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THE FORGING TABLE | Psalm 34 (Ep. 448)

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THE FORGING TABLE | Psalm 34 (Ep. 448)
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In this episode of The Forging Table, we dive deep into Psalm 34, exploring the themes of fear, trust, and the goodness of God. David's journey from deceit to thanksgiving serves as a powerful reminder for men to seek refuge in the Lord amidst life's challenges.
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0:48 This is Undaunted Life, a man's podcast.
0:51 I'm your host Kyle Thompson.
0:53 Let's get into it.
0:54 Welcome back to The Forging Table.
0:56 The mission of Undaunted Life is equipping men to push back darkness,
0:58 with content that forges spiritual, mental, and physical resilience.
1:01 At The Forging Table, you'll see a group of regular guys forging spiritual resilience
1:05 by digging into God's Word.
1:06 And we're welcoming all of you to come along on that journey with us.
1:09 That's Dagan, that's Eric, that's Matt.
1:10 And a little bit of a house cleaning or something from the last episode.
1:15 You might have wondered, you know, why did Matt walk in 45 minutes late
1:18 to something he knew was on the calendar?
1:20 Well, I will just tell you the reason why he showed up late was not because he's a
1:24 weird person or he's a bad person or he's a bad adult.
1:26 It's because he was being a good husband because his wife was off on a girls weekend,
1:30 you know, where they're doing some things, hanging out, like talking about whatever,
1:33 you know, check stuff, spending your money, spending, spending money and doing all that.
1:36 And so he in order to be a good husband, he wanted to make sure that she did not feel rushed
1:41 coming home on Sunday.
1:42 So the girls that she was with, they all went to church that morning.
1:45 They went to lunch, they took their time getting home.
1:47 Once they got home, you know, once she got home,
1:50 you made sure the kids were all settled and good to go and squared away.
1:52 So I forgot to mention that last time.
1:54 So can we just give Matt a round of applause for being the best husband out of all of us?
1:58 God, you're such a big deal.
1:59 Matt, gosh, I'm just feel so.
2:00 Oh, man, I so I appreciate that.
2:02 Yeah, I feel so weak in your presence.
2:03 But here's what we're going to do, guys.
2:04 We're digging into Psalm 34 today, and I just got to tell you right from the jump.
2:08 That is my favorite psalm.
2:09 When I think about the psalms, that is the one that jumps out to me.
2:13 And it might have my favorite verse in the entirety of the Old Testament.
2:16 Okay, and we'll get there.
2:17 But to set the stage for Psalm 34.
2:20 So the, I guess the title of it is taste and see that the Lord is good.
2:24 Of David, when he changed his behavior before Abimelech so that he drove him out and he went
2:28 away.
2:29 So what this is referring to.
2:30 So Abimelech, that's very likely an alternative name for Akish, which is the King of Gath.
2:36 Okay.
2:37 So Akish or Akesh.
2:38 So those are all kind of the same things.
2:40 Everyone basically agrees that King of Gath, Akish and Abimelech are the same person.
2:44 And what this is referring to is a story in 1 Samuel, Samuel 21 verses 10 through 15,
2:49 where King David, right?
2:50 He feigned being crazy.
2:52 Like that he was a mad man, that he was losing his mind, you know, fuming out the mouth.
2:55 And in this story, he feared the King of Gath more than he feared God.
2:59 That's why he did this.
3:00 It was all an act, you know, it was, it was to basically save his life.
3:04 And the interesting thing about that is he did this whole charade before Abimelech in
3:09 Gath, which is the hometown of one Goliath, right?
3:14 So this is after he had hit Goliath in the face with a rock and then took Goliath's own
3:18 sword and chopped his head off and held it up and showed it to everybody.
3:21 This is in Goliath's hometown, right?
3:24 So imagine killing the, the everyone's favorite son of a particular hometown and now you're
3:29 in that hometown.
3:30 Okay.
3:31 So I'm not saying, obviously I'm not co-signing what he did before the king and basically
3:35 lying via fiat, but this was a very important thing and this kind of gives you an interest
3:39 as to kind of why he did that.
3:41 But at the time of the writing of the 34 Psalm, David is living in a cave.
3:46 He's hiding.
3:47 He's being chased.
3:48 His men are with him.
3:49 So we, we think there's about 400 of his own soldiers that are there with him.
3:53 So he's not alone, but gosh, this, this psalm is just dripping with fear and just you can
4:00 feel the situation that he's in, but at the same time, the theme of Psalm 34 is Thanksgiving
4:07 for God's protection for those who trust him.
4:11 And really the foundation of the psalm is that, but again, we know this in light of what
4:17 he did before Abimelech.
4:18 Again, thanksgiving for God's protection for those who trust him.
4:21 He didn't trust him, which leads us to where we get this psalm here.
4:25 So I just want to read the first three verses and then we'll kind of go out from there.
4:29 I will bless the Lord at all times.
4:31 His praise shall continually be in my mouth.
4:34 My soul makes its boasts in the Lord.
4:36 Let the humble here and be glad, oh, magnify the Lord with me and let us exalt his name
4:41 together.
4:42 So a few things are so much there in those first three verses, but the very first thing
4:46 is he's pre-deciding that he will bless the Lord.
4:48 I'm a big fan of pre-decision, like you don't decide in the moment whether or not you're
4:52 going to throw your hand in your pants and you look at porn, like you pre-decide that
4:55 you're not a person that does that.
4:57 So he presides that he's going to bless the Lord, but then also in verse two, he's boasting
5:02 in the Lord and not anything that he's doing, right?
5:04 So you know, he's going to boast in the Lord.
5:06 So that's a big thing for a lot of guys.
5:08 And then in the third thing, worship is contagious.
5:11 So I'll magnify the Lord with me again in a cave with 400 of his other guys that would
5:15 give up their life to save his life.
5:17 So again, I feel like I've taken too much time because I'm so getting excited to talk
5:20 about the 34 song, but anything in terms of foundational work on the 34 song that y'all
5:25 would want to add or hopping into the first three verses ready, set it up.
5:27 Yeah, I was just going to say, you know, David really didn't have much to boast about him.
5:31 He was acting like a mad man, like a crazy guy.
5:34 So there's that and I was just thinking like when we were going through this just several
5:41 weeks ago in our Sunday school class, we're talking about the word Ebenezer.
5:46 And it looks to me like this.
5:48 So just so you know what Ebenezer is, it's first Samuel seven is when it kind of comes
5:55 up and what it is is it's taking something to kind of help remind you of something that
6:00 God has done.
6:01 So maybe a rock or whatever, build an altar.
6:05 It's something that then anytime you see it or walk by it or whatever, you can be children
6:09 or like, well, what is that, you know, that you have something you can tell.
6:13 So it's a reminder of what God has done.
6:15 So one of the things that that David's doing is he is being reminded of what God did for
6:21 him and worse than saying, I have nothing to boast about except my Lord.
6:27 Yeah, I think of Paul and Silas like in prison and they're in prison and they've probably
6:33 been beaten, right, Paul's a citizen and he's in a Roman prison, not in a great spot.
6:38 They probably aren't real comfortable, but they so they have to go from that place of
6:43 discomfort and I'm beaten and I and I'm not in a, I'm not in a place where I feel like
6:48 I want to worship.
6:49 So they had, so they sing, right, and it kind of transitions them into this place where
6:55 they can kind of restore and get focused back on God's goodness for them.
7:00 And, and I see the first couple of verses of this, maybe even David doing the same kind
7:05 of a thing, right?
7:06 He's almost convincing himself, you know, I will bless the Lord at all times.
7:11 His praise shall continually be in my mouth.
7:14 My soul makes its boast in the Lord.
7:16 It's almost like, like, like where you are like having to build yourself up and build
7:22 your spirit up to a place where you're ready to actually make those things true.
7:26 Well, he's with his buddies too, the guys that are fighting for him, he said, let the
7:30 humble hear of it and be glad.
7:32 So all those guys are kind of in humble circumstances, not in their homes, they're not sitting
7:37 by their fire.
7:38 You know, they're, they're hanging out in a probably a dark, damp cave.
7:40 Yeah.
7:41 I think one of the things that's cool about the, the Davidic Psalms, I don't know if you
7:45 guys talked about this last time, but like he's this messianic figure, right?
7:50 And he's the king of Israel and it's, it's, these Psalms are like a, they're his experience,
7:56 but they're also an invitation to all of Israel on how to worship God.
8:00 And so as the king of Israel goes, so does, so does God's people.
8:04 And it's, it's so interesting that he, you know, it's magnify the Lord with me, like,
8:11 let us exalt his name.
8:13 And like this is an invitation, not only to himself, but to all the people of Israel.
8:18 And then, and then obviously later, that is Jesus, you know, inviting us to walk with
8:23 him as well.
8:24 And so like the Psalms of that David writes, they're just, they're just so fun to sit in
8:29 and think of, not, I mean, not all of them, because, you know, he's going through some
8:32 really rough times, but it's really cool to think about all the things that he went through
8:36 and the Lord was still there, even though he did some, I mean, told the gingu is crazy.
8:42 Like that's dumb.
8:43 Well, in saying, saying the Lord will still be there again, obviously, even at this time,
8:47 they didn't have the language for the Trinity, you know, God, the father, the son, the Holy
8:50 Spirit, again, the prophecies are pointing towards a savior, but they didn't know how
8:53 he would come.
8:54 They thought I was going to be a conquering hero, but I got to be honest, all the times
8:57 that have read Psalm 34 again, this is my favorite of the 150 Psalms.
9:01 I never caught the meaning of verse seven, never once.
9:04 So verse seven, the angel of the Lord and camps around those who fear him and delivers
9:09 them.
9:10 Yep.
9:11 Okay.
9:12 Yeah, that, that great.
9:13 And then I went to commentaries from people that apparently can read and those people were
9:17 basically like what, what most of these people said, again, this is not, you know, universal
9:20 agreement in the theology world, but that was pointing to the presence of the pre incarnate
9:26 Jesus, that this is an Old Testament appearance of the pre incarnate Jesus, because I'd heard
9:31 before that, okay, pre incarnate Jesus was at like Sodom and Gomorrah and you know, there's
9:36 other places in the Old Testament that people have said, but I was like, wait a minute.
9:41 Like Jesus is there, like the Godhead, I guess you could say all of it is there in this moment
9:48 with David.
9:49 Again, David, Jesus comes from his line.
9:53 So doesn't that make sense, but again, that that's kind of weird that you keep going down
9:57 David's line and you get Jesus, but, but Jesus is already there pre incarnate.
10:01 So I don't know if you guys, you guys all seem smarter than me.
10:03 So I don't know if y'all like knew that before, but when I read that, it absolutely blew my
10:07 mind when I was reading the commentary.
10:08 That's something that is a theme throughout a lot of the Old Testament.
10:12 The Old Testament just pours out salvation and grace and patience from the Lord from,
10:19 Genesis three, like the salvation message is all over the place.
10:24 And it like, it's one word, but it's really important.
10:27 It's the angel of the Lord, like there's a lot of times when an angel of the Lord and
10:32 angel or they name the angel, but the angel of the Lord and you talk about Sodom and Gomorrah,
10:38 it talks about God is in heaven, raining fire down while God is also standing next to Abraham.
10:45 And so it's like, you could miss that.
10:47 So, yeah, you definitely can, but yeah, it is very cool to see Jesus is being preached
10:54 from the beginning to the end of the Bible and he's right there standing next to David.
10:59 And we have another appearance later on that, well, I guess we can go and get there now
11:03 since we're kind of making that point, but jump into verse 20.
11:06 He keeps all his bones, not one of them is broken.
11:09 So this is a prophecy of Jesus.
11:11 So we see in John, you know, 1936 to describe basically the crucifixion of Jesus.
11:16 And in John 1936 is basically like none of his bones were broken.
11:20 But the thing is, is you could even read that.
11:21 And if you have a very limited understanding of the historical precedent of that, the majority,
11:27 my understanding, the majority of the Roman people or the people that Rome crucified,
11:32 they broke their legs because they didn't want them to be sitting out all day, suffering
11:37 to to a degree.
11:38 It's like exactly.
11:39 And it wasn't because they were compassionate.
11:40 It was because let's get this over with.
11:42 So you broke their legs so that their body would sink down more so that they would finally,
11:46 you know, be suffocated to death.
11:49 And so the fact that Jesus, because again, they didn't think Jesus was any different.
11:52 This is just another day, right?
11:55 Another Roman day.
11:56 We're going to throw three people up on these crosses and then we're going to go set up
11:58 the next ones, right?
11:59 But they didn't break his legs and it doesn't make any sense why until you go here and it's
12:05 just like, well, that's what was prophesied like it would have gone against the prophecy
12:09 and the will of the Lord if his bones had been broken.
12:12 And so again, just the whole mind blowing thing, whenever you when you look at the lineage
12:17 of David and we talked about earlier, like David, a murderer, a rapist, like this is
12:22 the man who's from line from his line comes the savior of the entire universe, right?
12:28 Like that's a huge deal.
12:30 I was preparing for this and came across Luke 24, 44 words of Jesus.
12:38 He said to them, this is what I told you while I sat or why I was still with you, everything
12:44 must be fulfilled that is written about me in the law of the Moses of Moses, the prophets
12:49 and the Psalms.
12:50 And I was like, Oh, interesting.
12:52 And then I wonderful quote.
12:53 I cannot remember who said this.
12:55 I'm sorry, but I'm going to read it anyways.
12:57 It says the Psalms are full of Christ.
13:00 There is a more complete picture of him in Psalms than in the gospels.
13:04 The gospel tells us that he went to the mountain to pray, but the Psalms give us his prayer.
13:09 The gospels tell us that he was crucified, but the Psalms tell us what went on in his
13:15 own heart during the crucifixion.
13:17 The gospel tells us he went back to heaven, but the Psalms begin where the gospels leave
13:22 off and show us Christ seated in heaven.
13:25 I just think that's beautiful.
13:27 That's amazing.
13:28 And the Psalms of David are, I mean, they're obviously just full of the picture of Christ
13:32 and what Christ has done for us and what Christ will do for his people and the prophetic language
13:39 that's used.
13:40 I agree.
13:41 That's just such a powerful visual.
13:42 Well, isn't it part of the problem?
13:44 Because again, I didn't grow up in church.
13:46 And so like my boys are going to grow up with a wildly better understanding of just the
13:50 Old Testament stories because I didn't know do Jonah and the whale was like I knew about,
13:54 you know, Noah's Ark because that's kind of a culturally significant thing.
13:58 I didn't know about any of these other Old Testament stories and all these different things.
14:02 But that's where I think you get a problem where you have these pastors like Andy Stanley
14:05 who thinks we should unhitch the Old Testament from the New Testament when you have these
14:08 movements of Gnosticism or any things where it's like, okay, you know, or Marcianism where
14:13 it's like the Old Testament, that's not really applicable.
14:17 There's a new order.
14:18 There's a new covenant.
14:19 We don't really need to look at that.
14:21 But look at what you just said, like, you know, Eric, like what you're talking about when
14:25 it comes to you're seeing Jesus in the gospels pointing back to Jesus in the Psalms.
14:30 That was, you know, hundreds and hundreds of years before what we're saying and it goes
14:34 right to what you're saying.
14:35 Matt, go ahead.
14:36 Oh, Jesus is everywhere.
14:37 Like Jesus is the Ark.
14:38 This book is about him.
14:39 Jesus is all of it.
14:40 Like Jesus is the Ark.
14:42 Jesus saves his people.
14:44 How many doors are where on the Ark?
14:46 Only one.
14:47 Jesus says I am the door.
14:48 There's only one door and it's like when you understand that, like you start to see where
14:58 Jesus is literally everywhere.
15:01 And if you understand that he's the Ark, he's the way to salvation.
15:06 Like it changes how you look at the Bible.
15:08 And so that's just really cool to think about.
15:11 And then towards the middle of Psalm 34, again, this is where we get the name of the psalm
15:15 again.
15:16 The name of the psalm is Tays and see that the Lord is good.
15:17 So verse eight, "O Tays and see that the Lord is good, blessed is the man who takes refuge
15:22 in him.
15:23 O fear the Lord, you his saints, for those who fear him have no lack.
15:28 And then I want to say verse 10, but O Tays and see that the Lord is good."
15:31 Again, going back to the point we were just talking about, if you go to 1 Peter 2, 3,
15:36 you get direct reference in 1 Peter 2, 3.
15:38 And now that you have tested that the Lord is good.
15:42 So I guess my argument, I don't want to get into a big deal about people that just dismiss
15:46 the Old Testament because it's kind of foolish.
15:48 But to these people that think the Old Testament has nothing, it can teach us.
15:52 You have to ask like, what is the foundation of everything?
15:55 So when you say, hey, the foundation of our faith is a resurrection of Jesus, yes, and
15:59 the most simple sense, yes, but why were we even looking for a Savior?
16:04 Where do we get that idea?
16:05 Where do we get the idea that we need that?
16:08 That there is some sort of a sacrificial system that God has to have, you know, there needs
16:13 to be propitiation, you know, a debt, you know, this is a payment that satisfies like, where
16:17 do we get that idea?
16:19 We get that and we're able to look at the things that happen in the New Testament because we're
16:24 looking through the lens of what is foretold in the Old Testament.
16:27 And so I'll tell you, I'll taste and see that the Lord is good.
16:30 This was spoken again, hundreds of years before Peter said it, before Peter wrote it down,
16:36 but it's enough of a message to the people that are going to read his letter to point
16:40 back to it.
16:41 It's a big deal.
16:42 Right.
16:43 Right.
16:44 I was just thinking like, what a shame if you went to, I don't know what the listeners
16:49 are, the nicest restaurant in their area, imagine going to that nicest restaurant, ordering
16:55 the, the best playmates, the lobster, I don't know, and then they bring it out and you just
17:00 sat, you sit there and look at it.
17:02 That's all.
17:03 You just look at it and you haven't taken away.
17:05 I mean, what a shame that would be.
17:06 And so we see here just real practically that Jesus is meant to be experienced, right?
17:15 So when we take that first bite of food and it's going down and I can't wait to have
17:20 another one for you.
17:21 It's like, it's going to be a wagyu steak and, you know, well, yeah, absolutely hook it
17:25 up.
17:26 Yeah.
17:27 I mean, it's, we are meant to experience Lord and not just to know about him, but to experience
17:30 him.
17:31 So to you.
17:32 Oh, go ahead, dig it.
17:33 Oh, I thought you said something.
17:34 Sorry.
17:35 To taste, to say something.
17:36 You're getting too comfortable over there listening to all these guys, all these veterans.
17:40 You're happening next.
17:41 So get ready after Matt's done.
17:42 You have to say stuff like verse eight is my favorite verse of this psalm of taste and
17:47 see that the Lord is good.
17:49 It's talking about affectionately and thoroughly considering and it's like, to your point about
17:55 food, you don't just take a bite of that food either.
17:58 You eat the whole thing like you taste all of it and you were, we're to thoroughly consider
18:05 God's goodness through our experience and the experience of others.
18:10 And so again, David here is saying, like experience that with me, pursue God with me.
18:18 And what better sense than taste is there to point out, like usually you don't just look
18:22 at it.
18:23 Right.
18:24 You got to eat it.
18:25 Or, you know, I mean, I'm just thinking like, sometimes we'll be like, Hey, I ate at this
18:28 restaurant last night.
18:29 And this was what I had.
18:30 They start describing it and I can literally feel myself start to salivate.
18:34 I'm like, Oh man, I want to get out there and have that right now.
18:37 It's that same thing.
18:38 I want to taste and see with me.
18:40 So I mean, I want to go try that restaurant out.
18:42 You know what I mean?
18:43 Well, and I feel like, you know, that we have lots of different types or Christians at different
18:48 depths, right?
18:49 We have Christians that, hey, they will go to the restaurant, but they're not going to
18:53 order anything.
18:54 But like, Hey, this is, this is what it means for me to be a Christian is I am in the presence
18:59 of this amazing meal.
19:00 And then there are Christians that go a step further than that and they sit down and they
19:03 order the food, right?
19:05 And then a step beyond that is, Hey, I'm not going to take a bite, but I'm going to plant
19:08 my face an inch from this steak, and I'm just going to smell it, right?
19:12 And then there's the taste and don't swallow, right?
19:15 Like I'm going to put it in my mouth, but, and I'm going to taste it and I'm, it's like
19:19 all of these different levels of enjoyment, but really at the end of it, like that food
19:24 is meant to nourish your body, like the experience can be wonderful, but it has to go through
19:30 all of those things to ultimately give you nourishment.
19:33 And it's like, that it's, it's, Hey, don't, don't go to church on Sunday and then have
19:40 God have, have the God's word not be an active part of your week in your home, right?
19:48 Like that's, that's just showing up at the restaurant and spending the rest of the time.
19:52 That's actually, that's actually just tripped something in my brain that's a really, really
19:55 good point.
19:56 There's a difference between consuming the word and letting the word nourish you, right?
19:59 And so, because I remember the first time someone said something like this, it was Matt Chandler,
20:03 he did a sermon series and he goes, Hey, do you guys realize how much of a blessing taste
20:06 buds are?
20:07 I was like, where's he going with this?
20:09 He's like, when you take that bite of medium rare filet, like it tastes like something,
20:16 and that brings you pleasure and happiness, like God didn't have to do that, right?
20:22 And even if you're like, you know, a humanist and you think we're all just highly evolved
20:25 chimps that, you know, used to be fish and then used to be stardust or whatever, like
20:30 this doesn't have to do anything for you because you should just know instinctively, I am an
20:35 animal that needs nourishment and this is where I'm going to get the nourishment from,
20:38 from this plant or from the liver of this animal or something like that.
20:41 But when you're drinking, you know, a single mall, Ila scotch or, or that wagyu steak or
20:46 that whatever you're into, like, that is a gift that you're receiving it in that way,
20:52 which makes the nourishment almost moot because you're enjoying it so much.
20:56 And the same thing with like sex, your sexual organs don't have to give you pleasure in
21:01 order for you to procreate, but God gave you the pleasure centers and the nerve endings
21:05 to make that a pleasurable experience, not so that, again, if you're a Darwinist to where
21:09 it's like, well, you, you want to keep coming back to do that so you can propagate the species.
21:12 It's like, no, so that you will enjoy taste and see that the Lord is good.
21:17 So I think that's a really good thing because as you're reading the Bible, you know, and
21:20 I've, I've been very open about it on this podcast, I've gone years where I don't read
21:24 the Bible at all, right? Oh, I'm doing other stuff from a busy army, any of those types
21:27 of things. So it's one thing just to get to the table to read it. But then when you're
21:32 reading just to eat versus reading to where it'll nourish you, like, dude, that's like
21:37 being marinated in the scripture. You know what I mean? Like it's completely different
21:40 ballgame.
21:41 We used to live in North Carolina. I remember my, my granddad and me mall wanted to come
21:47 out and see us. So they lived in Brady, Texas, I mean, smack dab in the middle of Texas.
21:53 So they had to travel, of course, east to get to us. And so they took a couple of days
21:57 to get there. But when they showed up, of course, they were worn out and tired and long
22:01 trip, travel trip. And, and we asked them, of course, why was your trip? You know, what
22:04 did you do on the way? Because you took the time. And granddad was like, yeah, you know,
22:08 we stopped here, stop here. And we, and we went to Dollywood and then, and then came on
22:13 from there. And I mean, right when he said that and started to pass, pass by it, my, my
22:17 me mall just went with her elbow, right into his side. And she was like, we didn't go to
22:23 Dollywood. We drove to the parking lot of Dollywood and took a picture and then kept driving. I
22:32 was like, I was like, granddad, not cool. Like, you know, so he said, been there, done that.
22:38 But all he did was take the picture. They didn't experience it. He's like, Oh, I've been to
22:41 I've been to Atlanta. It's like, no, you've been to the Atlanta airport. Like you haven't
22:45 like hung out with people from Atlanta. But I remember even just. So, so there's a couple
22:50 stories that I want to kind of go through. And I think I've said this before. Taste is
22:53 a very important thing. But when we take in too much artificial flavoring, it affects
22:58 how we taste things. And so one of my favorites, Vody Bockham was talking about strawberries.
23:03 And he was talking about this father that was walking his son through a strawberry field,
23:07 or other fields are orchards. I don't know. Strawberry field. And so he's picking out these
23:11 strawberries and little boys eating these, these fresh strawberries right off the vine
23:14 or whatever they grow on. You can tell I'm not a farmer. And so he's eating these and
23:18 the boys just overwhelmed at how sweet and delicious these strawberries are. But then
23:23 after they leave there, over the years, his boy starts eating things that are artificially
23:28 flavored to taste like strawberries, strawberry pop tarts, strawberry slushies, strawberry
23:33 soda. And that's what his taste buds have kind of, you know, bent towards is this artificial
23:38 flavoring. So much so that when the sun started eating the actual strawberries again, they
23:44 weren't sweet enough. And there's a corollary there. So when people try to add stuff to
23:50 the gospel, again, we talked about that a lot when we were in the book of Galatians, when
23:54 you're trying to do gospel plus, yeah, gospel plus all this other stuff. Or when you have
23:57 these churches that are so afraid of offending people by talking about their sin, when when
24:02 the understanding should be, you don't understand how to how sweet the strawberry is until you
24:07 understand how depraved you are to even be offered such a strawberry is that is is astonishing.
24:13 And then you get to points in life where you're so desperate for the real thing. One of my
24:17 favorite fighters, he's retired now, he's a commentator, his name is Paul Felder. And
24:21 he was doing a he got a really short notice fight where he was like fighting a real killer
24:26 like that weekend. I think it was a Javier de Sanjos. I can't believe I remember that,
24:30 but it was like four or five days out, he's wildly overweight at this point. But he's
24:34 got to, you know, make weight so they can save this event. So because that's the main event,
24:38 right? And he's literally killing himself, destroying his kidneys, sucking every amount
24:43 of water out of his body, doing bass, doing cardio, all that. And his, I forget where
24:48 he was, I think it was in Vegas, but his wife's back in Philadelphia. And they're doing FaceTime
24:53 or something like that. And he's like, babe, can you go to this YouTube channel? It's it's
24:57 this guy that's he's got this big cup and it's got like ice cubes in it. And he's just
25:02 opening up soda and like pouring it slowly over ice in slow motion. And he meant it. He's
25:06 like, babe, can you, can you please just? I just want to see the video. And because that's
25:11 where he was, he was in such desperate need of the real thing that he was willing to get
25:17 an artificial thing that he knew instinctively he couldn't consume. But I feel like again,
25:22 that's a kind of a long way with Vodie story and then Paul Felder story of for us, we get
25:26 to these moments where we're absolutely drowning or we're absolutely completely sunken in. We
25:31 need nourishment like we can't even fathom. And yet we keep going to the fake. We keep
25:36 going to the artificial and we're not going back to the original. He's not popping open
25:41 to soda for himself, right? He's not actually going to get in the strawberries from the
25:44 vine himself. And I feel like, you know, I feel like all of that is in this song and
25:48 all that's brought up to me because again, it's taste and see when we are always typically
25:53 worried about seeing right being seen in church or seeing our eyes move across the pages.
25:57 Yeah. And I was thinking about the just the dopamine response that we get the releases
26:02 that we get with some of those things, those artificial sweeteners and whatnot. Sometimes
26:08 it's our phone, we're looking at our phone and we just continue to scroll through, right?
26:11 We're getting those dopamine kind of surges that keep us locked in. We know that the brain
26:18 literally physically changes in those in those over time when we continually focus on things
26:26 like social media. So that then the smaller things, the things that instead of getting
26:30 the dopamine surges, the things that should give us dopamine drips are less, less restored.
26:36 They don't, they don't feel like they're enough, just like you were saying earlier.
26:39 And so part of the part of just becoming restored and finding that restoration is sometimes
26:45 it's getting rid of that artificial, you know, at one, it's artificial. It doesn't fully
26:50 satisfy, you know, in two, you know, there, there is something better and it may come in
26:56 the small rhythms of the day. It may not come in the huge bursts, but it certainly is much
27:01 more satisfying. And I think John Eldridge speaks to that. We just finished his study
27:05 called get your life back. And that's a fantastic study on just being able to recognize how
27:11 you can get into a rhythm and stay in union with, with God.
27:15 Right. So this is a new guy question. Some relatively new. Are you sponsored by McDonald's
27:22 in any way? No, okay. So like, we don't do McDonald's. I just want it to be a great
27:28 segue. I have no idea where this is going. So I'm excited just like you guys. I didn't
27:32 want to get a look across the table like, Oh my gosh, he's bashing McDonald's. Like we
27:37 don't do McDonald's, you know, we do Chick-fil-A. It's not that like fast foods, fast food,
27:43 right? But we, we, we do not do McDonald's. But the, the, the weakness comes in like on
27:49 road trips. Like we go pick up the kids from camp. We're going on vacation somewhere. And
27:53 it's just quick and fast and they are everywhere. So that seems to be when we relent is we're
27:58 tired. We're hungry. We need something fast and convenient. We get McDonald's, but I've
28:02 never eaten at McDonald's. Maybe when I was a kid, but certainly the older I get, you
28:06 know, in my constitution, can't handle it. It's, I don't, I don't go through those McDonald's
28:11 drive-throughs and then eat everything and think, you know what, I'm glad I ate that.
28:17 Yeah. Great decision. It's like, it's, it's the difference between, you know, it's, there's
28:22 a lot of calorie there, but there's no nourishment, right? Like I get eat, I get eat a whole orange
28:27 or a pinch of a donut and they're both calorie dense, but one is nourishing, right? And to
28:33 Eric's point, man, we just, I was it, I think it's Jim Gaffigan that has a joke that just
28:38 correlates everything to McDonald's, you know, it's like everything's McDonald's. Oh, you,
28:42 play on apps all day. That's McDonald's. And it's like, we are like McDonald's-ing everything.
28:48 And to your point, it's like we, we have lost like the satisfaction of the nourishment because
28:56 it's not satisfying. It just, it makes us full, but it also is regretful.
29:01 Yeah. Well, with the donors, you mentioned known as, I mean, Jocko Welling calls those
29:04 sugar-coated lies because it's like you're tricking your brain into something that you
29:08 may get once a month or something like that. It was maybe honey or some natural like berry
29:13 or something like that. It's like you can literally go and get a dozen of these things
29:18 just for you. And there's, there's, there's no food in a donut that you realize, like there's
29:23 no part of that that your body's like, I can use that for energy. I can, I can run this
29:26 marathon. Like no, that is just mouth pleasure. Like that is just you getting in there and
29:31 like, and again, it goes back to the, you get the dopamine hit and I got, I know on this
29:35 the show, I've talked a lot about, about mega churches and big churches and things like that.
29:38 And I've gotten more careful about describing just because your church has a huge parking
29:42 lot with a lot of cars and it doesn't mean your church is unhealthy. But there are churches
29:46 like that that are very unhealthy. But that's my concern. And I call them spiritual skittles
29:50 because it's like you go to this church, you see the rock show, you see the TED talk with
29:54 a few Bible verses and then you bounce before you leave the parking lot, whatever discipleship
30:00 you've received has worn off a la skittles. Like you eat those, they taste great. There
30:05 is no value. Your body's just like, ah, we got to deal with this again. They blow it
30:09 out at some point. But it's like that, that is what we do all the time with our spiritual
30:13 journey because there's all these other things in our life that are more important. I've got
30:17 my kids XYZ. I've got, Matt, you want to hop in here because I mean, you and I have talked
30:21 about this a lot. So go ahead.
30:22 Well, I was just going to say, I think that before you said that, that is the danger of
30:27 where we live and making it to where it's easily consumable. It's, it's convenient. It's
30:34 efficient. And Jesus talks about in at the end of his sermon on the mount that there will
30:41 be many people that say, Lord, Lord, we did all these things. And we're going through
30:47 Matthew in my Sunday school. And he, and he says, and he says, I will say to them, I never
30:51 knew you. And before that talks about the, the gate is narrow. That leads to life. Why
31:00 does the gate that leads to destruction? And I think about the modern church in that sphere
31:06 of we have all these people who go in and they see this and they go, okay, Jesus. Yeah, Jesus
31:15 got it. I'm good. Or Bethel, we are raising people from the dead. Or we are healing. God
31:23 doesn't want anybody to be sick. He wants healing for everybody. I think those are the
31:28 people that he's talking about. And it's because we've, we've said, I mean, like you're talking
31:32 about gospel plus, or we're not getting the whole word that, which is food and we're, we're
31:39 taking little bits and pieces out of it. And we're, we're having little samples. And when
31:44 it talks about tasting and seeing that the Lord is good, it's not a sampling. It is, it
31:49 is all of it. All of this is spiritual food. And that is a danger of the modern church.
31:56 And it, it really scares me. Well, it's almost like that. We'll go ahead, Browning. Yeah.
32:00 No, I was going to say, and part of it is just tasting and seeing that he's good also
32:05 assumes that you are realizing you're not good. You know, I don't remember where it was in
32:10 the Bible, but in the gospel, some, you know, Jesus said, why do you call me good? There's
32:13 only one that's good, you know, that, that I had that same idea, you know, we're, we need
32:17 to understand that we are not good. We're not good enough. There's nothing we can do
32:20 to be good enough. There's only one that's good. And that's, that's the one that we should
32:25 be partaking of, right? And there's the attitude of self-sufficiency that runs through all
32:29 that, which does segue us to, again, probably my favorite scripture and all of the Old Testament
32:34 and it's Psalm 34 verse 10. The young lions suffer want in hunger, but those who seek
32:39 the Lord lack no good thing. So I've got, you know, the first time, you know, shout out
32:43 to Joel who designed our undaunted life logo and all that. He did that for free just to
32:46 help us out way back in the day back in like 2016. But whenever we did the lion head with
32:52 undaunted life, that was the scripture. I put Psalm 34 10, like I've got all the original
32:57 artwork and all the original renderings. And the reason is is because there's so much
33:01 in this verse because what is more powerful and self-sufficient than a young lion? So
33:09 young powerful lions at this time were roaming Palestine. Okay, so it is very likely that
33:15 he's writing this hiding in a cave. There are lions around that they have to reckon
33:19 with. And these young lions don't seem to want in hunger, right? Because they're young
33:26 lions, they're growing, they're strong. There's nothing that can stop them from, from, you
33:30 know, from eating or anything in that area. But this is even saying the young lions suffer
33:35 one hunger that even young powerful creatures don't have at all. They can't fully satisfy
33:41 themselves. They can't. But those who seek the Lord lack no good thing, not, you know,
33:48 they just don't lack or they have most of the stuff that they want. Like when I tell people
33:52 about my childhood, it's like, you know, we didn't about all the money in the world,
33:55 but I had everything I needed and almost everything I wanted, right? There were some, there were
33:59 some gaps, some things that I would have wanted, but the young lions suffer wanting to hunger,
34:03 but those who seek the Lord lack no good thing. So inherit there, there is lack, but not good
34:10 things.
34:11 That's the difference. Yeah, I was, I was just thinking like Romans 12, nine and 10 came up,
34:17 surprisingly I turned right to have no idea how that happened. And he says, but he said
34:21 to me, my grace is sufficient for you for my powers made perfect in weakness. Therefore,
34:26 I will boast all the more gladly of my weakness so that the power Christ may rest upon me.
34:32 Is that in Romans or in Second Corinthians? Okay. Yeah. So like, but I guess that's the
34:38 thing for me is because I'm so worried about the good things, but then when we make our
34:42 own categories of what's good, then we're going to miss. We were absolutely going to
34:46 miss because again, the young lions suffer again, I keep repeating it because even the
34:51 young lions, even the most powerful, most, most graceful, like most efficient killing
34:57 animal possible can't possibly satisfy itself. And that young lion will not always be young,
35:03 right? And when you talk to these people that are that are advanced in age, and they
35:07 look back on their, their old days and they look back and they're so sad about their station
35:11 in life because they're not that young lion anymore. And it's like, they're not worried
35:15 about, oh, I should be worried about being a sage now and like passing on all my wisdom
35:19 to the next generation. They're just lamenting that they're not the young lion anymore. Could
35:22 it be that they've been focused on things that aren't good this entire time? I mean,
35:27 I don't know about for you guys because I don't know anybody else who that's their favorite
35:30 like Old Testament verse, but man, that's been, that's been a banger for me for five, six
35:33 years. I was thinking of the quote says, you know, live your life right the first time.
35:39 And then when you're old, you'll get to enjoy it a second. I mean, kind of what you're talking
35:44 about, you know, we don't have to screw up half our life just so we can try to make up
35:48 for it later on. I mean, you're right. We, when we become older, we may not be able to
35:53 physically do what we could before, but we certainly have a lot more wisdom. And there's
35:58 something very valuable in that for the younger generation.
36:00 For sure, the thing that sticks out to me in this is no good thing. It doesn't say thing
36:06 that I want. And like you were saying, like we don't get to define what is good. God is
36:11 a good father and he works all things to good for those who love him. But what's missing
36:18 there is what I want. And so sometimes like the things that he gives us that are good
36:22 or the things that are happening that happen to us that are good, we might look at that
36:26 and go, Oh man, really? Man, I saw that exact same thing, but you know, right before that
36:32 it's for those who seek the Lord. So that recalibrates what you consider good, right?
36:38 The closer you get to the Lord, the more it changes what you see and perceive as good,
36:44 you know, and you're exactly right. It's not you get what you want. It's what is good.
36:50 And it is good because you are seeking the Lord and he's changed your mind about what
36:55 you're after. Absolutely. Like you were talking about the rich young ruler who says, you know,
37:03 I'm good or Jesus says, who are you to say that I'm good? Like his point there was you
37:08 are not sufficient in yourself and you have you say you do all these things and you've
37:14 followed the law and you've done all the right things. What do you have to do left to give
37:18 up everything and follow me? And that guy was like, no, I don't think so. I don't think
37:22 I can. I don't think that I can do that. And so he traded what was good for something
37:26 that he wanted because he just he couldn't see. Money is not good. I mean, it's not there's
37:33 nothing wrong with money. I was don't don't hear what I'm not saying. But like the point
37:37 of Christ saying that to him was give up what you want or what you what is your God. God
37:44 is money and follow me. And that was good, but he didn't want that. So he wasn't seeking
37:49 after the Lord, like Dagnos saying, and then he didn't receive what was good because he
37:54 defined that in his own mind.
37:57 Yeah, there there's so much there that I mean, that's the thing guys is when you start peeling
38:02 back the layers on this, yes, you have your lived experience. You have the stuff that that,
38:06 you know, you've learned that you bring to the table, but that's the other thing about
38:10 guys when you spend time in the word, there will be things that stick out to you that don't
38:13 stick out to anybody else. But then that also leads to the fact that you need to be in community
38:17 with other men having these discussions. Again, I've been blown away by the emails and messages
38:21 we're getting about guys starting their own forging table, right? That's awesome. Their
38:25 their own thing where they're getting together. Maybe they're doing the same, you know, Bible
38:28 readings that we are maybe they're doing their own thing. But again, I think my way, right?
38:34 That's why when I asked when it's your first time on the table, how did your how's your
38:37 brain work? Because that's a filter through which everyone should be listening to your
38:41 commentary, right? Oh, well, he quickly came to this decision. Well, you know, he slowly
38:45 came to this decision. Oh, this guy became a Christian as an adult. Like this is going
38:48 to kind of tinge, you know, he was 35 before he ever thought about things and deed the
38:52 ethereal or or the divine or something like that. But that's why when you can come to
38:55 something like this, how many of you guys have read through Psalm 34 before and just
38:59 pass right through verse 10? Because yeah, it's a good line. But I mean, is it fundamentally
39:04 different than the previous one verse nine? Oh, fear the Lord, you his saints for those
39:08 who fear have or fear him have no lack. But I think the important thing about this is
39:14 going back to verse nine a little bit, those who fear him have no lack. We live in an era
39:19 where we do not fear God at all. God is a genie. God is a convenience maker. God is the guy
39:27 that he's he's the cosmic killjoy to some people. And you know, there's a great book
39:32 by Matty Montgomery called scary God and Matty Montgomery, you know, he used to lead one
39:37 of the best Christian metal bands of all time for today. But he wrote this book scary God.
39:42 But the thing is, is like, people think scary, they think, you know, scream, they think, you
39:47 know, Friday the 13th, they think nightmare on Elm Street. And it's like, no, this is,
39:51 we're talking about actual fear, not someone who can just kill kill you, right? Not someone
39:55 that can just kill someone that you love. We're talking about if you do not align yourself
40:01 with the all judgmental and all loving God, you don't have a future after this life regardless
40:08 of whether you believe that or not, whether you believe that when you die, it's just lights
40:11 off and you go back into the ground and you become a butterfly or whatever the thing is
40:15 that you believe. Like if you're not aligned with God, if you don't have a proper understanding
40:21 of who God is and what he is about, it's a very big problem, which goes back to some
40:27 of the churches that kind of do this gospel light type style. It's like, you're talking
40:31 about Jesus, like he's your home boy, you're talking about God as if he's just, again,
40:36 that's why I get so fed up with these worship songs that treat God as if he's just this
40:39 cutesy, wootsie, you know, a little deity or that this Jesus guy is just so I just want
40:44 to embrace him and kiss someone in his nose like, no, like that is the God of the universe.
40:48 Have some respect. Like imagine somebody coming into your home, a stranger, and they disrespected
40:53 your wife, like, or your mother, maybe that maybe that's another thing like your mother
40:58 or your me mall or your peephole or your whatever that people call their, their grandparents.
41:02 But imagine someone coming in and like, you don't have to physically assault that person.
41:06 You just say, Hey, have some respect. I remember there was a crew that I was running with right
41:09 out of college and some of the kids were still in high school. And there was this one kid,
41:13 he was kind of a knucklehead. We're all in the kitchen hanging out. His mom comes walking
41:17 in. He calls his mom by her first name. And you could have heard a pin drop in the entire
41:23 county. And there are three guys are these three brothers that were all way bigger than
41:28 me. And we all surround this kid. And we literally were just like, if we ever hear you talk to
41:36 your mother that way again, all he did was call her by her first name or Christian name.
41:40 It's like you were gonna have massive problems. Don't you ever do that again? But Jesus is
41:46 our home boy. You know, God is just this part in the song that we sing. You know, we don't
41:50 have any reverence for God. We certainly don't fear. I would agree. There is there is a lack
41:54 of reverence in there is, and I think that's why most of the songs or a lot of the songs
41:58 start with like magnifying the Lord and like blessing the Lord and like speaking to his
42:04 reverence. And you're right. Like you there has to be some respect. And you know, this
42:10 this I watered down gospel that you're talking about, like that talks about one of the things
42:17 they do is they talk about God is he's he's this like psychotic, angry God in the Old Testament.
42:25 And the New Testament, he's this lovey dovey teddy bear guy. And it's like, man, that's
42:29 not the case at all. Just look at just look at Genesis three. Like he says, don't eat
42:33 that fruit on that day. You'll surely die. And then they eat the fruit. And he's like,
42:37 I love you so much. I'm so patient with you. I have this whole plan of redemption that's
42:43 going to carry out through you. I could just kill you. Yeah. But I am merciful and full
42:50 of grace and patient and like God is God. And he's the same all the way throughout what
42:57 is isn't that like raising kids, right? It's like, Hey, don't eat the fruit. Okay, I guess
43:01 we'll do it the hard way. You know, it's like he knew that we're going to do that. You
43:06 know, and I think I would, and we had a previous house and my little girl, she was probably
43:11 to kind of walking up to turn the light switch on. And it was, it was one of those like, it
43:17 was a different light switch. It's like didn't come with the house or something. And, you
43:20 know, it's like a cartoon character. And as she walked up to it, she went and touched
43:25 it. And it like, I guess, and it was my fault. I guess I had screwed it in too tight and
43:29 it kind of cracked it a little bit. And as soon as she touched it, it like the little
43:33 protective plate fell off the light switch. And so she kind of looked at it and I was like,
43:38 Oh, that's okay. And then she started to reach up for that light switch. And all of a sudden
43:43 it's like, I mean, she thought I would have gone lost my mind, like run to her grab her
43:49 arm and move her, right? Because I, I have a fear of the power of the electricity, right?
43:57 Like we have all of these wires and cables and stuff running through our home and our
44:01 kids are running around and it's all safe because, because we respect it. And we actually put
44:06 it inside the walls where we don't have to touch it, right? But it's like, that's, that's
44:12 the same with God. It's like, he is a, he is a powerful, the most powerful. And you have
44:18 to respect it. And it is that fear of what he is and who he is that, you know, is, is
44:26 that plate between us and, and, you know, literally life and death.
44:32 Yeah, he does want a relationship with us, but like even the, even the Bible it talks
44:35 about, you know, his relationship with us is his coming, is him coming down. And he is
44:41 the God of the universe. And it, I mean, the, the one time the human race was like, I'm
44:46 going to go up to God. He was like, all right, cool. Y'all are scattered. Y'all are going
44:49 to speak different languages because I don't want you so prideful, but it is God coming
44:55 down to relate with us and not the other way around. And I think yes, God wants a relationship
45:03 with us, but it's on his terms and it's not us and anything that we do and us going towards
45:07 the heavens. It is him coming down and revealing himself to us through his word and through
45:13 his son. And I, like, so reverence should, I think should always be on our, on our minds.
45:19 Well, he's, he's still just. That's the other thing is like, we, we get to these moments
45:23 where it's like, Oh, God's being mean. It's like, no, he's being just like the, you're,
45:27 you're not supposed to like that. But we're just there. No, I'm just real quick. I was
45:31 just going to say, you know, the fear of the Lord is then it should be the, the catalyst
45:36 to removing fear of man. And when we learn to place our fear in the right, the right
45:41 spot, then we shouldn't have to fear anyone else. Because we understand just as you guys
45:47 have all said that God can literally do anything he wants. That means he can protect you. That
45:52 means he can take out your enemies. That means anything. And, and, and then couple that with
45:58 his love or you and I, it's like a, it's an easy home run.
46:03 Yeah. If you go make friends with the biggest bully at school, you're not scared of bully
46:08 number two, bully number three, you're right. It's just like, Hey, I'm rolling with, with
46:12 like the biggest, baddest dude here. You're still, it's still healthy to be fearful of
46:17 him and what he can do to you. But like, like that, that's exactly right. Like, Hey, hey,
46:23 you don't, you, you don't know the power of the person that I'm like, you guys are nothing
46:30 to me.
46:31 What is it when CS Lewis and Chronicles and Arnea when I forget which book it is, but it's
46:34 like, you know, they're talking about Aslan, the lion who is the God figure in that story.
46:37 And it's like, Oh, is he, you know, well, I, I forget, I'm messing it up with the magician's
46:42 nephew.
46:43 I think it's the magician's nephew when they first, when they first, is he good or is he,
46:46 is he dangerous? I think he's what he says. Yes, but he's good.
46:49 Right. And so that's the difference. And that's, you know, something we talked about
46:52 when, you know, what does the word meek mean? It doesn't mean that you're completely safe,
46:59 otherwise known as harmless, otherwise known as worthless. It's no, you, you know how to
47:04 be violent. You know how to be the lion, but no one gets to see that unless it's necessary.
47:10 And so I don't know this because I'm the only one at the table without a daughter. But that's
47:13 one thing when I hear pastors like like Mark Driscoll or anybody else talk about this to
47:16 where it's like, your sons will see the lion in you more because they've got the lion in
47:21 them a little bit. Your daughter should only see the lion when you're protecting them.
47:26 And that's kind of that difference is like you don't show the lion to your daughter.
47:30 Like that is not the proper right ordering, like she should see the lamb at all times,
47:34 but she should know that the lion is present. That if something were to go down, my father
47:40 will intercede for me to protect me. And I think that that's a really, really big deal.
47:45 But it also goes back because again, we have to remember where does what is the scaffolding
47:49 underneath which the Psalm hangs. And it's, you know, he's before the king of Gath, he's
47:55 pretending to be mad and pretending to be crazy. And what he does is very deceitful.
48:00 And I'm somebody that I cannot stand deceit. So some people call it lying. Some people
48:06 call it, you know, some people say every sin is theft. So if you lied to someone, you're
48:11 stealing the truth from them, you know, it's it's that type of thing. But it's deceit.
48:15 It's letting someone believe one thing when you know very well at that moment, the opposite
48:20 is true or there are some other actual capital T truth happening, which makes verse 13 of
48:25 Psalm 34, very, very interesting to me. They really, really stuck out as I was reading it.
48:30 Keep your tongue from evil and your lips from speaking to seat. So the first time I read
48:34 this as I was preparing for this episode, I just highlighted that because that just stuck
48:38 out. Like it just it's not like the verses around it. It didn't really make sense while
48:42 that was there. That was before I learned, like, you know, about his, you know, performance
48:49 before a Bimalak and how that attached to first Samuel 21 versus 10 through 15. But man,
48:54 that's a big deal for us because all of us at this table, at our age, we can get by
49:00 with lying because we're good at it. We've had our entire lives to be deceitful and we've
49:06 practiced lying with little children, right? Because you're going to say like, Oh, you
49:11 know, I'm not lying to my kid. I'm just, you know, not giving them the full truth. It's
49:14 like, no, you're telling them a fat guy flies through the sky in a red suit and comes down
49:19 your chimney and puts presents under the tree. Right. I'm not going to kill saying on this
49:22 podcast. We'll save that for another one, but it's like you just probably be a disclaimer
49:27 on this one. Sorry. If you're listening with your kids, you know, you know what you signed
49:31 up with, you know, you've been rolling with me for this long, but it's like we practice
49:35 deceit in our everyday life. We show people a different version of ourselves than we actually
49:40 are. We describe ourselves to people in a different way than is actually true. We lie
49:44 to ourselves. That's kind of like the end of this, you know, macabre rainbow. It's like
49:48 we start lying to ourselves and then we're starting to get high on our own farts at some
49:51 point. It's like, oh, I actually am this awesome person that doesn't make mistakes.
49:55 Oh, I actually am this person that has it going in business or has, you know, all these
49:59 things squared away. And I think that this is a good reminder that in his struggle in
50:04 his lament, it's a reminder. Keep your tongue from evil and your lips from speaking to
50:08 seat all the while knowing what he did before the king basically because he was scared.
50:12 So he's basically preaching the gospel to himself here. Yeah. And I, which, and my point
50:17 is we should be preaching to the gospel to ourselves daily. And he's literally saying,
50:22 keep your tongue from evil. Don't do this. The eyes of the Lord are toward the righteous.
50:28 There's examples in the Bible. I think the New Testament acts. It's, it's Ananias and
50:32 Sephira who they lie about like some piece of land that who cares and God just kills
50:39 them right on the spot. And here, here is David who lies and God, God sees fit to not
50:50 instantly judge him and kill him. And so he is considered righteous by the Lord, but not
50:59 because he's righteous because God sees him as righteous because God is merciful. So even
51:07 in this psalm, we see the gospel being preached and David preaching it to himself. And I think
51:14 that is something that we should be doing on a daily basis. Well, you know, David is super
51:20 sensitive to this, you know, because he, it could be one of those things where he gets
51:25 away with something. You know, in this case, he's like, gosh, I just God could have told
51:30 he's hanging me out. He did not. He's very merciful, but he could have gotten away with
51:33 it. And then the next time been like, well, I got away with it last time, I guess I'll do
51:36 it again. You know, and I think that's how that's just human nature, right? We will test
51:41 the waters. If we get away with it and nothing bad happens, we'll be like, yeah, maybe I
51:46 could do it again. You know, maybe take a little bit further, a little bit further. But but
51:50 David is clear here. He's very sensitive to the fact that he knows that he did something
51:54 wrong. He's preaching the gospel to himself. He's singing this song to his men, helping
52:00 them also and understand that was not right. You're painting. Yes, don't do this. I think
52:07 when you when you're talking about the gospel and how the gospel has three points throughout
52:10 the Old Testament, literally, I mean, y'all saw my page and all my notes here before we
52:14 got going, like there's not a whole lot of space left for me to write stuff on my page
52:17 of Psalm 34. But as y'all were talking probably about 30 minutes ago, I read Psalm 34 verse
52:23 22, the very last verse of the Psalm, the Lord redeems the life of his servants. None of those
52:29 who take refuge in him will be condemned. That's the gospel. Yep. But reminds me of Romans
52:35 eight one. Yeah. Right. But again, like it's easy to see the gospel in the New Testament,
52:41 because you know, the people that were writing that saw a risen Jesus or were interviewing
52:46 people that saw a risen Jesus again, there's no reason why Christianity should have survived
52:50 the first century in Rome. There's no reason for it. Right. So historically, you may not
52:55 believe in Jesus as a risen savior, but you have to say that that's that's pretty odd.
53:00 That's something like that happened. But again, the Lord redeems the life of his servants.
53:04 None of those who take refuge in him will be condemned. And again, we know the story,
53:08 but we take refuge in a lot of other stuff in this community that we live in. A lot of
53:13 people take refuge in their money. The amount of things they put up in their storehouses,
53:18 you know, just this morning, our pastor is going through the book of James, you know,
53:22 a few verses out of time. And it's talking, he talked about, you know, building a bigger
53:26 storehouse for the grains. And it's like, Hey man, you're going to die. Like, what are
53:33 you doing all this for? So we take a lot of refuge in that. Um, there was something I
53:37 saw recently, I'm going to get the details messed up, but I posted it on our Instagram
53:40 a while back. And it was this man that they found that was buried, you know, a thousand
53:45 or so years ago, buried with all of his treasure, gold, rubies, jewels, like all kinds of stuff.
53:52 He was buried with it, but he's still super dead, right? Super dead. Like he's super
53:57 duper dead. That's not his goal. That's whoever found it. Now it's the, you know, the property
54:01 that municipality or that, that museum or whoever did the excavation in the dig or something
54:05 like that. But we take refuge in so many other things. Some of us are really, really smart,
54:10 right? Notice how I didn't say me. Some of us are really, really smart. And they will
54:14 take refuge in that because no matter what happens in life, they can figure it out. Why?
54:19 Because they have a high IQ because they, you know, got a 34 on the ACT because, you
54:23 know, they were a national merit scholar because they were this side of the other thing. We
54:25 take refuge in our abilities, right? Maybe you're an athlete, you've been an athlete your entire
54:29 life. You'd never had to try so hard because you were so athletic and you were so gifted
54:34 in that way. But again, even in the Old Testament, we get down to this. That is a ringing bullhorn
54:40 now of this is a picture of the gospel. Yeah. Yeah. I was thinking a million dollar baby.
54:46 Remember that movie came out? Yeah. I mean, what did she she tied her identity to boxing?
54:53 And then when when that was taken away, I remember she was like, telling her coach, take
54:57 me out. You know, I just want to die. Nothing left to live for. And the reality is, is that
55:05 we are at some point going to not be able to stand up underneath whatever we were taking
55:10 refuge in. You know, most likely the money's going to be fleeting. Your physical capabilities
55:16 are going to wane. You know, we may not be able to remember things like we used to. I
55:21 mean, what a tragedy if you build on that shifting sand. Well, I think talking about identity,
55:27 it's so important to have an identity in Christ and who does Christ say you are and who does
55:32 God say you are. And it's not this like shed off the skin to become who you are truly destined
55:40 to be. It's the God who is just looks on me, a sinner and sees me clothed in Christ's righteousness.
55:51 That's who I am. And if my identity is in that, like, like it says in verse 22, like
55:58 the Lord redeems the life of his servants, none of those who take refuge in him, who is
56:02 my identity in it is in Christ. And I was there like, I was really good at soccer. And that
56:08 was my identity. And when I I was so wrapped up in that, that's all I could see. And I
56:15 went through this period where I stopped playing. And I considered myself worthless because
56:22 my identity was so wrapped up in my ability to kick a ball that even if you're really
56:31 good, Cristiano Ronaldo, still playing at 38, still only 38, he's not going to be playing
56:38 until he's 50. And if that's where your identity is, and that's a sad way to live, think about
56:45 the Olympians, you know, these some of these guys are peaking at 18, 16, 22. Now what they've
56:52 literally won gold, how many times? And now what? Well, go ahead. Well, I was gonna say,
56:57 like, Eric, Eric Lydell, like one of one of my favorite stories is Eric Lydell. I mean,
57:03 an amazing runner, weird, weird looking running gate, like no one would say, try to run like
57:10 him, but he was really good at running. But he his his identity was so grounded in Christ,
57:18 he was gonna he was to be a missionary. And there's a there's a story where his sister
57:21 gets mad at him. Hey, you're supposed to go overseas and be a missionary. And he says,
57:27 I will get to that, because that is where my identity is. But when I run, I feel God's
57:33 pleasure. And there's this like dichotomy of, yes, I was I was made to run. But that's not
57:42 where my identity is. How cool is it that he knew that from a very early age and was able
57:48 to still have that thought like Olympic athlete, right? But that's not my identity.
57:52 Well, in our identity is tied to where we take refuge, right? It's exactly because I'm
57:57 reminded of the story of Dion Sanders. This was after when it was one of the the Cowboys
58:02 Super Bowls that they want or something like that. So it was the pinnacle, right? I believe
58:06 it was was that maybe when the 49ers doesn't matter. So Dion Sanders, his team just won
58:09 the Super Bowl, he gets back to the hotel. And he realizes this is the peak of my athletic
58:16 life. He had he, you know, again, he was very talented athlete, played professional baseball
58:21 at same time, he's profane playing professional football, just an absolutely gifted human being.
58:26 But the pinnacle of his entire life, his identity was being a Super Bowl champion. And he got
58:31 to the Super Bowl, one, and that was it. He was never more depressed. I've heard the
58:36 same thing about tennis champions. They went Wimbledon and they're like, is this it? Like
58:41 I, excuse me, I've worked my entire life to get to this exact moment. I've sacrificed
58:48 friendships, relationships, money, my body to get here. Think about, you know, you mentioned
58:54 Cristiano Ronaldo, Lionel Messi, Argentina, they just they win the World Cup, right? Lionel
58:59 Messi has won every team and individual award you could possibly win. Tom Brady, just, you
59:04 know, retired from from football again this year, the most successful he's being talked
59:08 about in the same way that Michael Jordan's talked about, right? It all ends. And then
59:13 it's like, well, my identity was my my super accurate deep ball. My identity was scoring
59:19 off of, you know, free kicks. My identity was being able to shut down the best wide receiver
59:24 on the other team. But they were taking refuge in that and they realized it's all gone. And
59:28 I guess as the story goes, as Dion Sanders actually in that moment, you know, got on his
59:32 knees in the hotel room and asked Christ into his into his life. And you know, you can judge
59:36 whether or not that the fruits there and whether or not that actually happened doesn't really
59:38 matter. It goes back to the eventual story. We all have a story like that. Now, there weren't
59:43 typically tens of millions of people watching us as our story was playing out on television.
59:48 But we all have that story, the thing we take in in our identity, like, you know, on the
59:53 podcast guy, you're the business guy, you're, you know, you're the person taking care of
59:56 people's bodies, you know, you're the person running a business or you're the person that
59:59 had all this athletic ability, it always comes back to where is your identity and where are
1:00:03 you going to take refuge? Because if it's not in Christ, again, the Lord redeems the life
1:00:06 of his servants, none of those who take refuge in him will be condemned. That is your only
1:00:11 shot. Never missing a PK. That's not it. Right? Like, you know,
1:00:15 that's penalty kick. You know, it's penalty kick for all you Americans out there that
1:00:18 actually like real sports. Sorry, Matt, but like, like that's, that's not it. Your ability
1:00:22 to hit all your quarterly earnings goals. Your ability to never miss a sales quota. None
1:00:27 of that. You don't take refuge in that because you will be condemned. If that's where you
1:00:31 take your refuge. Guys, again, this is my favorite song. Thank you guys for being a part
1:00:36 of this. I'm so happy to be able to discuss this with you. There are certainly more there,
1:00:39 but we're going to go ahead and leave it there for now. But guys, come back next Sunday,
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