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DOUG WILSON | Make America Christian Again (Ep. 495)

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DOUG WILSON | Make America Christian Again (Ep. 495)
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In this episode, Kyle Thompson sits down with theologian Doug Wilson to discuss his latest book, 'Mere Christendom.' They tackle the failures of secularism, the importance of Christian nationalism, and the need for a robust, biblically grounded masculinity in the church. This conversation is a call to action for men to stand firm in their faith and resist the chaos of modern society.
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0:00 >> This is Undaunted Life, a man's podcast. I'm your host, Kyle Thompson. Let's get into
0:25 it. All right, guys, we've got a special guest on the podcast today. His name is Doug
0:29 Wilson. So he is a conservative, reformed evangelical theologian and pastor at Christ
0:34 Church in Moscow, Idaho. He's written a bunch of different books. And so really the, the,
0:39 I guess scaffolding for today's conversation is his latest book called mere Christendom,
0:44 but he's also written future men reforming marriage rules for reformers when the man
0:48 comes around and a bunch more. And future men is actually listed on our 100 books every
0:52 modern Christian man should read list that's on our website. So if you have not gotten
0:56 that list yet, just go to undaunted.life/booklist. But in our conversation today, again, we used
1:02 mere Christendom for our discussion scaffolding for today. I did ask him, you know, how do
1:07 you become a theologian and a pastor? But we talked about what is mere Christianity or
1:11 sorry, not mere Christianity. Here I am going all CS Lewis, mere Christendom. What is that?
1:16 And why name the book that way? Why, why kind of take that on? But really we dig into why
1:20 secularism has not worked in modern society specifically in the United States. And beyond
1:26 that why it's just flat out wicked. What a lot of people have done in the secular world
1:31 is to make you believe that their worldview doesn't have religious assumptions that is
1:35 actually religiously neutral. So we talk about how that's really ridiculous. We also spend
1:40 time talking about what Christian leaders and Christian pastors have done to kind of
1:46 aid in this, especially during the COVID lockdowns and the BLM riots and just some of the things
1:50 that were done, kind of this Ted Turk, you know, Ted Turk, Ted talk churches, these at
1:56 the movies approaches to everything and how basically that doesn't lead to a deep level
2:00 of gospel understanding and deep theology. And then we talked about the difference between
2:05 a theocracy and a theonomy. But one of the big things we talked about today is Christian
2:09 nationalism, because everybody's using Christian nationalism, they're either using it as a
2:14 cudgel by which to, you know, punish patriotic American Christians. And other people are
2:19 using it as a badge of honor, even though they don't exactly know what it means. And
2:22 it turns out to be more nationalist than it does Christian. We talk about civil disobedience
2:27 and how that kind of works in light of Romans 13 and how people were using Romans 13 really
2:32 inappropriately during the COVID lockdowns and things like that, how it is actually a
2:37 good thing to submit to God. And that would allow you to resist tyrants. We talk about
2:42 modern Christian pastors and kind of how they build sermons and how modern worship music
2:47 and kind of that squishy worship music that's not very Psalms like doesn't really lead
2:52 to deep theology doesn't serve people well. But we also get into, you know, how men and
2:56 women are treated differently by pastors and how it really doesn't set men or women up
3:00 very well. And then at the very end, I asked him about all the controversies he's been in
3:03 and he's been in a lot. He stepped in it a lot out of all of those, which was the one
3:07 that was like the funniest to him, the one that he just thought was so hilarious that
3:11 he was in the middle of. So I really liked his answer to that as well. I really enjoyed
3:14 my time overall with Doug Wilson. So without further ado, let's get into it. Doug Wilson,
3:19 welcome to undaunted life, a man's podcast.
3:21 Good, good to be with you. Thanks for the invite. Yeah, I've been wanting to have you
3:26 on for a while now. You've been a very highly requested guest for the show. So we're glad
3:31 we were able to take that out. But for people that are not familiar with you, we're going
3:34 to find the nice soft place to land. You are a theologian and a pastor. So I'm assuming
3:39 when you were four years old, you know, playing out in the woods that that's not what you were
3:43 thinking you would end up being. So what's the short version of the story of becoming
3:47 a pastor at theologian. Yeah, the short version is that I was planning on being in ministry,
3:53 but it would be literature ministry like my father was running Christian bookstores in
3:59 college towns. That's what I thought I was going to do. So after the Navy, I was going
4:05 to go into the University of Idaho. And a small church plant had started up. I would
4:12 I play the guitar. So it was a Jesus people type of thing. And I played the guitar. So
4:17 I was the song leader. And about a year and a half into it, the man who was doing the preaching
4:22 announced everybody that he had gotten a job in another town. And he was going to be gone
4:27 by the next Sunday. And good luck, everybody. And I was upfront with the guitar. So so
4:35 that's so I preach the next Sunday. And it was a fledgling church just less than two years
4:42 old and had about 30 people in it. And so I just began preaching. But I hadn't we labored
4:51 hard to get someone else to come and take the take the pastor, but couldn't find anybody.
4:56 And the church started church started growing. And that's what happened.
5:01 Okay, so that was almost like your your Cincinnati's your George Washington moment. You were the
5:06 reluctant leader of everything that was happening there. So that's very, very interesting. Well,
5:10 I don't want to waste a whole lot of time today because I want to really dig into your
5:13 latest book, which is this book, it's fantastic. It's called mere Christendom. And so it's your
5:17 latest work, you bring up really a bunch of different important and interesting topics,
5:22 which could be an entire interview or an entire other book. But we're going to use this as
5:26 our guide for the interview today. So to the audience, if you hate hearing me read out loud,
5:31 you're going to especially hate this episode because I'm going to read a bunch of your quotes
5:34 back to you to get a little bit more context. And I'll start with this one. But if I want
5:38 deliverance, we must call upon him. That's capital H him. We must name him. Everyone who
5:45 calls on the name of the Lord will be saved. The framework for doing this is what I am
5:49 calling mere Christendom and hence this book. So just generically 30,000 foot view, why did
5:56 you write this book? What chord are you trying to strike with it? And then if you could define
6:00 mere Christendom for us. Sure. What I'm trying to communicate to Christians is that the secular
6:08 experiment has failed. The idea that we can govern ourselves without reference to the
6:17 transcendental reality that is God is a pipe dream. So after World War II, when the classical
6:26 liberals, meaning secular liberals said, well, we can have a decent orderly society without
6:33 reference to God. We don't have to name Jesus. We don't we don't have to be explicitly Christian
6:39 to have all the values that we hold dear as Americans. I would say, okay, how's it going?
6:47 Look, look, look around. We're chopping babies up into pieces. We have drag queens twerking
6:53 for little kids. We have same sex, mirage authorized by the highest court in the land.
7:00 So apparently it is not possible for Americans to govern themselves without reference to
7:06 transcendental truth. We're screwing it up. And so what I'm what I want to press upon Christians
7:14 is that we have to return to Christ. The alternative is stark. It's Christ or chaos. Okay. And we're
7:23 currently in the midst of chaos. Now, mere Christendom is sort of a zoom out take on
7:31 Christian nationalism. Christian nationalism, which was addressed by Stephen Wolf's book and
7:37 other other folks, is simply talking about one country. So for example, Zambia is ostensibly a
7:45 Christian nation for it's formerly a Christian nation. Great Britain is a Christian nation is
7:53 church of England. So you can have one church. You can have one nation that is formally Christian.
8:02 But what happens when you zoom out and you have multiple nations that are naming the name of Christ.
8:08 That's Christendom. So that's that's kind of what we're what we're moving towards.
8:15 That's what we that's the goal that I would like to move towards. So think Christian nationalism
8:21 one nation at a time. But let's say in the medieval period, when you had all of Europe was Christian,
8:27 but you had different nations. Those nations collectively were Christendom.
8:33 Individually, those nations are tribes where Christian tribes are Christian nations.
8:40 Okay. So we're we're going to dig way more into Christian nationalism here in a second,
8:44 because that's kind of a buzz buzz term that a lot of people use. And they use it as some people
8:49 use it as a cudgel. Some people use it as a badge of honor. I think they're all using it
8:53 improperly. But I'm going to go back to something that you said, I'm already blowing up on my own
8:56 interview, but you talked about classical liberalism. I feel like a lot of conservatives
9:00 Doug have been almost romanced by this idea of, Oh, this guy's just a classical liberal. And it's
9:05 like, Oh, that's okay. Like, yes, it's not like a blue haired, you know, nose ringed leftist,
9:10 but they're just a classical liberal. And we're thinking of that in terms of being it positive.
9:15 But you have several quotes in your book about the Darwinian society that we live in. We're the
9:20 highest civic, I think the way you said it is the highest civic value has to be survival.
9:24 And you don't just say secularism is bad or unfortunate. You say that it's wicked. So I feel
9:29 like classical liberalism and the wickedness of secularism is all tied in together. No.
9:35 Right. Yes. So I want to make a careful distinction. However, I have no problem at all
9:41 with free markets, let's say, I think, I think free markets are Christian construct. But I believe
9:48 that we have to admit that they're a Christian construct. I don't want an invisible hand.
9:54 Unless it's the hand of the Lord Jesus, I don't want to turn everything over to an invisible hand
10:02 who's going to govern things who knows how or why. I believe that if you have if someone proposes
10:10 a Christian classical liberal order, I'm okay. But if someone wants a secular enlightenment
10:16 classical liberal order, I think there's death in the pot.
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10:53 To take the point even a little bit further, Doug, we'll read this short quote and I think
10:57 this will lead us into a further discussion. But here's the quote. One of the central tactics
11:02 of our regnant secularism is to pretend that their foundational assumptions are religiously neutral
11:09 and that we need not look at them. So something that I feel like has been a bit of a groundswell
11:14 over the last several years is people realizing that leftism, communism, socialism, whatever ism,
11:20 Black Lives Matterism, whatever, these are not religiously neutral. They have their saints,
11:26 they have their sacred texts, they have their catechisms, they have all of those things.
11:32 I guess it's not as ubiquitous as I would like it to be that thought process,
11:36 but it talked to me a little bit more about how we're supposed to pretend that this
11:39 regular old secularism is not religious. Yeah, basically on this over the last few years,
11:47 the liberals have really helped us out by not only they've transformed themselves from
11:55 sort of pretend let's pretend to be neutral and calm and collected and you religious types are
12:01 the crazy ones. When you look at how they deify George Floyd in the Floyd riots,
12:09 well, that's Saint worship. I wouldn't be surprised to see them leaving baskets of fruit and lighted
12:18 candles in front of the portraits of George Floyd. Then the climate change hysteria, it's a cult
12:29 like thing and given how unsupported it is by the science, it's frankly a cargo cult.
12:37 It's just like a religious frenzy and I don't know how to account for the behavior of multiple
12:46 grownups in the COVID panic, COVID lockdown. All of this amounts to a religious hysteria,
12:57 not only religious, but religious hysterics. That has sort of displayed to Christians
13:05 the religious nature of what they've been selling us for the previous decades. The mask came off.
13:13 Yeah, I would certainly say that it's it's funny you even use the term grownups and I had to hold
13:18 back a chuckle because it's like you see these people acting out in the ways that they do.
13:21 Like it's not even just about etiquette because right. Yeah, is it is it showing high etiquette
13:28 to scream at somebody while they're having dinner? No, of course not. But it's childish behavior
13:34 that comes from a worldview that is devoid of any type of judgment and any type of standards.
13:39 But you know, we don't want to get too far off into that. I teeted up just a second and go, but
13:42 let's talk more about Christian nationalism. So sure, because people mis-define it so much,
13:47 I know you've already kind of defined it already. Let's define it again, but talk about how it's
13:52 used. So I talked about how leftists will use Christian nationalism as, okay, if you don't
13:57 support the BLM rises and if you don't write, and if you don't wear a mask, then you're a Christian
14:02 nationalist somehow. Or if you're basically just a proud American that also goes to church,
14:06 you're a Christian nationalist and that's bad. But then on the other side, you have Christians that
14:11 and conservatives that want to wear that badge proudly, but I guess they're going a little bit
14:17 farther overboard to the nationalism side and forgetting the Christian part. But you know,
14:22 it's used as a cudgel against patriotic Americans and it's used as a cudgel against just normal
14:26 people. So let's have a deeper discussion about Christian nationalism.
14:29 Sure. I'm not wanting to try a novel experiment of making America Christian. What I want to do
14:40 is make America Christian again. Okay. Right. So this is not uncharted territory. We've done this
14:49 before. So America was founded by Christians at the Constitutional Convention out of the 55 men
14:57 there, 50 of them were Orthodox Christians at the when the Bill of Rights was ratified out of the
15:05 13 colonies. Nine of the 13 had official relationships with Christian denominations.
15:11 Connecticut, for example, didn't and up up some of them up to an including official establishment
15:19 of a denomination. The congregational church in Connecticut, for example,
15:25 remained tax supported the official church of Connecticut down to the 1930s, excuse me, 1830s.
15:34 And what that means, so what that means is now I want to be careful here because I'm not a fan of
15:42 established denominations at the federal level or the state level. I don't think it's a good idea,
15:49 but it's not an unconstitutional idea. Right. Because because the people who ratified the
15:56 Constitution were doing it right in the, you know, they were, that's what they were pursuing. Up till
16:03 in 1892, there was a court case that went to the Supreme Court, exquisitely named Holy Trinity
16:13 versus the United States. And that was because there was a lawsuit that involved a church named
16:21 Holy Trinity. And the thing that's interesting, there was a skirmish about whether this church
16:28 could call a British minister, a foreign national to be their minister. And there was a court case
16:34 surrounding that. And the Supreme Court handled that in a common sense way. But then while they
16:41 were at it, the Supreme Court said, while we're on the subject, let's remind everybody that the
16:47 United States is a Christian nation. Okay, this is the majority opinion of a Supreme Court decision.
16:55 1892. Now, I was born in 1953. Okay, that that was just a mere 60 plus years before I was born.
17:07 And if you flipped it over, basically, what was us speaking now in 2023, we are farther away,
17:16 you and I are speaking farther away from the day I was born, then that court decision was from the
17:23 day I was born. Okay, it was the point is it wasn't that long ago. Now, what I want to do when I say
17:33 that I want us to affirm Christian nationalism and return to this, the left freaks out and says,
17:41 you want to do a handmaid's tail, you know, you want women wearing scary, scary red dresses and
17:46 being relegated to breeding, breeding only and, you know, you've got that kind of hysterics. And
17:53 no, we weren't living in a in a totalitarian hellhole in 1895, three years after that decision. It was
18:02 just it was an ordinary kind of thing. Now, what I mean by it is I want the government of the United
18:09 States to recognize the truth of the Apostles Creed. That's what we're both down to. I want our
18:18 set I want our government to acknowledge formally publicly that Jesus rose from the dead. And that
18:25 this has ramifications for the foundation of our law. All right, so the American the Anglo-American
18:35 common law tradition is a Christian tradition and has been Christian going back to the time of King
18:42 Alfred. And I think we simply should recognize that and lean into our heritage. That's what I'm
18:49 talking about, leaning into our heritage. I'm not talking I'm not talking as though America
18:54 is a pagan nation that has never seen any Christians and that we we 10 Christians just got off the
19:01 boat. And we're trying to persuade you all to become a Christian nation. We we have Christianity
19:07 embedded in our in our customs, our morays, our history, you know, all I want to do is go back to
19:13 that. The last generation from well from the time of Earl Warren down has been disastrous.
19:21 I think that it's it's hard to argue against that, especially if you look at the founding
19:26 creeds and documents of our great universities and how they are, you know, struck through with
19:31 scripture and their their point was trying to create disciples and everything else from there.
19:36 What what comes from a conversation like the one you and I just had in your answer there is people
19:41 are worried about theocracy, theonomy, even though they don't know what these words mean. But let's
19:46 talk a little bit about that. You know, what is theocracy versus a theonomy? Do you support one
19:51 over the other? Should we be fighting for one over the other? And how does that work within kind
19:55 of the confines of Christian nationalism? Okay, great. One of the first things I want to point
20:00 out in this discussion is that everybody advocates for theocracy. Everybody wants a
20:06 theocracy. The only difference between the different positions is which God they want to be the God
20:13 of the system. Right. So I would say theocracy is an inescapable concept. It's not weather,
20:20 but which it's not whether you're going to have a theocracy. It's which Theo is going to be the
20:26 Theo of your theocracy. In Saudi Arabia, it's Allah. In in contemporary pagan America,
20:35 it's Deimos, the people democracy. But so the the theos, which is simply the Greek word for God,
20:44 the theos of the system is the point past which there is no appeal. When you when you get to Allah
20:52 in Saudi Arabia, there's you can't say, can I talk to anybody else up there? You've you've
21:00 you've come to the end of your line of appeals. When in a in a pagan system, a secular humanistic
21:07 system, when you get to the highest legislature or the highest court that you're at the you've
21:13 exhausted your appeal, the Christian, your line of appeals, the Christian wants to say that a
21:19 Christian with an open Bible can stand before all men on lawless thrones, like Shadrach, Meshach,
21:26 and Abednego did Nebuchadnezzar. And they said, our God can deliver us, but be it known, O King,
21:33 even if he doesn't, we're not going to bow down to your statue. And they were appealing
21:38 past Nebuchadnezzar. And that that is a foundational tenant of Christian political theory is that
21:45 Caesar is not God. A foundational tenant of the Lord's teaching is that we are to render to Caesar
21:52 the things that are Caesar's and to God, the things that are gods. Well, Jesus is holding the coin
21:58 when he says that. And how do you tell what belongs to Caesar? Well, if he manages to get his picture
22:05 on it, it's is it's lawful to give it to him. Well, Jesus also says, render to God, the things that
22:12 are gods. Well, how do I tell what God what's God's? Well, what has his image on it? Well, we do.
22:19 All right. Therefore, Christian Christians are forbidden to render their bodies and souls
22:26 to Caesar. We must render ourselves, our families, our children, to God and to God alone.
22:34 Okay, now what's happening in this secular utopian hellhole is that the secularists are laying claim
22:46 to absolutely everything. We own you. They're saying we we own you. We can tell you to inject
22:53 stuff into your body, whether you want it or not, we can bundle you bundle your head up in a face
22:58 diaper. We can lock you down for a couple years. You are you are so many chess pieces that we can
23:05 move around the board at will. And and the tragedy is a lot Christian pastors went along with that,
23:12 rendering to Caesar, rendering to Caesar that which was God's.
23:16 So I love that that actually leads to a further discussion about civil disobedience because when
23:23 you talk about Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego, that was civil disobedience against, you know,
23:28 the rulers of the time that they were living. And we're in this post COVID world. Now I say post
23:33 COVID there's there's all these things in the headlines about hey, they might bring masks back
23:37 and hospitals and and airplanes and all that and they can kiss my Irish, but if they want to do that,
23:42 I can tell them that much. But during that time, I know 2020 seems like forever go Doug. But during
23:48 that time, Christians who did not want to go along with the mandates didn't want to shut down their
23:52 churches didn't want to demand that their congregants get to get the jab, you know, everybody through
23:57 Romans 13 at them. So Romans 13, you're not doing this or you're not being loving of your neighbor.
24:02 And you know, the new variant is you don't love your neighbor variant and in all those types of
24:06 things. But my favorite quote from your Christendom is this quote here. There is a vast difference
24:11 between the dutiful Christian citizen and the craven Christian who cites passages out of context
24:17 in order to justify a continuation of his cowardice. I absolutely love that. And one of the things
24:23 that you use that quote to set up is an argument about how resistance to tyrants actually is submission
24:30 to God. So let's talk a little bit about civil disobedience, because I know there are a lot of
24:36 Christians that aren't natural fighters, like they don't want to get into arguments. They don't want
24:40 to have debates with people. They they're just like, look, if you want me to put a mask on before I go
24:45 into Target, fine. I need to I need to get eggs and bread for my family. But at some point there's
24:50 got to be a line where every Christian is like, no, we're not passing this. Yes, that's that's
24:58 absolutely correct. And I would if we just go to Romans 13, it says, I think three times in that
25:05 passage, that the civil authorities are God's deacon, God's servant, I think he used the Akanos
25:12 twice, I think, and then another word for servant another time. So the the civil magistrate, it says,
25:19 is God's servant, God's slave. Okay. And that slave that servant is appointed to reward the righteous
25:28 and punish the wrongdoer. Okay. So the the servant of God, which is the civil magistrate, has God's
25:38 marching orders, and God's marching orders to the civil magistrate have been published so that
25:44 everybody can see what they are. Okay, we all we all know what the civil magistrate is supposed
25:51 to be doing. Now we have gotten to this in this clown world of ours, we've gotten to the point
25:56 where the civil magistrate is punishing the righteous and rewarding the wrongdoer. They've in Isaiah
26:03 520, it says, woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who substitute light for darkness
26:09 and darkness for light, sweet for bitter and bitter for sweet. So what what's happened is they've
26:14 inverted all moral categories. So for example, in California, when the magistrate shut down churches
26:24 as being nonessential services, but kept open pot shops, strip clubs, and abortion clinics,
26:33 I would say to a Christian pastor who dutifully shut down, I would say, can you not see what they're
26:42 doing? Can't can't you see that this servant, that the Lord the master of the house left this
26:49 servant in charge? And can't you see that he's drunk? Can't you see that he's trying to burn the
26:55 house down? Can't you see that he's beating the fellow servants? So when the fact that people just
27:04 refused to see that refused to see that the the magistrate had slipped the chain and was off doing
27:13 crazy things that Paul, the Apostle Paul did not envision. All right. Now some people say that,
27:20 well, Romans was written when Nero was emperor and so he was Nero as a bad dude. Well, the first five
27:28 years of Nero's reign were really decent, comparatively speaking, because Seneca, the Seneca, the stoic
27:37 philosopher, was an advisor, was involved in the government. After Seneca lost his position of
27:45 control and influence, Nero went around the bend. But when Romans was when Romans was written,
27:52 the Roman Empire was still a force for stability, rewarding the righteous, punishing the wrong
27:58 doer. If you if you did bad things, they would deal with you. And Paul is talking in that context.
28:06 So if you here's one other thing that's important to note, when when you want to understand what Peter
28:14 means, when he says we're to sipping to kings and all those in authority, and what Paul means when
28:19 we should recognize that the existing authorities are established by God, let's look at their behavior.
28:25 Okay, the Apostle Paul escaped from King Oritas at Damascus by being lowered,
28:32 lowered from the city wall on a basket. What would we call that? We would call that evading arrest.
28:38 We would call that running a roadblock. So Paul evades arrest when Peter is locked up in jail
28:52 by Herod, and the angel springs him, he walks out into the street, and then he goes to John Mark's
28:59 house, checks in with him, and then disappears into the night. Okay, so the men who wrote the men
29:07 who wrote those words were not hypocrites. They were apostles of the Lord Jesus Christ.
29:13 That means that the absolute craven do whatever they say has to be a distortion.
29:20 And I feel like the pastors in this country and in all these western countries, they weren't being
29:28 stalwarts against the tyranny of what the government was trying to do. And I think it was
29:35 go along to get along. It was a lot of pragmatic approach as opposed to a biblical approach.
29:39 There's another quote from your Christian Christian Christian, that says this.
29:43 I think I've said mere Christianity on accident a couple of times and you didn't
29:45 correct me, but it's mere Christian. What are we to say of those Christian leaders who are
29:50 masculine enough to want to be in leadership, but not biblically masculine enough to accept
29:55 the assigned sacrifices that go with it? Now, to be fair, you were talking about something
30:01 something else in terms of how men are set up and called into into the pulpit for different
30:06 reasons. Some people want to be into to look cool and to have power and influence. But I feel like
30:10 that relates to what you were just talking about, Doug, which is you had so many people in the
30:15 congregations that are looking to their pastors. And we'll talk more about certain types of
30:19 churches here in a minute, in a minute. But they were looking to their pastors for some level of
30:24 direction. And the direction wasn't just in the spiritual realm, it was to how to act in a civil
30:29 society. Like, do we need to be pushing back against this? Is it sinful for me to come to church,
30:35 knowing that there are elderly people here that are more susceptible to this particular, you know,
30:40 sickness than I am. And I just felt like there were so many squishy cowards that were found out
30:46 during COVID, because it's like, look, you're not willing to fight the government on something
30:50 like this. And then you start thinking about it's like, yeah, you're not fighting against the
30:54 murder and slaughter of babies either. And so it's like, yeah, it kind of makes sense that you're
30:57 going to be squishing on just about everything. Caesar will tell you whatever he wants to tell you,
31:00 and you'll just bend over and take it. At least that's what it seems like.
31:03 Yeah. And Jesus, Jesus talks about this in the gospel of John, where he distinguishes shepherds
31:09 from hirelings. Okay, he says, when the when the threat arises, the hireling runs, a wolf appears,
31:18 and the hireling disappears into the tall grass, because he doesn't have he doesn't have a life
31:23 investment in the sheep. All right, the good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep,
31:28 the good shepherd sets a model or a pattern for all under shepherds. All under shepherds
31:36 need to be standing in between their people and the threat. Okay, that's that's what has to that's
31:44 what has to happen. So those Canadian pastors who went to jail rather than shut down, that was
31:49 exactly what a pastor ought to do. He needs to be standing out in front. And if you don't if you
31:56 don't want that responsibility, then you shouldn't want the privilege of speaking to the people of
32:02 God upfront. If you want to be upfront of the church, giving your lecture, giving your sermon,
32:09 giving your talk, then you need to be out front when the when the pinch comes, you need to be out front
32:15 when the persecution is arriving. Otherwise, you're not qualified to be a pastor. And you need to
32:20 resign your pastor. Yeah, I think you're absolutely right. And one thing that I've done on my show
32:25 and I've encouraged people to do is look, if you feel this way about these topics, go set a meeting
32:32 with your pastor, sit down with them and say, look, I know that if you start talking about abortion
32:38 from the pulpit, that you're going to take some slings and arrows. I know if you start talking
32:41 about these, these new lockdowns and all that, that you're going to take a lot of slings and arrows.
32:46 But I will stand in front of those slings and arrows and I will provide you a little bit of cover.
32:50 And then you get 10 more of your buddies that all set meetings and go in there and tell him
32:54 the same thing to steal his nerves and to give him that level of resolve to know that, Hey, I'm
32:59 not just going to be doing something and be out there by myself. But then there was a pastor from
33:03 Canada, Jacob Reum, he was on the show and he talked about, yeah, I see your point, Kyle,
33:10 but he should be doing that for you. Like, that's not your job. Now I was doing it from like a
33:15 rah, rah, we got your back, like I'll stand in the phalanx with you kind of Spartan way. But as a
33:21 pastor, you should be stealing the nerves of the flock. Because guess what? I'm not going to have
33:26 to give an account to God someday for how I followed my pastor. He, however, is going to have to give
33:32 an account to God for how he has shepherded me in the rest of the flock. And so I, it leads to
33:38 another quote here. And then I'll just tee you up to talk more about it. Another quote from the book,
33:42 salvation for nations is religious, and it needs to be religiously thick. We cannot be saved by a
33:49 thin religion. We cannot be saved by a religion, the theological definitions of which will not stand
33:55 up under five minutes of questioning. Iteliolated. Iteliolated. That's a new word for me. Iteliolated.
34:01 You can say it. Iteliolated. There it is. Faithy words have no saving power. Why would they?
34:08 So what this leads me to think is these Ted talk churches, these, these mega churches, and not all
34:14 mega churches are bad. I've talked about several in the show that are enormous, but they're gospel
34:18 driven. They care about discipleship and they care about people and making real converts,
34:22 not just getting people to raise their hands at a rock concert. But there are these churches that
34:26 are a mile wide and an inch deep. Their theology is basically non-existent. They don't even have
34:31 church membership. If you didn't show up after being there every Sunday for 10 years, they wouldn't
34:36 even notice they do these at the movies series and they try to get these people in the door.
34:41 And then it has to be bred in circus for the rest of that person's life as a member of the church,
34:46 because, you know, how you attracted them in the door is how you're going to keep them, right?
34:50 But I feel like that plays into what we're seeing here is you have these pastors that have a lot of
34:54 followers on Instagram and they've sold a lot of books. But at the end of the day, they're not
34:59 doing the pastoral duties. They're doing the influencer duties. They're more of like a business
35:05 guru than they are a pastor. What say you? I'd say that's absolutely correct. I saw a great meme
35:11 that was floating around. It's a pastor standing at a in front of a barista's counter. And he said
35:18 I'd like a light roast, please. And she says your your sermons are basically Ted talks with by
35:25 Ted talks with Bible verses. And so this superficial this superficial Christianity
35:35 mile wide inch deep. Well, let's put it this way. Jesus talks up at the end of the sermon on the
35:41 Mount. He talks about the one who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice. It's
35:47 like a man who builds a house on the foundation of rock. A man who doesn't put them into practice
35:55 is building on sand. He's not building on the rock. Now, those two houses side by side can have the
36:02 same amount of curb appeal, right? And the one that's not built on a foundation can could have
36:10 even greater curb appeal. When you're driving by, it could have more flourishes and the lawns and
36:16 better shape and you know all that sort of thing. But the the difference between the houses is not
36:22 revealed until the storm comes. When the storm comes and and persecution breaks out and your
36:32 homeschool curriculum is now illegal, right? And nobody in your nobody in your house is vaccinated.
36:42 And let's say you're guilty of other bits of wrongthink. Okay. But let's say you managed to do this
36:50 while just being a typical evangelical, not you didn't belong to a die heart thing. And all of a
36:57 sudden the crisis hits and you you say I have to I have to find a church that can equip me
37:06 for this crisis for this hour. Are you going to seek out Joel Osteen's church at that time?
37:13 Are you are you going to are you going to go to a big box church that is closed anyway? Are you
37:20 going to what are you going to do? No, the chant what's happened is the churches like ours and other
37:27 churches around the country that stayed open that that spoke the word of God in a way that was relevant
37:34 to the current crisis. Those churches are exploding. Okay, what do we do with all the people here in
37:41 Moscow? We're at the tail end of a large refugee column. I it's it's hard to explain what's happened
37:50 in our community over the last couple three years. People chased here by their blue state governor,
37:57 people who are you know, it's people who were let down by their pastors and elders, people who,
38:04 you know, it's just a trail of woe. But we've been greatly blessed and it's and I feel like we're
38:12 sort of in the land of Goshen when the plagues are raining down on Egypt, right? Our country's
38:20 falling apart and in many ways we've never had it so good because people want strong leadership.
38:30 These are times of crisis and they want someone who is going to take arrows for them. They want
38:36 someone to tell them that this is what the Bible says you're to do and here here are the passages
38:42 and here's the exegesis. You don't just bluster and and give them a plan of action because you're
38:50 personally dogmatic. What you do is you show them from the word that this is what God wants you to
38:56 do. People need that. And one Doug, I cosign everything that you just said but it it even starts
39:05 before the pastor even goes up onto the pulpit or stage or whatever they called at that particular
39:10 facility. It has a lot to do with the worship set that sets people up to hear the words and you
39:17 talk about modern so-called worship music and still one of the the most listened to and downloaded
39:22 episodes of this podcast is episode where I talk about how contemporary Christian music is for
39:27 women and effeminate men. It's very thin. It's it's very vapid and you have a short quote from
39:33 mere Christiandom that says this, Christians need to stop filling their worship services with
39:38 sentimentalist treacle and to start worshiping biblically in a very dark world. And so in that
39:44 section, you talk about singing the Psalms and kind of, you know, there's the difference between
39:50 the Psalms, hymns and spiritual songs and that doesn't mean spiritual songs are bad. But if that's
39:55 all you sing, you're getting the repetition, you're getting the the emotional uplifting, right? You
40:01 you're emotionally manipulated by the chord changes and the the chorus for the 17th time and then the
40:05 bridge and then the bridge and then the chorus again. And then the the music and in the the lights
40:10 and the smoke machine. Yeah, it's very emotionally driven. But when you leave the concert, you're left
40:16 with nothing. It's it's what I call spiritual skittles. So you've eaten the skittles. They taste
40:20 amazing. And then you're immediately hungry again. But I feel like how we handle worship dug in
40:26 modernity is leading to pastors that it's kind of hard to go from a Hillsong concert set and then
40:32 go into somebody that is like a fire breathing dragon bringing the word of God. You know what I mean?
40:37 Yeah, absolutely. So the kind of music you're talking about, although I will say there's a decent
40:44 song here and there, but as a class as a class as a genre, we're talking about Jesus is my boyfriend
40:51 music or worse. Jesus is my girlfriend music. So the thing that's characteristic about the Psalms
41:00 and when churches learn to sing the Psalms, when you when you learn to sing the Psalms, one of the
41:05 things that you've run into almost right away is how many of the Psalms are praises to God, prayers
41:15 to God, praising God, but the Psalms contain enemies. Okay, if you if you look, if you look
41:24 through modern worship music, enemies are really hard to find. Right. Okay, if you go if you went
41:33 through a 19th century hymnal, enemies are hard to find. In the Psalms, enemies are everywhere.
41:40 There are enemies in Luther's a mighty fortress, though this world with devils filled and St.
41:47 Patrick's breastplate has enemies in it, but the Psalms is just the Psalms are chock full of enemies.
41:55 Well, our world, the world that we're living in is chock full of enemies also. And when you when
42:02 you start singing the Psalms, it puts iron in your blood. It gives you a vocabulary to know how to
42:09 pray to God about what where you are, because if you're just if you think the Christian life is
42:16 standing in a meadow admiring the sunrise, then you then you're and you sing that way and that
42:23 everything is like that. You're not going to be equipped when the orcs come over the wall.
42:28 I mean, absolutely not. And you're also not equipped to have a healthy fear of the Lord. That's
42:33 that's part of the thing as well. Like God's scary and he and he should be. That doesn't mean that
42:37 he's not accessible. But when we sing about Jesus and think about Jesus as this wispy haired,
42:43 soft feature Danish guy, we lose the fact that he was a Middle Eastern Jew, which scripture tells
42:48 us he was not an attractive person. Right. This was a rough 30 cent year old Jewish construction
42:54 worker. Like he was probably dirty and like in terms of, you know, where they were at the time,
42:59 he was constantly covered in dust and dirt. Like he wasn't this this image that we get from certain
43:04 people. And that kind of infuses our theology a little bit. It makes us think about Jesus in
43:09 this way. And it's like, wait a minute, wait a minute. We think about Jesus is going around and
43:13 like carrying lambs and, you know, kissing people in the tips of their noses. But it's like,
43:17 do y'all know he's coming back with like a sword in his mouth and a tattoo on his leg
43:21 and like a robe dipped in blood. It's like this is this is not that cutesy wootsie little boyfriend.
43:26 And the problem for men, Doug, is we go in there. And that's why I try to appeal to a more masculine
43:32 audience that will walk in their alpha that they're very driven, they're very virile. And they walk
43:38 in and they see this set and they don't have the emotional wherewithal to realize the reason I
43:43 can't get into this is because it's homoerotic is because if we took out the name Jesus and inserted
43:48 the name Jimmy, then it's going to be, you know, like someone singing a dedication song to their
43:54 boyfriend. And so like, what is your, I guess what's your warning to these churches that aren't man
43:59 friendly? Because Doug, I've been asked for years now, how can I make my church's men's ministry
44:04 better and used to I would try to help them around the edges. But now I'm telling them,
44:08 don't even have a men's ministry, make your church man friendly. And then men's ministry will just run
44:14 throughout your entire congregation. The women will be more protected and more uplifted. The
44:20 children will be more discipled and catechized and things will get better as opposed to throwing,
44:25 you know, chili cook off once a year and calling it good. You know what I mean?
44:27 Yeah, absolutely. So the ministry to men and women both should be Sunday morning worship service,
44:36 the preaching of the Word of God. That's the main focus. Now here, there are different ways to
44:41 illustrate this. But I think the evangelical church has got a serious problem with this.
44:48 If you go to an average big box evangelical church on Father's Day, you can expect to see the men
44:58 kicked around the sanctuary. Okay, man, it's time to step up. It's my time for you to man up. I can't
45:05 believe that some of the some of the young ladies in here can't pray the Lord's prayer because
45:10 the words are Father stick on their throat. You know why they can't do that? Because the kind of
45:14 dad they had, you're that kind of dad, you have to stop being that kind of dad. Just try to imagine
45:19 doing that to the women on Mother's Day. Oh, it would be a bloodbath. It would be a total
45:26 bloodbath. The reason men are put off by worship is because we chase them away and we try to chase
45:36 them away with a stick. And if they if they come, if they're docile enough to be willing to come,
45:43 it's because someone got them on their meds or they're they're cowed by their wives and they just
45:50 want to sit in the back row and be left alone. And then they scoot out as they scoot out as soon as they
45:57 have an opportunity. We have we've made church the most male hostile environment and that
46:06 in the contemporary world that's saying something. All right. Sure. But the the church pioneered it
46:13 before corporate America began thinking in terms of toxic masculinity, the church pioneered that,
46:21 the evangelical church pioneered that. So a couple of good books that I could recommend.
46:26 One is written ironically by a feminist named Ann Douglas. And it's called the feminization of
46:32 American feminization of American culture. Yeah. And she she does a marvelous job explaining
46:39 how the the drift away the falling away from the Calvinist ethos of early America set us up for
46:47 this, the feminization of American culture. And then Leon Podelis, P O D L E S wrote a book called
46:54 the church impotent, the church impotent. And he undertakes to explain why it is that church in the
47:02 West, he's speaking of Roman Catholicism and Protestantism in the West is so inimical to men.
47:12 Okay. And and why men don't go. And his thesis, which I think is quite quite compelling to to me is
47:26 that the in the West, a form of piety developed where the the church is the bride of Christ. So
47:37 corporately, we are feminine. And the Lord Jesus is the bridegroom. And we are feminine
47:44 corporately. So it's appropriate for the church to sing him that is the church is the bride. But
47:53 what happened was in the in the Middle Ages, in the West, that piety was individualized.
48:04 So you began, you began speaking and praying in your personal devotions, like a bride preparing
48:12 yourself for her husband. Well, the women, the women could do that. But the men sure couldn't.
48:18 Right. And so they said, deal me, they said, deal me out. Or you occasionally ran across a man who
48:26 was good was good at it. And and that was another different kind of problem. And I think what we've
48:35 seen is we've seen such a lack of true, godly, biblically based masculinity from the pulpits.
48:42 And this is something that you talk about in future men, which is not the point of today's
48:45 discussion. But that's another book that you wrote, where you have the two dichotomies,
48:49 you have the incredibly effeminate, and then you have the the counterfeit. So the counterfeit
48:54 masculinity being the, you know, four wheel drive trucks. And you know, I'm gonna run in the mud,
48:58 and I'm gonna chase women and drink whiskey and smoke scars and blah, blah. And as you know,
49:01 I pass her friend, Toby Martin says, it's like, that stuff's make that stuff makes you awesome.
49:05 It doesn't make you a man, though, like, and it's just kind of one of those things like, yeah,
49:08 that's that's exactly how it goes. Now, I wonder, I may be drawing a correlation here that isn't
49:13 super related, but is our discussion, Doug, about how the church has spoken into culture,
49:20 how the church has operated congregationally, or, you know, as as a corporate environment.
49:25 Does that get into a discussion about the dichotomy between what you talk about in terms of a cold
49:30 law and a hot gospel? Because I feel like when you go into a lot of these churches,
49:36 there are some churches that are really hot on the law, and they love pointing out the things
49:39 that are wrong with people. But then there are other churches that don't ever want to point
49:43 out the law because the law is icky and mean and judgmental sounding and not cry like somehow.
49:48 And the gospel message that they give is so just absolutely vapid and like, it's just nothing.
49:54 It's not a real full-throated, robust version of the gospel. Does that work in here cold law and
50:00 hot gospel? Yes, very much so. Basically, there's a difference between telling a man the truth
50:08 straight up the middle in a cold matter of fact way, which men will take. When I'm telling a man
50:16 that he's got to look, man, you've got to stop behaving this way. You're destroying your life,
50:21 you're you're going to ruin your marriage. When I talk to him that way, when I give him a Dutch
50:26 uncle talk, I'm respecting him as a man. Right. Right. I'm treating him as though he has dignity
50:35 and agency and responsibility. And that doesn't mean all you're doing Doug is acknowledging that,
50:41 right? Right. And I'm coming to my brother and I'm saying, man, you have to stand up straight.
50:46 You have to take, you know, but there is even though it's a repute or an admonition,
50:52 I'm respecting him. I'm respecting his dignity. But in the tearing down of men that's happens in
50:59 the evangelical world, it's not that he's sinning that's the problem. It's his masculinity. That's
51:06 the problem. Right. His masculinity is being treated as the thing that we really have to get
51:13 rid of. Your problem is that you sometimes think your wife is wrong. Well, is it possible that she
51:22 might be? Right. I remember hearing one time, a woman who moved to our church, they joined the
51:32 church. And one Sunday, I said, in the pulpit, I said, now here's an area where you wives sin.
51:42 Okay. And it was like, whoa, yeah, it was like she sat up straight and like, I've not heard this
51:49 kind of thing before. Oh, he can see the what has happened in the evangelical world is because
51:56 the pastors have count out to the women. They have left women pastorless. There's no spiritual
52:04 guidance. So the men are fronted and insulted and chased away. And the women are flattered
52:11 and left without guidance. And the end result is everybody is at sea. Everybody's lost.
52:17 The sheep are all over the mountain. And the shepherds are just, you know, they've got an
52:23 Instagram account to the, you know, send me out pictures of the coffee and the Bible study they
52:28 had this morning. And I feel like it does such a disservice to women, obviously, as you pointed
52:34 out, and how they view themselves because they will almost deify themselves. And then the men feel
52:40 like, you know, obviously men get more of the brunt of all the blame and we deserve it because
52:44 we've been given a a important different calling than the women that is somewhat more substantive.
52:50 But at the same time, when you look at your wife as somebody that is infallible, right? And it's
52:56 like, oh, it must be a me problem. That's not just bad for you and your own psyche. That's bad for
53:01 your marriage. It puts way too much pressure on her, especially if she's bought into the lie
53:05 that there's nothing that's wrong with her either. And so yeah, you were, I guess you're a fan of
53:11 stepping in it. You like to step in it and just kind of see what happens. And you know what,
53:15 you've already given us more time than what we had bargained for today. So I'll make this
53:18 the last question of the day. If you Google your name, or if you go to your Wikipedia page or do
53:22 any of those things, you're always stepping in it. You're always hitting the hornets nest. There's
53:26 always some sort of controversy about something that you've said. And you know, whenever you do
53:31 your was it with the stuff you do in November, like no quarter November, like all those types of
53:36 things, like you're you're just getting after it. And I like that because it's like, I don't care
53:41 about people that have opinions, I care about people that have bold opinions, because if you
53:44 have a bold opinion, that typically means that you have some ways to substantiate your position,
53:49 and that you're ready to give an account for that or an apologia as it will. But for you,
53:54 I'm curious, is there a controversy that has befallen you throughout your career that is like, especially
54:01 funny to you? Because I'll do stuff. I'll say stuff on my show and people react negatively to it.
54:05 And I'm like, I'm so amused by people's positions on it. I just find it very, very entertaining.
54:11 Is there one particular that sticks out for you that the that's like, this is so rich, I love it.
54:16 I would say the one the one sticks out, maybe it's because it's the most recent one. But it's
54:22 really a good example of this is I've been teaching these things on on life between the sexes for
54:29 my entire ministry and have written books on and stuff. And routinely, I've been attacked from the
54:35 left on it, where I'm attacked for being a misogynist and being a patriarchalist and all of that.
54:44 But recently, just within the last year, I've been getting attacks from the right also simultaneously
54:51 accusing me of being a feminist. So basically, what I call that when people are attacking me from
55:03 the left for being misogynistic and a patriarchalist, and people are attacking me from sort of the
55:09 manosphere, right, where they are chewing tobacco is sort of the apex of masculinity or something.
55:19 When they when they attack me, I'm being attacked from both directions simultaneously. And what I
55:24 call that is a sweet spot. That is that means that I think that there's some sort of balance
55:33 going on. I believe that men's sin, and I believe that women's sin. And I believe that men's sin
55:39 in distinctively masculine ways and women's sin in distinctively feminine ways. And a pastor,
55:46 a pastor job although pastors are all to be men, they're not to be men because they're they're
55:53 hired attorneys for the men's side. My job as a pastor, my job as a pastor is to speak for Christ,
56:00 not to speak for the men. Okay, I can speak speak up for the men when Christ does,
56:06 I can speak up for the women when Christ does. And how do I know that? Well, it's in the word,
56:12 it's got to be exegetically derived. So that would be the the most ironic, the most ironic
56:21 controversy I've been in. Well, and there is the age old wisdom that if you're not taking
56:27 criticism from different people, you're probably not being bold enough. And that definitely applies
56:30 to your Christian life. If you're not actually feeling some level of persecution, it might be
56:35 because you haven't got a hot enough gospel, but we've gotten everywhere in this conversation. I'm
56:39 very, very happy with how it's gone. But have we had enough fun, Doug, for you to come back on
56:44 at a later date to talk about future men, because there's so much in that book and we couldn't get
56:47 to any of it. Yeah, happy to do it. Okay, well, that's all for me. Is there anything else you
56:52 want to get off your chest? No, that's good. That's good. All right, Doug Wilson, thank you
56:56 for coming on on Don't To the Life of Man's podcast. Thank you.
56:59 There you go, guys. I hope you enjoyed my time with Doug Wilson. But before we let you go,
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The secular experiment has failed. The idea that we can govern ourselves without reference to the transcendental reality that is God is a pipe dream.
Doug Wilson
Salvation for nations is religious, and it needs to be religiously thick. We cannot be saved by a thin religion.
Kyle Thompson
If you're not taking criticism from different people, you're probably not being bold enough.
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