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THE FORGING TABLE | 2 Timothy 2 (Ep. 490)

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THE FORGING TABLE | 2 Timothy 2 (Ep. 490)
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In this episode of The Forging Table, we dive deep into 2 Timothy 2, exploring the call to spiritual resilience and the importance of not getting entangled in civilian pursuits. Paul’s analogies of the soldier, athlete, and farmer serve as powerful reminders for men to stay focused on their mission and to work hard in their faith.
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0:50 This is Undaunted Life Man's Podcast, I'm your host Kyle Thompson, let's get into it.
0:56 Welcome back to the Forging Table, the mission of Undaunted Life is equipping men to push
1:00 back darkness with content that forges spiritual, mental, and physical resilience.
1:04 At the Forging Table, you'll see a group of regular guys forging spiritual resilience
1:08 by digging into God's Word, and we're welcoming all of you to come along on that journey with
1:11 us.
1:12 That's Ryan, that's Matt, that's Matt.
1:13 Guys, we're digging into Second Timothy 2, and there is a whole lot to talk about in
1:19 Second Timothy 2.
1:20 But before we go back in terms of a segue, Matt, we were talking off there about Second
1:24 Timothy 1, and you wanted to point something out about patterns and how that goes through
1:29 this entire letter.
1:30 Yeah, Paul is encouraging him to follow the pattern of sound words that you have heard
1:36 from me, and I think that is just in stark contrast to what you see as the theme of people
1:43 falling away, people leaving.
1:44 Paul's been abandoned by everybody, and I think he's trying to encourage Timothy, "Don't
1:50 abandon your faith, don't abandon me," like you've got to keep pushing forward, so don't
1:55 follow that pattern because I'm sure that was, and everybody else is doing that, probably
1:59 the safe bet to just pack it up.
2:02 I could probably live for another 60 years pretty comfortably if I just pack it in and
2:08 say, "All right, I'm done with this."
2:09 So I think he's saying, "Fall this pattern, not that pattern."
2:13 And I think that's a good, it's a good thought pattern, sorry, it works, but it's a good
2:21 thought process to carry as you're looking through all these letters because I constantly
2:25 have to remind myself that this letter was meant to be read at once, and here I am reading
2:32 one chapter, "Hah, let me chew on this," and "What's God trying to show me?" and blah,
2:36 blah, blah, blah.
2:37 He's trying to show you the rest of the freaking letter, "Would you just read it?"
2:40 So it's like that's the thing that I try to remind myself, especially for some of the
2:43 longer letters.
2:44 Go ahead.
2:45 Oh, I'm saying I think he kind of lays it out in chapter two here a little bit about
2:49 how the whole letter goes, or his meaning when he kind of compares Timothy to a soldier,
2:54 an athlete, former.
2:56 So the soldier is to get entangled in civilian pursuits, but aimed to please the one who
3:01 enlisted him, so our aim is to please God.
3:05 An athlete is not crowned unless he competes according to the rules.
3:08 The Bible is a rule book, scripture is a rule book, the gospel is a rule book, this
3:12 is what we're put out for, so we need to compete towards that, and then the hardworking farmer
3:19 who gets a share of crops in the end.
3:21 So in the end, we'll talk about the blessings that one would receive if they stay on course.
3:27 Let's dig into that a little bit, actually, because verse four, talking about a soldier,
3:32 so the point, I would say, if you were to encapsulate it, verse four is no useless squabbles.
3:38 So it's not saying don't do civilian stuff, just like no useless squabbles, then he talks
3:42 about an athlete, he uses a lot of athletic language in his letters, Paul does, and he's
3:46 talking about in terms of, hey, we're not going to cut any corners, like where we're
3:49 going to get this done.
3:50 I remember Matt, when you and I were on the soccer team in college, we would have to
3:54 do our runs, and as a goalie, I'm like, this is stupid, I have to run like 10 yards at
4:00 a time, but we would have guys that would cut corners, literal corners, because we would
4:04 run a corner mile or something like that, so that's a mile each way, so four, and so they
4:09 would kind of veer off and run through campus and cut time off, and those are the same guys
4:14 that would get gassed during a game in the 85th minute, and it's just like, yep, that's
4:18 what happens when you cut corners.
4:19 So he's kind of given an admonition there to not cut corners.
4:22 And then obviously, when you think about a hardworking profession, most people think
4:26 about a farmer, you think about the patience it takes to be a farmer, and so that's what
4:30 he's talking about in verse six, no laziness.
4:33 And there's just really a lot here that that can be said, and then I'll tell you guys up
4:37 from there.
4:38 But you know, verse four, you know, soldier, especially at this time they had, and this
4:42 was pointed out in the Reformation Study Bible, readiness to suffer.
4:45 They were loyal, and they were single minded in their commitment, right?
4:48 And that's what you think of a good soldier, but then verses five and six, it's kind of
4:52 a promise of a future reward.
4:54 It's like your hard work and your ability to do things correctly now leads to a future
4:58 reward.
4:59 Otherwise, you know, win the World Series or the Superbowl or the World Cup, almost always
5:03 they talk about the process it took to get there and all the hard work and the extra
5:07 practices in the film study and all those different things.
5:10 And it's a promise of future reward that you will not get if you don't put in the work.
5:15 So I think that that's there's a lot there, but you know, just in those three verses,
5:18 it's like, okay, that if you want to build out how to live your life as a good adult,
5:23 like those would be three examples that you could put in your life pretty quick.
5:26 Yeah, I think that's a good point.
5:28 And I think the soldier one is interesting to me because it is, it can be analogous to
5:35 how we should be living our life as Christians where we are.
5:41 Our general is Christ and we are focused on what he is wanting us to do.
5:46 And I think all those other distractions just take us down or can take us down a path of
5:51 destruction.
5:53 And if we're not, I think it's our duty to be more single minded in what we're trying
6:00 to strive for.
6:01 And so I, man, this was written thousands of years ago, but still still so applicable
6:08 today.
6:09 I love that analogy.
6:10 Well, one thing as well, you know, when we're talking about the farmer, I guess the word
6:13 used for hardworking farmer, what they meant is to labor to the point of exhaustion.
6:19 And I guess if for the guys listening to this and certainly for the guys at the table, when
6:24 it comes to your work life, whatever it is that you do, and we're all kind of more so
6:28 in white collar types of jobs, but regardless of the job that you're doing, are you laboring
6:33 is unto the Lord?
6:34 And are you laboring to the point where you are exhausted?
6:38 And then the same would apply to, I would assume how you labor inside your family, how
6:42 you labor inside your church, how you labor inside of your, your local community.
6:46 And I remember this, I have just one of those like kitschy, you know, Father's Day type
6:51 stories or whatever.
6:52 But there was this, this man who, you know, hardworking man, and he's, he's rubbing his
6:56 hands because he's kind of arthritic and his hands hurt and he's working real hard and
7:00 blah, blah, blah.
7:01 And his old daughter comes up to him and says, Daddy, dear, dear, hands hurt, are you okay?
7:05 And he says, baby, do you have enough to eat?
7:09 She's like, yeah, like do you have all the clothes that you need to go to school and to
7:14 go to church and all that?
7:15 Well, yeah.
7:16 Do you have enough money to do the activities that you want to do and all that kind of stuff?
7:20 Well, yeah, he goes, in my hands feel fine.
7:23 And it's like, that's, that's a dad, like that's a guy that's like, I'm a ring myself
7:28 out think, think about that quintessential farmer, right?
7:32 The old man in his button down shirt and he just got off his tractor and he doesn't get
7:37 a parade.
7:38 Like he doesn't get a month of celebration, like he's just going to get after it and get
7:42 to work.
7:43 But there's a lot there, especially for a dad that's, that's looking for opportunities
7:48 to grow himself.
7:50 There's a lot just in that.
7:51 I think these three examples too are very stark in contrast to what we view as a modern
7:57 day pastor.
7:58 They're in the muck in the mire.
8:00 They're, they're doing the stuff that, like you said, that you don't get a parade or work
8:04 in a field.
8:05 And I think, I mean, first Timothy talks, his first letter, he talks about not doing, not
8:10 doing these godly things for worldly gain.
8:14 Obviously, that's not exactly what he puts it, but like that's not the pastor is someone
8:20 who does the stuff in the muck in the mire and has mud and blood all over his face and
8:26 probably doesn't ever get a parade and, but that, like it's to God's glory and it's not
8:32 for worldly gain.
8:33 So I see that.
8:34 I mean, I kind of looked at it as a soldier is, you know, this, the soldier, you're, you're
8:40 the first commander's Christ, you know, you live for Christ.
8:43 The athlete was, you preach the gospel, preach the truth.
8:46 And then the farmer was the sower of the seed.
8:49 You go out there and you don't stop so in that seed until your time comes.
8:53 And I think that was just kind of what he was trying to do, saying this is what you do.
8:57 You know, first you give your life to Christ, you do what he asked you to do.
9:01 This is what he's asked you to do.
9:03 Now we're, we're dealing with a gospel that's being preached because of something, you know,
9:08 a gospel that's being preached that's not the right gospel.
9:11 This is the truth.
9:12 I've given you that and I've told you that in chapter one.
9:16 And now it's like, now you don't stop.
9:18 Just keep going.
9:19 Don't be afraid.
9:20 This was interesting too.
9:21 It said we test them by the word of God and particularly the doctrines of grace is given
9:25 by Paul.
9:26 It is not we who examine Paul to see if he is right.
9:29 It is Paul who examines us.
9:32 That stood out to me as I read through this, you know, this is pretty definitive in what
9:35 he's saying.
9:36 He's talking about soldiers not getting distracted because they're there for their commander and
9:39 all of those sorts of things.
9:42 So what I was going to say is like the harvest is really interesting to me because if you're
9:47 talking about the harvest as a pastor or as a father or as a disciple, as someone who's
9:53 discipling someone, the pastor's harvest is people who come to Christ, right?
9:58 He can't control who comes to Christ.
10:02 Just as a farmer, I mean, you can work as hard as you want and get a crappy harvest because
10:06 that's just how the chips fell.
10:08 But what doesn't change is how hard he works.
10:11 Whether he gets a good harvest or a bad harvest, he works the same amount.
10:15 If he's a good farmer, he's going to work as hard as he can, no matter what.
10:19 And same with the pastor.
10:21 You might have one person come to Christ that week.
10:23 You might have 50.
10:25 You're still putting in the same hours, you're still putting in the same amount of work because
10:29 the harvest isn't yours anyway.
10:30 But the work is.
10:31 Well, that's why I tell people all the time is they're like, you know, over the years
10:35 as your shows grown and as, you know, the impact of what Don't To Life is doing, blah, blah,
10:39 blah, whatever compliment, everything they say, what about your preparation has changed?
10:43 What are you better at?
10:44 What are you more efficient at?
10:45 And I'm like, this is not going to be good for your, for your business class.
10:48 I'm doing the same level of work as I was when I started when I had tens of listeners
10:53 versus what we have today, which is significantly more than that.
10:57 I'm preparing for interviews the exact same way.
10:59 I'm preparing for solo episodes the exact same way.
11:01 Are we doing additional things?
11:02 Yeah.
11:03 Fortune table didn't exist 12 months ago, but I was in people like, you know, why?
11:07 When you had like a couple of dozen listeners, why were you preparing so hard?
11:11 It's like, so I wasn't working for you.
11:12 Like I was working as unto the Lord because, you know, and you know, and you can't do that.
11:17 You can't fill your bank account with, you know, with the hopes and dreams and unicorn
11:21 farts and oh, yeah, but a lot of people like me, like at some point it's got to be a business.
11:25 But that that's a really big deal.
11:26 It's also where you're pointing your brain and where you're pointing your attention.
11:29 And that's verse seven.
11:31 Think over what I say for the Lord will give you understanding and everything.
11:34 Think over what I say.
11:35 One of the commentaries I read is like, if we were to say that, hey, Zach, remember what
11:41 we were talking about earlier.
11:42 If you could just think that over some more, it's more like a polite suggestion.
11:45 Now, this is more like a strong admonition from Paul to Timothy.
11:50 Think this over.
11:51 Yeah, pour over it.
11:52 May I remind you of these things that I've likely told you before?
11:56 And if you do so, the payoff, the Lord will give you understanding and everything.
12:02 So to the person I feel like they're toiling in their work at whatever it is that they're
12:07 doing.
12:08 If you're where you're supposed to be, and if you're working is unto the Lord, it's
12:12 going to be it's going to work out to your redounding benefit at some point.
12:16 And the other thing, Matt, just to put a bow in this first section before we move on the
12:20 pastor, that feels like they're, you know, there's not as many people are coming to Christ
12:25 or people aren't really responding to my messages, why aren't people signing up for missions
12:28 and things like that?
12:29 It's like control the controllables that goes all the way back to my interview of legendary
12:34 local wrestling coach Hardell Moore, control the controllables, like you can't control
12:39 whether or not the kid you're wrestling that day is better than you.
12:43 You can't control that.
12:44 You can control your level of preparation, though.
12:46 You can control how how good your gas tank is those things that you can control and think
12:50 about people when they get beat in sports or in business or whatever.
12:53 It's like, man, they were just flat out better.
12:56 There's literally nothing more I could have done before this.
12:59 And I just got beat.
13:01 That's a great place to be.
13:02 But I could I'm better than this guy.
13:05 I just got tired, dad, gummy.
13:07 And you just you can feel that like I was I was not as ready as I would have hoped and
13:11 I got exposed.
13:13 And so that's also something we see in 2 Timothy is not being caught flat footed, but that's
13:18 going to come up a little bit later.
13:20 I do want to get into this next section versus 8 through 13.
13:24 So Matt, could you actually read verses 8 through 13, please?
13:27 Sure.
13:28 Remember Jesus Christ risen from the dead, the offspring of David has preached in my
13:32 gospel for which I am suffering, found with chains as a criminal, but the word of God
13:37 is not bound.
13:38 Therefore, I endure everything for the sake of the elect that they also may obtain a salvation
13:44 that is in Christ Jesus with eternal glory.
13:47 The saying is trustworthy for if we have died with him, we will also live with him.
13:52 If we endure, we will also reign with him.
13:55 If we deny him, he will also he also will deny us.
13:59 If we are faithless, he remains faithful or he cannot deny himself.
14:04 But one commentary and then I want to dig in, but the word of God is not bound.
14:09 How often do you see an exclamation point in the New Testament?
14:12 Not very often.
14:13 I don't have the answer like I'm a I don't remember very many of them.
14:18 And Paul is like Paul's basically talking like he's in that chair.
14:22 That's the pounding the table chair.
14:23 For those of you that listen for a long time, I haven't pounded the chair right across me
14:27 as the will pound later.
14:28 Right.
14:29 That's we didn't have to go that far.
14:30 But the thing about it is that of all the stamps, like listen to me, like he he was probably
14:38 screaming whenever he either wrote that down or somebody else was writing it down as he
14:42 was saying it.
14:43 So that's one thing I want to throw out there.
14:45 But in this section, obviously there were there's a word that came up and Matt said it
14:49 and even like he paused just a half a breath after he said the word, do you want to take
14:53 a guess what that word is?
14:55 Why are you smiling Matt?
14:56 I'll take a guess.
14:57 Yeah, go ahead.
14:58 You wrote down because of that, Kyle may get upset, but let Matt take the lead feeling
15:03 where he did it.
15:05 So it's called it's called election.
15:07 Okay.
15:08 So I actually that was unintentional.
15:11 My pause is unintentional, but as I will say, as I pause, I was like, I didn't mean to do
15:16 that, but I know that I was going to think I heard it.
15:18 I did that on purpose.
15:19 Not only did I hear the pause.
15:20 I felt it.
15:21 I felt it on my toes, Matt.
15:23 That's how hard I felt it.
15:24 Okay.
15:25 Why don't you guys a message the other day and so I want to kind of give the listeners
15:29 a peek behind the curtain.
15:30 Then I'm going to just kind of play this out a little bit.
15:32 And it was something I can't remember exactly what I said, but it was something along the
15:35 lines of like, Hey, I don't want to close myself off to reformed Calvinistic theology.
15:41 That type.
15:42 Are you bringing up the actual text?
15:43 I can bring up the text messages below me too.
15:44 Yeah.
15:45 I guess that's supposed to be kind of like stumbling along.
15:47 I read it.
15:48 I was like, he screen shot at it.
15:50 He saved it.
15:51 He posted it on Instagram.
15:52 I did not post it on Instagram.
15:55 We're just going to have dead air happen until you find out.
15:57 Yeah.
15:58 Why don't you guys keep talking?
15:59 Well, here's my message.
16:00 There it is.
16:01 My messages.
16:02 All right.
16:03 Let's get back to reading my messages for the whole world.
16:07 Well, I have I got text from you and then text from there's the fortune tape.
16:12 Did you find the actual text?
16:13 Or did you just find where we text each other?
16:15 No, I'm going to go back now because it's up there.
16:18 Yeah, it's up there, man.
16:19 You're going to have to sit this.
16:20 Yeah.
16:21 I mean, I could just give the people that just wanted to throw this out to the group
16:25 real quick.
16:26 All right.
16:27 Here it is.
16:28 I kind of had this realization about lifting this morning.
16:30 ID test because the test is in all capitals.
16:33 You don't have to perform my text.
16:35 It'll intellectual, intellectual dishonesty.
16:38 I'd like it's like a stench on the people that I can't shake once I smell it.
16:43 In my most honest opinion or in my mo of militancy and stubbornness, I think that I've started
16:49 to dig my heels and against reformed Calvinist theology.
16:53 I think I've let some of the debates anger me more than I've let them challenge me, which
16:57 I've thrown out to you by like, dude, why are you so angry?
16:59 You're like, I'm not angry.
17:00 Well, I wasn't angry.
17:01 I think I've let some of the debates anger me more than I've let them challenge me.
17:07 I can feel myself picking a side just so that I have a side to fight on for.
17:11 I don't want to do that.
17:13 I want to keep an open mind to new ideas and arguments, which is intellectually honest
17:18 and consistent, just stream of consciousness this morning, I guess.
17:21 Okay.
17:22 So that was a message I sent to you guys.
17:24 And everyone started crying and it was like super emotional and Kyle shared his heart.
17:28 But the thing is, it's like, you know, you go to a Super Bowl party.
17:32 You haven't you've been busy.
17:33 You haven't watched the whole season.
17:34 And it's like, well, I guess I better pick a team so I can have someone to root for and
17:38 then you pick a team and then by the third quarter, you're like yelling when the receiver
17:42 for that team who you didn't know their name, you know, 45 minutes ago and you're freaking
17:47 out because they dropped a pass that would have potentially changed the game or something.
17:50 So I want to be honest and I want to ask these questions because for those of you that are
17:54 new to this, we got a couple of bonafide cabinets across the table for me.
17:57 So I got Ryan and Matt and then Zach, I don't exactly know where you land on all of this.
18:01 And so perhaps it'll come out, but I have some, I have some honest questions because
18:06 I've questioned a lot of people in this.
18:08 And frankly, there's things that I just don't understand.
18:11 And it's like, I feel like an idiot and it's like, I don't want to at least want to understand
18:15 it if I'm going to accept it or repudiate it or something like that.
18:19 So I have some yes or no questions and there's no gotchas.
18:22 Don't laugh, Matt.
18:23 Don't laugh.
18:24 I hate that.
18:25 I know, I know that.
18:26 And so, but, and so the thing is, I need you all to trust me a little bit.
18:29 Give me a little bit of, of latitude here.
18:31 I will.
18:32 I have some yes or no questions.
18:33 And so if you'll stay to the yes or no format, we will have longer format options.
18:37 I know I'm making it as awkward spots is actually just over here, giggling.
18:40 He's just loud.
18:41 He's ready.
18:42 He's ready for the awkwardness because I want, I want to get a better understanding
18:45 of this.
18:46 So are we agreeing to the format after your beautiful texts that you sent to us?
18:49 I will agree to this.
18:50 Okay.
18:51 We have one agreement.
18:52 Yes, because that's the format.
18:53 Okay.
18:54 That is the format.
18:55 And so just yes or no.
18:56 Okay.
18:57 So we'll call you out though.
18:58 If you're like, seriously, call me out because as I was writing these down, I was like, okay,
19:02 intellectual honesty, fairness, desire for the truth, all that.
19:06 That's what's in these questions.
19:07 Fair.
19:08 Okay.
19:09 First one, would you say that only the elect go to heaven?
19:13 Yes.
19:14 Yes.
19:15 Would you say that the elect are chosen by God?
19:18 Yes.
19:19 Yes.
19:20 Okay.
19:21 Would you say that the elect bring nothing to their salvation?
19:23 No.
19:24 No.
19:25 Okay.
19:27 Would you say that the elect have to hear the gospel to receive it?
19:30 Yes.
19:31 Yes.
19:32 Okay.
19:33 Would you say that the elect have to repent?
19:35 Yes.
19:36 Yes.
19:37 Okay.
19:38 Would you say that the elect have to put their faith in the gospel?
19:40 Yes.
19:41 Yes.
19:42 Okay.
19:43 The surprising thing about your answers is typically when I hear a Calvinist or a foreign
19:47 people discuss salvation or whatever, they say you don't bring anything to your own salvation
19:55 because you can't.
19:56 And then they say something along the lines of you were dead, you dead people can't do
20:00 things.
20:01 They can't reach their hand up.
20:02 They can't whatever.
20:03 Which is true.
20:04 This is true.
20:05 Okay.
20:06 And so the thing that's confusing to me is for people that do say, because you all would
20:09 acknowledge there are Calvinists that say, no, you bring nothing to your salvation.
20:12 Correct?
20:13 Yeah.
20:14 Not, not every Calvinist believes the same thing.
20:15 And there are, I think there are different degrees.
20:17 And I think people who are new to that, I guess, system of theology can be really, really
20:24 extreme in their view and they, and very stubborn.
20:27 They call it, they call it the cage stage.
20:28 Cage stage.
20:29 We've all been there.
20:30 Yeah.
20:31 It literally has, yeah.
20:32 It literally has a definition and a term to describe it.
20:36 But yeah, I think, and then there's, there's hyper Calvinists who literally, yeah, who like
20:40 you're saying, who literally think like, I can do nothing at all.
20:44 Right.
20:45 So when it, when it comes down to it, I think where they get to that mindset is you don't
20:52 recognize the gospel with, I think I lost it.
20:55 You don't recognize the gospel until God opens your eyes to it.
21:00 And so if that never happens, then you've done nothing.
21:04 So, but once your eyes are open to the gospel and God's opened your eyes, because you, you
21:08 will see through here that Paul talks about being open to your eye, if God opens their
21:14 eyes or if God allows them.
21:16 So if God allows you to hear the gospel and God allows you to understand the gospel, then
21:22 from there, this is where I disagree that you do come in, you have to one, believe it.
21:29 And two, you have to repent, you have to change your mind.
21:32 So if you were given the belief, then you are just a bystander, correct?
21:37 Like that's how a Calvinist would say, it's like, no, no, no, the only reason you believe
21:40 is because God opened your eyes.
21:42 And I would agree with that.
21:43 Yes.
21:44 But then are you saying you still get to choose whether or not you believe?
21:47 I mean, I mean, that's where you come down.
21:49 And I've thought about this, like there's a part and there's a verse in the Bible about
21:52 blaspheming in the Holy Spirit.
21:54 And so I feel it's Matthew.
21:57 Yeah, I know it's a Matthew.
21:58 I feel that I hate using the word I feel.
22:02 Let's get in our feelings.
22:03 Let's get into the feelings, guys.
22:05 Um, no, I just, when I think about that, it's like in God, why I'm a Calvinist or why I
22:12 ascribed to Calvinistic theology, which Calvinistic theology isn't, this isn't like some denomination.
22:18 I'm a Christian.
22:19 I have a, I look at God's sovereignty through a Calvinistic theology.
22:23 I believe that God is more sovereign over, over everything in actions than I am.
22:29 So I will go back and forth on free will, but, but I, I, I just think that you have to bring
22:37 something to the table.
22:38 You have to repent.
22:39 You have to, you have to do something.
22:40 But so it's hard for me.
22:41 If God is sovereign, can someone just say, Oh, I've seen the gospel and I think it's
22:45 crap.
22:46 Yeah.
22:47 I don't know.
22:48 Calvinists who are true to what the Bible teaches do not think that we are robots.
22:53 So like, I think I'm sure there are people who think that and I think I don't think some
22:57 are robot.
22:58 I mean, but we'll, we'll get that.
23:00 Yeah.
23:01 So to me, the Bible is a story of election, Jacob, Jacob, Jacob was a scoundrel.
23:05 Jacob was a deceit.
23:06 He was a deceitful person and God still chose to bless Israel through Jacob.
23:12 Like they're like the Israel, Israel like people were, were, were elected, not because
23:18 of anything they did, but because God chose him.
23:22 We see in Revelation, like our names are written on the lambs book of life that was written
23:27 before the foundation of the earth.
23:29 Like, so, so election is all throughout the Bible.
23:33 But I want to bring, I want to bring, we just talked about Spurgeon so much on our podcasts
23:37 here, but I think he really sums it up very beautifully.
23:40 And if you let me, I'd love to read this quote because this is something that I think a
23:43 lot of people grapple with like, where, where do I fall in this dichotomy in Spurgeon says
23:49 that God predestines and that man is responsible are two things that you can see.
23:54 They are believed to be inconsistent and contradictory, but they are not.
23:57 It is just the fault of our weak judgment.
24:00 Two truths cannot be contradicted to each other.
24:03 If then I find taught in one place that everything is foreordained, that is true.
24:07 And if I find in another place that man is responsible for all his actions, that is true.
24:12 And it is my folly that leads me to imagine that two truths can never contradict each
24:17 other.
24:18 These two truths I do not believe can ever be welded into one upon any human handle,
24:25 but one, they shall be in eternity.
24:28 There are two lines that are so nearly parallel that the mind that shall pursue them farthest
24:32 will never discover that they converge, but they do converge and they will meet somewhere
24:37 in eternity, close to the throne of God, wins all truth, doth spring.
24:42 So did you have a point on that?
24:44 Because that's a fantastic quote.
24:46 My point is, there are twin truths in the Bible, that is something that Spurgeon would
24:52 call a twin truth.
24:54 God is sovereign, but I have responsibility.
24:59 Nehemiah is a twin truth.
25:01 Nehemiah doesn't exist.
25:03 God is going to rebuild the wall.
25:05 The wall is getting rebuilt, but Nehemiah had the responsibility to go do it.
25:12 That to me, and that's one of the big things I got from the book of Nehemiah, was there
25:17 are these two things side by side that if God wanted to, he could say Nehemiah stay where
25:25 you are with Artaxerxes.
25:27 I'm going to rebuild the wall because I'm God.
25:31 I made man out of clay and I could do what I want, but God loves us so much that he's
25:37 going to give us responsibility and it's our job to fulfill that.
25:40 I hate to break this up.
25:43 I feel the same way because I'm just saying like-
25:46 As I break this up, let me hop in here.
25:49 Let me hop in here.
25:51 The bleeding woman and the dying daughter, notice that Christ is going to the dying daughter,
25:57 but the bleeding woman comes to Christ for healing.
26:01 He's going to heal the dying daughter, so that's kind of the-
26:04 So I think the part where people struggle is it's one thing to have knowledge of an outcome
26:12 and it's another thing to cause the outcome.
26:15 Like assuming the earth stays in existence, I know that the sun will set in the west this
26:21 evening, but I'm not causing that.
26:23 And that's the difference where people get into it.
26:25 As Zach, I see you nod in your head, you're being awfully quiet here.
26:28 You're taking everything into that big old brain of yours.
26:30 But like that's the thing that I feel like is that's the problem where people get to
26:36 where okay, so you're saying there's no free will because if you fast forward to verse 23,
26:41 you have not 23, 25, dot dot dot, correcting his opponents with gentleness, God may perhaps
26:47 grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth.
26:50 And so it's like, so we don't repent.
26:53 God basically puts the software of repentance into our main frame.
26:59 So here's the thing.
27:00 Hold your truth.
27:01 So hold your thought.
27:02 Make sure you keep it right.
27:03 That is the most and this is not the the supreme ethic here.
27:07 That is the most intellectually unsatisfying argument that I get from people because when
27:12 I've had this discussion, not with you two or maybe with you two, but then with others
27:16 is it's like, well, we don't we don't understand everything and some things will just be made
27:20 clear to us later.
27:21 And I'm like, that's okay.
27:23 I could win every argument ever.
27:26 By using that, that can't be a crutch that can't be a crutch to use if you if you feel
27:31 like, okay, I'm not I don't have the points to win this argument.
27:35 I shouldn't.
27:36 It would be intellectually dishonest of me to say, well, we just can't know everything.
27:40 That is true.
27:42 But like that's not that's that shouldn't be used as a crutch just because I think I'm
27:44 losing it's not a crutch in the fact that we don't know God we our idea of love is totally
27:51 different than what God's idea of love is our idea of righteousness is totally different
27:55 than God's idea of righteousness like his expands a bounds that we will never see.
28:00 But what we can do is we can look into the Bible and we can look at certain things and
28:04 how they're portrayed out in the Bible and go by those things.
28:07 But I'm never going to fully have anybody can fully understand God and who God is by
28:13 all means.
28:14 I would love to hear it.
28:15 We're never going to be able to do it.
28:16 You know, we're I mean, we're still trying to get through this and I don't think anybody
28:20 would argue that that, oh, hey, there's somehow that we can get to the knowledge of God through
28:25 their study or revelation or something like that that I don't think any vice making that
28:28 argument.
28:29 It's especially when you get into this very specific part of Calvinist theology, which
28:33 came 1500 years after the the first church where it's like election where there's essentially
28:38 which I'm not saying Calvin admitted election, right?
28:41 Because you can see it and read it throughout the New Testament, whatever.
28:44 But it's it comes to the point to where it's like you have so many listen to a guy like
28:48 MacArthur and it's like we bring nothing to our salvation like you didn't choose your
28:53 salvation, you're not the world's greatest chooser like God gave that to you.
28:57 Okay.
28:58 And so like, but then again, it's like there is agreement that we must put our faith in
29:02 it action and then we must have faith and that we must repent.
29:06 Those are two action things that are required of us, which begs this, this question and
29:11 this is another honest question that I'd never thought about until I read the second chapter
29:15 here, which is, and I don't know the answer.
29:18 Is it possible to be elect and to not go to heaven?
29:23 What would you guys say?
29:24 No.
29:25 No, I don't.
29:26 If you're if you're elect, you're going to heaven.
29:27 So what you're saying is, is that every person that is elect is guaranteed to hear the gospel
29:32 in their life.
29:33 Because you also said earlier that the elect can't respond to the gospel if they never
29:37 hear, which is obviously so so where are they hearing it from?
29:41 Like I don't even care about that.
29:43 Yeah.
29:44 To answer your question.
29:45 Yes.
29:46 Like every every person that is elect is guaranteed to hear the gospel and then repent because
29:50 God is God has ordained that to have and that's why I could go back to 25 correcting his opponents
29:54 with gentleness.
29:55 God made perhaps grant them repentance.
29:58 So what it comes down to is like, if you're wrong about something and you know, and like,
30:03 I, you know, I've told you like, Hey, Kyle, I think you're wrong on this and you're like,
30:08 you realize where I'm coming from and you're like, you know what, you know what, I am wrong.
30:13 I'm sorry about that.
30:14 I mean, that's what God's doing.
30:15 God is putting in your mind like, all right, I'm wrong about this.
30:19 Now I need to change it.
30:21 And so that's what he's talking about.
30:22 So you're saying he's granting you the knowledge of, I guess the word would be the gravity,
30:26 but we still have to respond to that.
30:29 We still have to respond with repentance and belief.
30:32 I think that goes back to the harvest, doesn't it?
30:35 Like a pastor can only control that he is preaching the gospel.
30:40 The harvest is God's.
30:41 Yeah.
30:42 I guess the struggle is, is if you're saying, which I would agree that you, the elect have
30:47 to hear the gospel in order to respond to it, is this is where the free will thing comes
30:52 in because it's one thing to ordain and weave things to where they make sure that they happen,
30:57 but it would seem unlikely.
30:58 And again, I don't like using likelihood language in here whenever it comes to, you know, God's
31:03 sovereignty and all that.
31:04 So I'm treading on thin ice here and I acknowledge that.
31:07 But to say that God has elected a certain group of people, which means that he chose
31:12 them, right?
31:13 Not that he knew they would choose, right, which is what I think where a lot of people
31:17 would land is God knows what you're going to do.
31:20 But what Calvinist would say is that, no, no, he chose them to do that.
31:23 Like he, he picked them out out of the entire line of Christianity and said, you, you're
31:28 on team God, that if you get to that point, to say that the gospel is always going to
31:35 be preached to the elect takes free will out of it.
31:38 Because let's say Matt, let's say you're not saved in your elect, right?
31:42 You're on team God from before the beginning, you don't even know any, you don't even know
31:45 God exists.
31:46 And let's say, I'm the one that God weaved and ordained to be the one to share the gospel
31:51 with you.
31:52 And in someone else's free will, they put a bullet in my brain that morning and I don't
31:56 end up meeting you for coffee.
31:57 You weren't the one that was supposed to go to the gospel to me.
32:01 But is, you see how this leaves into the free real conversation that, but the point is
32:06 is hearing the gospel, your eyes are being opened as you hear it.
32:10 So what if you don't hear it?
32:12 That's the thing.
32:13 Then you're not elect.
32:14 So if this is not Zac Hoppen in the chat, let's go.
32:17 Let's go.
32:18 This is not a salvation issue, as we all say.
32:23 What's behind the consuming nature of the discussion?
32:26 And that's not a question to be answered here.
32:27 It's pretty rhetorical because I've set through a bunch of these, listen to a bunch of them
32:31 online in this group various places that I've never heard it resolved.
32:35 It will never be resolved.
32:36 Yeah.
32:37 I heard C.S. Lewis the other day brought up and then I heard a very well-known pastor.
32:42 You talk to C.S.
32:43 Lewis brought up.
32:44 And his opinion was that it's not going to be resolved in time and all this.
32:48 But let me just read a couple of things and get your thoughts on this.
32:51 And I think you're not going to like it.
32:53 But it is great.
32:54 Three on one.
32:55 I love it.
32:56 I think you'll be fine.
32:57 This is a great deal I heard it said.
32:59 So Soren Kierkegaard, if you're familiar with him, says that the divine is infinitely
33:05 qualitatively different than you.
33:08 This reminds me of Philippians 2, 5 through 6, referencing how Jesus did not count a quality
33:13 with God as something to be grasped, right?
33:17 So I listened to this discussion between some about philosophers and Dawkins and all that.
33:21 And this person said something I thought was pretty good, which is people attempting to
33:25 understand or conceptualize God must work within the framework of their own rational
33:31 limitation.
33:32 God can only be what our reason allows him to be.
33:35 Another way of saying it is that our reason constructs God.
33:39 So in this case, we have not actually encountered the truly other, the holy, the divine other,
33:45 but we have only constructed a projection of ourselves.
33:48 This would suggest that our attempts to conceptualize God will never lead to anything approximating
33:53 the reality of his essence, somewhere to how Jesus referenced heavenly things to Nicodemus.
33:58 It was not something he could understand.
34:00 So it does not seem that God intended to provide clarity in the case of this dichotomy, which
34:06 may be a gift.
34:08 We've been provided with just enough processing power to appreciate the depth of the mystery.
34:13 Perhaps to your last point, it's meant to demonstrate how infinitely qualitatively different he
34:20 is compared to us and conceivably so.
34:23 So sort of like the question of what our ever expanding universe, space, time and energy
34:29 is expanding into or emerged from, it is simply beyond our ability to grasp an awesome and
34:36 the truest sense of the word.
34:39 So I think for me, because it's so alien to our ability to understand it yet, it's two
34:44 twin truths that are kind of like an asymptote, right?
34:46 They never converge.
34:48 It may in some sense be something that's just meant for us to be in awe of.
34:55 And if it's truly not a salvation issue, I know for some people, it can get really close
34:58 to that people that I know personally, then where do we frame this exactly?
35:02 And I think for me personally, you kind of brought up in the beginning, where am I at?
35:05 But I think this is kind of where I'm at.
35:06 I've not seen it.
35:08 It's kind of like Turic and everybody else that you talk about, they all sort of settle
35:12 in this place where it's like, guys, you're not going to know it, but you're going to
35:16 get to Christ one way or another.
35:18 Well, I think the understanding is that you can't be so dogmatic about it, that it becomes
35:23 a salvation issue because then it becomes an idol in itself.
35:27 And there are people who fall in the Calvinistic camp that are so dogmatic about election and
35:33 not bringing anything to the table that they venture into a false religion that is not
35:40 Christianity.
35:41 Because what is clear is repent and believe, right?
35:44 Even in the Old Testament, that's there.
35:46 You look at Jacob.
35:47 Jacob deceives his brother twice.
35:49 He lies about his name to his dad and he says, I am Esau.
35:53 And then he wrestles with God and some scholars would say that that's the angel of the Lord
35:57 that is pre-incarnate Jesus Christ wrestling with him.
36:00 And then the angel or God says, what is your name?
36:06 Like he doesn't know.
36:07 Of course he knows.
36:08 He knows it's Jacob.
36:09 And there's this moment of repentance and redemption for Jacob who will be blessed and
36:14 Jesus will come out of that line and nations will be blessed because of Jacob and he says,
36:19 I am Jacob.
36:21 And it's this moment of I'm repenting, I'm being honest and now I'm being vulnerable
36:26 and I'm at the table bringing nothing but honesty.
36:30 And he said, like, I will not let go until you bless me and he says, what's your name?
36:35 It's Jacob.
36:36 You are no longer Jacob.
36:37 You are Israel because you wrestled with God.
36:39 So even in the Old Testament, it is repent and believe.
36:44 And that is why I can call someone who would say Calvinism is stupid.
36:49 I can still call your brother in Christ because we agree on that foundational thing, which
36:55 is salvation.
36:56 So I want to make sure we're being precise in our language.
37:00 So Zach and Matt, when you talk about being a salvation issue, you're saying there are
37:04 people that think if you are not Calvinistic in your personal theology, that you will be
37:08 going to hell.
37:09 Is that a fair way of saying that?
37:11 I don't know that I could say that definitively.
37:13 I'm sure there are people who think that if you don't believe in Calvinism, you're not
37:16 actually a Christian.
37:17 I'm sure you believe if you don't believe in free will, you're not going to heaven.
37:20 Yes.
37:21 I guess when I when I hear Zach, when I heard you say, you know, basically not a salvation
37:25 issue, Matt, not a salvation issue, in my head, I'm like, wait a minute.
37:29 That's exactly what we're talking about.
37:31 We're discussing.
37:32 Wait.
37:33 Okay.
37:34 This is exactly what we're talking about because the way I'm looking at it.
37:36 So one of the early critiques of the forging table was someone was like, I don't know how
37:41 to apply this directly to my life.
37:43 Like, how do I apply this?
37:44 So let's take it to ground level.
37:46 I have two sons.
37:48 I don't know if they're elect or not, and it won't be revealed to me because something
37:52 may die, never be revealed to you.
37:54 Sure.
37:55 So we get to this point where why and don't just say it's because Bible tells you you're
38:00 supposed to, but it's like, why would I share the gospel with my boys?
38:04 Because if both are elect, one or the other is elect or neither of them are elect, my actions
38:10 in this don't matter because God is sovereign and will ordain it for his glory.
38:14 And if I didn't share it, someone would have shared it anyway.
38:17 That's where people get wrapped around the axle with this Calvinistic theology, because
38:20 I've yet wait, because I've yet to have a, a died in the wool Calvinist explained to
38:25 me why we should do mission work because it's like these people are going to hear the gospel.
38:31 Anyway, why am I putting together a fundraiser to send people to the, you know, mountains
38:36 of Guatemala?
38:37 I don't even know if mountains are in Guatemala to find this lost people group to supposedly
38:41 give them this, that or the other.
38:43 And I, and I know the answers and it's like, Oh, but we're the hands and feet and we're
38:46 commanded to do it anyway.
38:47 And we may not understand, but we just have to walk by faith.
38:50 I see what I'm saying.
38:51 It's like, it's, it's freezing.
38:52 I see what you're saying, but I think this goes into another dichotomy of we are called
38:56 to preach.
38:57 We are called to preach the gospel.
38:58 We are called to be faithful.
39:00 So me personally, me personally, if I, if I'm looking at my two kids and I don't know
39:05 who, I don't know which one is going to heaven or if they're both going, like God doesn't
39:11 have grandchildren.
39:12 So like I either of those options could be true.
39:17 I preach the gospel because that's mandated to me by Christ.
39:21 But that's, that's for me, like I am not fulfilling my call as a Christian.
39:28 If I'm not preaching the gospel, like even to my kids.
39:33 So it is, it is one, an issue of, of my calling and my obedience.
39:41 So we are all called to be obedient to the gospel call, like preach the gospel because
39:45 it's literally Christ tells us his disciples, like go, go take, go make disciples of the
39:49 earth.
39:50 Like take it to the ends of the earth.
39:52 And so I think if we say, doesn't matter, then we are, then we are in air and we are
39:58 in sin and we are not fulfilling the commandment that Christ gives us.
40:03 Go baptizing the name of the father and son of the Holy Spirit.
40:05 Go make, go make disciples of the nations.
40:07 So I think that's, for me, that's the simple, simplistic way to look at it is that's my
40:11 call.
40:12 That's our call to go preach the gospel.
40:13 And when it comes to my belief in soterology or salvation, it's not, it's not.
40:19 Soteriology.
40:20 Soteriology.
40:21 Sorry.
40:22 Sorry, Jobe.
40:23 Someone's got it.
40:24 Sorry.
40:25 Oh man.
40:26 Might as well be me.
40:27 Might as well be you.
40:28 But, um, no, it's just, I don't think it's an excuse for laziness, you know, it's, it's,
40:35 it's like we talked about catechizing our kids, like, okay, yeah, I may believe that one of
40:41 my kids are elect or I don't know if they're elect or not or whatever.
40:44 I don't still go out there and be like expect the church to catechize them.
40:48 You know, I don't expect them to be catechized in Sunday school.
40:50 You know, I still have a job to do as a father and as a parent.
40:54 And so I still have a job to do as a Christian and my job is to go out there and make disciples
40:59 of the nation of each nation.
41:01 And so when I go and I, and I talk about the gospel, I talk about the gospel and some
41:04 people are going to listen and be like, yeah, I'm, I'm really interested in what you're talking
41:07 about and come and listen.
41:09 And some people are not going to be interested and they're going to walk away and I'll never
41:12 see them again, you know, but it's like sales, you know, I'm going to have somebody that's
41:16 going to really want to listen to what I have to say doesn't mean I did the product.
41:19 I made the product, you know, I'm just a messenger of the product and it's up to them to whether
41:25 to believe in the product.
41:26 I think so.
41:27 I think you find a good example of this in Esther where she's, you know, called to go
41:34 to the king and plead on behalf of her people.
41:39 And I can't remember the guy's name.
41:40 It's her uncle.
41:41 I think, right?
41:42 She says why, like it's basically why me.
41:44 I don't want to do this.
41:45 And he's, his response is if you don't, God will use someone else, but you will be in
41:50 disobedience to God.
41:52 God's will will be done no matter what we do.
41:56 But it is our job and our duty to be obedient to that call.
42:01 And if she had said, no, I'm not going to do it.
42:04 Someone else would have popped up.
42:05 God would have raised somebody else to do it, but she would have been in sin and she's probably
42:10 in hell.
42:11 And I like, that's a very like my cowboy to look at it, but his point was your duty bound.
42:18 You're called to do this obey and do it because God's will will be done either way.
42:23 Fair.
42:24 So would you say, and by the way, for people that are listening to this, like these are
42:27 conversations that we've had before and because I can already feel the emails that are going
42:33 to be hitting my inbox.
42:34 Well, you don't believe in this and barely you idiot.
42:37 And it's like, okay, like part of it is there are a lot of people that have these questions
42:40 because y'all don't get to see the comments and emails and DMs, but I do.
42:45 And people from all sides of this argument and that the thing is is there's a level of
42:49 confusion here.
42:50 Zach, you pointed out earlier, you listen to hours because I've listened to hours of
42:55 debates on the subject to no one ever wins.
42:58 Like no, no one ever comes away in like as an audience member, you feel so dissatisfied
43:03 because you're so excited to, okay, be convinced and then you don't get convinced.
43:07 But would you guys say that repentance and salvation is forced upon people by God?
43:15 Like they they have to take it like it's a gift that they don't get an option to accept.
43:20 As you see what I'm saying?
43:21 Like that's another thing that's confusing.
43:22 But I think that's the thing that we get stuck on is like, what I love about tulip if we
43:30 were going to talk about tulip is the very first thing.
43:33 Total depravity.
43:34 If we don't understand how depraved we are, we're never going to see the beauty of the
43:38 gospel.
43:39 You can you understand how depraved you are and still not respond to the gospel?
43:42 Yeah, if you're not a like, you see how unsatisfying that is because it's like, oh, because you're
43:48 not like that's not an answer, I'm going to say everything unsatisfying because I don't
43:52 know.
43:53 All I know is that.
43:54 Which is also not a satisfactory.
43:55 I'm not going to have the answer to all your questions.
43:57 This is what I believe.
43:58 I'm not here to change your mind.
43:59 I think that's here's the thing.
44:00 But if I'm wrong.
44:01 Let me finish.
44:02 If I'm wrong.
44:03 If you're, it doesn't matter how you how you came to Christ to me, honestly, if I'm wrong
44:07 about the thinking if my theology is wrong, it needs to be pointed out and corrected.
44:11 No, well, no, but my thing is like, I have a different view.
44:14 You have a different, I have a different view of free will than you do.
44:17 So, but my thing is, if you think you're free will is what brought you to Christ and I can
44:21 see through your fruit that you're a Christian.
44:22 I don't care.
44:23 I don't care.
44:24 Where you think you came to Christ, I could, I could honestly believe, you know what?
44:28 God opened his eyes, but you may not see it that way.
44:31 But it's not something I'm going to go.
44:32 It's not a hill.
44:33 I'm going to go die on.
44:34 You know, I'm not going to say, well, that brother believes in that.
44:35 So I'm not, you know, I'm not going to go and do anything with him.
44:38 No, I'm going to discuss how what I believe and you can either take it and be like, hey,
44:43 I want to hear more about that.
44:44 Or you can say, no, I totally disagree with you and we never talk about it again.
44:47 Why are you so mad?
44:48 I'm not mad.
44:49 I don't know.
44:50 You see what I'm saying?
44:51 Like, so you would say.
44:52 You know why I'm mad because usually we have this conversation.
44:53 I have a good cigar and a nice whiskey next to me.
44:55 And we're sitting here drinking water like losers, but like, so you would say.
44:59 Right.
45:00 Right.
45:01 Right.
45:02 Right.
45:03 We can fix one of those at some point in this conversation.
45:04 So you would say then that salvation is not a gift that's accepted, but it's God just gives
45:10 it to us and it's ours at that moment.
45:12 It's given to us.
45:13 It's like we even talk about his grace and why we, you know, receive salvation.
45:18 Okay.
45:19 Would you say the same thing?
45:20 Like it's a gift that we can't not accept.
45:22 We have to accept it.
45:23 If you're elect.
45:24 Yeah, you're going to accept it.
45:25 Yeah.
45:26 That's not what I asked.
45:27 Yes.
45:28 Yeah.
45:29 That's a gift that God opens your eyes to the gospel.
45:30 You will accept it.
45:31 It's a year.
45:32 So it's like if God opens your eyes to the gospel, you're saying it is impossible for
45:36 us to resist it.
45:37 Dead man can't say themselves and we're all dead to our sin.
45:41 So what you're saying is is that we're pre-programmed, if you will, we are going to accept it.
45:47 There's nothing we can do about it, which means we still have to repent and have faith.
45:52 Yeah.
45:53 Okay.
45:54 Fair enough.
45:55 But like, am I the one doing that?
45:56 You're going to do it.
45:57 You're going to repent.
45:58 Just because God opened your eyes to the gospel and you see your depravity, you're still going
46:03 to repent because you're going to be like, look who I am.
46:07 And this is why I need a savior.
46:09 So I can choose to repent or not is what you're saying is that I want to be fair.
46:14 Romans 1 talks about Paul in his letter to the Romans and what we know as chapter 1 talks
46:21 about God gives people up to their own lustful desires.
46:26 So yeah, I think, but again, this goes back to what Zach is saying where God has revealed
46:33 what he has wanted to reveal and what is inescapable is that Christ said, no one comes
46:42 to the Father except through me, repent and believe the kingdom of heaven is at hand.
46:49 Repent and believe that is verb.
46:51 Yeah.
46:52 But that is that's that's it.
46:54 Like that's the that's the thing that we can hang our hat on.
46:57 And when you see Paul give push back to people, it's because people are adding to that.
47:04 That's so what we're talking about here is not adding to it.
47:08 It's a way of understanding it.
47:11 This is change of mind.
47:12 So you do have to change your mind on who you are and how you've been living.
47:17 You have to change your mind towards a Christ molded and change of action.
47:21 Well, that's here's the thing we're in 180.
47:24 Well, here's the thing, change of action is going to take time.
47:27 So this is like, I think this is where you get hung up on is with John MacArthur's lordship
47:32 salvation and where he believes that once you're saved, you automatically change.
47:36 No, we have a sin nature.
47:38 You know, I'm in the reason don't lose your train thought.
47:41 The reason is is because the seven year old that becomes a Christian.
47:44 They're not like definitively different than they were yesterday because they're seven.
47:49 They're just a stupid version of a human, but they're still learning right and they
47:52 still have a signature.
47:53 We all have a signature.
47:54 We repent every day.
47:55 We change our mind every day.
47:56 So I love MacArthur.
47:58 I might disagree with him on that.
47:59 So would you guys say as well and again, I feel like that lady from that Jordan Peterson
48:03 area back in the day.
48:04 So what you're saying is and that's what I'm trying not to be that person.
48:07 So so the other day, and this would be a couple of months ago now, but Phil Robertson, amazing
48:13 guy, he posted a picture of him baptizing one of his grandchildren, his granddaughter and
48:19 the verbiage of the post with something along the lines of this is me baptizing my granddaughter
48:24 after she chose to put her faith in Christ or chose to, you know, do all those types of
48:29 things.
48:30 And I was like, Calvinists aren't going to like that very much because the word choice
48:33 is like it's basically a cuss word to Calvinist to where it's like, no, no, she didn't choose
48:38 anything.
48:39 She's not a great chooser.
48:40 That's the MacArthur style.
48:41 You know what I mean?
48:42 Multiple times where people say that.
48:43 You know what I do?
48:44 You know what I do?
48:45 I rejoice because that person's been baptized and they're showing that they're a believer
48:50 whether they think they chose it or not.
48:52 If they're being baptized or showing a fruit, they're showing obedience, I'm going to rejoice
48:56 in that.
48:57 I'm not going to sit there and be the nitpicky Theo, bro.
48:59 That's going to be like, oh, they didn't choose.
49:01 I want to be rejoice and that I think that's the difference.
49:04 I think that's the difference and I think that's where Calvinists are getting kind of
49:07 a bad rap.
49:08 And rightfully so.
49:09 And I agree.
49:10 A lot of them.
49:11 Yeah.
49:12 And there are a lot that are very arrogant, that are very dogmatic, that are very like,
49:16 I know it.
49:17 I'm right.
49:18 You're wrong.
49:19 You can't.
49:20 There's nothing you can say to dissuade me from that where like what Ryan saying is,
49:24 we should rejoice there.
49:26 They're the brother of the prodigal son.
49:29 They're the brother that's saying, I'm doing everything right.
49:30 Why is it?
49:31 Why did that guy get to come in?
49:32 When we should be saying, it doesn't matter if I'm the prodigal son or if I'm the son
49:37 that stayed at home.
49:38 What really matters is that God gave a house for me to be in it all.
49:44 And that is where we should hang our hat.
49:46 So these, these notes I wrote like four or five days ago, just for me to process through
49:51 it was never intended to be shared.
49:52 I brought it up because you brought up this question and interestingly, and Ephesians
49:57 two, eight through 10, because I would lean towards this Armenian perspective naturally,
50:02 but it's difficult to argue against when it says we read that for, for by grace, you have
50:07 been saved through faith.
50:09 And this is not your own doing.
50:10 It is the gift of God, not as a result of works so that no one may boast for we or his
50:14 work, workmanship created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand
50:20 that we should walk in them.
50:22 Clearly this has Calvinistic elements, but I would suggest that the work from our vantage
50:26 point does not do itself.
50:28 I would guess that Ryan and Matt feel compelled by the spirit to actively engage in good works
50:33 like TFT.
50:35 So at some level, these works are meaningful to them, otherwise they would not do them.
50:39 So why do these two Calvinists feel compelled to read and spread the word of God to strangers
50:43 on a podcast to Kyle's previous points?
50:46 We share.
50:47 Why do we share at all?
50:48 I would argue that every person saved by God and indwelled by the Holy Spirit will be
50:52 generating fruit, not satisfied to coast on their own elected status.
50:57 Those that don't are likely false converts.
51:00 For now, this is my position.
51:02 I ask God to save me, I remember it clearly.
51:06 I am confident that I've been saved.
51:08 I know that I am not the same as I was and will never be.
51:12 I thank God for that, yet I don't deserve it and I don't understand it.
51:15 My conversion is created a thirst to pray, read his word, and to act on behalf of his
51:20 kingdom that didn't previously exist, and that's the outcome regardless of the pathway,
51:25 a miracle in my view.
51:28 So save by grace through faith for good works.
51:33 So I have a question.
51:34 I want to pause right here and take a vote.
51:36 Okay.
51:37 Shut up, Matt.
51:38 All right.
51:39 Here's the vote.
51:40 I'm freaking mustache giggling over there.
51:41 Okay.
51:42 So there is a bunch of great stuff, especially verses 14 through 19 of 2 Timothy two.
51:50 So here's the vote.
51:52 The vote is we're either going to continue this conversation to its logical end, wherever
51:58 that is, where we all are generally satisfied, but all somewhat dissatisfied on the Calvinism
52:02 thing.
52:03 And we're going to pick up on the next recording with kind of verse 14 and then kind of transition
52:07 into chapter three, or we transition to verse 14 of chapter two right now and give it like
52:14 five or 10 minutes of our time and attention.
52:15 I want to get more time and attention to the other one.
52:18 Okay.
52:19 Are you voting for keeping this conversation and then start, you want to keep the election
52:22 conversation going?
52:23 We'll keep it going.
52:24 Yeah, that's one.
52:25 That's yeah.
52:26 Two Zach doesn't matter.
52:27 You're the odd man out.
52:28 Mainly because I think I think five minutes to what the rest of chapter two is, is not.
52:33 Even just what we talked about before we started recording, like there's, there's, there's
52:36 a lot there, not to say that there's not a lot in chapter three guys.
52:39 And everyone's dissatisfied at the end of a forging table episode because there's things
52:43 that we wanted to say.
52:44 And it's like, Oh, why didn't we talk about this?
52:46 So let's talk a little bit about fruit, okay?
52:49 So again, it always seems like I'm picking on MacArthur so much so that people like,
52:52 why do you hate MacArthur?
52:53 It's like, I literally on the table, and this is not a prop.
52:56 This is a MacArthur Bible commentary that I go to what I'm saying, I know I'm agreeing
53:01 with you.
53:02 Okay, MacArthur's got a little bit of like tinge to him, you know, okay, so, so here's
53:06 the thing that really confused me.
53:08 And I don't, I don't remember which sermon it was exactly or which thing I read or something
53:12 like that.
53:13 But it was whatever scripture you'll know them by their fruit and in making sure you
53:17 see fruit.
53:18 And I heard it had to have been a sermon within the last year from a car through and he was
53:22 talking about people's fruit and he was basically like, it's going to be so obvious that it's
53:28 good fruit coming from this person that that it's going to be so clear that they're Christian.
53:34 And I thought about it like, what is fruit?
53:36 So if you see somebody behaving properly, is that fruit of salvation or is that they're
53:42 checking moral boxes and doing quote unquote doing the right thing?
53:46 So that caused some confusion.
53:47 The thing I brought up earlier, Ryan with, you know, the seven year old girl that is
53:50 nice and sits in the front row and does her homework and feeds her doggy.
53:54 And then she gets saved however that happens.
53:56 And then she's the same girl afterwards, like her process of sanctification has begun.
54:02 And you know, she's going to be forged over time, but it's like, there's no fruit in this
54:06 young lady that wasn't there beforehand, because what is fruit?
54:10 What are we looking for in somebody?
54:13 And so I want to have that discussion of fruit because what I came away from with the teachings
54:17 of MacArthur is no one's fruit is sweet enough.
54:22 Like we're all so unbelievably depraved and it goes to something I talked about with John
54:25 Cooper whenever I kind of coined this, but it's like delayed sanctification.
54:29 Like I feel like I was saved in high like in high school in 10th grade.
54:34 And then by the time I got to college, I just kind of was on like a dry spell for a really
54:37 long time, wasn't really reading the word, wasn't really going, I was kind of going to
54:41 church off and on.
54:42 And so it's like, was I just not saved during that time?
54:45 Was I saved, but lazy?
54:47 Was I saved, but disobedient?
54:49 Am I capable of disobedience now?
54:51 Because now I'm, you know, in the lambs book of life and all that.
54:54 So I know I'm throwing a lot out there.
54:56 The fruits discussion has been so cumbersome.
54:58 Okay.
54:59 So salvation to me is is a trinity of sorts where we can look at it and say, okay, I was
55:05 saved, boom, done, but if you look at it from God's perspective, I think, and what the Bible
55:13 says, we were saved, we are being saved and we will be saved.
55:20 And if you look at it that way, we were saved by Jesus's perfect life, death and resurrection
55:25 on the cross.
55:26 We are being saved through sanctification and we will be saved at his second coming.
55:32 So this is a process that is like God, eternal before the foundation, he is, he was and he
55:38 will be like salvation is a similar thing where it's not this one solid point in time
55:44 that I can point to which it is, but it's not, it's, it's more than that.
55:49 It's not less than that, but it's more than that too.
55:51 So I think, I think because we're so linear, we like to say, okay, I was saved at whatever
55:58 date.
55:59 And then I'm good.
56:00 But that's not the case.
56:01 We were, we are and we will.
56:04 I think I look back at Galatians five versus 19.
56:08 Are you sure about?
56:09 Oh, I'm sorry.
56:10 I just want to make sure I understood that.
56:12 So you got salvation in an instant and you're being sanctified through this progression.
56:18 Yes.
56:19 Those are not the same things, right?
56:20 Well, so no, I don't know, maybe I'm, maybe I'm not explaining this correctly, but because
56:29 of the work of Jesus Christ, all who call on his name were saved.
56:33 That was, that was the point where death was defeated, but then we're also being saved
56:40 in current time by our saying, because we are being sanctified, God is, God is sanctifying
56:45 us, but then we will, we will receive our ultimate salvation, which is eternal communion
56:53 with God in Christ's second coming.
56:57 The hardest thing about the fruit thing for me going down that path and what he was talking
57:01 about is when you start thinking about people like Robbie Zacharias, you know, that, I mean,
57:06 I've heard a lot of people talking those terms.
57:07 Yeah.
57:08 And so it's difficult to understand fruit.
57:09 It's difficult to understand if he was just being sanctified and he was saved at one point.
57:13 I mean, who know?
57:14 And I guess it's like sin nature too.
57:16 Like, so let's say that was his varsity sin and his, his personal life.
57:20 Cause like for me, in terms of categorically, Robbie Zacharias and I have the exact same
57:24 struggle when it comes to sexual sin.
57:27 Now I'm not creating like personal massage, whorehouses all over the globe and then, you
57:32 know, charging it to the ministry.
57:34 But at the same time, I have to fight the lust of my eyes constantly and I'm assuming
57:39 that's going to happen until the day that I die.
57:41 But let's say I start acting on it, right?
57:44 And like, is that bad?
57:46 Is that just bad fruit or is it like evidence that I just never say?
57:50 You got tempted and you, and you fell into the flesh.
57:52 You didn't listen to the Holy Spirit.
57:53 I mean, we all deal with it.
57:55 I, I, my wife, like, let me go through this real quick.
57:59 So Galatians 5 19 through 23, um, now the works of the flesh are evident.
58:05 Sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, emity, strife, jealousy, fits of
58:11 anger, rivalries, dissension, division, envy, drunkenness, orgies, things like these.
58:17 I warn you as I've warned before that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom
58:22 of God.
58:23 So the fruit of the spirit are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
58:28 gentleness, self control against such things.
58:31 There is no law.
58:33 So they're ideal with fits of anger.
58:36 Um, I, I deal with impatience, like just two weeks ago, we were driving to church.
58:42 Some guy decided to stop in the middle of the parking lot and let his kids out, like rather
58:47 than go up under the awning where everybody goes to let everybody out.
58:50 No, he stops.
58:51 He just stops right there, it's not, no, his sinful, his behavior wasn't sinful.
58:57 My behavior was, I was very impatient.
58:59 I'm like, what are you doing?
59:00 Dude?
59:01 Come on.
59:02 I need to get a parking spot so I can get in there and get to get to adult Bible fellowship
59:06 on time.
59:07 Yeah.
59:08 You know, and so my wife points out like you deal with impatience and I in my flesh,
59:13 I'm like, no, that guy was wrong.
59:16 He dealt with, you know, but then I go, I ponder it and I think about it and I reach
59:20 out to God.
59:21 And this is the difference.
59:22 This is sanctification, you know, whether you have those thoughts and feelings.
59:26 If you're having fleshly eyes and another woman is coming back and knowing I am out
59:32 of the fruit and I need to work on that fruit and, and that's fruit right there.
59:37 That I, I would say is fruit.
59:39 I noticed that I have this issue.
59:42 I'm repentant of that issue and I'm going to work on that.
59:44 Am I going to get impatient?
59:45 Yeah.
59:46 I got impatient trying to get a drink today because I wanted to get here on time, you
59:49 know, I'm like, Hey, what am I doing here?
59:51 15 minutes.
59:52 Like, you know, like this is ridiculous and I catch myself, but the girl comes and she's
59:55 like, here you go.
59:56 And I'm like, thank you, man.
59:57 You know, I move on.
59:58 I don't go off.
59:59 But no, there's me getting impatient again and that yes, it happens, but the fact that
1:00:04 I know it happens and I'm trying to work on it, that's the fruit.
1:00:07 I think that sometimes we can get stuck on other people's fruit and what, what Paul's
1:00:12 saying in Galatians is that we should keep our eye out for everybody else's fruit.
1:00:17 Should it be that to me, my fruit, the evidence that I should see in my own life is what Paul
1:00:26 talks about as the fruit fruits of the spirit and, but we get hung up on, not that we shouldn't
1:00:31 call out sin, but like we get hung up on other people's fruit.
1:00:34 They're not displaying fruit or that's not fruit or my wife does something that's not
1:00:38 fruit or my kids do something that's not the fruit of the spirit.
1:00:41 Like, I think we can get so hung up on other people's stuff and we should, we should hate
1:00:45 the sin in our own life more than we hate other people's sin.
1:00:49 And so it's a, it's an interesting, yeah, the reason why at the end of that, those notes
1:00:54 I describe my situation as a personal miracle is because I'm by no means, fall is not even
1:01:00 close, but the sin that I have been able to overcome in my life, you know, kind of post
1:01:05 versus pre is definitely a miracle in that sense.
1:01:09 Yeah.
1:01:10 And that's real fruit and you know it to be genuine.
1:01:12 Yeah.
1:01:13 And I think it's kind of like what they'll say about, you know, porn or whatever, like
1:01:16 I know when I see it, right?
1:01:17 I want to say to Ryan and Matt and Kyle that I know you guys to a certain extent, I believe
1:01:22 that you've been saved.
1:01:23 I've seen fruit and all that.
1:01:24 I'll never know the truest depth of if you have a Ravi hanging out in there or not, but
1:01:28 I genuinely think that everybody at this table is we all got a Ravi is just whether you act
1:01:32 upon it or not.
1:01:34 I think that's the, the consternation for me, Zach, is you hear these going back to, excuse
1:01:39 you guys, but going back to these people have these crazy testimonies, and it's like needle
1:01:47 in their arm, you know, belt around their, you know, arm, they're dead, they hover over
1:01:52 their body.
1:01:53 God's like, don't do that anymore sends them back into their body.
1:01:56 And from that day forward, they don't even want hair whenever again, right?
1:02:00 And you hear that.
1:02:02 And then I want to be happy for him, but at the same time, it's like, look, I have to
1:02:07 actively not look at porn and masturbate every day because that's what I used to do.
1:02:11 And that hasn't been a part of my life for a long, long, long time.
1:02:15 It's like, it's, it's almost like it's a complete stranger.
1:02:20 But if I were to run into them, it's like my best friend for my entire life.
1:02:23 That's what sexual sin and sexual temptation is for me.
1:02:27 And so what that does is I'm like, oh, man.
1:02:31 And I wrestle with my personal salvation all the time because I want to make sure I'm
1:02:34 getting it right, you know, because I'm type A and all that crap.
1:02:36 But it's like, oh, no, like, why am I still struggling with these thoughts?
1:02:41 Why am I still struggling?
1:02:42 And it's like, you know, I was like hoping at some point, it's like, okay, I've gotten
1:02:45 to a level of maturity because, you know, Matt, you've known me the longest.
1:02:49 We know each other for, you know, 20 years at this point, like I used to let sports ruin
1:02:53 my night constantly, whether I was in a part of that sport or whether it was a team that
1:02:59 I just really, really liked.
1:03:00 And so I noticed this the other day, I mean, we're just we're well off into the overtime
1:03:04 section on this one.
1:03:05 That's what it is.
1:03:06 But I noticed this the other day.
1:03:07 And it kind of made me sad a little bit, if I'm being honest.
1:03:10 But I am a, I feel like I'm a much dimmer version of who I used to be.
1:03:16 Good and bad.
1:03:17 So what I mean by that is big St. Louis Cardinals fan.
1:03:20 I would watch a St. Louis Cardinals game.
1:03:22 If they walk it off, come back, win in the bottom of the night, then in the playoffs,
1:03:25 I'm losing my mind high five and running down the street naked.
1:03:29 Same thing.
1:03:30 You get walked off on, you lose a game playoff game, important game elimination game.
1:03:35 Oh, I'm custom and I'm fighting and I'm ready to, you know, and I'm, it affects me the next
1:03:39 day.
1:03:40 Can't even talk to anyone at work.
1:03:42 So I feel like the, the expansiveness and the range of my happiness and sadness has shrunken
1:03:50 to where I don't even watch sports.
1:03:51 If I care about the outcome, because I can't control it.
1:03:55 I can't control that, that angry ginger anger, like that pridefulness that I want my team
1:04:00 that wears red to win this game.
1:04:03 And so it was, it was almost sad to me though, because it's like, I feel dimmer.
1:04:08 I feel less extroverted.
1:04:10 I feel like yeah, in some ways more mature, but it's like less passionate, like less myself
1:04:16 to where it's like, I'm glad I don't recognize the knucklehead part of who I was 10 years
1:04:20 ago.
1:04:21 But man, there's a lot of fun and a lot of happiness I'm leaving on the table as well.
1:04:25 And some people are like, that's not healthy.
1:04:26 Just get rid of the crazy guy and keep the passionate guy.
1:04:29 I'm like, I can't, like I can't, I can't piecemeal it.
1:04:32 You know what I mean?
1:04:33 Like it's all part of the same package.
1:04:35 There's a sense of maturity there, because I feel the same way.
1:04:37 I've had the same thoughts, um, before I was, for those of you not watching, I about launched
1:04:45 across this table and choked the dude out, we're in a soccer jersey, the soccer, um,
1:04:50 no, I've had the same, I've had the same thought before I was married and had kids.
1:04:56 I was a pretty fun guy, like, I was probably a real big D bag, but I was pretty funny.
1:05:01 Well, you referred to yourself in the third person.
1:05:03 I did.
1:05:04 So I would say yes.
1:05:05 I was a D bag.
1:05:06 I will say that, uh, but I was witty.
1:05:10 I was funny.
1:05:11 Like I could like, I could, somebody said something that could drop a joke real quick.
1:05:14 Yeah.
1:05:15 And like, I don't do that anymore.
1:05:17 Um, I just don't.
1:05:18 I'm just, why?
1:05:19 Because I have kids and half the times I dropped that joke that made everybody laugh.
1:05:22 I get in trouble.
1:05:23 You know, um, you know, it's usually like, same back in ABF.
1:05:27 Yeah.
1:05:28 Uh, two weeks ago, you know, I dropped a joke on something that you said.
1:05:31 Like there was some truth in it, but it was funny and I couldn't go into the truth because
1:05:36 everybody started laughing, but, um, but that's the thing.
1:05:39 Like I used to be that witty, but now I kind of catch myself that I don't.
1:05:44 I just kind of let those times go, but it's also a sign of maturity.
1:05:47 We heard the description today of elders.
1:05:50 Yeah.
1:05:51 Think about what that looks like.
1:05:54 And I think everybody is kind of on that trajectory in a sense because I, I kind of
1:05:58 equate an elder in a, in a way like to a shade tree, like it's very stable.
1:06:01 It provides confidence and air and, and you know, a sense of safety to those around.
1:06:07 You can't necessarily do that if you're on an emotional high and low all the time.
1:06:11 So I see what you're talking about is progression in some sense.
1:06:14 I understand the passion.
1:06:15 You're also a dad now with kids and a family and everything else and that has its own ability
1:06:19 to kind of temper things.
1:06:20 So I don't think I'd waste too much time thinking about, you know, what that was before to stay
1:06:25 focused on where you're headed.
1:06:27 And it's like, how can you burn off like if you could direct your own maturity, which
1:06:32 I don't know how much we can, but how, how much do you burn off, but leave the strongest
1:06:37 parts of the tree?
1:06:38 Because you talk about separate the wheat from the chaff and burn off the useless parts
1:06:42 or something like that.
1:06:43 If you think about it organizationally, so let's say you come in and you're responsible
1:06:47 for in all this have varying levels of corporate experience.
1:06:50 There's a hundred people in this company, but we're hemorrhaging money right now.
1:06:54 And we've somehow got to cut people, cut assets while keeping the, the realness of who we
1:07:01 are and the core of who we are as a company and to keep an attitude of a positivity and
1:07:08 stick to it.
1:07:09 And we can do this and moxie and would you a hutzpah?
1:07:12 You said hutzpah.
1:07:13 Early Ryan, great use of hutzpah.
1:07:14 Like how do you do that?
1:07:16 How do you burn off the pieces that aren't allowing you to do that?
1:07:19 You see, Elon must take over Twitter, he fires like 80% of the employees, Twitter is apparently
1:07:24 running better than it ever has.
1:07:25 And it's like, you know, how can you do that, but keep an identity moving forward?
1:07:29 And so I don't have a point there guys and for guys listening to this, I don't have a
1:07:34 point where it's like, Oh, and I've discovered that this is the right answer to how to do
1:07:38 that.
1:07:39 I just was doing some introspection and had some long drives without, without anything
1:07:43 playing.
1:07:44 And it's just like, almost like, who am I?
1:07:46 Like who is this guy?
1:07:47 It's like, I don't recognize him and I don't think I like it entirely and even though I'd
1:07:52 like some of it.
1:07:53 I come to that conclusion and I've been on those drives and it's just like, yeah, was
1:07:57 I fun back then?
1:07:58 Probably.
1:07:59 But is that the man who I want to be remembered for and at what cost were you fun?
1:08:03 Yeah.
1:08:04 No, I don't.
1:08:05 I actually, if I go back and look at that time, I'd be embarrassed of myself, you know,
1:08:08 it sounds cliche.
1:08:09 But I mean, if you're at that point where those are the thoughts that you're having, I think
1:08:13 that tells me you're at a very good point.
1:08:15 You want to be in that position where you're detached and you're thinking through where
1:08:18 you're headed.
1:08:19 I think, you know, your points around having to make adjustments, you know, from a company
1:08:23 standpoint, it's not easy, but it's not salvation.
1:08:27 It is definitely a bread, you know, winning type of thing for people and their families,
1:08:31 but the whole company has families.
1:08:34 So I think you have to treat it with some sort of humility, but you also have to, you
1:08:39 know, take care of business.
1:08:41 But it's that's, I think that's different from trying to sit with somebody and talk
1:08:45 about salvation and all those types of things.
1:08:47 And with fruit before we go, with fruit, I don't want to look at the fruit of just everybody.
1:08:52 Like, I don't want to go in there and judge everybody for their fruit.
1:08:56 When I really want to judge fruit, I judge the fruit church and I'm judging the church
1:09:00 as a whole, not one person in the church because the church is made up of.
1:09:05 So if I see a church that, you know, it's evident that they don't have poor sexual immorality,
1:09:11 I'm probably not going to go and join that church.
1:09:13 I'm going to look at the fruit of that church and move on and probably not see much fruit
1:09:17 from there.
1:09:18 You know, and so I think that's one thing that we have to look at when we want to talk
1:09:21 about fruit.
1:09:22 It's like, it's not should be nitpicking your neighbor.
1:09:25 Fruit should be like, where do I want to go?
1:09:26 Where do I want to be discipled or do I want to grow?
1:09:28 And how can I be a part of a community that I know is going to be fruitful?
1:09:32 So Kyle's point of the two extremes, Christ talks about us being pruned and the vine
1:09:39 being pruned.
1:09:40 If you look at a rose bush to get more roses, you've got to cut perfectly good roses off
1:09:47 of that rose bush.
1:09:48 So you're looking at, I'm passionate and I get excited when they win.
1:09:52 It's a perfectly good looking rose.
1:09:55 But for whatever reason, that needs to be cut so there can be better roses.
1:09:59 So sometimes the pruning might to us look like, man, that's kind of a quality.
1:10:02 It was okay.
1:10:03 It's a pretty good quality.
1:10:04 But the Holy Spirit's like, you know, no, you know what, I want to prune that because
1:10:08 there's something better.
1:10:10 And you can't, you can't grow a rose bush without cutting and pruning perfectly good.
1:10:16 And sometimes beautiful looking roses.
1:10:20 So that rose bush can grow and look better.
1:10:22 Well, I think that's a good, a good way to kind of summarize that because I look at that.
1:10:26 Yeah.
1:10:27 Thanks.
1:10:28 We've set a record on length of episode and Matt, but I'm going to just steal your thunder
1:10:31 and do my own outro.
1:10:32 How about that?
1:10:33 But it's just like, you know, you do look at that.
1:10:34 I was just looking here recently, like the amount of time I used to spend watching baseball
1:10:38 and the amount of time I enjoyed that and the negative things that came from it.
1:10:42 Like now I have a life where I don't really have time to do that.
1:10:45 So I feel like I'm, you know, the FOMO of like missing out.
1:10:47 Oh, that would have been a nice game.
1:10:50 But again, and I'm not talking about like in my old age, I'm not going to, I'm not going
1:10:53 to worry about how I miss that Cardinals game, but it's like a week from now.
1:10:57 I'm not going to worry about the fact that I missed that game where there was an interesting
1:11:00 pitching matchup that I wanted to watch because I'm a nerd, like about baseball.
1:11:04 And so it's just like, yes, there are some better things because it's like, okay, I could
1:11:09 spend the next two and a half, three hours watching this game, or I can prep for a forging
1:11:13 table, or I can read to prep for another interview coming up, or I can spend some time in thought
1:11:18 and creativity of what is the next iteration of Undaunted Life look like so that we can
1:11:22 continue to equipment around the globe to be able to push back darkness.
1:11:25 But guys, that is a great discussion of second Timothy to and man, like I'm looking ahead
1:11:31 to three and four.
1:11:32 I'm not sure how we're going to keep those tight.
1:11:34 So we may be going into OT, everyone may need to call their wives from from here on out,
1:11:39 see if we can get a little bit of extra time, but we're going to leave the discussion there
1:11:41 for now, but come back next week where we're going to dig into second Timothy three.
1:11:45 So guys, make sure you read that so that you are prepared.
1:11:47 And as always, we're going to do a quick resilience boost before we let you go.
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