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THE FORGING TABLE | Nehemiah 11 (Ep. 482)

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THE FORGING TABLE | Nehemiah 11 (Ep. 482)
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In this episode, we dive deep into Nehemiah 11, exploring the importance of community, headship, and the intrinsic value of every individual in God's plan. We discuss how men today must step up to lead their families and communities with purpose and strength.
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0:50 Welcome back to the Forging Table. The mission of Undaunted Life is equipping men to push
1:00 back darkness with content that forges spiritual, mental, and physical resilience. At the Forging
1:06 Table, you'll see a group of regular guys forging spiritual resilience by digging into
1:09 God's Word and we're welcoming all of you to come along on that journey with us. That's
1:13 Caleb. That's Robert. That's Ryan the Horn. Rather, it's how I could say it. If you didn't
1:19 listen to the last episode, that's just going to seem awkward. But if you did listen to the
1:22 last episode during the introduction, Caleb, whenever he's supposed to be just answering
1:27 the questions and saying normal white people stuff, he just low key dropped in the middle
1:32 of the Forging Table, a bomb that basically his family or members of cults and Robert,
1:39 you actually know a little bit about this cult. Apparently, I'm the only one at this table
1:44 that doesn't know. Yeah, see, I'm like, go ahead. Because Caleb and I both lived in the
1:48 same neighborhood, the one I still live in, and I'm now really kind of questioning if
1:53 I still need to live there much longer. But evidently, I find out Caleb, just a couple
1:57 of years ago, ended up moving because we live across the street from the compound for,
2:02 you know, we need some more information. I'd like to just call it the compound. It looks
2:07 like a missile silo when you drive it. It's got gates. It's got gates. We actually broke
2:11 inside one time, and we sneak past the security checkpoint. I had somebody that was just really
2:16 interested in the theater productions that were there, and we went inside the auditorium
2:20 that was there. And it was unbelievable. Yeah. I mean, the, I don't know, wood from Madagascar
2:26 that was used for the sinks in the bathroom and the Varski's crystals that there's like
2:32 10,000 Varski's crystals that are in each one of the chandeliers that are in there. I
2:37 mean, it is plush. Okay. So no one knows what we're even talking about, but we need you
2:44 to bring it around. Like if you live in the town that we live in and you drive north,
2:48 you see this place, you're like, Oh, that's weird. But like, apparently I had no idea
2:52 it was connected to what would you say is a Herbert Armstrong? Okay. Yeah, Herbert Armstrong.
2:56 So funny story about the house. So my, my wife, we'd been married a couple years, she
3:00 finds this house online, right? She's like, this is the one. So we're going out to see
3:05 it for the first time we're driving north. We're like, as you know, out of town for,
3:09 you know, miles and miles and we go past, we pass Waterloo Road. And then there's this
3:14 massive building that we pass. And I see the sign. And I just start laughing. Like I see
3:20 Herbert Armstrong college, I think is what the sign says. And I just started laughing
3:23 at my wife's like, what? I said, that's the church that I grew up in. Yeah. Tell us like
3:29 your cultish past. She's like, Oh, no. Wait, that actual building? Or I'll get it. Okay.
3:35 All right. Sorry. She's like, Oh, no. She goes, are they going to come get us? I don't
3:43 know. I don't know. I don't know. Like, I don't know what you thought we did. We didn't
3:49 get people. They've been sending like these houses to her to try to draw her to the area
3:55 of the city. They had their master plan can go about. Man. So we ended up living there
4:01 like 14 years. They didn't get us. We made it out. So anyway, so quick backstory. Okay.
4:08 So Herbert Armstrong was born like 1900 ish. Okay. He starts with a radio program and
4:14 a publication called The Plain Truth. So he, of course, like every cult leader is a prophet,
4:20 right? Sent by God. He knows the truth. So anyway, his, it's, it's a all-old testament,
4:27 right? So I said last week that everyone thought I was Jewish because, you know, like
4:31 it's Christmas time and I'm just drawing the snowman and everyone else is drawing Santa
4:34 and I'm Dorado. Celebrate. Maybe that was maybe that was maybe that was the day I was
4:40 singing Draydle Draydle on corner. Right. So celebrating, you know, Feast of Trumpets,
4:47 Feast of Tabernacles. They have unleavened bread like all the Jewish holidays, right?
4:53 So that's what I grew up doing. So I'll try and make this quick, but now I'm enjoying
4:58 it. You go. Okay. So anyway, Herbert Armstrong has he predicts Christ return a couple times
5:03 in his life. Obviously, he's wrong. So his son, there's a splinter and there's several
5:07 splinter splinter groups like every cult, right? So his son starts one. That's the one that
5:12 my parents end up getting involved in when they were at college in Alva, Oklahoma. So
5:18 they get involved there. We start going to church there. They actually, my dad is, we're
5:23 living in Wichita, then he moves down to more Oklahoma, which is where I was born. That's
5:28 where the church, the church like folded in Wichita. So they move to be part of the church,
5:32 predicts Christ return again. And 85 doesn't happen. That's what my dad's like a camp done.
5:37 So he starts reading his Bible. He and my wife or my mom was the piano player and she's
5:42 very agreeable. So she's like, well, I'll just keep going there. So I remember going
5:46 to church with my mom and my two sisters, two older sisters. And then I won't go down
5:53 that road too much. But the cool story about about the worldwide church of God is that
5:58 that Herbert Armstrong handpicked his successor in like 1980 something Gerald Flurry. No,
6:04 it's not. No. So it was a, I can't remember the guy's name, but I want it's Wikipedia
6:10 page right now. So I can like back check this real time. Yeah. So he picks the successor
6:14 Feasal. Feasal. Okay. Something Feasal. So anyway, this Feasal guy goes through all
6:19 the doctrine, right? And he's basically like bogus. Oh boy, wild. Right. So he's like,
6:26 this is, this is not the truth. So, and I can't, I can't like speak to all their doctrine.
6:31 But the worldwide church of God, I'm pretty sure now is a Bible believing Christian church.
6:37 Okay. However, what we have here in Edmond is the remnant. Oh, was it really? Oh, the
6:46 original like Herbert Armstrong church, right? So, so headquarters like when I was young
6:51 was in Pasadena, California. And this, the guy you just mentioned was named John Flurry
6:57 he was from Washington state. Okay. So when the whole deal is going down with this Feasal
7:02 guy, basically like breaking down all their doctrine, Gerald Flurry is like, no, like
7:07 we, we have Herbert Armstrong's, you know, prophetical writings, all this stuff. So this
7:12 is the truth. And then someone donates this land in Edmond, America. So they land here.
7:18 And that's where like the plain truth magazine, like all his writings are still going out
7:21 all over the world from here. Right across from the entrance from New Mexico. Yeah, that
7:27 building right there is where they're all cranked out of. So they've got deep pockets
7:31 because even if the land was donated for free, that is a, I mean, yes, stuff they built.
7:35 So crazy part of that building that theater, that auditorium, when they start building
7:40 it, look it up in, in Pasadena, like if you look up worldwide church, God, and look up
7:44 images, that same building exists in Pasadena, California. The minute they started building
7:50 that, I was like, Shannon, check this out. I pick it up and I'm like, that's what they're
7:54 building. That guy Gerald Flurry is a self declared prophet and he's over six. Over three
8:03 decades, he made several prophecies, including Donald Trump remaining president, the Supreme
8:07 Court overturning 2020 election. Barack Obama is the last president of the United States.
8:11 Pope Benedict will resurrect the Holy Roman Empire. And the Philadelphia church of God
8:16 would acquire a brick it estate in the UK and Jesus could return by 2020. That's right.
8:22 That's over six right now. That's tough on your list. I will say one of my favorite things
8:27 is when a public prophet says the world will end on, you know, July 10, 2000, whatever
8:33 I'd be like, I'll see you on July 11th, because it's just, it's so funny. But did you have
8:38 anything else to add on that? Because by the way, guys, if you go to this dude's Wikipedia
8:41 page, Herbert W Armstrong, it is pages and pages and pages of information. Like it's,
8:47 I didn't realize it was that involved.
8:49 So the church I grew up in was was church of God International. I don't know where they
8:53 stand doctrinally right now, but the worldwide church of God was the original. And then now
8:57 they're called the Philadelphia church of God. So we, my mom bought us tickets to some
9:03 performance there a few couple years ago. And out of obligation, she and I are like,
9:08 okay, we got to have to go. So we went and it was just like super uncomfortable. You
9:13 just know, I could just imagine we go like story going into that, just to seal the spiritual
9:18 darkness, you know, it's like, man, this is weird. So we actually left, but they have
9:22 like, my mom listens to this podcast. Like we left, we left our phones in the parking lot
9:26 and went to Sonic, because we knew that she would attract us and Sonic is where Sonic
9:31 is where the light left your phones. Yeah, we put our phones out. We're like, we're going
9:35 to Sonic. We're just going to have a date in the car.
9:38 That was wild. Okay, so that may seem like a hard lift left turn from Nehemiah 11, but
9:44 I actually want to take another quick divergence because of something that you just said.
9:48 Um, the feeling of spiritual darkness. Again, guys, this is not even, I guess, tangentially
9:54 related to Nehemiah 11. We'll get there. But I think that this is important to discuss.
10:00 When you walk into a place and people kind of get that gut level feeling that something
10:03 is off, right? The spidey sense or something like that. The most extreme story that I know
10:09 of was the guy that wrote a sent from darkness. His name is escaping me right now. Um, it'll
10:15 come to be here in a second. But this was a guy that was a practicing satanist, not like
10:20 a modern satanist, which is basically where you worship at the altar of yourself. This
10:24 guy was sacrificing animals. He was going into Christian churches and putting, uh, satanic
10:30 writings into the, the pews and replacing the, the hymn books with, you know, say, satanic
10:35 writings or something like that. And this guy, um, I know the pastors that went to his house,
10:41 the night that, you know, Christ called him to himself. And, uh, one of the pastors in
10:46 particular, I won't use his name because I didn't get approval to use the story, but
10:50 he said they knew what they were going over to, to do in this house. They knew kind of
10:55 what this guy's, uh, track record was because he had tried to kill their pastor. So Craig
11:00 Rochelle, the pastor of life church I've talked about a lot on the show. This guy showed up
11:05 at life church with a firearm and was planning to kill him. He had been casing the place he
11:09 had been watching the security protocols, knowing what car he would leave the facility
11:14 in like the whole nine yards. And he shows up and, you know, he's confronted by a security
11:19 person that was just kind of tangentially doing their job. Um, anyway, the, the long
11:24 story short is they go into this guy's house. And I remember one of the, the pastors he
11:29 was telling me this, you know, years ago, he goes, God never felt this in my entire life.
11:34 But the moment I walked in, I felt pressure on my body, like that the, the darkness,
11:42 the spiritual darkness inside that home was like crushing me. And it reminded me of my
11:48 buddy, Vinny, who had a, had a nightmare, woke up from it. And like, and this is a guy
11:53 that doesn't really, you know, exaggerate stories, but he felt like he was literally
11:56 being held down in his bed. Like he couldn't lean up. Like there was like actual spiritual
12:02 oppression, like kind of holding him down. So I just wanted to kind of throw that out
12:06 there. Cause you said that about that type of thing. But as Christians, I mean, what
12:10 are y'all's opinions? Cause I haven't experienced that personally. I don't really know what
12:13 that's like. But when you hear people describe it in such vivid detail, it's like, okay,
12:18 if you're ever in a moment like that, you should probably listen, like it was probably
12:22 a good thing that y'all went and you got you a foot long kony and a cherry limeade. Like
12:27 that was probably a good idea. I mean, for you guys, have y'all ever experienced something
12:30 like that? Or cause that's outside of my, my purview.
12:34 Something that's close to it, me and a good friend of mine named Harold Campbell, he's
12:38 a pastor out of Tulsa, just phenomenal, phenomenal guy, just phenomenal, phenomenal man of the
12:44 Lord. Anyways, we were on this, it's called a university for now, but we were at a university.
12:50 And I was going down a really crowded corridor. And I mean, hundreds of people that were in
12:56 an eye view of this area. And all of a sudden this guy walks past me and he just starts
13:01 like thrashing and cussing and just staring me just locking his eyes on me. And as I continue
13:08 to keep walking past him, he does not break. I contacted all and is just like losing his
13:15 ever loving mind. And so I ended up just kind of laughing and just keep on walking by and
13:20 go on and eat my lunch. And I don't know, probably two hours later, I get to Harold,
13:26 and we're down by this little chapel area. And we're just kind of hanging out and talking
13:29 for a few minutes. And he's like, you'll never guess what happened. He's like, as way over
13:34 by this, uh, English building. And whenever I was walking past his English building, this
13:39 guy just in the middle of this open area with dozens of people around locks eyes with me
13:46 and just starts going ballistic, just cussing, rain, Raven, everything across the board.
13:52 And he was like, it was a weirdest thing. I was like, you've got to be kidding me, man.
13:57 And so anyways, we both just felt like it was whatever demon was inside that person saw
14:03 the spirit of God that was in both of us, resonated so clearly in that moment. And we
14:09 ended up maybe a day later, we ended up seeing him out and ended up talking to him and he
14:16 was calmer. And we both ended up because we were trying to find him and we ended up getting
14:21 him to the chapel. And, uh, he walked down there. He was kind of like, well, what's going
14:25 on? I was like, I always just want to show you something. We want to go down. We want
14:28 to like tackle you and pray for you and lay hands on you. And, and that guy went absolutely
14:34 nuts once we got him down there and started praying for him. You know, and, and I mean,
14:37 it was a, it was a casual process of talking to him and genuinely just wanting to know
14:41 more about the guy's life and everything else. We go, we want to pray for you. And he's
14:45 like, no, no, no. And then we just started praying for him and laying hands on him.
14:48 The guy ended up biting me inside my arm, not draw blood, left Mark, everything else
14:54 and just bolt it out. And we never saw him again. I mean, it was just one of the most
15:00 eerie, just off the wall, you know, demonic oppression situations that I've ever. Now
15:05 I all of a sudden feel super jealous that you guys have experienced this level. By the
15:10 way, that assent from darkness was written by Michael Lee hand. Michael Lee hand was
15:13 a guy that I was talking about. Right. I mean, do you have any like cool, like demon stories
15:16 or you like me? I don't know if it's like a demon story. I really got to be cooler than
15:20 that one or don't tell. I mean, it's some one up only right now. I mean, I was in Seattle
15:25 one time. Well, that's basically. Yeah. Yeah. Close. There's a, there's a lot of crazy
15:31 people there. Um, what's crazy was, I mean, it wasn't a really a demon story, but it's,
15:36 it's a pretty crazy story. So you we all know that the Oklahoma City Thunder came from the
15:40 Seattle Super Sonics. I'm walking around downtown Seattle with my wife where, you know, having
15:47 a good time going to go walk to the market or something like that. This crazy homeless
15:50 lady comes up and screams in my face. We're going to get our basketball team back from
15:55 you. And I was like, how did you know I was from Oklahoma? You were like, I didn't have
15:59 anything that said Oklahoma City or anything. I was like, I was like, well, you know what,
16:04 I just chalked it up to just crazy homeless people, but you got that okey look to you,
16:07 I do that, that homely look. Yeah. Hopefully not drop dead gorgeous bro. Wait, you know,
16:13 it's just it kind of is what it is. But okay, guys, we've diverted a lot about this is my
16:17 fault because I wanted to hear about Colts. And then we started talking about sighting.
16:21 And so we need to get into to Nehemiah 11. So of all the chapters in Nehemiah, this is
16:27 the one that is the most skippable. At least you would think so. But again, as I've said
16:32 with several other chapters in Nehemiah, there is a whole lot here. And even before we started
16:36 recording this, Ryan, you were you were talking about something that we see in the first couple
16:40 of verses where it talks about. Yeah. So here's a great it. Well, just real quick, this chapter
16:47 as a whole chapter 11 as a whole shows that it wasn't enough to rebuild the walls. That wasn't
16:53 enough. Because I think we mentioned this back when we were talking about Nehemiah two or three
16:57 or something like that, you had to rebuild the people, not just the walls, but you had to rebuild
17:02 the people. And you have to repopulate and fortify this new center of worship, this new covenant,
17:10 this new area, this rebuilt part of Jerusalem. So go ahead. Yeah. So if we look at it, you know,
17:15 I was kind of just looking over this chapter. I was like, a lot of names remind me of Nehemiah
17:19 three. Yeah. I was like, how do I up those guys? So then Joby thinks I'm awesome. That's right.
17:24 So Joby, you listening? But no, one thing that I looked at was the verses stood out to me is,
17:30 "And the people blessed all the men who willingly offered to live in Jerusalem."
17:34 Yeah. First two. Yeah. So guys came in that were willingly like, hey, I want to,
17:38 I want to live in Jerusalem. And they blessed them. It's like, how bad was Jerusalem at this time?
17:43 You know, do we build a wall with a vacant city, you know? And so, and then what does that city
17:48 look like? And then kind of where are these guys coming from? Did they already establish a life
17:53 beforehand? Are they taking a leap of faith to say, hey, I want to give up everything that I have
17:57 now? And I'm going to go into the city of Jerusalem and I'm going to, I'm going to repopulate it.
18:01 So I think it's just something that we want to look at is, you know, how do you come to that
18:06 decision? How do we come to that decision as Christians that we're like, you know what,
18:09 this is a church. This is my community. How can I help grow it? How can I disciple these people?
18:14 And basically these guys are coming in there and doing some discipleship.
18:17 Yeah, because it would seem like a moot point or something not worth mentioning
18:21 if, you know, one out of, you know, certain guys raised their hand and volunteered to come back
18:26 because it's like, okay, if you volunteer to go live in San Diego, like perfect weather all the
18:31 time, marine layer, all that kind of stuff, it's like, okay, are you really sacrificing? But it'd
18:34 be another thing to raise your hand and be like, Hey, I'm moving to Compton or something to be
18:38 just feel different. So it seems like there's something there that, yeah, it's worth mentioning
18:43 that these men did something that, you know, was substantial. Because after that, they had to start
18:48 casting lots. Like it's like now it's a lottery. Right. And you guys, one out of 10, I think, yeah,
18:53 one out of 10 Jews went into and preceding that and help me out. Maybe, maybe you can
18:58 clarify this in a different way. Maybe I'm reading it wrong. But the very first of the first verse.
19:03 Now the leaders of the people dwelt at Jerusalem. So there was already the leaders that were there.
19:09 And then you had the group of people that were willing to offer themselves to be there.
19:15 And then they cast lots to have additional that were there. So there was really three separate
19:20 classes of people that chose to be able to come in and habit the city, build the city to be
19:26 everything that they knew it could be and needed to be. And then if you look at, you know, we have
19:31 the priests, we have the chiefs of the province, the priests and the Levites and the temple servants,
19:35 like coming into the city, you were going to serve some role. You were either going to go look for
19:40 firewood for the burning altar, or you're going to do something in regards to how the city should
19:45 grow. And so when you're leaving what you've established, and then you know that you're going
19:50 to have to go and work even harder, which they've already I feel like worked hard anyways to build
19:55 this wall. You know, it's like, hey, we've done all this hard work. God's provided for us. I mean,
19:59 they did what 52 days? Yeah, they built a wall around a city in 52 days. You know, it's like,
20:05 well, we've already done this. Like, now we've got it. We've got to populate the city. We've got
20:08 to bring back the glory of God through Jerusalem. And I think yeah, go ahead. Okay. One of the
20:12 commentaries I was reading to was just that, I mean, yes, it's one out of 10. So obviously,
20:17 it wasn't a desirable place or saying, you know, okay, that's enough. So but one of the things that
20:22 they mentioned was that a lot of this, I mean, we're talking about the city of God, right? I mean,
20:26 it's it's a target to some degree. So part of the reason to populate it was for protection, right?
20:33 So I mean, this is a dangerous thing you're going to go do in a place that's not necessarily
20:38 desirable, that's still under construction. So I mean, there was there was a lot of reasons not to go.
20:43 When you why rebuild the walls before you rebuild the city? Well, because at this time,
20:48 like you you can't rebuild something that could be so easily torn down again, you need to fortify
20:52 it first. You know what I thought is how many people owned land in other areas? They had crops,
20:59 they had homes, you know, they were already established with potentially legacy, wealth
21:06 and preparedness that was there in other locations. But yet they knew either a the second group,
21:13 they were blessed by the Lord because they offered to be able to come. They basically gave away or
21:18 sold, you know, everything that they had to be able to move into the city. And then the others,
21:24 you know, they had to choose one out of 10. Well, was it because they had to leave everything that
21:29 they knew, the communities that they knew, the potential descendants like grandkids or kids that
21:35 were already married in other areas and they had to leave their families to be able to come
21:39 to repopulate to do what God had asked them to do in this season?
21:42 Well, and one thing we don't know from verse one, Robert is okay. So the leaders
21:47 dwelt or mine says they lived in Jerusalem. Is this like a when you move onto a job site
21:53 and you're you're living their temporarily type situation? Do these guys have, you know, is this
21:57 their secondary property and their primary property is somewhere else? Like, I don't know that from
22:02 the text. Well, Nehemiah is a leader there and he leaves and goes back goes back to Artaxerxes.
22:07 Right. And we see that in the next chapter. And so I think a lot of these guys stood there. I
22:13 think it was kind of like a place where, you know, you lived during, you know, like you said,
22:17 like on the job of a place to live. I think another thing to look at too is, you know,
22:23 one out of every 10 Jews. So the other nine lived on outside of the city on land. So they were
22:28 farmers. So even those nine who weren't didn't even come to the city still play a role. And, you
22:34 know, how are you going to feed the city? We need farms. You know, how are we going to build?
22:39 We need builders. We need clay. We need grass. We need hay. We need, you know, however they're
22:43 building something like everybody, they were building a community. And I think it's amazing
22:49 thing to look at. I think we see four different times where there's a number four or five.
22:55 There's a number given, right? I mean, every one of these people that decided to go is very
22:59 valuable. Right. You know, it's like verse six, eight, 13, 18, 19, they give exact numbers.
23:08 And their sons of sons of Perez was 468 able men and so on and so forth. So everyone was very
23:14 valuable. Well, and the good thing about that as well is I underline this because I read from the
23:18 ESV in verse six, all the sons of Perez who lived in Jerusalem were 468 valiant men.
23:25 And then you go again in the ESV to verse 14 and their brothers mighty men of valor 128.
23:34 And I mean, like I literally wrote on the side of verse 14 gangster title, like imagine being
23:39 part of like the mighty men of valor. But this was something just think about this though.
23:46 This document was circulating at this time. Let's say the men from who are they talking about,
23:53 son of Azerl and anyway, let's say these men weren't mighty or valorious. They would have been
24:01 called out during this time period. That's something that gets missed in a chapter of oh,
24:05 it's just names and numbers and things like that. It's like, this is something that circulated.
24:10 That's why when you look at the gospel accounts of Jesus's life, these stories and these documents
24:15 were circulating during time periods when these people were still alive. And so if you were using
24:20 their names or their areas incorrectly, it would have been called out. So I think that that's a
24:25 really, really important thing. Also, you earn the title of valiant. You learn the title of being
24:33 a mighty man of valor because you're a battle tested. Right. So how many times did they defend
24:38 at the walls, people that were trying to come in? They were obviously under constant attack
24:46 or it would appear that they're earning those titles because they have fended off an attack
24:54 that continues to keep oppressing them. Well, and Robert, I think the point there is,
24:58 again, these were all real people that lived at a real time and they actually sacrificed.
25:06 But we live in a day where you might personally sacrifice and we look at sacrifice like,
25:10 I'm not, I'm giving up candy for land. And that's like a sacrifice or something like that.
25:16 But these men listed here, they sacrificed for the betterment of their community and their people.
25:24 Not only in modernity, do we not look at ourselves as a people? Right. We don't really see ourselves
25:30 that way. There are some groups that maybe look at that and they do it by immutable characteristics,
25:34 like the level of melanin in their skin, let's say, but how many people do that today or would do
25:40 that today where they would sacrifice something of theirs or something, you know, because they're
25:46 modeling headship for their family. And we'll talk more about that in a second. They're sacrificing
25:50 something of their household for the betterment of some other group. We just don't really see a lot
25:56 of that in our modern culture. We don't see community anymore because modern culture is all about
26:00 self. It's all about my truth. So there is no, there is no, there's, there is no community anymore
26:08 because it's all about me. And that's my wife and I talked about this like a couple of days ago.
26:12 It's like, man, remember the days when you like, you could just, you just knew your neighbors
26:16 and you had this relationship with them, like you trusted them with your kids,
26:20 you were, you know, you could, they could go over to the person's house and you didn't have to worry
26:24 about anything. And it's not like that anymore. It's like, we don't have the community that we
26:29 once had. And if you look back through Nehemiah and just seeing the building of this community,
26:33 they all work together. They all, they all worked for the better good, but we had a, they had a,
26:37 what do you want to say? They had, they had a better understanding of that because they all
26:43 look towards God's covenant, you know, so there, there was something that they all agreed upon. Like
26:48 we talked about in the last episode, like, you can't find anybody to agree 100% here in Edmond,
26:53 Oklahoma. But you, if back in the day, you could find somebody that agreed what morality was,
27:00 you know, and you didn't have to worry about maps or people coming after your children, you know,
27:06 now it's, I don't, there's people I know I still don't trust. Right. Just because of what we've
27:11 dealt with in our society, our society has moved away from what God's covenant, what God's law is
27:17 and what God finds beautiful and morality. And we've, we've made it all about ourselves.
27:22 Well, in some, some of y'all may have missed it. When Ryan said maps, he's not talking about
27:26 random McNally, he was talking about this new term that we've coined in Moderna. And he called
27:31 minor attracted persons. Okay. They're, they're not pedophiles. They're not child rapists. Right.
27:37 They're not people deserving of, you know, a bullet to the back of the head and being left for the
27:41 vultures. These are, they're just minor attracted persons, kind of like your cisgender and your,
27:46 your hetero sexual, like this is just, this is just who they are and how they're wired.
27:51 And I remember saying years ago, years ago, that the next line was going to be pedophilia,
27:58 because it's like 2015 was Oberg felt you guys 2015. Like, that's not that long ago,
28:03 because the argument was, Hey, just, just let us just don't judge us. Just don't talk about it.
28:07 Just let's do what we want in our own homes. And then it was, Hey, let us come out of the darkness
28:11 and let's have civil unions. And then it was like, Hey, you know, just let us get married,
28:15 even though it's not technically the same thing, like just let us get married, you know,
28:18 we need to be able to see our dying spouses in the hospital, like in the hospital won't let us
28:23 in. And so, Hey, let's legislate federally for something that a hospital chain could take care of.
28:28 But yeah, let's let's just leave that aside. And then it was, okay, now we need you to approve
28:33 of our lifestyle. And not just silently approved. Now we need you to vocally approve. Oh, you need
28:39 to bake this cake for she need to whatever. And so I'm basically talking about gay and lesbian stuff.
28:43 But this entire ideology is running down the river towards pedophilia, because especially,
28:49 and we're not going to get too far off on the political side of this. But if you can identify
28:53 as the opposite gender, right, or the opposite sex, you're you're a 12 year old boy that thinks
28:59 you're a girl or has been convinced by your your mom that you're a girl, something like that,
29:04 then why could that 12 year old not consent to a sexual relationship with an adult?
29:08 It's it's fruit of the exact same poisonous tree. And from what we've seen is it's just been this
29:15 little change by little change in society. Because everyone looks back on, Oh, back in the day,
29:20 things were better. Sometimes that's true. Sometimes that's not this is a clear degradation
29:25 of our culture to get to a point where maps is even a thing that you would use to describe a human.
29:29 And I use their own terminology. Right. Exactly. But think about it. If we wouldn't talk about
29:35 back when I was a kid, and we had that community, I think we all agreed on what a woman was. Yeah.
29:39 Yeah. It was just common sense. Like, I just know that if I look down at that neighbor,
29:44 he's going to know what a woman is. You know, but that's the thing. It's like,
29:50 we've got to find something that we can all agree upon. And I think it's God's holy law,
29:56 his morality, that we can all agree on that could build a community. You know,
30:02 everybody wants to build a community on love, but everybody's definition of love is totally
30:06 different. It's not even a biblical or godly definition of love. It's a it's an appeasement.
30:11 And so I think this is the beautiful part about these people here in Nehemiah that they through,
30:19 you know, their own sacrifice through their own coming to knowledge of God's law,
30:24 and their and their redemption of it. You know, they have something to agree upon.
30:29 That's what we talked about last week, the seals, like these people sign their names because this
30:34 is truth to them. Right. And they've all they've all defined truth and are building a community on it.
30:42 Where do you want to say some Rob? There's a couple of different paths that we were kind of
30:45 going down. And I just wanted to kind of figure out which way to go back with it. And, you know,
30:49 I think to what you were talking about just a few seconds ago is I think what the idea is,
30:54 how do we erode truth? Because if we can erode truth and your truth is different than my truth,
31:00 then it's easy for them to be able to mask the sick, demented version of what they want as a
31:06 truth that everyone if they deny that truth, then they can oppress them. They can say and they can
31:12 label it as some kind of, you know, racism or, you know, some sort of bigotry, some kind in some
31:20 ways, you know. And so, I don't know, no, please go ahead. It was all just a breakdown of like the
31:26 where it all started was that all truth is relative. Right. Is that the that's the only absolute truth.
31:32 Is it all truth is relative, which is illogical, which is a statement that either includes itself
31:37 or excludes itself. Right. Because I remember sitting down talking to a buddy of mine back in
31:41 the day and he's like, Hey, man, all truth is relative. And I said, does that statement include
31:44 itself? Right. And he just kind of looked at me and smiled and I was like, you see, you see,
31:49 like the these are the downstream consequences of a postmodern worldview, because some people
31:54 talk about postmodernism, they don't exactly know what it is, but is the absolute destruction
31:57 of truth, because how can you erode a culture from the inside? Because it's one thing to be attacked,
32:03 you know, at your beaches, or someone flying over the top of you, it's another thing to erode you
32:08 away from the inside by saying there is no truth, because you can't say a girl is a boy, unless
32:15 truth is in question. And then you have people that will create their own truth, Ryan, my truth,
32:20 which my truth is that sex and gender are different. But they're not they're different words, but
32:25 they're not different things. And so again, I don't want to get too far out there, but that's
32:29 still an important discussion for a lot of folks. So rapid truth is relative. It kind of reminds me
32:34 of atheism. You know, it's like, I don't believe in God, but they're you're basically saying there's
32:38 a God you don't believe in. Right. Oh, what's the quote? It's like, I don't believe in God and I'm
32:45 so mad at him. Yeah, it's just like, okay, like, you're so mad about all these these things in the
32:50 world. But it's like, look, if we're highly evolved to go, then what exactly are you mad about?
32:54 Like we're just we're dancing to our DNA as it were. But one thing that I found interesting
32:58 getting back to Nehemiah 11 is the moody Bible commentary, which is which is a great document.
33:04 You guys should definitely check that out. It's it's a one volume commentary. But they list some
33:10 things here that I think are important for our discussion, because as you're reading through Nehemiah
33:14 11, I get it, guys, seems tedious, seems laborious. But there are some things to point out. And so
33:20 there's three of them. So depending on time, we'll get into all three. But I want to talk about the
33:23 first one here. The nature of God that knows his people by name. So as you read through 11,
33:30 and it's, you know, these names that you've never seen before, maybe you don't know how to pronounce.
33:35 But the importance of that part of it is that the nature of God that knows his people by name.
33:41 And if God knows you by name, does it also follow that he would give you a task for his glory?
33:46 The answer is yes. And we see that all throughout the book of Nehemiah up to this point.
33:51 Definitely. I mean, it just kind of goes back to, you know, God knows us all by name. Like he
33:56 knows everything about us. He knew it as before we were in our mother's womb before we were even
34:01 born. And like it's a little bit easier for me, but knows every hair on his on your head, you know,
34:06 for those of you just listening, Ryan is super bald. I'm super bald. So not by you knows how many
34:12 hairs should have been on your head. I love that. He just made a few perfect heads. The rest he
34:16 covered with hair. But no, I mean, it really does. It points out, you know, that God knows all these
34:22 people by name and what they're doing with inside, you know, this new Jerusalem, you know, the priests,
34:27 the Levites, the gatekeepers, the overseers, you even get down to like the woodsmen, the farmers,
34:33 you know, like everybody is called out on what they're doing. And then you have to look at these
34:37 guys and the names that they that he's calling out. He's calling out these people by names, but
34:42 look how many family members they have, you know, Azarel, the son of Azai, son of Melachi, son of
34:48 Amir, and their brothers, mighty men of valor, 128, you know. And so he's calling out these
34:58 families, like think of these men that that we're talking about and like what they've done
35:03 inside of Jerusalem and how they're discipling and how they're how they're leading their families.
35:07 I mean, it gives me something as a father who doesn't have 128 people to really oversee. I have,
35:15 you know, three kids and a wife, and it just shows me that, hey, man, I need to take a step up. You
35:20 know, I need to be, you know, an overseer of my family and and show them, you know, and disciple
35:26 them on, you know, what God wants wants to prepare us for. And the fact that just God's nature is eternal,
35:32 right? His nature was the same then as it is for us now, and that he knows his people, he knows us,
35:39 and he calls us to a specific purpose. I think there's a lot of just men that are floundering
35:44 right now, you know, they just don't feel the directionless, they're passionless, you know,
35:50 they they're they're they have a lack of discipline and what they do, and that God has called us to
35:57 something and he's called us to something that's great, and we have to move to action, you know,
36:01 to be able to be that and it's going to be uncomfortable, you know, and but in the midst of that, I think,
36:07 having a peace and knowing that God knows us, he's called us, he's going to carry us through this,
36:13 and on the other side of it is going to bring about not just his glory, but it's going to bring
36:18 about our peace because I think our peace is connected with his glory. Yep. Well, Robert,
36:22 and part of that is because we have no sense of responsibility. We assume that whatever is going
36:28 to happen is going to happen because someone else, I don't need to teach my kid how to level
36:33 his swing out. He's got a coach for that. I don't need to teach my kid the Bible. That's what VBS is
36:38 for. That's what I want us for, like those types of things, which I guess that actually really gets
36:42 into the next thing that that Moody pointed out about Nehemiah 11, which is power and responsibility
36:48 of an individual to represent his family and community through spiritual headship. There's a lot
36:56 there, so I'm going to say it again slowly. Power and responsibility of an individual to represent
37:04 his family and community through spiritual headship. So a book that's been mentioned a lot on my show
37:10 and a lot at the forging table is Family Shepherds by Vody Bockum. First time, I was very familiar
37:15 with Vody Bockum, but it wasn't until I went over to the Horn's house for dinner a few years ago,
37:20 and he handed me a copy of this book. It's one of Vody's older books. But basically, you could
37:25 summarize the book like, Hey, here's how you catechize your family. Here's how you set the
37:30 spiritual thermostat for your household and not just, you know, be the passive spiritual thermometer.
37:37 But we see again the list of names, this useless list of names. No, these are people that had a
37:43 responsibility to do something and they had, but it was something that they had to choose to do.
37:47 They had to choose to step into the role of headship, which is bigger than leadership. It's
37:53 bigger than being the manager over a project. But to lead your family and your community well.
37:59 But that's part of the thing, Robert, why do we see such listless kids, boys, little boys walking
38:05 around. Fatherlessness is an epidemic of all races across across the board in America. It's only
38:12 getting worse with each successive generation. So we're not seeing manhood and headship modeled.
38:18 At the same time, we're seeing Christian faith in America basically go off a cliff. And so it's
38:24 like, who are these boys to be learning from? Like, they're going to be learning from the other
38:28 boys at school that also have smartphones and are looking at porn and murder videos and blah,
38:32 blah, blah. At the age of nine, because their parents thought it'd be a great idea to give
38:36 their kid an unlocked iPhone. Like, again, they're going to take their cues from culture.
38:41 And we don't have to go very far to talk about the type of culture that we're living in right
38:46 now. We're steeped in this godless self worship. I think Ryan, you were talking about self worship.
38:51 That's the culture that we're steeped in right now. So imagine what it was like for them certainly
38:55 2,500 years ago to step into a role of headship. But it's the same as true now. It just maybe is a
39:01 little bit more difficult. We talk about self worship, you know, I just think of like the issues
39:06 that they had when they broke their covenant was like not taking care of the Sabbath, not making it
39:10 holy idolatry of other gods. And it's like, we've created ourself as God, like in our culture,
39:18 like we don't even respect the God who's who's above us. We respect ourselves. And I think it
39:24 just comes down to is like, we've got to catechize our kids. It's our job as fathers to lead our
39:30 wives lovingly. And with care and same with our children. I like Kyle, I like what you say about
39:37 daughters, like you don't have any daughters. But I have a daughter and I want my daughter to
39:42 look at me as like, as Aslan, you know, like this loving this loving guy who who's not never going
39:49 to hurt her who's going to always protect her. But know that there's a fire in dad that is
39:53 something where to happen to her. I'm going fully amnescent. Yeah, she only sees the lamb.
39:57 But she knows the lines. She knows the line. And that's what my kids like if you Kyle's been
40:02 to my house many times, I mean, we've got the lion and the lamb everywhere. Because I want
40:06 my children to know who Christ is Christ is the lamb. And he is the lion. My son in his
40:10 in his bedroom has a lion and a lamb. And he is always like, and roar. He's like one years old,
40:16 but he's going to know that there is going to be he's going to have to leave at some point. And
40:20 he's going to have to lead with loving grace. But he's also going to have to leave with fire and
40:24 fervor. And that's where I feel like our church and can't even blame churches. We have to blame
40:30 ourselves in the churches as disciples. How are we discipling men in our church? How are we lifting
40:36 them up to show them, Hey, let's be men of honor. Let's be men of of grace and let's be men of truth
40:45 in scripture. And how can we push that further? And I think that's what churches are missing right
40:49 now. And it's a it's a call for us men to step up. I mean, we have to step up and help our brothers.
40:55 Well, and we're seeing, I mean, society wide, right? It's the feminization of of men. And how that,
41:02 you know, every every man that acts in a biblical and ship way that it's actually toxic.
41:08 So, you know, I think like in this list of names here, he's talking about the son of the son of
41:15 and he's mentioning all this and pointing out their heritage. And they're there. And then, you know,
41:19 that from the tribe of Benjamin and Judah. So there's a lot of heritage talk here, because it means
41:25 something. You know, I mean, it's not, I don't think they're going to point out all these things and
41:29 say son of this and that person and then talk about how their brothers and valiant warriors,
41:34 if it didn't mean something. Right. So, you know, you look at, and I think we discount what kids,
41:40 boys and girls get from their dads in society and from their moms as well. But
41:45 just that, that kind of the leadership of, you know, I am the head of this family,
41:52 but it's because Christ is the head of my life. So, I mean, those are, those are what kind of
41:58 stands out to me on that, that list of people. Well, and it's you're pointing something out, Caleb,
42:02 it's it's forced androgyny. We want our women to be more masculine, and we want our men to be more
42:08 feminine. Again, if you're going to destroy a people group, you have to take them in out,
42:14 because this is pointed out a long time ago, there was a anthropologist that did this study,
42:18 and he pointed something out that is obvious. But the way he said it, it blew my mind.
42:23 Culture, we default to elevating women, which people are like, no, you don't like this is
42:28 patriarchal culture. No, show up to any church on Father's Day and show up to any church on
42:32 Mother's Day and see who has lifted up. Okay. But the way that this guy, I apologize, I can't
42:38 remember his name, but the way this guy described it is if you're going to destroy a people group,
42:42 you, you don't take out the men you take out the women. And this is why, why I'm saying that,
42:50 is because a womb is infinitely more valuable than sperm. So let's say you've got a tribe,
42:57 you know, for whatever reason, there's no kids, but it's just men and women, 50 men, 50 women,
43:01 and you're in the tribe that's on the other side of the hill, and you're going to come over and
43:04 take this group out. You could kill none of the women and all the men, but one, and that people
43:09 group will survive. That one man will be busy, but that people group will survive. But if you flip it,
43:15 and you kill all the women except one and leave the man, that people group is destroyed. And so,
43:22 we're feminizing the men to where they don't even see themselves as protect protector,
43:28 provider, pro creator, they don't see themselves in those roles. And you're taking the women
43:33 out of the role that makes them a superhero. You're, you're making them devalue their wombs
43:40 by one, making sure there's never a baby in there whatsoever because of maybe it's birth control
43:46 or abortion, or they're not really focused on a family right now because they've got more to
43:51 accomplish in their, in their career first. You know, maybe when I'm 40, when my biological
43:57 clock is basically ticked to zero, maybe I'll start thinking about a family then.
44:00 You see, you're, you're, you're eroding things away from, from what the actual setup has been given
44:07 by God. That's why when we talk about in Ephesians five, and you talk about the role of a man,
44:12 it's so important to remember that God has given us the responsibility as men of headship to,
44:19 to show our little girls that the value of being under the leadership of a godly man,
44:26 because it's not teaching your daughter. Yeah, one day you're going to have to listen to a guy
44:29 that's going to tell you what to do. It's like, no, like how beautiful is it for you to be under
44:34 the headship of a godly man? How amazing is it when you walk into a household where the man of God
44:39 is in control and is taking his role seriously? Those women aren't oppressed. Those kids aren't
44:45 under the thumb of a totalitarian inside of that household. It's beautiful because it's
44:50 right ordering of things. I know I kind of went a lot of different directions, but I think it was
44:54 amazing that you talked about women in childbirth. It just brought me back to a first Timothy 215,
44:59 but women will be preserved through childbirth. They continue in faith, sanctity, and with moderation.
45:03 Yeah, we talked about that on a way back when we started this, and it's just it's true. It's like,
45:09 you know, women aren't going to be saved because they're having babies. That's not what saves them.
45:12 That's not what it gives them salvation. It's how we're going to be preserved through our line.
45:15 It's how we're going to grow more Christian. And they're not going to be preserved by the
45:18 corner office job, by an extra, you know, a handbag or something like that, which again,
45:23 degradation of culture, that is what women have been taught. They've been masculinized in a way.
45:28 Again, look at it this way. And I'm getting way off and we need to wrap up here soon. But like,
45:33 think about the number of women you see now that are, I want to be careful. They're a little,
45:37 they're butchy in their physical appearance, like they're there. And I'm all for when working
45:43 out and lifting weights and doing things to be healthy to, you know, stave off aging. But you see
45:47 these frumpy, dopey guys. And then you see these jacked women and they're together. And it was,
45:53 it was a joke 10 years ago, oh, you know, the dad bod, that's that's the new six pack. And it's like,
45:58 no, what we're seeing is a deeper sickness within our culture, where we're looking at men are
46:05 defaulting to their women to be strong for them. They're defaulting to their women. Hey, you provide.
46:11 Think about the growth of stay at home dads. Like, and like, again, depending on circumstances,
46:16 maybe that's okay. But it's like, man, that is, that is a downstream consequence of an erosion
46:21 of who God has told men in culture to be and women in culture to be. And yeah, it absolutely
46:26 goes back to first Timothy too. The last thing as a father, I want to do is walk into my kids and
46:31 say, I'm your mother now. Yeah. So I just want to be able to be like, I'm your father, I'm a leader,
46:37 you know, your mom is just as much as a leader as I am in this, in this household. But we work on
46:43 this together. But I do oversee what goes on here. You know, it's like, it's like, it's coming back
46:49 to like complimentarianism, you know, and Eve, Eve didn't come from Adam's head. So she's not above
46:54 him. And he didn't, she didn't come from his foot. She's not below him. She came from his rib. So our
46:59 wives work with us side by side. And so, but the thing is, is we have a little bit more responsibility.
47:06 And if you look at God's design for the church is, you know, that men are, men are like Christ and
47:11 women are the church. And we need to, we need to treat our women as, as the church. And so there,
47:16 there's a point of overseeing there that we take on that greater responsibility. Like our pastor
47:21 takes on the greater responsibility of, of a pastoring us, because he's going to be judged
47:25 harsher. Right. Then we are, but I'm also going to be judged as a father and as a man of my house,
47:30 as an overseer. How did I treat my wife? Was I abusive and a jerk? Or was I loving and treated
47:36 her as the weekly vessel? Not that she's weak, but that she's emotionally different than I am.
47:41 Right. We all have intrinsic value, but we've been given distinct roles. And so that's actually
47:47 the third thing that that Moody pointed out on this and we'll wrap up by, by talking about this.
47:51 But it's the Judeo-Christian affirmation of the intrinsic value of all people.
47:56 Again, within its right ordering, but the Judeo-Christian affirmation of the intrinsic value of all
48:01 people, as you're reading Nehemiah 11, these are all valuable people in name and in deed.
48:09 And the deeds were done as leaders of households and leaders of communities.
48:13 And that is something we just diminish now. Like, I mean, Robert, this goes back to what
48:18 you're talking about earlier. How many men don't even, they don't even worry about the fact that
48:24 they're not leading their families spiritually. They're, we're so happy to default in our smartphone
48:29 generation. So the hitting the easy button and the easy button is, I'm going to turn my brain off.
48:35 I'm going to get ready for another fancy football draft. I'm going to go play Call of Duty. I'm
48:38 going to go golf. I'm going to go look at porn and jerk off. I'm going to go do something else
48:42 that serves me because I've set up a life. I work a job and I can pay for them to do the
48:48 activities where someone else can raise them. Kind of pulls back into two things. One is,
48:52 initially, when you talked about the self-god mentality that we have, and I think as men,
48:56 sometimes we, we think in that self-god, that God of self that we prey upon the altar of
49:03 entertainment and comfort. Those are the two things that hold us. And so in and coming back to
49:10 where you were at, Kyle, talking about that intrinsic value, I think a lot of times because
49:14 we're held praying in this entertainment and comfort that we don't place a significant
49:20 and none of value in the role that God has called us to be the father that is active, to be the
49:27 husband that is passionately leading his children in prayer and his wife Sunday morning to go to
49:33 church. And that is valuing his wife's role at the house or his wife's role in helping out that we
49:42 are, we have lessened, I think, the value, which is sometimes it's our, it's our complicit nature
49:49 in this devaluing and then the women on the other side. Obviously, they have lost the value of what
49:55 their role is to giving them that complex. It's just a distorted, you know, kind of you that it's
50:00 taken. I mean, we're talking about a lot of words that really don't mean much to the outside
50:04 world, which is like headship masculine feminine leadership things like this. Like these are words
50:09 that they kind of freak out about, you know what I mean? When in reality, all that means is like,
50:15 this is the way like you mentioned Ryan with a pastor of a church, it's like a great pastor
50:19 of a church, you're going to know because their people are flourishing. Right. Right. So being
50:24 discipled. Absolutely. Same thing with a family, right? I mean, if there's a you can tell by if
50:29 the kids in the and spouse, the wife is flourishing, that that that guy is taking care of business
50:36 as in his headship role. To your point about discipling, like we all have to realize our
50:41 our children are being discipled by something. Yeah. Yeah. It's it's the question of what is it,
50:47 right? And it's the same thing we've heard, you know, most of our lives is like, I mean,
50:51 show me your show me your bank account, show me how you spend your time. That's what's
50:55 discipling you. So, you know, I mean, that's a that's again, a gut check. I'm saying that to myself.
51:01 My wife and I had an interesting conversation last night, you know, we were talking about
51:06 Mother's Day and Father's Day and just kind of how you celebrate those. And you brought that up.
51:11 And, you know, my wife, she homeschools because we want to give her kids a biblical education.
51:16 So she takes on a lot of within our house, you know, having the kids home during schools is
51:22 it's kind of crazy. But it's been great watching her do her thing because she's a she's a school
51:28 teacher. And she's just around the kids 24/7, you know, even when I'm gone, she's with them even
51:34 longer. And so Mother's Day is, you know, I try to get her out like, hey, go get a massage manicure
51:40 pedicure. But she's like, it blows my mind on Father's Day. You just want to be with the kids.
51:45 And I was like, we're like, yeah, you know, we kind of get is because I'm gone. Like,
51:50 I'm I'm trying to provide for a family. But then I'm also wanting to be with my kids because who
51:56 else is teaching my kids? If it's not me and her teaching my kids, who else could be teaching them?
52:00 And that's another reason why we brought into homeschool, which is a different subject. But
52:04 it's just looking at the difference between men and women, you know, she needs that break.
52:09 But I want more of those kids because I don't see them as much. And I think that that leads
52:13 to our desires. And we we we take our cues from things outside the Bible. That's something that
52:19 we do. Again, I made the comment earlier about families that have given their children,
52:23 smartphones at early young ages, neglecting the fact that you're not just giving them access to
52:31 stuff, you're giving bad people access to them through the apps that you're allowing them to
52:36 download, just ignoring that fact in and of itself. Unless they're spending all their time on a
52:42 Bible app of some kind, what types of things are catacizing them to your point, Caleb? It's what
52:47 they see on Twitter. It's what they see on TikTok. It's what they see on Instagram. It's what they
52:51 see there more on friends doing and talking about and also the danger of stream of consciousness.
52:57 Because guys, when we were 13 and we had a thought, it just just disappeared like a fart in the wind
53:03 because it's a thought. Today, that thought goes on Twitter. That thought goes into a video that's
53:08 on TikTok that is sitting on some server in China now. And it's like, we're not allowing
53:13 these kids because I mean, I thought I said stupid stuff yesterday. I've said stupid stuff in the last
53:19 hour. But imagine saying something super stupid that you don't even agree with now that happened
53:23 10 years ago, which could lead you to losing your job today or getting canceled or whatever the type
53:28 of situation is again. We just live kind of in a different time. But guys, we're. Oh, I was about
53:33 to do my outro. You got me all excited. I think it's funny about society. And you bring that up,
53:38 like you could lose your job, but like society wants us to have so much grace on them, but they
53:42 don't want to have grace on other people. Of course, that's why you outro. That's why I tell people
53:46 like you can never bow low enough before the mob do not prostrate yourself before the mob.
53:50 They will not let you off the hook. But guys, we're gonna have to leave our discussion of Nehemiah
53:54 11 there. But come back next Sunday where we will dig into Nehemiah 12. So guys, make sure that you
53:59 read that before you come back next week. But before we let you go, we are going to do a quick
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