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MEAT MITCH BENJAMIN | BBQ Revolution (Ep. 246)

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MEAT MITCH BENJAMIN | BBQ Revolution (Ep. 246)
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In this episode, Kyle Thompson interviews barbecue champion Mitch Benjamin, also known as Meet Mitch. They dive into the world of barbecue, discussing competition secrets, the joy of cooking, and Mitch's journey from pit master to restaurant owner.
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1:16 This is Undaunted Life, a man's podcast.
1:19 I'm your host Kyle Thompson.
1:20 Let's get into it.
1:21 Today, we got a special interview for you.
1:23 It is with my buddy Mitch Benjamin, otherwise known as Meet Mitch.
1:27 This is a fun palate cleanser episode, guys, because I know we talk a lot about super heavy
1:32 subjects and things that are very, very important, but they wear on you a little bit.
1:37 That's not what this episode is.
1:38 This one is 100% fun, because Meet Mitch is a barbecue world champion from Kansas City.
1:44 One of my favorite subjects on the planet Earth to talk about and to experience is barbecue.
1:49 This guy, he's super impressive.
1:50 He has a line of sauces and rubs that I pretty much use exclusively whenever I'm smoking
1:56 meats, and those sauces and rubs have been used in barbecue competitions all over the
2:00 world.
2:01 I mean, from basically my notes, we've got France and Australia and Switzerland and New
2:04 Zealand and the UK and Brazil and Canada, his stuff is used all over the place.
2:09 He has had a tremendous amount of barbecue competition success.
2:13 He's done really well just in the backyard, entertaining people, but he's gone everywhere
2:17 and won basically every title that I can think of that you could win in the world of barbecue,
2:22 including, you know, he won, you know, the Memphis and May world championships of barbecue
2:26 sauce several times, like just a super impressive resume.
2:29 And guys, whenever you see the video here in a second, if you're watching this on YouTube,
2:32 he has all his trophies out there in the open.
2:34 He is just real bold about it.
2:36 I absolutely love it, but also he took his competition success into the restaurant industry.
2:41 So he actually opened up a barbecue restaurant in Kansas City, which sounds crazy to do to
2:45 compete in that market, but it's called char bar.
2:48 It is one of the best places that you can get barbecue in the in the entire world.
2:52 It is, as I said in the podcast episode, it's like my happy place.
2:55 Then char bar actually won best new restaurant in Kansas City in 2015.
2:58 And again, a barbecue restaurant in Kansas City, there's nowhere to hide, right?
3:03 If it stinks, it's going to go out of business immediately.
3:05 It's thriving.
3:06 It's going well.
3:07 But also this guy, he has a tremendous amount of friends that he's created through the barbecue
3:12 world and one of the members of his team and on his barbecue team is none other than one
3:16 of the best baseball players ever to play.
3:19 And that's Kansas City Royals legend, George Brett.
3:21 So as a quick aside, I don't normally do this long of an intro, but I've got to tell the
3:24 story about how I met, meet, Mitch and how I kind of got into this whole thing.
3:28 So back in 2012, I was working for Major League Baseball kind of a unique opportunity, but we're
3:32 in the studio.
3:33 There were constantly players coming through celebrities coming through.
3:36 We would interact with them, blah, blah, blah.
3:38 But one day we're told, Hey, George Brett's coming through and I'm like, Oh, cool, George
3:40 Brett.
3:41 I obviously was a fan of baseball my entire life.
3:43 I know George Brett is, you know, his, his best years were kind of before I was into baseball
3:48 before I was born actually, but he comes in to the place where I work and it was as if,
3:53 you know, the mayor had walked in like, you know, just, and I mean that in a way that
3:56 he was just so nice and so happy to be there and so accommodating and just this big personality
4:02 told great stories with laugh and enjoy his time with everybody.
4:07 But then he and I got into a conversation because I told him, Hey, I'm from Oklahoma
4:10 and he's like, Oh, you know, Missouri were really close.
4:12 And he just asked me to my face.
4:13 He's like, Hey, have y'all any good barbecue here in New York City?
4:17 Because at the time that I met him, I think I had been in New York for three or four months
4:20 at that point.
4:21 And I just go, no, I have not found a good barbecue spot at all.
4:26 And George Brett literally looked like he was going to cry almost.
4:29 He's like, Wait a minute, what excuse me?
4:32 What?
4:33 You haven't had good barbecue.
4:34 You're telling me you've been here for this long and you haven't had good barbecue?
4:37 He goes, Okay.
4:41 And that was it.
4:42 I was like, I don't know what okay means, but he looked like he was doing some math in
4:45 his head.
4:46 And then George Brett leaves.
4:47 Right?
4:48 You're like, he's gone.
4:49 You know, we got to meeting.
4:50 It was great.
4:51 You know, you got to meet a Hall of Thamer.
4:52 You know, it's just a cool experience.
4:53 A couple of days later.
4:54 Okay.
4:55 I get an email and it's from Mitch Benjamin, the guy who we're talking about today and
4:59 talking on the show with, and it was like, Hey, by the way, you should be receiving a
5:03 package today inside of it, there's going to be dry ice.
5:07 There's going to be ribs and burnt ins and all kinds of stuff from, from me and my competition
5:12 team in Kansas City.
5:13 By the way, we've also gotten a restaurant around the corner from your workplace.
5:17 They're expecting you take the ribs and burn ins and everything by.
5:21 They're going to warm everything up in one of their industrial, you know, kitchens and
5:24 all that so you guys can have fresh, warm Kansas City barbecue.
5:28 Yeah, George Brett comes in and then a couple of days later.
5:33 He makes sure that we can have Kansas City barbecue while we're sitting in the middle
5:37 of Manhattan.
5:38 Like literally one of the coolest things I've ever experienced.
5:41 It was such a great thing.
5:42 And then I actually got to thank George Brett in person a few months later about, you know,
5:45 a few weeks later, actually at the all star game that was in Kansas City that year, just
5:49 a great guy, George Brett is such a cool guy to be around.
5:52 If you ever have the chance to meet him or be around him, I would definitely suggest you
5:55 do that.
5:56 But again, this interview with Mitch was such a fun interview to do because we don't normally
6:01 do stuff that's in this arena, but I know a lot of you guys out there are, you know,
6:05 want to be pit masters or maybe you just kind of smoke some meats on the weekend.
6:08 So we talk about some of his secrets.
6:10 We talk about his competition career.
6:12 We talk about, you know, some of the interactions he's had with, you know, sports players and
6:16 different experiences he's had with that.
6:18 This has literally taken Mitch around the world.
6:21 He is one of my favorite people.
6:22 I can't wait for you guys to hear from him.
6:24 So I'm not going to keep him from you any longer.
6:26 Let's get into it.
6:28 Mitch Benjamin, welcome to Undaunted Life of Man's podcast.
6:31 Oh, thank you so much.
6:32 I couldn't be more excited to be here and share some time with you.
6:35 Oh, this is going to be a lot of fun.
6:36 And I just got to say, right from the beginning, I called you by your Christian name, okay?
6:41 Mitch Benjamin, but nobody calls you that everyone calls you meet Mitch.
6:45 So is that a moniker that you came up with for yourself or did that just kind of happen
6:49 over time?
6:50 Where did that come from?
6:51 Unfortunately, I think I named myself a little something to do with barbecue.
6:56 Hey, only my audience will know that.
6:58 Don't worry about it.
6:59 We won't let it out to the entire world, but, you know, we're going to get into all the
7:02 barbecue stuff guys.
7:03 And guys, there's, there's so much content we're going to get into.
7:05 This is going to be a great conversation, but you weren't always a world championship
7:10 barbecue pitmaster.
7:11 Right?
7:12 You like my head.
7:13 Yeah, you didn't come out of the womb doing that.
7:15 So I guess what were you doing in terms of an introduction?
7:18 What were you doing before you were in the world of barbecue?
7:20 And I love the story about how you got into barbecue.
7:23 So take us from what you're doing before to how you got into barbecue to begin with.
7:26 Yeah.
7:27 So I actually grew up on the East Coast in Pennsylvania and Lancaster, Pennsylvania and
7:31 graduated from Penn State.
7:34 And I think end of 1994.
7:38 Shortly thereafter, I got kind of my dream job, the job that I always wanted, which was
7:42 tailor made golf company to be a sales rep.
7:45 And it just so happened that was in Kansas City.
7:47 So I couldn't be more thrilled.
7:48 So I picked up and moved to Casey and really the culture and the lifestyle in Kansas City
7:54 is very much centered on barbecue.
7:57 So I quickly was introduced to barbecue, fell in love to barbecue with barbecue.
8:02 I bought my first house and moved in next to a guy that had a swimming pool, a refrigerator
8:09 full of beer and a pit that had rolling smoke going all the time.
8:12 So as you can imagine, I'd drive pulling my driveway and walk into his house.
8:16 Not mine.
8:17 You know what I mean?
8:18 So he introduced me to barbecue in 1999, gosh, it's so long ago, I went to my first American
8:24 Royal, which is the largest barbecue competition in the world, upwards of 600 teams at times.
8:31 And I quickly found out that was also the largest party in the world.
8:34 Just so much fun, hay bales and music and girls dancing in the whole nine yards.
8:39 You know, it was just like my jaw was on the ground and the smells and the fun.
8:44 So I joined, I signed up and joined the next year for the American Royal.
8:48 I came up with a team name.
8:50 I told my buddies that they were on my team.
8:53 And next thing we know, we were, you know, slot 406 or whatever it was.
8:57 You know what I mean?
8:58 And we had a party and we just had an unbelievable time.
9:01 And through the years that party grew to be the largest of its kind at the American Royal
9:06 and really just had some fun and we started to have success.
9:10 You know, it was, it was crazy.
9:11 I think it was the first or second year in, we grabbed our last kegabear and went back
9:16 to my house before the awards ceremony.
9:19 Not even thinking about going to that mess.
9:21 And I get a call from my buddy and say, "Where are you?
9:23 You just won third place brisket out of 500 teams in the world."
9:27 I'm like, "Isch it me?"
9:29 I'm like, "Really?"
9:30 I'm like, "That is awesome."
9:31 So started to kind of take the craft seriously through the years and develop my own line of
9:37 barbecue sauces and rubs and competed with those and had a lot of success fast.
9:43 And you know, one of the big things for me also was my relationship with George Brett.
9:47 As you know, the baseball player, the heralded Hall of Famer here in Kansas City, the legend.
9:52 And you know, through the golf business, he and I became quick friends and he really
9:57 enjoys cooking and barbecuing and introduced me to the Royals and gave me an opportunity
10:02 to cook, you know, the clubhouse for the Royals, which is kind of how you and I ultimately
10:07 got together was through baseball.
10:10 He made me the ambassador of barbecue to Kansas City in 2012 during the all-star game, the
10:16 three nights.
10:17 Which is, is there a better title than ambassador of barbecue?
10:20 I love it.
10:21 I love it.
10:22 I love it.
10:23 I love it.
10:24 Like Secretary of State or any of that.
10:25 I got a cool title.
10:26 I love it.
10:27 He's so much fun.
10:28 And ultimately that led out to me being out on the field during the home run derby and
10:32 giving my ribs to Boomer and Nomar Garcia-Pera and John Crook and Adam Jones from the, what
10:40 was he with the Orioles?
10:41 He came out in bullpen and started chowing ribs and saying, "These are the best ribs
10:44 I ever had."
10:46 And George, you know, spelled out meat, mitch, M-E-A-T, Mitch.com, you know, go there to get
10:51 ribs and barbecue sauce and crash my website.
10:55 It was just a fun, fun, cool, unique opportunity, which led to many more.
11:00 I mean, from there, I had an opportunity.
11:03 The Royals and Yankees played on a Sunday night where Derek Jeter was retired.
11:09 So they, they flew me in to do the retirement party for Derek Jeter, where, you know, Michael
11:14 Jordan's there.
11:15 Reggie Jackson has tongs standing next to me, putting ribs on people's plates.
11:18 It was like I made it up, you know, like a weird science movie.
11:22 And I drew up this whole deal of what I wanted to happen.
11:24 So it's just the whole sports thing has continued to grow with Barstool Sports.
11:29 I've been there a few times, they've been out here to Kansas City to my restaurant.
11:32 And yeah, it just, it never stopped.
11:35 Finally, my, my real passion became barbecue and I became 100% barbecue and no more golf
11:40 about five years ago.
11:43 That's awesome.
11:44 I mean, you brought up so many things and we're going to get into a lot more detail and all
11:46 that.
11:47 But that's a great primer for us.
11:48 But I guess for someone like me, you know, I like eating barbecue, but barbecue still
11:52 kind of scares me the whole process because I don't want to ruin like an expensive cut
11:56 of meat or something like that, but I guess for you, since you are legitimately a world
12:00 champion pit master, what are some of the early barbecue smoking mistakes that you see
12:05 a lot of people make, regardless of the setup that they're using?
12:09 And what are the, I guess the common mistakes that people make when they're smoking meat?
12:13 Well, I've made them all.
12:14 I mean, to your point, I have burnt everything, undercooked everything, fallen asleep and
12:20 pits have gone completely stone cold for hours.
12:22 I mean, I mean, you have to make every mistake until you can get some wins in the column.
12:27 Trust me, especially with barbecue, it's a low and slow method that I use hot and fast
12:32 is also a popular, you know, auto way to go now too.
12:36 But for me, I think patience is the biggest, the biggest thing.
12:40 People they don't realize, oh, yeah, let's whip up a brisket.
12:44 Well, you know, it could be 10 hours before we're 11, 12 hours before even trying anything,
12:49 you know.
12:50 Sometimes guys will look at me and say, is it done, is it done?
12:53 And I just say no immediately before even looking at it, no one what's going on.
12:57 But right away, the answer is no, have another beer.
13:00 It's not done.
13:01 We'll get to it.
13:02 So I think patience is the thing.
13:04 I mean, a lot of, you know, people just don't have that time anymore, you know, which is
13:08 unfortunate, but to dedicate, you know, the hours and hours and hours needed.
13:12 But anyone can do it, you know, funny story, shields, which is a department store or sporting
13:17 good store.
13:18 So I'm really big in the Midwest, I'm not sure if they have them in Oklahoma or not,
13:22 but they are located in Fargo, North Dakota.
13:25 And about six weeks ago, I, they flew me out to Fargo along with about 15 other pitmasters
13:30 across the country.
13:31 Think of a Dick sporting goods, if you're not familiar with your same, same type footprint.
13:36 And barbecue for them, similar to others, is the, like Academy sports and things that
13:42 nature barbecue is the fastest growing footprint in their store.
13:46 And it's because of triggers and yetis and the coolers and smokers and, you know, that
13:53 all of this kind of stuff, backyard guys through COVID forced to cook on their own, we're buying
13:59 all this stuff, you know, buying the triggers, buying the, buying the charcoal, the pellets,
14:04 the books that I have now, you know, all that kind of stuff in there, so into it because
14:08 of COVID.
14:09 It really has really grown, grown the deal.
14:11 And I've got guys now that I've been playing golf with for, for 25 years, never cared about
14:16 a brisket and I'm getting a text from Timmy saying, Hey, fat side up or fat side down.
14:21 I'm like, Are you kidding me?
14:22 Are you cooking a brisket?
14:23 I mean, everybody's so into it right now.
14:25 It's awesome.
14:26 But I think to go back is, is not to have any fear, don't have any fear taken on.
14:31 And why I brought this shields conversation up is because we led their team.
14:35 So I had a team of 15 guys that worked on the floor and they wanted them to feel comfortable
14:39 about talking about cooking a brisket.
14:41 And we did a real brisket competition all night long, the whole deal.
14:45 I wasn't allowed to touch anything.
14:46 They had to cut it.
14:47 They had that we injected.
14:48 We did everything that we would do in a barbecue competition.
14:52 And they did it all and they had a ball.
14:54 And the whole idea was for them to be comfortable when they go into work Monday morning and
14:58 if a guy comes up and buys a trigger or is looking at it saying, Are you going to cook
15:01 a brisket this weekend?
15:03 And that guy generally says, No, no, I'm not that far up yet.
15:06 You know, we're going to look at some hot dogs over here and see how those go.
15:09 You can say, No, no, you can take this on, man.
15:11 I just did a brisket all weekend long.
15:12 It was so easy.
15:13 You know, you just need to have time and patience and really work through it, but it
15:16 was so good.
15:17 So just being comfortable with it and having, you know, no fear and having patience, I think
15:22 would be the biggest thing to start your foundation of barbecue cooking with.
15:26 Okay.
15:27 Well, I have zero patience and I'm scared to death of ruining a brisket.
15:30 But hey, you know what?
15:31 We can do a little one on one counseling session after we're done here and you can help me
15:34 out with that.
15:35 But I want to kind of get back to the competitions that you talked about because I've never been
15:38 to like a full on barbecue competition.
15:40 I've been to like, you know, the local fair, right, where you got one or two guys that
15:44 bring out pulled pork or something like that.
15:46 But for those of us, and you get into great detail this in this in the book, and we're
15:49 going to talk a lot about the book here in just a second.
15:51 But for those of you that, and for those of us that have not been to a barbecue competition,
15:55 what is it like for the, not just the spectators, right?
15:58 But also for the competitors, because you get into a lot of detail as to the timing of
16:02 when you're doing things.
16:03 And it seems like there's so much going on, but what's it like for both parties?
16:07 Well, it's, you know, your first one's always going to be very daunting.
16:11 You don't know what you're doing.
16:12 Your new kid on the block, you know, you get an assigned space.
16:16 So you roll in there with your, your u-haul full of smokers and your tables and your,
16:22 you know, you spend countless hours, you know, putting together lists of everything that
16:27 you're going to need.
16:28 And as soon as you get there and unpack, there's five things you forgot, you know, no matter
16:31 what.
16:32 It's, it's getting organized, it's keeping your spot clean.
16:37 But for me, you know, after the first second, third one, then you pull in and just start
16:42 looking for your friends, you know, it's so much fun.
16:44 It's really a community, a brethren of friendship and the barbecue community, everybody talks
16:49 about it is just so welcoming.
16:53 There is a level of competition, but not really, I mean, everyone, I think, truly is
16:58 happy for each other when they win and there to console them when they lose.
17:03 But yeah, it's, it's a cool environment and it's, it's a long, you know, again, patience.
17:08 We roll in Friday morning and oftentimes, especially at the Royal, we're not leaving
17:11 until Sunday night.
17:12 So it's a, it's a commitment, but it's fun.
17:15 So fun.
17:16 Well, and the thing about it is, is like at the end of the day, there is the camaraderie
17:20 and then there is the actual competition, right?
17:22 And so I've even watched some, some different shows where they're, they're the barbecue pit
17:25 masters that are judging things and it seems like each judge is looking for something a
17:29 little bit different, which is kind of hard to prepare for if you're actually competing
17:33 to win.
17:34 But I guess in a, in a macro since 30,000 foot view, what are barbecue competition judges
17:39 looking for?
17:40 Well, you kind of nailed it.
17:42 It's different and it's different regionally.
17:44 So we'll go to the Memphis and May world championships every year and compete.
17:48 And that's going to be a different, first of all, it's a different cut of meat with
17:52 the ribs than we're going to use, we'll do baby backs down there as opposed to the Saint
17:55 Louis style spare ribs that we'll do here in case CBS competitions in Kansas city.
18:02 Sometimes judges are running sweet.
18:04 Sometimes they're a little, you know, heat oftentimes unless you're really dialed in and
18:09 there's several guys that compete every week, you know, I'm not doing that.
18:13 I kind of just hit the big boys and have some fun, but I'll talk to guys that are out there
18:17 grind in and say, Hey, what's, what's running hot right now?
18:19 Like what's, what are the judges looking for?
18:21 Because it changes all the time.
18:23 And especially when you get to a big, big competition like the American Royal, where
18:27 you have 500 teams, you got to imagine how many judges there are.
18:33 And maybe not so, you know, maybe they're not so seasoned, you know, maybe they're getting
18:38 ordained as they walk in the tent as a judge, you know, so it kind of can become a crapshoot,
18:44 really.
18:45 So it's a, there's a lot of luck involved, especially in the bigger ones, but you'll,
18:48 you'll see that the cream rises to the top, the same guys continue to win and put out
18:53 the best product.
18:54 So yeah, my, I usually do for me, my, my favorite profile is kind of sweet with just a little
19:01 bit of heat, but you have to be careful with the heat factor.
19:03 You get one person at that table of six that does not like spice or heat and you're out.
19:08 I remember a judge at the, the, what Memphis and May is a little different.
19:14 There's a blind box competition, but then also every 15 minutes, a personalized judge
19:19 comes to your tent and sits in front of you and eats the meat in front of you and critiques
19:23 it.
19:24 And you make up, you know, stories and tell them that you raised the pig and it sucked
19:27 on your finger from, you know, two days old and you tell all these lies.
19:31 It's so funny.
19:32 And she came back at the end and we had just barely lost.
19:36 I think we were just out of the top 10 that year and she came back afterwards and she
19:39 said, Boy, your ribs are so good, but I just had a little piece of pepper get stuck in
19:44 my teeth.
19:45 I just couldn't get out of it.
19:46 So I had to mark you down and I think it really I drove, I drove eight, nine hours down
19:51 here.
19:52 It's Tuesday and you got a piece of pepper stuck in your teeth.
19:55 So I lose the competition.
19:57 That's just an example of how crazy it is, man.
19:59 You get the stars out the lineup and you got to get it right.
20:02 Hey, I completely understand that.
20:04 And I remember when I was watching, I forget what the show was, but it was the one that
20:06 Myron Nixon was on where they're kind of going around doing these competitions or whatever.
20:11 And it was like hearing them describe what they were when they were judging the different
20:15 meats.
20:16 It helped me to understand why I like certain cuts or certain ways of preparing meat better.
20:21 So for me growing up, it was always a thing like, Oh man, you just want these ribs to
20:25 fall off the bone.
20:26 And then I would have these fall off the bone ribs and I would enjoy them as much as having
20:31 a little bit of tug.
20:32 And I got that, that statement from Myron Nixon, because he's like, I like to have a little
20:35 bit of tug on my ribs.
20:37 And I was like, yeah, yeah, like I get it.
20:38 Like I want to be able to pull it off.
20:40 I want to know that I'm chewing on something, but it's got to be a little frustrating as
20:43 you're preparing for a competition.
20:44 But, but Mitch, for all the competitions that you've been to, and I don't even know if you
20:48 can even tell me how many you've been to, if you can even remember, is there like one
20:52 highlight that that sticks out above the rest, whether it was a big win or just something
20:56 you experienced whenever you were there for that day, just give me that kind of one thing
21:00 that when you think about your competition career, that that's what sticks out.
21:03 Well, I think for me, it was probably, I know it was in 2019.
21:07 So I had an opportunity to go over to Paris, France and open up a barbecue restaurant,
21:12 Kansas City style barbecue restaurant, right on the scene.
21:15 And my head chef, Paul Patterson, who I didn't know until I got there, he and I, he and I
21:20 became really, really tight friends.
21:23 And he had never been to the United States.
21:24 So I was, I knew I was after a few months, I was leaving and coming back.
21:28 And I specifically was coming back to the States to compete in Memphis and May.
21:33 So I brought him with me and we spent a week in Kansas City where he lived with my family
21:37 and got to see my friends and meet everybody, had him over at George Brett's house, had
21:41 him over at a baseball game, like just, you know, funny, funny, fun stuff.
21:46 And then I took him for a week down to Memphis and May and I put him in charge of the seafood
21:49 category.
21:50 And it was like straight out of a Disney movie, we won for best sauce at Memphis and May and
21:55 he won for the seafood dish first time and he was shaking in his boots and to have him
21:59 up on stage, hoisting that trophy above his head.
22:03 Just gave me goosebumps.
22:04 It was the coolest thing ever to, to see him thrive and have fun and just his eyes were
22:09 just wide open and it was just a cool, cool, cool experience.
22:12 Well, I'm glad you brought up that story because I remember following you, because we
22:16 were friends at this time, but I remember following on social media, I'm like, what
22:19 the hell is he doing in Paris?
22:21 Why is he still in Paris?
22:22 Like I wasn't paying that close of attention, but I'm like, okay, who's this mustachioed
22:25 guy with the, yeah, that's him.
22:27 So like explain this to me because I've never been to Paris.
22:32 It's not really a place that it's all my top list of places to go, but that is a place
22:36 that is known for its cuisine.
22:37 Okay.
22:38 It's not a place that's known for its cuisine, right?
22:40 So like I've been to like, you know, Ireland and in the UK and the rest of the UK and it's
22:44 like, okay, they're not exactly known for their, they're known for fish and chips and
22:48 whiskey if you're in Scotland, right?
22:49 Yeah.
22:50 For their scotch.
22:51 But you know, what, what made you like kind of break down that whole story of going over
22:55 to Paris to open up a pit barbecue restaurant?
22:58 It just seems like it doesn't meet what, what that culture is wanting.
23:01 Like I think of them as like wanting really expensive cheese and to look down on us Americans
23:05 as they pour really expensive wine on our heads.
23:07 Like, but just explain how all that kind of went down.
23:10 Well, I, it's a, there's a huge, you know, foody aspect in, in French, but as you say,
23:16 in France, but it, but it is French cuisine, it is five star Michelin, it's a ratatouille,
23:22 you know, it's everything a son, but Kansas City barbecue didn't really exist.
23:27 So there was someone that was working at char bar, my restaurant in, in Westport that brought
23:32 it to my attention.
23:33 And of all things, as crazy as it was, it was a Craigslist ad that said, ISO in search
23:39 of American barbecue chef to come to Paris to teach us and how to cook American barbecue
23:46 and help us open up a restaurant.
23:48 And he showed this to me and I took it home and showed it to my, my wife and kids and
23:53 like, Oh, pop, you got to do that.
23:55 Like, like you should do that.
23:56 I'm like, really, I'm just going to move to Paris.
23:58 I mean, come on, this is nuts.
24:01 So I think after about, you know, four or five course lights on a Friday, that Friday
24:05 night, I read with their urging.
24:08 I responded the next day, and this is 2019, this is in February, I get an email back asking
24:16 me to do like a zoom or a WebEx type thing.
24:18 And I didn't know what zoom was.
24:20 I had never heard a zoom, you know, what are that new shoe from, you know, what a zoom.
24:25 So I'm, I do this with her and this is how fast it was.
24:29 I think eight days later, I was on a plane flying to Paris.
24:33 So it was pretty insane.
24:35 It was intense.
24:36 So they got me a flat, you know, I didn't know anything about Europe.
24:41 And I went over there and my very first day, I showed up in the morning, and Paul, who's
24:48 from New Zealand, so he spoke English, which was the saving grace of the whole deal, comes
24:54 walking in and he says, hi, you Mike?
24:58 And I said, Mitch, he's like, close enough, follow me.
25:01 And we went back to the kitchen and a friendship was born from there, man.
25:05 And it was just the best time ever, I'll tell you, it was incredible.
25:08 So how is, how was it received, I guess, because again, I'm thinking of the hoity-toity French
25:12 men.
25:13 Yes, I'm painting a broad brush here.
25:14 But how was that style of food received there?
25:16 It was very well received.
25:18 What the other thing that you have to kind of remember is there's a lot of expats living
25:21 over there.
25:22 So I literally guys would walk in, I'd give them burn ends, ribs, and they'd get a Budweiser
25:27 and they would hug me and say, dude, you are the greatest thing I've ever seen in my whole
25:33 entire life.
25:34 Are you kidding me?
25:35 I mean, this is awesome.
25:36 So there was a big group of expats that were living over there that would gather.
25:42 It was fun for people to try new foods.
25:44 I mean, I would walk around literally with a plate of burn ends that just melted in people's
25:50 mouth and to see the joy and the excitement in their eyes and look at me and say, what?
25:54 You know, what?
25:55 What?
25:56 What?
25:57 What is that?
25:58 I was like, it's good.
25:59 Isn't it potty?
26:00 It's good.
26:01 Yes.
26:02 Yes.
26:03 That's awesome.
26:04 I mean, you're, you're, cause that's like, that's a language that goes beyond language
26:08 barriers, right?
26:09 The language of meat.
26:10 Like that is just something that people completely understand.
26:13 And as a quick aside, before we get into something else, you said it for the first time on this,
26:17 on this podcast, but you call everybody pods.
26:20 Yo pods.
26:21 Yeah.
26:22 Yeah.
26:23 Yo pods are potty.
26:24 It's on the labels of your barbecue sauce right behind you.
26:26 Then the book, not everybody, not everybody uses that, that terminology to refer to another
26:30 human being.
26:31 You want to tell us where does pods, where does pods come from?
26:34 That's P O D S Y for those of you that aren't picking it up.
26:37 But yeah, what's pods?
26:38 Well, when I moved out here to Kansas city, you know, not only was the culture different,
26:43 but the language is a little different too.
26:44 So I'd be rolling in to pro shops and speaking with pros and assistant pros.
26:49 And the big term out here was parts, you know, Hey, Pards, how are you doing short, short
26:53 for partner?
26:54 Partner.
26:55 I'm good.
26:56 Pards.
26:57 You know, and then I kind of had fun with that and threw a little night East coast in there
27:00 and said pots.
27:01 But so basically it's the same thing as calling someone partner or Pards.
27:05 I just say pots.
27:06 All right.
27:07 Sounds good.
27:08 Now that everybody knows you got to start using that language with your friends.
27:10 Everybody calls me that, by the way.
27:12 Yo, that's good.
27:13 Yeah.
27:14 I mean, you've created this influence.
27:15 I'm glad for it.
27:16 But you did mention a little second ago, Mitch, you mentioned your restaurant char bar.
27:19 So that was a restaurant that opened up in 2015.
27:23 I guess the general question is, is why open a barbecue restaurant in Kansas city?
27:28 I mean, of all places that seems like the hardest place to get another restaurant off
27:33 off the board, but you got a really cool location.
27:35 It was a really cool concept.
27:37 So kind of take us through how our bar came to be.
27:39 Well, it's kind of like dropping your shorts, right?
27:42 I mean, take a look because you are showing yourself to the world in the hotbed of barbecue.
27:47 But another philosophy is fish where the fish are, right?
27:50 If you could put out some good product and have good barbecue in Kansas city, you're
27:54 going to have lines that wrap around buildings.
27:56 People just go towards barbecue.
27:58 It's huge.
27:59 So yeah, I always wanted the maturation of the brand.
28:03 I was doing well with sauces, doing well with rubs, competition.
28:06 I was getting on TV and everything and everyone was like, you need to have a restaurant.
28:10 You need to have a grand stage for your product because you talk about it and we see pictures
28:16 of you winning, but we can't taste your product.
28:19 How can we taste what you're putting out?
28:21 I said, good idea, but Taylor made and writes me a nice check every month.
28:25 So I'm kind of digging that, you know, I'm not sure about that aspect of it.
28:30 So I was quickly introduced to my two partners that I have now and all they knew how to do
28:35 was run restaurants, successful restaurants.
28:37 They didn't know anything about barbecue.
28:39 So we were kind of a perfect marriage and it took a while to get off the ground.
28:44 But like you said, I think it was November of 2014, rolling into 15, a char bar was born.
28:50 And really I enjoyed Texas barbecue, I had spent a week traveling throughout the state
28:55 of Texas and seeing their venues.
28:58 Now from a weather perspective, they're able to be open outside a lot longer than we are
29:02 in Kansas City, but I really, really enjoyed the outside aspect, the picnic tables, the
29:06 bar, the music, the games, Kansas City didn't have anything like that.
29:11 So you've been there.
29:13 So we have like 10,000 square feet outside dedicated to all of that that I just spoke
29:17 about.
29:18 A full croquet course.
29:19 A couple of bocce ball with white crushed oyster shells.
29:24 There's throw bags, ping pong, swings, you know, all that kind of stuff really to create
29:29 a cool vibe and in a unique neighborhood in Kansas City of Westport.
29:33 So that along with about 7,000 square feet inside, it's a huge barbecue platform for
29:39 us and has been very successful.
29:41 Well, Mitch, when people talk about their happy place, you know, sometimes in their minds,
29:45 they're thinking, oh, they're at the top of a beautiful waterfall or some serene mountain
29:49 landscape.
29:50 Char bar in Kansas City is my happy place.
29:52 Okay.
29:53 Cause I was there.
29:54 I was there like a couple of months after it opened up and any time I'm even yeah, even
29:58 any time I'm in a stone within a stone's throw of Kansas City.
30:01 So I was in Lawrence, Kansas a few weeks ago, where are we going for lunch?
30:04 What do you mean?
30:05 Where are we going for lunch?
30:06 We're going 45 minutes down the road.
30:07 And we're going to Char bar.
30:08 Okay.
30:09 And I've been to some other places in Kansas City, but that's kind of the main place.
30:11 So I definitely appreciate you open that up.
30:13 And I know you got some other stuff you're working on here in a second.
30:15 We'll talk more about that as well, but we've got to get in to this book.
30:19 So barbecue revolution, innovative barbecue recipes from an all star pit master.
30:23 Obviously this is your book.
30:24 The thing about this book is it's not just a beautiful book.
30:27 It can double as a home defense device, because this thing is like weighty.
30:30 This thing is like serious.
30:32 But the thing about it is I've seen a lot of cookbooks and you know, you get a lot of
30:36 cookbooks when you get married and those different things, but I had never really found the quintessential
30:41 barbecue pit master cookbook.
30:43 You get a cookbook that had, you know, some pulled pork sandwiches or some random recipes
30:47 for this or that, but this feels like the quintessential book.
30:50 But I guess why even write a book sharing your story?
30:54 I'm sure you're writing a book five years ago wasn't on your radar, you know, why put
30:58 out your story and your competition secrets and all these recipes.
31:02 They asked me.
31:03 Okay.
31:04 That's pretty good.
31:05 You're going to give us a little bit more detail.
31:07 Yeah.
31:08 It was kind of crazy.
31:09 I mean, I have a whole room in my house almost dedicated to cookbooks on the cookbook nut.
31:14 For Christmas, I'll get 10 cookbooks.
31:17 And it's the go-to.
31:18 What do you get, Mitch, for his birthday?
31:19 I'll get him a cookbook, but make sure it has lots of pictures in it, right?
31:23 Because I won't cook a recipe if it doesn't have a picture with it that comes with it.
31:27 So when I came back from Paris with with with Paulie and brought him back, it was it was
31:33 quite quite a tale.
31:35 We landed in the Kansas City Star.
31:37 I had a full page picture of Paul and I when we landed that he didn't know about.
31:42 I had done an interview over there and had sent some pictures to an editor and that was
31:47 waiting for us when we came back.
31:49 So that was huge.
31:50 I drove him from the airport to Char bar before even getting to our house to do an interview
31:55 with the six o'clock news.
31:57 We do that interview.
32:00 We get back to my house literally about one hour later, I realized I didn't have any Jack
32:06 Daniels, which was not going to work for Paulie.
32:09 So we together drove to the liquor store, we walk in and the first person that sees
32:13 this points at Paul because he's got his hat on and he wears his leather jacket and his
32:17 white, the same as the front picture of the paper that day.
32:21 And point to him says, look, there's that guy.
32:23 And he Paul looks at me, he goes, this is going to get sick, mate.
32:26 This is going to get sick.
32:30 So we garnered a lot of attention.
32:34 Probably a month later, I was I got an email that just from an editor saying, Hey, would
32:38 you be interested in telling your story looks like you got a colorful past and writing a
32:42 cookbook?
32:43 And I said, you know what?
32:44 I would love to do that.
32:45 You know, I it was a little apprehensive at first because I have no idea what to do.
32:49 But that took about four months.
32:52 First of all, they asked if you'd like to do it.
32:54 And I said, sure.
32:55 And then for two months, they make you prove to them why they should choose you to write
32:58 a cookbook.
32:59 So it's like, you came to me, jerks, what are you talking about?
33:02 I know, I know.
33:04 But then it was about a year of writing it really through COVID.
33:06 I kind of figured that they would write it for me and I kind of sign it and smile and
33:10 take my picture next to it, but they make you do all the work.
33:13 And it was a unique time of the in history to do it because it was through COVID.
33:17 So all I could ever do was talk to my editor on the phone.
33:20 I've still to this day, don't know what he looks like.
33:22 I've never met him.
33:23 I've talked to him a million times, but you know, he would tell me traditionally he would
33:26 be there with me, you know, helping me and on site for the shoots.
33:29 And he pretty much had to give me some rope and let me roll.
33:32 And I got an iconic local photographer that helped me out, which I was excited to partner
33:37 with and that he would do it for a minimal fee.
33:39 And we spent some time shooting, as you can see in the book, tons and tons of pictures.
33:44 And we spent days in the restaurant, days in my house, out at a wagyu cattle farm.
33:50 Just had fun.
33:51 I got to pick everywhere I wanted to go.
33:52 I got to pick every recipe I wanted to do and kind of just wrote the book and came together.
33:57 And they help you at the end, obviously, put it all together and make it, you know, put
34:00 the bowl on the top and make it look pretty, but it was, it was a fun, cool experience.
34:05 And I'm proud of it.
34:06 I really am.
34:07 Well, I got to tell you, I don't use this word very often, but the book itself is gorgeous.
34:12 It is absolutely gorgeous.
34:14 The pictures look amazing.
34:15 Like it just, it's an inviting book.
34:18 It makes you, it literally becomes a page turner because yes, you have some of your stories
34:22 in there.
34:23 You've got different pictures.
34:24 You got recipes from you, recipes from other places, but I got to tell you, my heart stopped
34:28 at one point whenever I was flipping through your book, because I thought you made the
34:32 worst mistake in the world.
34:34 You included your sauce recipes and your rub recipes in the book.
34:40 Okay.
34:41 Because I use me, mid barbecue sauce on just about everything.
34:43 I put it on broccoli.
34:44 It's absurd.
34:45 I use your rubs on everything.
34:47 I don't, I don't mess with anything else.
34:49 I was shocked to see that you included those things in your book.
34:52 Okay.
34:53 Because to me, that stuff is gold.
34:55 You're literally giving gold to people.
34:56 So that's, that's my biggest question of the day probably is why did you include those
35:01 super, what I thought were super secret recipes in the book?
35:04 Yeah.
35:05 Well, you know, the barbecue community is a sharing community.
35:08 I mean, if you're not shaking, you're not trying, everyone's pulling off other people's
35:13 recipes and making them their own.
35:15 So I put it out there.
35:16 I mean, so you'll probably make that recipe and say, you know what?
35:19 I'm going to add a little bit of this or a little bit of that and make my own type style,
35:24 which is awesome.
35:25 I mean, it's, it's cool.
35:26 And at the end of the day, not everybody's pulling out a pot and pan and making all this
35:30 stuff take the time.
35:31 They want to just grab the bottle and roll.
35:34 But in another way, I've also changed co-packers twice and it's been a year long process both
35:39 times for them to get a simple recipe, correct?
35:42 So I find it very hard to believe anyone's going to nail it the first time in their,
35:47 in their kitchen, but you know, it's fun.
35:49 And hopefully, you know, I've got new sauces that I'm coming out with and I'll just continue
35:53 to, to roll.
35:55 And yeah, I think if you're going to, if you're going to come out with a cookbook, I mean,
35:58 share what you got.
35:59 Let's have some fun and, and keep going and maturing and, and, you know, evolving.
36:04 Right.
36:05 And guys, for those of you that don't really know what I'm talking about, you might have
36:08 his, his sauces or his rubs in a local store.
36:12 I mean, there's an ACE hardware a couple of miles from my house that has some, but obviously
36:15 I'll put a link in the show notes so you can go to his website and you can order that stuff
36:18 for yourself.
36:19 So you can test me and see if I'm actually being legit.
36:22 But before we move on from the book, there's so many recipes in there.
36:26 It's almost overwhelming.
36:27 So if you're like, okay, I want to maybe try this or maybe try that, you know, I want
36:30 to do a difficult one and then maybe an easy one.
36:33 Is there a recipe from your book that you personally think is especially awesome, but
36:38 that you think that some people might actually end up overlooking because they're, you know,
36:42 worried about the ribs or the brisket or something.
36:44 Yeah, for me, obviously growing up on the East coast in Pennsylvania, I have a recipe
36:49 in there that I don't know exists in any cookbook in the world and that's for scrapple.
36:54 So scrapple is kind of the, they call it the lips and ass, the stuff that hits the floor
37:00 that doesn't even make it into a hot dog.
37:02 That's, that's very popular on the East coast.
37:05 I figured, Hey, let's try to make this with, with some of your leftover pork and meat that
37:10 is actually good, really good stuff.
37:12 And I think it turned out amazing.
37:15 It's probably an acquired taste, but it is so flipping good.
37:19 And I would have put that on the cover of the, of the book, but they said, you know, we
37:23 went to sell books.
37:24 So that probably wasn't a good idea, but it actually is buried in the cover and that,
37:29 that niffs and mound of meat.
37:31 There's some scrapple in there, but I would try that.
37:33 I mean, give that a run for its money.
37:35 It's so good.
37:36 Okay.
37:37 Sounds good.
37:38 We'll make sure that gets out to everybody.
37:39 So we've talked about the book.
37:40 We've talked about char bar, but I don't know how much you're talking about it right now,
37:44 but you've got a new project that you're working on and I don't know, I don't know how else
37:49 to say it.
37:50 Cause again, I don't know if you're even allowed to talk about it, but you got a new project.
37:53 Can you give us some details?
37:55 Sure.
37:56 Well, I actually signed a lease for meat, Mitch barbecue four years ago.
37:59 That's how long that this is, as taken.
38:01 And I think we're probably about a month away, it'll be at 95th and mission and ranch mark.
38:08 And it's a big location.
38:09 It'll be meat, meat, Mitch barbecue, it'll differ from char bar a little bit in the fact
38:13 that I wanted that experience where you walk up and you kind of see some exhibition cooking.
38:19 You see guys carving out slices of meat, burn ends.
38:23 You see the smokers, you see everybody working, you have a cool menu board, you order and
38:28 you sit down and then we'll bring it to you from there and there'll be a bar, big outside
38:33 component, similar to char bar games, turf, chairs, TVs, all that kind of stuff.
38:39 So it's been a long time coming, but I'm excited that should open up and I think four
38:45 to six weeks.
38:47 And then also we're in the middle of, I don't know if you're familiar, the Kansas airport
38:51 is being completely redone.
38:53 If you fly in and out now, you can see the construction that's taking place, but there's
38:57 been a bid up that I'm part of.
39:01 And if it gets approved on Thursday in 2023, we will have a meat, Mitch barbecue at the
39:05 brand new KCI airport, which I'm really excited about.
39:08 Nice.
39:09 That is awesome.
39:10 We'll keep our fingers crossed for that one, but I just got to ask as well, like, because
39:16 I feel like I have two separate stomachs.
39:18 People don't understand me when I say that, but like I've got a stomach for meats and
39:21 all those different things, but I also have a separate stomach that is just for banana
39:26 pudding.
39:27 So can I make a request that banana pudding be in the new me Metro restaurant?
39:30 Is that is that part of the plan?
39:31 Could I, could I possibly just beg you for that?
39:33 I can tell you that I kind of have a hybrid of that.
39:36 We will have banana whoopie pies, which are to die for that you might be able to enjoy.
39:40 Okay.
39:41 All right.
39:42 Well, I will definitely put that on my Christmas list for this year that I need some whoopie
39:44 pies from you.
39:45 So I want to get into just some random questions because I was, I was preparing this interview.
39:48 I was getting so giddy to talk about different things categorically, but then I had a bunch
39:52 of just random things that came up and you brought up a little bit of it earlier, you
39:56 know, talking about George bread and talking about being able to cook for the royals and
39:59 the Yankees and different things like that.
40:00 But obviously what you've been able to do, speaking the language of barbecue has gotten
40:03 you in with a lot of different professional sports teams with locker rooms or clubhouses.
40:08 Sure.
40:09 Aside from the stuff that you've already mentioned, Mitch, is there like a favorite memory or
40:12 experience that you had that, you know, it was kind of centered around athletes or a
40:16 game?
40:17 Well, I mean, it's going to be the all star game.
40:20 And unfortunately, that's what we've already talked about.
40:21 But that was the penultimate experience just to be there with all my boys and be firing
40:27 back and forth for three days in a row to the locker rooms.
40:30 I mean, just the fun and camaraderie that takes place around the celebrity all star
40:34 game is hysterical.
40:36 I mean, just sitting in that room, feeding all the guys and the people that you see on
40:40 TV never in person.
40:42 Yeah.
40:43 Yeah.
40:44 You're right.
40:45 I mean, I was at that all star game as well.
40:46 And I'll share with you kind of a quick memory that I had because I was working for Major
40:47 League Baseball at the time.
40:48 You know, we're at the home run Derby and the all star game.
40:51 And I remember Robinson can know getting booed mercilessly at the home run Derby because
40:56 there was a Kansas City.
40:57 Oh, I just forgot to do his name.
40:58 Billy Butler.
40:59 Yeah.
41:00 Yeah, he was not selected because that was at the time where there were team captains
41:04 and they selected who they wanted to be on the AL team or the NLT and Billy Butler,
41:08 the home run hitter, a home run hitter for, you know, the local team was not selected
41:13 by Robinson cano.
41:14 And I think Robinson can know had won the home run Derby the year before, right?
41:18 And so he's, you know, the favorite to win this thing.
41:20 He goes out there in the crowd, boost him mercilessly every single pitch of the home run
41:25 Derby and he hit zero home runs during the home run Derby and I could not like the fans
41:31 cheered so loud for that.
41:33 So it was hilarious.
41:34 But this is the story.
41:35 So at this point, and I told this, uh, this in the intro, you know, I had already met
41:39 you and I had already kind of met George bread, you know, with kind of the stuff that we were
41:42 doing.
41:43 You hooked us up with barbecue.
41:44 But I remember when you and George came to our section, you know, for, for me and the
41:47 other people that were working with me and he said, Hey, how's it going?
41:50 Things are going great.
41:51 Hey, y'all.
41:52 And then y'all leave our section and not 15 minutes later, barbecue just shows up in
42:00 our section and is getting passed around and I'm like, that's kind of a cool thing.
42:04 You walk into some place, you shake hands, you high five and then like 10 or 15 minutes
42:08 later, barbecue just magically shows up for everybody to eat.
42:12 So that is one of my favorite memories as well.
42:14 But I did also want to kind of get into some specifics about you and I'm going to kind
42:18 of make you pick your favorite kid with a few of these.
42:20 Okay.
42:21 Yeah.
42:22 I'm going to make it awkward.
42:23 If you could only eat one type of barbecue meat for the rest of your life, okay?
42:30 So brisket, ribs, burn it, whatever.
42:32 You can pick one for the rest of your life.
42:34 What do you choose and why?
42:36 Whole hog.
42:37 See, I'm not going to let you get away with that.
42:40 You can't have the whole menu.
42:41 You got to select one.
42:42 I would probably say burnt ends.
42:46 Obviously they were, you know, born and created made famous here in Kansas City, but they're
42:50 so darn good.
42:52 You've had them.
42:53 They're just little pillowy puffs of magic that, like, you know, you get that nice bark
42:57 and that middle center just melts in your mouth and you can just keep popping them all
43:02 day long.
43:03 So I guess I would, I would roll with burn ends.
43:05 How about you?
43:06 Okay.
43:07 So I figured you would ask me it's so tight between ribs and burnt ends, but I would probably
43:13 say ribs and the tiebreaker for me is because I have this weird deal where I will get a
43:19 whole rack of ribs like when I go to char bar, I'll get a whole rack of ribs, I'll eat half
43:22 of it there and then I'll put the other half in the refrigerator and I'll eat it the next
43:25 day cold.
43:26 And like, like, and I'll put a little bit of sauce on it.
43:30 The sauce will be cold as well.
43:31 It's even more tug.
43:33 So thank you, Myron.
43:34 I got even more tug on my rib.
43:35 And so for me, like next day, cold, burnt ends aren't quite as good.
43:39 So that's why I would go with ribs.
43:41 So all right.
43:42 I'm glad you brought that up from Myron.
43:43 So that's one of the things that is a, as a fallacy is people say, my gosh, those ribs
43:48 were so good.
43:49 They were fall off the bone.
43:50 And if you talk to my wife and if you talk to my kids and neighbors, they won't fall
43:54 off the bone ribs, but a judge isn't looking for that.
43:57 That just means you overcooked them, right?
43:59 So there is, there is some, you know, there is some professionalism in the cooking that
44:04 we do to acquire that bite.
44:06 So where you take the bite and you come out, you see that bite mark that's left in there
44:10 and the ribs not falling down.
44:12 It's perfect.
44:13 And so that's what we're going for, but in the backyard, the kids want them falling
44:16 off the bone.
44:17 Right?
44:18 Well, I remember reading in the book.
44:19 I thought it was interesting.
44:20 You talked about chicken, you know, you have skin on the chicken and whenever you bite,
44:23 they shouldn't be having to like tug the chicken away.
44:26 There should be that perfect bite mark.
44:27 And I had never really thought about that.
44:29 And they don't want that skin, that whole skin back with exactly to perforate that skin
44:34 perfectly with your teeth and leave it there.
44:36 It's tough.
44:37 It's not easy to do.
44:38 Well, it's not easy to do.
44:39 And I'll just, I'll just be honest with you.
44:40 And this is going to make some of my listeners mad.
44:42 Oklahoma barbecue is a joke.
44:44 I swear I grew up in Oklahoma and I'm surrounded by people that thinks Chili's like, oh, those
44:50 are the best ribs in the world.
44:51 And you get these random barbecue places that people think are just the best.
44:54 And so it's like, okay, we need y'all to like expand your Kansas City territory.
44:58 Come down just a little bit Southwest that maybe, hey, I don't know if there needs to
45:02 be a meat, Mitch restaurant in Oklahoma City.
45:04 I can help you out.
45:05 Okay.
45:06 We'll work on that.
45:07 Okay.
45:08 I'm going to make you pick another favorite child here.
45:09 Okay.
45:10 That's a good one, you know, so for me it transcends food.
45:14 Sometimes it's the experience.
45:15 It's the smells.
45:16 I get goosebumps every time I walk into rendezvous in Memphis.
45:33 And they're not famous necessarily for their food, but when you walk down those steps and
45:38 sit down and you smell the air and you look around and you see the people that are working
45:43 there and the stories that they tell you and how they make you feel, I would eat there
45:48 every day.
45:49 I mean, it is, it's one of the first things when we pull into Memphis and unload and get
45:53 into our Airbnb.
45:54 We all look at each other and rub our hands together and say, let's go and we fire off
45:59 the rendezvous.
46:00 And it has nothing to do with the food, although it's fine, but it's just the atmosphere and
46:05 the vibe and how cool it is.
46:06 So I would probably be getting reservations there.
46:10 Okay.
46:11 Sounds good.
46:12 If you could only eat the barbecue made by one living pit master, I'm going to make
46:19 you pick the best friend now.
46:20 Yeah.
46:21 I'm making it super awkward and I love that you're, you know, feeling a little bit awkward
46:23 about it.
46:24 But you could eat the barbecue of one living pit master, but it can't be you.
46:29 Who would it be and why?
46:30 I guess probably Tuffy Stone.
46:32 I mean, he's hard to beat, right?
46:34 I mean, he's the, he's the guy that wears a cape that flies around the barbecue world.
46:39 So I guess Tuffy would be, Tuffy would be behind the pit for me.
46:44 Okay.
46:45 So this might answer the next question, but I'm, I'm going to open it up just a little
46:49 bit more in your humble opinion.
46:52 Who is the single greatest pit master of all time living, you know, actively in the business
46:58 or not?
46:59 Yeah.
47:00 Well, I guess you got to give it to, to Myron, you got to give it to Tuffy.
47:04 There's, I mean, what did Myron just went and become?
47:07 Was it?
47:08 Well, did he just reach the all time leader and world championships last year?
47:12 He may have.
47:13 I saw something come up here recently.
47:15 I can find it later, but I mean, he's the winningest guy that there is.
47:18 So I would have to be Myron.
47:20 Okay.
47:21 Sounds good.
47:22 Well, Mitch, we've had a lot of fun.
47:23 We've talked about a lot of things here.
47:24 This is one of the greatest subjects in the world to talk about compared to some of the
47:26 things that I talk about.
47:27 There's no wrong answer, right?
47:28 There are no wrong answers.
47:29 One of my shows whenever I have especially a fun guest, I like to do a segment called
47:34 What Would You Say to Someone That Said?
47:36 And so I'm going to say, what would you say to someone that said?
47:39 I'm going to fill in the blank, but you have 30 seconds or less to give me your answer.
47:44 This is rapid fire.
47:45 This is lightning round.
47:46 Okay.
47:47 So are you up for it?
47:48 Sure.
47:49 Okay.
47:50 Let's hit it.
47:51 First one.
47:52 What would you say to someone that said, I'm scared to smoke a brisket.
47:53 I don't want to mess up an expensive cut of me.
47:56 Well, I think we kind of hit that.
47:57 I wouldn't worry about that at all.
47:58 I just dive in and maybe start with some lesser expensive meats, you know, a pork butt.
48:03 That's a big protein that takes a long time.
48:05 You have to have the patience and the technique similar to a more expensive cut like a brisket
48:11 or something like that.
48:12 Start with a pork butt, you know, and mess around with that and screw up the cheaper cuts,
48:17 but don't be afraid at all because it's nobody's splitting atoms out here at the barbecue competition
48:23 site.
48:24 We're not geniuses.
48:25 Hey, I've ruined, I've ruined a couple of pork butts at the same time because I ran
48:29 out of pellets and I didn't know what was going on.
48:31 So I was so sad about it and one of my friends was like, could you imagine if you had two
48:35 briskets in there?
48:36 So I was like, yeah, yeah.
48:37 Okay.
48:38 That's a lot better.
48:39 All right.
48:40 Next rapid fire question here.
48:41 What would you say to someone that said, I'll have my steak well done with ketchup, please.
48:45 Oh, that's bad.
48:47 It's the worst.
48:48 I would say check, please.
48:51 Hey, I would be leaving.
48:53 I woke up or I grew up in a family that I grew up hating steak because I was given skirt
48:58 steak, like well done with ketchup, like it was like eating a bicycle tire.
49:02 So I'm with you.
49:03 I probably can't be your friend if you were to your steak.
49:05 Well done with ketchup.
49:06 All right.
49:07 Next one here.
49:08 What would you say to someone that said smoking meat is just too complicated for me?
49:12 Well, it's not.
49:13 It's not complicated.
49:14 I'd say buy my book.
49:15 So that would give you a little bit of a head start by the book, but it's not complicated.
49:21 It's easy, it just takes, it just takes patience like we talked, but it's fun.
49:26 And it gives you a long time to sip on a beer and have conversation with friends and, you
49:30 know, get it fired up.
49:31 Get it going.
49:32 Hey, like you said, you're not splitting atoms, but I think you're selling yourself a little
49:36 bit short here, but you know, we'll roll with it.
49:38 Okay.
49:39 Next one here.
49:40 What would you say to someone that said pitmasters should never share their secrets?
49:45 I disagree.
49:46 I mean, obviously I shared all my secrets and I think most do, you know, I've had the opportunity
49:50 to attend many classes from some of the best in the world.
49:54 And everyone's eager to share what they learned because no one's coming up with this stuff
49:58 on their own out of their blue.
50:00 Someone's always helped someone get to where they're at.
50:02 So yeah, I would share everything as I have and as most do if you, you know, getting conversations
50:09 with the guys at competitions and roundtables, they're quick to tell you what they do or
50:14 what they've learned or try this method or something like that.
50:17 So everyone's just trying to make the best that they can.
50:20 And everyone, as I said earlier too, is rooting for each other.
50:23 Honestly, I really believe that when it's, it's an abundance mentality.
50:27 It just goes to the benefit of everybody because if you can stand on the shoulders of giants,
50:31 you can go even further.
50:32 So I definitely believe in that.
50:34 Our next one here.
50:35 What would you say to someone that said Carolina barbecue is the best barbecue in the United
50:39 States?
50:40 I'd say, where do you live in Carolina?
50:43 There are regions.
50:44 I paint it with a broad brush, but you know, what would you say to someone that says it?
50:48 I would say that they're probably local there.
50:50 And I would say, you know, I welcome to introduce you to some Texas barbecue and some Kansas
50:55 City barbecue and expand your palette a little bit.
50:57 But there's great barbecue everywhere.
50:59 And Carolina definitely has it, Memphis has it.
51:03 It's all it's a preference comes down to preference and what you prefer, but, but I like it, but
51:08 it's definitely probably the lower on my chain.
51:11 All right.
51:12 So you hit on this.
51:13 You hit on this a little bit.
51:14 What would you say to someone that said Texas barbecue is better than Kansas City barbecue?
51:19 I would say from a brisket and from a beef point of view, they may be right.
51:24 I think that they just kill it down there.
51:26 I mean, I love it.
51:27 I love that they have the beef short ribs with the big dinosaur looking type bone.
51:31 We don't really specialize that here.
51:33 I'm going to try to introduce that a little bit.
51:35 Some guys, you know, do it here and there, but it's not up, you know, that's frequented.
51:40 But there their beef is off the charts.
51:42 It really is.
51:43 They really do the burn ends and stuff and, and the ribs are a little different and their
51:47 sauces weigh different, it's more sometimes like an agio or whatever.
51:50 But I thoroughly enjoy Texas barbecue and, and, and can't wait to get back.
51:55 I got to say, I love beef ribs.
51:57 If it's on the menu, I'm ordering it just the amount of char that you can get on that.
52:02 Like, sometimes I'll just skim off the like top level of char, like it's the fattest thing
52:06 that a human being can do, but I absolutely love it.
52:08 All right.
52:09 Just a couple more here.
52:10 What would you say to someone that said meat is murder?
52:13 I'm a vegan.
52:14 Well, everyone's entitled to their own opinion.
52:16 And as you can imagine being in social media, you get some of that, uh, you get some of
52:21 that response and, and I don't know, I mean, I, I don't, you know, that's a tough one.
52:26 You're getting into, you know, people's emotions, big time.
52:28 So I think there's a place for them to live and a place for me to live.
52:31 And hopefully we can do it harmoniously together.
52:34 Well, you gave the diplomatic response.
52:36 I'll give the rude one.
52:37 You're not entitled to that opinion because that opinion is flat out wrong, sir.
52:41 Okay.
52:42 So you have a piece of meat and going about your business.
52:44 All right.
52:45 Enough with this vegan stuff.
52:46 All right, man.
52:47 Last question of the day.
52:48 What would you say to someone that said meat, Mitch Benjamin makes the best ribs and burnt
52:52 ends in the world?
52:53 I'd say, come on in, sit down, let's hang out and watch the game.
52:57 Hey, I figured you would say something like that, but man, we've gone everywhere in this
53:00 conversation.
53:01 We've talked about a lot of great things.
53:02 I appreciate all the time, but that is all for me.
53:04 Is there anything else you want to get off your chest?
53:06 Well, I, I've, I've wanted to share one more thing because you just brought it up.
53:10 I actually had a member of my team for several years that became a vegan.
53:15 He became a vegetarian.
53:17 So, but he still competed with us, still traveled with us, still did everything.
53:22 But when it came down to trying, you know, stuff before we put it in the, the little
53:26 white box, you know, the little, the blind box.
53:29 Yeah.
53:30 Yeah.
53:31 Before doing that, he wouldn't try it.
53:32 And there was a competition in Kansas City where as cool as it was a black car rolls in
53:37 and it's George Brett and Rush Limbaugh get out and it's stay there on a Saturday and
53:42 they're there all day, right?
53:44 And Rush is so into everything.
53:46 He's wanting to see how, you know, what we're doing, how we're cutting and he's eating.
53:49 I mean, he's got barber, you saw us all over him and we're towards the end.
53:54 It turns and everything.
53:55 And he notices that my, my buddy on the team isn't trying anything.
53:57 And he, he looks at him and he says, Hey, Greg, what, what's going on?
54:01 He goes, I'm a vegan.
54:02 I don't eat any of this stuff.
54:03 And he goes, that is the ultimate form of hobby.
54:08 You stay out here all weekend long and don't try anything.
54:11 I've never seen anything like that in my life.
54:14 That was kind of a funny thing.
54:17 That was kind of a cool testament to vegan still being able to barbecue.
54:20 Hey, that, that is actually one of the things because you, you legitimately and literally
54:24 do not get to enjoy the fruits of your labor.
54:27 And by the way, your Rush Limbaugh impressions pretty spot on.
54:29 I'm sure, you know, may he rest in peace, but you might have a future on Saturday night
54:33 live.
54:34 If they need somebody to come in and do Rush Limbaugh.
54:35 But Hey man, again, I super appreciate it, but Mitch Benjamin, thank you so much for
54:39 coming on Daunton life.
54:40 A man's podcast.
54:41 Thank you so much.
54:42 I really appreciate it.
54:43 Take care.
54:44 Have a great week, buddy.
54:45 There you go.
54:46 Guys.
54:47 I hope you enjoyed my time with meet Mitch Benjamin as much as I did.
54:48 But before we let you go, we are going to do a quick resilience boost.
54:51 As you know, by now, add on Daunton life, our mission is equipping men to push back
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55:00 So here's what we got for you.
55:01 We got the link here to meet Mitch's website.
55:04 So you can check that out.
55:05 You can buy his sauces.
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55:08 And that's what the next thing is.
55:09 The next link is actually a link where you can get a signed copy of barbecue revolution.
55:13 I would absolutely suggest you do that.
55:15 So right in time for Christmas guys, you got a lot of dudes in your life that need this
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This is a fun palate cleanser episode, guys, because I know we talk a lot about super heavy subjects and things that are very, very important, but they wear on you a little bit.
Mitch Benjamin
I think patience is the biggest thing. People they don't realize, oh, yeah, let's whip up a brisket. Well, you know, it could be 10 hours before we're 11, 12 hours before even trying anything.
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