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THE FORGING TABLE | Romans 1:16-17 (Ep. 831)

October 26, 2025 1h 6m Full transcript available
THE FORGING TABLE | Romans 1:16-17 (Ep. 831)
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In this episode of The Forging Table, we dive deep into Romans 1:16-17, unpacking the power of the gospel and the righteousness that comes from faith. We confront the reality of our depravity and the importance of not being ashamed of the truth of Christ's sacrifice.
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0:00 [Music]
0:20 This is Undaunted Life a Man's Podcast. I'm your host Kyle Thompson. Let's get into it.
0:26 Welcome back to the forging table. The mission of Undaunted Life is equipping men to push back
0:30 darkness with content that forges spiritual, mental, and physical resilience. At the forging
0:34 table, you'll see a group of regular guys forging spiritual resilience by digging into God's word
0:37 and we're welcoming all of you to come along on that journey with us. Howard, thanks again for
0:40 being with us. And then we got a couple of OGs in the house. We got Matt and Ryan,
0:44 but you two knuckleheads have not recorded together in a while. Are you going to be able to behave?
0:49 Like that's kind of the main concern. That's been my concern all week because Ryan, you're having
0:54 to step in because I made a little bit of a scheduling snap. So you're stepping in on short notice,
0:57 but you did just teach on this in Sunday school like three days ago. But are we going to be okay?
1:01 I mean, y'all are crossing each other. You can kind of feed off of each other's energy. Are you
1:04 touching toes under the table? We don't have a camera now there. So we can't see yet. So my
1:09 wife walked, watched me walk out of the house a second ago and she's like, I've never seen such
1:13 a big smile on your face. And she's like, what are you excited about? I was like, I get to go
1:16 on the forging table with the grass mire spent like over a year. She's like, I figured you were
1:20 because you told me that twice. It's a thing. Yeah. I was like, man, it's my brother. I haven't
1:25 been on the on the floor table. Define behave. Yeah. Well, see, y'all have like this language
1:32 between the two of you. I feel like you got like this sense, like, which is weird because you and
1:36 I have known each other about four times, five times as long as you and Ryan have it. We don't
1:40 quite have that connection. So I'm just wondering, is it, is this election connection? Like what
1:45 exactly is that? That's exactly what it is. It's an election connection. And I think that's a good
1:48 election. That would be interesting to you that watch the last batch. We did find out that Jake
1:53 Winkler is the biggest pro wrestling fan on the planet. And to this day, not like when he was a kid.
1:59 And so his tag team, the him and his buddy were on as, I don't know if y'all know this yet,
2:04 vicious and delicious were the two things. And then we had a couple of other names like I decided
2:10 to be I think I was pernicious or superstitious or something like that. So we've got a bunch of
2:14 other names. So bold dishes. That's incredible. But the cool thing about this, Ryan, is I think
2:19 we can fit well, we'll get a vote, right? So you don't get to vote, right? But we'll take a vote
2:24 between us three. Do we officially want to retire the giving Ryan crap for the cologne thing and
2:29 then pick up the mantle of giving Winkler crap for the pro wrestling thing? Yeah, because the thing
2:34 is is that's something that works whether Winkler is on the forging table or not on it. And so,
2:38 but I, you know, what are what are our thoughts here? I think two things can be true at the same time.
2:42 Okay. And it's not necessary to retire one to then proceed to the other.
2:47 There's one argument. Howard. It's all about situations. Okay. When the situation comes,
2:52 the phone comes for it. Okay. All right. Well, I think we'll get a good scent of it.
2:56 No, sorry. You don't get a vote. I don't know. I'm not wanting to vote. I have a confession
3:00 to make. Oh, what's your essence? Boy. I didn't put one on. I have no essence right now.
3:07 Prove it. Wait. Come here. Wait. There. So hold on. It smells like a shirt, guys. You didn't.
3:13 Yeah. You didn't gotta be residual. You didn't put cologne on. So there's no aroma to smell.
3:18 Speaking of aroma, Rome is where we're headed today. That's the Grassmeyer connection.
3:24 You haven't had to feel one of those in a while. What's that? Grassmeyer? No, I have to do the
3:30 Grassmeyer connections now. It's the transition. Transition. Yeah. Grassmeyer is great at transition.
3:35 He is. But yes, speaking of aroma, I don't have any essence. So we're going to have to listen to
3:40 the essence of Paul. Well, but wait, no, we got to back up just a little bit. Why? I prematurely
3:45 transitioned. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Democrats would prefer that you do that. But like, no,
3:50 seriously, like, so you do it for Sunday school. You do it for. I do have the going out to the
3:56 grocery store, Colone. Yes. You don't have a forging table, Colone? No. I was at work and I
4:01 got done with work. And I just went and put on the shirt real quick because I want to be too fancy.
4:06 And I totally forgot to... Essence up. Yeah. But the thing is, now this is two batches of
4:15 forging table recordings in a row. And no one has made mention of it. But I wanted there to be like
4:22 an official scent of the studio. And so I got a diffuser and I got like some different essential
4:28 oils and I bought like a pack of them, like a man packer, right? And so, you know, smell like
4:33 seven or eight of them and all that. And so this sweet tobacco is officially the scent of the studio.
4:40 But no, so that's... We're getting a little bit of essence from the little diffuser behind it.
4:43 No, I didn't want to take away from the essence that you brought. Yeah, you don't want to add like
4:47 double essence. But like... Well, I didn't want to be like, man, you smell better than that sweet
4:51 tobacco I bought. Well, it's... That'd be hard to overpower the smell. This is pretty... Yeah, it's
4:55 pretty thick. So for you being like a connoisseur of scents, what are your... Dude, I'm such a
5:01 review. The better question is, is this a... Is this a cologne you'd wear? Oh, yeah. I mean,
5:05 I think what's his name? So then Kyle Naylor is a sweet tobacco. No, it's a... I've been like a
5:11 purveyor of scents. I don't know for how long... I used to have these things that you would put on
5:15 your light bulb and then you would put oil in it. And it would like give you scents like before they
5:22 had diffusers and all that stuff. Like, I wasn't like burning patchouli or anything like that,
5:26 but there was... There was one scent that was pretty funny. It was that bed... Bed-bad? Bed-bad
5:32 beyond. No, the bath and body works. It was an Elton John scent. It smelled really good.
5:37 I was like, "Man, your house smells really good." I was like, "Yeah, it's Elton John."
5:41 Are you setting me up to say a joke that'll give me cancer? No, dude, Elton John is a great
5:46 artist. And that's... I'm going to leave it at that. Yeah. And he picks some pretty good scents.
5:51 Man. So wait, how long have you been a purveyor of scents? Of colognes or scents?
5:56 Dude, I got my first set of colognes. I was like six years old. Well, you got it for my birthday.
6:01 Have you smelled that bad for that long? No, man, I think it's just a bit like a six year old colognes.
6:06 That's a message. Yeah. Maybe I did. Maybe I smelled bad. I don't know.
6:10 My seven year old smells bad, so I could see him needing some colognes at a time.
6:14 You're my 10 year old. I'm like, "Did you put on deodorant?"
6:17 Yeah. I'm like, "Nah, you're lying." You need to put more on. Man. You depraved center.
6:22 Do you remember what it was? When you were six? I don't. I remember it was two of them. There
6:27 was a yellow bottle and a pink bottle. I'm stetson. I'm stetson for women. No, it was probably like
6:32 powdery or something. Who knows? I can't remember. But my dad was always in the colognes. Like,
6:36 he had the cool water, which we smelled here. Yeah. Let's bring me back to like the 90s.
6:40 Yeah. I also regret that entirely because I tried to spray it on myself because I found a little
6:45 travel bottle of cool water that moved into this house with me and hadn't moved out of the drawer
6:49 in my bathroom. Oh my goodness. And I sprayed it on me for one of the recordings and I got a headache
6:53 so bad. Like, I had to change my shirt like after that recording. Yeah. That was ridiculous.
6:58 Yeah. I thought it was a little too much. I mean, it just permeated the cool water.
7:01 Wait, when is that from? Is that the 90s? Yeah, it had to be in the 90s. Okay.
7:05 I haven't worn cologne in over a decade. It's been a very long, that forging table was probably
7:11 the last time. I like cologne. Guys, it's just a weird thing. No, I like your purveyor of clones.
7:17 And you know, just as Paul was a purveyor of the gospel. Yes. We should probably get into that.
7:21 Let's do it. I think I want to just keep extending this out. You're going to have time.
7:26 We went, we went on the wrestling thing for like 30 minutes. Like, because we had to get to
7:32 worth it, get to bedrock here. But the last batch, we got two Romans, 116. So just a reminder to the
7:38 folks in the audience, or I'll talk to you wherever you are, this camera, that camera, this camera,
7:42 that camera. We're approaching Romans a little bit differently, or quite a bit differently. And so,
7:48 the cadence of the forging table up to this point has been basically a chapter an hour. So,
7:52 whether we're in Nehemiah or Matthew or Acts or whatever, we're basically doing a chapter an hour.
7:57 But we just felt kind of the weight of Mount Everest is matching. They're called it the weight
8:02 of this epistle. And so we all collectively agreed that we were going to go with Romans where it was
8:08 like, we're just going to see how far we get in an hour. And we're just going to discuss what
8:11 we discuss. We'll feel free to go down rabbit holes. If we find something funny to key in on,
8:16 we can do that as well. And so in eight hours of recordings up to this point, we basically got
8:21 two slash through Romans, 116. And so today we're going to start in 16 and 17. So we'll basically
8:29 take those on together. And then we'll get in our discussion about that. So Howard, if you would,
8:34 please read Romans 1 16 and 17 and let everybody know what version you read. I'm reading the ESV.
8:41 All right. We're going to start in 16 for I am not ashamed of the gospel for it is the power of
8:46 God for salvation to everyone who believes to the Jew first and also to the Greek for in it,
8:52 the righteousness of God is revealed from faith to faith, as it is written, the righteous. The
8:57 righteous shall live by faith. So the in there, the righteous shall live by faith. You know,
9:03 righteous or just is another transition or translation of that. And so that's referring to Habakkuk 24,
9:09 which is behold, his soul is puffed up. It is not upright with him, but the righteous shall live
9:15 by his faith. And so as I mentioned, I believe I mentioned last week, when we talked about this,
9:20 I mean, these were breakthrough verses, these two for Martin Luther, really enabled him to see
9:26 grace through faith. And so for his money, these are the two verses that were the punchiest and
9:32 the most impactful for him to, you know, become a Christian. And I've seen other people put it
9:36 this way. I don't know if it was the ESV expository commentary through crossway. They said, if you
9:43 had to have a central theme of the epistle, it's these two verses. This is the the central the
9:49 essential theme and really the whole idea of being unashamed of the gospel and how it attaches to,
9:54 you know, Jesus will be ashamed of us before God if we're ashamed of him before man. So we see that
9:59 Mark eight in Luke nine. So guys, this is your first foray into Romans. We're digging deep. Ready
10:05 to go. The word is shamed. You know, that that speaks a lot. I think the one of the first books I
10:12 read by John MacArthur was called ashamed of the gospel. And it just kind of talked about, you know,
10:17 how Paul is not ashamed of the gospel. And you if you if we go out right now, and we want to talk
10:23 about the gospel, and we want to talk about Christ, it's not a very great subject all the time.
10:28 But back during his time, it wasn't even any better. And so for him to stand out there and say,
10:33 I am not ashamed of the gospel. I am not ashamed of this, that Christ died for my sins and rose from
10:40 the dead so that I can stand righteous before a holy God. I mean, not a lot of people are going to
10:46 be like, Oh, you know, like, you know, like, they think it's crazy. You just think a guy just
10:51 resurrected. And then he talks about the power of it and the power that he uses do on us,
10:55 which is where we get our word dynamite. And so the power of the gospel, he knows it.
11:01 He's not ashamed of it. And he's willing to stand out on a on a corner and preach it. He's putting
11:07 it in a letter. But it also made me think of things like now, like where churches feel like
11:14 the gospel needs a publicist or a, you know, needs to be juiced up or churned up and everything.
11:22 And like, does that go to show the shame that we have? Is the gospel not powerful enough in itself
11:28 that we think we have to make it better or we can make it better than God's already made it?
11:33 I think it does. Yeah. Yeah. And I feel like we're seeing that now, you know,
11:38 and I feel like that's the time when we have like some of us need to stand up in our church
11:41 and be like, I'm not ashamed of what this message actually means. We don't need to sugar coat it
11:46 and we don't need to make a new new, we don't need a gospel. We don't need to twist it. You know,
11:55 like, you know, trying to solve for that. Yeah. You know, like you can't make it any better
12:01 and quit trying to sugarcoat it. And I feel like that's what we're getting.
12:03 I think part of that is it's like the gospel in a certain sense is a double edged sword.
12:08 Like it is very for the nonbeliever. It is very cutting because in the gospel, there is this
12:16 like the good news can only come if there's bad news. Yes. Yeah.
12:22 So I think part of that is trying to like walk around the like condemnation that people fall
12:32 under just naturally. So I think there's a little bit of that. The thing that stands out to me about
12:37 that verse is there's a lot of weight that's there, right? Like I'm not ashamed of the gospel in that
12:42 world saying that you weren't that you were putting your faith in a crucified deity.
12:49 Like who, you know, like very shamefully died as a ride as a yeah as a thief. And to put that out
12:58 there, he's like, I'm, I'm, I'm putting this. This is like my line in the sand. I'm putting this on
13:03 paper. Like I don't care who sees it there. There's a lot of weight to that. And I think 2,000 years
13:09 later, it's a lot, it's a lot different weight. But there still is a sense like Ryan was saying,
13:15 like of people being ashamed of that message. But for Paul, it was like, yeah, yeah, you say
13:21 that I worship a God who who died like a thief, but I'm okay with that.
13:25 Well, we have to remember this is the same Paul that traveled to rebuke Peter to his face before
13:31 the Jerusalem Council, right? Because Peter was saying, yeah, grace your faith. Plus, you know,
13:38 the Judaizers, the circumcision party had influenced him to where it's like, yeah, yeah, but also
13:42 keep all the Jewish laws and traditions and things like that. And we see by the time of the
13:46 the first Jerusalem Council that Peter had kind of fallen in line. But as you were saying that,
13:50 Ryan, I thought about, I think everybody at this table respects Vody Bockum to an extreme degree.
13:55 One of one of the most sticky things that he's ever said, he was talking exactly about this point
14:01 about not being ashamed of the gospel, but not trying to change it. So it's more acceptable.
14:05 But the way that he said it is, and I'll probably get some of the details wrong,
14:09 but the gist will be the same. He said there was a dad walking his son through a strawberry field,
14:13 and the son had access to all the strawberries and he could just pick them right off the where
14:17 they own vines or plants, strawberry plants, we pick some, takes a bite, picks them, takes the bite.
14:21 It's just the freshest, most pure strawberry taste that this kid had ever experienced.
14:27 But then the father started giving his son artificial strawberries, strawberry pop tarts,
14:33 strawberry soda, strawberry candy, like these types of things. And he got so used to the
14:39 artificial strawberry taste that when the son went back to the field and picked a strawberry
14:44 and ate it, he didn't like the taste anymore. Like his taste buds had been changed and molded
14:49 in a way to to be a fan more so of the counterfeit than the real thing. And so one of the things
14:55 guys when, you know, pastors listening to this or people that go to churches where they try to
15:00 change and adjust and sweeten or, you know, move the gospel in a certain direction,
15:06 you might be selling people on a false gospel that may seem sweeter to them. But it's the same
15:11 thing, like, what do you think these companies that make things like Doritos and Skittles and all
15:15 that? They're engineers more than they're, you know, they're not farmers, right? They're trying to,
15:20 you know, override your sensors, your senses to basically go to your pleasure receptors
15:26 and get you to continue coming back to the bag until you finish it. And that's not exactly
15:31 something that's going to go well for you in terms of your bodily health, but certainly not
15:35 if you have it in a spiritual context as well. You bring up sweetness and sweetness is something
15:39 that the gospel brings once you kind of realize it. But I think Luther said it best that if the
15:44 gospel is preached accurately and passionately, it will bring conflict. You know, it's going to
15:50 bring conflict. Why? Because when we go into the next part of 17, we're going to talk about righteousness.
15:56 And when we have righteousness, that's going to bring conflict. It's not going to be,
16:00 it's not going to be as sweet as we think it's going to be until we realize who we are.
16:03 I was going to say one of the commentaries I was listening to or reading it talked about
16:09 when we disintegrate the facts of the gospel, it loses its effectiveness, right? We actually
16:15 lose the gospel. And so, you know, that's the piece for us that, you know, if it truly does hurt
16:21 when we talk to people about it, then it's going to be effective. But if we're afraid to
16:26 leave those edges on it, then it loses its power. And we kind of think in our society,
16:31 like we've talked about with churches, like in our own conversations, are we willing to push the
16:37 boundary with some people? I think we tend to think that we know better. And that goes back to the
16:41 garden, right? Did God really say, and we want to put our own spin on it, or we want to, you know,
16:48 we want to take a poll at the church. And I think I've said this before, like we want like,
16:54 churches, and a lot of them are very commercialized, and they're very like focused groups. Yeah,
17:01 focus groups. We want to serve the customer and who's the customer. And I heard a preacher say this
17:07 one time, and I don't know who it is. So I don't know who to attribute this to, but the church has
17:12 got it half right, but all wrong. Like we want to be consumer focused, but who's the consumer of
17:17 church? Who is the consumer of our worship? And that's God. And we've turned that, and we'll talk
17:21 about that later in Romans, is we've turned that back to the congregation. What does a congregation
17:26 want to hear? And I think that's where a lot of that comes from, is where we twist the gospel,
17:31 where we add to it, it's we want to make it sweeter and more digestible for our congregants, so they'll
17:38 keep coming back. But well, and we don't want to let the Holy Spirit do its work. Well, man, I remember
17:44 John MacArthur, who's wonderful study Bible, you have right there in front of you, where the notes
17:49 take up four fists of the page and the actual scripture takes up the rest. But I remember him
17:53 talking about I could give, I could not give a care less about what a nonbeliever wants in a worship
17:59 service, because it's not for the nonbeliever, right? And so again, that's that's an indictment
18:05 of the seeker sensitive model. And you know, we've, we've elucidated some of the problems of the
18:09 seeker sensitive model at this table. And I've done so on my solo episodes as well, to where it's
18:14 like, you know, what you win them with is what you'll have to keep them with. And so if you win them,
18:18 with, you know, at the movies and giving away a PlayStation night and blah, blah, blah, like that
18:23 kind of stuff, it's like, well, they're going to keep wanting bread and circuses. And that's going
18:28 to be problematic. The more that you go. What's the what's what you win them to, or what you win
18:33 them with is what you win them. So there's always expecting that, and it's got to be leveled up
18:37 over and over. And at some point, you, there's no more lights and no more smoke machines. Like,
18:42 it can't get any more extreme. So I was, I was thinking through this, and I'm going to read it
18:46 because I wrote this down. It was just kind of how I was thinking through all this. I said,
18:49 how many times in faith, business, sports, or even relationships, have we seen a leader who has been
18:54 there, stop and share his confidence with others around them, spurring them on. It gives the others
18:59 the encouragement and determination they need, or the faith that what they have in front of them
19:04 can be achieved. Paul here is that leader, coach, pastor, he's fired up, and he's not fired up
19:09 because of his abilities, but because of the confidence of the gospel. Right. And I think that's
19:14 that piece that, you know, if we see that and, and leaders in our church and our small groups,
19:20 it gives us that, that fire and that passion. And it's in, in the gospel, not in ourselves and
19:26 our abilities, like Paul here. So it's like, what are we tethered to, right? Are we tethered to the
19:31 truth of the gospel? Are we tethered to? So I've talked about this before, and don't lose your
19:35 thought, john it down on my paper. But like, you know, when, when Kelsey and I, and we were not at a
19:42 super mature place in our faith when we did this, but when we had decided that, you know, we maybe
19:46 needed to look for a new church, we had been a life church, Kregorshel's church for over a decade.
19:51 And we just since that there was, you know, something that we needed, and we didn't really
19:55 want to do the church shopping thing because that didn't feel right either. But we did, we went and
19:59 tried out probably half a dozen churches in our area. And then there was no clear decision,
20:04 like, oh, this is the place where we felt like God was calling us to go. And so we just got on a
20:08 whiteboard. And we just, you know, one to five, we would rate each church on preaching music,
20:15 location, kids program, like we had a bunch of different things. And we each gave our own scores,
20:20 and then we averaged them up. And then it was a tie between live church and faith Bible.
20:25 And then she basically was like, I trust you, you know, you were, you're going to make the right
20:29 call, the, you know, did whatever you think. And what ended up doing it for us, which is not my
20:34 point is that the kids program at faith Bible was substantial and very biblically based,
20:40 whereas the kids program at live church was let's see just how much we can entertain them
20:44 and keep them entertained while the adults go to adult things. And so for us, there was a depth
20:50 there that we wanted that wasn't going to come through how much our ears were tickled and how
20:55 entertained we felt when we left. And so I think there's a lot of people, even if you go back to
21:00 the early church, the first century church, like there wasn't one person giving a message.
21:05 There wasn't one person leading the worship. Like it was, it was more of a communal thing,
21:10 right? And so we try to do that now with kind of like home groups or life groups or
21:14 disciple groups or whatever you want to call them. And I'm pro all those things. But it's non participatory,
21:20 which I think becomes problematic for people when they are in a consumeristic culture,
21:25 where they are completely content with sitting on their hands. Now if that pastor that is, you know,
21:31 if they're sitting in their church and they're non participatory, if that pastor is tethered to
21:36 Romans one 16 and 17, that's a pretty good setup. But if they're tethered to some type of prosperity
21:42 gospel or a me centric theology that God is about me specifically and everything's about me glory
21:48 and how I can be glorified because God's glorifying me. Like I'm David or something.
21:52 Yeah, yeah, like if you're David in the story of David and Goliath, but yeah, I think that's a
21:59 problematic thing. It's like where, like when guys ask me what kind of churches they should go to,
22:03 it's like, man, are they expositing the word? Like are the men involved? You hear male voices,
22:09 right? You know, that's again, one of my issues with with modern worship is when you keep singing
22:13 songs that don't have parts, like a man's voice typically isn't going to be represented because
22:18 the key that most of the songs are sang in or a key that a lot of men can't reach. And so they
22:24 become non participatory. And so and again, if we're worship is like theology and motion,
22:29 right? And you should be singing what you believe as a congregation, I think looking in on the
22:34 worship worship is where a lot of people get their theology. It's been said that you sing your
22:41 heresies before you believe them. And if your worship music isn't theologically based or based
22:46 in biblical truth, and it's all about feeling and a lot of worship is just I want to I want to
22:53 because like there's a there's a code, there's a template that you can you can get the goosebumps,
22:59 you can get the people feeling really good. And that's great. But if it's not if it's not based
23:04 in the Bible and it's not based in good theology, again, you will sing your heresies before you
23:08 believe in it won't be long before you believe them. And then that's good. You start to question
23:11 stuff. I like that. I like them. A cathart quote theology creates a doxology, right? And
23:17 Sunday we were singing at church and it's like we're studying Romans and Mark talks about the gospel
23:22 and just some of the words that they're singing. I've been put a couple of them down in here where
23:26 it's just like, gosh, this is just this is theology right here. And it does it. It just makes you feel
23:33 there's always one song that they sing. I think it's a Cody card song that always got me. I think
23:39 it was Christ be magnified, but he says, I will not be formed by feelings. Yeah. And I'm like, man,
23:44 that is such a powerful statement in today's church society. Like how many churches are formed
23:50 by feelings? Oh, you know, I mean, like, I think you made a great observation in the fact that
23:55 you're like, Hey, I can take, you know, take my kids to live church and they'll be entertained.
23:59 But like how much of their real service was a lot like their kid service? It's just there to entertain.
24:04 Yeah, it's a derivative form of the same thing. And again, look, guys, there seem to be
24:10 roles for different kinds of churches. So if I were to steal man, the, you know, the life
24:16 church example, since I name name them specifically, like that is baby church, that starter church,
24:22 and I don't mean that derisively. That's like, if you desperately need milk, if you were a child
24:28 in your faith, my goodness, that's a great place to go. Absolutely. Not a great place to grow. That's
24:33 that's the difference. And you know, Craig has said publicly before that he's, you know, he'll
24:37 get into the deeper things of theology once everybody starts doing the simple things, right? That's
24:41 like, that's a crutch. Like that's not really like a bunch of new believers. And that's not your job,
24:46 right? Your job is not to do that. Your job is to lead the flock. And so the thing is, is a lot of
24:53 people have graduated. And you know, think of the church in your community, maybe the first church
24:57 you went to a lot of people have graduated to churches that have seemingly more reverence for
25:02 the word of God would prefer to go deeper in the word of God. They're not figuring out their life
25:07 lesson sermon series and then back into scripture, they're letting the scripture kind of drive the
25:12 train. And again, like, don't don't get what we're not saying because sometimes people are like,
25:17 Oh, you guys, you know, just you want to poo poo on different ministries that you don't understand
25:20 to be careful. You might be castigating people that God has ordained and all that. And yeah,
25:24 I think we should all be careful with that. I mean, I don't need you to be my lifeguard. So chill out
25:28 guy, write me random emails. But at the same time, like, I think it's important for us to point out
25:33 when something, if you have been going to milk church for 10 plus years, that's not good for your,
25:40 your faith development, it's not good for your sanctification process. It puts you kind of in a
25:44 place of arrested development to where it's like, I'll put it, I'll put it to you this way and don't
25:48 don't like and feel you chomping at the bit. I can, I can see it. I can see it. Hey, we have our own
25:53 nonverbal language too. Okay, it's not just you two. But like, so the way that we've approached Romans,
25:59 right, which was just an idea that I think the Holy Holy Spirit gave me the depth of study,
26:04 right? It's not just, Oh, look, I've filled up my notes page and how how cool am I? But
26:09 the depth of understanding of the word of God in three months worth of snails paced through Romans
26:16 is substantial. And so if you think about a sermon series where Romans is mentioned,
26:22 or if you think about like MacArthur or Piper, where they spend four, five, six, seven years
26:29 in the book of Romans, right, you buy RC sprulls, Romans in a year forces you to go slower. So good.
26:34 I mean, my goodness, like it's, it's so, it's so substantial. And it's like, that is where you get
26:39 the deep roots of faith. I think the difference between some of those churches. And I think, I mean,
26:44 I get, I get what you're saying, we don't want to, you know, poo poo on all these churches, but
26:49 it's not very loving to hope and pray that you're bringing people in to the family and hope that they
26:58 either, you know, get it here or they get it outside or they graduate to another church,
27:03 because that's, I don't think that's what pastors are called to do. They're, you're called to
27:07 disciple and just, just as the Bible, if you look at it kind of a 30,000 foot view, it is
27:14 God discipling the human race from infancy to adulthood. And there's a lot of growing up that
27:22 happens, but he's discipling us as a, as a big, you know, whole human race. He's discipling us
27:29 all throughout history. Sorry, I was, it was a say is, actually, I don't even remember what I was
27:35 going to say now. Dang it, Ryan. I know I did. It's all good. You make your point. Yeah, sure,
27:40 Ryan hop on in. I thought he was done. Ruin grass fires time at the table. Go for it.
27:44 No, I came here. So I keep grass bar quiet. Yeah. You've done terrible job so far. Yeah,
27:50 grass fires. A lot of good stuff comes from, it just made me think back at a church. Like,
27:54 you know, we're talking about, you know, we don't want to poo poo on churches. And I don't want to
27:58 either. It just comes out naturally. It's, it's that cage stage I was in, I guess.
28:04 No, but, um, it made me think back at a church that I was going to when I was a young believer.
28:09 I don't, I wouldn't even call myself a believer at that time. I was just going through the motions.
28:13 And, um, when I look at what Paul says right here that I'm not ashamed of the gospel for,
28:18 it's the power of God salvation to everyone who believes. That's a call to action.
28:22 And I remember the pastor got us all together and he's like, Hey, we need to bring in more
28:27 fathers on Father's Day. What's some ideas that you have? And like everybody's coming up with
28:32 ideas for giveaways that we were talking about or doing this. They ended up going with like a
28:36 20 minute service. And I'm like, I'm like, man, you know, your, your idea was to limit lower the
28:44 expectations for the men. And that's like, as, as I was growing past this church, I hate to put
28:52 it that way, but I feel like I was, I kind of noticed this is like, man, Father's Day is that
28:56 call to action. You know, the Father's Day is how you get the Father's end and you preach the gospel
29:00 and you preach what it is to be a godly man and to shepherd your family. And if you can't shepherd
29:06 your church, how are us men going to be able to shepherd in our families? And so that's one thing
29:12 that we have to look for is like, I'm not here for a TED talk on a Friday, like our pastor is a
29:17 wonderful pastor. And just watching how he shepherds the church and how our pastors shepherd our
29:22 church makes me want to shepherd my family better. But it also makes me not ashamed of what the gospel
29:28 is. Like as Paul said, like follow me as I follow Christ. That's what your pastor should be doing.
29:32 I remember I was going to say the guys like MacArthur who got it. And I was laid on the
29:38 MacArthur train. I, I, a good friend of mine, turned me on to John MacArthur back in 2020.
29:45 And that was a big theological, that was part of a big theological shift for me.
29:49 But guys like MacArthur understand that it's not about butts and seeds. It's about
29:57 what A.W. Tozer said in that the most important thing about you is what you think about God.
30:03 And the, the beauty of Romans is there's so much theological depth that you can teach through and
30:10 you can, you can go through and teach people about God and make sure that they have a right
30:18 understanding of his word and his, and his love for us. And like you look at a guy like MacArthur
30:26 and you go, man, that guy just, all he did was, he just oozed the gospel. He just oozed the word.
30:32 He wielded that sword and he didn't care who he was. If people were upset with that,
30:37 and you can agree or disagree with a lot of stuff, and I don't agree with everything that,
30:41 that MacArthur says. Yeah. But man, but he went, he was, his wagon was hitched to the right thing,
30:47 right? That's right. I knew where you were going.
30:49 I know he's hitched to both tests. One is the other thing. So, um, after he passed,
30:54 I knew him and RC Sproul had an interesting friendship and relationship, but I had never
30:58 really seen a bunch of clips of the two of them interacting, but for whatever reason,
31:02 the algorithm is just, you know, throwing them at me. And RC Sproul gave Johnny Mac
31:08 maybe the best possible compliment for a pastor. And so, because I had some significant theological
31:16 disagreements on very, very core doctrinal things, not self-vific doctrine, but very core
31:21 doctrinal things. And RC Sproul, this was later in RC's life. He's got an oxygen tube and all
31:27 those different things. And he said this in front of John MacArthur, because it was like a panel
31:31 discussion. Uh, y'all probably know what, what clip I'm referring to, but he said, the thing about
31:36 John is when he and I go to the mat and over some sort of a theological issue or whatever,
31:45 if I can prove to him using the text that his position is incorrect, he will immediately
31:53 change his position based on what the Bible says, not what prior things that he believed going
31:59 into the conversation. And what that speaks to, you know, he didn't say it, but what that speaks
32:04 to is humility, intellectual honesty, and being a slave to the text. Like, and so that's one of the
32:12 things that, you know, we've all talked about as we've gotten into Romans and, you know, we've had,
32:15 we were talking about Adam off air and some different things like our churches and Ephesians
32:19 right now, forging tables in Romans. And it's like, godly, there's just some stuff here that you
32:24 really have to reckon with where, yes, the text says what it says, but that's not good enough.
32:28 Does it mean, does, do I understand what it means? Right? And can I apply it? Go ahead.
32:34 That's a huge thing. I was talking to my dad about this, but like, okay, he's like,
32:37 there, and I was just telling him, like, there were so many of these passages I was reading through,
32:42 I'm like, it's just not crystal to me yet. Yeah. Right. And he's like, that's our responsibility
32:47 as brothers to, to, you know, flush that out, right? But so many people, so many times I just go like,
32:54 and I didn't really get that. And they go on down the road. But that's our responsibility
32:58 is men to flush that out, whether it's in the church, whether it's in our home, and to truly
33:02 understand it, not just, you know, it sounded good, but not 100% sure what it understood. I mean,
33:08 they're what it meant. So my sister was asking me about election, because we went over it in
33:12 Ephesians, and she's like, I heard about that. Can you tell me some more about it? So we talked
33:16 about it. She's like, I don't understand. I was like, you're not going to understand everything,
33:21 but we can try to discuss it via the text and see where the Holy Spirit leads you.
33:24 So I tried to do that with Kyle and Adam, but they always give me like,
33:29 like, what do you want to call it? Scenarios. Yeah. Like, hey, let's see how this plays out.
33:35 Yeah. Scenarios that would happen in the Marvel movies, you know.
33:38 Well, it's kind of the same thing. It's really, it's really, so you can say something like I got
33:44 into a debate here recently with somebody that said baptism is essential for salvation, right?
33:49 And so they showed me some verses where they kind of, where they get that, they normally
33:52 go to Acts two and some different places where it's like, believe and be baptized and like,
33:56 different things like that. And so they were looking at parts of the Bible without, you know,
34:00 the story of the, of the entire text of the Bible and, you know, grace through faith, not by work
34:05 so that no man may boast, then they have to try to find an argument for how baptism is not a work
34:10 and different things like that. But, you know, using scenarios, it's like, they were, what
34:15 I needed to do is I needed to change their frame of reference to understand what they're saying
34:21 and to also understand what I'm coming from. So I said, okay, scenario. I go to my next door
34:25 neighbor and I share the gospel with him. And however you believe he arrives at it, whether he
34:31 decides or whether the Holy Spirit, you know, forced him to do it, whatever, wherever you land
34:35 on the spectrum, he says, I'm a believer, I'm going to Pestuo in Christ. I'm like, that's great.
34:41 Like I'm a Christian now, like I've given my life to Jesus. And I say, great, we got to get you to
34:47 the water as quickly as possible. Let's find the nearest church of Christ, because obviously they
34:51 have the sweetest, most holy water. And we hop in the truck and on the way there, we get T-boned,
34:56 car accident, we both die. Does he go to hell and do I go to heaven? Because we didn't get to the
35:02 water in time. And this particular person stopped engaging with me at that exact moment. They showed
35:08 intellectual cowardice and decided that they were not going to engage with the scenario,
35:12 because they were very, very strict with like, no, you have to be baptized. And then that's when
35:18 you receive your salvation. And I was like, so in a scenario like that. And so they didn't,
35:23 they didn't start making arguments about the sovereignty of God. And God obviously would not
35:26 allow something like that to happen. And you know, going into election or anything, they just
35:30 disengaged entirely. And so I think that becomes problematic. I think you told me about that argument.
35:34 There was something that you said to them that I really liked about what you bring to your
35:38 salvation. What's that? What you said, the only thing that you bring to your salvation is what?
35:42 What is that? What did you say? Remember that conversation? I think your mic's going out.
35:47 Your volume is very consistent. I said, I'll say it. I'll say it. I don't mind saying it.
35:54 We bring our sin to to our salvation. That is all I bring. He said to them, all I bring is my sin
36:00 to salvation. And I was like, in my decision to repent. So I get a little bit of vision in there,
36:06 which is again, which means it's not really yours. Yeah, which, but I was like, that was really,
36:11 really, but I offer not the gift of this pen. He gets to either take it or not. You want this pen?
36:15 You want it? Oh, and then he took the pen. He'd made an action and he accepted that pen.
36:19 Oh, that's actually a pencil. This is a pretty good pencil, by the way.
36:23 But hey, to get back to the text, what that? There's nothing special about that pen. That's like
36:27 the least special pen possible. It's green. It's beautiful. Did you bring it? Because I'm Irish?
36:31 These things like, hey, I almost brought, I almost brought a red pen, but then I didn't
36:36 want it to match your hair too much anger. And I also, I'm still a fan of the fact that you
36:41 highlight almost every word, every text, which is every word. What, what percent? Now stop Matt,
36:46 what percentage of the text here has been highlighted? That's got to be 60 percent. Yeah, that's roughly
36:52 55, 60 percent there. So just don't highlight anything. And you know, maybe it's because he can't see.
36:57 There's certain things that's got good eyes. There's certain things that I like to point out.
37:01 That's why I'm trying to. So the entire text, you got to understand when I was doing this,
37:05 I was not only doing this for Romans, I was also doing this for our our ABF.
37:09 Don't blame Sunday school. If I'm not building Sunday school, what is that?
37:13 If Ryan said that at this table, that has been banned. I was in the band work list.
37:18 ABF, what does that even mean? Public? Anybody? No, no, no, no, does anybody that doesn't go to
37:23 one church in Edmond, Oklahoma have the foggiest idea what an ABS is? Probably not.
37:27 If Ryan, if Ryan was putting together a Bible, he'd be the, every word would be read because
37:34 it should be read. It's all, it's all Jesus. It's all Jesus. It's all. Hey, somebody tell Andy
37:38 say when you speak. Speaking of that, do you know there are people that like think that
37:43 red letter Bibles aren't, should not be read? You know, that's like a thing. What do you mean?
37:47 The Bible is where Jesus is where, well, but no, no, no, like these are people that are like,
37:52 if, if you have a red letter Bible, which means the words of Jesus are printed in red instead of
37:56 black ink, they say that that's like, no, no, like you shouldn't do that at all. For me,
38:00 it's helpful. Like if I'm just going to a text real quick and it's like, oh, blah, blah,
38:04 and I'm in the middle of like the sermon on the mount or whatever, like it's just helpful for me to
38:08 be like, oh, yeah, this is Jesus talking. I think it's because you have the red letter
38:13 Christians who are always like, oh, we only follow the red letters. And then you're like,
38:18 what about Paul and the rest of the New Testament? Well, that was written by another person. I was
38:21 like, Oh, who wrote Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John wasn't Jesus, you know, like it wasn't Jesus
38:28 that wrote it all down. It was Jesus's words. Why do they think that? Like what's their argument
38:33 for? It's bad. It's not because we're to God. I think it's because showing partiality in the
38:39 text, but also therapy, it's, I think it's a response to the people that only believe in the
38:44 red letters. Anyway, that's like a thing. They're going a little over the top. It's just like the
38:48 people that don't watch the chosen. So are we going there? We made it half almost like a full
38:54 episode, but we don't need to talk about this. Why are you here? Why are you chosen? I'm like,
38:58 I'm not. I'm not a show. Watch one or two episodes. You got to get past the first three. I'm not.
39:04 I'm not a hater. He's like the, the chosen, I'm sure is a great show. And like,
39:10 you've just chosen. I've just chosen not to. But, but Paul was chosen by Christ to
39:16 I'm not letting you. Why do you hate to choose?
39:19 One question for Kyle. Oh, what's the show called again? Why are you looking at?
39:25 Why are you looking at? He's so. He's looking because Matt knows where I'm going. What's the
39:30 show called again? Oh, it's called. That was a series on the bike. It is a very great
39:35 show. Yeah. He chose. Yeah. He chose. Yeah. He chose. Yeah. He chose. Nobody would watch it.
39:41 They would have thought it was about Hillary Clinton. Oh, never got elected.
39:44 No, but so not, not a fan. No, it's not that I'm not a fan. I won. I've, I've not
39:51 just ever taken the time to watch. We don't watch a ton of TV. And if we are watching something,
39:56 it's typically like a family movie night. And so we did, you don't know how the cards and
40:01 you just know, it's probably not my little penny. Yeah. No, no, no, not my little money.
40:06 Like recently we watched the movie greater about football player.
40:11 What is his name? Bull's worth. I can't remember his first name. He's a great movie.
40:15 Yeah. That's like, that's the kind of stuff we're watching. I watch faith-based
40:18 underdog. Hey, they're making with my wife. You can watch chosen with your kids. Fair enough.
40:23 I'm hearing that I'm going to not be chosen to be on the forging table until I watch the
40:30 show. That's not what I said. But I will say that something that we talked about a lot during the
40:33 latter part of Genesis is that somebody really needs to do like a Joseph series or whatever.
40:38 They are doing it. Dallas is doing it. Dallas Jenkins and five and two studios or whatever.
40:42 They're doing a mini series about the life of Joe life of Joseph. I mean, dream work's already
40:47 made of Joseph movies. It was horrible. It's not even. Yeah. No, I watched out with the box was not
40:52 checked, Matt. Just so you know, I was a dead set against watching the chosen.
40:56 Why? I just because I then we talked about this in past episodes. I don't like
41:03 some of those things and the fact that most people would be like, I don't need to go to church and
41:07 we'll watch the chosen or they get there. Does anyone has anyone ever met that person?
41:11 I keep hearing about this person. Never met him. What is it? The person that's like, you know what,
41:16 I don't need to go to church anymore. I'm going to watch the chosen. I don't need to read my
41:19 body more. I'm going to watch the chosen. Well, they don't even read their Bible to begin with,
41:22 and then they just go watch the show. But anyone ever met this exact person? If that's your attitude,
41:26 you got bigger problems. I'd certainly. I was just saying like, that's just my thing
41:31 why I didn't want to like add to the hype. But then I watched it and it's actually really good.
41:36 Like, I think they've done a great job with it. I mean, there's again, they have to take some
41:40 liberties some places, but they don't really take liberties against the text. You know,
41:45 it's just kind of giving you idea of those barriers. Here's what I'll say. Like, I've not watched a
41:49 lot of the chosen, but it's not because I don't like I'm against the chosen. I follow plenty of
41:54 people who are very much don't watch the chosen. It is sacrilegious. It is blasphemy. You can't watch
41:59 it. I don't I don't fall in that camp. Here's what I'll say about it. As Christians, we are called
42:04 to do our work unto the Lord, and we are called to do our best in everything that we do.
42:10 And to that end, artists, movie producers, musicians, like Christian should have the best
42:18 of those. And we used to. We used to be the best builders, the best, the best hospitals. Yeah,
42:25 colleges were built. We used to be university scientists. Like we used to have the best of all
42:30 of that. So I think there's a lot of stuff that we can get mad about. The fact that this guy named
42:35 Dallas Jenkins has decided that his art form is like putting out the message of Christ, like we
42:42 shouldn't dog on that. And I think I think we need more people like Dallas Jenkins who are doing
42:48 their best art and their best work to try to bring more people. And I think he's been pretty clear.
42:54 Like I'm not this I'm not church. Like I want you to I want you to expose to the gospel. And I think
43:00 in every every there's a disclaimer for every show, like go read the basically go read the Bible. This
43:05 isn't like this isn't this shouldn't take the place of anything. But like this is an exposure
43:10 to people who may not may not know anything about Christ. They would never hear the gospel or never
43:15 have any exposure to what yeah what I've watched though throughout this series is that they're not
43:20 ashamed. Like everything that they put out there like the I don't want to give it away. But we know
43:25 when Jesus goes and turns the table. Wait he dies. Jesus dies. I really like that. I don't want to give
43:31 away. He came back. Spoiler alert. Spoiler alert. Yeah. No but I'm talking about when Jesus goes
43:36 and turns the tables. It wasn't like this little like hey guys. I got to stop doing this. And it
43:42 was an arc like it was showed the preparation. Yeah. It was like I was like I looked over at my
43:48 wife and I was like they're not playing around. Dude it was they're not playing around. I just
43:52 remember when Dallas came on the show I think it was after season three or something like that.
43:56 I asked about that. I was like hey we're going to see Jesus turn over the tables and hurt. Are you
43:59 going to do justice and all that? That's a little smart. He's just like a little smirk. And he's
44:03 like I think he'll be satisfied. And I certainly was. Dallas we were satisfied. Yeah. Very good.
44:06 Very good. I do want to come back to some here real quick. You know as we're still hanging out
44:11 in 16 and 17 in but in 16 you know where it says if where it is the power of God for salvation to
44:20 everyone who believes I didn't write down the note of where I got it. I think this was from
44:24 the sprawl commentary. But this is the first statement of grace through faith. Right. So
44:29 chronologically within the epistle this is kind of that first statement of how we get the righteousness.
44:36 And so going in I know you want to hit on this but going into verse 17 for it is the righteousness
44:40 of God. You know we kind of need to talk about the righteousness piece because the word use here
44:46 it's a positional word where it's basically like there's no debt at all. There's no liabilities.
44:51 And then it's like okay so where did the righteousness come from? And it's an imputed righteousness.
44:56 And so and you know we'll open this up and you will we'll just kind of park here for the rest
45:02 of our time. But when it starts talking about the righteousness of God is revealed from faith
45:06 for faith. That's a very interesting clause that you know we don't really talk that way.
45:12 But from faith for faith means basically we don't get righteousness. It's imputed to like we don't
45:19 earn righteousness. It's imputed to us. And we also don't maintain it by future actions. Right.
45:25 So some people are like yeah yeah grace through faith. Grace is a gift. I didn't do anything to
45:29 accept it. But now they're on the hamster wheel of trying to keep their righteousness by doing
45:35 righteous activities and they're putting their faith in the activities and the outcome of the
45:38 activities and whether or not they're moral or immoral. And they're kind of losing the thread
45:43 as they go through their sanctification process. Well that's the thing the faith your faith in
45:48 Jesus is what makes you righteous. He's the one that's going to stand before God and put himself
45:52 out there and say I count this one righteous because he believes in me. So that's what he means by
45:57 righteousness shall live by faith. And righteousness of God is revealed from faith. So if I have my
46:04 faith in Christ because I know Christ is righteous and I know Christ is the one who walked this earth
46:09 with no sin took on my sin so that I can stand righteous before God that faith alone gives me
46:15 righteousness. But what it also shows me and when we'll get into through 18 all the way to 32
46:21 is what is unrighteousness. You know why do we need Christ is righteousness and what does that do
46:27 for us? But that faith right there is the righteousness that we have. Yeah and I think on this side of
46:33 eternity we live in the already but not yet and Luther and I'll probably butcher this Latin.
46:41 Luther put it in terms. He said, "Simon will juice this and peck a tour." And I'm sorry Joby.
46:47 That's the first one of the day. We're going one in a while. We are simultaneously
46:51 justified and sinners. We are still sinners on this side of glory. And we are imputed with
46:59 his righteousness so that God sees us clothed in the righteousness of Christ. But we are still
47:05 in our human bodily form. So we are still sinners. So we are still being sanctified. And like one
47:12 thing that was insanely helpful for me is that just like salvation is past, present and future.
47:20 We have been saved. We are being saved and we will be saved. And we were saved at the cross.
47:28 Jesus took our sins on the cross and saved us. We are saved. We are being saved now in our
47:33 sanctification. And on the last day of judgment when Christ returns to bring us all home we will
47:40 finally be saved. And I think that's a really good perspective to have is that it isn't already
47:47 but not yet. And it's not in that feeling of people that use their salvation or I'm saved by
47:57 grace. So I can do whatever I want. I got to get out of jail free card. God loves me for who I am.
48:03 And that is one of the scariest places that you can be is thinking that your
48:09 church attendance or the fact that you set a prayer when you were 10 means that you have
48:15 license to do whatever. And Paul is going to obliterate that in Romans. That's what obliterated
48:21 it for me because I actually lived that type of lifestyle to the point like we I think I talked
48:27 about this in our in our Sunday school. There it is. Boom. Nailed it. So I I actually was a part
48:36 of a church and we had a group that met at my house and we would meet on Thursdays and on Saturdays
48:44 we throw parties. I mean like we party we drank we got drunk. We probably partook in drugs.
48:51 You know I'm not going to lie I smoke some weed. But um but somebody who tried to call me out about
48:57 it and I'm like man this is just who I am. You know God loves me for who I am. You know and I don't
49:03 I have grace. So you know if this is how he created me then this is okay. And like I like I got
49:12 married thinking that I had my first child thinking that. And then finally someone points me to
49:19 the Bible. Roman's probably Roman. Yeah it was Romans. And I'm pretty sure they were MacArthur
49:26 right too. But uh but I read about unrighteousness. Yeah. And I'm like oh man. And so we look at
49:33 unrighteousness and we'll go over unrighteousness. But I used to think that my righteousness came
49:38 from Christ. So that means I could do whatever I want and be who I want to be. But that's just
49:43 showing that one I don't trust in God's true righteousness because I don't want to change.
49:47 I want to live the way that I want to live and think that it's okay. But the but this here the
49:54 gospel is a call to action. And that call to action is to repent and believe and to know that my old
50:00 life is dead and my new life is in him. And sadly it took me almost like eight years nine years probably
50:07 30 years of being a believer or saying that I was a believer to finally get to this place. I was
50:12 oh go ahead. I was listening to a message talk about that same thing. You know when the Romans
50:18 in Paul's time were you know there were many gods right. And so the idea of Jesus was fine to them
50:24 until the idea of he's a transcendent God. It's just God and God alone. And so for you know to
50:30 correlate with what you're saying it's like you were fine with having God but you weren't fine with
50:34 having God the Lord of your life and turning all of that over. And so I think that's you know for
50:40 most people do they think about their unrighteousness and truly how unworthy they are. You know in
50:48 comparison to him and I got it you hear about saying like he's a he was a good person. I just I
50:54 just think of like what I'm going back to the chosen when the Gentiles come and they want to
51:01 meet with Christ and they're they're meeting with Philip and I believe Andrew and how people would
51:06 come from far off places to one see Christ or to even see Paul and Peter and hear the gospel. Like
51:14 people were coming and looking for the gospel and how much we've watered it down. You know like
51:19 now we have people that were bringing in that could be searching for it but now we water it down.
51:25 And so I'm just that's just what happened to me. It was like man I didn't see the beauty like that
51:31 people come far and wide for until my eyes were opened by him. I was gonna read this. This is a
51:37 MacArthur one and I was listening to one of his messages talk about this and it just I really I
51:42 stopped and listened to this twice but it said God characterizes men in the Bible as so willfully
51:48 ignorant purposefully self-indulgent unwilling to forsake all deep and deep and false religion
51:55 covered and directed in all they do by Satan filled with wrong motives and self-deceived
52:00 trusting in their own good deeds which are filthy rags as loving the passing things of this world
52:06 as hating the truth as proud pleasure-seeking guilty lustful creatures as such they have no
52:14 right to enter the kingdom of God and I just read that I'm like gosh I mean I'm filthy yeah how
52:20 entitled I mean we live in an age of of extreme entitlement and I don't think that it's worse or
52:26 better I couldn't say I think men is man is always felt entitled I mean that goes back to the garden
52:31 but what a sense of entitlement it must be for people to look at that and go like or be mad that
52:39 you would tell them that you're by default not just going to heaven just because you
52:44 you know hung the moon or you think you hung the moon yeah well I think as well when especially
52:49 when you get into verse 17 again we're given righteousness as a gift but it's almost like people
52:57 treat it like oh we were just found not guilty it's like that's not the same thing like being
53:02 being righteous and and being not not guilty because if you're guilty but you're found not guilty
53:08 you're like I'm playing with house money right like you know like because you know there are
53:12 situations like that out there and how people respond to to being in that type of a situation
53:17 I think is important and again when we get into the narrative of chapter one and then
53:23 verses 18 through the end of the chapter it's like he's not leaving any room for us to hide
53:29 and say that that we've we've done anything right and I mean really there's it's just
53:34 blistering until about halfway through chapter three with where he's basically calling you out like
53:40 if you're participating in immorality if you're clapping along as other people are participating
53:46 in immorality like he's not leaving any argument for you there's no legs to stand on and that's
53:52 that's why I was never really appreciated about Ray Comfort until now oh yeah he's like he always
53:58 was like man he's like he just takes him he just goes through he just goes through the 10 command
54:02 mans or he goes through what unrighteousness is and like people are like yeah that's me he's
54:06 like well he does he's basically an ostrich he's not no he's from New Zealand thing he's in New
54:10 Zealand MacArthur like Street MacArthur we basically tells you how terrible you are but it's it's a
54:14 cool New Zealand accent yeah I don't feel as bad yeah and I think he's got Kurt Cameron with him so
54:19 that's good when it takes you know the accent like all kidding aside does take a little bit of the
54:23 sting out of it for for a lot of people because if you're screaming at people you know on the sidewalk
54:27 with the southern accent or something like that's a little bit different when you have a key we
54:30 doing it but the thing that's interesting about what he does is he helps people understand total
54:35 depravity without using any theological terms or any language around it to where it's like
54:40 because you know when I talk to Matt Chandler or any of these people especially bible belt
54:44 pastors that take their shepherding job seriously they're like it is so hard to do ministry
54:51 in Dallas in Oklahoma City because you're surrounded by people that think they're saved
54:56 or saved enough because because I've heard this from people that I know and love look I believe
55:01 in God I was baptized when I was a kid I don't need anything else okay so don't talk to me about
55:07 this and you don't know like you don't have some sort of special knowledge about what it takes to
55:11 be saved like and but the thing is is they can't back up what they're saying with anything they're
55:17 not appealing to any authority other than what they believe in that exact moment as they're saying
55:22 it and so it's a it's the country music theology that I talked about a lot to where it's like grandma
55:26 and grandpa went to church and you know you were baptized as a baby and you believe in God and
55:32 you listen to country music and you you know vote republican and God likes all those things so you
55:36 get to be in the club at the end of the day and it's like brother you are depraved blackhearted
55:40 sinner I always think about what uh lady horn talked about one time where there was a gal that
55:44 she was meeting with and trying to help disciple and she's a stay-at-home mom she she crushes it for
55:50 her kids she's a great cook she was one of those gals that sat in the front row in class never gotten
55:55 any trouble with her parents was always yes ma'am yes sir like all those types of things and so that
56:00 girl was having a hard time seeing herself as a depraved sinner and she if she does go to church
56:05 she probably goes to one that makes sure the moms float out of there on mother's day feeling like
56:09 they're not even sinners you know everybody needs a friend like ray comfort so at some point in your
56:14 life you understand that you're uh a thieving line adult research you know like that's right yeah
56:21 that's all and we are we are and i like that's the hard thing to come to grips with because
56:26 we now sit in church services that tell us how good we are yeah you know god is for you got it you
56:30 know it's like god it's for you god it's for you god it's for you to change god it's for you to repent
56:34 and believe in him yeah that's what he's for he's not for you sitting there right now being happy
56:38 with who you are because you're here for a reason and if you're not here to worship god and
56:44 beauty that he's given you and shown you yeah then you're here to find out who the true god is
56:48 so paul hates paul washer i love paul washer he just sounds like he's about to cry at all moments
56:53 do you think paul so paul washer came into light to see he has famously said that when i walk into
56:59 a church i can pretty reasonably expect that only 20 percent of the professing believers are actually
57:05 saved but one of the the sermons that put him on the map back in the early 2000s and this was part of
57:10 the the restless and reformed you know trend that you know kind of sparked and was you know ignited
57:15 in the early 2000s he did a youth he did a sermon at a youth conference and he was a
57:21 cute packed arena and he's talking about depravity and how unrighteous i mean basically giving like
57:28 a you know synopsis of roman how terrible roman's how terrible we are and the entire arena starts
57:35 clapping and he stops he steps back from the mic and he goes why are you clapping i'm talking about
57:41 you yeah and the whole arena just went dead but it's like you need preachers like that you need
57:48 preachers who aren't ashamed to say that because you're gonna you're gonna wield the sword god's
57:54 gonna god's gonna do the cutting god is gonna circumcise the heart because he's the surgeon
57:59 we're just we're just tasked with wielding that sword for him because we were being obedient
58:06 the one thing i was going to say about just to what you were talking about Kyle is
58:10 we want to always be in a comfortable position and so much so many times you've talked about it
58:15 until we you know you talked about the abortion topic most people can't argue that right so
58:21 how many people are required to talk about the gospel i mean do you if you don't teach in
58:28 your class if you don't have a a forging table of guys how often do you have to get out and
58:33 defend your faith talk about your faith talk about the gospel and and you don't grow in your
58:38 strength of that and your conviction of that if you're not talking about it you know we go to a
58:42 comfortable church we we go to a comfortable coffee group that we don't we don't get into the word
58:47 and and the depth of it and have to defend it and that faith isn't going to grow if it's not pushed
58:53 outside of that comfort zone and Howard if you want to get depressed anybody listening to this if
58:57 you want to get depressed i forget y'all might know which one but it was um it's an organization that
59:02 does these these polls about what evangelicals believe i forget what the name of the maybe we
59:08 can find it before next week but um where they look at what people that are self-described
59:13 evangelicals what they believe in these people believe barna is a barna or so that barn is one of
59:20 you might be able to find it you got a couple minutes but um where you have these self-prescribed
59:25 self-described evangelicals that are like yeah there's a there's multiple ways to god and
59:29 peer research yeah well no there there was there was a different one other than pew there was a
59:35 Christian one that that did one where they were looking specifically at evangelicals are they
59:39 not no pews just a use a secular one but and so but that's the thing is but like it's Howard goes
59:45 back to kind of what you're saying to where it's like it's almost i'll throw myself under the bus
59:50 so there were things that i thought i knew were in the text and then you go and study the text
59:55 you're like oh that's not in there or oh this is in there or this is what i thought
1:00:00 and then you know adam smith and i have talked about this and we we've talked about it because
1:00:04 our pastor is going very very deep into Ephesians and we're we're doing a you know a verse or two at
1:00:09 a time and you know as as mark hitchcock our pastor has described is he's like word for word pound
1:00:15 for pound this is probably the most theologically dense like of all of Paul's epistles is Ephesians
1:00:21 because it's quick you can read in 15 or 20 minutes in one sitting but you're going through it and
1:00:26 you're just like god lee like you're having to reckon with what the text says and what it means
1:00:32 again i don't think it's good enough to say the text just says what it says because if it just
1:00:34 says what it says then everybody would agree with it right but that's where we get all these
1:00:39 different views because it's not just it says what it says it doesn't mean what i think it means
1:00:43 right there there's a difference and if you don't have a pastor that is expositing
1:00:47 and exegeting the scripture so that we can understand it it becomes problematic but guys
1:00:53 anything else on 17 before we wrap up because we're we're right up against time
1:00:56 the man i wanted to say it's the beginning but like i didn't but it's so amazing to me how
1:01:06 trinitarian the gospel is like god paul starts his greeting to the Romans talking about the father
1:01:13 son and the holy spirit and how incredible it is to think that the god we serve is a triune god
1:01:23 who's been in a loving relationship since before time didn't need us didn't need anything from us
1:01:34 decided in his will for his glory he would he would do this for us and like that to me is
1:01:46 something that is hard to reconcile but i'll never get over that the fact that every other
1:01:51 religion the god that is worshiped needs our worship it's a loan it's a god who's alone
1:01:59 who needs to create man for to love him or to serve him so we need we need to not be alone
1:02:06 or we need slaves christianity is the only religion where the god where our god needed nothing
1:02:13 because the father has been in an eternally he's eternally been loving the son and the son has
1:02:18 been eternally loving the father but in his infinite love he he he he humbled himself and came down
1:02:28 to be our salvation and that that is just incredible you can't even put words to that
1:02:35 it's so cool to spend the rest of your don't ruin it Ryan you'll spend the rest of your
1:02:37 life trying to do that that's where we're gonna leave it Ryan have a sense of the moment and
1:02:42 understand that that was the crescendo that we needed no no usure but guys we're gonna have to
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