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189 - JUSTIN BRIERLEY | Unbelievable Conversations About Belief

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189 - JUSTIN BRIERLEY | Unbelievable Conversations About Belief
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In this episode, I sit down with Justin Briarley, the host of the Unbelievable podcast, to discuss his journey of moderating debates between Christians and atheists for over a decade. We dive into his book, the importance of dialogue in faith discussions, and the challenges of remaining neutral while advocating for truth.
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0:33 - This is "On Daunted Life" a man's podcast.
0:51 I'm your host Kyle Thompson.
0:52 Let's get into it.
0:53 Our guys today, we've got a very special interview for you.
0:55 It is with Justin Briarley.
0:57 So you should have heard that name before,
0:59 because I talk about his show on my podcast,
1:02 literally all the time.
1:02 He is the host of the Unbelievable Radio Show
1:05 and podcast on premiere Christian radio over in the UK.
1:09 He's also the author of a book called Unbelievable,
1:11 why after 10 years of talking with atheists,
1:14 I'm still a Christian.
1:15 And guys, if you've heard me talk about this before,
1:17 it's been in the context of some of the best
1:20 and most polite debates you might ever see.
1:22 So this guy has spent, I think over 10 years now,
1:25 recording these interviews typically between an atheist
1:28 and a theist, but it's not just on, you know,
1:31 whether God exists or whether he doesn't.
1:32 He goes into a lot of different areas.
1:34 Like he'll go into areas of culture,
1:36 areas of race or areas of like specific minutiae
1:39 within the Bible or within theology.
1:41 But the thing about it is,
1:42 and you might find this typical because,
1:44 oh, he's English, everybody's polite over there.
1:46 But the thing is, is I've never heard more cordial debates
1:49 than the ones that he does on his show.
1:51 He is a tremendous moderator
1:53 and he's incredibly humble about it.
1:54 So I try to like poke him a little bit to let him know,
1:56 like he's actually really, really good at this.
1:59 But we really got to dig in on this podcast
2:01 on what he really enjoys about moderating,
2:05 why he enjoys moderating, why as a Christian,
2:07 he tries to be Switzerland,
2:09 he tries to just sit there in the middle of these conversations
2:11 and you know, what he does to kind of fight his urges
2:14 to want to just jump in and maybe save the Christian guy
2:17 or gal who's maybe not doing so well in the interview
2:20 or something like that, but also the book.
2:22 I thought the book was an incredibly accessible book
2:24 for most people and it's a book that,
2:26 if you're not like a big apologetics or theology nerd,
2:30 it's again, it's very accessible.
2:31 It's something that you can read.
2:33 It's something that you could even read with your kids
2:34 and get a better idea as to kind of what's going on
2:37 with some of these larger worldview topics.
2:40 And you know, it's going to be a little bit over
2:41 some of your kids' heads and most of our kids' heads,
2:43 but it just kind of is what it is.
2:44 But I really enjoyed spending time with him
2:46 because you get to go a little bit of a layer deeper
2:49 because when you're listening to his show,
2:50 he's just kind of again, the polite cordial moderator.
2:53 But in this interview, we got to dig down
2:55 in some more personal things.
2:56 So I really, really enjoyed that time.
2:57 So guys, without further ado, let's get into it.
3:00 Justin Briarly, welcome to Undaunted Life of Man's podcast.
3:05 - Thank you so much.
3:06 It's so great to be with you.
3:08 - I'm so happy you were the second guy from the UK
3:10 that we talked to.
3:11 We talked to a Welsh explorer.
3:12 So it's good to have some accents on our podcast.
3:15 And so I do want to give you the opportunity
3:18 to describe a little bit about what you do.
3:20 'Cause one of the things that I love to do on this show
3:21 is if there's an author or a show host or something,
3:24 it's always cool to hear them describe
3:26 what they've produced in their own words.
3:28 'Cause I've talked about the unbelievable radio show
3:30 and podcast a lot of times on this podcast.
3:33 I talk about it and refer people to it
3:34 as many times as I get the opportunity to do so.
3:37 But if you would briefly in your own words,
3:39 give us a rundown of what your show is all about
3:41 and why you decided to format it in the way that you did.
3:44 - Well, thank you so much for the invitation.
3:47 So I run a show and have been running a show
3:49 for, wow, 15 years actually called Unbelievable
3:53 with a question mark.
3:54 And it's all about bringing Christians
3:55 and non-Christians together in dialogue.
3:58 So it broadcasts actually on a Christian radio station
4:01 here in the UK, but it's really picked up
4:03 an international audience through the podcast.
4:05 We kind of got into the podcasting thing quite early on.
4:08 And so we actually have quite a diverse listenership
4:11 of both Christians and non-Christians across the world.
4:15 And it's very much about asking the questions.
4:18 Does Christianity make sense?
4:19 Can it stand up intellectually?
4:22 Is there evidence for God?
4:24 What about the history of Christianity,
4:26 the science and faith mix?
4:27 All of those kinds of questions we do on the show.
4:29 I sit down each week with different people
4:32 on both sides of these questions to debate them.
4:34 And yeah, it's been great.
4:37 It's been a great journey for me
4:38 as I've engaged with lots of atheists especially
4:41 along the way.
4:42 So we have a lot of atheist listeners now
4:44 all over the world.
4:46 But it led eventually to me writing a book as well about that.
4:50 It's called "Unbelievable,"
4:51 why after 10 years of talking with atheists,
4:53 I'm still a Christian.
4:54 So very much my case for Christian faith
4:58 and looking at some of the arguments and objections
5:01 for and against Christianity
5:02 that I've been dealt with on the show over the years.
5:05 And the show has kind of gone off in other directions too.
5:08 We were on a regular conference in London
5:12 and we've also done a few in the States as well
5:15 over the years.
5:16 We've got a special video debate series
5:17 called "The Big Conversation."
5:19 In fact, our next one begins this Easter actually.
5:22 So the very first episode of our third season
5:25 of "The Big Conversation,"
5:26 bringing some of the biggest Christian
5:27 and atheist thinkers together
5:29 for the biggest questions in life.
5:30 That begins on Good Friday.
5:32 So yeah, that's kind of what I do.
5:35 And I enjoy it.
5:37 It's always a challenge.
5:39 It's always stimulating.
5:40 And it's just enabled me to get to know
5:43 so many interesting people over the years as well.
5:45 - Right, and that's a great primer to the things that you do.
5:47 We're definitely gonna talk more about "The Big Conversation"
5:49 in your book, which I just finished here recently
5:51 and it's fantastic.
5:52 But one thing I did wanna kind of point out,
5:54 and I'm sure people appointed this out to you before,
5:56 I remember listening to some of your episodes
5:58 from years and years ago, right?
6:00 And it seemed like at that time,
6:03 'cause you typically do one, you know,
6:05 theist guest and one atheist guest.
6:07 That's typically how it works out.
6:09 But you seemed especially keen to jump in
6:12 into the debates a little bit earlier on
6:14 in your moderation career,
6:16 especially if the Christian guest was getting buried.
6:19 Like if they just weren't doing a good job,
6:22 it's like you couldn't help yourself a little bit,
6:23 but you don't really do that anymore.
6:26 You are a tremendously and almost like painfully good,
6:29 you know, moderator.
6:30 You are the Switzerland of moderators.
6:32 And so how hard is it for you to bite your tongue
6:36 during some of these debates?
6:38 - It is hard sometimes actually.
6:40 I've got to confess.
6:40 I mean, there's very often, as you say,
6:44 if you feel like, well, either side really is getting buried,
6:47 you kind of want to kind of stand up
6:49 for them a little bit.
6:50 But I am a Christian and I bring that with me
6:52 into the studio.
6:53 It's not like I can pretend I'm not a Christian,
6:55 though I do try as far as possible
6:57 to be that neutral person,
6:59 just making sure that both sides are heard,
7:01 both sides are brought out.
7:03 But yeah, I mean, it's interesting that you say,
7:06 you feel like it was earlier on in my career
7:08 that you've heard me kind of inserting myself more
7:11 into the conversations.
7:13 I guess I've always tried to make sure
7:15 that I'd bring the guests on
7:17 who are going to make the best case on either side.
7:20 And so I don't have to do that in a sense.
7:22 I must confess, I did quite recently, you know,
7:24 insert myself into one show.
7:26 We would, I was hosting a debate between
7:29 Guy called Dan Kimball, who's written a good book
7:31 on some of the hard parts of the Bible,
7:33 some of the most controversial passages in the Bible.
7:35 And I had him on with quite a hardened atheist guest
7:38 who came in to sort of debate that.
7:39 And Danny did a great job,
7:41 but there was a point of which I felt actually,
7:44 I really wanted to step in and ask some questions
7:46 that I didn't feel Dan was quite asking
7:48 about the subject, namely sort of how as an atheist,
7:53 what do they, is it within their rights
7:57 to criticize the Bible morally,
7:59 if there is no such thing as an objective moral standard
8:01 in the first place is a kind of philosophical issue.
8:03 But I kind of went in on that
8:05 and we did a bit of back and forth
8:06 and I ended up saying, oh, I'm sorry,
8:08 I shouldn't be the one debating you.
8:09 And I kind of handed it back to Dan,
8:11 but it's, so it's still a temptation to do that
8:13 because, you know, inevitably,
8:16 if you feel something hasn't quite been addressed,
8:18 you want to sort of try and do that yourself.
8:20 But I try and avoid it when I can.
8:22 - Well, I think you do a fantastic job of it
8:24 because there are a lot of times,
8:26 and you've mentioned this before,
8:27 and I think you mentioned it in your book,
8:28 there's a lot of people,
8:29 if they listen to your show for the first time,
8:30 they're not sure what you are and what you believe.
8:33 They're not sure that you're a Christian
8:34 or you're an atheist, they don't have any idea.
8:36 And so I think that lends itself well
8:38 to some of these conversations between people
8:40 that, you know, maybe the world isn't familiar with
8:42 all the way up to the big conversation
8:44 and maybe that's a good time to transition
8:45 to the big conversation.
8:47 You've had some real heavyweights debate on there.
8:50 You've had Jordan Peterson,
8:51 which is a huge guy for this podcast, "Listenership,"
8:55 but also Stephen Pinker and John Linux
8:57 and Daniel Dennett and in season two.
8:59 And then you said you're going into season three here soon.
9:03 Let's talk a little bit about the big conversation
9:05 and where did the idea come from
9:07 to really have these sit downs
9:08 between these enormously popular people?
9:11 Yeah, yeah, well, thank you.
9:12 I mean, the big conversation really is unbelievable,
9:15 but kind of with bells and whistles on in a way
9:17 because it was actually prompted by us wanting to,
9:22 we approached the Templeton Foundation,
9:26 which is a big grant-giving body in the US.
9:29 And I'd had loads of guests on the show
9:31 who had been funded by the Templeton Foundation
9:34 and they're interested in exploring science and faith
9:37 and the big questions of life and that kind of thing.
9:40 And we went to them with this proposal.
9:42 We'd like to put together a special video debate series
9:45 where we bring some of the biggest names out there
9:47 and we put them together in studio
9:50 and ask some of these big questions.
9:51 And thankfully they said yes
9:55 and it was particularly the funding for that
9:59 that allowed us to both be able to approach
10:01 some of those bigger names,
10:03 be able to bring people over,
10:05 be able to put on live events
10:06 and be able to kind of make sure it reaches
10:08 a wide audience as well.
10:09 So that was really part of the reason
10:11 was that we would be given the opportunity
10:13 through some funding for the show.
10:14 And yeah, and I think it's also just the fact
10:18 that the show has grown in popularity appeal,
10:21 has become more and more well known.
10:22 And so in that way, we were able to kind of, you know,
10:25 get up the guts to ask some of these really big names on.
10:28 I have to confess that the Jordan Peterson thing,
10:30 it was also just a lot of good luck as well in that case
10:33 because I had been hearing about Jordan Peterson
10:37 sort of in 2017.
10:39 He'd kind of, you know,
10:40 been become known for this stand he'd taken
10:43 against the enforced use of pronouns in Canada
10:45 and that kind of thing.
10:46 And people are being emailing me.
10:49 This was before he got really big saying,
10:51 "Oh, have you heard about this guy
10:51 "doing these biblical lectures?"
10:53 Really interesting sort of secular Canadian psychologist.
10:56 So he was kind of a little bit on my radar
10:58 and as I was then preparing to invite people
11:01 for this first season of the big conversation,
11:03 I had, I met up with an American friend
11:07 in London while he was over and he said,
11:09 "You've got to get this guy Jordan Peterson on your show."
11:11 So I said, "Okay, I'll try and make it happen
11:13 "for this big conversation season."
11:15 I emailed his publisher,
11:17 I realized he's got this book coming out
11:18 called "12 Rules for Life" and the publisher says to me,
11:22 she says, "Yeah, we should be able to fit you in.
11:24 "He's actually coming over to London in January
11:26 "for a bit of promotion for his book."
11:28 So I thought, "Fantastic, we'll get him in."
11:31 Well, as the date draws closer,
11:34 she starts emailing me saying,
11:35 "Ooh, this guy seems really popular.
11:37 "I hadn't expected how popular this guy is."
11:39 And she kept trying to whittle down the amount of time
11:41 I had because he was getting asked to do this interview
11:44 and that interview and suddenly they were booking out,
11:46 these big auditoriums for him.
11:49 And so finally, but I managed to keep like at least an hour
11:52 with him and this was her debate
11:54 with an 80s called Susan Blackmore.
11:56 And we actually filmed that in early January 2018,
12:00 just before he actually went kind of stratospheric
12:02 because it was just a couple of days after that recording
12:05 that he had that infamous interview
12:07 with Kathy Newman in the UK.
12:10 - Kathy Newman. - Julie Newman, news presenter.
12:12 And then he just like, pfft, it went crazy after that.
12:15 But I'd managed to bag my Peterson show just before that
12:19 and we held onto it until we released
12:20 this big conversation later in the year.
12:22 So yeah, a lot of people have discovered the show
12:24 because of that particular show.
12:27 - Yeah, and I would say, 'cause again,
12:29 I knew that was around the time of the Kathy Newman interview.
12:31 I wasn't sure it was that close.
12:33 But again, the thing that I like about this is
12:35 these are recognizable names.
12:36 These are people's whose names you recognize
12:38 from best-selling books.
12:40 And then they're coming and they're having these very cordial
12:42 but pointed conversations about everything, you know,
12:46 who we are, how did we get here?
12:47 Where are we gonna go when we die?
12:49 Like those foundational fundamental questions.
12:51 And in your book that you mentioned from the top of the show,
12:53 you go over a lot of those questions as well.
12:55 So again, the book is entitled "Unbelievable,"
12:57 why after 10 years of talking with atheists,
12:59 I'm still a Christian.
13:00 And so I would categorize it as a very accessible
13:03 apologetics book with a few sprinkles of autobiography
13:06 in there because I feel like you bring in your story
13:08 into the book as helpful.
13:10 But I did wanna point out one thing since we have
13:12 a little bit of limited time.
13:13 In the last chapter of your book,
13:15 there's a quote that I want you to kind of elucidate
13:17 further for our audience.
13:18 And I'll read the quote here.
13:19 It also feeds into the question that sometimes gets asked
13:22 by both atheists and Christians.
13:24 Why doesn't God simply make his existence obvious
13:27 to everyone?
13:28 If he is there, why does he hide himself?
13:31 Having devoted my life to hosting hundreds of debates
13:33 on the evidence, I've come to a rather shocking conclusion.
13:37 Maybe God isn't interested in people simply believing in him.
13:41 So go a little further on that because I felt like
13:44 of all the things to extrapolate from your book,
13:46 it was the arguments you were making there.
13:49 - That's interesting, yeah.
13:50 I mean, I come across this one frequently
13:52 and it's a fair question from many atheists.
13:55 Well, if God does want us to believe in him,
13:58 why doesn't he just make it undeniably true?
14:00 Why is he hidden himself in the way that he has
14:03 if he does exist?
14:04 And yeah, I'm increasingly, I've felt actually,
14:09 as I said, as you quote there in the book,
14:11 I don't think God is simply that interested
14:13 in us simply believing in him.
14:15 I mean, the Bible says even the demons believe
14:18 and tremble, but the point is what is God actually interested?
14:22 I think what God's interested in is us trusting in him,
14:25 loving him.
14:26 And that's a lot different to just believing in him.
14:29 I can believe that there's a cup of tea here in front of me.
14:33 It doesn't really make a lot of difference to my life though.
14:36 I don't have to put any trust in this.
14:38 You've got your coffee or whatever.
14:39 But it doesn't impact me a great deal.
14:43 Simply believing in things is giving your mental assent
14:47 that something exists really doesn't make much difference.
14:50 So, you know, I sometimes come across atheists as well.
14:55 I love my atheist friends and, you know,
14:58 the vast majority of my atheist friends and people
14:59 are highly respected and they're truthsy
15:02 'cause you know, they're genuinely looking for it.
15:04 But I do sometimes find atheists who say,
15:07 look, I would believe in God if he did,
15:11 if I had X, Y, Z proof, okay, and I'm buying okay.
15:17 And would you worship that God then
15:19 is sometimes my next question if I could, you know,
15:21 give you the evidence you need.
15:23 And that's a bit of a different question
15:26 to simply believing in God because actually,
15:28 when you worship something,
15:30 you have to feel like it's worthy of your worship.
15:33 And very often, an atheist would say,
15:35 well, no, I don't think I necessarily would worship that God
15:37 because this God would also have to satisfy X, Y, Z
15:41 other moral, you know, I couldn't believe in a God
15:43 who, you know, allows this or does that or whatever.
15:46 And the point is that at some point,
15:50 it's not about simply believing in God.
15:52 It's about whether you want that God in the first place,
15:55 I often feel.
15:56 I think there's often an underlying issue going on
16:00 about whether someone even wants there to be a God.
16:03 So it's kind of almost peripheral as to, you know,
16:07 just proving that that God exists.
16:08 The question is, does that person actually want that God
16:11 to exist?
16:11 Would it make a difference to their life
16:13 if that person did?
16:15 I think there's also a point here as well,
16:17 but God doesn't want to force himself on anyone
16:20 in the sense that I think there may be a case
16:23 for saying, God, there's a reason for God choosing
16:26 to remain hidden because, you know,
16:29 it would almost like take away our choice to trust in God
16:34 if you were kind of presented with God in a way
16:37 that's completely undeniable.
16:39 It's almost as though, you know,
16:40 God would be forcing God's self on everyone.
16:43 And I think God doesn't do that.
16:45 I think God sort of invites people to trust
16:48 and invites them into a relationship.
16:50 And that is a bit different.
16:51 And if you were sort of making your existence so obvious
16:55 that it could be, it couldn't be denied,
16:57 I think that would somehow for me be a problem
17:00 for people genuinely being able to choose God
17:04 if they wanted to.
17:05 - Well, and that's the argument that C.S. Lewis makes
17:07 in mere Christianity where he talks about, you know,
17:09 a world full of automatons.
17:11 It's not a world worth creating.
17:12 And by the way, it's not coffee.
17:14 It is tea 'cause I knew I was talking
17:15 to a proper Englishman this morning.
17:17 So, but no, that totally makes sense.
17:19 But it brings up a point since we've already been talking
17:21 about Jordan Peterson.
17:22 He's been asked, you know, a million times,
17:24 do you believe in God?
17:25 You know, do you believe in, you know, a deity?
17:27 - Yeah, I asked him as well, yeah.
17:29 - Right.
17:30 And one of the best times that I feel like he gave that answer,
17:33 he got so choked up because he's like,
17:34 if you actually believe that,
17:36 can you imagine what your life would be like?
17:38 And I think for a lot of people, it's like,
17:40 they want to conveniently be able to box their theism
17:42 or atheism, categorically.
17:44 But it's like, no, no, no, no.
17:45 This is not a category of your life.
17:47 It's your life.
17:48 It's the only question because here's the thing is,
17:50 as a theist, as a follower of Jesus Christ,
17:53 if I'm wrong about all of this, you know,
17:55 I've wasted about 10% of my money.
17:57 I've wasted time going to church.
17:58 I've wasted time talking to you and reading your book.
18:00 But if you're wrong as an atheist, it's everything.
18:04 You know what I mean?
18:05 Like that, like, that's what's on the line
18:07 of one of us being wrong.
18:08 But here we go, I'm preaching.
18:09 This is your interview.
18:10 Let's move on because this is a question
18:12 from the very beginning when I knew we were going to do
18:14 this interview that I wanted to ask you.
18:15 So it's a two-part question.
18:17 So I want to know if you could hold a debate,
18:20 if you could moderate a debate between any two living people
18:24 that have not been on your show yet,
18:26 and I have a guess as to who that would be,
18:28 I want to know that.
18:29 And then I want to know the second part of the question,
18:32 if you could moderate a debate between any two people
18:35 in history, regardless of the language they speak, right?
18:38 So let's just assume you can understand what they're saying
18:40 if they, for whatever reason, didn't speak English.
18:43 So the debate between two people that are alive
18:45 that haven't been on the show yet,
18:46 and the debate of all time.
18:48 And I do have a guess for both,
18:49 but I'll let you know if I was right afterwards.
18:52 - Wow, wow, what a question, gosh.
18:54 Okay, so two living people who haven't yet been on the show.
18:58 - Yep.
18:59 - Oh, well, on the atheist side,
19:02 if it's an atheist Christian debate,
19:05 I would probably have to go for someone like Sam Harris,
19:10 maybe he's kind of been the one that got away so far,
19:14 very, very well-known atheist.
19:16 Huge, huge audience as well.
19:19 So in a way, it's partially just 'cause I'd love
19:22 to kind of tap into all those Sam Harris fans
19:24 and introduce them to the show as well.
19:26 But I think he's a fascinating person,
19:28 and I'd love to get him on the show at some point.
19:31 Who would I put him into conversation with though?
19:32 That's the big question, isn't it?
19:36 - I've had most of the kind of big Christian intellectuals
19:41 on the show at this point,
19:43 so I'd be tempted to go back to what I was looking at.
19:46 - Let's change it a little bit.
19:48 - Yeah, go ahead.
19:48 - Right, so let's change it a little bit.
19:50 So Sam Harris is your new one.
19:51 So who would you wanna put opposite of Sam Harris?
19:53 You can put anybody.
19:54 - I could put anyone, okay, all right.
19:56 I would love to hear Sam Harris maybe engage
20:00 with someone like a Tim Keller.
20:02 I think that would be a really interesting discussion
20:04 to put them together.
20:06 I think there is some fascinating other people like,
20:11 he's coming on my show soon, actually,
20:13 for this first season of the big conversation.
20:14 But Bishop Robert Barron, I think,
20:16 is a really interesting Christian thinker
20:19 with a huge audience and doing really interesting things.
20:22 So there's someone else that I think would be
20:25 a great match up for someone like Harris.
20:27 But yeah, something like that.
20:32 I don't know, would you tune in for that?
20:33 Would that be one that you'd watch?
20:37 - Of course, because one of the things,
20:38 and I wanna make sure I get the second part of the question,
20:40 the thing about Sam Harris is I feel like he's the least
20:43 genuine of the new atheist because he doesn't scream as loudly.
20:47 And so all the other ones are bombastic and rah,
20:50 and they're very aggressive.
20:51 He's not very aggressive, but he's very smug.
20:54 He's very a matter of fact.
20:56 And so not only does he come off as a dummy
20:58 because of his arguments, he comes off as a very,
21:01 very smug elitist at the same time.
21:03 And so I am not a fan of Sam Harris.
21:06 Now I do approve of some of the ways
21:08 that he takes people down, like when Ben Affleck
21:10 was jumping down his throat on the Bill Marshall,
21:13 he just dismantled him by being calm.
21:14 And so in that way, I respect him,
21:16 but I don't find his arguments to be incredibly compelling.
21:19 But so that's what you would do for the two of the people.
21:23 - There were others I was sort of on the edge of as well.
21:26 I'd love to get Steven Fry on the show.
21:30 He's a well-known character here in the UK as well.
21:32 And in a sense, has a much more of a kind of general public
21:36 know who Steven Fry is.
21:38 And I'd love to have him on because you probably remember
21:42 in that video of him kind of berating God
21:44 what he would say to God if he went to heaven.
21:47 That kind of did the rounds a few years ago.
21:49 And I've never really seen him have a proper conversation
21:51 on that, so it'd be great fun to get him
21:53 in conversation with someone.
21:54 I have approached him a few times,
21:57 but it's always a very polite reply of no,
22:01 basically, so one day, who knows, who knows.
22:05 - All right, so now we got to get to your all-time
22:08 moderation debate.
22:09 So any two people in history, you're in between them.
22:12 You got three microphones.
22:14 Who's talking?
22:15 - Okay, so maybe in recent history,
22:21 if it was an atheist-Christian matchup,
22:25 I would love to see someone like C.S. Lewis versus,
22:30 I don't know, Nietzsche, or someone like that.
22:35 Some kind of incredible, that would be like,
22:39 the debate of the decade, wouldn't it,
22:41 to two people of that kind of stature.
22:43 I mean, if I'm allowed to go even further back,
22:45 I mean, who wouldn't want to see the apostle Paul
22:48 in Athens doing his thing?
22:51 Maybe opposite one of the great Roman philosophers
22:54 or Greek philosophers, Aristotle Plato, who knows.
22:59 If I've really got my choice of any ancient figure,
23:02 that would just be extraordinary, wouldn't it,
23:04 to see that kind of a matchup.
23:07 And I love reading that passage in Acts 17,
23:11 where you see Paul debating the thinkers of the day
23:14 in Athens, because that's kind of what I feel like
23:17 unbelievable is trying to do today in our generation.
23:21 But gosh, wouldn't it have been great
23:22 to have been in the crowd that day and see what happened there.
23:25 - Yeah, it would have been unbelievable.
23:26 I mean, I had a feeling you might say Paul,
23:28 but I really thought you would say C.S. Lewis,
23:30 because I feel like C.S. Lewis wrote about 15% of your book,
23:34 because you've called a C.S. Lewis so many times.
23:37 But as, so here's the thing, as a C.S. Lewis fan,
23:39 we have a book list on our website called 100 Books,
23:43 Every Modern Christian Man Should Read.
23:45 And we've got 15 different categories.
23:46 We have leadership and business, we have marriage,
23:48 we have money.
23:49 There's an entire section called C.S. Lewis.
23:51 He has his own section on the book list.
23:54 And so that's how important I think his writing is to us.
23:57 But yeah, I mean, a C.S. Lewis versus a Nietzsche
23:59 or a Karl Marx or someone like that,
24:02 I feel like that would have just been absolutely incredible.
24:04 But we are gonna drop down out of the world
24:06 of make believe now and come back down to the real world.
24:09 And so I feel like this question is gonna summarize
24:11 some of the other questions I wanted to ask you.
24:13 And it's, let's say this was the end of your career today.
24:16 Hopefully not, hopefully I don't get you in trouble
24:18 on this podcast so much that your career's over.
24:20 You know what I mean? Let's say today was the end
24:22 of your career and you could leave just one of your debates
24:27 that you've moderated for humanity.
24:30 So everything else that you've produced up to this point
24:33 gone in an instant, but you can leave one
24:35 that represents just and brierly, unbelievable,
24:39 premier Christian radio, whatever you wanna do.
24:41 What is that one debate that you feel like defines
24:45 what you've done up to this point?
24:47 I'm making you pick your favorite children.
24:48 - I know, I understand that. - Yeah, gosh.
24:51 Oh man, man, the trouble is actually just remembering them
24:54 all as well.
24:56 There's been like nearly 800 of them now.
24:58 So I'm kind of, I'm really struggling to think what,
25:03 what were they all and, you know, what,
25:07 I mean, there were ones that kind of, you know,
25:09 stick in the memory as really interesting,
25:12 great discussions between interesting people.
25:18 I mean, ah, this is really tough.
25:20 I mean, one of the ones I enjoyed the most,
25:22 and again, I'm probably just picking this
25:24 'cause it's happened in the last couple of years
25:26 and there were probably more if I wrapped my memory
25:30 going further back, but one of the ones I enjoyed most
25:32 was actually bringing John Lennox and Dave Rubin together.
25:36 We did that out in California in October 2019.
25:39 - Great interview.
25:40 That was great.
25:41 - Part of our big conversation season too.
25:43 And it was just very different because Dave Rubin
25:48 was so lovely, so very open and willing to basically
25:52 be grilled by me and the audience as well
25:55 in their questions.
25:56 And you just got the sense actually he was really
26:00 genuinely open to the idea that maybe there is a God
26:04 and maybe that God can be known.
26:06 And that kind of allowed us to go to a level
26:08 you don't normally go to in these debates.
26:10 Very often you do end up just at the conceptual
26:12 analytical debate level.
26:14 And there's a place for that.
26:16 That's where a lot of people are.
26:17 But it's really interesting sometimes to move beyond that
26:20 and to be able to actually say,
26:23 kind of engage more at an emotional, personal level.
26:26 And I feel that's what happened in that discussion.
26:27 And there was just, it was such an electric atmosphere
26:30 in the room when we did that thing live
26:33 with the audience there.
26:35 People were just on the edge of their seats
26:37 because there was a real sense that we were really
26:39 digging into a genuine sort of heartfelt conversation
26:45 on stuff that really mattered.
26:47 So it had an intellectual edge to it, obviously.
26:49 But it felt as much like John was really helping us
26:52 to engage some of the deepest desires
26:56 that Dave Rubin has.
26:57 And he just said some really interesting things.
27:00 He talked more than I'd heard him ever talk before
27:02 about his own spiritual journey, if you like,
27:05 where he'd gone from being sort of in the new atheist
27:08 or sort of camp to actually now essentially
27:10 rejecting the label Ateus saying that he's really
27:13 on this journey seeking.
27:13 He obviously talked at some length about the way Peterson
27:16 had influenced him as well in that.
27:18 So yeah, if I was forced to choose off the top of my head,
27:22 that might be a contender for the one to leave behind.
27:25 Well, the Irishman in me really likes the fact
27:28 that you picked one of John Linuxes.
27:30 So that was really helpful.
27:32 But I do want to, as we wind down our interview here,
27:34 there's a segment of our show that I love to do called,
27:37 "What would you say to someone that said?"
27:39 And then I fill in the blank with a statement.
27:42 And this might be a big statement,
27:43 it might be a small statement, but this is lightning round.
27:46 You have 30 seconds or less to give us your answer.
27:49 So we're going to strip away all the niceties,
27:51 we're getting just to the meat and potatoes.
27:53 So what do you say, yep for it?
27:54 - Yeah, so to remind me what I'm doing again,
27:56 I have to just insert something.
27:59 - Well, so basically, I'm going to say,
28:00 what would you say to someone that said,
28:02 oranges are the best fruit?
28:03 And you just have to give your opinion,
28:05 your answer to that in a little 30 second or less, John.
28:08 - Okay, all right, just my, off the top of my head,
28:11 immediate answer, I'll do my best.
28:14 I can't guarantee it'll make any sense, but I'll try.
28:16 Okay. - That's all right.
28:17 All right, here we go, let's try the first one.
28:19 What would you say to someone that said,
28:21 Justin Briarley is a wonderful moderator?
28:23 - I'd say, thank you very much.
28:26 I'm so glad you think that.
28:27 I don't always do a very good job,
28:29 but if you say I do, I'm very happy to accept that compliment.
28:32 - All right, what would you say to someone that said,
28:35 Justin Briarley is a terrible moderator?
28:37 - I would agree with you that often I am,
28:40 and there are many times when I've done a terrible job
28:43 of moderating debates, but please judge me in the hole
28:47 rather than by the last one you watched,
28:49 which obviously went very badly.
28:51 - That's very humble of you, but yeah, I appreciate that.
28:53 All right, let's keep going.
28:55 What would you say to someone that said,
28:57 Richard Dawkins is legitimately scared
28:59 to debate William Lane Craig?
29:03 - I'd say I think there may be some truth in that
29:06 because when we have ever invited him to debate anyone really
29:10 who's actually got the intellectual ability
29:12 to answer his issues, he's always turned us down.
29:16 And he's debated other people who frankly are easy wins.
29:21 So yes, I think you're telling the truth, sir.
29:26 I would say at that point.
29:27 - All right, Roger, that next one here.
29:29 What would you say to someone that said,
29:31 I'm not smart enough to engage in a debate
29:33 with someone about my faith?
29:35 - I'd say that's fine because ultimately talking
29:42 to someone about your faith is not ultimately
29:45 about winning an argument.
29:47 It's fine to say to someone, I don't know if they ask you
29:51 something or they challenge you with something
29:53 which you don't know, but just be truthful.
29:56 But say, I'd love to continue the conversation.
29:58 Let me go away, do some reading, find out a bit more,
30:00 and let's return.
30:02 Don't let fear stop you from continuing conversation.
30:07 And ultimately, people are just as interested in
30:09 the way you say things and the way you live your life
30:11 as your intellectual arguments as well.
30:15 - Right, I think that actually dovetails nicely
30:16 into the next one.
30:17 What would you say to someone that said,
30:19 apologists are more concerned about being right
30:22 than they are about serving people?
30:24 - I would say, unfortunately, you're probably true
30:28 a lot of the time, and it's one of the great dangers
30:30 of apologetics that we can make an idol
30:33 out of our intellectual arguments.
30:36 And ultimately, I don't think people ever are argued
30:39 into the kingdom of God.
30:40 Now, intellectual arguments dismantling some objections
30:43 may be a key part of someone's journey towards faith.
30:46 But ultimately, if the way you act towards them
30:50 isn't an example that they would like,
30:53 if what you're showing them isn't attractive
30:56 in the first place, people aren't gonna listen
30:58 to your arguments in the first place.
30:59 So I would say, yeah, we need to be people
31:01 who have good intellectual arguments,
31:03 but also lives that actually look like Jesus.
31:05 - Absolutely, just a few more here.
31:07 What would you say to someone that said,
31:09 in the end, a loving God couldn't possibly
31:12 send anyone to hell?
31:13 - I would say, yeah, I think I'd agree with that.
31:20 I don't think a loving God does send anyone to hell.
31:22 My view is that people choose it for themselves.
31:27 If there is a hell, the only reason people are there
31:30 is because they didn't want what God was offering.
31:33 And I believe in freedom.
31:34 I believe that some people choose that.
31:36 Now, it's a great mystery.
31:39 And you may think, well, why on earth
31:40 would anyone choose hell over God?
31:42 But actually, when I look around me,
31:44 I see a lot of people who choose to live lives
31:48 that are self-contained, selfish,
31:52 people who, if they were asked to bow
31:55 before anything other than themselves would struggle
31:58 to do that.
31:59 So for me, I don't believe in a God who sends people to hell.
32:03 I believe in people who choose it for themselves.
32:05 - All right, great answer, a couple more here.
32:08 What would you say to someone that said,
32:10 many people worship pastors more than they worship Jesus?
32:13 - I'd say there's probably a lot of truth in that, sadly,
32:18 because unfortunately, a lot of Western Christianity
32:22 is built kind of as a bit of a copy of the culture,
32:27 which is a very celebrity-driven culture right now.
32:30 And so that's the way often ministries and platforms
32:33 are built on a similar kind of celebrity-driven culture.
32:36 I think there are people out there with big platforms
32:39 who do use it wisely and humbly.
32:41 But unfortunately, it's very easy to fall into the trap
32:44 of following an individual rather than following Jesus.
32:47 And I think some of the most recent scandals
32:50 in the Christian world have taught us just how dangerous
32:52 that is, Ravi Zacharias and other key Christian leaders
32:55 who have fallen from grace.
32:57 It's a stark reminder that we need to be pointing people
33:00 towards Jesus and not to ourselves.
33:02 - Absolutely.
33:03 All right, Justin, the last and maybe the most important
33:06 question of the day, what would you say to someone that said,
33:09 talking with a British accent doesn't actually make you smarter?
33:13 - I would say, of course it does.
33:16 Can't you hear just how smart I am
33:18 by this amazing accent I have?
33:21 I've been told by all of my U.S. friends,
33:23 it makes me 50% smarter just speaking with this accent.
33:26 So I'm gonna claim that and I won't hear any different, Kyle.
33:30 All right?
33:31 - Hey, fair enough.
33:32 And if you need me to refer to you as sir,
33:35 Justin Briarly from now on, I can certainly do so.
33:37 And I gave you your partner over there,
33:39 Ruth Jackson, a compliment the other day.
33:41 I complimented her on her voice.
33:42 And she said, hey, people over here don't compliment my voice.
33:45 I should spend more time in the States.
33:47 Anytime either of you wanna come over and hang out with us,
33:49 we would surely love to have you.
33:51 - Yeah.
33:52 My serious answer to that though, Kyle,
33:53 is of course it doesn't make me any more intelligent,
33:56 but if it gives the impression I'll use whatever I can.
33:59 So yeah, thank you very much.
34:01 - I will absolutely take that.
34:02 Well, Justin, I really appreciate all your time
34:04 and we have gone all over the place,
34:05 but that is all for me.
34:07 Is there anything else you wanna get off your chest?
34:10 - Well, I would just say if you're interested in the show,
34:13 you can find it, you know, just search up in podcasts,
34:15 unbelievable, you should find it.
34:17 But yeah, do look out for our forthcoming season
34:19 of the big conversation.
34:20 Kicks off on Friday the 2nd of April.
34:23 You can download it on our podcast.
34:25 You'll be able to watch it
34:26 on our unbelievable YouTube channel as well.
34:29 And you can go to thebigconversation.show
34:31 to get signed up and make sure that you don't miss it.
34:34 We're kicking off with a great debate
34:36 between Bishop Robert Barron,
34:37 who's a big thinker out there,
34:39 and a well-known atheist YouTuber called Cosmic Skeptics.
34:42 So that's one not to be missed.
34:44 It begins soon.
34:46 And if you want more from me,
34:47 indeed, we've got signed copies of the book
34:50 and even a free kind of audible,
34:52 you get free audio book with an audible trial
34:54 and that kind of thing.
34:55 The easiest place to go these days
34:57 is my personal website as well,
34:58 which is JustinBriley.com to find out more.
35:01 - All right, guys, we will have all of those links
35:03 in the show notes, but for now, Justin Briarley,
35:05 thanks for coming on Undaunted Life, a man's podcast.
35:08 - Thank you, Kyle.
35:09 Great to be with you.
35:10 (upbeat music)
35:14 There you go, guys.
35:14 If you enjoyed my time with Justin Briarley, guys,
35:16 I really enjoyed the conversation I had with him
35:18 and it potentially might lead to some other interesting things
35:20 that we're gonna be doing with the unbelievable show.
35:22 So make sure you stay on the lookout for that.
35:24 But guys, before we let you go,
35:25 we are gonna do a quick, resilient boost.
35:27 As you know, by now, we are a men's ministry
35:28 and our mission is cultivating manly resilience.
35:31 And specifically, we do that by providing you content
35:33 like this podcast that helps you forge spiritual, mental,
35:37 and physical resilience and toughness.
35:38 So guys, the links I have for you today,
35:40 I've got Justin Briarley's website.
35:42 So it's just JustinBriarley.com.
35:44 I've also got a link to the Unbelievable Show website.
35:46 And then there's also an American website
35:48 so you can check that out as well.
35:49 And then there's an Amazon link to his book Unbelievable.
35:51 And then there's the big conversation website.
35:53 So guys, you should really spend some time
35:55 with those conversations because, I mean,
35:57 it's kind of in the name.
35:57 They are big conversations.
35:59 These are incredibly big topics with these huge people
36:03 that are huge in the areas that they study
36:06 and they're great intellectuals.
36:08 And it's amazing that they were able to get these people
36:10 in the same room to have these discussions.
36:12 So you should definitely spend some time with that.
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In this episode, we interview Justin Brierley. Justin is the host of the Unbelievable? podcast and radio show in the UK and the author of Unbelievable? Why After Ten Years of Talking with Atheists, I’m Still a Christian. In this interview, we talk about his book, what it is like for him to constantly moderate debates between Christians and atheists, what it was like interviewing Jordan Peterson, the two historical figures he would most like to have moderated a debate between, and much more! Let’s get into it…

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