
25:23 And so I don't know if you remember that going going back to the video and even for those of you
25:26 just listening to it, the situation on the subway, that was a black man assaulting a white woman.
25:30 But again, on the hierarchy of intersectionality, you know, the white woman isn't nearly as
25:35 oppressed as the black man. And so I'm sure there were people thinking in their heads,
25:40 if they intervened, they're intervening to stop a black man from doing something.
25:44 And again, it sounds even racist that I'm even describing it in that way. But that's how these
25:49 people think that's not how I think, because if I was in that subway car, I wouldn't be thinking
25:53 Oh, I'm intervening as this white man is attacking this white or as this black man is attacking this
25:57 white woman, I would just be thinking, Oh, there's a man attacking woman. I should probably stop that,
26:01 right? I should probably intervene. But that's not how these modern, you know, race race peddlers
26:07 and all these people think about it. So they might be pausing thinking, if I intervene here in
26:10 someone's taking video, I'm going to be branded as a racist. If I assault this black man for assaulting
26:16 a white woman, I'm going to be seen as a racist. I might lose my job. You know, my family might have
26:22 to move. I'm going to be receiving death threats. Black Lives Matter is going to come to my street
26:27 and try to burn it down. Right? That's the calculus people are having to go through in their brains.
26:32 But again, think about this man. Think about the words that he was saying. He was looking around,
26:36 he pointed to a train full of people of all races. I saw a bunch of different races in this video,
26:42 and he's pointing at him saying, all you racist, right? And specifically pointing out this woman,
26:47 who he doesn't know, calling her a racist, because she said, take a chill pill. Now, should she maybe
26:53 just kept her mouth shut? I don't know. You can maybe debate that. But she certainly didn't deserve
26:57 to get hit in the beak. But again, think about this man. Think about this victim mentality. And
27:02 the whole time I'm watching this man as he's ranting and raving, I'm thinking about man,
27:06 I bet this guy didn't have a dad at home. And not just because statistically speaking,
27:11 that's probably true. Because if you look at the statistics about black fathers and
27:15 fatherlessness in the black family in America since the 1960s, I just mean in general,
27:19 the level of anger, it was directed at anything and everything from the moment he got on the train,
27:28 get the F out of my way, this faux masculinity, like nobody better touch me. I'm on what I'm a
27:34 real deal. I'm I'm this that I'm the other thing, right? Where does that come from?
27:37 You didn't have a dad in your life that was modeling that to you, a good dad modeling that to you.
27:45 Where did you pick that up? But again, he might be listening to these race peddlers,
27:49 these people in Black Lives Matter saying that, dude, you're a victim, you're a victim.
27:53 The moment you walk on that train car, people are going to they're going to be scared of you,
27:56 right? And it's just because you're black. And apparently he's absorbed that into who he is as a
28:01 person, right? It's damning. It's terrible. But some other reasons why I think, you know,
28:06 the bystander effect is getting even crazier in these modern times is politicians are encouraging
28:10 the public to pretend that violent crime is happening. I mean, we've seen this since the George George
28:15 Floyd riots in 2020, violent crime has spiked all over the country, not just in major cities,
28:20 but especially in major cities. Their their the violence has gone up. Murders have gone up,
28:25 assaults, robberies, batteries, they've they've all gone through the roof, right? But then you
28:29 have politicians, typically all Democrats, typically all blue tie people telling you,
28:35 don't worry about that. Yeah, we know violent crime is happening, but there's all these other
28:39 things that are important, like Lori Lightfoot of Chicago, the mayor of Chicago, she comes to mind.
28:43 She never wants to talk about the number of people that are murdered every week in her city.
28:46 She wants to talk about racial injustice and systemic racism and, you know, misogyny and the
28:52 patriarchy and Trump and all these different things. That's all she can focus on. So these
28:56 politicians are just telling you, hey, these things aren't happening. And for a lot of people,
29:00 if you're told constantly, if you're gaslit constantly and told that these things aren't really
29:04 happening, if you see it actually happening in person, I'm sure there's some sort of a cognitive
29:08 dissonance going on, like, wait a minute, I was told these things aren't happening and or that
29:12 they're not important. How should I be dealing with this exact situation? And it's going to be
29:15 hard for you to know the answer. It's going to be hard for you to actually figure out what you
29:19 should say and what you should do in those moments. But the last thing I'll talk about here,
29:23 turns out why I think that this is increasing in our modern age is social media.
29:27 I mean, there's a lot of problems and there's a lot of ills that come from social media.
29:32 But again, I want to go back to this key fact from these two modern cases, right?
29:37 These people decided not to intervene. Instead, they decided to pick up their phones and record.
29:42 That was one of their first thoughts. Now, typically people are recording things because
29:49 they're already thinking about posting it later. Again, this video that went viral,
29:53 this woman getting hit on the subway is posted on TikTok.
29:56 All right, for those of you that saw it on our YouTube channel, obviously you see that.
30:01 So this person was thinking about content creation. Now, for me as a content creator, this is what
30:07 I do for a profession. That's something that I think about as well. I am thinking about moments
30:11 like, you know, when my son's doing something really sweet or when I see something happening
30:15 out in the world or something like that that I think would be interesting to bring to you guys,
30:19 that's my job. It's my job to do those things. But that's what these people are thinking.
30:23 Instead of, you know, they're probably scrolling on their phones to begin with. But as soon as these
30:27 assaults happen, the rape on the train, the assault on the subway, they didn't think to just put their
30:33 phones down, put it in their pocket and intervene. They thought, I'm going to record this. And again,
30:39 I don't have this positive disposition that these people were recording it thinking that they could
30:43 give this video to police later. Again, I think that I've spent a lot of time talking about the
30:47 assault on the subway, but the rape on the train in Pennsylvania, again, 27 stops. For those of you
30:54 that have been on trains in these big areas, there's a decent amount of time, like literal time in
31:00 between these stops, 27 stops. You're seeing this assault happen on a train car that you're on.
31:07 And you do nothing. And again, 911 received one phone call from an off duty employee
31:15 of that area of the transportation department.
31:17 I mean, what kind of a seared consciousness? We don't know how many people were in the train
31:22 car. They haven't released that information, or at least I wasn't able to find that information.
31:25 But let's just say it was one other person. Assuming that it's not a 95 year old woman,
31:31 why would that person not intercede regardless? And again, it wasn't one person. It was, it was a
31:38 multitude of people because that's why the headline was so crazy. A woman being raped,
31:42 unfortunately, is not headline news, but it was the fact that there was a full train car people
31:46 watching the assault happen and they did nothing to intervene. Now, obviously, I know that the
31:52 majority of my audience here are men. We appreciate you guys. We also appreciate our female listeners
31:56 and the majority of our listeners are Christian men. If you're not a Christian, we're so glad
31:59 you're listening to this. That's super awesome. We would love for you to accept Jesus. But as for
32:03 right now, let's go ahead and get into this content in terms of what I would say to Christian men,
32:08 because I think Christian men should have some reactions to a video like this. And the easiest
32:13 one in the lowest hanging fruit is it should make you furious. You should absolutely be furious
32:19 about these videos that you've seen, about the score, the story of Kitty Genovese. That should
32:24 make you absolutely righteously indignant, right? Everyone should should see that and understand that.
32:29 But another emotion that you perhaps maybe don't feel is it should make you sad.
32:33 I know a lot of guys really aren't in touch with the sad side of their emotions, or that's the
32:39 one that they try to suppress as much as possible because they might end up, you know, shedding tears
32:42 or something like that. But it should make you really, really sad because after I was done being
32:48 furious about these stories, that's what I was immediately. I was sad for these individual women,
32:53 the one that was raped and the one that was hit. I was sad for Kitty Genovese and for her family,
32:58 even though she died, you know, 70 years ago, 60 years ago, something like that, right? Just rough,
33:03 rough situation. But I was sad for the state of society, maybe more than anything
33:09 that these people didn't intervene, that these people just wanted to take video of it so they
33:14 would have a copy of it from their point of view on their phone. How sad is that? I can't think of
33:20 much else that could be more sad than that. But the thing that I landed on after I kind of had
33:27 my wave of emotion with fury and with sadness is as a Christian and for you specifically,
33:34 it should make you want to prepare. I don't mean like prepper like go buy a bunch of canned foods.
33:42 It should make you want to prepare to intercede if something like this were to happen near you.
33:46 And this really gets into the sheepdog mindset. For those of you that aren't familiar with the
33:51 sheepdog mindset, go back to episode 135 of this podcast. It was a great interview I did with
33:55 Lieutenant Colonel Dave Grossman. Lieutenant Colonel Dave Grossman is the one that came up
33:59 with the sheepdog mindset. But he basically talks about how there are three kinds of people in this
34:03 world. There are wolves, there are sheep, and there are sheepdogs. The majority of the populace
34:07 are sheep. If you don't understand, a sheep is a really, really stupid animal, right? A sheep
34:12 needs protection, right? But the wolf is constantly prowling around looking to pick off sheep. And
34:19 the only thing to keep the sheep safe is a sheepdog. The sheepdog intercedes between the wolf and the
34:26 sheep to keep the sheep safe, to keep the wolf at bay. And so he talks about that mindset in kind
34:31 of a more militaristic mindset. But also that has kind of trickled down into an everyday mindset.
34:37 It's this mindset of being prepared that if one of these crazy situations is to happen,
34:43 that you are ready to go and ready to respond. And actually, this happened in the last couple
34:47 of weeks as well. There was a recent video of a retired marine. He's at a convenience store in
34:52 Yuma, Arizona. So I'm gonna go and show the clip to you here, and then we'll get back into the
34:56 content. So here's the clip. And new this morning, a robbery suspect is behind bars thanks to a
35:01 brave US Marine. Take a look at this video. And our man walks into the gas station, points a gun
35:08 at the cashier, but is quickly disarmed by the Marine. This happened to Chevron and Yuma yesterday.
35:14 He was able to hold down the robber until police arrived. The other two suspects got away. Thankfully,
35:20 known was hurt when deputies asked the Marine how he was able to take control of the situation.
35:24 He said, the Marine Corps taught me not to mess around. Wow, some quick acting there.
35:30 And what would have been a very dangerous situation.
35:33 So for those of you that couldn't see what was happening, and I think I said he was a retired
35:37 Marine. So I guess he might be still a Marine. I'm not sure if he's still in the Marine Corps,
35:40 but there you go. What happened in this clip is this guy is sitting there. He's got his bag.
35:45 So he apparently had already bought his snacks or whatever. He's talking to the person behind
35:48 the, behind the counter. And so if you, if you're not watching the video again,
35:51 from the video standpoint, you can see this guy and you can see the front door.
35:56 So then as he's talking to the clerk, he turns around and he sees two guys walking in the door.
36:00 They've got masks over their faces. You know, their entire faces are covered,
36:03 not just like COVID masks, stupid cloth masks or something like that. But the guy that walks
36:07 in the door at the very beginning, he's got a gun out and he's pointing it, not, not at this guy.
36:12 He's pointing it past this guy at the clerk. And I mean, this guy with the gun takes one step,
36:18 two steps. And immediately this guy, this Marine, he reacts. He grabs the guy's arm that has the
36:25 gun in it and he starts pummeling this guy. And then they fly out of screen. And the guy that was
36:30 behind the guy with the gun who was apparently with him, this just, this car just took off running,
36:34 right? He didn't want any part of what was happening. And so apparently what happened is this Marine,
36:38 he, he, you know, got the firearm away from this guy. He held him down until help came
36:42 and potentially saved lives, right? In that exact moment, we don't know if this gun was loaded. I'm
36:46 assuming that it was like this guy could have went off half cocked and just absolutely started
36:50 killing people. We have no idea. But the Marine responded immediately, immediately. He didn't stop
36:58 and pause. He didn't stop and pray. And I'm not against prayer. He didn't stop in, you know,
37:02 ask somebody for help. He immediately responded. He immediately did what needed to happen in that
37:06 moment to stop potential violence from happening. And if the violence hadn't occurred, he stopped
37:11 an injustice of someone getting their property stolen, right? Whether it be their money or any
37:16 of the stuff that was in the store. Okay. Now that video in light of the other situations that we've
37:22 talked about in this podcast, begs this big time question for all of us to reckon with.
37:26 And in that is, are you ready right now to intervene? Are you ready right now to intervene?
37:37 You've got to wrestle with that question. And that kind of splinters off into other questions.
37:44 Are you physically capable? Are you physically capable of intervening?
37:50 So this man was obviously marine. He had some violence training, let's say. And in that moment,
37:57 again, he didn't have to consult with a trainer. He didn't do anything other than react. He was
38:02 physically capable and ready to disarm this person, right? And for a lot of you guys,
38:07 and I've talked about this as well, this is especially bad with big guys, guys that are
38:10 physically big or tall. They don't know how to fight, but they assume since they're big
38:14 that that's going to be all that they need. Now, I've told this story on this podcast before,
38:19 and I've done this to try to encourage you guys. Yes, you should train jujitsu. You should train
38:23 wrestling. You should train Muay Thai kickboxing, Western boxing, those things. I have a buddy
38:27 who's six foot five, 250 pounds, 240 pounds, right? Big, big guy, physically enormous. So he showed
38:34 up to the forge on Sunday night to train with our crew with my foxhole guys. And then we bring
38:37 another guy out. And this is the drill that we're going to do. One guy lays on his back. The other
38:42 guy comes in and lays inside control. And for two minutes, the guy on bottom is just trying to stand
38:47 up. And the guy on top is just trying to hold the other guy down, right? So you don't have to know
38:51 a lot of jujitsu to understand the rules of the game, right? If you're on bottom, you just need
38:55 to get up. If you're on top, you need to hold the guy down. So what we did is we took my buddy who's
38:58 six foot five, 240 pounds, and we laid him down on his back. Then we brought in for those of you
39:02 that know this guy, Jermaine the coach, right? A guy from my foxhole. Jermaine is about, he's
39:06 maybe five, seven, five, eight, right? Maybe five, six, I'm not very tall. And about 150 pounds,
39:12 155 pounds, right? Great athlete, very, very strong, but small, compared to my other buddy.
39:18 And we hit the timer, timer goes dinging for two minutes. Jermaine the coach, Jermaine the athlete,
39:23 right? He holds down this six foot five, 240 pound monster beast. And why did that happen?
39:31 Because six foot five, 240 had no idea what to do. He was untrained. And the moment he stood up,
39:38 he had this just wide eyed look, like this thousand yard stare, because he was like,
39:43 Oh crap, that really, really sucked. And he and I talked about it afterwards. And he said,
39:48 Yeah, man, like, I always just assumed I'm such a big guy that I would never,
39:52 you know, not be able to defend myself. And this is a guy with sisters. He didn't have
39:57 a girlfriend or wife at the time. And he's like, what if my sisters were being assaulted and
40:00 someone else was holding me down and I couldn't help them, right? He always assumed that he could
40:06 default to his size that, you know, when the moment came, he would just turn it on, whatever that
40:11 means. But guys, if you're not trained in combatives of some kind, on what planet do you think that
40:17 you're all of a sudden going to know how to throw a punch or throw a kick or take someone down
40:22 or choke them out or break their arm or disable them, you know, take, take their weapon away.
40:28 All right. Again, are you physically capable of doing those things? Have you ever tried to take
40:33 a human being that's standing up in the middle of a room down onto the floor? Have you ever tried
40:38 that? Have you ever succeeded at doing that? Again, the question is, are you ready right now to
40:43 intervene? A lot of you guys are not physically capable of doing that. So don't assume that you
40:49 will be able to when the time comes, right? And it may not be a stranger that needs your assistance.
40:54 It may be a loved one, but that goes again, that's the physical sign. The next question is, are you
40:59 mentally capable, mentally capable? So my wife and I have had this discussion when we've talked about,
41:05 you know, concealed carrying and what to do if I'm not there and something's happening at the house
41:09 or something like that. And you can talk all day long. You can do dry fire drills. You can kind of
41:15 work different scenarios at the house. And that's all great. That's great for muscle memory. That's
41:18 great for physicality. But the question that I ask my wife is, are you mentally okay with ending
41:24 another person's life in order to save your own? In order to save mine, in order to save the life
41:30 of sweet baby James? And again, her answer just wasn't, yeah, I'm super capable. I'm immediately
41:36 capable. She really had to chew on that. But that's where we are now. We know that we are mentally
41:43 okay with ending another person's life if they are intending to end ours. There's a mental
41:49 capability here as well, because also there's a capability of being mentally calm in a scenario
41:55 where you need to be calm. Because what you didn't hear about that, that guy in Yuma, Arizona, the
41:59 Marine is he didn't take the firearm away from this guy and then pull it out and put it to the
42:04 guy's temple and blown away. He was able to subdue this man to control the situation and then remain
42:11 calm. Again, he didn't fly off the handle. He was able to be mentally capable and that moment
42:18 to intervene. But again, I go back to this guy in Yuma, he didn't have to think, but for a split
42:23 second, he reacted. Again, go back to the video, watch it on our YouTube channel. He was so ready.
42:29 Again, half a second before those guys walked in, he was talking to the clerk about God knows
42:34 what football, the weather, like Funyans, like who knows what this guy was thinking about.
42:39 But then he turned it on immediately because he was capable. He had already had that internal
42:43 dialogue that in a situation, I'm going to be the guy that reacts. I'm going to be the guy that
42:47 intervenes, okay? Which begs this last question, which is different for everybody,
42:53 which is, are you willing to deal with the consequences in order to protect and potentially save someone
42:58 else? Because there will be consequences, right? Because let's say in the struggle, we'll go back
43:04 to the guy in the convenience store in Arizona. Let's say there was a struggle. Let's say the
43:08 Marine got the upper hand and he killed the other guy or hurt him or in some way. There's
43:12 going to be lawsuits now that criminals family is going to come at that Marine and try to get
43:18 him for everything he's worth. Right? We've seen that happen a lot. If you use your firearm to
43:25 intercede even in your own home, and depending on the upon the state you're in or the country
43:29 that you live in, right? We appreciate all our international listeners. Like if you assault
43:34 somebody in your own home that's trying to do you harm, maybe even trying to kill you,
43:38 you might be the one that's walked down handcuffs. There's plenty of situations like that that have
43:43 happened. That's why there's things like the UFCCA, you know, these concealed carry organizations.
43:48 That's why they teach people what to do if they're involved in a shooting with their firearm,
43:52 right? You don't just immediately start blabbing and telling everybody exactly what happened.
43:56 You have to think about yourself and how to protect yourself. But also there's the other
44:01 consequences. Remember the the Black Lives Matter discussion that I was having? Let's say you
44:05 intercede as a Black person or a person of color or trans person is is getting after somebody else.
44:11 In that moment, you have to think crap. The LGBTQ people are going to come at me because I went
44:16 after this trainee that was beating up somebody else. Our man Black Lives Matter is going to start
44:21 picketing outside of my office building because I interceded and there was a Black person of,
44:24 you know, or another person of color there. You have to be willing to deal with that though,
44:29 because in that exact moment that, like, let's go to the scenario on the train in Pennsylvania,
44:34 someone's being raped. And that exact moment, are you going to be thinking about Black Lives Matter?
44:40 Are you going to be thinking about, you know, the LGBTQ lobby? Are you going to be thinking about
44:43 angry people on Twitter? Are you going to be thinking about yourself in that moment?
44:46 Are you going to be thinking sacrificially about somebody else and what you need to do in order
44:51 to intervene? Okay. But now we need to go back to the scripture from the beginning.
44:55 Jeremiah 22 three says this. Thus says the Lord do justice and righteousness and deliver from the
45:01 hand of the oppressor him who has been robbed and do no wrong or violence to the resident alien,
45:06 the fatherless and the widow nor shed innocent blood in this place. Now I want to give you a
45:10 little bit of context on Jeremiah and specifically Jeremiah 22 three. These are the words. So then
45:16 the book of Jeremiah of the Old Testament prophet Jeremiah. So Jeremiah was a confronter. That was
45:21 kind of his thing. He was always preaching the truth and he was doing it to people that didn't
45:24 really like that very much. Okay. So he was very unpopular with a lot of people. And he paid the
45:28 prize for, you know, basically preaching the truth to these people. But during Jeremiah books 21 through
45:33 23, he's confronting the nation of Judah's kings, right? He's basically telling the ruling authorities
45:39 in that place what they should and shouldn't be doing, right? He's really giving him the business.
45:43 And in verse three, he's warning these men, these strong men, these men with power, these men with
45:48 influence, right? To not use that power and influence for evil instead to protect vulnerable people.
45:55 Okay. So that's the context of that verse, but also leads into a verse that, you know,
46:00 should be fairly common to you. And that's Genesis one 27. So God created man in his own image
46:05 in the image of God. He created him male and female. He created them. That's where we get the concept
46:10 of the Amago day. We have the image of God written on our souls and on our hearts from the moment
46:16 that we were conceived, right? We're made in his image. So if someone that is being made or that is
46:24 made in the image of God is in trouble, we should protect that person. Again, going back to the
46:31 Jeremiah 22 three, this, he's basically telling these people, these people that have power,
46:36 these people that have capability to not use that capability for evil, but to use it to protect
46:42 people that aren't as powerful. And going back to the two scenarios from today and that moment on
46:48 the train, that lone woman that was being raped by a man, she was someone that deserved protection
46:53 in that moment. She has the Amago day, the image of God is on her. Someone should have
47:01 interceded to protect her, to use their power and their influence and whatever else to protect her.
47:08 The same thing to a lesser degree to the woman that was punched on the train. Someone should
47:12 have interceded because somebody with the Amago day assaulted another person with the Amago day,
47:18 right? Someone used their power, their ability to hurt someone that was weaker than them. Yes,
47:25 I'm referring to this woman being weaker than this man. And that is true in general as well.
47:30 I know we're not allowed to say those things these days, but that is true in general as well.
47:35 And so for you, Christian men that are all too content with allowing these things to happen,
47:41 you are adding to the modern bystander effect. And that is not what God is calling you to do.
47:46 Again, I wanted to give you some context on the book of Jeremiah. So you didn't just seem,
47:50 I was like proof texting, just pulling this text out and just throwing it at you. But again,
47:54 every single person that you're ever eyeball to eyeball with is created in the image of God.
48:00 Okay, that includes the unborn. Again, it's kind of hard to be eyeball to eyeball with the unborn.
48:05 But I think you get the whole idea. A lot of you guys are very willing to flame online or to go
48:13 stand outside of abortion mills and you know, you know, condemn what people are doing in there.
48:16 And God bless you for doing that. But if someone was being assaulted and you could intervene,
48:20 you would just navel gaze. You twiddle your thumbs. You might even pull your phone out and start
48:27 recording. So I want us to adjust our focus and adjust our outrage and again, to embrace the sheep
48:33 dog mindset. Because if you're going to be a rugged Christian, if you're going to live the life
48:38 that we call men to live to cultivate spiritual, mental and physical resilience on a daily basis,
48:43 one of the outworkings of that is you being willing to intercede, being ready to intercede
48:47 and actually following through if the moment arises. Okay, you guys got to think through that.
48:52 And if you're unwilling to do that, you need to make some adjustments, serious adjustments
48:56 and right now. All right, guys, before we let you go, we are going to do a quick resilience boost
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49:07 episode 135 of this podcast that someone I talked about earlier in the show. And that is my interview
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49:48 are in the description. I'm your host, Kyle Thompson. Remember, keep pushing back darkness,
49:54 keep forging spiritual, mental and physical resilience. Keep seeking the lion of Judah.
50:18 Bye.
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