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THE FORGING TABLE | Nehemiah 5 (Ep. 469)

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THE FORGING TABLE | Nehemiah 5 (Ep. 469)
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In this episode, we dive deep into Nehemiah 5, where Nehemiah confronts the injustices faced by his people and demonstrates true leadership by prioritizing their needs over his own comfort. He calls out the exploitation among the Jews and emphasizes the importance of caring for one another while rebuilding their community.
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1:40 That's Eric. That's Matt. Guys, we are digging into Nehemiah 5 today.
1:45 I'm very, very excited to dig into Nehemiah 5.
1:48 When you get into the first four chapters, one thing that I notice is I talk about Nehemiah 5
1:53 and I look forward to Nehemiah 5 or really anything in Nehemiah is I usually focus on the first four chapters
2:01 because that's where the most stuff without Chapter 3 being as exciting.
2:06 That's where the most stuff goes down, but there's a major shift with Nehemiah 5.
2:12 We've been talking about defense and we've been talking about we're going to do this and we're going to do that
2:16 and we're going to make sure that we're vigilant, which we talked a lot about last week,
2:20 biblical defense of self-defense and man, those are kind of banner episodes.
2:24 But now we're starting to get into what is happening with the people.
2:28 There's some damage that's coming to these people.
2:31 And again, reminder, this is a people that has been downtrodden for generations, right?
2:36 They've been beat up. They've been, you know, mentally destroyed.
2:40 And the rebuilding of the wall is almost like a metaphor for the rebuilding of who they are
2:45 as an attitude, as a people, as a personality.
2:48 The first two verses here in Nehemiah 5.
2:51 Now there arose a great outcry of the people and of their wives against their Jewish brothers.
2:56 That's very important against their Jewish brothers.
2:58 Not against Geshim, not against Tabiah, not against Sandballot, against their Jewish brothers.
3:03 For there were those who said, "With our sons and our daughters, we are many.
3:07 So let us get grain that we may eat and keep alive."
3:10 So at this time, when the word or the work of the Lord rather is taking place,
3:16 they're rebuilding the walls. Nehemiah, it has come in.
3:19 He eventually kicks the door down and he's getting after it.
3:22 People are starving to death.
3:24 And the reality is, is because the men were working on the wall, some in defense,
3:29 some in actual working as we've talked about at length at this point.
3:33 But in doing that, it made it harder for them to provide for their families.
3:38 And so there's a practical element here that this is a severe crisis that involves everyone.
3:44 And if not addressed, will affect the work that's going on.
3:48 And so for me, this is a hard left turn in terms of what we're looking at with Nehemiah.
3:53 Apparently, I'm the only one that thinks that.
3:57 You know how much I hate dead air.
3:58 And every single one of y'all looked at the other people, Matt,
4:00 you breathe the hardest and you have to talk down.
4:02 You have to talk down.
4:03 Well, you know, I think obviously they are,
4:07 I think this kind of speaks to like the just the trials
4:11 and what happens when you're so hyper focused that you forget about the hard things
4:17 that happen in doing the muck and the mire.
4:20 Like there's a cost to everything.
4:22 And they're toiling and they're laboring and they're being harassed by and surrounded
4:28 by their enemies that there is this, okay, well, now we don't have food.
4:34 We don't have grain.
4:36 And so I think you can sometimes forget the things that you need,
4:43 but you can't overlook that, I guess.
4:48 Well, think about from a leadership perspective.
4:53 Again, if you're in a position where you're leading big teams
4:56 or you're part of a team or you're leading your family and you think about the times,
5:00 maybe it's now, maybe it's in the past or maybe it's coming up
5:03 or you've got a difficult task that you need to achieve.
5:06 Like one of those things that really drives everybody together,
5:09 it's very easy for you to forget what's happening inside or what's happening with your team,
5:15 the practical elements.
5:16 And I think that's what makes leadership so difficult.
5:19 Some of the guys we've talked about the last couple of episodes
5:22 that focus a lot on leadership get into this.
5:24 Really effective leaders understand that balance.
5:27 And it's not just about the biggest,
5:30 baddest message that we're going to go out and conquer this, it's being effective,
5:34 which means you got to care for what's happening inside your house.
5:37 While you're pursuing this large objective, it's difficult.
5:40 We've also got to repeat the message too.
5:43 I think this is also an indication of how forgetful we are as a people.
5:48 And Exodus talks about, God literally delivers these people out of slavery.
5:54 And then because they're not eating, they're not eating the way they think they should be eating,
5:58 like, "Wow, it just takes us back to Egypt. We'll be slaves there."
6:02 And I think this is kind of a little picture of that too.
6:06 We know what we're doing is right and we know what we're doing is provisioned by God.
6:11 But now we feel like we're in this place of want and need and don't have.
6:18 And I think there's a little bit of that going on too.
6:21 How forgetful are we?
6:23 Well, and I know that me personally, I have a tendency to just work really hard on one thing
6:28 and I can let other things kind of go and slide.
6:31 And maybe there's some, I have some margin there, but it's really easy for me to get caught just on that one thing.
6:36 And then all of a sudden it's like, "Oh man, I had this I should have been doing."
6:40 It's like eating one thing on your plate at a time.
6:42 And then by the time you get to the best thing, it's already cold.
6:45 So I see that maybe as partly what's going on here.
6:50 So I mean, just to highlight it to your, I mean, in the midst of a great work for a great God,
6:54 the Jews had a great cry among the workers.
6:57 They were not crying out against the Samaritans or the Ammonites or the Arabs,
7:01 but against their own people.
7:03 Jew was exploiting Jew and the economic situation had become so desperate
7:08 that even the wives who usually kept silent were joining in the protest.
7:12 Leadership requires you to be on point and engaged from every aspect all the time.
7:18 When that's what you see from really great managers.
7:21 The best managers are not just managing their employees.
7:24 They're managing the employees and their families.
7:26 Because you will have those hard charging.
7:28 We're going to get it done regardless of the cost type people.
7:31 The cost might be someone's family.
7:33 And if that cost becomes too high, you're not going to have that employee anymore.
7:36 Because they're going to make a big change.
7:38 Because we all heard these stories of these guys that they focus too much on work.
7:41 They're doing the 80 hour work weeks.
7:42 And then also they lose their family.
7:44 And then they make a huge major adjustment in the opposite direction.
7:47 Okay, I'm going to work a part time job, you know, at Chick-fil-A.
7:50 And then I'm going to, you know, just work, you know, I'm going to stay here
7:52 and I'm going to give as much time to you, which women will complain about anything.
7:55 Sorry, ladies, but it's just like they'll complain if you're not making enough.
7:58 And then if you're making too much and they're not spending enough time,
8:01 you're never going to satisfy everybody.
8:03 Either your wife's going to be disappointed, your kids are going to be disappointed,
8:05 your boss is going to be disappointed.
8:07 You know, the president of the Chamber of Commerce is going to be disappointed.
8:10 You can't give enough of yourself to everybody.
8:12 You can't be five stars in all areas of life.
8:15 Zach, can you read three, four, and five, please?
8:18 There were also those who said we are mortgaging our fields, our vineyards,
8:24 our houses to get the grain because of the famine.
8:27 And there were those who said we have borrowed money for the king's tax on our fields
8:32 and our vineyards.
8:33 Now our flesh is as the flesh of our brothers.
8:36 Our children are their children.
8:38 Yet we are forcing our sons and our daughters to be slaves
8:41 and some of our daughters have already been enslaved.
8:44 But it is not in our power to help it for other men have our fields and our vineyards.
8:50 And so what's being described here, again, it's not appropriate to look at this as
8:54 chattel slavery like we saw with the African slave trade.
8:57 What we're seeing here is basically temporary debt slavery where you would, you know,
9:03 take one of your kids and they would go work off part of your family debt.
9:06 Maybe you would go work off family debt.
9:08 Maybe you would sell your entire family, including yourself into debt.
9:11 You know, it's not the same as shadow slavery like I said, but it's still bad.
9:15 It's a direct attack on the nuclear family.
9:18 And that's the thing that we talk about.
9:19 I remember when, you know, Black Lives Matter was coming out in 2020.
9:22 People are trying to figure out what that organization is all about.
9:24 And it's like, well, let's go to their website and see what it's about.
9:26 One of the things is like, yeah, we want to destroy the nuclear family and people are like,
9:29 well, that doesn't sound good.
9:30 It's like, no, this is a grift.
9:32 And that is one of the things that they're telling you.
9:34 They're showing you their hand and you're still betting into them.
9:37 Like this is not really a good plan.
9:39 But this has a direct attack on the nuclear family because it's going to be taking the father out of the family,
9:44 but it's also going to be destroying the kids.
9:46 Now that you see women lamenting publicly, that can't be good for what's going on in these Jewish households.
9:51 But also the important thing here is when they said they are mortgaging their fields or vineyards and our houses to get grain because of the famine.
9:57 That goes back to verse one where it talks about against their Jewish brothers.
10:02 Because in this time, as long as I understand this correctly, I'm trying to remember from memory,
10:06 you were not to take loans out with interest from other Jews.
10:11 Like that was against the law.
10:12 You couldn't do that.
10:13 That's part of the music.
10:14 It was for sure.
10:15 Right.
10:16 But also here too, they're like, because of the financial hardships and obviously the wall added to that.
10:24 So this is just amplified by the wall.
10:27 When you're going into that like bond service or bond servanthood, you're able to buy back.
10:35 You're dead.
10:37 But now they're in a situation where that seems like it's so desperate that that's that looks impossible.
10:46 So you just, it's just everything is stacking up.
10:49 Yes, they're balling.
10:50 Yes.
10:50 It's like, okay, famine, build new wall.
10:54 That's obviously just eating away everything.
10:56 Now I'm in bond servanthood, but now I can't, I don't even think that I can buy back my debt to get out of where I'm at.
11:03 So I'm just, I'm stuck.
11:04 It's a helpless situation where it's like, again, before Nehemiah arrived, they were helpless, but they thought that was normal.
11:11 So this has to have maybe a little bit of extra sting because they're seeing, they're seeing the light, right?
11:17 They're seeing a way out of their plight as a people.
11:20 And now it's just like crap, you know, because of this work that is saving us.
11:24 It's exactly what you're talking about in Exodus where it's like, gosh, maybe it would be better to be Pharaoh's slave again, because at least we had food.
11:30 Right.
11:31 We didn't have to meet eat manna every day.
11:32 It's one of those types of things.
11:33 You see the same thing with people that have been in penitentiaries or prisons for decades and decades.
11:38 And then they get out and they're like, Oh, this is hard.
11:41 Like it's easier to not have to make all these decisions.
11:43 I think about Yeonmi Park whenever she eventually made her way from North Korea to South Korea, which took her through China and Mongolia and all those types of things.
11:51 She remembers being overwhelmed in South Korea at options because of North Korea.
11:56 You're told what haircut you're allowed to have.
11:58 You're told what close to where you're told what to think.
12:00 And now you're in South Korea.
12:01 You can wear your hair however you want.
12:02 You could, you know, do your makeup.
12:04 You could buy jeans, which was a shocking thing for her.
12:07 You could eat wherever you wanted.
12:08 And then she got to American.
12:09 She's like, what in the world is all that?
12:11 There's wide open spaces over here.
12:13 I can just take off running in the middle of a field.
12:15 And it's just that was almost more paralyzing.
12:18 Yeah.
12:19 There's so much abundance here.
12:20 What's there's a, there's a movie or a quote in the other guys.
12:24 It's this guy is talking about America.
12:26 He's like, America is the baconator, a double baconator, extra bacon.
12:31 We live in so much abundance that it's just, there's so much.
12:35 I'm starving now.
12:36 I'm starving.
12:37 Thanks a lot.
12:38 Or you can say that.
12:39 So imagine this.
12:40 I mean, I guess these guys are busy building the wall.
12:42 So I don't know that they're necessarily coming home to the dinner table, sitting down with
12:45 their wife and having a discussion.
12:47 But I could imagine something like, if God's helping us do this, why are we starving?
12:53 Why are we giving everything up?
12:55 And the way I'm seeing it is more like maybe, you know, your wife is asking you a bunch
12:58 of questions.
12:59 What's the application now in your world and your life?
13:03 You know, do you find yourself in a circumstance where you feel like you're giving something
13:07 to the Lord that you're progressing in that?
13:10 But there's a whole part of your life that's just not coming along.
13:13 And you're, you're catching, you know, some, some feedback.
13:16 That's, that's maybe, you know, hindering.
13:18 Well, I'm just thinking of like the many instances in the Old Testament where things seem to
13:25 be okay.
13:26 And then all of a sudden there's like this, you know, there's hardship.
13:28 People are dying and there's a famine and whatever.
13:31 And, you know, you come, the priest or the, the prophet or whatever goes for the Lord.
13:37 And the Lord's like, they're sin and you're camp.
13:40 And because of that, there's this dress.
13:43 And so that, I mean, that's what we see here is we see brothers, brothers taking advantage
13:48 of brothers.
13:49 And that's just completely not right.
13:51 So I mean, see God is using this opportunity.
13:54 And as we've talked about, to start working into the people's hearts and to start ridding
13:59 them of this, and then rebuilding them, rereading on the sand.
14:04 He's, he's circumcised.
14:05 Yeah.
14:06 That's right.
14:07 I think there's a, there's also an aspect of sanctification here where when you become
14:13 a Christian, I think a lot of times people think my life's going to be great now.
14:19 Jesus is my homie and life's going to be good.
14:24 I'm going to go make a million dollars and it's because I'm a Christian and I think God
14:31 wants to answer our prayers.
14:32 Sometimes it's yes.
14:33 Sometimes it's no.
14:34 And sometimes it's not yet.
14:36 And I learned that from my pastor Terry Fakes who very, very wise man, but that's so true.
14:42 We want, we want yes or no, but sometimes we're not prepared for the not yet.
14:46 And while they're, yes, they're sin, I think there's an aspect of they're being sanctified
14:50 here too.
14:51 Like, like in Exodus, we're enslaved, God brings us out, but then we're so discontent
14:57 that we want to go back to slavery, back to slavery.
15:02 After we watched God, the creator of the universe, like pull us out of slavery, we want to go
15:06 back because we're not eating the food we want to eat.
15:09 And I think there's a sanctification process that's going on here too.
15:13 We've seen the plagues.
15:16 They've seen the parting of the Red Sea.
15:17 It reminds me back when you see the people that watch Jesus's ascension.
15:22 And it says, and some of them doubt it.
15:25 It's like, what, what else do you need to see?
15:28 Like we're the strings.
15:29 How about, how about Thomas?
15:31 He's with Jesus for three years, watching his miracles, watching him heal.
15:35 He has his faith in him, but he's like, no, I need to see the wounds and his hands and
15:38 feet.
15:39 He couldn't believe it.
15:40 But isn't that just us because like Thomas, there's points in Thomas where he's like,
15:43 if we're going to die, let's go.
15:44 I'm ready with you.
15:46 And then he then, then he's like, I got to, I got to see the wounds.
15:51 So like, I think there's, there's, we go through ebbs and flows too on our Christian walk where
15:55 yeah, I'm ready to, I'm ready to march and knock down the gates of hell for Christ.
16:00 And then I don't know, I'm not, I don't know if I'm ready.
16:03 That feels like an iron sharpening iron situation.
16:05 I appreciate the feedback.
16:06 I mean, from everybody that we just had and thinking through that a little bit, I guess
16:11 it was good for this to come out in these circumstances because you had men of God that
16:16 were there.
16:17 You had Jew taking advantage of Jew and it probably just would have continued on unchecked
16:22 if it hadn't come about.
16:23 So while they're rebuilding the nation and the wall and all that stuff, it had to be
16:26 in the right order of things, but eventually they got to figure it out and get it aligned
16:30 again.
16:31 Absolutely.
16:32 Eric, can you read six through nine again?
16:37 Oh, gosh, why the delay here?
16:42 I know.
16:43 So six or nine, do you stop me if I go over because I've been looking at them and I became
16:49 very angry when I heard their outcry and these words after serious thought, I rebuked the
16:55 nobles and rulers and I said to them, each of you is exacting usury from his brother.
17:01 So I called a great assembly against them and I said to them, according to our ability,
17:05 we ever deemed our Jewish brethren who were sold to the nations.
17:10 Now indeed, will you even sell your brethren or should they be sold to us?
17:16 Then they were silenced and found nothing to say.
17:20 Then I said, what are you, what you are doing is not good.
17:24 Should you not walk in the fear of our God because of the reproach of the nations, our
17:28 enemies?
17:29 Can't stop.
17:30 What version was that?
17:31 I don't know.
17:32 Because I'm like falling to the USB and I'm like, oh my gosh, if he's reading the message.
17:37 I'm falling up online and I, you know, what that doesn't say that.
17:41 You have a principal right there and just move your laptop out of the way, bring it close
17:46 to your face.
17:47 I'm just lazy.
17:48 That's fine.
17:49 Great.
17:50 We'll deal with that later.
17:51 But okay.
17:52 So in my version here in verse six, it says, I took counsel with myself.
17:55 So this is me and my writing and that's so common for him, right?
17:59 He's very calculating.
18:00 Right. So what he's not saying there is, well, I depended on my own wisdom and I just kind
18:05 of put a place together again.
18:06 We've seen no evidence that he's relying on his own self throughout any of the first four
18:10 chapters and into the fifth chapter of Nehemiah.
18:13 But you know, I took counsel with myself and he brought charges against the nobles and
18:16 officials.
18:17 That's obviously a big deal.
18:18 But when you get into verse seven, this is where we're talking about usury and the big
18:22 thing about that, that's not a common word that we knew now or that we know now.
18:26 It's exploitative taxation, right, or it could be exploitative interest.
18:31 And in this day, the interest on loans could easily exceed 50%.
18:36 And I mean, you think about like current credit card interest rates, like they're criminal.
18:42 They're like half of that, like even the worst ones are just like half of that.
18:46 You know what I mean?
18:47 And so it was very exploitative.
18:48 And again, it was against the law against the Jewish law to charge interest towards other
18:53 Jews.
18:54 But this is a very, very big deal because this is almost like a compounding negativity
19:01 that was happening to the people because they were already starving.
19:04 They were doing what it takes to get out of that situation by mortgaging themselves.
19:09 And now their own people are taking advantage of them.
19:11 I know we just got through talking about that.
19:13 But man, like that's still just a bad deal.
19:16 I just want to kind of draw a little bit more on that and kind of talk a little bit about
19:19 how bad that actually was.
19:21 Yeah, I'll just I'll say I'll be quick, but you know, just because you can doesn't mean
19:27 you should.
19:29 I think that's what I that's what I keep hearing in my head.
19:31 It's like just because they can take advantage of the situation doesn't mean they should
19:35 should just because they could make some money, grab some land, whatever doesn't mean they
19:40 should.
19:41 It doesn't make it right.
19:42 Yeah.
19:43 And in God's in God's law and God's economy, by what standard, we get a lot of our laws
19:49 on how to treat people from the Mosaic law.
19:53 And how do you treat the poor?
19:55 If someone is someone is going to go without and they need help, God's law calls for that
20:01 to be a gift, you to give them something as a gift.
20:04 You're not to exact something that can't be paid back, like not only can they not pay
20:08 you back for the money that you loan them, they certainly don't have money to pay you
20:11 back.
20:12 You're supposed to view that as a I am giving you this with no thought of you repaying me.
20:20 And so that then that's that's where I think Nehemiah probably had that real like pit of
20:25 anger of what these people can't pay back at all.
20:30 And whose resources are there?
20:32 Exactly.
20:33 Exactly.
20:34 I think it's important.
20:35 I think it's God's.
20:36 I think that's that's what the answer you're looking for, right?
20:38 Yeah.
20:39 Nailed it.
20:40 Great job.
20:41 Zach tried to get you.
20:42 That's a good table.
20:43 But then, but then it gets into verse 10, which is more over I and my brothers and my
20:47 servants are lending them money and grain.
20:50 Let us abandon this exacting of interest.
20:52 Now the way I read it in the way I've come to understand this after study is that Nehemiah
20:57 was part of the problem, apparently he was also doing this.
21:00 Now some people will say because of verse six, I was very angry when I heard their outcry
21:04 and these words that he was somehow shocked by what was happening.
21:08 Some people have drawn the conclusion that Nehemiah was actually loaning without interest.
21:13 But the majority of the people that I read said verse 10 is basically his confession that
21:18 he was also doing this.
21:20 I'm curious from you guys.
21:21 I'm seeing some not so sure faces on the other side of the table.
21:24 Is that not kind of what y'all gathered?
21:26 I would just say that based on what we're going to read later, I would kind of get the
21:31 impression that he was pretty high like character and I'll just we'll save that for a little
21:37 bit later.
21:39 Because he wasn't taking what was rightly his if he wanted to from the king.
21:43 So I didn't get that same impression.
21:46 I thought maybe it says after serious thought or when I counseled against myself, I'm imagining
21:52 him being really pretty [inaudible] off about this and it's the first time they didn't say and
21:56 I prayed about this and maybe he did, but I don't know.
22:02 So this is Wiersby's direct line, he just says, Nehemiah appealed to his own personal practice,
22:07 he was lending money to the needy, but he was not charging interest or robbing them of
22:11 their security.
22:12 Nehemiah was not a hypocrite.
22:13 He practiced what he preached.
22:15 That's one opinion, I guess.
22:16 Yeah.
22:17 And what did you see, Matt?
22:18 Well, I think, again, this, I think this points back to Christ again, because there's
22:24 a redemptive cost that's being paid and the law and how God wants to carry out this redemption
22:32 is this is a free gift and our brothers have been who have been sold to the nations.
22:38 That's all of us have been redeemed.
22:41 We have, they have been bought back.
22:43 I have bought them back.
22:45 And now you are trying to exact something else from them.
22:50 That's a, that's a hard stop.
22:51 They have been bought back for a price, for a price period.
22:55 Yeah.
22:56 I would say it looks like they're that that's a great point, Matt.
22:58 It looks like there's some differences in opinion here as to kind of what's happening,
23:04 but it really doesn't change.
23:05 And I don't know that it's fully the point because the way I read it is that he seems
23:08 fairly convicted by himself and maybe it's like he kind of sees, because I think when
23:13 I was reading Moody or MacArthur or some of those, it was, that was kind of the thought
23:16 is like he even felt convicted, like he was so focused on the work that, you know, and
23:21 I don't want to miss a line if I'm misquoting, but it's like they were so focused on the
23:25 work that even Nehemiah and his team are doing the exact same thing, perhaps seeing a pragmatic
23:29 approach to that.
23:30 Like, Hey, we need money for the wall.
23:31 We need money to take care of business.
23:32 Yeah.
23:33 Hey, we've got the money right now or our people need need this, but that's not really
23:36 the point, Matt.
23:37 If you could go ahead and read 11 through 13, I think this is where we get into the point.
23:44 Return to return to them this very day.
23:47 Their fields, their vineyards, their olive orchards and their houses and the percentage
23:52 of money, grain, wine and oil that you have been exacting from them.
23:56 Then they said, we will restore these and require nothing from them.
24:00 We will do as you say.
24:02 And I called the priests and made them swear to do as they had promised.
24:05 Go ahead, do 13, yeah, I'm listening skills.
24:11 I also shook out the fold of my garment and said, so may God shake out every man from his
24:17 house and from his labor who does not keep this promise, so may he be shaken out and
24:23 emptied and all the assembly said, Amen, and praise the Lord and the people did as they
24:28 had promised.
24:30 So right there in verse 13, we see, you know, shake out.
24:34 I saw a lot of commentaries about the use of shake out and how Nehemiah was basically
24:38 calling for a curse.
24:39 If they didn't, they didn't do anything.
24:40 He was basically calling it.
24:41 This isn't like a, another Pregatory prayer, but this is, or imprecatory.
24:46 Pregatory, imprecatory, imprecatory, it's not another imprecatory prayer, but he is like
24:51 calling for God's judgment and a curse in this moment.
24:54 But the overwhelming thing for me is I'm reading 11 through 13 is gosh, Nehemiah doesn't seem
25:00 like he's asking politely.
25:02 And I was told reliably that Christians are supposed to be nice all the time and their
25:07 words should never come off biting or judgmental or pointed or stinky or sticky or any of those
25:12 things.
25:13 But he's not asking politely of these men to, you know, repent and turn the other way.
25:18 He's demanding it.
25:19 So whether he's doing that off of his own conviction, because he was doing it the same
25:23 or he was always above board the entire way, he's, he's literally demanding that they make
25:27 changes and it looks like they acquiesce and this is how could you be.
25:30 I'm sorry.
25:31 I shouldn't go back to this.
25:32 Everybody wanted to jump in on that.
25:33 So I just want to go back because.
25:35 So on on verse six, I was very angry when I heard their outcry and these words, I took
25:42 counsel with myself and I brought charges against the nobles and the officials.
25:46 I said to them, you are exciting interest from each of his brother and I held a great
25:51 assembly.
25:52 And then it says, we as far as we are able have brought back our Jewish brothers who
25:55 have been sold to the nations, but you even sell your brothers that they may be sold to
26:00 us, et cetera.
26:02 I mean, I don't, I can't understand how he could have a righteous indignation and anger
26:09 and stand on his own two feet with any sort of credibility unless he's saying you, you
26:13 guys need to do.
26:14 How did Thomas Jefferson write the Declaration of Independence and saying all men are created
26:17 equal and still own slaves?
26:20 We are walking contradictions.
26:22 So that, that would be one answer to it.
26:25 During this discussion, I would say I tend to lean more towards what y'all are saying
26:29 and you're understanding.
26:30 But that's the thing all the time, almost all the signers of the Declaration of Independence
26:33 had slaves and yet in order to get that signed and even have a country to begin with, they
26:38 couldn't split the south off because the Civil War would have happened way earlier.
26:41 So it's, that's, it's the tension of history.
26:42 I didn't sign up to talk about Thomas Jefferson with my question.
26:45 I was just looking specifically.
26:46 You opened up Pindoor's house, maybe.
26:48 What am I supposed to do?
26:50 I, I, I would agree with Zach on that point, but back to what we just read, I think again,
26:59 as it points towards Christ, this is not about interest.
27:03 This is not about following the, the ceremonial law.
27:09 This is about the two commandments that they're all built upon.
27:15 Love God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength and love your neighbor as yourself.
27:19 And they are in direct violation of commandment one and two here.
27:24 And that is, I think that is the main point of what, what gets Nehemiah is the law is written
27:32 so that we know how to serve God and that we know how to serve our neighbor.
27:40 And I think that's a point that can't be missed is that we weren't treating neighbors
27:44 very well right now.
27:45 Yeah.
27:46 And, and, and get a think too that God rebukes us.
27:51 This is just an opportunity for Nehemiah to, to provide rebuke, rebuke, but it's not for
27:58 anything outside of love, you know, God loves.
28:01 I mean, what is it, uh, revel, it's in revelation is in Hebrews, I think I've got it pulled
28:06 up there, but it says, you know, God rebukes those whom he loves, you know, so it's not,
28:11 he doesn't do it to tear us down.
28:13 He does it accomplishes purpose, you know, and I, and I had this written down.
28:17 A God who doesn't correct you is a fictitious God.
28:21 You know, so if you, if you're, if you're out there just rolling around and you don't
28:24 ever feel the Holy Spirit convict you or to feel the rebuke of God in your life, you may
28:29 be serving a fictitious God.
28:30 I agree with that.
28:31 I think I also think there's some real life application as it, as it speaks to the body
28:35 of Christ today.
28:37 We were all bought for a price, but how many churches do we go into where the body of Christ
28:42 will say, Zach was bought for a price, but I need you to do this.
28:48 And I think that's another thing that Nehemiah speaking to is you are bought for a price
28:53 end of sentence.
28:55 And we can require all these works to do whatever it is that fits us into that specific body.
29:04 And I think that is a violation of God's law because Christ bought us full stop.
29:11 There's not, there's not a requirement for us to then sell ourselves to anybody because
29:18 we've already been bought.
29:19 And I think that that is speaking, I think that's speaking to that too.
29:25 We're bought.
29:26 That's in the sentence.
29:27 Is that, am I wrong there?
29:29 Is that crazy?
29:30 No.
29:31 No.
29:32 I guess depending on what your perspective is, one thing I was going to say is just, and
29:36 I know you'll like this, is that it was kind of a public sin.
29:41 So it was a public ordeal.
29:43 So everybody had to come in together.
29:45 And so he didn't let it fester once he found out according to this.
29:49 He had a lot of right.
29:50 Just anger.
29:51 He brought everybody in.
29:52 Because you could imagine you could go to the nobles or the rich people individually
29:54 and try to work something out, but he brings everybody in together.
29:58 They discuss it.
29:59 And as one, they all agree to it by saying, oh, man, which I think is a powerful way to
30:04 get something done quickly.
30:05 Yeah.
30:06 And then they did it.
30:07 It says in the, did according to the promise, when I was first starting being mentored many
30:13 years ago, the gentleman I was sitting down the way that they said, you know, I looked
30:16 for a certain kind of person, I said, okay, what kind of person is that?
30:20 And he said, I look for fat people and I was like, Oh, okay, well, what are we talking about?
30:24 Fat.
30:25 A P H A T.
30:26 No, no, F A T. It's an acronyms.
30:29 So I look for faithful, available and teachable people.
30:33 I was like, great.
30:36 That's wonderful.
30:37 And over the years, you know, I've kind of tried to live by that, just out trying to
30:39 be faithful to have a meeting with or whoever's meeting with me and to be prepared to be
30:45 available and obviously be teachable.
30:47 But I think one of the things that there was a time where I was, I, I requested, I said,
30:52 you know, one of the things I don't ever see discussed in our, in our individual meetings
30:57 or our, or more corporate meetings is this idea of rebuke.
31:01 And I am, you know, and as soon as I said that, I got pushed back like, Oh, I don't,
31:06 I don't know if that's a really good topic for us to discuss, you know, and have an hour
31:10 long like deal on, and I thought that was really, really weird because it's very clear
31:15 in the Bible that rebuke is, is a powerful and righteous thing that we should do.
31:19 So I was wrote down, maybe I should look for not just a fat person, but a fart person.
31:25 So faithful, available, rebucable and teachable, you know, we can go frat those other ways.
31:32 No, we need shirts that say just fats and farts.
31:36 No context needed. If you're not a fan of this show, you will not get it, but fats and
31:41 farts.
31:42 Bring me your fats and farts.
31:43 So that, that actually brings up something and yeah, we'll have enough time to kind of
31:46 get into this a little bit.
31:47 So we talked about a lot in the last episode, but we talked about this hesitancy by Christians
31:51 are more pacifistic in their orientation.
31:53 The 11th commandment be as nice as possible, never make anyone mad at all and never make
31:57 anybody feel negative feelings.
31:59 So what ends up happening though, from a sanctification, well, maybe not sanctification from a discipleship
32:04 standpoint, is we are not teaching our flocks how to rebuke.
32:08 And so we are just figuring it out on our own how to rebuke and then we do it wrongly
32:14 or poorly or too severely.
32:18 And so because our modern day pastors don't want to even rebuke from the pulpit, we're
32:23 certainly not being discipled and how to appropriately and biblically rebuke our neighbor.
32:29 And so doesn't that make it hard to love our neighbor as ourself if we can't love them
32:32 fully, including rebuke?
32:34 It does, but it starts before that.
32:36 Like we don't live in a time that puts emphasis on this tells us how to rebuke.
32:40 It also tells us what's rebucable.
32:43 And if our basis lifted up his Bible frame by not watching us, like if our foundation
32:47 isn't in the word, we don't know how to rebuke, but we also don't know what to rebuke.
32:52 And I think a lot of times Christians will take the they'll take the easy out and not
32:56 go for the rebuke.
32:57 And I know this is true from my own life because somebody might say, well, that's not that's
33:01 wrong.
33:02 That's unbiblical.
33:03 You're going to side on what you know, and Jesus tells us to love everybody.
33:07 I do know that.
33:08 And so I'm going to, I'm going to side on that and I'm going to, I'm just going to couch,
33:11 I'm going to hedge my bets and I'm just going to say, okay, God, Jesus said just love.
33:15 So I don't know if that's true what you're saying, but I don't know what I'm just going
33:19 to say Jesus loves.
33:20 So if you're not in the word, and this is a call and an invitation to anybody watching,
33:25 I didn't know it was rebucable either.
33:27 And I didn't know how to rebuke.
33:29 And I promise you, if you will commit to getting into the word, this is, this is in less than
33:34 three years, I can now firmly stand on the truth.
33:39 And I can give an apologia of my faith or apologia, however you want a tomato tomato,
33:46 but like if you're not grounded in the word, you don't even have a shot.
33:50 Yeah.
33:51 And how can you even know that there is something to rebuke or address unless you're living
33:58 in relationship with people?
33:59 I would argue, at least from my perspective, historically, you just attend church, nobody
34:04 knows me, nobody knows what I'm doing.
34:07 Nobody knows anything, right?
34:08 It's not until we got involved in small groups or whatever your church calls them.
34:12 If you're not in one, that's where the church happens.
34:15 Much of the church happens, in my opinion.
34:18 That's where you grow.
34:19 And that's where I think there's an opportunity for somebody that has invested in you, that
34:22 knows you and that you're going to respect when they come and say, "Hey, look, I'm seeing something here you need to look at."
34:27 You're so right.
34:29 This is where I get concerned, though, because you're exactly right.
34:33 That's where the hands and the feet happen.
34:35 That's where, as of the recording of this yesterday, there were a couple of crazy wildfires
34:40 in Oklahoma and one of them almost took out, they was within a mile of people that are
34:45 in our Sunday school, they're called adult Bible fellowships that are church for no good
34:50 reason whatsoever.
34:51 I find the world would you call them that, they're Sunday school classrooms, you're weirdos.
34:54 But like, there were a bunch of people getting ready.
34:57 My wife and I were like, "Okay, they've got two kids and a dog.
35:01 How can we house them here where everybody's taking care of it?"
35:03 We're already doing that.
35:04 That's the hands and the feet.
35:06 The problem is, it's even hard to rebuke in small groups.
35:10 And so, I'll just throw a scenario out.
35:13 Let's say there's somebody in your small group that's dating somebody else.
35:17 They're not married.
35:18 But you know they're living together and you know they're sleeping together and you also
35:22 know they're probably going to get married and both of them have previously been divorced
35:25 and not because of death or adultery.
35:29 Are we going to rebuke?
35:30 Are we just going to clap along as we do their, you know, go to their wedding and celebrate
35:35 them and do a shower and all those different things?
35:37 When clearly, even if you're a red-letter Christian, the words of Jesus would say, "No,
35:40 these people are committing an act of adultery and that is a sin that is damnable that can
35:46 send you to hell as all sins are."
35:48 And so, I think that's the part is we're still gun shy to rebuke the people that we purportedly
35:54 love.
35:55 And I don't know that I necessarily have a point as it pertains to Nehemiah 5 here.
35:59 But I guess that's more of a overall observation of community that we seem all too eager to
36:05 rebuke somebody.
36:06 This reminds me of something from my interview with Matt Griner, the drummer of Oxburn's
36:09 Red.
36:10 You know, somebody that will share Jesus with the person making your sandwich at Subway,
36:14 but not with their brother.
36:16 Because you can just share Jesus with the guy putting ham on your sandwich.
36:19 And then if you reject, it's like, "All right, I'm taking my chips and I'm leaving."
36:22 But it's like when it's your brother, you're actually pushing some relational chips to the
36:25 center of the table.
36:27 We're all too cowardly to do that because there might be some pain and some awkwardness
36:31 happen.
36:32 But we're willing to rebuke a stranger for their life decisions or for their sinful
36:36 choices.
36:37 Does that kind of make sense?
36:38 Yeah, well, let's call that what that really is though.
36:41 That's idolatry.
36:42 Yes, I am worshipping the relationship that I have with my brother and the comfort that
36:47 I have with my brother or whoever over the creator of the universe.
36:54 And that's a sin and idolatry is terrible.
37:00 And so that's what that is.
37:02 Would you guys agree with that?
37:04 I think you're worshipping something else over God.
37:07 Oh, yeah, I mean, you're prioritizing what they think about you over what they actually
37:12 need.
37:13 That's really what it is.
37:14 I mean, my son and I yesterday, we're just talking about that as it relates to sharing
37:18 the gospel.
37:19 And I said, wouldn't it be a shame if the people you hang out with, you don't get to hang out
37:22 with for eternity, just because you were worried about sharing the gospel with them because
37:28 of the ramifications.
37:29 I think that I go back and forth.
37:32 I don't know that I need to go to my brother or a family member.
37:35 Maybe I do and have like a full-throated gospel and I've done this and I've seen the results
37:39 of some of that too.
37:40 What do you go, Greg Cocle and put a rock in the shoe?
37:43 And then from my perspective, now having been into this for several years now, I'm getting
37:48 questions because people see that my life has changed.
37:51 So the change in me is causing its own witness and then you can respond.
37:56 Here's a little bit of my concern and I originally, excuse me, was made aware of this.
38:00 He was a Matt Chandler sermon from years ago, when he was like, you know, you're taught
38:05 in like church camp and I know you didn't grow up going to church camp and I didn't really
38:08 either.
38:09 But you learn in church camp, like you're going to be the one friend in your friend group
38:13 that's different.
38:14 You're not, and it's all behavioral modification stuff.
38:16 You're not going to drink and you're not going to watch our rated movies and you're not going
38:19 to make out with girls and you're going to do all these things that all the, or you're
38:23 not going to do these things that your friends are all doing.
38:25 And then somehow, some way, they're going to be like, you know what?
38:28 That guy's different.
38:29 I'm going to go up to them and ask them how they're different.
38:33 You know, and then everybody like gives a thumbs up to the camera and then it becomes a cheesy
38:36 mentos commercial.
38:37 Like I don't know and this was matching those points.
38:39 Like I don't know that I've ever met someone that did evangelism that way where they were
38:43 just so good and so godly that people came up to him and said, Hey, you, your life seems
38:48 to have a lot of fruit.
38:50 Where's that fruit come from?
38:51 Jesus.
38:52 Awesome.
38:53 Can I get some Jesus?
38:54 I would like a double order of Jesus, please.
38:56 So that's, I guess a little bit of my concern where I would push on people and I pushed on
38:59 Matt Griner.
39:00 I'm going to push on you as well is evangelism is not like this accidental thing.
39:04 And I think it's a guston who is like, you know, always share the gospel and sometimes
39:07 use words or something like that.
39:09 It's like, that's cute.
39:10 It looks good on a bumper sticker, but like you have to share the gospel with somebody,
39:15 the actual language of it.
39:16 Otherwise, they're just going to be learning how to have a proper amounts of behavioral
39:20 modification.
39:21 Matt, you're chomping out to get in here.
39:22 Life should be a witness, no doubt, but God gives laws to the Jewish people through Moses
39:30 to be a witness to the nations.
39:32 This is wrong regardless of where you live.
39:35 You are going to be a witness to the nation so they know what is right and wrong.
39:39 But the Bible also says faith comes through hearing.
39:44 You know what you don't hear?
39:45 You don't hear actions.
39:46 You've got to preach the word.
39:48 And again, this is just as much for me as it is anybody listening.
39:52 The word should be preached and you should, you should be speaking to people.
39:57 And I love Penn from Penn & Teller, his story about Christian evangelizing to him and he
40:03 ends it with, how much do you have to hate somebody to not proselytize to them?
40:11 How much, if you think you actually believe that the God of the universe sent his son
40:16 to die for you on the cross so that you can have eternal life by calling on his name,
40:21 by being covered by his blood.
40:23 How much do you have to hate somebody to not tell them that, to not wish?
40:28 I want you to be in heaven too.
40:29 And to people that don't realize, Penn Gillette is an ardent atheist.
40:33 Yes.
40:34 He's a militant atheist.
40:35 So that's why he's literally saying, why aren't you Christians proselytizing more?
40:40 And he's absolutely right.
40:42 I don't disagree with that.
40:43 Just from my perspective, when I say drop in rocks, that is proactive, so you are having
40:46 discussions and you play it in the seeds.
40:48 I'm probably a little different case study because I'm thinking about how to be effective.
40:52 So if you're doing that consistently and you're encouraging them to have to think through
40:55 something on their own, I think then you can come back and continue.
40:58 I think.
40:59 Yeah.
41:00 And I see it both ways really and I agree all the way around.
41:03 I mean, even in my practice, I mean, I spend most of my day educating people, but we're
41:09 also just talking too, you know, and so there are there are strategies.
41:14 I mean, asking a question, do you, where do you guys go to church?
41:17 Where do you go to church?
41:18 You know, or saying things like, you know, Lord has really just blessed us this week.
41:22 You know, things like that are, you're planting seeds, you're opening up little doors, right?
41:27 So they kind of know they're getting the hint, hint kind of thing without you being like,
41:31 so do you love Jesus or not?
41:32 You know, whatever, but it does provide opportunities the more you have the opportunity to spend
41:38 time with that person.
41:39 So in general, at a high level, I agree with that to Matt's point, and this was the point
41:43 I made to Matt Greiner, not Matt Grasmaier sitting next to me, but the point I made to
41:47 Matt Greiner in the interview is you would be shocked to learn the number of people that
41:52 have been going to church the rest of their whole life that don't know the gospel.
41:57 They've never heard the gospel.
41:59 They've heard, you know, regardless of the church they go to, maybe they go to a legalistic
42:02 church and they were taught all the do's and don'ts of Christianity, or maybe they went
42:06 to a Ted talk church where they were taught, you know, how this can apply to their bank
42:09 account, how, you know, the Bible can apply to, you know, they're being nice to people
42:12 and being, you know, fighting for justice or whatever.
42:15 But it's like, they've never heard the good news of the gospel explicitly.
42:19 They've always heard it implicitly.
42:21 And so to a degree, that's actually what I feel like, like, this is where, you know,
42:25 a few weeks ago when we had a couple of different guys here at the table, I can't remember
42:29 what song we were talking about, but we talked about the pastor at our church who is a deeply
42:33 biblical man, a great expository preacher of the word, but I am critical of some of the
42:37 things that he's done before the midterm elections of 2022.
42:40 Before the Sunday, before the Tuesday election, he said, vote biblical values, and then he
42:45 moved on.
42:46 And I sat there slack, John, I was like, what?
42:50 That's it.
42:51 Vote biblical values.
42:52 Do you realize that some people will vote biblical values and then vote for the democratic
42:56 party that thinks it's okay to kill babies up until the moment of birth and have it paid
42:59 for by US taxpayers and that that can happen for any reason chosen by the mother?
43:05 Vote biblical values, like people, as Matt has said, they don't pick up the book.
43:09 They're not reading the book.
43:10 And here you are using this slogan, vote biblical values.
43:13 It's like, what do you mean?
43:15 You have to elucidate it.
43:17 And so it's like, it's like when you're communicating with somebody about the truth of the gospel,
43:21 you don't need to pick around the edges.
43:23 Like at some point, you do have to give a full description of what the Bible is.
43:27 You need to make sure that they have the availability to taste the true savoriness and
43:32 sweetness of the gospel in its entirety as a message.
43:35 Well, where does the truth come from?
43:37 And by what standard are we, are we being judged?
43:39 If I think that I'm a good person and I'm told that Jesus died for bad people so that
43:46 they would go to heaven, you think that doesn't apply to you, why would that apply to me?
43:50 And if I don't understand the depravity of my soul and that I am a sinner, I have no
43:55 use for the gospel.
43:58 And to your point, Zach, I think even the full third of conversations about the gospel in
44:03 the grand scheme of things are probably seed planters too.
44:08 But I also think we can put too much pressure on ourselves.
44:11 We're not going to, we're not going to out God's truth or that maybe that doesn't make
44:17 you, we're not going to, we're going to mess up God's truth.
44:20 Like, I can't put so much pressure on myself that if I say the wrong thing to you, you're
44:27 going to not accept Jesus or you're not going to become a Christian or you're going to reject
44:31 the gospel.
44:32 I think God is way more powerful than that.
44:35 So, so spending a lot of time in Uber's drive, you know, around the country when I'm flying
44:38 on all that stuff, you know, there's, there's the rate comfort version, you know, like in
44:43 your best new New Zealand accent, you say, do you believe there's an afterlife or what
44:46 happens to the afterlife?
44:47 But, you know, you could ask questions, like I've had some ardent atheists and they'll,
44:51 and then you'll just ask the question, well, so you believe in the scientific and possibility
44:54 that everything came from nothing and you're just quiet and typically so are they.
45:00 And there's kind of some questions, you know, I haven't vetted this one, but have you guys
45:04 heard recently about the discovery of the oceans below the crest, bigger than all the
45:10 oceans combined and all that how that ties to, to Noah, and the flood bursting from the
45:15 deep, which doesn't make any sense, you know, to most people and I haven't invested it,
45:18 but that'd be an example of a rock, right?
45:21 And then you can kind of start to tie that to how do you get back to this.
45:25 And so what I would say to that, even back to, to Matt's point in describing the gospel,
45:31 whenever I did those, well, I guess whenever I preached at Luzburg prison in Pennsylvania,
45:38 I felt less, I felt more weight because of the importance of what I was doing there,
45:44 but I felt less pressure.
45:45 If that's any, any, maybe that doesn't make sense.
45:48 Maybe I'll get.
45:49 No, I think that's perfect.
45:50 So whenever I give speeches, right, I feel weight and pressure because I don't want to
45:55 look like an idiot and it's like, I need to seem really, really smart and for these people
45:58 to be like, yeah, this Kyle guy, like let's, let's book him again.
46:02 But when I was at that, that prison, it was like, all right, words are coming out of my
46:06 face.
46:07 I have a generalized idea of where this is going, but God, this is up to you.
46:11 Like if these men accept you, like the, this is on you, you're going to reveal yourself
46:15 to them.
46:16 They're going to have to respond to it, but you're going to reveal yourself to them.
46:18 And I even said in the times that I prayed with those men and for those men, man, I didn't
46:22 know the next word that was coming.
46:23 I just didn't.
46:24 I felt like Kamala Harris, like I just had no idea the next word that was going to come
46:27 out of my mouth.
46:28 So I was just like this living predictive text mechanism, but he was tied to the Holy Spirit.
46:32 Think about the depth of depravity there though, even by world standards, they are not good
46:36 people.
46:37 I think it's got to be so much easier to preach the gospel to a group of people, a group
46:42 of murderers, a group of people who are in prison.
46:46 And by whatever metric you want to judge by there, they are considered bad people.
46:50 It's much harder to come into privileged Edmund and preach the gospel to people who do good
46:58 things.
46:59 They're all bugged up.
47:00 Yeah.
47:01 Yeah.
47:02 They got the money.
47:03 They got the clothes.
47:04 I literally just gave a guy 20 bucks.
47:05 What do you mean?
47:06 I'm a bad person.
47:07 Yeah.
47:08 It's a much harder to preach there.
47:09 I do like how Eric turned into a guy from Brooklyn there, second, it got the money and
47:13 I got the clothes.
47:14 Hey.
47:15 Oh, like that kind of thing.
47:16 So that was for those of you not from Edmund, that's that's a really good Edmund accent.
47:20 Yeah.
47:21 We got a lot of Guido's walking around.
47:22 Edmund, if you guys aren't fully familiar, hey, guys, let's let's let's come back to
47:25 I'd like to go into verses 14, 15 and 16.
47:28 Matt, if you would read a 14 through 16, please, you got it more over from the time that I was
47:33 appointed to be their governor in the land of Judah from the 20th year to the 20 or to
47:39 the 32nd year of art as Xerxes, the king, 12 years, either I nor my brothers ate the
47:44 food allowance of the governor, the former governors who were before me laid heavy burdens
47:49 on the people and took from them for their daily ration, 40 shackles of silver, even their
47:56 servants lorded it over the people, but I did not do so because of the fear of God.
48:02 I also per persevered in the work on this wall and we acquired no land and all my servants
48:10 were gathered for the work.
48:11 Sorry, I was reading through my microphone and I just didn't move my Bible.
48:15 So I was I'm in the middle of eight sentence and I would like to keep talking.
48:22 So there's a lot here that's kind of packed in, you know, neither I nor my brothers ate
48:26 the food allowance of the governor.
48:28 There's a bunch of business books and, you know, that kind of talk about the leader and,
48:32 you know, kind of I last or take the stairs or yeah, those types of things.
48:36 And then also when it says I did not do so because or sorry, taking the the rations.
48:43 But I also he didn't do these things because of fear of the Lord.
48:47 That's kind of where he didn't do it because he read a business book and he's like good
48:51 business people don't do this.
48:52 I'm a Jim Collins fan and so I'm going to kind of go this direction.
48:55 But he also the important thing and this goes back to I think whenever you were talking
48:58 about the sheep gate and it was the high priest that were working.
49:01 It's like I also persevered in the work on the wall and we acquired no land and all my
49:05 servants were gathered there for the work.
49:07 So they weren't just overseeing the work.
49:10 They weren't just taking over land and building their personal wealth.
49:14 They were getting their hands dirty and we've all heard the stories now, but it bears repeating
49:19 when they see the senior pastor taking out the garbage.
49:23 When they see the CEO cleaning up the crumbs from the birthday party that were left over
49:29 when they're doing these things that are considered lowly and they don't think anyone's watching
49:33 them because some people do that and it's diabolical.
49:36 Like they're making sure that they set up the trash and they're like bang in the trash
49:40 kid around like, oh man, this trash is really busy.
49:44 I'm just going to toss it over my shoulder, walk out with a smile on my face.
49:48 Some people do it that way.
49:49 But the people that actually mean it, the people of real character, they're doing it
49:52 because it's just something that needs to be done.
49:54 Now there will be business teachers that are like, you know, give yourself an hourly rate
49:58 and don't do any work that is below that hourly rate.
50:01 So if returning that that Amazon package is going to take you an hour of your time and
50:05 that's going to cost you 50 bucks and you're worth a hundred bucks an hour, throw that thing
50:08 in the garbage like again, we can get off into the weeds on that kind of thing.
50:12 But there's a lot of wisdom there in versus 1415 16.
50:16 I heard the CEO of Toyota once said, I could be getting the strong, but I'm pretty sure
50:20 it's right.
50:21 The only questions that he remembers he's been asked in some of these really big conferences
50:24 came from a guy in the audience and he said, when you go home, do you take out the trash?
50:29 That was a question.
50:32 And this CEO of Toyota, which is one of the most efficiently run companies out there,
50:35 great processes.
50:37 That's what he remembered.
50:38 And that was just so indicative.
50:39 This guy was trying to understand as an employee how their leadership was thinking and what
50:44 kind of leadership they had.
50:46 So I thought it was really wise.
50:47 The other thing I thought about is Paul is the same, you know, when he's when he's talking
50:52 with everybody, he's saying, I was there, I was working beside you.
50:55 There's nothing that you can hold against me.
50:56 I wasn't trying to take advantage of you.
50:58 It has kind of a consistent theme when you're if you're asking people to do hard things,
51:02 you yourself need to be doing them.
51:03 So from time to time, I'm invited in.
51:05 There's a couple of good buddies of mine that are wrestling coaches here at local high schools.
51:09 And when they start getting a little bit sluggish at some point in the season, they'll bring
51:13 me in and I'll go basically beat up their kids for, you know, two hours.
51:17 But the thing that's interesting is every part of the exercise that I do, which is brutal,
51:22 like I'm not there to make them have fun.
51:23 I'm there to kill them.
51:25 Like it's a brutal exercise and it workout routine.
51:28 I do every single rep.
51:29 And so does their coach.
51:30 Yeah.
51:31 And so they're looking at these 30 year old men, you know, in their mid thirties and they're
51:34 like, God, these men are so old and like they were born in the 1900s.
51:38 What are the hour?
51:39 These guys even surviving, but we're doing everything they're doing, but at an intensity
51:43 level that's kind of beyond them.
51:45 It's just like, Oh my gosh.
51:47 And like, but that's the thing is like, that's almost like an apology or apology of that.
51:52 Which by the way, no one says tomato, like nobody.
51:55 So that's not like a tomato, tomato, potato, potato.
51:57 No one says potato.
51:58 Okay.
51:59 Okay.
52:00 Just that's that's a little sidebar to at risk of sounding like I'm being a dead horse.
52:05 How does Nehemiah know that he should be treating that he should not be doing these things?
52:10 It all goes back to the fear of God.
52:12 Yeah.
52:13 You know, to your point about pastors missing the boat on some things, I think a lot of
52:18 pastors will that when they when they talk about Jesus being asked about the greatest
52:22 commandment, it is, it is always the modern past, not always, but a lot of modern pastors
52:29 will answer that with love your neighbor as yourself.
52:33 But we only know how to do that because of the first commandment.
52:38 Love God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength.
52:42 And if it all hinges on that, it's not the other way around.
52:46 It's love God and then the people come.
52:49 And that's how all of those laws are written.
52:51 It's the love of the of the Lord.
52:54 Then in turn, it's the love of people.
52:57 And I think we as a modern church miss that something.
53:01 It's not just loving people because if without fear of the Lord, without love of God, we
53:06 don't even know how to do that, not biblically, not, not rightly.
53:09 Yeah, we don't have a foundation by which to even base our actions, but let's go and
53:13 round out Nehemiah five.
53:15 So Zach, if you wouldn't mind read 17, 18 and 19, please.
53:19 More ever there were at my table 150 men, Jews and officials, besides those who came to us
53:26 from the nations that were around us.
53:28 Now what was now what was prepared at my expense for each day was one ox and six choice sheep
53:35 and birds and every 10 days, all kinds of wine and abundance.
53:39 But for all this, I did not demand the food allowance of the governor because the service
53:44 was too heavy on this people.
53:47 Remember for my good, oh my God, all that I have done for this people.
53:53 And so I think this is an important thing here.
53:56 I think this opens us up to a discussion about good works because, you know, when you get
54:00 into the discussion, it's like, okay, how do we talk about fruit?
54:03 How do we talk about good works and all those types of things?
54:06 This is another example of Nehemiah not being above the people that he's serving with.
54:10 He doesn't want to live in comfort while his people suffer.
54:13 We've seen plenty of examples of this in modern modern military.
54:17 So even Vietnam, the GWOT, different things like that, where there were officers that
54:21 had the capability to kind of travel around and luxury and safety and all those different
54:25 things.
54:26 But they're like, no, I'm going to sleep with the grunts.
54:27 No, I'm going to be on the ground, those types of things.
54:29 And we all have a much deeper level of respect for those men just kind of implicitly just
54:35 because like that's, wow, that's awesome.
54:36 Like they, they could have got all these things, but they chose D last.
54:39 They chose to, to be uncomfortable just like with everybody else.
54:42 But then at the end, he's like, he says, remember, and it's not because God forgets, but he's
54:46 just like, Hey, just as a reminder, just throwing this out there for my good.
54:50 Oh my God.
54:51 All that I've done for this people, please remember all that I've done for these people.
54:55 But I still think that that's a good lesson for us that it's okay to say to God, like,
55:00 Hey, look at these things that I've done because there's a right ordering in my heart because
55:05 I'm doing this to honor you, not to gain points.
55:07 If that makes sense.
55:08 Yeah.
55:09 I mean, Paul did that too.
55:10 And you get almost, it kind of like, if you just read it, you're like, Oh man, it's kind
55:14 of being arrogant.
55:15 Look at him kind of, but he's making a defense of what he's, what he's done and why he's
55:19 done it.
55:20 And this heart behind it is not, he's not trying to like say, look at me.
55:23 He's just saying, look, this is, this is what was offered.
55:26 This is what was available.
55:27 But I did not take it.
55:28 I did not partake of this because of this because I was just thinking of like Uriah
55:33 when David called him back and said, well, come on in and you know, go eat, go be with
55:37 your wife or whatever.
55:38 And he's like, no, no, no, no.
55:40 I can't.
55:41 How can I do that when my men are out there fighting and he slept, you know, outside and
55:45 whatever.
55:46 But anyways, yeah, that was my point.
55:48 I think that's also, it's also a foreshadowing because Jesus says, whatever you do to the
55:52 least of these you do unto me, and I think getting down and washing his disciples feet,
55:59 that's, I mean, the perfect description and perfect picture of servant leadership.
56:05 And I think that's Nehemiah's just, yeah, just reminding God, hey, I'm serving my people
56:12 for you.
56:13 I think it's freeing too, in a way, like we talked about the Psalms earlier and you're
56:16 crying out and you're saying, oh, and I think the Bible's pretty clear that you should do
56:21 that.
56:22 I just hate saying this, right?
56:24 But safe space, it's a space that you can have a discussion about whatever.
56:28 And there are things that you do for God on this earth that nobody else knows about.
56:32 And I think that's your vent.
56:33 I think in modern culture, there's a lot of talk around therapy and different forms
56:38 of meditation and all that.
56:40 Well, it's pretty much built in here.
56:42 You can open up, have a discussion, and it's, it's free, free for all.
56:46 You say whatever you want.
56:47 And God's going to help.
56:48 I'll work through that.
56:49 I think that's great.
56:50 There are lessons there from Nehemiah 5, but we're going to have to leave it there, guys.
56:53 But come back next Sunday, where we're going to dig into Nehemiah 6.
56:56 So guys, make sure that you read that this week so that you'll be prepared for that discussion.
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