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THE FORGING TABLE | Nehemiah 7 (Ep. 474)

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THE FORGING TABLE | Nehemiah 7 (Ep. 474)
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In this episode of The Forging Table, we dive deep into Nehemiah 7, exploring the importance of leadership, delegation, and the ongoing work of defending what God has built. We discuss how the genealogy of those returning to Jerusalem is a powerful reminder of God's faithfulness and the significance of each name in His story.
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0:00 Welcome back to the Forging Table, the mission of Undaunted Life is equipping
0:29 into pushback darkness with content that forges spiritual, mental and physical resilience.
0:34 At the Forging Table, you'll see a group of regular guys forging spiritual resilience
0:37 by digging into God's Word, and we're welcoming all of you to come along on the journey with
0:41 us.
0:42 That's Jake.
0:43 That's Ryan.
0:44 That's Matt.
0:45 Guys, we're digging into Nehemiah 7 today.
0:46 And one quick note on Nehemiah 7 right from the beginning, there are certain parts
0:49 of the Bible that are super easy to skip because it seems like nothing's there that as you're
0:56 going through it, and maybe you've just got done with Romans, and it's like every sentence,
1:02 every verse of Romans is just astonishing and like, it's just such a big deal.
1:08 And then you get to certain parts of the Bible and they just kind of seem like a slog.
1:11 If it seems like a slog, maybe you should really think about what you're seeing there
1:15 because there's probably a whole lot more there than what you recognize.
1:19 So that's just kind of the basic beginning to Nehemiah 7.
1:23 But again, from last week with Nehemiah 6, the wall is rebuilt.
1:28 It's done.
1:29 Right?
1:30 What they set out to do, what Nehemiah set out to do, when he risked his life by asking
1:34 for, you know, a leave of absence from King Art of Xerxes court as the cut bear, it's
1:38 done.
1:39 And it wasn't without its opposition.
1:41 And for a lot of us, and I think we mentioned this last week, we get to this thing where
1:45 we've accomplished the goal and then we think we've arrived.
1:48 And then we think there's there's nothing else that needs to be done, but there's clearly
1:52 more that needs to be done.
1:53 So Jake, if you wouldn't mind read verses one through three of Nehemiah 7, please.
1:59 Sure.
2:00 Now, when the wall had been built, and I had set up the doors and the gatekeepers, the
2:03 singers and the Levites had been appointed, I gave my brother, Hananiah, and ananiah,
2:08 the governor of the castle charge over Jerusalem, where he was a more faithful and Godfearing
2:13 man than many.
2:15 And I said to them, let not the gates of Jerusalem be opened until the sun is hot.
2:19 And while they are still standing guard, let them shut the bar, shut and bar the doors,
2:25 point guards from among the inhabitants of Jerusalem, summit their guard posts and some
2:29 in front of their own homes.
2:31 So the thing is, is right here from the beginning, the work's done, but the defense of the work
2:37 is not the, it is an ongoing project, not a project that is simply finished.
2:45 And so I think that's an important thing here.
2:47 And there's, there's a lot of context here that, you know, if it's interesting to you
2:49 guys, you can get into it, but, you know, why they wanted to wait until the heat of the
2:54 day to open up the gates, because typically it was opened very, very early in the morning,
2:58 but as part of their defense of what they just got through doing, they wanted to adjust
3:02 that.
3:03 And again, Nehemiah being the consummate manager, the consummate politician, he was ready to
3:09 go with gatekeepers, singers, Levites.
3:13 And then he appointed a man, so basically he gave some of his power away to a God-fearing
3:18 and faithful man to be the governor of the castle and in charge over Jerusalem.
3:23 So there's so many just basic business and leadership lessons here, even just in the
3:27 first part to where it's like, you've accomplished your goal, you were the main guy.
3:31 And then the very first thing you did is you basically assigned a manager over something
3:35 else, you assigned a captain.
3:37 And again, just in the first few verses, like that's a big deal.
3:40 All this going on all at once.
3:44 And then I did the worst job of setting anybody up, because everyone just looked at me and
3:48 went, not only is he ugly, not only is he a ginger, but also he makes terrible points.
3:52 So should I just, should I just leave you guys?
3:54 Well, I think the delegation of these things and that Nehemiah does, like he obviously
4:00 is, this is not for his glory, or you could probably see some, I'm going to do all these
4:05 things because I don't trust these people.
4:09 He trusts God for his promise, but then he also trusts other people to help carry out
4:17 what God has called him to do.
4:20 And what a great lesson in leadership.
4:22 And Nehemiah is just a book chock full of lessons in leadership.
4:27 I think that's a, what a humble, what a humble approach to say, I'm going to let these people
4:34 do this thing.
4:35 A sign of the people, these other things, instead of going, I want, I want the glory.
4:41 I want to do it.
4:42 You know what I found interesting was the first people he considers in terms of guarding
4:48 the walls, okay, he, he brings out the gatekeepers, singers and the Levites.
4:55 These are all worship officials, okay, he's not, he's not putting an army on the wall.
5:02 It's not about, it's not about might.
5:03 It's about worship.
5:05 So the first thing that he comes up with in terms of, how am I going to defend this city
5:11 from future attack?
5:12 Well, the first thing I'm going to do is I'm going to put people in place to honor God.
5:17 That's first.
5:18 Yeah.
5:19 I wonder as well, because I, I definitely didn't think about that, Jake.
5:22 I wonder if that even attaches to what we saw in Nehemiah six to where it's like, okay,
5:27 what did Tobias and Sam ballot and Gesham, they tried to set him up as, oh, well, we heard
5:35 through the grapevine that you wanted to make yourself a king.
5:38 And so I wonder if that was even that, if that was intentional, because if it's like, okay,
5:42 if you fortify the city and then you basically have mercenaries or a standing army there,
5:47 it's like, well, yeah, that kind of does lend credence to what those, those guys were saying.
5:53 I wonder if that, that had a part of it as well.
5:55 I think you're right.
5:56 I mean, honestly, if you think about it, the first thing that you would do, I mean, when
6:01 you talk about, I like what King George said about George Washington, it's like, whenever
6:06 he, if George Washington said that he was going to resign, you know, basically as commander
6:11 in chief of the US Army, whenever they finally defeated the British, King George said, if
6:16 he does that, he'd be the greatest man in history, okay.
6:20 In this scenario with Nehemiah, you're going, if he had an army, he rebuilt this wall.
6:24 He defends Jerusalem.
6:25 He has an amazing stronghold.
6:29 But if the first thing he was doing was, I'm putting an army on the wall to defend it.
6:35 That's the thing I'm doing first.
6:37 Absolutely.
6:38 Artaxerxes would be kind of crazy not to think that what does this guy do in down there?
6:42 I'm a little skeptical of what his motivations are.
6:44 I trusted that guy.
6:45 Mm hmm.
6:46 When I think it's important, it reminds me, so you mentioned George Washington, so Cincinnati's,
6:51 so the, the Roman general that was brought into basically uphold the Republican as soon
6:55 as he had all the power in the most powerful, uh, people group on the planet.
7:00 He gave it away and just went back to his farm.
7:03 And the thing is, is that is a very romantic story.
7:06 It's a story that it has a lot of lessons to it.
7:09 But what if Rome fell immediately, then we wouldn't be remembering Cincinnati's as this
7:14 great, moral, upstanding guy would be like, Hey, you did part of the job, like, awesome.
7:21 But we needed you like in the long term.
7:24 And I mean, even reminded of my favorite movie gladiator.
7:27 So when, uh, when, uh, Maximus that they've, they've won, they've defeated all of the,
7:32 the rebels, they've defeated all these different people and he's ready to go home.
7:37 And the, the emperor is like, well, I need you now more than ever.
7:41 It's like you did everything you needed to do, but now Rome requires more service.
7:46 And so it's like the job simply is not done.
7:49 And that gets us really into verse five.
7:51 Uh, Mack, can you reverse five please, of course, then my God put it into my heart to
7:56 assemble the nobles in the officials and the people to be enrolled by genealogy.
8:00 And I found the book of the genealogy of those who came up at the first.
8:04 And I found written in it dot, dot, dot.
8:07 So the, the point here, because, um, they've rebuilt the walls and that could be your
8:14 Cincinnati's moment to where it's like, all right, I'm going to go back and be cut, buried
8:17 to Kingard Xerxes, but the work is not done.
8:20 That is an enormous first part of the project, but now it's time to rebuild the people.
8:25 And so it's the purpose was to repopulate Jerusalem, uh, now that the walls have been
8:30 rebuilt and they want that the inhabitants to be, you know, of Jewish descent, then, you
8:34 know, they want it to be of the covenant people.
8:37 And you know, we all just got through talking about this.
8:39 So we'll, uh, off air.
8:40 And so we'll kind of let you all behind behind the curtain a little bit.
8:44 So I was nervous about recording Nehemiah seven because in contravention of what I said
8:49 to start this episode, I was like, well, there's not really a lot here.
8:52 And Jake, you kind of said the same thing.
8:54 And Ryan, you kind of said the same thing.
8:56 And then apparently there's one smart person at this table and he's sitting to my right.
8:59 And that's Matthew Grassmeyer.
9:01 Matthew Gregory Grassmeyer.
9:02 No, no.
9:03 Dang it.
9:04 What's your middle name?
9:05 Raw.
9:06 Gregory is my brother.
9:07 Oh, God, I'm an idiot.
9:08 Don't let him raise.
9:09 Sorry.
9:10 Sorry.
9:11 My name is Ray.
9:12 I just even said the wrong.
9:13 Sorry.
9:14 My brother's name is Gregory Ross.
9:16 My name is my middle name is I don't feel as bad for ruining your middle name because
9:19 that's you that it's never happened.
9:21 You never read Charles something about the grandfather's name was Ray the time warp of
9:26 the forging table.
9:27 It kind of helps.
9:28 He does that.
9:29 So again, I go ahead, Ryan, before we get into that, because I know we're going to really
9:33 extrapolate into this next.
9:35 There was one thing I wanted to bring up in the last chapter or the last couple of verses.
9:39 I think that we didn't recognize was Nehemiah's humbleness.
9:44 How he humbled himself and he shared leadership with Hananiah and Hana and brought the men
9:49 as governor.
9:50 I think that's a that that's a huge thing to look at like he knows the work still needs
9:54 to be done.
9:55 But then he also shares the leadership with two other guys.
9:58 One guy who he says is more faithful and God fearing man than many like for him to recognize
10:05 that.
10:06 I mean, you're Nehemiah right now.
10:07 You're like, you know, I know God's doing all this.
10:10 Like he's putting a lot of faith in God and what's going on here in the Jerusalem.
10:16 And he even points out guys who are more faithful than he is, which is pretty amazing.
10:21 Well, what were you saying before?
10:25 Because before we record, we typically kind of get a sense of where everybody's at, but
10:28 you were saying something else about kind of even in these these first few verses about
10:32 like when when Paul was talking about the armor of God and the in the different things
10:36 because it's like, yeah, you need literal armor to defend yourself.
10:39 But then there's also some other things that that need to be done.
10:42 You need righteousness and you need truth.
10:44 And I mean, we kind of saw that in the last chapter as well where, you know, he put on
10:48 the breast, the belt of truth in regards to the arrows that were being flung at him by
10:54 sandballot and the other guys to buy a aggression, but then you also get sure I'm sorry, I just
11:03 don't want Joe be to get on me.
11:04 Joe be Mark listens to all of these and he takes notes about all the things that we say
11:08 wrong.
11:09 You're trying to find your own business.
11:11 Joe, I'm like, I did for the I now, whatever Joe is on your show, I listen to every word
11:16 he says.
11:17 Like I'm going to get him.
11:19 Don't mess up.
11:20 Joby Martin.
11:21 I'm going to get you, Joby.
11:22 No, um, gash him.
11:23 But then he also looked at, um, you know, the, uh, we looked at the belt of truth.
11:26 I haven't pulled up right here.
11:27 So I'll, I'll read it real quick.
11:29 Um, therefore take up the full armor of God so that you will be able to resist on the
11:33 evil day and having done everything, stand firm, stand firm, therefore having belted
11:39 your waste and truth, which is what Nehemiah did, belted his waste and truth and putting,
11:45 um, ending, stopping whatever the, uh, sandballot, gash him and Tobiah were trying to do and,
11:53 and ruining his name, but then stand firm, therefore having belted the waste of truth
11:57 and having put on the breastplate of righteousness.
12:00 I think that's what he did.
12:01 He put on the breastplate of righteousness and we're seeing that right now and that
12:05 he put his trust in God.
12:07 He held to what God's law was and the righteousness of that.
12:11 Then he's even pointing out the men who are righteous among him to help lead these people.
12:17 Like you brought up the, uh, Levites, the worshipers and now we're, we're leading a ragtag group
12:23 of people.
12:24 I mean, it's like the little giants right here, you know, going up against the Cowboys and,
12:28 and he's like, you know, I can't do this on my own.
12:31 You know, and so I just think it's, I think it's a beautiful picture of looking at Nehemiah's
12:35 humbleness.
12:36 It's just, I don't think I'd be that humble in this situation.
12:39 There's so much, there's so much symbolism here too.
12:41 You look at, at David as he defeats Goliath, you have this massive army, Saul's got an
12:48 army.
12:49 They're all afraid.
12:50 What is David has?
12:51 David has the word of God, David has God on his side.
12:54 I come to you in the name of God and he kills Goliath like he wasn't, you know, an army
13:01 of a thousand people.
13:02 Now, David was no, he wasn't some, you know, scrawny, weak little kid compared to Goliath.
13:07 He was compared to Goliath.
13:08 He sure was, um, and I, there's just God uses so many things, so many times throughout
13:15 history and throughout the word, like I, you know, when you said that, I thought, man,
13:19 David is a perfect example of that.
13:20 He was worshiping God and God used him to deliver his people, started to take us off
13:26 track.
13:27 And that's, that's actually really good because again, it's, you're not going to get many
13:32 commentaries.
13:33 I would point something like that or draw that correlation, but there's even some stuff
13:35 coming up in Nehemiah that I was just like, Oh, that, that relates to something like really
13:40 minute that's in the Psalms and it just kind of gives credence to the fact that like this,
13:44 this isn't, you know, the Bible isn't like a book as much as it is a library, a collection
13:49 of stories that all tell one massive meta narrative about, you know, the gospel and the
13:54 saving grace that we're offered. And so, uh, but Matt, I just want to kind of tee you up
13:58 a little bit to talk about this because so if you read the first five verses of Nehemiah
14:04 seven, you could then get into verse six and be like, Oh boy, there's a bunch of names.
14:09 I can't pronounce.
14:10 There's a bunch of numbers and this isn't supposed to be the book of numbers.
14:13 So what exactly is happening here and you can just buzz right through it and get all the
14:17 way in and be like, okay, let's go ahead and get into a, you know, eight, you know, where
14:20 Ezra comes and this is going to be great. But you, you found this verse seven, you found
14:25 a lot of weight in what we had not in verse seven, but in chapter seven rather.
14:29 Yeah, I think so this list is essentially the same list that's used in, in Ezra, but
14:36 couple, the first thing that really stuck out to me was, and I found the book of the
14:43 genealogy of those who came up at first, and I found written in it, and it goes through
14:49 this list. And I think if we camp out here for a little bit, reading through these names,
14:57 God reads these names. God knows these people. And if we take that to a personal application,
15:06 God knows his people and God called specific people back to Jerusalem. He's rebuilding a
15:14 application, not of random people. He's rebuilding his nation of specific people. These are all
15:22 specific historical names that God is calling back. And so if we look at the way this plays
15:31 out again, as God calls his people by name, he doesn't just say you are my people, he
15:37 knows us and he knows us from the foundation of the earth. And the Lamb's book of life
15:43 was, was what came to mind. And it's mentioned seven times in the book of Revelation, but
15:48 chapter 21, I'll just turn that open and read, read that or chapter 20, sorry, read the, read
15:53 the end of chapter 20. It just goes, then I saw a great white throne and him who was
16:01 seated on it from his presence earth and sky fled away and no place was found for them.
16:07 And I saw the dead great and small standing before the throne and books were opened, then
16:12 another book was opened, which is the book of life. And the dead were judged by what was
16:18 written in the books according to what they had done. And the sea gave up the dead who
16:21 were in it, death and Hades gave up the dead who were in them. And they were judged each
16:25 of them according to what they had done. Then death and Hades were thrown down in the lake
16:29 of fire. This is the second death, the lake of fire. And if anyone's name was not found
16:36 written in the book of life, he was thrown into the lake of fire. So what an amazing
16:43 picture we have, even in the Old Testament of God calling his people by their specific
16:49 names. If you weren't on this list of genealogy, you weren't coming back to the city. You weren't
16:55 part of the rebuilt nation. And I think it's such an important thing to think about. If
17:01 you're written in the Lamb's book of life, you are covered and clothed in Christ's righteousness.
17:07 And what a great and glorious thing to sit in. And so that's what I took out of that.
17:13 So I'd love to just talk through that a little bit with you guys on what that means because
17:18 you can get, oh, this name, this name, this name, but your name's in there. If you are
17:23 in Christ, your name is in there. Jake is written in there. And that's such a cool thing to
17:28 think about. Where cool is probably cool is probably the biggest understatement that
17:33 I could use. But it's a glorious thing. It's a great truth.
17:38 Yeah, I think sometimes when you start getting into this, like when you start reading these
17:43 list of names in the Bible, because I struggle to, I mean, truthfully, I'm reading this last
17:48 night as I'm trying to prepare. And I'm like, well, all right, I'm going to skip through
17:51 this. Where do they stop talking about different people? And I mean, I'm an accountant. So the
17:57 numbers immediately started like getting interesting and I start getting my 10 key out. And I'm
18:01 like, does this all add up? Does this? But at the same time, I mean, think about, I don't
18:08 know, think about whenever you look at like your own family tree, you know, and how fascinated
18:13 we can be by like, Oh, I was related to this person, you know, this is no different. I
18:20 mean, you're reading your family tree right here. It all goes back. You know, you're going
18:24 back to Abraham, you're going back to Noah, you're going back to Adam and Eve, even this
18:29 is, this is your own family tree right here. And it's kind of it can be hard to think about
18:36 that because we are so far removed from it. But you know, when you start a creation, this
18:43 is your own family. I think one thing to look at too is, you know, they're coming back,
18:48 they were exiled. They were, they were scattered across the Babylonian Empire when the first
18:55 wave came through with Nebuchadnezzar. And now they're coming back to Jerusalem, which
19:02 was virtually empty with broken walls. So now they're coming back into a new, a new
19:09 era, a new, what you say, maybe a new covenant. And so it's, it's, it's more of a beginning
19:16 now rather than we look at this and we look at a past, like, Oh, look at all the genealogy.
19:20 Let's look at the past because that's what we know from Matthew. You know, but now if
19:23 we look at these names and they're pretty important names, because they're an Ezra as
19:27 well, that they came back and they inhabited Jerusalem and they brought a future to Jerusalem.
19:33 Like this is their future coming back. And, and I think that's one thing to look at when
19:38 we're talking about what the situation you were talking about about the Lamb's book of
19:41 life is that we're coming back to the righteousness of what God has planned for us, you know,
19:46 we're all exiles and sin. And because of Christ, we can be righteous in front of him. We can,
19:53 we can be a new body. We can be a new life.
19:55 I think also back to Isaiah, when he's, you know, he's feeling alone. And I think it's
20:01 Isaiah and God tells him, no, there's, there's a remnant in my is not alone. He is not the
20:08 only one he gets these people together, but they're not alone. There's a remnant that God
20:11 is calling. And I want to be part of the remnant. Like, I want to, I want to, I want
20:18 to run after that. I want to seek that. I want to be in the Lamb's book of life and God calls
20:25 his remnant. Like you were saying, we're all exiled through sin, but God calls us back.
20:31 And if you don't think the gospel is preached in the Old Testament, I would encourage you
20:37 to think about that. Because man, right here, I could, even in Nehemiah, which truthfully,
20:44 I had not really ever dug into. And then Kyle said it was his favorite book of the Bible.
20:48 And I was like, Oh, that's interesting. But I respect Kyle's opinion. I could see that.
20:52 Okay, that's cool. And then our Sunday school teacher did a series, a Wednesday night series
20:56 on it. And then as I started getting into this, man, that has turned into one of my favorite
21:00 books too. And the gospel is preached very powerfully here. It's built on leadership.
21:07 It's just like, how can I be a leader? And when I look at myself as a father, and I look
21:13 at myself as a person within the church with, you know, my friends, how can I lead them
21:18 to the gospel? And like, how can I lead them to righteousness? And Nehemiah does that and
21:22 Nehemiah shows us his leadership is not from his own hand, but the leadership of God. Like,
21:28 he's let's God just take control. And I think that's something that's hard for us all to
21:33 do is to let God take control.
21:35 Another interesting aspect here. These are all people in exile. Okay. No cell phones.
21:44 How are they getting back? Okay. How is he finding these people? This is going to take
21:49 a lot of effort, a lot of work. And you know, I'm naming these people. These are the people
21:52 who get to come back. I've got to get them. I've got to basically tell them, okay, here's
21:56 who gets to stay. Here's who doesn't. And yet he just spent all this time rebuilding
22:05 this wall from rebel. And at the end of that, he's like, you know, I think the natural human
22:11 inclination here would be like, okay, I'm done. I rebuilt the wall. I'm good here. And
22:17 yet you can see like in the very first line of verse five here, then my God put it into
22:24 my heart. He's still going back to God. He's done. He's done with the wall. I mean, what
22:30 he's done, most people would have talked about him for generations. And yet the first thing
22:35 he's doing is I'm going back to God. I'm going to talk to him again. And then God's
22:40 like, yep, I got more for you to do. You know, you got to go find these people. They got
22:44 to go all come back to Jerusalem. They're going to get to stay here. They're the remnant.
22:51 So with that on the remnant point, I'm curious. I think this is why you were why you were
22:57 talking about earlier, Jake is I feel a connection to my ancestry, right? So Irish Choctaw Indian,
23:05 like that that's interesting. And you know, maybe not interesting to y'all, but it's interesting
23:09 to me because it's part of my story of who I am. But I feel like in modernity, even with
23:14 all of our technology, all the genealogies, all the 23s and me's and all that kind of
23:18 stuff, it's interesting, but not directive. And so maybe I'm maybe I'm reading too poetically
23:25 into this. But when we get into this genealogy and kind of the point you were making mad
23:30 and taking it to revelation and just these the importance of these lists, at that time,
23:35 your your involvement or I guess your your membership in a people group, it wasn't interesting.
23:43 You directed everything that you did. And because again, like, you know, we're in this
23:49 modern moment where, you know, you get victim status by immutable characteristics that you
23:54 can't control. And so it's like, why am I sitting here in Edmond, Oklahoma? And I have
24:01 a Irish descent. Well, there was an enormous potato famine that almost killed everyone
24:06 that lived on that tiny little island. But a lot of those people and my ancestors got
24:10 out of there and came to America were treated absolutely horrifically during that process.
24:16 But you know, I don't feel a connection to potatoes now, like in where it's any different,
24:22 but like when I went to Dublin and I saw the the memorials there in some of the artwork
24:29 that depicted the potato famine, it did feel different than somebody who doesn't have a
24:34 connection there. And I can't explain it. When I hear like when I heard the the Celtic
24:39 music and things over there, something was different that I couldn't quite explain. You'll
24:42 see people that come from different parts of the world and the mood or the food or the
24:47 music and hits them a little bit different. But that's I guess something here for me is
24:51 like these people weren't just interested in where they came from. Like it basically
24:55 gave them a plan of action for how they're going to move into the future. Maybe I'm reading
25:00 too much into it, but that's just constantly I think that's a good point. But like these
25:04 people, you have to think, okay, we have we have conceded that we are we have been exiled.
25:11 We pulled out of our the city of our fathers. I'm okay with that. I'm living with that.
25:20 We are all we are all in that. And you look at the Tower of Babel, God scatters his people.
25:26 People are all over the world. But even if you don't have that connection to genealogy,
25:33 you're all adopted into the family of God into the fold that Paul talks about adoption
25:39 in a very like legal way. God stands or Christ stands and says, I will take this person like
25:49 I will adopt this person into my family. And that's that's that's the story I read here
25:56 where all these people, okay, I'm here. I'm just going to be here. And then God says,
26:01 no, no, no, come on back. Y'all are part of my family. And if you read these names, it
26:07 can be very boring. These names are not boring to God. God reads these names and is like,
26:12 I love this person. I the sons of era, like he reads those in a way he knows those people
26:20 and we can we can we can very quickly. I'm going to go through this list and I want to
26:26 just get through it because it's really where I want to be. God is not reading the list that
26:30 way. God put it in here for a reason because it's important to go that brings up an interesting
26:36 point as well. And don't lose the tran thought y'all are on either, but the whenever you
26:42 go through a tragedy, right? So 911 or the Vietnam Memorial or if there's a school shooting
26:49 where there's, you know, a dozen or more victims, it's easy to just kind of like just go right
26:54 through and not even think about the list. But that's why at different points on on my
26:58 show when we're talking about these horrible things that have happened where I I try to
27:03 list those people. Because that's not just a list of people that like those are those
27:09 are people that were loved by entire communities of people. And so yeah, they may just end up
27:15 being a name on a memorial. But I mean, even recently, my my cousin, who's a police officer
27:20 that was killed in the line of duty last year, you know, he was part of, you know, the, you
27:24 know, the celebration that they do every year in Washington, DC, where they basically talk
27:28 about, you know, officers that have been lost in that year. And his name is now in a memorial
27:33 with other first responders that have died, different things like that. And it's really
27:37 easy for people that don't know my cousin didn't know my family to be like, you know,
27:42 that's a name and all that so tragic. But it's like, no, the ramifications of that are
27:45 going to ripple for decades and for generations. And like, that's, that's not a small thing.
27:50 And so that's another thing whenever you're reading through this, if this is God's word,
27:55 these names are here for a reason. And the reason may not be as profound to you as, you
28:01 know, the last book of Matthew where it talks about the resurrection and how that's basically
28:05 how we're able to have, you know, payment for our sins so we can be before a holy and
28:09 just God, maybe it's not going to hit the same, but it doesn't make it unimportant.
28:13 It is important, even if you don't understand why.
28:15 I think one thing to look at is why are these? Why did he choose these people? You know,
28:22 I'm going to Romans 11. I'm going into Romans 11.
28:26 So this is fantastic, but great. I wonder what he's going to say next. So, you know, it all
28:36 starts out, I say then God has not rejected his people. Has he far from it or I to him
28:41 an Israelite, a descendant of Abraham of the tribe of Benjamin. God has not rejected
28:46 his people whom he foreknew or do you know what the scripture says in the passage about
28:51 Elijah and how he pleads with God against Israel. Lord, they have killed your prophets,
28:56 they have torn down your altars and I alone am left and they are seeking my life. But
29:02 what is the divine response to him? I have kept for myself 7,000 men who have not bowed
29:08 the need of all. That's what that's when I was, I was, I was, I was wrong male, ball
29:14 male, you say it's made. I said, you know, Gordon Ramsey says basil instead of basil.
29:19 He's also British. They say, they say aluminum. So that's what Elijah was who I was thinking
29:29 of. So I'll correct my air earlier. Sorry, Joby. I really do. We need to start making
29:36 an honest or just say, sorry, Joby. I think that's a good point. Like God, I mean, there's
29:44 plenty of examples in the Old Testament where I didn't choose you because you did any
29:49 thing awesome. Yeah, I chose you because I love you. And is that not our relationship
29:57 with our kids too? Like, I love you because I love you. You're like, you're mine. Like
30:03 some days you're horrible. No, my kids got to do stuff or like, my, my love is super
30:07 conditional. God's love is unconditional. He's better as we see in tulip. I think one of
30:16 the things I like your point there though, Matt, about, you know, who he's choosing and
30:22 he's choosing them because he loves them. But they're in the grand scheme of things.
30:26 Most of the people he's choosing in the Old Testament, you know, at the time of their
30:29 choosing are generally unremarkable, like sometimes downright. I feel like that's why
30:35 I'm chosen because I'm unremarkable. But I agree. But the point is, I mean, I think,
30:42 again, talking through some discernment here, you know, powerful people invoking God all
30:47 the time. I don't think that's who God chooses. He's going to choose the humble. He's going
30:52 to choose those who seem relatively unremarkable to deliver those messages to you. I think a
30:57 lot of times when people invoke God in order to get you to do something and they're in
31:03 that position of power over you, sometimes you do need to have that little bit of a,
31:08 I don't know, there should be some skepticism. There should be. Yeah. This is probably not
31:13 who God would choose to necessarily deliver that message all the time. No, God is using
31:17 that person. He just might be using that person in a way to judge the nations. There you go.
31:22 Romans 13 says, so we have our own Nebuchadnezzar. Yeah. Yeah. So with that in mind, Matt, I want
31:29 to kind of get back to a point that you made whenever you were talking about this earlier
31:34 about how when a lot of people read the Bible, they don't see the gospel in the Old Testament.
31:39 I think part of it is that we don't have a full understanding of the Bible, of the context.
31:46 Cause again, we're, we're so inundated and marinated in this culture of bumper sticker Christianity
31:51 or something even recently that I've been thinking about. It's like, what I was, I
31:54 call it, it's like country music theology to where it's like, we talk about the man upstairs
31:59 and you know, how I'm too good at praying. But if I did, I'd do this and it's just like,
32:04 okay. And so it's where you can sound Christianity and not actually be saying anything. And it
32:12 sounds good when you say like, Oh, Jesus is my homeboy or man, the man upstairs is he's
32:16 leading my steps and it's going to be all right. And you know, I just feel his presence
32:21 when I got my Evan root and I'm out there on the pond. And it's like, that's fine. But
32:25 it's so vapid. It's just as vapid as going to a church that we talked about that has just
32:32 the TED talk, you know, topical preaching. And again, there's, there's not a categorical
32:36 problem with topical preaching. But if on top of that topic, isn't the word of God,
32:41 then we're going to struggle. And we're, we're going to kind of deviate. So talk a little
32:46 bit more because you just kind of drop that in the bucket there about when people read
32:49 through the Old Testament, when they read through Ezra or Nehemiah or first and second
32:53 Kings or whatever, they don't see the gospel there. Like it's easy to see it in parts of
32:58 Isaiah to where it's like, you know, he was crushed for our iniquities. And it's like,
33:01 he was his body was pierced like, Oh, God, that's Jesus right there. But it's not as
33:04 obvious everywhere else.
33:05 So if you think of the gospel and salvation, more in terms of deliverance, we are delivered
33:17 from our sins and our iniquities. I think that's a good place to start because then you like
33:23 all throughout the Old Testament, God's people are delivered and they are there is salvation
33:31 all throughout. And the Old Testament is quoted so often. In fact, I think in Revelation,
33:39 it's like almost two thirds of Revelation is quoting Old Testament prophecy or Old Testament
33:46 Scripture. And the gospel like the gospel starts in Genesis three. And you know, Noah,
33:56 the Ark is the gospel. There's only one door to the Ark. Jesus is the Ark. Like there's
34:01 only one way in and the water's coming. But if you're in that boat, you're good. The boat
34:09 is the Lamb's book of life. If you if you start to Joseph is a Christ figure, Nehemiah
34:16 is a Christ figure. Now, none of them live up to Christ's like godliness. None of them
34:26 are perfect, but they are our our Sunday school teacher says they are they are a dress rehearsal
34:33 to the coming Christ who will deliver all of his people. And I would encourage anybody
34:41 who who doubts that to just go read some of go read the New Testament, but then go read
34:48 some of these stories and you can easily see some of these things. Oh, okay, Noah, Moses,
34:59 Joseph, Nehemiah, all of these, all of these people are pointing to Christ and the whole,
35:05 the whole Bible points to Christ. I feel like an Old Testament just brings the
35:12 beautifulness of the gospel. Like you can have you can have the gospel. People are going
35:17 to hear the gospel without knowing Testament, but you're not going to appreciate it as much
35:21 as unless you look at the Old Testament. And I think that's one thing that will, you know,
35:27 not to get on to what we're going to talk about Nehemiah, but there's going to be a
35:31 certain point Nehemiah where people are going to look at the beauty of what the Old Testament
35:37 is. And then it's going to show them who they are. And then from that, they're know that
35:43 they're in need of a righteous figure, a righteous savior. Yeah. And so I think that's that's
35:48 the beauty of the Old Testament. I mean, it's just I thought I was I was on the whole, you
35:53 know, Andy Stanley thing, like, we don't need the Old Testament back when I was a cultural
35:57 Christian. You know, we just need the new Testament. And now I'm like, man, I totally
36:01 missed the gospel on what it really was when I didn't take when I took for granted what
36:06 the Old Testament was because I was like, why did why did Christ die for me? I'm a good
36:12 person. Pastor just told me last Sunday, you know, and so I think something that's interesting
36:19 in here. I mean, most of the old, I mean, much of the Old Testament is basically a story
36:24 of the Israelites, wanting their Messiah, wanting that savior, wanting the, I mean,
36:31 if you actually, if you think about it, I mean, even in, you know, as you're in Nehemiah,
36:36 typically, in history, we're actually one book at one point. And they've been separated,
36:42 but you have a prophet and you have a king, you have the story of a prophet and the story
36:46 of a king. When you have David, you have David, he's a king, but he has his own prophet that
36:54 was with Samuel, who was bringing him to who's kind of anointing him. They're generally not
37:02 one person. You'll notice there's always this separation between a prophet and a king and
37:06 a priest. There you go. I'm sorry, not prophet priest. Thank you. No, prophet, priests and
37:11 king. That's it. But where do they all come together? And they finally all come together
37:16 in the New Testament in the faith and in Christ Jesus, who is our savior, prophet, priests
37:21 and king is our savior. Yeah, absolutely. That's a great point. So I, there's, it's actually,
37:26 there's only one other and I'll deep dive a little bit. But McKill's a deck is actually
37:31 the only other prophet priest. And he was the only other person that got priest of Israel
37:35 and king of Israel. But he's mentioned like four times in the Bible, he was who Abraham
37:40 tied to. But at the same time, he was not even the Messiah. It was Jesus came back.
37:46 But Jesus came from or what is that he came from that life? Does he, yeah, does Hebrews
37:51 talk about that? I think it is a line of McKizzet. McKizzet? McKizzet? Yeah, whatever. Sorry,
37:57 Joey. Look, I could, I did a Bible study over Hebrew. I led up the first Bible study I ever
38:04 led was over Hebrews. And, and oh, yeah. And I got the, I got the McKills of deck heavy chapter.
38:11 I told my wife, I was like, I never thought that whenever I was going to start studying
38:14 the Bible, that I was going to have to start working on my, my Hebrew pronunciations. This
38:19 was not something I was expecting. Well, let me, so that brings up some of the
38:23 mind, like all of us, I think are fans of Alistair bag on this podcast. And of course,
38:27 you've got the just one of the greatest moments of any sermon that I've ever heard where it's,
38:33 you know, basically when he said the man on the middle cross said I could come. And you
38:37 know, if you haven't heard that part, like literally just search Alistair bag, the man
38:40 on the middle cross and listen to the entire sermon. But even that snippet has basically
38:44 gone viral and been everywhere. But one thing I'm trying to remember and I'll bastardize
38:49 it just a little bit on unfortunately, but he was just, you know, he's basically saying,
38:53 you know, the, the one of the guys I was being crucified next to Jesus, you know, gets up
38:58 there and he gets to the pearly gates as we're, you know, taught colloquially in culture.
39:03 And you know, he's talking to the people trying to, he's trying to get into heaven and he's
39:07 the other angels. Thank you. Sorry, Joe. But like, but the, so he's talking, he's talking
39:12 to him and it's like, okay, how are we going to let him in? And then they ask him, I was
39:15 like, well, what is your, what is your doctrine of faith? And do you understand the thing
39:21 about total the private, like he's asking, he's asking him, he's asking him these very
39:24 specific theological terms, these things that you learn in Bible college or at seminary.
39:31 And the, the, he basically describes it like, you know, the, the thief on the cross was
39:35 just basically like, I don't know anything about all that stuff. And you're reminded
39:39 about, you know, when these people were healed by Jesus in the New Testament, and then they
39:43 go off to tell about him and people are asking him, like, well, how did he do this? And what
39:47 was the thing? And does he know the laws and does he all that? And these people are like,
39:50 I don't know what you just said. But all I know is I was blind. I can see now. All I
39:54 know is I was paralyzed. My legs didn't work. And now I'm running around, like with my
39:58 mat over my shoulder. And so I wonder, and that that's kind of where my struggle in this
40:04 maybe goes back to a point we've talked about earlier on the show where it's like, you can't
40:07 just read the Bible, you have to study the Bible. Is it? I want to be fair with my question
40:12 here. Is it inappropriate for a new Christian to just stay in that naive where the only thing
40:20 they understand about anything in the Bible is that Jesus died for them. And they know
40:25 that's their only way to God. And they're going to put their faith in that. And then
40:28 they're going to live there. Or in what is what does the process look like from there
40:33 to where it's like, okay, but now we do need you to understand things further. Because some
40:37 people would say, hey, it's not bad that you're figuring out whether you're an Amalenius or
40:44 a dispensationalist or a cessationist or that that's all fine. But you're you're muddying
40:49 the waters like you're becoming smarter in the word and you're you're learning all these
40:53 big words that no one else knows how to pronounce. But it doesn't matter the gospels, all that
40:57 matters. Because that's where people that are big, Andy Stanley people are like, his
41:01 point is true. Like we need the resurrection. That is the center point of the faith categorically
41:07 he's correct. But how do we even know that? How do we even know to even look for a Savior
41:13 without the Old Testament? So that that is a very convoluted question. But I feel like
41:16 y'all are. Yeah. Everyone had a point. So I think I actually I'll go this. I actually
41:23 look it in two thoughts here. I think number one, hey, that is all you need. I mean, that's
41:29 a child like faith. I mean, that's what you're supposed to have. I don't really think that
41:34 there's any problem with having this. Well, this the new, you know, the New Testament,
41:39 the new covenant, that's that's all I actually need. And but to the going even drawing it
41:47 back into Nehemiah, we built the wall. Right. I have that wall. I know what I want. Now it's
41:53 time to defend it. And I think not having the knowledge of Scripture, not having the knowledge
41:59 of the word is I mean, that is how you guard your heart. So those temptations, those things
42:04 that are going to come to you over time. If you don't spend time in the word and try
42:09 and deepen your understanding, it becomes harder to keep on that walk with Christ. However,
42:16 in the grand scheme of things, yes, it's all you need. Yeah, I mean, if you look at if
42:22 you look at the Old Testament, you know, people are saved by faith alone. I mean, even New
42:25 Testament is faith alone. I mean, David's going to be in heaven. There was no Christ,
42:30 but Abraham's in heaven. Yeah, Abraham's in heaven. Moses is in heaven. But you bring
42:35 up Andy Stanley and Andy Stanley. Yeah, he may have the right message that the resurrection
42:39 is needed. But what is he doing to disciple his church? How is he discipling those people
42:44 that come to know Christ and are building that relationship? Because what we've seen in the
42:50 past is he's not discipling them very well, not biblically. You know, and so I think it's
42:56 twofold. It's you need to have that, but then you need to get yourself involved in the church
43:00 and have that yearning for, you know, God's word. And it could take time. I mean, I would
43:07 I could say I was saved when I was 12 years old. I didn't have a yearning for God's word
43:10 until 32. You know what we call that delayed sanctification. That's what I was talking
43:15 about with John Cooper. Like, yeah, where where's that gap come from? And is that appropriate?
43:19 There's a gap because like I knew I became saved. I was filled with the Holy Spirit. I
43:24 knew right and wrong. I still lived in the flesh. I mean, my wife and I lived together
43:28 before we were married. You know, I thought that was a great idea. Is it biblical? No,
43:33 was I added church that called me out, you know, and said, Hey, man, if you're going to
43:37 remember here, you know, this is the biblical view of marriage and cohabitation. No, they
43:42 didn't want to touch that. Why? Because it was a seeker sensitive church. They wanted
43:46 to be they wanted me to keep coming and keep tithing and just prop the numbers. And so that's
43:51 where it comes out when you're a Christian and you're building yourselves up. You need
43:56 to surround yourself with the right people with the people that are going to help mold
44:00 you and get you into the Bible and into God's word. Because if I would have had that early
44:05 on in life, maybe my sanctification would have been delayed. Yeah, I think that's a great point.
44:10 The point I would make is the Christian faith is certainly more than that. But it's absolutely
44:18 not less than that. Right. And in that same sermon, Alistair Begg says, because he starts
44:23 that sermon and he's in a church who you walk into a church, you can make some assumptions.
44:30 There's some saved people here. These are Christian people. But he says at the beginning,
44:35 the power of the message of the cross, and I should say at the very outset, especially
44:39 if somebody says, why choose such a topic for this evening? Is it really necessary to come
44:44 to an event like this to a place like this and address the matter of the centrality of
44:49 the cross? Well, I should say that I have not arrived here to tell you something that
44:53 you do not know, but rather that we would remind each other of that which we must never
44:59 forget. And that's one of my favorite sermons for sure. But like the gospel is something
45:04 that we should be preaching to ourselves constantly. And we can get into all the doctrines and
45:11 all of the theological discussions we want. But to your point, yes, it is, it is, we should
45:16 be so dogmatic about that that we're preaching ourselves, the gospel constantly. When you're
45:22 talking, I was reminded of what some would call the greatest sentence ever penned. Ephesians
45:31 one chapter three through 14. This is wordy, but I'm going to read this because this is
45:35 the gospel blessed be the God and father of our Lord Jesus Christ was blessed us in Christ
45:42 with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, even as he chose us in him before the
45:47 foundation of the world that we should be holy and blameless before him in love, he predestined
45:53 us for adoption to himself as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of
45:57 his will, to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he has blessed us in the beloved.
46:03 In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according
46:07 to the riches of his grace, which he lavished upon us in all wisdom and insight, making
46:12 known to us the mystery of his will, according to his purpose, which he set forth in Christ
46:19 as a plan for the fulfillness or for the fullness of time to unite all things in him, things
46:25 in heaven and things on earth. In him we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined
46:30 according to the purpose of him who works all things to the according to the counsel of
46:36 his will, so that we who were the first hope in Christ might be to the praise of his glory.
46:46 In him you also when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and believed
46:51 in him were sealed with a promised Holy Spirit, who was the guarantee of our inheritance until
46:56 we acquire possession of it, to the praise of his glory. That is the gospel. God for
47:02 new us, he predestined us to be his children. I'm not trying to get into some theological
47:10 debates here, but God knew us from the foundation of the earth. Christ atoned for our sin and
47:15 then the Holy Spirit sealed us with the promise. Man, you talk about going to church for an
47:24 experience in an emotional high. If you don't get revved up by listening to that and what
47:29 the triune God has done for each and every one of us, and I don't know what to tell you,
47:34 because that's that's pretty powerful stuff right there. So I wonder with that. So here's
47:40 here's a struggle that I have that I feel like is related to what you just read and the point
47:44 that we've been making for the last 45 minutes or so. I think all of us would categorically
47:51 agree that we need to have the Bible or have the gospel preached to us. We need to remind
47:57 ourselves of the truth of the gospel, that that should be a constant companion to the
48:01 content we take in and our internal dialogue and all that would everybody agree with that
48:06 100% three checks, three checks. Here's my struggle. And I'm not about to contradict
48:12 what I just said, but you go to a church regardless of the type of church that it is, whether
48:18 it's, you know, a highly emotional church or even just a regular church. That's, you know,
48:22 just a little bit more subdued. Someone declares their faith in Christ. They get baptized.
48:31 They do any of those types of things. And then this is what we get kind of like an obligatory
48:37 clap. And it's not even fathomable or even comparable to the same people that go to a
48:46 stadium on a Saturday in the fall and their favorite college team with 18, 19 and 20
48:53 year old boys scores a touchdown and the elation and craziness that they feel, or even we were
48:59 talking about EPL before this, you know, you're a Tottenham fan, which you don't normally
49:04 get to cheer for anything. But maybe you're a fan of a team that wins games. And so it's
49:09 like when when your team scores a goal, you lose your mind. When your team wins the World
49:15 Series, you lose your mind. And but when somebody has their name written in the land's book
49:22 of life and there's an acknowledgement of that, it's just like, well, isn't that nice? Well,
49:26 blessed or hard. And then that the sweetest thing in the world. And I have struggled with
49:31 that. And I understand it because, you know, ultimately us as humans, we're all about the
49:35 bread and circus. Like, you know, we love that, but we're distracted from the greater things.
49:41 And again, I'm not hovering above my commentary because I have screamed myself horse positive
49:47 and negative at a ballgame. But I've never lost my mind and ripped my shirt off because
49:54 somebody declared their faith in Christ. Where I don't just want to default and be like,
49:58 Oh, that's Satan. And it's just like, but like, there's something, there's, there's
50:03 a sickness there inside the church and inside the hearts of believers. And I just I don't
50:08 know how to deal with that. Because there are churches that do a great job of celebrating.
50:12 I know we're given Jobe a hard time, but they do, they do beach baptism. And it is a party.
50:17 And they're like, and they're baptizing hundreds of people at a time right there in the ocean.
50:21 And it is like, it is a full on thing. And like, I feel like they're doing it right.
50:26 But like, that is certainly the minority. I mean, I was raised in a church, you know,
50:31 I was raised in the Catholic faith. We're baptized as an infant. Yeah. And I think that,
50:38 you know, when you start talking about, like a lot of faith has actually kind of been,
50:42 you know, spun off of that Catholic faith a little bit. I mean, it's all just kind of
50:47 outflow from it. Baptism has become a bit of a box checking activity, you know, where
50:54 well, that's just what you're supposed to do. I don't think that people quite understand
50:59 the ramifications of being saved and, you know, making that declaration of like, Nope,
51:04 I've been washed new. I'm coming out of this water as a new person. What is the actual ramifications
51:10 of that? You know, it's it does seem soft. When we go into the church and we actually
51:16 see that happening and it's just like, Oh, yay, okay, they check the box. My wife weeps
51:22 every time she watches baptism Sunday at our church. Every time she weeps. And what's ridiculous,
51:30 little convicting on myself here, I actually give her a hard time for it. And I'm going,
51:35 you know, it's like, you don't know these people. But she, she truly understands the
51:40 ramifications of this. What does this mean? Yeah. So what? Yeah. Steve Lawson says there
51:45 should always be a so what in your sermon? Yeah. Like, okay, that's great. So what Paul
51:53 uses therefore, therefore be imitators of God as beloved children and walk in love as Christ
51:58 loved us and gave himself up for us a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. That's also
52:02 a fusion chapter five. Yeah. So what? Yeah. What do we do? Then then what? I would love
52:08 I'd love to see a party with baptism. You know, that's almost baptized. Just this, this year
52:14 of February. And like, yeah, I teared up, you know, she got was. Yeah, I mean, it was it's
52:20 a beautiful sight, you know, and that's just my child. So seeing other children go up there
52:24 and get baptized, it's beautiful. You know, I feel like it loses its, its effect because
52:32 baptism isn't the saving grace. You know, it's belief repentance. It's a saving grace.
52:38 I mean, I was probably more excited when my son actually came to that conclusion than
52:42 I was when he was dipped in water, but still a beautiful thing. My wife and I have decided,
52:46 unfortunately, our son got, well, fortunately, he got baptized on his birthday. But if they
52:52 get baptized, it's a day that's not their birthday. That's going to be like a birthday
52:55 party for us and our family. Like that's something we're going to celebrate. And I get the reverence
53:00 of church. I mean, church is about God. It's a beautiful thing. Our church claps and everything.
53:05 But I love what Joby does. I think it's awesome that they throw a party and people are getting
53:09 baptized. And it's just, it's just a way to, you know, just celebrate the beautifulness
53:16 of somebody coming in saying in front of everybody, I am a believer in Christ. And it's the most
53:22 important team that you can declare your allegiance to. You know what I mean? Well, I think the
53:27 other thing, if you think about it, you know, Ryan, to your point, like, yes, I could see,
53:33 like when my daughters decide to make that step and say, I'm declaring this and they tell
53:38 me that they've declared that I'm going to go that I mean, I'm going to be so excited
53:42 and so emphatically like encouraging with them. However, at the same time, all those kids
53:49 that go through and get baptized, the adults that go through baptism. I don't know them.
53:55 And this is the first time they're declaring it to me. Like, this is the step I've decided
53:59 to take. And I'm sorry, but shame on us as Christians that the first time that they declare
54:06 this to a whole lot of other Christians that we are not hollering and wooing and doing
54:12 all those things we would do at a sports game, because this is their first step out into public
54:20 as I am now a follower of Jesus. We should be psychotically encouraging to them in those
54:27 very first moments. And we're not and we can even sub dude, we can even look at this as
54:31 a pragmatic business stance. This is a sale, right? I'm not I'm don't hear what I'm not
54:37 saying. Accepting the gospel is not a sale. But if you look at the sales cycle for customers,
54:47 the sale is made. That customer is either going to leave or stay with that company and
54:56 I don't care where you're at. If there's not a win for that customer, there's not a
55:01 celebration. If there's not a movement a calling to get something out of that sale, they're
55:07 going to leave. So there are whole industries, it's a billion dollar industry to keep customers
55:13 and it's the first 90 days you need to win. And here we are, like you said, golf clap
55:19 cool. Good for you. I'm wins lunch. And when that guy's wall has just been built up and
55:27 now he is at risk or she is at risk of these guys hiring false profits to tell him untruths,
55:36 we should be surrounding that person in love and saying, yes, this is awesome. We are so
55:41 glad you're here. This is amazing. And we should be celebrating that and encouraging
55:45 that. But yeah, I think we definitely have fallen short in a lot of ways. Not everybody
55:51 does. But think about who's paying attention. So you see this different places and it's
55:56 typically funny. So you'll see like a three year old that's watching a game and then
56:00 they see their dad like freak out or put his head in his hands or something like that.
56:04 And then they look at dad and then they do it. And then it's kind of cute and it's kind
56:07 of funny because they're they're modeling, right? They're modeling their behavior after,
56:11 you know, someone that they respect or just someone that's bigger than them, a bigger
56:14 chimp if that's your worldview. But modeling shared excitement. Imagine what would happen
56:19 because I have a three year old and one year old if they saw me get out of my mind over
56:25 my skis excited about somebody declaring their faith in Jesus. And the difference that that
56:30 would have in them and their development, then dad freaking out watching a st. Louis
56:34 Cardinals game or something like that. Because that's something that, you know, back in my
56:37 twenties, like the number of nights that I ruined, I talk about this every year whenever
56:40 I do my ways to be avoid being a crappy man that year, it's not let sports ruin your night.
56:46 And I remember my my wife at the time, we're six, seven years before having kids and she's
56:50 still still his wife. Still his wife. Yeah, he said wife at the time. Yeah. She they are
56:55 still married. Sorry, Joby. We're still, we're still super duper married. Okay, same woman.
57:02 But at the time, my wife who's still my wife said, I can't imagine having children with
57:07 someone like that, someone like you, like what you're doing right now. Like, this is a baseball
57:12 game in May. And like you're early in the season, like you're you're losing your mind.
57:18 My cubs are typically out of it by then. So you're going, you're going to work. You're
57:23 going to work and it's hard for you to talk to people because you're mad that that the
57:27 clothes are blue, the save, like with a thousand games to go in the season. Right. But even if
57:32 it was game seven of the World Series, it's like, this is how I remember going to a World
57:36 Series game. It was game two of the 2011 World Series and the Cardinals loss ended up winning
57:41 the World Series. But at the time, I'm like staying with friends like near St. Louis and
57:45 like, I couldn't even talk when I got back to their house. And here's this family that
57:49 have opened up their their home to my wife and I to stay there overnight. And I couldn't
57:53 talk, woke up the next morning, I could barely talk. So I'm so mad. I was so mad that my team,
57:57 my team lost a game. They were winning, right? But it's like, it just showed where I was
58:02 worshipping and what altar I was worshipping at. And if I had sons that were watching that,
58:07 and surely my sons have already seen, you know, bad parts of dad's personality and things
58:10 that dad's going to have to repent and ask their forgiveness for. But that that should
58:14 just be a lesson as we wrap up here to all you guys out there that have kids, whether it's sports,
58:19 which is kind of the easy one, or maybe, you know, you worship at the altar of hunting,
58:23 or you worship at the altar of how many times you get to golf that week,
58:26 or whatever your activity is, jujitsu, shooting range, whatever, what your kids are watching,
58:32 where you find excitement and where you find joy and where you find fulfillment.
58:35 Are you putting your time? I think Dustin binge says it this way and he may not even be the one
58:39 that originated this, but less than 1% of kids will be a professional athlete. 100% of your kids
58:46 will stand in judgment before a holy God. It's true. Where are you putting your time?
58:51 And so guys, show some level of attachment, some level of excitement to the things of the gospel
58:57 and continue to preach it to yourself and have it preached over you. But so if there's a lesson
59:02 there, like there's seemingly not a lot to Nehemiah 7, and yet we filled up an hour with a lot of
59:06 great discussion, but we'll have to leave it there. But guys, come back next Sunday where we'll dig
59:10 into Nehemiah 8. So make sure that you read that so you're prepared for next week. And before we
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