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RICKSON GRACIE | Comfort in Darkness (Ep. 675)

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RICKSON GRACIE | Comfort in Darkness (Ep. 675)
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In this episode, I sit down with the legendary Hixen Gracie, a ninth-degree Red Belt in Gracie Jiu Jitsu, to discuss his new book, 'Comfort in Darkness.' We dive deep into the lessons learned from his fighting career, the spiritual aspects of martial arts, and how to find strength in life's darkest moments, including his ongoing battle with Parkinson's disease.
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1:18 This is Undaunted Life of Man's Podcast.
1:22 I'm your host Kyle Thompson, let's get into it.
1:25 Alright guys, we got a very special return guest to the show that is Hicks and Gracie.
1:28 So Hicks and Gracie is actually a ninth-degree Red Belt and Gracie Jiu Jitsu.
1:32 We actually talked about that at the beginning of the episode because back on the last podcast that he was on,
1:37 so he was on episode 242 of this podcast, he was actually an eighth-degree Red Belt.
1:41 And so I think in the interview, he said that he is now a ninth-degree, but basically he's 65 years old
1:47 and has been a black belt for 45 years, which makes him a ninth-degree Red Belt.
1:52 And so this guy is just absolutely incredible.
1:55 He is the son of the godfather of Brazilian Jiu Jitsu.
1:58 That's a Elio Gracie.
1:59 And Hicks is considered to be one of the greatest Gracie fighters ever, and he's the Gracie family champion.
2:05 And he is a pioneer in the sport of Jiu Jitsu and mixed martial arts.
2:08 Whenever he was fighting Valley Tudo, that was kind of an early form of MMA.
2:11 He's undefeated in that.
2:12 And guys, I've said that before, that on my Mount Rushmore, he's on there.
2:15 So a lot of people will put his brother, Hoyz, up there because he won the first two UFC events.
2:20 UFC one and UFC two.
2:22 And he kind of started the revolution of Jiu Jitsu in terms of its popularity in America.
2:26 But even at that time, everyone knew that he was the better fighter by a long shot,
2:31 including Hoyz.
2:32 And we talk about that a little bit in this particular podcast.
2:35 But he is the author of the book called Breathe, A Life in Flow.
2:38 So that was his biography that we had him want to talk about here a few years ago.
2:41 But his newest book is called Comfort in Darkness, The Invisible Power of Jiu Jitsu.
2:46 So the interesting thing about this book is this is kind of like a life lessons book,
2:50 but it's applicable to guys that are into fighting and guys that aren't into fighting,
2:55 which is interesting now because he teaches a lot of people that are not competitive Jiu Jitsu fighters.
3:01 These are not MMA fighters.
3:02 He's teaching just people basic life lessons and he's using Jiu Jitsu to do it.
3:06 And so in this particular podcast, we talk about a lot of different things.
3:09 We talk about the differences in the two books.
3:12 Basically how there is a literal kind of matte focused lesson in each one of these things
3:17 that he's talking about, but also a figurative, more metaphorical one for life.
3:21 We get into a spiritual breakdown because he talks about spiritualism a lot in his book.
3:25 And like I've said before, like demons are spirits, so we got to be a little bit more specific.
3:28 So we dug into that a little bit more as well.
3:30 We talked about how he developed his mindset because even as a kid growing up in the chaotic,
3:35 greasy family, and there were fights going on constantly, he didn't just want to be a fighter.
3:39 He didn't just want to be a champion.
3:41 He wanted to be the greasy family champion and there's a lot of differences and nuances
3:45 in that.
3:46 But then we talked about how there was an experience he experienced very early on when
3:49 he was a young teenager that led him to understand that I've got to find a way to find comfort
3:55 in darkness.
3:56 And so we get into that story.
3:58 We talk about how his first fight in Brazil, his first valetuto MMA fight, how he felt
4:02 like he didn't break physically or mentally, but he actually broke spiritually and how
4:05 that has basically taught him how to comport himself as he moves forward in life.
4:10 But also how you if you're getting better at something that is a fighting style like
4:14 jujitsu, how humility needs to be involved with a lot of that.
4:17 We talked about his final MMA fight against food, Naki, where both guys basically came
4:21 into the fight with, I'm not going to tap.
4:23 We're not throwing in the towel.
4:24 It's either death or we win that type of an idea.
4:28 But also he is currently in the middle of his toughest fight of his entire life.
4:33 And that's his fight against Parkinson's disease.
4:35 And so he was diagnosed with Parkinson's in 2021.
4:37 And he brought that up a lot in the interview and I asked him specifically about that towards
4:41 the end.
4:42 And then we talked a little bit about, you know, he fantasized about fighting Mike Tyson
4:46 back in the day when he was in his prime.
4:48 But if he was in his prime right now against the current crop of MMA fighters, who are the
4:51 guys that he would want to test his metal against?
4:53 And I really, really enjoyed his answer, but also just the difference between jujitsu for
4:57 competition and jujitsu for self-defense or fighting and how we kind of have a little
5:01 bit of a watered down sense of our abilities if we're only sticking to competition jujitsu.
5:05 But guys, I mean, I think I mentioned this last time, but when you're talking to this
5:08 guy, it's like, wait a minute, your family invented the thing that I've like dedicated
5:11 my adult life to now, which is, you know, learning the sport of jujitsu.
5:15 And you know, now as a brown belt, it's like, you know, you're kind of knocking on the door
5:18 of black belt, but black belt is almost like going back down to white belt, almost like
5:21 you're just starting.
5:22 And so when you get to talk to a guy like that, an absolute lion of the sport, an absolute
5:27 pioneer, it is always something that I will, you know, definitely not take for granted.
5:31 It is an incredible opportunity.
5:33 I'm just so glad he was able to make some time for us this time around as well to talk about
5:37 his new book.
5:38 I will always take advantage of being able to chat with the one and only Hicks and Gracie.
5:41 So guys, without further ado, let's get into it.
5:45 Hicks and Gracie, welcome back to Undaunted Life of Man's podcast.
5:49 Thank you, my brother.
5:50 It's great to be here with you.
5:51 Hey, I'm so psyched to have you now.
5:53 I got to say I got to ask you because I'm not really keeping up.
5:56 But the last time we had you on the show was when we were talking about your book breathe,
5:59 I think at that time, you were a ninth degree red belt in Gracie, jujitsu, is that still
6:05 where you're at now?
6:06 What's your current level that you've gotten to?
6:08 No, actually I'm making 65 years old this month.
6:13 And then I have the 45 years old of black belt to get the 90 degrees.
6:17 So at that point, I was still eight degree from my birthday on, I want to be nine degree.
6:24 And it's just simply incredible and for guys, I mean, we've talked about jujitsu a lot on
6:28 this show.
6:29 I mean, just I've talked about before, I just got my brown belt this year.
6:32 And so by this time, thank you so much.
6:34 By the time I get to a black belt, which, you know, hopefully next two, three, four years
6:37 or something like that, it's like I'll be a black belt, but then there will be guys that
6:41 have been training for longer than I've even, you know, they've been, they've had their
6:46 black belt rather for longer than I've even been training.
6:48 So it's, it's a wide swath of different experiences.
6:51 But a good place to start, I guess, Hixen is obviously you're on here to talk about your
6:56 new book.
6:57 It's called comfort in darkness, the invisible power of jujitsu.
6:59 I just finished it a couple of weeks ago.
7:01 I thought the book was absolutely fantastic.
7:04 I remember reading breathe and being so enthralled with all the stories.
7:08 And you had a lot of that still in this book, but let's just start there.
7:12 What's different between your first book, breathe and this new book, comfort and darkness?
7:17 Yeah, breathe was the life, my life story, my, my, my biography.
7:24 So tell everything about happiness with me and my life and with my family.
7:29 This second book comes more towards how I deal with problems, you know, how I deal with
7:34 my actual, I get parking some few years ago, and how I deal with my health, how I deal with
7:40 my stress, how I deal with, to use jujitsu in a visible aspect, to facilitate my life,
7:46 to overcome problems and emotional disturbance.
7:51 And I really enjoyed how, because a lot of those stories, because when I read breathe,
7:55 I knew some of those stories, but I didn't know a lot of those stories about your life.
7:57 But then when they came back up in comfort in darkness, I kind of had an idea as to what
8:02 the stories were, where they were going.
8:04 But you did apply some of the things that you learned as a part of that.
8:08 So I thought that was interesting.
8:09 Now the subtitle of the book is the invisible power of jujitsu.
8:13 And you refer to invisible jujitsu throughout the book.
8:16 So in the book, you talk about the different interconnected elements of physical, spiritual
8:20 and mental.
8:21 And we talk about that on the show as well.
8:23 But you also talk about the jujitsu litany of base and engagement and connection and leverage
8:28 and timing.
8:29 And if you've done jujitsu, obviously you know how important those things are, but you said
8:33 with each of those, those two definitions, there's kind of a literal one for how you use
8:38 it on the mat and then more of a figurative one or a metaphorical one for life.
8:43 So can you explain to us how invisible jujitsu applies when we are on the mats, but also
8:48 when we're off?
8:50 Yeah.
8:51 What I call invisible jujitsu is the tools you can have in the spiritual water arsenal
8:59 to become a warrior, to become practical and warfare.
9:04 So it's not all those elements, not all those tools are physical and technical.
9:10 Some are spiritual, some are more emotional.
9:15 So we have to deal with all the tools in order to be able to pass this information, this
9:23 knowledge to life itself.
9:26 Because if you're too much in the sport of jujitsu, you devote yourself to how to pass
9:31 a guard, how to submit somebody, how to throw somebody, how to keep surviving.
9:38 And a much more physical experience.
9:40 So you become more like an athlete.
9:44 But if you try to become a martial arts, martial arts doesn't have rules of engagement.
9:51 So if you know jujitsu, if you are a good experienced jujitsu competitor, you're not
9:56 thinking you want to fight on the street and find the same environment can be against more
10:01 than multiple attackers, can be in an environment you're not controlling the weather, can be
10:06 a slippery, can be dangerous in many different ways.
10:10 So you have to be a martial artist to capitalize on the information you receive, you leave
10:16 the now and then you can say, okay, it's not good for me to fight here.
10:21 Better go to the dry land, it's better go to do this, it's better apologize now and come
10:26 back later with my guys.
10:28 So martial arts becomes more complex because you're dealing with life.
10:34 And another for you to do completely comfortable in that unpredictable situations, you have
10:40 to be comfortable to use the concepts, the tools of martial, of the spiritual water in
10:46 order to achieve complete view of the scenario.
10:50 Better for you to be able to conquer what you need, the challenge you have.
10:57 Not only because if you take physically only, you can make a lot of mistakes, you cannot
11:02 use a big part of yourself.
11:05 So I start with breathing.
11:08 Breathing can be a great help for fighters, for athletes, for any athlete who evolves
11:17 in physicality, know how to breathe, it will help you tremendously in terms of cardiovascular
11:27 endurance, in terms of keeping the momentum, finding the rhythm.
11:33 But breathing also helps you in your emotional.
11:37 Breathe also helps you to relax yourself because the lung has the unique capacity to connect
11:43 yourself with your brain and with your heart.
11:48 And the brain and the heart are the only organs in the body who can give and receive information.
11:55 So you normal and home, happy, you got a male, you're going to lost your house in a month.
12:00 So you got to stress how this can happen.
12:03 So emotionally you're completely disturbed.
12:05 If you don't know how to relieve that disturbance, that's problem, you're going to stick with
12:10 that feeling, that anger, that sensation through the day, sometimes through weeks, because
12:16 you cannot just physically clean yourself from this kind of burn.
12:23 So by knowing how to breathe, you can have a relaxation breathe, a meditative breathe
12:32 and can calm yourself up.
12:33 And then when you come back from the breathing, you're going to look for the same problem.
12:38 You're going to say, you're going to still have the problem, but you're not more emotionally
12:43 involved.
12:44 You're relaxed, you have to deal with this with a different piece of mind.
12:50 So the idea of having the breathing to help me, not only in fighting but also in life to
12:58 accommodate myself is a big deal of difference.
13:02 Same thing when you do, when you're talking about base.
13:07 This can be a very physical base to not let yourself get off balance, to be strong in
13:15 yourself, to be capable, to capitalize on your opponent's mistakes.
13:20 But base means you have base to talk about podcasts and networks because you've been
13:26 involved.
13:27 I have no base for that.
13:28 And that's, in a matter of form way, feels like I'm off balance.
13:33 I need to learn.
13:34 I need to respect.
13:35 I need to give the props to the other person because that shows not only respect, but put
13:41 yourself in a good balance and in your position.
13:46 So when you have base, when you believe in your base, you believe also, you're not having
13:52 the same base.
13:53 Have something you have to learn to be humble, to be nice.
13:57 So put yourself, when you have the base as a matter of form for life, put in a balance
14:04 with the reality of how you feel about many different subjects.
14:08 Timing.
14:09 Timing is another subject, very important because the timing can help you to deflect
14:14 a punch or a go for a throw or a take down.
14:19 But also, the timing for you to talk with your wife about some subject, sensitive subject,
14:25 you have to get a good mood for her, you have to have the good time to speak, the timing
14:30 for you to get to raise, talk about raising your salary with your boss.
14:36 You cannot get the time he's upset, you have to have the time he's in a good mood.
14:40 So the timing for you to make a trip, how to get, how well you're going to get in the
14:46 airplane and the airport to get the plane.
14:49 So timing has a lot of, a lot of objectivity in life.
14:55 You have to be punctual, you have to know when you speak and when you shut up, you have
15:00 to know how to punch and how to deflect the punch.
15:03 So I respect timing in a conceptual way and many different subjects.
15:09 My time has to be perfect, not only to approach a business proposition, but also to fight,
15:18 but also to know my health.
15:20 So time is an important subject in general, strategy, strategy is a great tool for the
15:27 spiritual order because every thing you do, even happiness, it's not going to be sitting
15:34 in your lab, you're not going to be happy for no reason.
15:38 You're happy because you want a car, you're happy because your kid going to school, you
15:42 have because you get out of sickness, you have a reason, but that happiness is not going
15:48 to stick with you for long, five years from now, other things are going to bring you happiness.
15:53 If not, you're not going to be happy because what brings you happiness 10 years ago is
15:58 not going to make you happy today.
16:01 So strategy is a part of you who is going to be always escalating, always pursuing happiness.
16:11 What I need to be, what I need to be more happy, what I need to be in the good direction.
16:18 So all this idea coming from strategy, in order for you to buy a car, you have to know
16:25 how much money you have in the bank, what car you want to buy, how many men's you want
16:30 to pay.
16:31 So you have to organize a good strategy to be able to buy the car, keep the car, use
16:36 the car and be happy with the car.
16:38 If you buy a too expensive car, you may want to get problems in the future.
16:42 If you got a car too cheap and going to broke down on you, you're not going to have a,
16:47 so the good strategy has to plant the seeds for the future.
16:53 So strategy, same thing to pass a guard and after the pass a guard, if you got turns around,
16:59 I go for the ZKL, I go for the new move or old move, I go for a foot lock.
17:04 So what I'm going to do from there, cannot be thank, take it for granted.
17:10 I cannot allow myself to be lucky.
17:13 I don't believe in lucky at all.
17:16 Lucky is to find a parking space in front of the movie theater.
17:20 But I don't, I don't put lucky on my endeavors.
17:24 I don't put lucky on my, on my, on my objectivity, on my training.
17:30 I always strategize who is going to, who are going to compete against, what's going to
17:35 happen.
17:36 If, if, so visualization is a great tool for the water.
17:41 If you don't visualize, if you, if you're in a sport or in a profession, like if you
17:45 are Navy SEAL, for example, you have to visualize getting to the land, take over, kill everybody,
17:54 do everything perfect with all your friends alive, that's a perfect deal for you.
18:00 It can be a last deal.
18:01 You can have the same objectivity.
18:02 You can win the same way, but you can lost two or three guys in the endeavor or you can
18:08 get shot or you can even get killed.
18:12 So in your visualizations, you have to visualize all the perspectives could happen in your
18:17 endeavor.
18:19 Even death for a Navy SEAL, he has to accept death as a natural thing in the job.
18:26 You don't want to die, but he has to know what he's doing could possibly kill him in
18:31 any time, like a fireman.
18:34 How you can be a fireman thinking about saving a kid from the dead, flawed, and fire and
18:40 not thinking you can, you can die, die trying.
18:46 Any situation for a fireman can be a life threatening.
18:50 So if he's a good fireman, he has to know he loves his family.
18:54 You know what he'll do, he knows all the roses and the bombs and the pumps, but he also
18:59 have to have visualization about the problems he may have and how to escape from a fire,
19:06 how to do something.
19:07 And if he doesn't have escape, I'm going to die.
19:11 And if I die, I die trying something good and proud of it.
19:14 So every tank is on the perspective.
19:17 They cannot forget something.
19:18 They cannot not visualizing.
19:21 So all the tools, the spiritual order are there to help you in life, in action, and also in
19:28 spirituality.
19:29 Well, Hixen, that was one thing that was so apparent and what made comfort and darkness
19:32 such an interesting read for me is obviously I loved all the jiu-jitsu stuff and all the
19:36 valetudo and MMA stuff that you talked about, but it was the dual applicability of what you
19:42 were talking about, how this applies if you were training jiu-jitsu or how you're doing
19:46 this in life.
19:47 But just to go a little further on the spiritual thing, just to make sure people know what you're
19:50 talking about, you're talking about, when you talk about spiritual, you're talking about
19:53 the things that we can't see in the book, you talk about panic, endurance, acceptance,
19:57 hope.
19:58 And I'm going to read a quote from the book because this is your first fight in Brazil
20:01 against King Zulu.
20:02 So it's a very interesting quote.
20:04 When I fought my first professional fight in 1980, I was overconfident and learned a harsh
20:09 life-changing lesson about the difference between a professional valetudo bout and competitive
20:14 jiu-jitsu.
20:15 Within seconds of the opening bell, my opponent, a big, scary, seasoned pro fighter, dragged
20:19 me into deep, uncharted waters and made me fight for my life.
20:23 Everything had been theoretical up to that point, but I learned a life-changing lesson
20:27 during that fight.
20:28 Sometimes you don't break physically.
20:30 You break spiritually.
20:31 So I want to talk a little bit more about that because you do talk about God in this
20:34 book.
20:35 I don't really know exactly where you land because you don't talk about Jesus, but you
20:39 do spend a lot of time talking about the ethereal, about the spiritual side.
20:43 So how does your personal faith really align with not only how you lead your life, but
20:48 how you would fight when you're still an active fighter?
20:52 Yes, for me, I could achieve because in jiu-jitsu, we have the triangle and my family tradition
21:02 logo was a triangle.
21:05 And that represents the balance, the perfect balance.
21:08 You don't see a triangle fall off balance, it's always going to fall in base.
21:13 And that's for me for a long time, was a explanation as simplifying the idea of jiu-jitsu of being
21:24 balanced.
21:25 But it was at that time, much more physical balance than actually the balance I devote
21:30 right now because once I was into the triangle, in the trilogy of the experience, I start
21:38 to understand from a picture I took from the Buddha, from the shy Buddha, I started making
21:45 designs, I put a design to make a logo over this shy Buddha picture.
21:50 And eventually, he got in the triangle, but it was a triangle who has motion, who has
21:56 different pieces connected, it's not one triangle simple.
22:02 My design of my logo is like three different pieces of movement which makes triangle.
22:09 And for me, those three pieces are connected because it's body, mind, spirit.
22:15 The idea of combining your body, your mind, your spirit, it starts to become very clear
22:21 in my mind.
22:22 I could not be the best I can be if I just take care of my body.
22:28 I cannot be the best I can be if I just take care of my mind.
22:32 And I cannot be the best I can be if I just be spiritual.
22:36 The combination of the three will make me powerful because I know what I want.
22:42 I know my problems, physical, but I can accept, if I have acceptance, if I have faith, if
22:52 I have hope, I can really become a different piece because I will be much more reliant
23:00 and things I cannot see, I cannot, but I have to believe.
23:04 If I cannot believe, if I don't believe I want to outcome my opponent, I don't want
23:08 to win the fight, nothing I will do will resolve the matter.
23:13 I have first to believe and then put the beliefs into actions, into performance and to physicality
23:20 and to emotional control.
23:24 And thank for my emotions, if I'm not thinking, I'm accepting that as a regular outcome from
23:31 a mistake, I'm not to be comfortable to get problems there.
23:36 If I got problems there, I will chicken out like I did in my first fight.
23:41 So my idea of having problems, my idea of having, like in my last fight with finaki,
23:48 I got a orbital fracture and I still calm and my brother told me to stand up and I thinking
23:55 about what he's saying and said, "No, I cannot stand up now, I'm blind."
23:59 So 45 seconds into the fight, into that problem, I get, I recover the division in one eye and
24:06 then I could keep fighting and then I win my opponent.
24:09 But it's up to me to make a poker face, don't let him know I'm in pain and I still feel
24:16 confident even though I was a problem, I visualized in this before, I never used it, but I visualized
24:22 I'm in trouble.
24:23 And if I'm in trouble, I will try to fix the problem.
24:27 And if the problem has no fix, my brother has to throw the towel or I'm gonna set death
24:31 because I'm not thinking about quitting him, quitting is not an option.
24:37 So all those combinations between the spiritual, the emotional and the technical make me feel
24:45 like I start to creating solutions and acceptance to become unbreakable, regardless the outcome
24:52 of the fight, regardless the outcome, I have Parkinson's now.
24:57 Parkinson becomes my new opponent and I'm not allowed to allow the doctors just to care
25:02 of myself and give me one pill, give me cardiovascular exercise and tell me for me to leave with
25:09 my life.
25:10 I start researching all the situations, all the doctors, all the people who can help
25:15 me.
25:16 And so far now, I haven't changed my life in tremendous.
25:20 I stop eating meat, I stop eating, drinking any alcohol, beer or wine, I fasty, I do
25:28 it.
25:29 Physotherapy protocols every day, I do good nutrition, supplements, all the supplements
25:36 I can put my hands on, mushrooms from places, special places.
25:42 So I become focused and do it strategically, everything I can do to beat Parkinson's.
25:49 I'm not sure if I'm going to beat Parkinson's, if Parkinson's going to beat me.
25:52 But my mood now is quit is not an option, accepting the sickness take over and I do nothing,
25:59 it's not an option.
26:00 So I will be resilient, I will be completely comfortable and dealing with that problem
26:07 and start accepting my degrees in physicality, but I'm not a step to do nothing about it.
26:13 So I'm fighting with all my guts, all my heart, comfortably happy through the end.
26:21 So I'm just accepting the situations, but I don't relax on it.
26:26 I'm just fighting my exercise.
26:28 So to them feeling happy because I'm more motivated as never to teach and talk about
26:35 invisible jujitsu and Parkinson's is like I kind of establish, it's not evolving too
26:44 much.
26:45 So I feel like my symptoms are kind of stable.
26:49 I feel very happy in my conditions right now and my situation, how I deal with my life,
26:55 my health, my work.
26:58 So everything works good for me based on that kind of martial arts spirit, which is positive,
27:05 which thank you for the next level.
27:08 When I remember reading in this book about your fight, which ended up being your last
27:12 valetuto or MMA fight with Funaki, how when Funaki woke up after you had put him out after
27:18 he went limp, he was so thankful to be alive because you two both went into that fight
27:23 thinking there is no tap, there is no throw in the towel.
27:27 It's either win or death.
27:28 And for both of you, luckily you both were able to make your way out of that fight.
27:32 You were the only one that got your hand raised.
27:33 But one thing you're talking about, Hixon, when you're talking about resilience and you're
27:37 talking about mindset is literally, you know, the title of the book, but it's finding comfort
27:42 in darkness.
27:43 And so I want to read a quote because it's a very funny story.
27:46 Well, it seemed funny.
27:47 It probably wasn't funny at the time, but I've shared this with a lot of people to kind
27:50 of let them understand where I'm coming from, whenever I'm explaining things, but certainly
27:54 how you explain in the books.
27:56 Here's the quote.
27:57 My first experience with a rational fear occurred at my father's academy when I was barely
28:01 a teenager.
28:02 A big man caught me in a tight head locked.
28:04 And as I was, as I began to work my escape, his hot stinky ghee covered my head, suddenly
28:09 I got claustrophobic and was overcome with a fight or flight sense of panic.
28:13 Instead of calmly escaping from the hold like I had done so many times before, I tapped
28:17 out in front of my brothers, cousins and friends.
28:20 And literally when I read that sentence, I was like, Oh, it's like I could feel that
28:23 that moment that you're having ashamed and disgusted with myself.
28:27 When I got home, I knew that I had to face my demons.
28:29 So I asked my older brother, holes to roll me up in our living room carpet.
28:34 I told him to leave me inside for 10 minutes, no matter how loud I screamed.
28:38 As the hot, mildewy carpet began to envelop me, I thought for a moment that I might die.
28:43 Then I started thinking about the beach, a sea breeze and a cold coconut water.
28:48 My claustrophobia passed because I found comfort in darkness.
28:52 And you describe how you did that a couple of more times to really challenge yourself
28:56 mentally.
28:57 I remember during your career fighting in Japan, you would go into cold water and submerge
29:02 yourself but not in just like a cold tub, like in a rushing river of cold water that's
29:07 in a documentary that was made about your life and things as well.
29:11 So for normal folks that aren't MMA fighters or jujitsu competitors that are maybe just
29:16 working a job and trying to do well for their family, why are you wanting people to find
29:21 ways to where they can find comfort in darkness?
29:27 As average people feel the same problems.
29:30 They have the same level of stresses and doubts and insecure state of mind, fears.
29:37 So the emotional, the physical, maybe the physical is not intense as a fighter because
29:44 you don't put your physicality 100%.
29:46 But emotionally the responsibility for your kids, your job, lack of money, health, sickness,
29:53 all this can bring a lot of problems for the individual.
29:58 And I believe in order for you to deal with problems, you have to be a champion, you have
30:03 to have the mentality of a warrior.
30:06 You cannot take life, take you from the by the hand and lead you to any hope they want
30:11 to put you in.
30:12 You have to fight.
30:13 I don't want to go in this hole.
30:14 Oh, this one, I like it.
30:16 I like to be in the jakus but I don't like to be in the.
30:19 So you have to make choices, everything is about choices.
30:23 So my advice for anyone is first find a purpose in life without purpose.
30:28 You don't have discipline.
30:30 You don't have interest that in follow up, no, no, no strategy.
30:35 So finding a purpose is not easy is maybe the most difficult thing, especially a purpose
30:41 who can give you somehow a life, generate money for you and generate the life.
30:48 Because if your purpose is running on the grass, you're not going to get rich, you're
30:52 not going to have family.
30:53 So there's no purpose on that.
30:55 But if your purpose is being an engineer or a lawyer or working with kids or so you're
31:01 going to find yourself directing this purpose, not only to fuel your life, but also to have
31:08 be able to to provide for yourself into your family.
31:12 So finding a purpose is important matter.
31:15 Once you have that, you can connect with all the elements you need to enforce the this
31:22 purpose, your discipline, your strategy, your hope, your faith, without those elements,
31:31 without you, I don't have to be a champion to be hopeful.
31:36 I don't have to be a champion to be faithful or to believe in visualization for example.
31:47 Even I have a job has to visualize that I have to go to work, I have to bring money
31:51 to my family.
31:52 I have to raise my kids.
31:54 So but if my kid has problems to learn, I have to put him in a special lessons.
32:00 So you have to deal with problems you have strategically correct, you have to play the
32:05 problems you have emotionally in control, you cannot get panic, you cannot get afraid.
32:11 So there's always for you not be not being a champion and still having yourself emotionally
32:17 under control.
32:18 There's always for you not to be in a physical monster, but it's you have under control,
32:23 you still have been healthy eating nutritional values, eating well, doing protocols of exercise.
32:30 So you are a health life, you're not an athlete, but you're a healthy guy to raise your face.
32:35 So if you don't care about what you eat, chances are you're going to get sick too soon.
32:41 If you drink every tank, if you eat sweets, if you eat junk food, eventually you're going
32:47 to get sick.
32:48 So it's a good strategy for you, if you want to raise your kids and be happy with your
32:53 kids 20 years from now playing soccer, you have to eat well, you have to take it.
32:58 So it's a lot of tools of the spiritual water, which I believe I suggest for people, average
33:06 people to start to use it.
33:09 Because what I see today, in general, is the humanity being dehumanized.
33:17 The robotics, the technology, the internet, make you feel like you are alive you well,
33:24 but you're not feeling things, it's completely virtual.
33:28 So you post off yourself the best pictures you can find, but you don't show when you
33:34 look ugly, you see every tank on the internet, what you want, what places you want to go,
33:42 but you see it in the culture or lay down in bed.
33:46 So this guy who virtually knows every tank, when he goes to the street, he gives the hand
33:53 like soft hand, he don't look the guy in the eye, he don't know how to approach a girl
33:58 physically and talk to her because everything is a quick fix on the internet.
34:04 Living alive, alive, living there now is very important for anyone.
34:11 That's why even for you as a brown belt or even if you are a beginner in jujitsu, when
34:16 you get into the mat in jujitsu, you can get into the academy with full problems in your
34:23 mind, family problems, business problems.
34:27 When you get into the mat and guys start to try to choke you, you forget everything and
34:32 just thinking about survive, there's no other option either survive or putting pressure
34:37 on your opponent.
34:38 So you start to play a game who brings you to now, living there now is very difficult
34:45 for people today and living there now is a very easy thing for jujitsu practitioners.
34:52 Right, I think it comes down to mindset, Hicks and I wanted to actually ask you about that
34:56 as it pertains to jujitsu people because for you at an early age, you had guys storming
35:02 your father's gym and you had to have a family champion to answer the calls for different
35:08 fights for your family and you didn't just want to be a fighter, you didn't just want
35:11 to be a jujitsu guy, you wanted to be a champion and so your mindset was being formulated at
35:17 such an early age.
35:19 So how do you feel like that applies to what we were talking about just now?
35:22 And not only early age but in a very wild environment because for me to represent what
35:29 I believe, I have to visualize my opponent with no weight division, no time limits, no
35:38 rule sets with gear without gear can fight on the street on the on the spot on the concrete.
35:45 So the idea of being unpredictable for me was much abroad than just being a jujitsu competitor.
35:52 I was a jujitsu representative against anything, anyone, anytime.
35:57 So the challenge was bigger than was unpredictable.
36:03 So how are you going to deal with something unpredictable without hope, without fate,
36:08 without patience, without acceptance of you can get killed?
36:14 So all those spiritual water tools were inflicted in my mindset very early because my goals
36:23 are completely different than other people's goals.
36:26 I want to be representing jujitsu regardless.
36:30 So if Davo in self-coming and say he don't believe in jujitsu, I have to fight the guy.
36:37 I have to fight the monster.
36:38 So in order for me to feel comfortable in that sense, rule set, I have to create a
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38:25 And I think in addition to that, there's there's an element here that people can go one way
38:29 or another when they do jujitsu.
38:32 They can either learn the skill set and get really cocky about it or they learn the skill
38:36 set and what's more likely is you realize that there's always someone out there that's
38:41 better than you.
38:42 There's always someone out there that's bigger, stronger that one of these days, you're not
38:46 going to be the hammer.
38:47 You're going to be the nail.
38:48 And there's actually a quote from the book that I love that kind of speaks to this very
38:51 little changed in my day to day after I won in Japan.
38:55 After a short surf trip, I returned to L.A. and resumed teaching and training at my academy.
39:00 Now people treated me like a powerful person because of my recent victory in Japan.
39:04 I did not allow this flattery to affect me.
39:07 I did not cure cancer or usher in an era of world peace.
39:10 I was neither a king nor a saint and never allowed myself to lose sight of the fact that
39:15 I was a mere mortal who happened to be good at jujitsu.
39:19 Now here's the thing.
39:21 You are one of the greatest MMA fighters of all time.
39:23 You're a pioneer of MMA.
39:25 Your family invented the sport that I've dedicated hundreds of hours to and that a lot of my
39:29 friends, we've collectively dedicated thousands and thousands of hours to, but talk to me
39:34 about how jujitsu, just training it and going and constantly keeping yourself accountable
39:41 to what goes on on the mat, how that actually helps you remain humble even as you get better
39:45 and better at the skill set.
39:47 Jujitsu is a compliment for life.
39:52 So you engage in jujitsu, you start to become more understandable about your physicality,
39:58 about your emotions, about your heart beats, about your panics, and you start to get negotiating
40:06 better emotionally and physically and technically.
40:10 We follow those disturbance, all this uncomfortable situation.
40:14 And those eventually is not going to be more uncomfortable.
40:17 They become like acceptable and eventually will become transformed to comfortable.
40:23 So jujitsu has different objectivities.
40:26 I can have a student who I'm going to plan to make a champion of him because he has the
40:32 ideas, the interests, the competitiveness, the toughness, the physicality.
40:37 But the majority of my students, I don't see them as champions, but I see them as, from
40:45 average people, they start to become more confident in their efforts and their results.
40:51 I can change people, they can be a better father, a better police officer, a better doctor,
40:56 a better lawyer, because he's more confident in approaching scenarios.
41:01 So, so jujitsu can help in any level people to bring them grounded, to making them strength,
41:09 to bringing them in a sense of comfort, to deal, to negotiate life itself.
41:16 Well, I got to tell you, Hixen, for me, you're exactly right when jujitsu just kind of reveals
41:22 who you are.
41:23 You talked about whether you're mean or whether you're violent or whether you're cowardly.
41:26 For me, there was a lot of insecurity when I started training because I started training
41:29 at the age of 30.
41:30 And so I'm like, well, crap, I didn't start when I was a kid.
41:33 I'm starting as an adult and I had played ball sports.
41:36 So I had played, you know, baseball and football and basketball and just anything pick up and
41:40 I did a little bit of wrestling.
41:42 And so, you know, you go up against somebody that's maybe smaller than you, maybe you don't
41:46 see them as athletic as you and then they beat you.
41:49 And especially in those early days of jujitsu, I would just respond, get so mad and storm
41:53 off the mat.
41:54 And it's just I look back on that person and think, I don't know that I could have done
41:58 anything, Hixen, as a hobby.
42:00 That would have taught me the lessons of humility that jujitsu has because you're embarrassed
42:04 at how you acted, you embarrassed at how you responded to a teammate, but then you got
42:09 to go back and train.
42:10 You know what I mean?
42:11 So I don't think golf is going to teach you that.
42:13 I don't think, you know, trading cards is teaching you that or fantasy football.
42:17 I think jujitsu is very unique in that.
42:19 But with that, Hixen, there's obviously disappointments that come when somebody is training.
42:24 That could be losses, it could be injuries or whatever.
42:26 But for you, you elucidate in this book, as you did in your first book, Breathe, about
42:31 the disappointment that the family did not pick you to compete in UFC one, that they
42:36 picked your brother hoisin.
42:38 It was that they didn't feel like they could control you, but they could control him.
42:42 But they were kind of keeping you as the backup in case something went wrong with hoisin
42:46 that you would kind of write in because everyone knew at the time, including hoisin, including
42:51 everyone in your family, that you were probably the most dangerous man alive on a mat that
42:56 had you done UFC one and UFC two, it would have been an even more dominant performance
43:02 than what we saw out of hoisin.
43:04 And that was very perplexing to you and very confusing and very disappointing.
43:08 So for you, how did you deal with the disappointment at that time of kind of being passed over
43:13 by your family and then fighting in Japan, which you did well and made a good living
43:17 over there?
43:18 And then when you look back on that time period now, how do you look at that as a teaching
43:23 moment for how you've been able to overcome disappointment?
43:27 I think that moment was a very dramatic moment in my life because I felt like I was trying
43:34 and fighting to represent the family and then hard and which was the boss at the time organizing
43:40 all the business.
43:41 He creates the UFC and because he was jealous or not jealous, but he was not, he wants me
43:49 to help him more than I was doing.
43:51 I was separating myself from him.
43:54 And he said, he believes more in hoisin to teach you to fight for him than myself.
44:02 So his intention is to able to put hoisin and he's too controlling hoisin as he wants
44:08 to control me and he couldn't.
44:10 So hard and we're creating this separation and I accept that as something which is life.
44:18 I get a little upset, but pass on.
44:22 Just after that, I was invited to go to Japan and I start to make him a professional career
44:27 in Japan, which for me was great and get this sour moment with hoisin.
44:37 But I think life kind of just, I believe solutions coming without explanation, you know, things
44:44 are created in a very holistic way which you cannot explain.
44:50 So just by being peaceful, just by an accept what Hoisin did to me, immediately I get
44:56 an answer from the other side and offer me some.
44:59 So I was immediately following my road and then Japan was my land for a long time.
45:07 I become very successful in Japan and the UFC becomes huge and everything was okay.
45:16 And I see the evolutionary process of all this.
45:21 Make UFC becomes more like a national sport than actually martial arts event becomes a
45:27 very competitive sport, very tough guys.
45:29 But somehow I lost the interest to see UFC as much as I used to watch.
45:37 Well, I remember you talking about fighting in Japan.
45:39 You liked fighting for the Japanese fans because you felt like that a deeper understanding
45:43 of warrior culture, how warrior carries himself, kind of that samurai spirit, a much deeper
45:48 understanding of martial arts.
45:50 But you also talk about in the book competition, jujitsu versus jujitsu for self-defense or
45:57 for fighting.
45:59 And you have some quotes in here about how a lot of a lot of people can train jujitsu
46:03 and be really good at competition jujitsu, but they would be terrible in a street fight.
46:08 They would be terrible in a situation where they needed to protect themselves or somebody
46:11 else.
46:12 So a lot of schools don't even focus on takedowns.
46:14 And so if a fight starts on the feet and you're really good at all this guard stuff and all
46:18 this, these random interesting moves, but you can't get the fight to the ground, that's
46:23 going to be problematic for you, especially in a very heightened scenario.
46:28 So talk to me a little bit more about how you see the influence of MMA as a sport, as
46:33 an athletic endeavor or competition jujitsu as an athletic endeavor, perhaps leading to
46:39 people not being as good at self-defense or applying that as they maybe think they are.
46:44 Yes.
46:45 I believe when you stop learning self-defense, jujitsu self-defense, you stop learning how
46:54 to position yourself, how to approach yourself in a regular, common, aggressive situation.
47:01 And then you start to losing perspective of how this can be dangerous, how this can be
47:05 surprising, so you start to say, oh, I like to only play on the ground, guard passing
47:12 using the ghee, sometimes without the ghee's to slippery.
47:15 So you start to put yourself in a scenario which you control the environment.
47:20 You don't have strikes, you have just slippery moves.
47:24 So you're happy there.
47:26 But if you go transform yourself for MMA fighter, you're going to see how many problems you
47:31 have to deal to cope with the needs of being a professional MMA.
47:40 So the idea for you to be complete has to embrace martial self-defense because self-defense
47:48 will give you the sense of how to approach, how to clinch, how to have base and movement,
47:54 how to defend against the strikes, how to defend kicks and punches.
47:59 When you mount how to keep your position and be able to capitalize on the guy's mistakes.
48:05 So mixed martial arts is a completely different monster than actually jujitsu competition.
48:14 And you have to be practiced this in a very natural way.
48:16 You cannot be only focused on sport developments or rule sets.
48:23 And with the martial arts, with the self-defense coming regularly in your activity, you start
48:29 to become creative, you start to become improvised, you start to become more adapted to the street
48:34 fight, adapted to the octagon fight because you have your open mind for whenever happens.
48:42 So you can see guys with much less technique, but with the martial arts vision for the fight.
48:48 So sometimes the guy coming from Africa without too much techniques, but he's a giant.
48:54 He knows how to hit.
48:55 He knows how to keep up, he knows how to create distance, and he can make a lot of success
49:01 without having the perfect techniques.
49:04 So the idea of engagement requires from you using techniques, but open your mind for what's
49:11 there, what is out there for each of you comfortable about it.
49:15 You have to be a martial arts in a complete spectrum, not only physicality.
49:22 Well no, that's what I think about whenever, sometimes when I train with some friends,
49:26 we will throw in some palm strikes, maybe we'll put on big gloves.
49:30 And so you're trying to work a mount escape, but the guy on top is just kind of keeping
49:34 you honest, throwing like 50% strikes and things like that.
49:38 But one thing that has kind of been a through point of this entire interview and certainly
49:41 in the reading of the book is what you've mentioned several times, and that's your hardest
49:45 fight of your life, which is currently your fight against Parkinson's.
49:48 So you're diagnosed with Parkinson's in 2021, but I want to read this quote from the book
49:51 because I just, I absolutely loved it might be my favorite quote from the entire thing.
49:55 In life and in jujitsu, sometimes you are the hammer and sometimes you are the nail.
49:59 When you are faced with unexpected challenges, you can either quit and submit without a fight
50:04 or you can take a deep breath and engage.
50:06 While I might not be able to reverse the effects of Parkinson's disease, I will never seed
50:11 an inch of ground to it without a fight.
50:14 Like my father taught me, you can't defeat a person who never gives up.
50:19 And so Hixen, you're talking to guys in this audience right now that they might be struggling
50:24 with a disease or a sickness or they have a loved one that's struggling with a disease
50:28 or sickness.
50:29 And there are a lot of people that would just tell them, oh, it's okay if you just kind
50:33 of take it easy and just kind of accept it or, oh, you've lived a good life or, oh, you
50:36 know, there's going to be better days for you or something like that.
50:40 And they don't have that fight that is required inside of them to actually do to do better
50:46 to have a better mental approach to the experiences that they're having.
50:50 So what would be your message to people like that based on your own experience right now
50:56 with your fight against Parkinson's?
50:58 It's such a be grateful, such a be thankful and grateful for the opportunity to be in
51:04 the earth until today and respect that tomorrow.
51:08 If you don't die tomorrow is a time for celebration because people think, oh, I'm going to die
51:14 in a month and start to depress yourself instead of this thinking about you want to
51:18 die tomorrow.
51:19 And if you survive tomorrow is a big day for super celebration.
51:24 So changing our perspective of how much you need to be alive.
51:29 Change our perspective of how grateful you are to be alive today and how much emotions
51:35 and how much thankful you are to being up today enjoying your life, your family or health.
51:41 So we start to see instead you see the negative perspective, change everything for the positive
51:49 perspective because we all going to die.
51:53 No matter what, if it's today or tomorrow, and I eat 10 years from now, we all going
51:56 to die eventually a majority of people going to get sick, going to sometimes spend some
52:02 time on bed.
52:03 So things are natural.
52:05 You cannot see this as a natural.
52:07 We don't control time.
52:10 You may have an agenda, but you're not sure about your agenda we are from now because
52:14 you're not sure what's going to be.
52:17 So you can have appointments one year from now, but you're not sure if you're going
52:21 to be there.
52:23 So you cannot be disappointed by having something in your agenda.
52:27 You have to be optimistic about something you can accomplish today.
52:32 So short of your perspective of life more intense has to be your capacity to be alive
52:38 and be serving in being happy and being at positive mode today.
52:46 So if you find somebody who is happy, regardless if you're going to die or not, he passed
52:55 to you happiness.
52:56 He passed for you gratitude.
52:58 So you can go in a hospital and talk with somebody who is in a terminal problem.
53:04 He can be very spire, very happy, very much accepting his destiny or he can be very healthy
53:13 and healthy, but can be sick on his mind.
53:16 It's so much problems, emotional problems and mental problems for average people.
53:22 So you can see people who has no problems, seems like they have all the problems in the
53:27 world, negativity, depression, anxiety, stress.
53:35 So if you don't start from within saying God, thank you for being alive.
53:41 Thank you to be able to be alive today and talk and serve and call and inspire somebody.
53:49 So of course, it's not easy.
53:52 Of course, it's not something for you to be happy to be doing because you're in a terminal
53:58 phase, but at least take you from the focus of the negativity and put you on a spiritual
54:07 level of acceptance and solidarity, which becomes bigger than your end, becomes bigger
54:19 than you wait yourself, go to the end.
54:24 In another words, you inspire people to become like you even when you're sick.
54:30 Absolutely, and you've seen different people and we've all had examples of individuals
54:35 that while they were sick, they showed tremendous courage and they showed that warrior like spirit.
54:40 I mean, I've seen that in kids.
54:41 There's videos that bring me to tears every time of a seven year old that doesn't have
54:45 any hair and all that and they're giving perspective.
54:48 I remember this one young man that was like, I'm glad God allowed me to have cancer because
54:52 that means it didn't happen to one of my sisters or something like that, which that's not exactly
54:57 how it works.
54:58 But to that kid, he's like, I can be a happy warrior and I'll do this just so another kid
55:03 doesn't have to suffer.
55:04 Hickson, we've gone everywhere in this conversation.
55:06 We've covered a lot of ground in comfort and darkness, but I got one last question for you.
55:10 You mentioned in comfort and darkness about how when you were fighting, you always fantasized
55:16 about fighting Mike Tyson.
55:18 So at the time, you know, Mike Tyson was at his absolute prime, the scariest human being,
55:23 maybe everybody, anybody had ever seen, but obviously just a boxer.
55:27 So boxing range and MMA range and jujitsu, that's all very, very different.
55:30 So at the time, you always fantasize about what you do in that fight.
55:34 But what I want to know, and I know you don't follow the UFC as much right now, but is there
55:39 a current MMA fighter that if you were back in your physical prime, right?
55:44 So if you if you were in your physical prime right now at your best fighting, fighting
55:49 weight and fighting ability, is there that one fighter that you would want to test your
55:54 skills against that's that's a currently active fighter?
55:57 There's so many different good ones like John Jones, like this new guy, Brazilian striker
56:08 under some silver, some guys, they very they put themselves in a good lab of being skilled.
56:18 And for me, I was not in regard to the MMA rules.
56:25 I will never fight anyone of them in those rules because for me, if I fight John Jones
56:31 reached about 30 or 40 pounds heavier than me, something I'm going to need is time.
56:37 Yeah, I want to be able to survive for the first and then eventually capitalize on the
56:42 missed.
56:43 That's what I believe could happen.
56:45 I start to survive.
56:46 He can catch me.
56:47 Of course, I'm not saying I'm going to win.
56:48 But in my hopes and my beliefs, my strategy will be survive, make him get tired and capitalize.
56:56 So that's my my vision.
57:00 Of course, it's just my my site and people cannot believe on that.
57:04 And I never felt like disappointed with my vision in regard to all my opponents so far.
57:11 I fought great fighters.
57:13 I fought big wrestlers.
57:14 I fought tough guys.
57:17 And I felt like my strategy always prevail.
57:21 So I believe I could fight anyone those heavy.
57:25 I always think about the heavyweights.
57:27 I don't think about people in my way division.
57:29 So if I'm engaged with John Jones, for example, I would love to engage with him.
57:39 But the possibility for me, I just want to have a chance if there's a no time limit fight.
57:46 I never will fight with him without with limits, three rounds, five minutes, no, no way.
57:52 Because it's too easy for them to spin, go all the energy and then rest and then spin
57:58 again.
57:59 And it's very hard when you spin it, making crazy things.
58:04 Until you get tired and make mistakes, your spinning gets a lot of results.
58:10 So I will help to allow the guy to spin it many times and for me to survive and eventually
58:16 he's going to get tired.
58:18 If he's a lonely, short rounds of five minutes, the guy can fight with me forever.
58:24 So the idea of capitalizing the guy's mistake has to come in with a different rule set.
58:31 I will allow the time not to be, I mean, it will be a long time for fighting.
58:37 And no, another important point is the cage.
58:41 Fighting on the cage, the cage is the third element there.
58:46 And if you're a great fighter, you're not accustomed to fight on the cage, you're going
58:51 to have problems to free yourself from the cage.
58:55 You're going to have problems to stand up using the cage.
58:57 You're going to find yourself in many problems because if you're accustomed to use the cage,
59:03 you are accustomed to use the cage against your opponent.
59:07 And your opponent has to be accustomed to make you dealing.
59:09 Take your head off the cage, moving.
59:11 So it's a lot of details.
59:13 So if I'm going to fight him for him, I will fight him for him with no time limits and
59:18 no cage, either an open match or either a cage where it's no cage, but it's just like
59:24 walls make you feel inside.
59:28 So that way, it's not cheating on the using the walls.
59:32 For me, those are two problems I could not resolve without the pratix.
59:37 And I feel like I feel happy if I could use my jujitsu.
59:41 But today's the rule of engagements of the UFC becomes very sporty, very entertaining,
59:47 but there's no technique.
59:48 There's no martial arts.
59:49 There's more like two super outlets engaging with each other.
59:53 It is certainly different watching guys now versus guys back when you were fighting just
59:58 the approach.
59:59 Obviously, even in pride where you had a 10 minute first round and then you went into
1:00:03 the later rounds, it's obviously very, very different than where we are today.
1:00:07 But Hixen, it's always a pleasure to get a chance to talk to you and to talk to somebody
1:00:11 that has helped invent the sport that has revolutionized my life.
1:00:14 But that's all for me.
1:00:15 Is there anything else you want to get off your chest?
1:00:17 No, my father, I want to thank you very much for the support.
1:00:20 I hope you like the second book and we talk soon.
1:00:23 Okay.
1:00:24 Thank you.
1:00:25 Very good.
1:00:26 Thank you.
1:00:27 God bless brother.
1:00:28 There you go guys.
1:00:29 I hope you enjoyed the return appearance of Hixen Gracie on the show.
1:00:30 But before I let you go, we are going to do a quick resilience boost at a daunted life or
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1:00:36 and physical resilience.
1:00:37 So I've got two links for you today.
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