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JOHN COOPER | Undaunted Cooper Life Stuff (Ep. 441)

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JOHN COOPER | Undaunted Cooper Life Stuff (Ep. 441)
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In this episode, Kyle Thompson sits down with John Cooper, lead vocalist of the band Skillet, to discuss a range of topics including delayed sanctification, cultural issues, and the importance of a strong biblical foundation in today's chaotic world. They emphasize the need for Christians to stand firm in their beliefs and present a positive vision for the future, especially regarding issues like abortion and the sanctity of life.
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0:48 This is Undaunted Life A Man's Podcast.
0:51 I'm your host Kyle Thompson.
0:53 Let's get into it.
0:54 All right guys, today we've got a special return guest to the podcast.
0:57 My name is John Cooper.
0:58 So he is the lead vocalist and bassist for the twice Grammy nominated and 12 time platinum
1:03 band skilled.
1:04 I might even be more than that now, but skilled is actually one of the best selling in most
1:07 streamed rock bands of the 21st century.
1:09 And a lot of you know him from his podcast Cooper stuff podcast is great podcast.
1:13 I've mentioned it a lot here on the show.
1:14 I've appeared on that podcast a couple of times.
1:16 A lot of you guys that listen to this now, you know, found me through that podcast and
1:20 he has been on our show way back on episode 187.
1:23 But the cool thing about this podcast is this is actually like a duo.
1:27 Like split episode kind of a deal.
1:29 And so essentially what was happening is they're on tour right now with theory of a dead man
1:33 and they're going all across the United States and they were coming through Tulsa.
1:37 So what we talked about, it's like, Hey, let's get together.
1:38 Let's hang out, but let's record a show and let's just release it on both of our podcasts.
1:43 And so this episode is going to be released on the Cooper stuff podcast feed and on Undaunted
1:47 Life A Man's podcast.
1:49 And so on this particular episode, we talk about a lot of different things.
1:52 Okay.
1:53 So, you know, I talked about something called delayed sanctification.
1:56 We got into a lot of cultural issues, issues within the church, within masculinity, all
2:01 the stuff we had, you know, kicked around as ideas of what we would talk about, what
2:04 he wanted to talk about, what I want to talk about.
2:06 We basically didn't do that because we just kind of let it flow where it flowed.
2:09 And you know, we flowed for a long time and we're both very happy with how it ended up.
2:12 But it was a really fun time hanging out with the folks from skill because I've gotten to
2:16 know them personally, specifically John, but really the rest of the band gotten to know
2:20 them personally been able to hang out with them a few times.
2:22 And whenever I went up there this time, you know, we just got to like, just hang out and
2:26 kick it for a little bit.
2:27 And it was kind of funny too, because some of you saw this on Instagram, you've been
2:30 calling me out about it.
2:31 So I need to talk about it.
2:32 So I, you know, they do like pushups like Corey, the, you know, that's John's wife and
2:36 she's the guitarist of the band, you know, that's one of the things they used to do right
2:39 before they would go out on stage.
2:40 They would do pushups and all that.
2:42 And so she and I joked about doing a pushup competition.
2:44 Well, John Cooper does a little bit of a physical warmup before he goes out there and does his
2:49 live show.
2:50 And so I was like, I'm not going to let you just work out alone in the green room.
2:53 And so he put on like, you know, T-25 or something like that.
2:55 And so we just got after it.
2:57 And then right after we got done, Corey walks in and it's like, okay, let's do this pushup
3:01 competition.
3:02 And the funny thing about it is she, if you don't know her, she's fairly petite.
3:07 And so she's maybe like five, one, five, two, something like that.
3:11 And you know, her arms are kind of short and I've kind of got like monkey arms for my frame.
3:15 And so when we start doing this little pushup competition, I was just going to try to match
3:18 her and do as many as she did and then kind of go from there and you know, cheer her on.
3:23 But like almost immediately, almost immediately, I was like, Oh crap.
3:26 Like her pushups are really fast because she's got those little arms.
3:28 And I was like, okay, I'm going to have to go really, really fast to keep up with her
3:31 because she just shot out of the gate.
3:32 And so what ended up happening?
3:34 I'm like looking at my form and I'm like, I'm not finishing my pushups.
3:37 I'm not going all the way out to extension.
3:39 And of course we got the, you know, PT police on Instagram, like, Oh, no, those things.
3:45 But at the end of the day, you're right.
3:48 You're absolutely right.
3:49 I didn't do good pushup reps because I was trying to catch this little gal that was on
3:53 fire, just absolutely crushing it on the pushup.
3:55 So that was kind of a fun deal that we got to do.
3:57 But yeah, I got to hang out with Jen and Seth and, you know, chat with them about the
4:01 things that they have going on after the show hung out with them on their tour bus and really
4:05 just got to talk about like, you know, some life issues, some things that are happening
4:08 in the conservative space, things that are happening in the Christian space.
4:11 And, you know, that's the thing is when you hang out with people like this, it's always
4:15 great when they're humble and when they're normal.
4:17 And that's exactly what these people are because again, they've been a band for like 30 years
4:20 or something like that.
4:22 And I think Jen is like the, the member that's been on the band, the least amount of time.
4:26 And I think she's been there like 16 or 17 years or something like that.
4:29 And so it's just such a cool group of people.
4:32 They're so unbelievably positive.
4:33 And I told John this that I was able to watch their show from the side stage and from backstage.
4:39 And when you look at the people in the crowd, they're just so happy to be there.
4:43 And it's not just because, Oh, you know, COVID shut down tours and now they're just thankful
4:47 to even have tours or things like that.
4:49 They're just thankful that there's something positive happening because if you listen to
4:52 skills, music, the lyrics are very positive.
4:55 The message is very uplifting.
4:57 And then John will go out there and share the gospel and share the love of Jesus with
4:59 people there from the stage, even if it's a mixed crowd.
5:03 And it's just such a positive environment.
5:05 And so guys, if you've never listened to skill or if you used to listen to them, have less
5:08 to them in a while, go back and support those people.
5:10 If they come on tour, they put on a fantastic show.
5:13 And if they come on tour, come, you know, go to their area or if they're come to your
5:16 area, go to make sure you buy tickets to their show, support them, follow them on Instagram.
5:21 It's just an absolutely awesome thing.
5:23 So I'm really, really glad to bring this episode to you, but I did want to do a couple things
5:27 right before we get to that.
5:28 I know it's a little bit of a long intro, but number one, I want to just go ahead and thank
5:31 the donors.
5:32 So one thing that I used to do is anytime that we would get a donation, especially with our
5:35 monthly donations that we get from people, as I would send an email to these people just
5:38 thanking them, it's become fairly cumbersome now because we have so many donors.
5:42 And so I haven't been able to like send those individual emails, but to the donors, especially
5:46 the monthly donors that listen to this, thank you so, so much for being part of what we're
5:50 doing.
5:51 Because I'm not lying to you when I say that the reason we're able to keep the doors open
5:54 and produce the content that we do is because of donors, we get a little bit of money from
5:57 advertising.
5:58 Like I didn't make hardly any money off of those hats because they were so expensive
6:02 to make those hats that sold out in one day, by the way.
6:04 So if you didn't get one of the green hats and you want some, just let me know when we
6:07 can maybe do another run.
6:09 But just thank you, thank you so much to the donors and to everybody else, guys, that is
6:12 how we're able to equipment around the globe to push back darkness because we have people
6:16 that are partnering with us.
6:17 And then one other thing, one little commercial, because there's a unique thing and I wasn't
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6:22 So a lot of you guys have responded very, very well to episode 435 of this podcast with Michael
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7:53 It's not going to be for everybody, but it's for those folks that are really wanting to
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7:58 And again, Michael produces such fantastic content.
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8:19 mob ties link in there in the show notes.
8:21 So guys, whoo, long as intro ever, but I had a great time with John Cooper.
8:26 We recorded a great episode, so without further ado, let's get into it.
8:30 What's up, everybody?
8:32 We're here.
8:33 Cooper stuff undaunted life together.
8:36 We're trying to say we're in a killer name.
8:41 Undaunted Cooper life stuff.
8:43 I'm just just mushing together the least creative, like name possible.
8:48 Undaunted Cooper.
8:49 I kind of like this.
8:50 Although Corey just did our sound check a second ago and she said we both had like,
8:53 I think the exact phrase was the world's sexiest raspy voices.
8:57 I think is what she said about both of us.
8:58 I think all her was raspy, but I'll take it.
9:01 Yours is a lot stronger than mine, so we'll see how this goes for the rest of this whole
9:05 interview.
9:06 That's not what she said, but still it's close.
9:09 So we're here, first of all, everybody needs to watch this instead of listen so they can
9:14 see the quality of chairs we're sitting on.
9:17 Look at these things.
9:18 Look at these things.
9:19 We're basically in a room right now that had to have been an antique shop at some point
9:22 in life.
9:23 Neither one of these chairs was made in the last century.
9:26 Look at this.
9:27 This is it, man.
9:28 Anyway, so yeah.
9:29 We're basically, all right, so skill is on the road.
9:32 We are in Tulsa.
9:33 Tulsa.
9:34 Tulsa, Oklahoma.
9:35 Yeah.
9:36 Tulsa, Oklahoma.
9:37 And we're playing here tonight in just a couple of hours.
9:41 And so we had to wait until sound check was done.
9:44 Long story short, we're recording in the Tulsa theater and this place is old, man.
9:49 It's really old.
9:50 It was very difficult getting up here, but we're here.
9:54 It's not the most beautiful thing, but we're making it work.
9:56 Thanks for driving down.
9:57 So you live in OKC.
9:59 Yeah.
10:00 So I lived just north of Oklahoma City.
10:01 And so like any time y'all come close, I'm going to force you to hang out with me.
10:04 So that's how that's going to work.
10:05 Yeah.
10:06 I didn't even want to, but you were like, can I please please please leave now?
10:08 I just showed up.
10:09 I figured that's the bus that they're in probably and then you answered the phone, which was
10:12 your mistake.
10:13 Yeah, we did it.
10:14 So we're doing like a combined episode here.
10:16 Yeah.
10:17 And so we're like releasing on both of our shows and I'm going to steal your thunder from the
10:20 very beginning, because there's something that I want to talk to you about that I text
10:23 you about right from the beginning.
10:25 So just see, I don't have any of that.
10:28 Like I can't just all of a sudden start singing, but like, OK, so something that I was talking
10:33 about with you a few weeks ago, I just sent you a text out of nowhere.
10:37 And I asked you, I was like, what do you think about delayed sanctification?
10:40 Right.
10:41 So it's kind of a heavy and a hard place to start here.
10:44 But I was talking about how like someone can become a Christian and then have like a super
10:49 long dry spell of, you know, maybe they're reading the Bible, maybe they're going to
10:53 church a little bit, but then like all of a sudden out of nowhere without any prompting
10:57 all of a sudden their appetite for scripture is strengthened, their appetite for expository
11:04 preaching goes through the roof.
11:05 You know, they don't see the value in starting a new show that they'll binge watch.
11:09 They're trying to like binge read, you know, books written by dead guys, and like we didn't
11:13 really have any time to, you know, really talk that through it all.
11:17 But I just wanted to kind of see where, where you were at with that, because the reason
11:20 why I'm asking is because that's where I feel like I'm at.
11:21 I was telling you, I was like, this is where I feel like I'm at in my life, where it's
11:25 like I've had these spells where it's like I didn't didn't think about the Christian
11:30 fathers and then think about reading scripture and it really came to head last year.
11:33 I read 53 books, but I don't think I read 53 chapters of the Bible.
11:38 And I was like, wait a minute.
11:40 This is a big problem.
11:41 And so this year it's like I've really toned down the number of interviews I've done that
11:44 have required books to read, you know, we added something called the forging table.
11:48 So more scriptural study, but like, have you, have you ever even even talked to someone
11:53 before that's like thought like delayed sanctification, like you're being sanctified, but it like
11:58 it didn't happen right after you were saved.
12:00 It's like, right.
12:01 It took like a 20 minute break or something like that.
12:02 Yeah.
12:03 Yeah.
12:04 I've never heard, I've never heard anybody use that word.
12:06 I thought you were saying delayed gratification at first.
12:09 So I thought maybe you said the wrong thing, you're meaning delayed gratification.
12:12 Yeah, different Asian word, which, which I don't know if you noticed, but like every
12:17 red hot chili pepper song has as a shun word, right?
12:21 You're right.
12:22 California cation.
12:23 Yeah.
12:24 Shun everything.
12:25 It works with their son.
12:26 Kind of drives me bad.
12:27 But anyway, so I'm not really heard that.
12:30 But yeah, I mean, I've definitely known a lot of people who have felt like, well, first
12:34 of all, we should say, yeah, sanctification is one of these great things in the Bible.
12:39 It's confusing, but it's such an amazing concept in that we have been sanctified.
12:46 We are being sanctified.
12:48 We will be sanctified.
12:49 So this is a process.
12:52 And so it makes sense that we have these times in our lives when all of a sudden we start
12:57 feeling something kind of ramping up.
13:00 There's a lot of change happening.
13:01 And that's why for some people, I don't know if you've ever talked to people like this,
13:05 they say, what's your testimony?
13:07 When did you give your life to Christ and some people go, well, I made a decision when
13:11 I was a kid.
13:12 But then they have all these.
13:13 I got baptized.
13:14 And then I got baptized again like 10 years later, like that kind of thing.
13:17 Yeah, you know.
13:18 And I think those are great conversations.
13:21 But true, the work of the spirit is a mystery and that there is a thing happening when you
13:25 say, I don't know.
13:26 I know the spirit was at work in my heart.
13:28 I knew I had faith.
13:29 I knew that God was beginning this regeneration in my heart.
13:33 But did I have that hunger?
13:35 You know, you don't want to say feeling close, because then all of a sudden it makes your
13:40 walk with God all about a feeling.
13:42 That's not really what you mean, but you mean an open, intimate relationship with Christ
13:47 in a way that I'm hungering for him.
13:49 I'm passionate for the word.
13:50 It's more like you're recognizing a closeness as opposed to the closeness being a point.
13:55 Like you're just recognizing like, it's almost like he's pulling me closer.
13:59 Not that he's getting closer to me, but he's pulling me closer to himself.
14:02 Maybe he's trying to show me something in this season.
14:04 But you know, then you start thinking like, why did the delay happen to begin with?
14:07 But part of it has to do like, well, you weren't reading the Bible.
14:10 You weren't reading God's Word.
14:11 You weren't spending a lot of time in prayer and your shock that you've felt far away.
14:15 It's kind of one of those things.
14:16 Yeah.
14:17 And it's definitely for me, I always find a reciprocal thing happening, hungry for the
14:23 Word of God.
14:25 And when I read the Word of God, the result is hunger for the Word of God, right?
14:31 So it's a little bit like, if people watching now might be, I know we just jumped right
14:35 in this, but people might be going like, I don't really feel hungry for the Word.
14:40 I read the Bible because I feel like I have to don't know if I'm hungry for it.
14:43 I would encourage people, love the Word of God and you're going to find that you want
14:48 more of it because all of a sudden you go, oh, this really is a lamp unto my feet.
14:53 This is an amazing thing.
14:55 So I think there probably are a lot of people like that out there.
14:59 These go to church, but not really ever gotten into that relationship with God when they're
15:04 reading the Bible, understanding it and wanting more of it.
15:08 Well, it's like your palate will change based on the stuff that you're eating.
15:11 So I'll talk to people that, you know, out of nowhere, they'll just come to this realization
15:15 and they're like, I've been going to this church for 10 years.
15:17 It's more of a secret, sensitive model church.
15:19 There's not expository preaching, but every week for years and years on end, they've been
15:24 getting skittles.
15:25 And it's like, it tastes good.
15:27 This is great.
15:28 It's very emotional.
15:29 But at the time you leave the parking lot, the skittles have worn off and now your body's
15:32 desperate for nutrition again.
15:34 And then they'll either stumble on the teachings of a expository preacher or the writings of
15:39 some dead guy that we're supposed to not pay attention to anymore.
15:42 And then all of a sudden it's like, wait a minute, I feel like there's maybe something
15:44 I'm missing.
15:45 It's like, it's been skittles, skittles, skittles, and then all of a sudden it's steak.
15:49 And it's like, I think I want more of this steak.
15:52 Like as fun as skittles are, I want to make steak the prime thing that I feast on and try
15:57 to get my nutrition from.
15:58 But yeah, I'll get emails from people that listen to the show.
16:01 And they're just like, yeah, like, how do I find, do you know of any churches in my
16:05 area?
16:06 And it's like, no, like I barely know the churches that are in mind because I go to one.
16:09 But it's just kind of that thing to where it's like, there's something there that you need
16:12 to continue to explore because you're not having these thoughts for no reason.
16:17 And that doesn't mean the church you're at is the devil or leading people down the wrong
16:20 road.
16:21 It might be.
16:22 But like at the same time, it's like you have a desperate desperation for something more
16:26 nutritious than what you're getting now.
16:28 And so go look for it.
16:30 I think that's right.
16:31 I think it's an I think it's an issue of depth, you know, of and not depth of the chair.
16:36 Because as you can see, he put me in a chair, a lot lower.
16:38 If you're watching this on YouTube, like, so I'm like sinking down the entire time.
16:42 But it's roughly the same size.
16:44 Okay.
16:45 Gosh, we're not the same size.
16:46 You're a lot bigger than.
16:47 Well, like height length away from the ground.
16:50 Arms do not look like like I got stung by be on the way in one side, just one side.
16:55 So I'm really close to the camera.
16:58 But I do think it's an issue of depth.
16:59 You know, I think that I think what you get with a lot of the seeker model, you get a
17:03 lot of therapeutic stuff.
17:04 It's a lot of this is how I feel good.
17:07 This is how God wants to help me through my day to day.
17:10 And of course, God does want to help you through your day.
17:13 And that's really wonderful.
17:14 But the more you get into the depth of the word of God, what you begin to find out is
17:20 that I don't even know what I, what I need today, so in other words, the seeker model
17:26 is this, I know what I need and I need God to give it to me today.
17:30 The depth of the word of God teaches you, you actually don't know what you need.
17:33 You think you want something, but it might not actually be good for you.
17:37 God knows what you need.
17:38 So in the seeker system, all it's like, you want, here's my life.
17:41 So it's like, I'm going to do what I'm going to do, but now I'm going to ask God to bless
17:44 it.
17:45 And so you want him to be the concrete in and around all the, you know, rebar that you
17:48 put in the ground, but it's like, no, it's like, where are we putting the rebar?
17:52 Like, what direction are you going and like all that?
17:55 And then we can worry about the materials later.
17:56 So it almost feels a little bit like that to where you're just like, well, what is the
17:59 phrase like moral therapeutic deism?
18:01 Like that's what the church has become.
18:03 It's like, okay, let's make you feel not even slightly challenged.
18:06 We certainly don't want to be offensive.
18:08 And if we do that, then we've failed and we've been, we've been unloving.
18:12 And so what we do is we make sure that you don't feel challenged, you leave comfortable
18:15 in your sin.
18:16 And then there's no formation or life change at any point.
18:19 That's exactly, that's a great way to say what I was getting at.
18:24 And in fact, we'll go back to delayed gratification.
18:26 Do you see how we bring it back?
18:28 Yeah, just right back around.
18:29 Let's go.
18:30 But I think that's a, I think that's a great way to say so.
18:32 The idea of delayed gratification, you know, as a parent, you know, you want your kids to
18:37 be happy and it's sometimes it's hard to say no to your kids because you love them so much
18:40 and they're like, yeah, I want to eat ice cream and no, we're not doing that now.
18:44 You eat your peas first, right?
18:45 You eat your vegetables and whatever.
18:47 But the idea is that you need to teach your kids to do what they need to do.
18:53 And then if there's time after they do what they need to do, that's their homework, their
18:58 chores, all the things that you're supposed to do, if you have time, well, guess what?
19:03 Now you get to do what you want to do.
19:05 And they are learning to delay the things that they enjoy doing.
19:10 And that's good because if you don't do it with kids, then they just, they get spoiled,
19:14 they get what they want all the time, they don't learn disciplines and they just become
19:18 lazy and stuff and it's not good in a lot of ways.
19:22 And so I think what moralistic therapy or deism, as you said, and to some extent the
19:28 seeker model, what it teaches us is to be the sort of anti-delayed gratification.
19:35 This is what I want.
19:36 This is what I need.
19:37 But in the end, it's like the Lord is like, that's actually, that's what you think you
19:42 need, but if you were to understand, my design, this is God talking here, if you will, if
19:48 you were to understand my design, you would understand that I know it's good for you.
19:53 And so you need to understand these systems, the way the world is built and the way that
19:58 humans are built, you think you want it and it's not going to be good for you.
20:01 But I am going to taste good.
20:04 I'm going to actually be what you want.
20:06 You just don't know it.
20:07 And so I think once you get into the depth of the Word of God, I mean, when I look around
20:12 now at society, there's no stability.
20:17 People are so chaotic.
20:19 Young people a lot of times, and I'm making fun of them, I feel bad for them, don't know
20:23 how to express what they even, they can't express what they even feel.
20:28 They can't put it into words because they are so utterly confused.
20:32 And I think all of this goes back into, in terms of the church, we are not teaching this
20:39 sort of depth, the systems, the way the world is created, the created order, the way that
20:43 life is supposed to work so that we can fit into God's order and thrive.
20:47 Well, you say stability.
20:49 So if you're building a pyramid, obviously you need to make the base as wide and as strong
20:53 as possible.
20:54 And so those are the first things, right?
20:57 So when people talk about first things first, but the problem is we're trying to build the
21:00 pyramid upside down.
21:02 And so there's so much instability in people's relationships.
21:05 There's so much instability in people's theology.
21:08 And then that has downstream consequences with every other subject.
21:11 So a pastor might be, you know, banging his head against the wall.
21:13 Why can't I get the congregation to believe that, you know, we should protect human lives
21:17 in the womb?
21:18 It's like, well, they don't even have a foundational idea that human life is of infinite value,
21:24 that people are made in the image of God.
21:26 And so we're starting with the political and we're, we're not presupposing that there
21:31 are things before the political, right?
21:33 And so I used to do this thing back in the day, it's like kind of a church campy type
21:36 deal, but you get a big clear bucket and then, yeah, you're good.
21:40 But it's like, you've got a big clear bucket and it's like, Hey, here are the most important
21:44 things in your life, like your faith, your family or whatever.
21:46 And those are like softballs that you put in the bucket.
21:48 And then you start working your way down to like, okay, now baseballs, okay, now golf
21:51 balls, okay, now marbles, okay, now sand.
21:54 And you know, we talk about, you know, eventually when you fill it up with sand, you can't even
21:57 see the things that are important to you.
21:59 That's where we are now to where there's so many things to be concerned about.
22:03 We're concerned about why we got 80 likes on this Instagram post as opposed to a hundred
22:08 likes.
22:09 And we're not focused on what is God trying to show me through his word was God trying
22:12 to lead me to or point me to in a particular direction.
22:15 Yeah.
22:16 It's because we're building the pyramid upside down and it's kind of like what we were talking
22:19 about earlier a couple hours ago where it's like, we don't have our pastors are worried
22:25 so much about being offensive to people that they're forgetting the gospel or they're thinking
22:29 that there's a cuter, less offensive way to present it.
22:32 And it's like the gospel in and of itself is offensive and you should start there in
22:38 your churches.
22:39 Like every sermon should in some way point to the gospel because the entire book points
22:44 to the gospel, right?
22:45 They didn't know that whenever the Old Testament was being written as it was being lived out
22:49 in history back in the day, but kind of where we're at now it's like, no, we've seen the
22:53 end of the story.
22:54 We know where this goes.
22:55 It's like, but we don't want to, we don't want to hang our hat on that because it might,
22:58 you know, make people feel sad, which, you know, I know, I do know what you mean.
23:04 So I have so many thoughts on so many things that you just said, but, you know, I think
23:10 like, for instance, maybe I'll give an example because I think people might be able to relate
23:14 to this in some way because everybody watching just got things they want to do with their
23:18 lives, right?
23:19 Maybe they want to be a musician or whatever the story is.
23:22 But I'll just tell somebody a story about a musician and, you know, a friend of mine
23:30 that I want to play music, I feel called to play music, it's my life's dream, I've worked
23:35 for it for years, I prayed for it and God has never given me this, this, he never gave
23:42 me my dream.
23:44 I have friends like this and I remember saying to my friends, I was like, has it crossed
23:51 your mind?
23:52 No, don't be me.
23:53 Has it crossed your mind that God might not have given this to you because it's not good
23:59 for you?
24:00 It, yes, he wants to give you the eyes of your heart.
24:03 Has it crossed your mind that God works all things together for the good of those who love
24:08 Christ according to his purpose?
24:09 What if it's not actually good for you because I know people who used to live for Jesus,
24:16 they prayed for that music gig, they finally got that band and they, guess what, they even
24:21 had a radio hit and all of a sudden, and they're not walking with God anymore, they don't want
24:25 anything to do with Christ, you know, they almost denied him the first chance that they
24:29 got, right?
24:30 First time they got pushed back.
24:32 First time they got pushed back, boom, yeah, no, I'm a Christian, but boom, they're done.
24:39 And in the end, wouldn't you rather have your salvation than play in a band?
24:44 That's ridiculous.
24:45 So, some of this, I think comes down to a, as you say, the pyramid is a great example,
24:51 building a wide base.
24:52 What does God want for my life?
24:54 It's not about what I want for my life.
24:56 What does God want for my life?
24:58 How can I glorify him?
25:00 First things first, I want to glorify God.
25:03 And if there's something in my life that I want, but God knows it's going to take me
25:08 down a path where I deny Christ, or I, God forbid, you know, cheat on my spouse, or abuse my
25:17 child, or whatever that thing, I mean, that I don't want that, and I'm going to trust
25:22 the Holy Spirit, the faithfulness of God, I'm going to trust Him to keep me away from
25:26 even the things I'm praying for that I think I want if they're not good for me.
25:30 You know, I mean, all this is, this is such rich Bible truth that we should be teaching.
25:37 So the thing that you're, you're nailing right here as well, John, is that when you
25:43 start lamenting that you're not getting what you feel like you deserve, it's a very narcissistic
25:47 place of being, but you're also assuming the knowledge seat of God.
25:51 And so the way that you've probably seen, excuse me, that you've seen, you know, Christian
25:56 apologists do it before is when they're talking to an atheist, they'll say, Hey, if you had
25:59 to put a percentage on it, what percentage of all the knowledge in the universe do you
26:04 possess?
26:05 Like, and then, you know, if they answer honestly, it's like, well, less than 1%.
26:08 So if you look at it like a pie chart, like it's a little thin sliver, like you can't
26:13 even find a marker with a thin enough tip to draw the sliver of stuff that you know.
26:18 But in that sliver of stuff that you know, you know, beyond a shadow of a doubt that
26:22 God doesn't exist and that his son wasn't sitting here to die for you to where you would have
26:27 propitiation for your sins so you could be before a Holy and just God.
26:30 It's not possible.
26:31 So you're saying that that possibility and that knowledge is non-existent in the other
26:36 99.999 repeating of knowledge that there is in the universe, right?
26:40 That's what you're saying.
26:42 We're presupposing the same thing when we get so disappointed that God isn't answering
26:46 our prayers with the things that we think that we want.
26:49 And that's the exact reason why because it's, you know, maybe it's that they just don't
26:53 have the skill set because you need to have skill set passion and have that confirmed
26:56 by the marketplace and the marketplace could just be your friends and family that yes,
27:01 you're good at this.
27:02 Yes, you're passionate about it.
27:03 So you're going to keep working at it.
27:05 And yes, everyone agrees that this is something that you are absolutely talented at.
27:09 But it could go to the exact place that you're saying where it's like, God knows that you're
27:13 going to deny him at the first state.
27:15 But let's say you start denying him after your single blows up.
27:19 Now you've got a few thousand dorks that are just like hanging on your every word like
27:23 trying to like, Hey, what's this?
27:24 What's my favorite guitarist or singer or artist or whatever saying now?
27:28 And then you may have created an entire generations worth of deconstructionists or people that
27:34 are just also on their faith is just going to disappear like a fart in the wind.
27:37 And it's just because you play an instrument that they like to hear through their ear holes.
27:42 And now all of a sudden, and it all goes back to God gave you what you wanted, right?
27:46 Or God allowed for free will to take place.
27:48 And now all of a sudden look at the position that you're in and the position you're creating
27:51 for other people.
27:52 Absolutely.
27:53 I mean, I think, I think all these things are so very important when we are really
27:58 talking to Christian people or non-Christian people, of course, about building our lives
28:04 upon the Word of God.
28:06 Why that matters?
28:07 And I know for people who aren't Christians, it just sounds to them like building upon
28:12 some old book, I don't really get it, but for Christians, we need to, I think we need
28:18 to reawaken to the Word of God, reawaken to the significance of this book that we have.
28:26 You know, I mean, I was reading, I was reading a story that I've read a hundred times just
28:32 this week, right?
28:33 You remember the story in the Old Testament?
28:38 They are bringing the Ark of the Covenant back to, they want to bring back to the city
28:42 of David.
28:43 Of course, you're not supposed to touch the Ark of the Covenant.
28:46 They're going down.
28:47 They're singing the whole thing and they trip when they're caring because they have like
28:51 the poles on the Ark and they trip.
28:53 And I think Yuzah, or whatever his name is, Yuzah reaches out to steady the Ark of the
28:57 Covenant.
28:58 He's going to want to hit the ground.
28:59 He touches it, which he's not supposed to do.
29:00 He dies.
29:01 I mean, I've read the story a hundred times, but I, for some reason, I never paid attention
29:08 to it right after that.
29:10 He touches it.
29:11 He dies.
29:12 David is upset.
29:14 But then it says that the fear of the Lord came on David and then he was like, I don't
29:20 want the Ark of the Covenant coming to the city of David.
29:22 I'm too afraid.
29:23 I'm afraid of the presence of God.
29:26 No.
29:27 This is David.
29:28 Right.
29:29 This is a man who's known the presence of the Lord since he's a kid in a prophetic way,
29:35 in a way that other people did it at the time.
29:39 And so you're looking at this going, he is so afraid of God that he says, I don't want
29:44 to bring the Ark back.
29:45 And they leave it.
29:46 I can't remember the guys.
29:47 They leave for three months.
29:48 And then they go back and they end up bringing in and that's when David dances, you know,
29:53 and he makes a quote unquote fool of himself the whole thing.
29:56 We know the story, but I never really read the part where he says, the fear of the Lord
30:00 came on and he said, I don't want it back.
30:02 And I remember thinking, man, we do not believe in the fear of the Lord in any way these days,
30:09 because Jesus is our friend, which is an amazing truth.
30:12 Jesus is our friend, but it is right to have this fear of the Lord.
30:16 And I think that if all you ever do is go to church meetings where we're all saying,
30:21 what does God have for me today?
30:22 He wants me to be happy and blessed and what you are not going to walk away with a reverent
30:28 fear of God.
30:30 And if you don't have a reverent fear of God, then you cannot love God properly.
30:34 There's no true love of God without fear of God.
30:37 So I think that us reawakening to what this book is is just a wonderful thing.
30:41 Well, reverence is the right ordering of things in the right way of looking at people like,
30:45 if you've ever been in a room before and you've probably experienced this because you've
30:48 ran in some different circles with celebrities and artists and all that, there's certain
30:51 other people that are around me have run with celebrities.
30:53 Yeah.
30:54 I want to be clear.
30:55 Okay.
30:56 Well, it's like that's what you're doing right now.
30:57 No, no, but like just think about like some certain people walk in a room and then everyone
31:01 gets hushed.
31:02 Oh, yeah.
31:03 And then there are other people that they're such big personalities at the moment they say
31:06 something that's even vaguely funny, everyone laughs.
31:08 And it's just like because you're reverent for that person.
31:10 And just the thing about this way is if God's not scary, like then Jesus is just your cosmic
31:17 boyfriend.
31:18 And so if he's just your cosmic boyfriend, then aren't you going to sing songs that almost
31:22 places him in the place of being a cosmic boyfriend?
31:25 Like we don't make songs about the fact that he comes back with his robe, dipped in blood
31:28 and tattoo on his leg and, you know, sword in his mouth and all the, but we don't talk
31:32 about it that way.
31:33 That's why, you know, in adult to life, we talk about the lion of Judah all the time.
31:36 And it's not because the lame of God is not important.
31:38 It's the exact opposite.
31:39 It's like, you can't really understand who Jesus is.
31:42 If you don't understand him has grace and truth, lion and lamb.
31:47 And we have so much focus on the easy stuff.
31:49 It's easy to understand the lamb to a degree.
31:52 It's easy to understand, you know, hey, we just want to, we just want to feel good and
31:56 we want grace because grace makes us feel good.
31:59 The truth part is scary.
32:01 Lion part is really scary to us.
32:03 And that, that's kind of what you and I were talking about earlier.
32:06 It's like pastors will kind of gravitate towards the stuff that's easier to talk about because
32:11 it's really hard to build a multi site church with, you know, in all you talk about is like
32:16 spiritual warfare or like, you know, obscure Old Testament stories that people don't really
32:20 care about anymore.
32:21 Cause hey, it's 2023, like why are we even talking about this?
32:23 But yes, like if you don't understand that God is scary, not scary, like, you know, horrible
32:28 scary.
32:29 He's scary.
32:30 Like if you don't do the things that he requires of you, it goes poorly for you.
32:34 He's scary for you are good and we just, we don't think of it that way.
32:39 Yeah.
32:40 Yeah.
32:41 Absolutely.
32:42 I mean, it's also funny.
32:43 I mean, we are such a product of our culture is just, it's, it's really annoying and funny.
32:49 But there are a lot of things that people go, well, yeah, because, you know, it's, we don't,
32:55 people don't like to think of God like that because, you know, people like, for instance,
32:59 let me rewind, here's what I'm trying to do, people sometimes attribute things to human
33:04 nature that are not accurate, right?
33:07 It's because your culture has made you think that one of these things would be sometimes
33:12 people that are always banging on the church, right?
33:15 They're always like, the church doesn't help the poor and it's, and they don't ever do
33:18 enough for whatever.
33:19 And, and it's always, all you got to do is read a little bit of history and you find
33:23 out actually the only, the only reason that you think that people just really want to
33:28 help the poor is because you've grown up in America, right?
33:30 Which was a, a nation built on Christian principles.
33:35 It was Christianity and, and even Yahweh, in the Old Testament, who taught people that
33:41 they should care about the poor.
33:43 It wasn't like that was, everybody was care about the poor and then, you know, Christianity
33:46 changed it.
33:47 Come on, it's, it's, it's the opposite way around.
33:50 And it's the same way, and, you know, what you see in the Old Testament when Yahweh comes
33:56 in the picture, changes, changes history.
34:00 I mean, before, before, you know, the Old Testament Scriptures, what you're dealing
34:04 with is a, a belief in polytheism, dealing with gods, gods that are terrible and mean
34:12 and violent and, you know, we hear these stories, they, they eat their children or the children,
34:19 the, the, the children wants to have sex with his mom and so he murders his own father.
34:25 I mean, these are the gods, all of creation was believed to have, have been created through
34:31 these wars between gods and, and bloodshed and rape and murder and the God of the Bible
34:38 shows up.
34:39 Yahweh shows up and, and he is a God of mercy.
34:43 He's a God whose mercies are new every single morning.
34:46 This makes no sense.
34:47 Right.
34:48 This is a God that is, that, that is personal and he, he knows your name and he calls you
34:53 by name and he wants to have a relationship with you.
34:57 And he humbles himself to make a covenant with men.
35:01 This is not something that, that the pagan gods did.
35:04 This would be way beneath them.
35:06 And so what you see in Yahweh is a God that is both, higher than the other gods, because
35:13 he is seen as a God above gods, if you will, he's the one who created them, the, the sky
35:20 and the moon and all these things that, that, that people worshiped.
35:24 So what you see is Yahweh coming and saying, yeah, you know those things you worship like
35:27 the sun.
35:28 I created those things.
35:30 So he's higher than them, but he also has humbled himself to, to be imminent and is what
35:36 they call it in theology, right?
35:38 So all these things that I know your name, I want to make a covenant with you.
35:41 Here's what I'm going to do for you.
35:43 I, you know, I will not leave you, I will not forsake you.
35:45 It's amazing stuff, but we take it for granted.
35:48 Right.
35:49 In these crazy ways that, so you know, well, of course I can relate to God as being a
35:53 nice person, but not so am I, I'm afraid of, but that's only because you've been trained
35:57 to think that because of what Christianity did, it is right.
36:01 It was in a Batman Begins, remember the movie Batman Begins, Falcone, he's like the mob
36:06 boss.
36:07 And I remember the beginning, you know, before Bruce Wayne's become Batman, he's got, he
36:12 goes into the bar and he's going to kill Falcone and he goes, he's all tough.
36:17 And if Falcone was like, Hey, you got a lot of heart, I'll give you that.
36:22 But, but you're in a world that you don't understand and you always fear what you don't
36:27 understand.
36:28 Right.
36:29 You're always going to be afraid.
36:30 And that kind of creates Batman.
36:32 That's true.
36:33 You think you're not going to be afraid of the living God?
36:36 It's a really, it's an asinine thought.
36:38 Well, it's the same thing when you see atheists make arguments about how God doesn't exist.
36:43 What they're using is a Christian framework built on a Judeo-Christian ethic to even make
36:47 their arguments because they'll say something like, what about these bad things that happened
36:52 to good people?
36:53 Right.
36:54 I was like, but if we're all just highly evolved chimps that wear clothes and talk to one another
36:58 and that we're our, you know, we're just ants, our ancestors were, you know, fish and goo
37:02 and stardust before that.
37:04 It's like, what does this matter?
37:06 Like none of this matters.
37:07 Like you're putting a value system that you learned, like so they're smuggling in Christianity.
37:12 And they're kind of, but like even think about it, why do we have hospitals?
37:17 Why do we have universities?
37:18 These are Christian institutions.
37:20 Why are all these hospitals named after Christians?
37:22 Right.
37:23 Well, I was started by Catholic.
37:24 Same thing with these universities.
37:25 Go read the founding documents of Harvard and Yale and Penn and Princeton and Cornell.
37:30 Like these were meant to be Christian institutions for the equipping of the saints and the spreading
37:34 of the gospel and things like that, not in kind of a modern theological sense.
37:38 But again, it's like, where do you think you got that idea that we matter?
37:42 Yes.
37:43 Because like, you think that matter came from non matter and I'm changing, you know, talking
37:47 about different matter now, but it's like, you know, so you're saying that time, space
37:51 and matter came from a timeless, spaceless, immaterial place.
37:57 Please explain that to me.
37:58 Right.
37:59 And don't say, well, it happened trillions of years ago.
38:00 I don't quite understand.
38:01 Yeah.
38:02 And then say, and it has to have value right because there is no value system.
38:07 No.
38:08 I always, I always say, like, I don't want any of my atheist friends, obviously, do not
38:13 want them to be nihilist.
38:16 I don't want them to kill themselves.
38:18 I don't want them to be depressed and go and get and live lives of alcoholics.
38:23 But I, if I did not believe in God, nihilism makes a lot of sense to me, right?
38:30 Because you're right.
38:31 You say, well, we exist for, for what purpose?
38:34 For what reason?
38:35 Well, there isn't a reason then why are we valuable and I can appreciate this sentimental
38:42 feeling that we want to matter and that it, your life will be better for you if you live
38:48 as if you matter.
38:49 I can appreciate that, but from an intellectual standpoint, without a creator God, I don't,
38:57 I don't see where you can find the value.
39:00 So I do think, right, I think that people are smuggling us all just this week.
39:05 We posted something on Skillet.
39:06 I think that I was at a concert.
39:08 I think I had said something to the crowd about that you matter.
39:10 You're fearfully and wonderfully made, which, of course, is a Bible verse.
39:13 But your life matters.
39:14 I don't care if you're Christian or not, where you come from, color your skin, your
39:18 life matters and I care about you.
39:21 And in people, you know, on Instagram, cool, you know, somebody said, I absolutely agree
39:24 with this because it's taken trillions of years to get the, and I don't remember his
39:30 words, the isotopes of so-and-so to align together so that we could, so, so we, so we
39:34 should make this life count.
39:36 It was his way of saying, I'm an atheist, but I do agree that we matter because it's
39:41 taken trillions of years to make all this happen and, and I appreciate his comment, but
39:45 I'm just like, like, I'm glad that, I'm glad that you can find meaning in that because
39:50 I don't, I don't want you to go down a nihilistic rage that ends in suicide.
39:55 But that's not enough for me, you know, I know that I matter because God is real.
40:00 Right.
40:01 That's what defines it.
40:02 Well, you have to granularize it a little bit to where it's like, okay, let's go to
40:05 a granular level and let's say there's a newborn child sitting here on this table and I've
40:12 heard people use a similar example to this and it's like, okay, so I take a hammer and
40:15 I bash the head of this baby in.
40:18 Good gracious.
40:19 Is that wrong?
40:20 I'm sorry.
40:21 I didn't come over the example.
40:22 I didn't come over.
40:23 Don't talk to them.
40:24 Don't ask them.
40:25 Okay.
40:26 Watch this.
40:27 Okay.
40:28 It's a teddy bear.
40:29 It's like, okay, but it's like, okay, so someone, someone ends the life of a child and
40:35 then it's like, and you would say that's wrong, correct?
40:38 And they would say, well, yeah, of course that's wrong.
40:40 Explain to me why.
40:41 Why is that wrong?
40:43 Because if we're, if we're just Darwinian, if we're just, you know, materialist or something
40:48 like that, then that is a stronger ape or stronger chimp that took something life away
40:54 from a younger chimp.
40:55 And I, if I am the stronger chimp that did that thing, I can say, well, we only have
40:58 a finite amount of resources.
41:00 It's kind of this anti-natalist position of a lot of people that push the green movement,
41:04 but it's like we have this finite set of resources.
41:07 And you know, obviously, and let's just say that the kid had some sort of abnormality,
41:11 some sort of deformity of some kind of, it's like, what?
41:13 This is perfect.
41:14 We're getting them out of the gene pool because our genes are what matter.
41:17 You know, you have someone like Dawkins saying, yeah, we dance to our DNA.
41:21 If you go by that as a worldview, you're going to eradicate anyone who has DNA that
41:26 you deem as unworthy for pro-creative purposes.
41:29 Yeah.
41:30 Right.
41:31 And so there is no next step with those people because you have to get them to the point
41:34 to where if they take their ideology to its actual end, it is, I can't say that it's
41:40 wrong.
41:41 I can just say that I don't like it.
41:42 And it's like, that's at least an intellectually honest position.
41:44 It's gross.
41:45 Like it's, that's a rough place to be, but it's like, at least it's intellectually honest.
41:49 But that's where you have to put people, I think that Christians a lot of times, John,
41:53 they feel like they feel like they're, what they need to be the ones on the defensive.
41:57 So they're always on their heels where it's like, if you have the moral position, like
42:01 if you were a, you know, a parrot of the Judeo-Christian ethic, which it, which undergirds the entirety
42:07 of society, then why don't you feel like you can ask a question of their worldview?
42:13 Because you're not being mean.
42:14 You're just saying, Hey, this doesn't make any sense to me.
42:16 If we're just highly evolved chimps, what does it matter?
42:18 Because it doesn't.
42:19 Yeah, you know, I think that's exactly where I was going in, in my mind.
42:23 We are such a product of our culture that as you say, what you will end up with were people
42:27 that say, well, no, I don't, I know it's no, I don't like it.
42:30 I don't know why.
42:31 And the reason will be because they, they've grown up in the culture they, they've grown
42:35 up in.
42:36 But I think you just hit it on the head.
42:37 I think that as we dig into the word of God, we begin to, we become so stabilized.
42:44 It's like your feeder and your feeder and some are in concrete, your feeder to the ground.
42:51 And so you're not, you're not thrown around on like, like, let me think, say it like this.
42:58 I feel so bad for young people because every week, they're going to find out the new thing
43:04 they're not allowed to say, right?
43:06 Or the new thing that they have to think in order to be perceived as a person of justice,
43:11 right?
43:12 The new thing they have to say, virtuous, yeah, I didn't think that was wrong last week,
43:16 but you're right.
43:17 I actually shouldn't say that.
43:18 So now I'm going to reform in a reshape next week.
43:21 Look at, look at the social medias.
43:23 Look at the TikToks.
43:24 What am I supposed, what am I not allowed to say this week?
43:26 And it changes again and again, and it's such a, no wonder they're so anxious.
43:31 This is a, this is such an anxiety producing culture, Christianity, the word of God teaches
43:36 you to put your feet into concrete.
43:39 And we should not, we, if there's anything I can encourage Christians to do in 2023,
43:45 it would be to stop playing defense.
43:48 As you just said, it's like, don't play David, don't feel like, well, well, you know, when
43:52 they ask you, well, do you really think that you really think abortion's, you know, wrong,
43:57 even if this, even if we were talking earlier, even in cases of, right, even in cases of this,
44:02 and the first thing the Christians do is defense, right?
44:04 They're like, well, well, they start dancing, you know, well, well, I just, no, no.
44:09 I, I think that, and they go and they go and they go instead of realizing you don't have
44:14 to play defense.
44:16 You can play nicely and lovingly.
44:19 You can play offense, put, put a positive vision for the future, which is life matters.
44:26 Bad stuff is going to happen because humans suck.
44:29 And because we do a bunch of nasty stuff, because we need Jesus, we need to be a regime.
44:34 But life absolutely matters.
44:36 And if you have the right to say that that child who is going to be born with some sort
44:43 of a health issue doesn't desert, they don't have individual rights.
44:49 But that other child does, then what's to stop you from saying that color child should
44:54 not be born.
44:55 Sure.
44:56 Of course, we've already been down this road already in eugenics and stuff 100 years ago.
45:00 But what's to stop that from happening?
45:02 So let's put a positive vision for the future, which is you matter because you're creating
45:06 the image of God, and we have to fight for that right no matter what.
45:11 That is such a better vision of the future.
45:13 And we could extrapolate that on any, any single issue, people watching, you take any
45:19 issue you wanted, political issue, ethics, education, crime, you name it.
45:25 We are the ones who have a positive vision for the future that is static, meaning that
45:29 our feet are in concrete, and it's not going to change because somebody on the Twitter
45:33 is yells at us next week, and says a whole brand new thing that we have to change.
45:38 No, no, we are the ones who are feet in concrete.
45:40 We should be the ones presenting that positive view of the future.
45:44 Well, and it's also your temptation to the Christians out there listening to this is
45:47 going to be to moderate your position to okay, let's get a little bit closer to the center
45:52 because somehow you've gotten this idea that every single subject matter has a moderate
45:57 center position.
45:58 Absolutely.
45:59 I ask you since we're talking about the abortion subject is what is the middle of the road
46:03 position on abortion?
46:04 Now what some people will say is, okay, you know, we need to have exceptions for rape,
46:09 incest, health of the mother, and a certain time period because, you know, let's make
46:13 12 weeks to cut off because before that, or after that, it gets icky.
46:17 But the reality of abortion is the further you go on in the pregnancy, the abortion is
46:21 the same.
46:22 It's just dirtier.
46:23 It's just messier.
46:24 There's just more blood and tissue that you have to pull out of the mother.
46:27 And so at the end of the day, that's why I ask people, what is the moderate position
46:30 on abortion?
46:31 Because in reality, they think it's multifaceted, but it's actually not its binary.
46:34 It's either a life worthy of protection, or it's not, or it's just, you know, it's it
46:40 is the body of the body being intellectually honest, which people don't want to be.
46:44 And so what I don't want people to hear is because obviously you and I are, our personalities
46:48 are a little bit more forward.
46:49 We like to draw straight lines and get there as quickly as possible.
46:52 That doesn't mean be a jerk.
46:53 It's not licensed to be a jerk and it's not also that you're going to open yourself
46:57 up to all these slings and arrows, but you're in a position that is the morally righteous
47:02 position.
47:03 So you shouldn't equivocate and you shouldn't try to die the death of a thousand qualifications.
47:07 Well, what about this?
47:08 And well, well, let me talk about that.
47:09 Well, well, it's either an image bearer of God or it's not.
47:14 It's either worthy of our protection or it's not.
47:17 And if you want to argue from a biblical foundation, great.
47:20 If you want to argue only using medicine and science and all that, great.
47:23 You can do it either way.
47:25 But again, we don't even know we're valuable except the fact that God basically told us
47:31 that this general revelation that we are of value and theologically, we know that's
47:35 because we were made in the image of God.
47:37 And so it's a very serious thing if you shed the blood of an innocent, you know, image
47:42 bearer and like, so that's the thing to encourage these people is like, there are some positions
47:46 like there's not a binary thing on tax policy or on immigration or all these different things
47:51 like those are good to have with debates, but like the transgenderism thing, the abortion
47:55 thing, like these are not positions where moderate is an option.
47:58 If you're going to be a Bible believing Christian.
48:00 Yeah, I think that what's happened, I think that a lot of people in the Christian world
48:05 feel like, and I understand where they're coming from.
48:09 And I know that we all get this that what they feel is this.
48:13 I don't like the way Christians have come across.
48:17 That's what they feel like.
48:18 I don't think that we, I just think that we come across me.
48:20 I think that we come across that and they think I'm going to be the one that can come
48:25 across well.
48:27 They're going to thread the needle.
48:28 I'm the one that's going to thread the needle.
48:30 And if I use enough words and I use enough gestures and I use enough like super breathy
48:37 sentences, breathy sentences, they think that they are going to convince people that there's
48:42 a third way.
48:44 And there isn't a third way that's the thing.
48:47 And in the end, what ends up happening a lot of the times, eventually, the other side will
48:53 end up finally getting mad because you've been making me think there's a third way,
48:58 but you don't actually believe in the third way, but you've been making me feel that because
49:03 it made you feel better that you were the one empathizing, right?
49:07 And so there isn't a third way, but all of this goes together, something that you talk
49:13 on your show a lot about, which I think is one of your forties, is also that we have
49:19 a positive vision.
49:22 It's kind of difficult to only talk about the abortion issue as if it's completely separate
49:29 from the just sex in general, sex, sex trafficking, pornography.
49:37 Is there even meaning in sex or is it just an animalistic thing that we do?
49:41 We just got to go have sex, that's the way it's got to be.
49:44 And no, there is a design for all of these things.
49:49 And I think what happened with Christianity, it just seems to me that the church decided
49:53 to let certain things go, sort of like, hey, we've already lost the battle on premarital
49:58 sex, so let's don't talk about that anymore.
50:01 Hey, we lost the battle on divorce.
50:04 Let's don't talk about that anymore.
50:05 We lost the battle on pornography, even a lot of Christian pastors watch the robbery
50:09 now.
50:10 We lost the battle on all of that, so we're not going to talk about it, but we're going
50:13 to keep talking about abortion.
50:15 And so what I will say, and where I will try to put, what do they call it, when you try
50:22 to send it all to us.
50:23 All of the branches.
50:24 Send it all to us.
50:25 Send it all to us.
50:26 I've been reading the Bible to us.
50:27 It's the fig tree.
50:28 That's right.
50:29 The olive branch, what I hear from a lot of my non-Christian friends, or even people who
50:34 say they're Christians, but they're really very left, they say, John, your side, all you
50:39 do is harp about abortion, but you don't care about all this other stuff.
50:42 And I'm a little bit like, that's a little bit true.
50:46 There's a lot we should be talking about.
50:48 You're right.
50:49 The church shouldn't have given up on all these other things.
50:53 They are interconnected.
50:55 And what you will find is that a lot of churches will feel comfortable talking about abortion,
51:00 but not a pornography.
51:04 They'll feel comfortable talking about sex trafficking, but not pornography, but we
51:08 all know from reading something for five minutes on the interwebs that all these things are
51:13 interconnected.
51:15 And God gives us a positive vision for this.
51:17 And so what I think, once upon a time, what you would have had were men that maybe they
51:23 didn't respect women as they ought, but they at least knew they were supposed to.
51:27 So there was a shame in not protecting women.
51:30 There was a shame in knocking someone up.
51:33 There was a shame in these things.
51:35 And now we've removed all the shame, and in fact, a lot of churches are saying, you're
51:39 not supposed to feel any shame over anything ever, which isn't true.
51:43 And now that the shame is gone, guys are like, well, I don't need to pretend that I'm supposed
51:47 to do this thing, which once more, why do we know that men are supposed to protect women
51:53 from the Christian worldview?
51:55 Well, it's the right ordering of morality.
51:56 It's the right ordering.
51:57 Yes, right.
51:58 Why do we know these things?
51:59 So earlier this year, I had Brittany Della Moore on my show.
52:02 She used to be a porn star for seven years, very, very famous porn star.
52:06 And now she's a Christian minister and like helping get women out of it.
52:09 And part of the reason that she talks about it, she's like, oh, the thing that most men
52:12 that are masturbating, looking at these women or these images or something like that, most
52:16 of them don't realize a lot of those women are being trafficked.
52:19 And so it's like for her, she had a pimp.
52:21 And so she had X amount of dollars that she had to produce daily.
52:24 And so if she shot some scenes, she would make some money.
52:27 If she didn't make enough money shooting scenes, she had to go perform sexual acts for money
52:31 on the street, right?
52:32 Because her pimp said, this is your amount that you have to get to me per day and there's
52:35 no rollover from day to day.
52:37 And it's like, that should change your outlook when you're watching someone that you think
52:40 is there because, you know, they want to live their sexually liberated life and have, you
52:46 know, this liberty and style of operating, it's like, no, that person is being forced
52:49 to be there.
52:50 They may have thought it was their option when they got in when they were 18 or 19 years
52:53 old.
52:54 Now they're stuck.
52:55 And yes, it goes into trafficking and goes into all these other different areas.
52:58 But the reality of it is, is there's a right ordering of these things for our flourishing
53:02 and for our enjoyment and for our glory?
53:04 Like I talked to people, obviously, like the sexual act, there are certain things that
53:07 are a part of that physiologically that serve no other purpose to your body other than to
53:11 make you feel good.
53:12 But a lot of people don't talk about this or think about this.
53:15 But when you eat food and enjoy it, that's because God gave you taste buds.
53:19 And like, that is an amazing thing that when you eat something, it tastes a certain way
53:23 and makes you feel a certain way.
53:25 Now the atheist would say, well, oh, yeah, that's an evolutionary outcome.
53:28 Obviously you want to seek out these things.
53:31 Okay.
53:32 Well, then when we bio hacked to make to make Doritos more valuable, you know, then then
53:35 broccoli, it's like what were we doing?
53:37 Were we messing up, you know, what what Darwin would say, but I don't want to get too too
53:40 far out in the weeds here.
53:42 The thing that people have to realize and bring themselves back to is there is an objective
53:46 morality from which they need to base their decision making in their life.
53:50 But it's what we were talking about earlier, John, the church, just we'll just use it, you
53:54 know, as a macro term has accepted the position of being downstream from culture.
53:59 And so culture said divorce isn't that big a deal.
54:03 So the church started saying divorce wasn't that big a deal.
54:05 Oh, yeah.
54:06 The culture says adultery is not really a big deal pre rental or sex is not really a big
54:09 deal.
54:10 And then it was homosexuality is not really a big deal.
54:12 Like eventually it'll be polyamory is not really that big of a deal.
54:15 And there will be these mindless sheep pastors inside Christian them that will go along to
54:21 get along with all these other different places.
54:22 And when it's when you sell off your moral position, like I remember when the church in
54:26 Ireland, the Catholic church in Ireland, when abortion became legal in Ireland, people
54:30 were like, where's the Catholic church?
54:32 It's like they were too busy hiding the rape of boys to to worry about holding their moral
54:37 position in that society.
54:38 And so the Irish people had no stomach for these, you know, priests that were coming out
54:42 saying, yeah, we shouldn't kill babies.
54:44 It's like, aren't you raping boys?
54:46 And then they just like naval gaze and then walked walked away from the fight.
54:50 And again, it's like, we're selling little parts of our Christian morality, little by
54:54 little generation after generation.
54:56 And then we look up at some point, perhaps 2023 and we realize, Oh crap, this is a position
55:00 we don't really want to be in, like this isn't a world that's sustainable in the long
55:03 term.
55:04 Yeah, I think that's right.
55:06 And I think that that some something really something really nefarious happened as well
55:13 over the, I think, I'd say probably early 2000s to now in church culture, which has been that
55:20 we are not counter culture, because what you're saying is this, we're supposed to be counter
55:24 cultural, we're supposed to be holding the line on things that, that the world, they're
55:29 unpopular to the world.
55:31 Now the truth is, is that the things that the world are going to try to do, well, they
55:34 eventually fail and they go really, really poorly.
55:38 And it should be us being like, we've been saying that because God's way works.
55:42 Right.
55:43 And you can change it and it's going to go really badly.
55:46 God's way is better and we should be holding the line.
55:49 That would be counter cultural.
55:51 But something really nefarious happened in which we started saying, okay, whatever the
55:56 world says is popular, we need to say, hey, we kind of agree with that so that they know
56:01 we love them.
56:03 And then we call that being counter cultural because it's against the old quote unquote
56:08 legalism of the old or the fundamentalists of the old. And so what you end up having
56:13 is people like, hey, we're doing counter cultural ministry. And I look, I'm like, no, you're
56:17 not. You're saying exactly, I even feel like I don't want to be too rude, but I feel like
56:23 there's a lot of Christian organizations. And I don't want to say everything that the gospel
56:30 coalition does is like the gospel coalition does some good says, they have some good things
56:34 and they have some things that are exactly like what I just said. We're holding a counter.
56:39 Here's what they did in 2020. We're holding a counter cultural position because because
56:44 we need to show the world we love them. So everybody needs to get a vaccine. I'm like,
56:50 that's not counter cultural. You're saying exactly what Dr. Fauci told you to say. That's
56:55 not counter cultural. I don't care if you get a vaccine or not. I'm just saying it's not
56:58 a counter cultural position. We need to counter cultural and keep our churches close. So what
57:03 what they mean is counter church culture. Right. They are Orthodoxy counter Orthodoxy, but
57:10 they're calling it counter cultural. It's actually the opposite. So we need to be the
57:14 ones to stand up and say, we are going to be counter cultural. Look, not for the sake
57:20 of being against if the culture is right, if the culture lines up with the word of God,
57:24 when I'm be against that, but we need to line up with the word of God, not having the moral
57:29 clarity that God's way is going to work. You're going to find that out in the, for instance,
57:36 it's not possible, but I mean, I don't know the future, but it's not possible to build
57:41 a society denying that there is a difference between men and women. Right. It's it can't
57:48 possibly last. I mean, could it maybe? Maybe we're going down full on apocalypse. I don't
57:55 know, but but you can't you can't thrive that way. Eventually you will end up in mass chaos.
58:02 Right. And so right now we're all deathly afraid because you're going to get canceled.
58:08 If you say something, you might lose your job. There are some real consequences to saying
58:13 no to this sort of madness right now. People and you get called a hater. Oh, yeah, but
58:20 we know we're not actually hating people. We're loving people because God's way works.
58:26 That's not God's created order. It's not going to work. And eventually it will collapse. And
58:31 so I think an encouraging Christians again, which this isn't what we plan on talking
58:35 about. We just ended up hitting it over and over. We were playing something completely
58:39 different than this, but I think it's for Christians have moral clarity beyond the offense. God's
58:44 way works. And it's a way to warn people of where this is going to lead to whether or
58:50 not they ever come to Jesus or not. We want people's lives to not be terrible. We want
58:54 them to enjoy life. We don't want to end up seeing America in destruction, even if they
58:59 don't come to Christ. That's where this is headed. When you don't want to be in a position
59:04 where you're seen as loving by the culture, but you're actually being hateful. Like so
59:08 you would rather be seen as being hateful, but actually be loving. And so I think about
59:13 this in the context of critical race theory, CRT, something you've talked about a lot on
59:16 your show, same thing on my show, you have all these, you know, high minded, highfalutin,
59:21 you know, Christian pastors and theologians that are like, you know, we're just going
59:25 to use critical race theory as a lens through which to understand the plight of people of
59:29 color in this country. Now, just inherent in that one statement is a bunch of presuppositions
59:33 that I don't think that you want to make. But the way that I would say it is like, if
59:37 you were to say Christianity is like a cake, and it's the perfect cake because it's a perfect
59:42 world view. It's the perfect way to look at humanity and all those types of things. And
59:46 so it's like, great, I've made this cake. Oh, hey, John, before you get a piece of this,
59:50 I put one teaspoon of diarrhea in the mix of this cake. But it's just a little bit like
59:55 it's just just a tiny little bit. The cake is fine, though. Can I go ahead and get you
59:59 a piece? The answer to anybody that has a brain is going to be absolutely not. And so
1:00:04 we keep bringing these little teaspoons of diarrhea from culture. And it's, it's critical
1:00:09 race theory. And it's a queer theory. And it's all these kinds of Marxist ideas. And
1:00:14 I know you're doing a lot of thinking and writing on those subject matters right now.
1:00:17 But it's like, it's fruit of the poisonous tree in legal circumstances. It's like, okay,
1:00:23 you got this evidence under bad auspices. And so all the evidence that came off of this,
1:00:29 it's rude to the poisonous tree, we're not going to allow it to be used. But we get to
1:00:33 critical race theory. And we don't discuss that it comes from critical theory, that it
1:00:37 comes from the Frankfurt School, that it comes from Carl Marx, which comes from Satan's
1:00:40 butthole, which comes from the pits of hell. Like, that's where this ideology comes from.
1:00:44 And it wasn't being filtered down and cleansed by the time it got to you. It didn't go through
1:00:49 a bunch, a bunch of Brita filters. It was just as nefarious the whole way. It just looked
1:00:54 less nefarious. Because people were like, Oh, yeah, Marxism, communism. That's crazy.
1:00:59 By the way, your kids are white. So their oppressors were going to put them on the side
1:01:04 of the fifth grade classroom. They're the people, the kids of color are going to be
1:01:07 on this side. And then we're going to have a Maoist struggle session. It's the exact
1:01:11 same ideology, which is it just feels less like invasive, and less damaging. And so that's
1:01:17 just kind of the way we act. And we're like, yeah, yeah, sure. This will go great.
1:01:19 I think that's right. It poisons the way you think, you know, so you like just this
1:01:23 week, you know, I'm sure you saw Colin Kaepernick is saying how is so Colin Kaepernick is adopted
1:01:31 by white parents. And he's like, I mean, I know they love me, but there was all these
1:01:35 problematic things, these racist things, you know, I'm listening to it. And so apparently,
1:01:40 so he wanted to put his hair into cornrows, right? And his white parents were like, you
1:01:44 can't do that like a thug. And he's talking about how racist it was. And I'm just thinking,
1:01:49 you know, how many times my dad told me that I looked like a thug, you know, my white
1:01:55 dad, you obviously. But what it does is it, when you put these, as they say, it's a way
1:02:01 it's an analytical tool, they say it's a lens to understand culture. You're right. It is
1:02:06 a lens that distorts everything in your life, even the good things in your life, like not
1:02:13 having to grow up without parents. That's a really good thing. You didn't have to grow
1:02:17 up with what so I made a huge sacrifice to adopt you into their family as one of their
1:02:24 own. Right. And this isn't, this is like such a, this is so insane. It's such a picture
1:02:29 of a family that had two kids die. Yeah. And after those kids passed away, they adopted
1:02:36 Colin Kaepernick because they felt avoid in their family that they feel they filled with
1:02:40 this child that was half white, half black had been abandoned by his father and then his
1:02:44 mother gave him up for adoption. And thank God she gave birth to the, that young man.
1:02:50 I think he has some major problems that he needs to deal with. But that's the thing. It's
1:02:53 like so that he can sell his new graphic novel. He's willing to throw under the bus, his parents
1:02:58 that literally saved his life. Like he could be dead in jail or he could be a CEO, but
1:03:05 he ended up being a world renowned football player and he tens of millions of dollars
1:03:09 before he became the, you know, the czar of victimhood. And so, but yeah, it's like that's
1:03:14 where we are as a culture. It's it's like anything to make a buck and he will whore himself
1:03:18 out for whatever thing he needs to do. And we live in a culture where your currency is
1:03:23 oppression, your currency is victimhood. And so again, if you're going to look, I love
1:03:28 the way that you said that. It's like, yes, it's a lens, but it's a lens that distorts.
1:03:31 And if you use that as a lens, if critical race theory is your lens, everything is a
1:03:37 nail and hear the hammers. Yeah. Everything you see is from that perspective. Rather
1:03:43 than I was adopted, that was, that's amazing. I'm sure I would not be here had and I've
1:03:49 been adopted. I would not be making this money. I would not have these talent or I wouldn't
1:03:53 have been able to learn how to use these talents, you know, whatever you want to say that.
1:03:58 It's a way to change the things that you've been through, you know, and I, people know
1:04:03 my testimony. I, I make jokes about my testimony, which is that, you know, my mom thought that
1:04:10 Christian rock music was literally the most demonic thing the devil ever did on planet
1:04:15 earth. You know, thought on her deathbed was nervous about me. I feel like Lucifer is
1:04:23 going to use John me in the earth to take people out of the kingdom. He's got to stay
1:04:29 away from rock music. I mean, I kind of make jokes about it because I don't see myself
1:04:35 through a lens of, yeah, a victimhood and my mom wanted all this and I showed her, no,
1:04:40 I would not be born again if it were not for my mom. Right. I mean, and, and I laugh about
1:04:46 it. I say, my mom loved me. I, it, it just depends on the way you look at it. So yes,
1:04:51 what we've done is we put all these lenses over the way we read the scriptures now. And
1:04:57 so social justice, of course, is one of those things, victimhood, all the things we're talking
1:05:03 about, sexuality. That's the other thing. Christians now feel like we had to feel really terrible
1:05:08 about talking about, you know, sexuality because it, it rules us as well. People didn't think
1:05:15 that before Freud. You know, it wasn't, it wasn't the defining factor of your life. That
1:05:23 is an unreality. It's an untruth. The Bible, the Bible gives us plans for what our identity,
1:05:32 who we are, why we are here. Why did you make me like this? You know, so I just think it's
1:05:37 a great encouragement to keep reminding Christians as you read the Bible, take all those filters
1:05:42 off. All this up the world is telling you, you have to do. And, and, and for the pastors
1:05:48 just saying, no, we really do need to use those filters so we can understand the world. I think
1:05:53 that is, I think it's nefarious. I really do.
1:05:57 Well, we've used the word reverence quite a bit and we were using it in the context earlier
1:06:00 of like, you know, being reverent of God, but we don't have a reverence of scripture.
1:06:04 So the last time I was in Tulsa, I was here about three or four weeks ago, hanging out
1:06:08 with Jordan Peterson because he came here to, to do a speech. And I was able to hang out
1:06:12 with him a little bit after his show and those different things. And I hate showing up empty
1:06:15 handed. So I, I got him a Bible. It's a verse, verse by verse reference Bible. Okay. So
1:06:22 he's talked about for years how the Bible is the most hyperlinked and he doesn't even
1:06:25 call it a book. He says the Bible's on a book. It's a library, but he's like, it's the most
1:06:28 hyperlinked document in history. This refers to that, which refers to these three things
1:06:32 and all that. And so I was like, I'm going to get him a physical representation of that.
1:06:37 So it's a verse by verse reference Bible. Every reference is there in the, the notes
1:06:42 in the bottom of every page. I got his name put on it, like Jordan, be Peterson. And you've
1:06:47 got it, you know, bounding. And I gave it to him as a gift. But it was like, when I explained
1:06:51 it to him, it's like you have a tremendous reverence for the scripture. And we didn't
1:06:53 get into what do you think about Jesus? Like we didn't get into that. But it's like, he
1:06:58 has a hunger and reverence for the scripture that a lot of purported Christians don't have.
1:07:02 And I think it would be fair to say that he is a non Christian. I don't think he believes
1:07:05 that it's Jesus's blood that can save him from eternal damnation. But he's got something
1:07:11 that we can really learn from because fast forward a few weeks later, I'm preaching at
1:07:16 a, you know, max security prison up in Pennsylvania. And I'm preaching to men that have no hope,
1:07:22 if you think about it in earthly terms, these are men that are never going to see the outside
1:07:26 of these walls of this prison. These are rapists, gangbangers, murderers, pedophiles, like the
1:07:32 worst of the worst. There's a reason why we separate them off from society. But I, like
1:07:35 I told those guys, it's like you can be under lock and key, but still be free. There's a
1:07:40 lot of dudes walking around, I hear that are free to drive and go where they please. But
1:07:43 they're, they're chained up like y'all, y'all crossed the lines of man, but we've all crossed
1:07:49 the lines of God. And in that way, we are brothers. And it's just like, but where do you even
1:07:53 get an idea like that? We get it from reading the scripture rightly and soberly. And so
1:07:59 I have a friend of mine who's been a Christian, very, very smart guy in business, but he's
1:08:02 only been a Christian for a few years. So he doesn't read the Bible and go, well, I wonder
1:08:07 what this means. And well, I grew up charismatic or well, I grew up Southern Baptist or well,
1:08:10 I grew up church Christ. So it kind of actually means this. He just reads it and goes, well,
1:08:13 I guess that's what we're supposed to do. Right. Like when people become Christians in North
1:08:17 Korea or Nigeria or Iraq or whatever, they're just reading and going like, well, I guess
1:08:21 this is what we're supposed to do. Not a whole lot of nuance. Like it just kind of is what
1:08:24 it is. But we as Westernized Americans that have been marinated in this Judeo Christian
1:08:28 culture for all this, like the time we think that we're smarter than what the book says.
1:08:32 You know, I love what you said about having reverence for God and reverence for the scriptures.
1:08:38 And I think that we both agree that you can't have, we believe, biblically, that you cannot
1:08:44 have reverence for God without reverence for the scriptures. Right. And I think that a
1:08:49 lot of Christians think that today. And I think it's a plague in the American church.
1:08:55 It's really bad. I spoke with somebody just last week. We had a long conversation about
1:09:00 this. And I'm just saying, I'm warning, I'm saying, look, have you heard the term red
1:09:04 letter Christianity? Yep. Okay. That's a newer terminology for me to learn within the last
1:09:09 year. I'd never heard it said that way, but I understood what it meant because I've seen
1:09:13 it for people, anybody watching what we're basically saying is it's this sort of what
1:09:18 it's doing. It's putting a hierarchy on the, on the scriptures. It's saying, whatever
1:09:22 Jesus said, which we might call the red letters, the words of Jesus are then basically that's
1:09:27 what we care about. The rest of the Bible is sort of subordinate to those words. And
1:09:31 rather than arguing about the Bible, arguing about morality and is that really what the
1:09:37 law of God says, we don't need to know about that. So just, just be like Jesus. It's in
1:09:41 the red letters. He was nice to people. He loved people. He fed the poor. So basically
1:09:45 what they're saying is is Jesus was a socialist basically. Jesus was a nice socialist. They
1:09:51 went around feeding everybody and never said anything mean because he's, he's not the
1:09:55 line Judah. He's only the lamb, right? He's Mr. Nice Pants. And so red letter Christianity
1:10:01 does not have a reverence for scriptures. It has a reverence for their version of this
1:10:06 nice Jesus in my upcoming book. I call him wimpy Jesus. He's not true Jesus. He's wimpy
1:10:12 Jesus. It's this other thing. And when we do that, we're basically changing who Jesus
1:10:18 is and you're not having reverence for the word of God. So it's the, it's the separation
1:10:23 of this idea of Christ from the word of God is not good. But the reason I think it's getting
1:10:29 so popular now is because that is, that is a way to still be a Christian and not be hated
1:10:35 by the world because the world, we're living in a time where it's popular to be a, I don't
1:10:40 want to, I'm not trying to be pejorative, but to be a socialist, to be some version of
1:10:44 socialist. Sure. Some kind of commie or one, one way or the other, to be a socialist,
1:10:49 to be sort of a pacifist, to be a social justice warrior, to want to sell all your things and
1:10:55 give it all to the poor. Well, those are just the things that are popular in culture right
1:10:59 now. And people, well, Jesus was kind of like that too. So we think we found a workaround
1:11:05 to making, we found a workaround for making the world not hate us. We're just going to
1:11:09 say everything you say and say, but that's what Jesus is like. And it's, it's not actually
1:11:14 going to work. And what you're going to find is that, is that society is going to get worse
1:11:19 and worse and worse because the Bible isn't just the red letters. All of scripture is
1:11:25 God breathed and scripture gives us plans for how to build not just your life, not just
1:11:30 your family, but how to build societies, how to build civilizations. And I think that Jordan
1:11:35 Peterson, you know, may not, may not be saved, but I think that what he sees in the Bible,
1:11:41 one of many things he sees in the Bible seems to be this is kind of a manual on how we can
1:11:46 build salvation, build civilization civilizations. I think he sees that, which is ironic because
1:11:53 a lot of Christians don't see it as that when he comes from a secular perspective and point
1:11:57 of view, and he's bringing that into his study of the scripture, which is crazy that he has
1:12:00 that amount of reverence. But as I've said before, I think he is the most important non-Christian
1:12:04 to Christian them alive today because of the people that are drawn to him that he is pointing
1:12:08 towards the father, even though he's doing it absolutely. But going back to kind of the
1:12:11 red letter Christian thing, I love what Vodie Bockam said about that. He goes, guys, if you
1:12:15 were a Trinitarian, if you believe in God, the father, God, son, and God, the Holy Spirit,
1:12:21 then there are no red letters. They're all red, or there's not some red, some black,
1:12:25 they're all red. Like they're all the words of God because you're talking about the triune
1:12:29 God, God in three persons. And so that's another thing that comes from a lack of biblical knowledge,
1:12:36 not deep theological knowledge and all those types of things, just basic Bible 101, that
1:12:43 the reason why they started doing red letter Bibles is so as you were referencing the certain
1:12:47 pages, it was easier to find when you were in the middle of a parable because a pastor
1:12:51 may be like, all right, turn to this and that random passage. And that passage is in the
1:12:56 middle of a long thing that Jesus is saying as being recorded in one of the gospels. And
1:13:01 so they were making it easier for you to reference the same thing about the section heads and
1:13:06 even verses and chapters. That's not how these things were written down. Like those things
1:13:10 were added hundreds and hundreds of years later. And they did that so that it would
1:13:14 be helpful to you. And now we're building our theology off of headings and red letters
1:13:20 and red ink versus black ink. And it's like, no, no, no, no, we need to go back to what
1:13:23 this is. That's why I love what Jordan Peterson says. This is not a book. This is a library.
1:13:28 They bound it together for your convenience, right? They put it on one app on your phone
1:13:34 for your convenience. But guess what? If you don't read it, if you just assume that you
1:13:39 know what it says because you watch veggie tales as a child, like then you're, you're
1:13:43 getting part of the story, but you're not getting all of it.
1:13:45 Yeah. I think that how I feel about red letter Christianity, I think they should call it
1:13:51 some of the red letter Christianity, because the truth is, is they don't even like all
1:13:55 the red letter, not only they even love all the Bible, they don't even love all the red
1:13:59 letters.
1:14:00 Because they'll say, you know, hey, I looked at the red letters and I never saw the word
1:14:03 gay. I never saw the word homosexual. I never saw the word abortion. So Jesus is okay with
1:14:08 all of those things. It's like, well, do you know, it was recorded that he used the word
1:14:12 like poor Naya? Well, he didn't use it because he was speaking Aramaic, but it was written
1:14:15 down as poor Naya. Well, guess what? In that time period, that meant any sex out of the
1:14:19 covenantal relationship between one man and one woman before God for life. That's what
1:14:23 it meant. Like, so that would have included homosexuality, you know, B.C. outy like polyamory
1:14:29 would have included all those things. But if you're a moron, or if you're like, you only
1:14:33 look at the first level of any analysis, you do univariate analysis, you're going to conclude
1:14:37 like, Oh, Jesus is totally fine with my lifestyle, which isn't it so funny? All agrees with the
1:14:43 secular leftist agenda. They're never going to come to a position that is at odds with
1:14:52 the culture. And that would be me. That should be your first clue that this might have been
1:14:58 that good. Now, one of the things I wrote in my first book, this just I find ironic is
1:15:04 that when I was reading the Bible as a young person, like for myself, when I was old up
1:15:08 to read, high school was at 1415 16, I'm reading the Bible for myself. I was kind of like,
1:15:17 I don't think Jesus is actually near as nice as what everyone else is saying. I actually
1:15:22 don't think he's uber friendly. I mean, sometimes I'm like, he could have more patience. I found
1:15:28 his parables to be sort of like, Will you please tell me what you're trying to say? You're
1:15:32 talking in riddles. Tell me what you're trying to say. Or somebody comes up and says, Hey,
1:15:38 I want to follow you, but I got to bury my father first. And Jesus like let the dead
1:15:43 bury their own dead. I mean, he said these things. I remember thinking, I know God is
1:15:47 good and Jesus was nice, but he's a friend of sinners. But this Jesus that I'm reading
1:15:52 about doesn't sound near as nice as what everybody is. So sometimes I think what Jesus
1:15:57 are these people reading Jesus that made the whip. No, they're not reading. That's a problem.
1:16:03 Some of the red letters, right? Yeah, there is a lot of them. Well, like, because when
1:16:06 you read about, because if you actually read the Bible, no little thing about it, we think
1:16:09 that Jesus cleared the tip of once. And we cleared it twice. When you look at the timelines
1:16:13 of when those are described in the gospels, one is roughly, you know, a little bit after
1:16:18 his first miracle, where he turned water into wine. And his last one was after he arrived
1:16:23 back in Jerusalem before his crucifixion. And so he did that twice premeditated righteous
1:16:28 violent aggression, right? Clearing out the temple of not just the animals, but all the
1:16:32 people and inherently violent act. But that's the thing is you don't get wimpy hippie Jesus.
1:16:37 If you actually read the Bible and read the New Testament, read the gospel accounts, and
1:16:41 you don't read it as if you're reading like Jesus is a spiritual robot. But if you think
1:16:46 about that's why I think, you know, and a lot of people hate the chosen, but a thing like
1:16:49 the chosen shows you that Jesus was a human with a personality surrounded by humans with
1:16:54 personalities, that they were probably joking around the people around him probably said
1:16:58 things that were rude. He had to correct some things. But then I've said a lot of incendiary
1:17:02 things in my life. And I know you have to. We've never been marched to the edge of town
1:17:06 to a cliff where somebody was going to throw us off because of words that we said, but
1:17:09 Jesus did that. He made people feel feelings like that. Call people broods of vipers and
1:17:15 these horrifically terrible things that don't sound very Christ like they sound really rude
1:17:20 and really judgmental and really aggressive. And so to these go on to get along I want
1:17:24 to be known for what I'm for not when I'm against Christians. I'm like, have you read
1:17:28 the gospels lately? Because I think your brain tends to remember the nice stuff and forget
1:17:33 all the stuff that's a little bit hard to square with your ideology that Jesus was just
1:17:38 this nice hippie guy.
1:17:40 He made me think of we should do a version of a Rod Stewart and have you read the gospels
1:17:46 lately? I don't think I want to do that version, but like I can do the tambourine in the background
1:17:51 or something like that. I'll let you handle the vocals of that. People watching might
1:17:57 not even know that. I mean, you said kids are watching and here you are, like singing
1:18:00 a song that was released 40 years ago. Who knows? Good gracious. All right. So as we're
1:18:06 in and up, tell us what you're up to, man. What do you want to?
1:18:10 So I've got some awesome stuff potentially coming to the fore. You know, a lot of guys
1:18:15 in my audience know this, but I always feel a little bit weird asking for prayers. I don't
1:18:18 know why, but I've got a vocal court surgery coming up here in the next month or so. And
1:18:22 so that doesn't put what we're doing on pause, but it's like, I've got a lot of opportunities
1:18:26 to expand the offerings with our show and to expand into other speaking engagements and
1:18:30 stuff like that. It's gonna be hard to do if I can't talk. And so gonna, you know, that's
1:18:34 happening beginning April. So I would appreciate you guys's prayers and things on that. But
1:18:38 ultimately, John, like a daunted life, as I say all the time, we're here to equipment
1:18:42 and push back darkness. I don't exactly know what that means in practice fully, right?
1:18:48 I can, I can see a little bit into the future and kind of what that looks like. You know,
1:18:51 it looks like, you know, having, you know, me being on other shows talking about that
1:18:55 philosophically, people coming to my show to kind of listen through and do those things.
1:19:00 But there needs to be a revolution that happens in the church. And you know, we're not going
1:19:03 to open up this can of worms now. But you know, a lot of men's minute, a lot of churches
1:19:08 try to focus on men's ministry, if they do anything for men at all, but they're not focusing
1:19:13 on making their churches man friendly. Right. So they're throwing events. They're, they're
1:19:18 maybe doing some sort of promise keepers type thing, but they're not creating actual change
1:19:23 with the men and their flock. And so a lot of what we're doing is like, yeah, I'll come
1:19:26 and speak at your men's event and I'll come yell at your guys for you since you don't
1:19:29 want to do it. And like I'll do all that kind of stuff. But it's almost like shifting the
1:19:33 focus to how can we make churches more man friendly in the sermon content, in the opportunities
1:19:39 for engagement and volunteerism in the music and all that. And so that's, that's kind of
1:19:45 where we're moving towards. But yeah, I'll still be doing the podcast. You know, I spoke
1:19:48 at a prison here recently, like I mentioned, so being able to do some more stuff like that.
1:19:52 But that's ultimately what we got going on. How about you? You're about to wrap up this
1:19:55 tour. And then what are you going right into the next one?
1:19:58 Yeah, so we're, we got about another two weeks on this run. And after that, we head to Europe.
1:20:04 So we're getting, we're very, very busy right now. And I think what's going on with me,
1:20:10 what I sense going on. And of course, I don't know this is, if this is for sure true, it's
1:20:15 what I sense seems to me that we're beginning to see a little bit of good news in the culture
1:20:21 right now. And a little bit of a shift towards people wanting to get along. And I think that's
1:20:27 a really good thing. Meaning that we don't have to, that we, they don't want to cancel
1:20:34 people quite as much. They're a little bit like, okay, maybe, maybe we were freaking
1:20:38 out a little bit too much. Now we obviously have a lot of, you know, a lot of the COVID
1:20:42 stuff has come out. People are like, okay, maybe we're wrong about that. You know, there's
1:20:47 a lot of things coming to life. Some people, the people that watch Cooper's up and on life
1:20:53 aren't surprised. But a lot of other people are kind of surprised like, Oh my gosh, the
1:20:56 media's been lying to us. Yeah, there are a bunch of commies. But because they're, they're
1:21:01 realizing that people are getting a little softer. And what I'm excited about personally,
1:21:07 is that we do live in a pluralistic country. And I want, I don't mind when people disagree
1:21:13 with me. I've got almost everybody that works for me is not a Christian is on the left is
1:21:22 pro choice. And it doesn't bother me. Like we talk about these, they won't hate each
1:21:27 other. And I like that. And I think that's where I'm at is where can we say real things
1:21:33 that we believe like we've said on the show today, things that we're really passionate
1:21:36 about because it's because we believe it's a moral conviction from a static belief in
1:21:43 the word of God that never changes. Can we say that without our opponents who are supposed
1:21:48 to be the ones of tolerance, wanting to fire it, get us kicked off of social media kicked
1:21:53 off of YouTube and defund it and make me lose my job. You know, can we go back to a time
1:21:58 when we can say, I know that you might disagree with this, we can have some big fights, but
1:22:03 we can live, we can live life together. I think that there's a tiny bits of good things happening.
1:22:10 And that's where I'm passionate about that. And so I'm glad to be back on the road. Because
1:22:13 I'm touring with a bunch of people who don't believe the same things I believe, who are
1:22:17 not Christians on this tour and other, and other tours we do. And I love it because you
1:22:21 get to be normal people and have meals with people that might be of a different religion,
1:22:28 might not be religious at all, live life together. And a lot of times this conversation is great
1:22:32 because people, they want to, I'm sure it's this got to be the same for your life. It's
1:22:38 got to be the same for people watching. When you are a family man and you are faithful
1:22:44 to your spouse, women watching them, you are faithful to your husbands, and you raise
1:22:50 up kids that can have conversations with adults, they don't even have to have amazing conversations.
1:22:58 Your friends will be like, what have you done? How is this possible? How is it possible that
1:23:04 you've raised kids that can have conversations that seem to even love their parents? How
1:23:08 can you say faithful to your husband? How can you say faithfully? It's such a, because
1:23:13 God's way works. That's a counterculture we were talking about? That's countercultural.
1:23:17 God's way works. And that's why we say no to these other things. So that's kind of what
1:23:23 I'm kind of quite passionate about. And I feel that I'm hopeful. I don't want to say
1:23:29 I think we're headed there, but a few things have happened that maybe maybe just maybe
1:23:34 we're headed to a place where we can still say things that might be incendiary, they might
1:23:39 be volatile, but other people might be like, I hear you, not trying to get you canceled
1:23:44 because you said it. Right. Now let's have a conversation.
1:23:47 So another thing is you keep talking about this supposed book that you're writing. Can
1:23:52 you give us an idea of when we can actually read this thing because you keep teeing it
1:23:55 up? But it's like, I don't, I don't want to think about it. I want to read it. I want
1:23:59 into my hands. I'm going to say this never going to be. Yeah. Can we actually like, can
1:24:02 you give me a date? Can you give me a time, a rough time period?
1:24:06 We were hoping July is still what I'm hoping, July 4th. That's the day I want to release
1:24:12 it. Okay. Yeah. You know, and that's the cover that would be that would be appropriate
1:24:17 time, appropriate time for it. And it's just required. I got to be honest. I think that
1:24:24 some of the changes we're making are really good. But I think that part of what's happening
1:24:30 is that culture is changing so very quickly that I'm like, Oh my gosh, this is a little
1:24:35 dated from a month ago, you know, because things are like boom, boom, boom, changing.
1:24:41 And because I think we might be coming into a time when people are a little bit more open
1:24:46 to debate and maybe a little bit more open to incendiary conversations, but to debate
1:24:51 it on a, on a good faith basis, it's sort of changed a little bit of the way I want to
1:24:57 go about it. And so I'm going back and touching up, not just some of the information that
1:25:01 three weeks ago is like, Oh my gosh, now I've got to change that. You know, um, you know,
1:25:08 what, for instance, here's a good, here's a good example. One of the examples I use in
1:25:12 the book is I'm talking about the certain kinds of privileges that we give. This is
1:25:17 way off topic. No, I don't, I'll miss you. We do not have time to get him this topic.
1:25:21 Well, you can like give us a 30,000 or you're gonna get in trouble. I mean, we just need
1:25:25 a little bit now. You're excited about it. You remember this, this school teacher in
1:25:29 Canada, you're the man that dresses like a woman and he wears the big huge prosthetic
1:25:35 breast or whatever. And my point is, is that if that was a woman, it'd be disallowed. They're
1:25:41 allowing it because it's a man. And that is a different sort of form of child abuse. What
1:25:47 you're saying is, is that it's not the principle. It's that the kids shouldn't be seeing this.
1:25:53 Now there's a new principle because he's a victim. He's a victim group. And the new
1:25:56 principles, you must look at this and tell us it's okay. Yes. And he needs to express
1:26:01 it in front of children. Even though he doesn't do that in his personal life. Well, that's
1:26:05 what changed. Right. So four weeks ago, so I wrote in my book, I'm like, I said in my
1:26:10 book, I had written it makes you, it makes you wonder if he didn't dress like this at
1:26:15 home, would it be a different story? So because it makes it seem like this has to be another
1:26:21 way to sort of be a pervert in front of children. And then guess what happens? Four weeks ago,
1:26:26 we find out, nope, he doesn't dress like that at home. And I'm like, now I gotta go back
1:26:30 and change this. And it ends up taking a day of rewording things. So the book is going
1:26:35 to come out in July. But I will say today, we talked about some of the things that are
1:26:40 in that book. It is a, it is a lot of philosophy, but a positive vision for why God's way works,
1:26:47 why all these other ways are not going to work. We should be on the front line saying
1:26:51 the Bible tells us how to build civilizations. Cause the word of God is true. Yesterday's
1:26:56 saying forever. That's awesome. Well, you started this dual episode. So I guess I'll
1:27:01 do the outro. So just don't mess it up. Well, okay, well, I always say, like, keep seeking
1:27:06 the line of Judah. And I guess this is a documented, a documented Cooper life stuff. Can you do
1:27:10 a live version of your Cooper stuff? Yell that you do? Cause I can't do it. Maybe we'll let
1:27:14 that be the outro. Okay. Do it. Don't mess it up. You do yours and then I end it. I will
1:27:18 just say, you know, keep seeking the line of Judah. Mine's lame. Yours is Cooper stuff.
1:27:22 Boo. Yeah. There you go. Guys. I hope you enjoyed our split duo, Donta Cooper life stuff
1:27:30 episode. I hope that was worth your while. But before we let you go, we are going to do
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