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BRIAN SUMNER | From Professional Skateboarder to Professional Evangelist (Ep. 283)

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BRIAN SUMNER | From Professional Skateboarder to Professional Evangelist (Ep. 283)
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In this episode, Kyle Thompson interviews Brian Sumner, a former professional skateboarder turned evangelist. They discuss Brian's journey from fame and fortune to a dark place of despair, ultimately leading him to find faith and purpose in Christ.
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0:48 This is Undaunted Life of Man's Podcast.
0:51 I'm your host Kyle Thompson.
0:53 Let's get into it.
0:54 Hi guys.
0:55 Today I've got a special guest on the podcast.
0:56 I'm Brian Sumner, so he was born in Liverpool, England, and he made a name for himself in
1:00 the UK as a skateboarder, and then he became a professional skateboarder, came to the United
1:04 States to the age of 15 to join Tony Hawk's birdhouse skateboards teams.
1:08 I mean, guys, this guy had an amazing career.
1:11 He came at the right time.
1:12 This is really when skateboarding was exploding in the United States and really all over the
1:16 world.
1:17 And he had a very successful 20-year career skateboarding.
1:20 But at kind of the height of a skateboarding fame, he got married, had a kid, his marriage
1:25 fell apart, and he has this really great story of how God kind of saw him through that moment
1:29 because he actually set out on a journey to prove that life was meaningless, that there
1:33 was no God.
1:34 There was nothing like that.
1:35 And as with a lot of guys that said how to do something like that, God snatches them
1:39 up.
1:40 And now he's an evangelist, a pastor, a speaker.
1:42 He's the host of the Foolishness Podcast, and he's also the author of a marriage book
1:45 called Never Fails Marriage Book.
1:48 And guys, this was a really, really, really fun interview.
1:51 Okay.
1:52 We talked about some cool stuff off air, and I'm like, man, I need to go ahead and start
1:53 hitting record so we can get into all this.
1:55 We spent a lot of time talking about MMA.
1:57 He knows a ton about MMA.
1:58 He knows a bunch of MMA fighters personally.
2:00 You know, I asked him who he thinks the goat is and all that.
2:03 We get to talking about jujitsu because he's been trained in jujitsu a lot now.
2:05 Now that he's not skateboarding as much, we talk about his family.
2:08 We really go into a lot of detail about that time and his life when he was suicidal and
2:12 God literally pulled him out of all of that and showed himself to him.
2:16 And you know, it was just an amazing time of his life.
2:19 And that's really springboarded him into the career that he has now.
2:22 He and I are probably going to be doing some more stuff down the road.
2:24 So I'll keep you guys up to date and up to, up to stuff with all that.
2:27 And it's going to be a lot of fun.
2:28 I can just tell you guys, but you're really, really going to enjoy this interview.
2:31 I'm not going to keep him from you any longer.
2:32 So without further ado, let's get into it.
2:35 Brian Sumner.
2:36 Welcome done.
2:37 Daunted life of man's podcast.
2:38 Hey man.
2:39 I'm stoked.
2:40 Excited.
2:41 Jump in and hang out with you today.
2:42 Ready to go.
2:43 It was a lot of fun.
2:44 And I just got to tell you to our audience, I'm so sorry.
2:47 I didn't hit record like 10 minutes ago when we first started talking because we basically
2:50 did like an entire podcast about a bunch of awesome stuff, but we're going to get into
2:54 a lot of different subject matter today.
2:55 I'm really appreciated to have you on, but probably the most important place to start,
3:00 the most generic place to start is kind of how your name became more relevant around
3:04 the globe.
3:05 And that was because of skateboarding.
3:06 And so you are one of the few people on the planet that made a career out of skateboarding,
3:11 right?
3:12 A lot of people want to, a lot of people pretended to, a lot of people would like to think they
3:15 could do that.
3:16 But most of your career, you were known for being a skateboarder.
3:19 So let's just start generically as possible for a kid growing up in Liverpool, England,
3:24 what got you into skating and how'd that kind of like project you on into doing it professionally?
3:29 Well, I guess even knowing your audience, I'll hit on some funny trigger points.
3:33 And what got me into skating, believe it or not listeners is the movie, Police Academy
3:39 4.
3:40 You know, I'm a kid in England, America's kind of making its way over, you've got married
3:45 with children, the Simpsons, the WWF, the Police Academy movies, for whatever reason
3:50 were huge.
3:51 I watched that film, saw the skating.
3:53 I thought it was all Hollywood and stunts, you know, jumping trash cans, grinding stuff,
3:58 whatever else.
3:59 Then I'm on vacation in New Jersey, my first time in America, and I've seen a guy all
4:04 the way up a cave outside the surf shop.
4:06 I was 12, 13 years old.
4:09 I fell in love with skating.
4:11 And so literally for me, going back to Liverpool, which, you know, we joked around earlier,
4:15 prior, we'll jump into that, but Liverpool is kind of like a rough city.
4:20 You know, a lot of unemployment, it's a docking place, it was one of the most famous cities
4:23 in the world at one time, a lot of kind of violence, aggression, craziness, but it's
4:28 a big loving city at the same time, it's kind of crazy.
4:31 I was getting into some bad stuff, skating showed up in my life at the right time.
4:36 It kind of gave me a different life where, you know, you had different friends, you focused
4:40 on different things, even a different fashion sense.
4:42 It was all influenced from America, you know, baggy clothes in there.
4:46 So there I am in England, you know, book tooth kids, having no clue about life, finding
4:50 skateboarding, and that became my religion.
4:53 So yeah.
4:54 Well, let me, let me kind of play into that a little bit because obviously we talked about
4:57 Darren Till and Patty the Batty and some people that you kind of ran around with are people
5:00 that if you were living back in jolly old England, that you would be, you know, you know, going
5:04 around and hanging out with friends with them all.
5:06 Yeah.
5:07 Right.
5:08 Exactly.
5:09 So let's, let's say you didn't find skateboarding or let's say you did what I did the first time
5:13 with the skateboard when I tried to go down a driveway and it skidded out from underneath
5:17 me and I landed on my butt and I'm like, I think I'm going to stick to baseball.
5:20 I think baseball might be my sport.
5:22 What do you think would have happened in your life or like, where do you think your life
5:25 would have turned?
5:26 I know we're just kind of pretending we have no idea, but crystal ball at forming.
5:29 That's a really interesting question because if you were in school at 11 12 13, here's
5:36 what's happening, are older brothers and sisters are starting to take acid, starting
5:40 to do drugs and the prodigy, ecstasy, the rave scene and all that house music stuff.
5:46 You know, I'm 42.
5:47 So I'm older than darn till obviously way older than Patty the Batty.
5:50 I wouldn't have known them, but I'm saying darn till they're the street over for me.
5:54 Patty the Batty is in that area.
5:56 My friends are friends with them to this day.
5:59 And so for me, there's you and me in school.
6:02 What would we have done?
6:03 We would have either probably started getting into some drugs, partying, raging, you know,
6:09 people don't get this.
6:10 It's a lot around the world, but Liverpool, obviously the Beatles, it's such a music town.
6:15 The Bob Marley Pink Floyd kind of Jimi Hendrix smoking weed hanging out lifestyle.
6:20 It's there.
6:21 So either I would have gone into that, which I think I would have ended up, you know, when
6:27 I have been a guy on drugs doing crazy stuff, or I was super passive aggressive as most
6:32 people in England are.
6:33 I joke when I'm preaching, especially that we're all soccer hooligans.
6:37 Everyone's so ready to go that you're almost like passive aggressive anyway.
6:42 If I could have gone back, I would have gotten an MMA for sure.
6:45 I mean, that's my vice.
6:46 I love it.
6:47 And I'm thankful for skating, but I'm just saying Liverpool, a lot of my friends are dead
6:51 or in jail, got in gangs, or got away from it all and just lived the casual life.
6:57 So for me, it probably would have been way worse than if I'd started skating to be honest.
7:02 Yeah.
7:03 It's an interesting thought experiment because I grew up in kind of a rough town in Southwest
7:06 Oklahoma, you know, military town, but also a lot of proud people that lived in that area
7:09 very diverse.
7:10 And so, you know, I could have, you know, gotten mad when I was 13.
7:13 My parents got divorced and you kind of went that crazy path.
7:15 And the thing is, is we all have parallels that we grow up with.
7:19 And so you kind of see like, if you would have studied harder, you kind of would have
7:22 gone this path and been more like this kid.
7:24 If you would have just fallen completely off the radar, you would have kind of gone this
7:27 way.
7:28 And around that same time is whenever I became a Christian, so it's like, okay, you're learning
7:31 how to become a man, learning how to become a Christian.
7:33 And I definitely want to get more into kind of the whole manhood side later.
7:36 But I guess the curious thing.
7:37 So I don't want to, you know, divert too far off of skateboarding.
7:40 Yeah.
7:41 I mentioned baseball earlier, the gap between being really, really good at baseball and being
7:46 a professional is like as far as the East is from the West because I mean, some of the
7:51 best baseball players I've ever seen with my own eyes didn't get to, you know, the middle
7:55 of the minor leagues, right?
7:57 So in the world of skateboarding helped me understand as a non skateboarder, but a kid
8:00 that grew up watching the X games and do tour and all those types of things.
8:04 What is the difference between a kid that's just a good kid that, you know, rides his
8:08 board around LA and all that versus somebody that makes a living at it?
8:12 Honestly, I would say it's almost like circumstance.
8:15 And here's what I'll qualify for the listeners.
8:17 I grew up on Bruce Lee, you know, people getting in the fights, craziness.
8:22 I mean, my dad will be cutting wood in the attic doing whatever and he would have a punching
8:26 bag with carpet in it or paper, you have me hitting it, saying numbers out loud, watching
8:32 Bruce Lee films, not because he wanted me to get in a fighting or not.
8:35 I just liked all the movement and everything.
8:37 So now I'm 12, 13, right around the age.
8:39 I'm skating.
8:40 And again, this question, it just makes sense.
8:43 I'm reading the Dow G. Cundo, I'm reading all of Bruce's books, I'm hearing about philosophy
8:48 and all these minds that of course he grew up around and hearing and the influence of
8:53 it, man needs to culture and all the rest of it.
8:57 And so he, his writings literally said, martial arts or Kung Fu.
9:02 This is the art, the craft, the vehicle that shapes you.
9:05 I heard that and I thought, okay, skating is what shapes me.
9:10 That guy in the woods or the chopsticks who catches a fly, you know what, he said about
9:14 catching the fly, it's that's his focus and Bruce's focus was martial arts and my focus
9:19 was skateboarding and I'm saying that to say, I literally said, okay, it's either getting
9:24 high partying, raging on drugs, craziest like my friends, or I just aim at this skateboard.
9:30 This is all I know and my OCD, my focus to summarize what you're asking me.
9:35 What's the difference?
9:37 I was in the right place at the right time.
9:39 There was a couple of skaters that came out of Liverpool and England guys like Jeff Rowley,
9:43 Tom Penny, very famous, skating made its way over to America and they were looking back
9:48 to England and say, who could be next?
9:50 Well, right then I'm hitting, you know, puberty, I'm a teenager, I'm skating six, seven hours
9:55 a day, I'm winning contest, I'm in the magazines, I was just so conditioned that I was better
10:01 at performing than people, but what I say I was way more talented, no, but there are
10:07 people that are just, that the skaters today, even when you bring it to MMA standard when,
10:14 you know, Conor McGregor talks about talent or not and all the rest, there's guys like
10:17 Shane O'Neill when they skate, but I can never do certain things that they do, but my
10:22 hard work got me known enough where when I had black hair and I was kind of a bit darker
10:27 and I wasn't a believer and I have an English accent and my pro shoe as the Union Jack on
10:31 and I ride for Tony Hawk, Brian Sumner's name is going to be everywhere.
10:36 Would I stand out on a course skating around shore, but the gap it varies, but a lot of
10:42 it was timing, what town were you in, you know, for you, you might have missed out because
10:46 you were in California with me, but if you came out and hung out with me and stayed on
10:50 the couch, oh, who's this guy from Oklahoma, oh, he can do these five tricks, hey, here's
10:54 a photo and then it's up to you to take it so hard work matters.
10:58 I don't think I was, I think my kids are way more talented than I am, right, and you only
11:03 need to look at guys like BJ Penn and people, you know, Marcelo Garcia, there's things about
11:07 them that are just, you know, the prodigy, it was very different.
11:11 So when they just move different, and so like you could, you know, you could blackout BJ
11:16 Penn in a grappling match and figure out it's BJ Penn when he gets into that rubber guard
11:19 or something like that.
11:20 And I was thinking as you were saying that, like everybody knows what Tony Hawk looks
11:23 like, but like Bucky Lassick was a guy that I was like, he just looks different when like
11:27 his moves are just different yet his own style and super positive.
11:31 But you know, on Tony Hawk, he's amazing, Bucky is shocking.
11:34 One of the best to ever do it, but not as famous as Tony.
11:37 Right, and I mean, great on the vert ramp and kind of when Tony wasn't really doing vert
11:42 competitions anymore, Bucky was kind of cleaning up.
11:44 And so, you know, I'm trying to, you know, keep everything straight in terms of timing.
11:47 But with Tony Hawk, the cool thing about him is like, you were riding for Birdhouse, right?
11:51 And so that was Tony Hawk's company and he was the name brand, he was the Michael Jordan
11:54 of skating.
11:55 But I guess here's the thing is there are a lot of people that are famous for being good,
11:59 but they're not the best, right?
12:01 So I'm trying to think of a good example.
12:02 So maybe Conor McGregor is it.
12:03 I'm a big Conor McGregor fan.
12:05 He's not the best 155 pounder ever, but he's certainly the biggest.
12:09 He's the one that, you know, the world revolves around, you know, three weight divisions kind
12:13 of revolve around whatever he tweets, right?
12:15 But I guess give me an idea how good is Tony Hawk?
12:19 Like we know about the 900.
12:20 We know the video games.
12:21 How good was he really Tony's that good Tony is shocking and Tony, you know, he'll tell
12:26 you he was the nerdy kid that they made fun of because he just mastered tricks and then
12:31 skating caught up and see I kind of have like Tony pride in a way where people look down
12:36 on him because he did the McDonald's thing, the bagel by things, all the rest.
12:39 He sold out and blah, blah, blah.
12:41 But see, real integrity is doing what you want to do.
12:44 So Tony was like, hey, I want to do this.
12:46 I want to take skating beyond that.
12:49 We would go on tour and Tony's probably way older than I am, you know, and we would go
12:53 to a demo and he would drop into like a 540 and he just did like the craziest amount of
12:59 tricks on his birthday.
13:00 So I don't know that anyone's ever done as much for skating, obviously like a Rodney
13:04 Mullen or someone, but Tony is that good where every time he skates, it's crazy.
13:10 Now, is he going to do Nollie backside flip body jars like Bucky?
13:14 Is he going to do frontside 360 heel flips turn them with it like Bucky?
13:17 No, but Tony's going to skate that good every time to your point.
13:22 Conor McGregor, is he going to be a better wrestler?
13:24 You know, come from Oklahoma, no way, his wrestling, English guys, we did Bisping out
13:29 great wrestling.
13:30 He had to work on it.
13:31 The darn till he had to work on it, you know, when he was with Kelvin, obviously one thing,
13:35 but I'm saying, Connor had that left.
13:38 No one knew what he could bring yet.
13:40 He had those few moments where the first few fights, he tagged everyone with that left.
13:43 He had a very Bruce fencing style that opened the door.
13:47 Ireland got on board and so Connor now is almost going to catch up and prove Tony never had
13:53 to do that.
13:54 Tony just skated and he was that.
13:56 So when I see Tony Hawk footage, they I'm like, he's amazing.
13:59 I don't care about that really, but I'm backing Tony Hawk and that aspect, you know, so yeah,
14:03 and I think it's interesting to like a lot of people love to look back, especially these
14:07 kids these days.
14:08 They'll look back on stuff that Tony Hawk was doing and be like, Oh, that wasn't that
14:10 impressive.
14:11 The reason is because nobody was doing those things until Tony Hawk, like I remember Ryan
14:16 Metzger.
14:17 So he was a he was a motocross guy.
14:20 He was the first guy to do a backflip in competition.
14:23 And then I remember sitting in my dad's living room and he did a backflip and then went right
14:27 into another dirt ramp and did another backflip and I was like, okay, it can't get any better.
14:32 So here's here's my question to you.
14:34 How much further can skateboarding actually go?
14:37 Because eventually we've got to reach the end of what can be what a human body can do
14:42 on a board.
14:43 I mean, are we just going to be building bigger mega ramps and doing bigger stuff like that?
14:46 Like I feel like we're getting towards the end.
14:48 Or am I crazy?
14:49 I mean, at least yesterday says there's nothing new under the sun, but I'm telling you the
14:53 stuff they're doing today, like again, people like Shane O'Neal, I mean, even Naija, you
14:58 know, people just go off on Naija because he's wearing spandex at some times and he had
15:02 his ESPN, you know, whatever with like a tattoo on his rear end.
15:05 But I'm the guy who's like, you know what?
15:08 He works hard.
15:09 He puts the time in the things he does in contests.
15:12 I can't imagine people being that much better, but it just keeps progressing.
15:18 It's almost like, and I don't know because if you look at MMA, someone was making a
15:22 point the other day in the gym, how many single legs there was in the last UFC or how many
15:26 of this joke or whatever.
15:28 And is it that everyone's focusing on one thing and seeing what works right then, like
15:33 the John Jones leg kicks or the footstomps it used to be?
15:36 I mean, for anything, just to jump all over the place, which I like that we're doing.
15:40 The first thing someone should have said to Kona is, dude, get the best wrestler in the
15:44 gym and spent, because when Chad Mendes came in, two weeks notice, he almost ruined his
15:49 job.
15:50 He had Mendes way smaller, big pay day.
15:53 You know what I mean?
15:54 But he had no gas tank.
15:55 And so like if he could have kept taking him down, if he had had an eight week camp, then
15:59 he can keep taking him down.
16:00 But look at it.
16:01 I mean, here we are.
16:02 It kind of seems like we're crapping the counter, but the low calf kicks, right?
16:05 The low calf kick is a technique that is so devastating, so devastating, it's annoying
16:09 to me.
16:10 But it's kind of like, you know, I remember when Benson Henderson was first doing that
16:14 before he was even champion and yeah, and it's like, why is he doing that?
16:18 Like everyone knows you kick the quad dummy, right?
16:21 And then here we are.
16:22 And it's like, you know, you almost saw it in Mighty Mouse for Sohudo, their second
16:26 fight, you know, like that second fight almost didn't get out of the first round, because,
16:31 you know, Sohudo took that low calf kick and his foot decided not to work anymore.
16:34 I've experienced that kick.
16:36 It freaking sucks.
16:37 But that's just kind of the thing is I'm always curious where it's going to be because, you
16:40 know, I go back and watch some fights from whenever, because I started watching the UFC's
16:43 whenever you could go to Blockbuster and, you know, rent the, rent the movie.
16:46 It's like, okay, we had a guy with one boxing glove on that had no wrestling.
16:50 Yeah, people that can't work a guard.
16:52 But look over the, you know, I don't know when this is going to come out.
16:54 But here recently, Francis and Ganyu just beat Cyril Ghan by wrestling of all things.
16:59 And then using Jiu Jitsu and who's your favorite fighter that I mean, you know, your audience
17:04 is all in on this.
17:05 Who's your favorite guy?
17:06 Well, so it's hard for me to say my favorite.
17:09 It's more so like guys that I will stop what I'm doing to watch.
17:13 So like a Chris Wideman or Frankie Edgar, I love those guys so much that when another
17:18 fighter beats them, I will hate that fighter forever.
17:21 It's like, I will never support that other fighter, right?
17:25 But I'll stop what I'm doing to watch guys like that.
17:27 So what about for you?
17:28 Who are the guys?
17:29 Because, you know, it's kind of easy if you were to say, Darren Till or Patty the baddie,
17:31 but who are those people where you're stopping Valentina's one for me, you'll want his one
17:35 for me, like, you know, they're just so incredibly skilled.
17:38 But for you, who are some of the fighters you stop?
17:40 Even what you said is funny because, you know, came from England, Liverpool to get away from
17:44 the party rage scene.
17:46 I was in a citizen when I came to America.
17:49 All my friends start kind of getting high partying because they're all Americans.
17:53 What do I do to kind of avoid that?
17:55 I go to Blockbuster and I get a load of Sour Patch kids and I rent UFC.
17:59 That's right.
18:00 So who was my first guy?
18:01 I literally put him on the TV last night, Don Fry.
18:05 No, look, Ron Fry and those fights are me by Fry and the mustache and the American.
18:11 So Don Fry and it was kind of like, you know, who I love, it was Croc up.
18:16 I mean, obviously all the pride days.
18:18 I loved Machita.
18:19 You've got a more wrestling background than I love kind of the striker that can do it.
18:24 But yeah, I mean, I love DC for the size of DC to what he did to Josh Barnett, for the
18:30 way to slam people, I just appreciate the competition and I guess, you know, I live
18:36 in Huntington somewhere around, you know, half I L and Kings.
18:38 I see all these guys everywhere.
18:40 I'm really good friends of Benil Dariush and I seen Giga the other day.
18:43 I see Marvin Vittore.
18:45 I go talk to all these times guys as well and share my faith.
18:49 You know what I mean?
18:50 I want to be around those guys as a guy that's in the MMA and I've known Dana for years,
18:54 like when and stay with Dana for days, just me and him about 15 years ago.
18:59 So went to UFC's witness to certain people who came to faith was crazy.
19:04 So yeah, well, it's my advice, yeah.
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19:36 Well, I got, I got to ask you, so well, don't worry guys, we'll get back into all the other
19:40 stuff we're supposed to talk about.
19:41 But I'm always curious when I talk to people that, that understand fighting because for
19:46 me, I was into the early UFC's.
19:48 I missed the pride in WEC days because I was playing ball and I just missed it.
19:53 So I, I will sit on my back porch with a cigar and a whiskey, turn on fight pass and
19:57 just watch old pride and stuff like that, like when crow cop was crow crop and when
20:02 Fedor was Fedor.
20:03 And like when Dan Henderson was Dan Henderson, he's in.
20:05 Always go punches.
20:06 Yeah.
20:07 Yeah, it was ridiculous.
20:08 So in your opinion, yeah, who is the MMA goat?
20:13 Who is the greatest of all time?
20:15 You can define that however you want, because I have a very specific answer to this.
20:19 Okay.
20:20 So I want to know, in your opinion, above all else, as of right now, as of the recording
20:24 of this recording this in January, 2022, who is the goat?
20:27 It's obvious.
20:29 It's Fedor.
20:30 Fedor.
20:31 Yeah.
20:32 He has like a thousand losses.
20:34 Now here's why, here's why, um, so he comes out like he's like mad that someone bent his
20:42 food or something.
20:44 He strolls down to the octagon or whatever, you know, or the octagon pride.
20:49 He was, here's why I say this.
20:51 He was able to change the fight like no one else.
20:54 If you watched the Kevin Randallman fight, he had respect for people.
20:58 His unorthodox kind of hooking almost like gigas punches and Croc up was meant to destroy
21:04 him.
21:05 Nogera was meant to destroy him.
21:07 The people he fought and he still fought.
21:09 Why did he stay in reduced triangle?
21:11 I don't know.
21:13 Why did he get tagged a couple of times?
21:14 I would say in a couple of times, he didn't lose anything and then he was going against
21:21 bigger guys.
21:22 He wasn't.
21:23 I would have said him in the pride era, but now, I mean, what, look, it could be, you
21:29 know what?
21:30 I mean, it could be almost lose that fight possibly.
21:32 I forget who it was against years ago, you know, where the, the, the judging was a little
21:37 bit sketchy.
21:38 And I'll tell you this, some of my friends who were up there up north where DC is, my
21:42 buddy used a check map, black belt, high level, six, three, six, four, and I'm like, what is
21:48 it like rolling wood could be when he's like, Brian, it is, it is the most ridiculous amount
21:53 of pressure.
21:54 This guy, I mean, I'm six, you know, I'm, I'm six foot.
21:57 I'm a wide guy.
21:58 I'm two, twenty, two, twenty five, two, forty, sometimes if I want to be, this guy is way
22:02 bigger than me.
22:03 And he said kebib's pressure is so perfect.
22:07 It's like he's shaped just to do what he does exactly.
22:10 And then he's not corner.
22:11 And the other thing is I'd say you could have said kebib and I go course, but also here's
22:14 the deal.
22:15 John Jones didn't ever hit his potential.
22:19 And then you've got the royal issues, you know, and the cocaine issues and then I don't
22:24 think Fedor ever took anything.
22:26 He could change a fight fast and he beat everyone's heroes.
22:29 So I go in the legend status, him, and who do you go with?
22:33 I mean, what's that?
22:34 I mean, wait, yeah, Brian, I feel like we're, we're going to be good friends, but let me
22:38 just explain to you how you're super duper wrong.
22:40 Okay.
22:41 So Fedor, Fedor and pride probably had one of the most impressive stretches we've ever seen,
22:47 but his career didn't in there.
22:48 Okay. And when you're talking about goat, you can't take a chunk of someone's career.
22:52 You can't take Anderson Silva's title reign.
22:54 You have to take everything into account.
22:56 Yeah.
22:57 Same thing with Habib.
22:58 Okay.
22:59 Yeah.
23:00 Habib.
23:01 His first like 20 fights were against his cousins over in Russia.
23:02 Yeah.
23:03 Like he was fighting Russian tomato cans.
23:04 Like if he had spent, you know, it hit 25 fights in the UFC, he might be the consensus
23:09 favorite.
23:10 John Jones, I've scored all his fights.
23:13 He lost that first fight to Gustafson.
23:15 Yeah.
23:16 4847 Gus. He lost to Tiago Santos on my scorecard.
23:20 He lost Dominic Reyes. And so, and so these are guys that I was like, okay, you can't
23:25 be the goat. And then there's also the Royd issues and just being a complete jack wagon
23:29 outside of all that. And you get into Mighty Mouse, but Mighty Mouse has fought three hard
23:33 guys his entire life, Henry Sehudo, Dominic Cruz and another guy. And he's like three
23:39 in two in those fights. So for me, for my money, if we're talking
23:43 about, shut up, man. I'll build it up on my own. All right. I'll do my own crescendo.
23:48 But if you would take everything into account, when you take losses, when you take avenging
23:53 losses, when you take who they are inside the octagon, outside the octagon, their respect
23:57 that they get everywhere else. The number one goat of all time, George St. Pierre.
24:02 Oh, how did I forget about?
24:04 I know.
24:05 How do they forget about his Canadian? We don't really like it.
24:08 No, it's funny because I think when he fought, was it Johnny and Hendrix? Yeah. I think he
24:16 was roided out of his mind. And that's why George is like, I'm done, because George is
24:21 the sweetheart of a man and devoted. When we were all wondering, why is he retiring?
24:26 What's the issue here? I think that was completely because Johnny never looked this Johnny, right?
24:30 Or Jimmy, which I was Johnny Hendrix as soon as he saw the came in, he couldn't make weight.
24:35 He had no power. We would gas and everything. Yeah. Of course, George. I think I just took
24:40 for granted at the time because that was almost a pride era where I'm seeing the crocups and
24:45 the striking and growing up liking Bruce Lee and watching No Retreat, No Surrender, The
24:49 Last Dragon. I wanted to see the striking. Yeah. I mean, George, I can't believe I forgot
24:54 George.
24:55 Yeah. Well, the thing is, is like, so you watch some of his fights, it's like, okay, people
24:59 are like, oh, he's just going to take you down and lay and pray. But it's like, he would
25:02 out strike strikers. He would out wrestle wrestlers. He would out grapple grapplers and losses.
25:07 Yeah. Right. And the thing is, is his two losses. He avenged and he avenged them brutally.
25:12 Yeah. Right. He took Matt Sarah. Not seriously enough. He came back and absolutely destroyed
25:16 him. He was way too young when he went and fought Matt Hughes for the first time. I'd
25:20 absolutely embarrass. Yeah. He just absolutely embarrassed him the second time around. And
25:24 then coming back again, Michael Bizbing, in my opinion, was kind of a paper champion
25:28 at 185. Kind of an easy deal for GSP to come back, but he comes back, knocks him down and
25:32 finishes him.
25:33 You know, guys who fought Bizbing though, you listen to Charles Sonnen, he says, Bizbing
25:38 hit the hardest, which is crazy. Because Mike kind of went on the radar for a while where
25:41 they were like, he wasn't okay. You know, I want anyone to do whatever. Right. Then you
25:45 see that TV thing they did, which kind of talks about his life. And he's kind of, you
25:49 know, and I've met Mike a couple of times. He's kind of that, you know, he lived probably
25:52 an hour or so from Liverpool. But I thought Mike might even take that fight. And when George
25:57 beat him. And then again, you know, here's a sad thing. I feel like about MMA. If you
26:01 listen to George, George is going to tell you that Nick Diaz to him should have been the
26:06 champ long ago. If you watch the George fight with him, it was like Nick didn't really know
26:09 what he was even doing for three rounds. Right. Then when he gets going, he kind of starts
26:13 because to me, the Diaz has never had a game plan that is like, what's up, bro? If they
26:18 went on a game plan and again, even BJ Penn, if he would have had more of a game plan with
26:22 his ability in jujitsu, the Diaz, and I mean, yeah, I mean, Brian, it's interesting. I just
26:29 drew this connection while you were talking. Yeah. You basically admitted earlier without
26:33 saying as much that you weren't the most gifted skater. You just outworked everybody. Yeah,
26:38 George St. Pierre has some physical gifting, but he just flat out worked everybody else
26:44 because maybe the most gifted fighter ever is BJ Penn. He had, he had flexibility, gas
26:50 tank and power. Like that, that doesn't happen because people ask me, why does Connor get
26:54 so tired? I'm like, because God can only bless someone so much. He can't give you the kiss
26:58 of death in your left hand and also give you Max Holloway's cardio. You know what I mean?
27:02 Do you feel like that's a fair comparison for like a GSP? It's like, he's outworked everybody.
27:07 He did. And it was a discipline. And really for me, not that I was anywhere near obviously
27:11 doing any of this stuff, but I really realized daily on when I was reading those Bruce Lee
27:15 books, tennis players and sports got a lot of baseball guys. Sadly, someone just natural
27:21 freak accident and athletes could do whatever. But tennis players were super driven. You
27:26 get an athlete that's like a tennis player. And normally even you coding wrestlers. This
27:31 is Frankie. This is Chris Wibeman. This is and Amy Sean share back in the day. They were
27:36 just absolute beasts because they were like that tennis player mindset. And also for me,
27:41 I get to America. Guess what? I'm gonna citizen. I might be going home. I break my ankle. I
27:46 haven't got time to sit around partying, raging, doing whatever. So to me, it was more I've
27:51 got to be disciplined. I've got to be focused those Bruce Lee mindsets helped. And it was
27:55 like me just navigating. And that's six hours a day. I mean, George, even now, who was he
28:00 rolling with recently? Was he just with him? Gordon Ryan, Gordon, John, I mean, and Lovato.
28:06 So and I've had people say, man, George will submit some people. Like the people he puts
28:12 away. And for a wrestler, you don't always get a wrestler that can use his jujitsu was
28:17 good. The way transitions, you know. So and again, I'm the, yeah, this is my deal. Like
28:23 I'll prep, right preach travel, but it's kind of like my, my other world is like MMA. And
28:29 I'm again, I'm around so many of those guys. I'm fully aiming to use my, my jujitsu life
28:34 and the rest of it for the sake of the kingdom. You know, I look at it all. Well, and I think
28:39 the thing about it as well for a guy like George is he had the best coaches around him
28:45 and he let them coach. He let Greg Jackson coach him. He let John Donner coach him. Like
28:49 he let, I'm forgetting his Canadian coach. Yeah, the guy for he, you know, yeah. Yeah.
28:54 Yeah. And so he's allowing these guys actually coach them. Yeah, try. Sorry. But whereas
29:00 there's these other guys that are like, I'm the best guy here. And we're, you know, you're
29:04 all my sparring partners. I'll support you where I can, but this camp is about me. And
29:09 you kind of insulate yourself from that. Whereas George is like, okay, Gordon Ryan, you're
29:14 the greatest no geek grappler of all time. And you know, you're naturally 30, 40 pounds
29:18 bigger than me time to get after it. And that's just kind of his style. And maybe here to put
29:22 a little bow on the MMA stuff and then we'll, we'll back our way back into the skating.
29:27 Is there a fight right now that is not on the books that you would most like to see because
29:32 me, you mentioned Giga earlier, he just suffered a loss here recently. He was the guy that I
29:37 was thinking was going to potentially make a run at the championship this year. You know,
29:41 when maybe one more fight and then get a chance at either Max or Volkonovsky, you know, that
29:45 you have some other fights like people are excited for Julian opinion and Amanda Nunes
29:49 to fight again. You know, there are some fights out there that are maybe a fight or two away.
29:55 I'll give you a mind to give you a little chance. Like I would love to see Homzat Chemayev either
30:01 fight Kamara Usman or Colby Covington. Because Kamara Usman and Colby Covington are the best
30:07 175 pounders on the planet. They're 1A and 1B. Okay. But the thing is, is the reason why
30:12 they cancel each other out is because both of them basically assume they can't take the
30:15 other one down right. Homzat Chemayev is not met a mammal on planet earth. Grizzly's included
30:22 that he doesn't think he can double leg. Right. So that's a fight I'd like to see. But what
30:26 is the fight that you think kind of a dream match up? Well, it's funny. Even you just
30:30 mentioned Colby. How can we let that go? You know, like he, when he beat RDA, I was like,
30:35 okay, this is not normal. Right. Every fight since him. And here's the thing. Colby has
30:40 gone after Usman. And Usman has completely respected him. He didn't have to say that
30:45 was a takedown. John Jones wouldn't have said that was a takedown. Sure. He's like, I could
30:48 call out a takedown. Maybe for me, I'm gonna be biased. And here's what's crazy. Benil came
30:54 in and smashed Tony Ferguson. And even on the for the fighters saying, Oh man, he just like
31:02 took him down. You did that to Tony Ferguson. And Benny told me, like again, we're friendly
31:08 see each other around, we'll go do whatever. He said, I got all of his knee pulled it. And
31:14 I couldn't feel the tendon. So he believes like he blew his, Oh, no, his heel hook. Yeah,
31:19 blew his knee out in that. And the guy just kept going. And he goes, I'm just done. If
31:23 that would have been to be doing that or anyone else doing that, it would have been like the
31:27 craziest thing ever. So I know Benny had a couple losses where he got tagged and whatever
31:31 else. So that was at the car close fight, maybe. And he was like, Brian, you know what, I rocked
31:36 him, he was stumbling. I knew there was no power. So I just kind of went forward. I would never
31:41 do that in a higher level fight, you know, so I'd like to see Benny, but he's got, he's
31:46 got to get past Islam, Islam. I would like to have seen, I mean, Kamzat though, I'm fascinated
31:53 by him. I mean, he just looks like from what Gustaf's insane, a guy that's that big, that
31:57 is that much power and control, throwing guys around and laughing. I mean, he came in, tagged
32:02 that one guy and he came in last time, slammed him and did whatever. But I guess, I don't
32:08 know right now. I mean, I would like to see some maybe more serious strikers, you know
32:13 what I mean? I just like, like, just like I watched their Nike, Nikki Holson, you know,
32:17 the other day, the entire guy. And I just, I like be able to see someone that could bring
32:21 something in that we can see as well. But I like all these guys we're talking about,
32:26 you know, it's just, again, it's my downtime. It's on, I'll watch it on Instagram, everybody
32:30 deal with some friends are getting it. I'm free. It's fastest growing sport in the world,
32:35 you know, so when there's a lot of, there's a lot of entry points. So if you grow up wrestling,
32:39 you can get an MMA. If you grow up boxing and get an MMA, that's just kind of the deal
32:42 of it. To get back and maybe even to put a bowl a little bit on your skating career,
32:46 I know that you've detailed in some other interviews, some crazy experiences you've had
32:51 or just some highlights. So from your professional skateboarding career, is there like a highlight,
32:56 like maybe a competition that you won that was kind of a big deal, you know, a trick
33:00 that you've been trying for years that you hit or is like, you know, some crazy story
33:03 where you almost died because the cops were chasing you or something like, give me a good
33:06 skateboarding career story.
33:08 Honestly, man, for me, it's more just been, we aren't the generation that was meant to
33:13 do contests, you avoided them. We went on some video parts for like two or three years and
33:18 when it came out, that was the guy's music. That was the way you looked or whatever. Most
33:23 of my career was just like street skating. I got into a couple of fights. I went around
33:27 the world and really it was skating the Wilshire rail, nose grinding this big rail, sitting
33:33 in tricks. I would do salad grinds and the rest. But I feel like my whole career was
33:37 like, here's this English guy, here's what he's doing. The music he's skating to, you
33:41 know, the misfits, the Ramones, all that kind of stuff. And wearing black. And then just,
33:46 and then, you know, the next part of my life, you're probably going to get into getting
33:51 married at 19, having a kid on my whole world radically changing. I mean, I'm kind of amazed
33:56 I'm still here, even a 42 celebrating, you know, it's all, yeah, Brian, let's, let's go
34:01 ahead and get into that because skateboarding is good. We got to, we got to, I'll say I
34:05 did a lot of really cheesy Hollywood films, made really bad cameos. And here's the thing
34:10 I'll say, I just kind of did whatever I wanted to do. I wrote scripts. I went and did stuff
34:16 in Hollywood. I went and did random sponsors because I always felt like, if you don't
34:21 do what you want to do, there's no integrity in it. You know what I mean? And I definitely
34:26 had a cool perception of people, this English guy and his music and whatever. But I just
34:31 I'm, you know, I'm still tripping out that I'm in America. You know, it's winter in England.
34:35 It's sunny today. You know what I mean? I'm just still like living this dream, I guess.
34:38 So I don't know. I mean, I just didn't take things too seriously. Maybe I'd like to be
34:43 remember for and all of that. And just was blessed by it. You know, made money. I'm able
34:48 to buy this house because of skating. So just to correct you, California is not America.
34:53 We don't claim California. Okay, that's like honey, June beaches, hunches like Texas. I'm
34:57 not kidding. But was it Tito Ortiz on like the city council? How serious of a city can
35:02 it be if Tito Ortiz was elected office? Okay, Tito's brother Marty is eight doors down right
35:09 here. We can go walk over and he's awesome. Tito was, but I heard something like he wasn't
35:14 showing up to the meetings or whatever. And what he stood for was right. You know, man,
35:18 he loves this place. If you come, you come to Huntington, I'll tell you for those listening.
35:23 You go 10 minutes that way to Long Beach, you will get bombarded for not wearing a mask,
35:27 not doing this, not doing that. You go to Huntington, everyone's just cruising and getting on with
35:32 it. And I'll tell you, they had a couple of almost like Trump rallies. You seen Mexican
35:37 black Filipino Asian everyone. I go ride my bike, you know, I'm preaching tomorrow. I'm
35:43 going to get a break. 500 people just relax and celebrating Huntington. It's like, get
35:49 on with your life. Enjoy yourself. There's so much of collecticity here to so many people.
35:54 So I don't feel like I'm stuck in some oppressive like, you can't do this. I mean, I respect
36:00 people, but God made us free, you know, and I don't think half of what we're seeing through
36:05 our new channels. I mean, I was bummed here yesterday that, you know, they took Neil Young's
36:09 all this stuff. I've Spotify, but I didn't realize how crazy he was about everything.
36:14 I only knew it was music and people were like, no, he was like, so yeah, there's the deal,
36:20 you know, yeah, it's a bit of a crazy deal. But I want to get back to something that you
36:24 mentioned, because basically at the height of your skateboarding fame, like you get married
36:29 as a teenager, you married a gal named Tracy, you got married in a little chapel in Vegas.
36:34 Of course you did. You had a kiddo, but your relationship really wasn't going well. And
36:38 that's probably the nicest way that I could spin it. Yeah. And eventually you two got
36:42 a divorce and for you and for a lot of people that put you in a place where you were really
36:47 depressed, you were angry, you were confused, you were suicidal at points. And you know,
36:51 it was an incredibly dark time for you personally. And that kind of, you know, created this on
36:57 ramp into your spiritual life, which we'll get more into here in just a second. But just
37:00 in terms of the relational side with what was going on for you internally, you know, surrounding
37:06 you and Tracy and the kids, can you take us through that time period?
37:08 Yeah, picture. Like I said, you and I went to school, Brian wants to be a skater, you
37:13 want to go be whatever, we make it to America, I'm making money. And listen, for those listening,
37:17 getting blew up, you're making $400 a month living in an apartment in Taco Bell and the
37:22 Jacuzzi life's good. Now you're making 10 or 20 or $30,000 a month. Sometimes it's huge.
37:28 I didn't care about this, but when you've got, you know, pro decks, pro shoes, tech decks,
37:32 this games out there, all this stuff, what I'm saying is I was living the American dream.
37:37 Biblically, I was gaining this whole well, but I was still losing my soul. I wasn't raised
37:42 in the church. I had no faith. I wasn't like some of our listeners who, you know, went
37:46 to church and viewed that as being a Christian. Guys, gals, either you met Jesus or you didn't.
37:51 I had no clue. You know, our money as Charlie Darwin on it, I'm just raised. It's like,
37:55 Oh, we're just of all dapes. Now I'm fighting with this woman that I fell in love with.
38:00 We have a son. We've been together a year, two, three. It's all fallen apart. This is
38:06 my point is this is the first time life is really challenging me. So I'm like, wait
38:12 a minute. Bruce said life's a vehicle. You know, we strip away the clays till the truth
38:16 is revealed. I can figure out a trick. We can figure out an armbar, omoplata, whatever.
38:21 I can navigate life. Well, this thing is collapsed. And I remember saying, you know what God,
38:25 whoever you are, I'm done. And here's why I said this. It was real simple. Either you
38:31 and I were created or were not. Either we matter or we don't. Either our listeners are
38:37 roadkill or they're made on purpose. That was it. Okay, then, where is God? Where's
38:42 whoever? Where's the higher power? Because the guys meditating in the fields, they left
38:46 their families like Buddha and the sitting off just doing nothing. That's not right. You
38:51 know, there's no atonement there. There's no whatever. So I began to look at all the
38:54 different faiths. I went back to my English kind of mindset, my raster friends, my Buddhist
38:59 friends, my Hindu, all the stuff. And I realized and saw through a lot of it. And at the time,
39:06 I'm divorced. I mean, I punched holes in everything, got in a fight from her dad. I
39:09 was getting on probation. I had a Billy Club in my car, didn't know it was legal. I got
39:14 an eight fights in a month. So I have community service. And in the middle of all this time,
39:19 I'm trying to disprove everything. And I looked at the Bible one day, I literally read in
39:24 Genesis one 26 and 27 letters make man in our image. So I'm trying to disprove everything
39:29 and God, you know, your God, the invisible God, we can't see you supposedly once all
39:34 our money in the Catholic church. And craziness said, Brian's made in his image. And I said,
39:39 well, if I'm made in your image, why does my life suck? If I'm made in your image, my
39:42 name's on a skateboard. I'm in sunny California. I'm enjoying these dumb fry fights. But you
39:47 know what? I'm divorced from this woman. And you guys, listen, and some of you are there.
39:51 Some of you are divorced. Some of you are hating life. You're spouse. The Bible says
39:55 not good for men to be alone. You want to see your kids, maybe it's your circumstance.
40:00 It's theirs. I don't know. I didn't want to live. And as I'm trying to disprove the Bible,
40:05 God tells me right there in the next few pages, well, I put Adam and Eve in the gardens. I just
40:10 don't eat of this tree. And they ran over there in the aid of it, their sin. Brian, you're
40:15 going to die because I never heard this. So there I am making money, traveling the world.
40:20 I bought a house. I'm divorced from this woman, separated for a year or two. And as I'm trying
40:25 to disprove all these religions, I'm reading the Bible and hearing about God and his love
40:30 and sending his son. And just craziness. I knew all about God, but I didn't know him.
40:36 And so to kind of summarize all this for seven months, while I'm probation, community service,
40:42 not wanting to live, not a citizen, divorced from this woman, I tried to disprove everything
40:47 I could about the Bible. And one night coming home from community service that was in a
40:53 Christian thrift store, where if you went and saved French fries and burgers in the church
40:57 next door, you got extra hours. So guess what I did all the time? Thrift store went and
41:02 served. I learned how to cook a little bit. And then I came home that night. And here's
41:06 the crazy thing for our listeners. I'd heard all about God. I'd been around Christians,
41:10 but I didn't know him. I went in this room that is right here. I mean, I can walk in
41:15 their two minutes. And in that room, my ex wife, because we said, let's just try and make
41:20 it work for the sake of my son. She's asleep in this room. My son's four or five. We fight
41:25 like crazy that night. And I go in this room and I say, God, I'm done. And I didn't just
41:29 say God. I was like, Yahweh, Jehovah, you know, the God of Abraham, Isaac, Jacob. I was going
41:35 to God to fix my life, make skating make sense, make my wife make sense, make just life. I'm
41:40 alone here in America. Yeah, I've got friends, but what's going on? I'm going to be divorced
41:45 from this person. Like, I don't want this life. I went in that room and began to have
41:49 it out with God. And all those verses, everything came to mind. And I realized I was going to
41:54 God for my own reasons, but God was addressing my issue of sin. I'm living in sin. I'm dead.
42:01 You know, all of sin, I'm falling short of God's glory. And so in this room, I get this.
42:06 I understand this. Get down on my knees. I'm praying like Lord. I just, and it was like
42:10 God allowed me to see for the first time the scales fell off my eyes. Wait a minute. Jesus
42:15 came as the Lamb of God. Jesus shed his blood. I mean, my sin, it was, it suddenly became
42:20 about me, God on my sin. And I have to sit in there for 30, 40 minutes, praying, pursuing
42:25 him, asking for forgiveness. All the things I'd read about Bruce, all the things I'd
42:30 had inherited from England or skating around the world, you see a lot, you see the well
42:34 quick in one instant, as I'm on my knees, just like looking up, the same place where
42:40 I'd sit there and watch pride fight, you know, and whatever else in the little office. It
42:43 was like I knew the presence of God was getting ahold of me. My eyes were open. I saw my sin.
42:49 I fell down on the floor. And if you said, God, I laid out my life, I'll give you my
42:54 skating. I'll get baptized. I'll do whatever you want to do. I'll even remarry that woman.
42:59 And that's how I view to that woman. You know, I loved it, but I hate it. Same for her to
43:03 me. Oh, I can explain it to you. It's like when in John three, Jesus tells Nicodemus,
43:09 you can't see the kingdom unless you're born again, meaning you can be right here hearing
43:13 about it, but you're spiritually dead, Brian, until your eyes are open from the gospel,
43:18 you cannot hear it. Or when he tells Peter, who do you say I am? You're the Messiah.
43:23 He said flesh and blood doesn't reveal this to you, but my father in heaven in that room
43:27 that I'm pointing at that you guys can't see. I had an encounter with God in 2004. I was
43:33 never the same. The Bruce Lee mindset, the Eastern philosophy, the other religions, the
43:37 new ages and whatever I could have thought was done. And I sat there laughing and crying.
43:42 I can't believe this is real. I can't believe that, you know, because the science of it,
43:49 I can't make anyone believe. I can't prove to you. And I'm not meant to. It's meant to
43:53 be subjective to you. The science of it is you hear the gospel. It's the power and salvation.
43:59 God's spirit, there's a work in you and you can hear it. So when people say to me, good
44:03 atheist friends, can you prove it? No. How does God want you to hear by the preaching of
44:08 the gospel? It hits you. You hear his sheep here as voice. I heard when in this room,
44:14 late in bed next to my ex wife, she sits up like a zombie, gives a speech for 10 minutes.
44:19 I wake up the next day and right here where I am, I'm going to serve Jesus. I'm going
44:23 to follow him and give my skating to whatever. She thinks I'm crazy. Three weeks later, she's
44:28 in church. She comes to faith. Three months later, we're remarried. My son's 21. I was
44:34 doing Jiu Jitsu with him yesterday. We have two more children, Eve News 14, Judas 11. So
44:39 to me, God showed up at the top of my career, making great money, saved me redeem me, restored
44:45 my marriage. And since then, I've been crazy about Jesus. You know, so that's radical. Yeah.
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45:22 into all that detail to kind of tell your story. And I do want to parse out a few of the things
45:26 from your story. Because if you think that we're just, you know, highly evolved descendants of fish,
45:33 you know, we're monkeys that wear pants and talk to each other, the thing about it is then none
45:37 of this stuff matters, right? Like none of the, none of the arguments, none of the politics,
45:42 none of the masking, nothing matters, right? Because I tell people all the time, I was like,
45:46 because I have a good friend of mine that's atheist. And I basically told them, I was like,
45:49 look, let's say you and I both die on the same day somewhere down in the future. And you were right,
45:55 right? We're all just matter. We're all just start us bumping into stardust. Well, guess what?
45:58 We're both worm food at the end of the day. But I will have spent a lot of time effort and money
46:03 trying to convince people to do something and be something that's not real, right? That's my worst
46:09 case scenario. Your worst case scenario is that I'm right and you're wrong. And then basically what
46:15 that means is you're eternally separated from the father. And at the moment you realize that all
46:19 you will want was to not be separated from the father. And so that's why I tell people you have
46:23 to reckon with this. Because I think when we're deep down in it, when, you know, the cameras have
46:29 turned off when you've put Twitter down for the evening, it's just you sitting right there. And
46:33 you know that you're not meaningless. You know that you're not just, you know, a, you know, a bucket
46:39 of flesh that gets to walk around on earth for hopefully a good 85 years or so. But the thing
46:45 that's interesting is you set out with a purpose, Brian, and your purpose was to essentially prove
46:52 that life was meaningless, right? You wanted to prove that we were stardust. And there's so many
46:57 people that go out on that cocky journey. And then they had been getting clocked by the gospel.
47:01 And so like, is that a similar story that you've heard? Because I know you do a lot of evangelism
47:05 now and we'll get more into this kind of what you do now and in terms of your pastoral work.
47:08 But is that what you see a lot of times people that set out with this idea that somehow they can
47:13 disprove the God, the universe only to find them? I mean, least strobe, you know, the case for Christ.
47:17 That's right. Literally. And you even just said, then, you know, a moment ago, if we are just
47:23 mush, doesn't matter, we just survive with the fittest. Yeah, even vaccinate and put a mask on,
47:28 let's just let the weak die. Sure. You know what I mean? Let's just let nature have its cause. And
47:32 people have these weird ideas, you know, animals are just so everyone could just play the animal.
47:36 That dog and cat, they're great. We have two of one, three of the other. But you're feeding them
47:41 every day and taking care of them every day. But you go treat that animal the way you treat
47:44 it with the people, probably bite you pretty soon and go find a new owner. The way of this case,
47:48 I'm saying. But yes, I would say the biggest deception is that we're not asking the question.
47:55 And if you come in the gym today with me, we start rolling, I guillotine you. The first thing you're
47:59 going to think is I don't want it to happen again. I'm going to figure out how to not do that. Right.
48:03 We don't do that with life. Oh, you're probably going to think I'm going to go, you know, guillotine
48:07 on my cousins or Christmas or whatever you want to do. We don't do that with life. In life, we're
48:11 just like, no one knows. I'm going to believe this. I'm going to trust that. There's a spiritual
48:15 deception, Sahin Corinthians 4, 4 says. So for me, it was like, if other people could just say,
48:21 what is the goal here? Guys, everyone listen and took a couple of facts for you. You either created
48:27 or not, you have purpose or not. You are not going to die of old age. You are going to die because
48:33 your body fails you. Grandma might have passed away in the sleep and she was sweet and it was
48:38 cute and she was a hundred and whatever, you know, over an open hour or something, you know,
48:41 it lives way older, apparently. But her body failed her. Her kidneys went out, her heart,
48:46 her brain, something stopped. Why? 100% of all people will die, even, you know, Elijah and Enoch
48:54 one day. 100% of all people will die. And God says it's because of the sin. Your payment for
49:00 your sin is death. There's a kiss on the well. We celebrate my wife's mother this weekend because
49:06 of the curse. My mom passed away eight years ago because of the kiss. This kids would have an
49:11 crazy twisted things happening to the day because of the kiss. There's addictions to alcoholism and
49:17 violence and anger and whatever else you want to say, the well's kissed. We're going to die. Why?
49:22 Anyone that begins to ask those questions, you will go around the mountain, the Bible, God,
49:28 not your idea of Jesus, not your bias against the gospel, not your Bart Ehrman and hypothetical,
49:34 you know, contradiction in the Bible. If you go yourself, there's more historical evidence,
49:39 there's more geographical evidence, there's more things hidden from your site. Guys,
49:44 if the Bible's meant to control you, why isn't all the politicians using the Bible to control us?
49:49 Why are they opposing it? Mocking it, living in opposition of it? That's the state of the
49:53 will. So yes, anyone that really truthfully goes to find truth, you have to arrive at Christ
50:00 because he was the way the truth. Yeah. Well, you said the ultimate word, Brian, and it's truth
50:04 because what most people treat life as is as a bunch of opinions, right? Hey, that's just a matter
50:10 of opinion. Oh, you think LeBron James is better than Michael Jordan? That's just a matter of opinion.
50:14 It's that type of a mindset. And they think about matters of opinion rather than binary reality.
50:20 Something is either true or it's not. So when I talk to people, I'm like, look, we can talk about
50:25 dinosaurs. We'll get there. We can talk about Jonah and the well, like we can talk about the
50:29 parting the red sea. We can talk about Noah's Ark. We can we can get to all those things, right?
50:33 Because I'm not just going to tell you to pray about it. If you ask me a question, I'll have the
50:36 answer to. But I was like, we need to start with the binary reality of did Jesus get resurrected
50:42 or did he not? Because like, because there's no more certifiable fact from antiquity than that
50:48 Jesus Christ was a real human being that lived. He was a Middle Eastern Jew that was found guilty
50:53 by the Jews executed by the Romans on a crucifix. He didn't swoon. He didn't, you know, have a body
50:58 doubling to those things. Romans, when they meant to kill you on a on a cross, they did so. They were
51:03 they batted a thousand with crucifixion. The only thing that we need to reckon with, and it's not a
51:09 matter of opinion. He either rose from the bed or he didn't. And so you have to reckon with that
51:13 question before you get into all the other ones, because that's someone that makes the most
51:17 amount of an impact. I think about it. What is that? Think about that visually.
51:22 Let's just say we don't even know his name was Jesus, God, the Holy Spirit, the Bible. You watch
51:27 for a thousand years if you could do every human that's ever lived. Everyone has fallen over and
51:33 becomes wen food. But if you watch Jesus in three days, he got up again. It isn't that we're Christian
51:40 and we're saying he resurrected a human being, God in the flesh, but fully man got out of the ground.
51:46 To our listeners, what does that mean? It means we will have life again. There is life after this,
51:53 that he paid the price for our sins and wrote again. This isn't religion. Like I said, I wasn't
51:58 raised in the church. There's a Catholic church. Five goes down for me. I never went to it. I went
52:03 through all this and I was 20 to 24 trying to disprove it. And then the only other thing is again,
52:08 I was so broken. I wanted answers. Most people don't why? Same thing that happened in Rome.
52:14 They build a Colosseum. There's a circus as long as I'm entertained by my electronics or even
52:19 our UFC or even Jiu Jitsu or whatever we're into. The idols of this world that distract us from the
52:25 reality. And here's the thing, just to go wherever, when I go to skate parks and hang out with kids,
52:30 I don't start with talking about Jesus and God. I talk about the state of the world and they begin
52:35 to see a wicked and crazy and things are. All these famous people in the worship and they're all
52:40 seeing eye and the triangle and the capstone. Guys, what's the biggest religion in the world?
52:45 Why do all these people have these behind the same things? What do they all do and
52:48 watch the agenda? And when they realize they believe in that and they see so much evidence
52:54 for it, then they go, guys, where does anywhere talk about this? Biblically, there's a spiritual
53:00 deception. You have to wear masks outside, but you add what like three or four rapper chicks dancing
53:05 around a pole making out like the Grammys or something. I'm like, is this not just showing you
53:10 the deception? So I'm not just trying to be politically that even I'm sure a lot of your listeners are
53:14 more political than I am or whatever you want to say. But common sense would say, I'm going to die,
53:20 the world's crazy. Does God speak anywhere? And then it's, and you know, I have a podcast
53:25 called Foolishness because first Corinthians 118 says the message of the cross is foolishness to
53:31 those that are perishing. So if I'd have had this years ago, I'd have been into the UFC talk and
53:35 skate talk, but this part, I'm like, this is crazy, which is sad because skating will pass. You have
53:42 civil pass, wheel pass. And the God talk is really what should be relevant to people. So
53:47 well, and that's one thing that I have a tendency to do is because like, I'll risk some relational
53:51 chips and I'll risk offending somebody, um, to ask them the question. And I was talking to a guy,
53:56 buddy, my name, Mike Ritalin, he's a former Navy SEAL. He's a dog trainer. He's a great, great dude,
54:00 but he's somewhere between atheists and agnostic. And at one point during an interview, he literally
54:05 goes Kyle, seriously, why the F you care whether or not I believe in God? And you know, he wasn't,
54:10 that's just how he talks. He wasn't actually mad at me at all. But in that moment, like,
54:14 because I didn't know he was going to say that, I said, because I want you to have what I have,
54:17 brother, because I love you. And because like, if again, and I brought up the worm food thing,
54:22 but it's like, brother, if, if I'm right, and someday we have to answer for, for the sins that
54:27 we've committed, it's like, and if you start giving excuses and one of those excuses isn't
54:31 the blood of Christ, it's not going to work out well for you. I didn't say it exactly like that. But
54:35 and he, he was defanged by the way I answered the question because what he was expecting was is,
54:40 well, you're covered in sin. And if you're covered in sin, you got to be this, you got that in Europe,
54:45 you're a defiler. And that's what he was expecting. He was expecting hell, fire and brimstone.
54:50 And he was expecting me to take the Bible and bash him over the head with it. And what's funny
54:54 about that is the only people that complained about our interview later were other Christians.
54:58 They're like, do you even understand a politics or do you even whatever? But he has now categorized
55:03 me as somebody that he can have that conversation with the one you just talked about, because I
55:08 just chucked a rock in his shoe, right? I want him to think about some of the things that I said
55:12 later when he's wakes up in the middle of night, he's like, damn, why do Kyle say that thing about
55:17 work? And one day, I'm going to really hug you and say, thank you. Because again, and here's
55:22 the clear thing. And you probably know this about me. When I was trying to disprove all this,
55:26 John the Baptist shows up, goes about preaching, repent. John dies, Jesus goes about preaching,
55:31 repent. So when we hear it in America, we hear repentance, we either don't know what it means,
55:36 or we feel like rocks will be thrown at us. But if we understand the context, Jewish history,
55:41 everyone knew we're all going to die because the state of the world, God's good repentance is
55:47 just putting our faith in and 10 to him. And him living inside of us, that relationship,
55:52 you wanting your friend to have that, why do you leap in care so much is because God's now in you,
55:58 and he sent us to reach others because he loves them. And then when that guy, we believe that,
56:03 you know, it's going to come to faith because of it. And here's the thing, we don't do this to gain
56:07 heaven. But man, I want people to have what I have, the state of the world right now, all the
56:12 things going on, like, okay, I mean, God's in control, he knows what's happened. None of this
56:16 is a surprise. I just hope more people wake up, have Christ see his blood can be applied to our
56:23 fallen nature. And guys, that's it. And for you and I, we both just know how much we need Jesus
56:29 more every day because we're perfect. So yeah. Well, when you're talking to somebody, you want to
56:36 try to remove blockades between the point you're trying to make and them coming to your point of
56:40 view, whether you're trying to debate them on a social issue, or trying to get them to agree
56:45 with you that George St. Pierre is a great fighter ever or whatever, you want to remove the things
56:49 that are in the way that could distract them. And so I say that to say earlier, I mentioned around
56:53 the same time I became a Christian is when I was learning how to become a man, you know, 13, 14,
56:58 15 years old. And for me, the paradigm that I grew up with having not grown up in church,
57:02 just like you, is the manly men were outside the church doing manly stuff. And all the godly men
57:09 were inside the church with their press shirts and their khakis and, you know, everything tucked in
57:13 and shined up shoes. And that's what they were doing, right? And I kept that paradigm even into
57:17 my early twenties that the godly men were in the church and the manly men were somewhere else.
57:22 And as I grew up and as I kind of developed my philosophy on manhood and all that, I saw
57:26 the dearth of real masculinity inside the church is one of the reasons why guys that are rough
57:32 around the edges, you know, your fighters, your Jiu Jitsu guys, your construction workers,
57:36 your military or law enforcement officers, allow those guys would walk into church,
57:40 look around at all the doughy, dopey looking followers of his and be like, man, I got to go do
57:45 something else. Like there's nothing for me here. Especially in the middle of America, maybe.
57:49 Yeah. Right. Absolutely. And so I'm wondering for you and from your perspective, because you
57:53 didn't grow up in church, you grew up in another country, you know, England's basically a post-Christian
57:57 culture. But do you feel like that is a big problem? Because I've basically dedicated my entire life
58:04 to showing people what godly masculinity is the fact that Jesus is the manliest man who ever lived,
58:10 even though you wouldn't probably put him in your top thousand list if you were to make one.
58:14 Yeah. Do you feel like the lack of real manhood inside the church is keeping people from maybe
58:18 seeing the father even coming to hear the gospel message? I literally, you know, I don't know if I
58:24 look too tidy on here for some of our viewers who live in the world. You look great. But you know,
58:28 I'm doing a memorial service Saturday. I'm preaching Sunday. I'm saying that because I just went to the
58:33 friend of ours, you grew up with your trims, my hair, you know, trims that I don't really do much.
58:37 But I literally said to hear today, you know, that men who don't live out their manhood,
58:44 your male, but there's a difference between a man who is going to raise those kids, a man who's
58:49 going to love that wife, a man who's going to walk as a man. We have responsibilities. That's what
58:55 the attack on culture is right now and people can't see it. I'm preaching on Genesis this weekend
59:00 because Jesus in Matthew 19 talks about marriage. And when they ask about marriage, the first thing
59:05 he says is God made the male and female. If you say that, that's controversial today. It's controversial.
59:11 Are they male and female? Well, guys, it's not controversial to the Christian. If God was in the
59:16 room and he's in every room, he made the male and female. And what that means is I wrote a book on
59:22 marriage. I'm going to be preaching in church on Sunday. But as I go and live out my life,
59:26 I meant to present men as God says they are male and females. He says they are female. But yes,
59:32 if you're just the guy in the church who's in khakis, if he's back in the pews, why wouldn't you
59:37 be out there living this life? Why can't you go hunting? Why can't you go do this? Why can't you
59:41 go do that? I mean, King David was out there with his mighty men. And here's why. If you study the
59:46 history of the Bible, the way the nations came against Israel was their goal was to wipe out the
59:52 men. What did Pharaoh do? Wanted to wipe him out. What happened in Jesus' day? That's why Joseph took
59:58 Jesus to Egypt. Even in first kings, it literally is crazy. Elijah is sent against its king,
1:00:04 Ahab. And he says, I will wipe out among your men those who [inaudible] King James, [inaudible] on the wall.
1:00:13 Who [inaudible] on the wall? Men do women don't. So God is sending this man to wipe out the men so
1:00:19 their influence cannot make that in culture strong. That'll happen. And now, I mean, men don't know
1:00:25 what a man is. And the point is, I'll say as simply as this, if we're in churches, a thousand
1:00:31 people, the guy comes in with a gun, I expect every man sitting there to run towards that guy and
1:00:35 stop him. And I expect every woman to run the other way. Are you willing to die for your spouse,
1:00:41 for your family, for your faith, for your call? I'm not just saying in a nation, I love America,
1:00:44 don't get me wrong. But our call is the kingdom, not just the nation we're bringing, the kingdom,
1:00:49 you know, we're invading. So yeah, I would say more men, I mean, be whatever you're into. But I would
1:00:54 also say, I like fighting and rolling. I mean, I mean, jujitsu and training, I've been around men,
1:01:00 I like skateboarding, I like being out. I'm an American, most guys hunting, do all the rest of
1:01:04 it. So I'd say be who you are, I'm going to hate on something. But when you're just sitting back
1:01:10 kind of only in the church, you're not actively in the world, living out what a man is. You know,
1:01:15 when I when you're doing, if you go down here drunk, I'm like, what are you doing? You might be [inaudible]
1:01:19 at a moment, but we're going to go off and go like, man, Ryan's going to call me out on the
1:01:23 something in your spirit. It's like, yeah, we want that, you know what I mean? We want that kind of,
1:01:28 and it's been talked down last two decades in the church. Like, oh, men, just put on your armor. And
1:01:32 here's a sword. And here's that's how we're made. God made us that way. He brought the animals to
1:01:38 Adam to name them. You know, you're going to build a plot of land, figure out the foundation. You're
1:01:42 going to go to jujitsu, you want to get choked or not, listen to the guy who knows. So I don't fight
1:01:47 that whole sex war. Like, well, this, this and that, I'm just like, God says you're male and female,
1:01:51 I'm going to preach the truth. Some of the [inaudible]. And I had a friend say the other day, if you want
1:01:55 to figure out if you're male or female, go outside naked when it's windy. And he said it, preacher
1:02:03 got his gay part and I was like, oh, man, he said, go outside when it's windy in your backyard,
1:02:08 naked. And I was like, oh, man, but the point is, the hard thing is kids now four, five, six and
1:02:14 get brainwashed hold all this stuff. And if you just want to stop, but you know, it's funny. And
1:02:19 I'll say this and take you know, next point, but I'm preaching on marriage. And I didn't realize
1:02:24 that where the Pharisees asked Jesus about marriage is the same place where John the Baptist was
1:02:30 preaching. And I know that John the Baptist was captured and beheaded, but I never stopped and
1:02:34 thought he was beheaded because he was preaching on marriage. He was preaching on God's plan for
1:02:40 the family. And Genesis begins with a marriage, you know, male and female. It ends with a marriage,
1:02:45 male and female Christ in the church. And the whole story of the Bible is marriage where a king,
1:02:50 a man, Jesus came to defeat a serpent to redeem his bride. So if you take male and female out of it,
1:02:57 you're missing the gospel. Right. It's certainly an attack on marriage because when government
1:03:01 becomes daddy, right, when you don't need the man in the house anymore, the government's going to
1:03:05 take care of you. That's an attack on marriage. When you say that marriage can be between two men
1:03:09 or two women or three men or five men and two women, like whatever, like you're attacking marriage.
1:03:13 And now that when you're attacking gender, there's been some people that have done some great work
1:03:16 on this Douglas Murray, Camille Paglia is towards the end of these great empires. So the Greek empire,
1:03:22 the Roman Empire, they became obsessed with gender. They became obsessed with sex. They
1:03:27 became obsessed with these things. Partially, it's because they weren't as worried about, you know,
1:03:31 the Mongols on the other side of the hill coming over and stealing all their women and cows or
1:03:36 whatever. It's just like we're so drunk in our success that we worry about things that don't
1:03:40 actually matter. But the church, I feel like, is doing a horrible job of pushing back against
1:03:44 this darkness because they'll do a once a year men's breakfast and they'll call it men's ministry.
1:03:50 But they're not worried about making their church man friendly. They're worried about checking a box
1:03:55 and doing a man's program. Right. So you get guys together, they have fun, they eat bacon and a bowl
1:04:00 of chili, and then they move on with their lives. They go back to their house and they look at porn
1:04:03 and jerk off. They go back and they get their fancy football lineup ready to go. They go and
1:04:08 ignore their wife. They go and do like they do these other things that have caricature and
1:04:12 masculinity. Because that's the one thing that I always draw a line in. And you basically said
1:04:15 as much, I don't care what you're interested in. I'm very typically masculine in that. I like
1:04:21 four world drives truck trucks and fighting and drinking whiskey and smoking cigars and eating
1:04:25 meat and hunting. I love those things. I don't care. Right. But I don't care if you're into drama
1:04:31 and Shakespeare and gourmet cooking and all those things. What I care about in my definition of
1:04:36 a man is a male that cultivates spiritual, mental and physical resilience on a daily basis. You're
1:04:40 not attacking the individual. You're talking about the office and the call of a man. Yeah.
1:04:45 Right. And when you look at the Bible, and I'll talk about readiness and then I'll tee it back up
1:04:49 to you. Yeah. So because I talk about being in shape a lot and I talk about physical resilience
1:04:53 and how important that is to God and people typically fatties, they'll be like, Hey, I don't
1:04:58 have a six pack. Does that mean that God can't use me? And this is what I tell them. I say go back
1:05:03 and read the first four books of Nehemiah. So Nehemiah risks his life goes before the king says, Hey,
1:05:08 I'm going to go back to a land that I've never been to. And you know, I'm so lamenting what's
1:05:12 happened that I want to rebuild the walls and you know, help my people and he goes back there.
1:05:16 And here's what he doesn't do when he finally announces himself to Israel and says, Hey,
1:05:21 like I'm Nehemiah and we're going to rebuild these gates. We're going to rebuild these walls.
1:05:25 And also we're going to protect ourselves as that's going on. What he didn't say is,
1:05:29 and so tomorrow morning, we're going to start a 90 day program where we're going to be getting
1:05:34 in shape. We're going to be doing farmers, caries, and we're going to be doing deadlift.
1:05:38 And we're going to be working on our, you know, spear thrusting and all these different things.
1:05:41 And then 91 days from now, we'll start work on the wall. No, that's not what he did. What he said is
1:05:46 work starts at dawn, right? That's what he said. And the reason he was able to do that, Brian,
1:05:50 is because those men were ready, right? They didn't train to go fight. They knew how to fight.
1:05:55 They didn't train to be in shape because it was back breaking, work building walls in
1:05:58 H and Israel. They were ready. And so God's God calls in one hand and shovels in the other.
1:06:05 And the thing is, is they had to be ready to do that. So I tell these men, if God calls you to
1:06:10 something, he's calling you now. You don't have time to go train. You don't have time to go
1:06:15 figure it out. And most men are caught flat footed. They're not ready. And even then,
1:06:19 you see, I think it was in Nehemiah where they start with an altar because the reality is God's
1:06:25 presence is there. That's what you need. And, you know, let's just be realistic then. I mean,
1:06:30 you're going there. Here's how basic it is. You and some women are 13, 14, 15. One of you can get
1:06:39 someone pregnant. One of you never can. I don't care what you say that is. I don't care if you
1:06:44 want to argue about whether the ovaries work and this and this and that. Guess what? You're going
1:06:48 to have more facial hair. You're going to have more hair on your armpits. You're going to probably
1:06:52 punch harder than 99% of the females you're around. And there's male definition again,
1:06:58 going the garden when, you know, you're naked and windy and things are going to happen. Now,
1:07:01 look at hair. It's going to have a chest. It's going to have a different shape. Scientifically,
1:07:06 whatever you want to call them and the games everyone's playing, they're made different. That's
1:07:10 the way God made them. The ish and the ish are in the Hebrew to that become one. And here's the big
1:07:16 thing for our listeners. When you're driving down the road and God convicts you all man,
1:07:20 you said this, you sounded like a goof. What are you doing? Oh God, what I'm doing? That's your
1:07:23 conviction. What I'm doing something and God convicts me. But when a nation is flipping off God
1:07:30 and redefining his boundaries, Old Testament, God shows up and things happen. I'm not the guy who's
1:07:38 like, Oh, this is what this is. But in a way, God gave them King Saul and he's almost destroyed the
1:07:43 nation. God gave Israel over our nation now is calling on these false gods and this deception.
1:07:49 All the rest of it. And so yeah, I'm a guy that's like, we build skate ramps downtown the outreach.
1:07:54 A guy comes up to my son and goes, Hey, pick that up. You should be able to pick that up. You should
1:07:58 be able to do what the man says, not debate and argue like all we see today. So yeah, I mean,
1:08:03 I'm a Phesians two tenure is workmanship. After today, what's he called you to? But we need
1:08:08 Homer Simpson, Al Bundy and whoever else you want to see are the examples of men while men are being
1:08:14 taught a bit. It's like a trend. Women are celebrated and we should celebrate them. But are they even
1:08:20 celebrated as women? Or is it almost like toxic masculine women who are shouting at men? You know,
1:08:26 my wife wants to wants to provide in the house, she wants to just be here and take care of the kids,
1:08:31 provide the teaching at the table, you know, for homeschool the rest. I want to go out. I'm thinking
1:08:35 about when I'm 60 when there's retirement. That's it. So that's how I look at the basic, you know,
1:08:41 I'm my study in the way to worship. Can I train up my kids in the way they should go? Can I give
1:08:46 an account for my faith? There's my call protecting my family and covering them. So yeah, I think
1:08:52 you're covering a lot of topics that are important because obviously when you get into when you get
1:08:56 into the gender issue, you know, people don't want to go. They say if you want to go anything
1:09:01 beyond, you know, XX or XY chromosomes like that, you're a bigot or, you know, keeping things that
1:09:05 simple. And people are trying to, they're trying to purposely muddy the waters and to a certain
1:09:11 degree we're casting our pearls before swine, but, you know, in trying to change them. But truth is
1:09:14 important. Truth is a very, very important thing. And, you know, before we get off into some other
1:09:19 political topics, I'm going to come back to some of your pastoral work, because you've mentioned
1:09:22 several things. So you personally do a lot of evangelism for the skating community for the,
1:09:28 you know, the skate park community. I remember back in the day, you had a film called Foolishness
1:09:33 where you evangelize the skateboard community. And you know, you have your skating and the music
1:09:37 and the whole thing. You and your wife, as I understand it, you do marriage ministries and
1:09:41 you both speak and then you speak. So give our listeners an idea of kind of what it is that
1:09:46 you're up to now. And anyways, I guess we could support what you're here. So, you know, you come
1:09:50 to faith at the top of your game. What do you do? Well, like I call Stephen Baldwin is doing this
1:09:55 whole ministry with Luis Palau and Franklin Graham, and Christian or so he's getting out of jail and
1:10:00 he's a Christian. So I connect with these people and they start saying, Brian, just start sharing
1:10:05 your story. So I kind of get pushed immediately in sharing my story of how God's, you know,
1:10:10 I'm for seven months, like I said, I'm trying to disprove this Bible. It's like apologetics
1:10:15 in my head. So I am learning, I am seeing things. I'm understanding why they sacrificed in the Old
1:10:20 Testament, what they're doing in the new, who the Lamb of God is I could, I could tell someone the
1:10:25 gospel and pray with them and whatever God did. So now from that, I get invited to speak places,
1:10:31 go places, I do some Bible school, I end up working on a load of projects. And that has been what?
1:10:36 Since 2004, basically almost two decades, I've just been literally, I've never really said no to
1:10:43 anything. So I will get calls. Hey, can you speak at this church? Hey, can you come out to this
1:10:47 conference? Hey, can you go there? I'm pretty much an evangelist, you know, apostle prophet,
1:10:51 pastor, teacher evangelist. I go evangelize, I train up people, I teach at churches, I speak
1:10:57 at schools, rehabs, whatever. It's a very loose everything ministry. I do the podcast foolishness,
1:11:04 I wrote a book never fails, you know, never fails marriage, working on an evangelism book. And really,
1:11:09 you explain to me to someone, you'd be like, I don't really know what he does, but I know exactly
1:11:14 what he does. He's somewhere sharing doing something that I mean, basically I'm an evangelist. And I
1:11:20 mean, the office of not just evangelizing. So I get emails, can I fill my calendar? And I go do
1:11:26 that all year, I raise full time support. And that's it. Yeah. Yeah. And we've got the links in the
1:11:32 show notes so you guys can check out the book, you can check out your website and look at the
1:11:34 stuff. You know, your Instagram seeing kind of follow along with all those different things as
1:11:38 well. But one thing, you know, we're kind of crocheting doing toward the end here, we've mentioned
1:11:42 it several times, both you and I trained you jitsu. And to be honest with you, whenever I was made
1:11:47 aware of you and whenever I look through your profile and everything, for whatever reason,
1:11:50 I was surprised to see you doing jiu jitsu, but then it makes total sense. It's like you do skate
1:11:54 boarding where you're basically going to get hurt all the time. Might as well do jiu jitsu where
1:11:57 you're basically going to get hurt all the time. So you know, obviously you're, you're skateboarding
1:12:02 and then, you know, you're getting in the ministry, you're doing all those things. But then jiu jitsu
1:12:06 came calm, like it does for so many of us. So how did you find your way into a jiu jitsu gym? Why do
1:12:10 you keep training today? So like I said, the sour patch with the UFC stuff, I always just loved it.
1:12:17 The Bruce Lee, the early martial arts film, I just love the motion. And a lot of the public came
1:12:22 from fear because if you and I are walking down the street in Liverpool, and someone hears your
1:12:26 accent and they just say, hey, bleep the yank, blah, blah, blah, we're fighting. So I don't want to get
1:12:30 beat up. In England, you get on the floor, someone's kicking your face in. I make it to America. I'm
1:12:35 in the skate world. Guess what? I have interviews and magazines and they ask me about ultimate fighting.
1:12:40 Dana White sees that, calls me up, I come out to Vegas, I fly out there, stay in the hotels they own,
1:12:46 hang out with him for those three days, start going to the events, meet all these fighters in this area,
1:12:51 know all these people, you know, met Tito years ago, a lot of these guys. And then as I become a
1:12:57 Christian, okay, Lord, what do I do with all this? Dana called me right when I became a believer.
1:13:02 So I'm tied into this world meeting all these fighters. And I mean, I got to sit and witness to
1:13:06 him, share the gospel with him and his wife, everyone at dinner and all this stuff. I get,
1:13:10 you know, the heart of where he is. And I mean, I honor the integrity for what I think he's trying
1:13:15 to do despite what a lot of people say. From that, I know all these guys, I'm a Christian, I'm a pastor,
1:13:21 a couple of black belts come to watch church. Hey, man, you know, Vandal they would come,
1:13:25 cyborg would come, Babalu, I've been friends with Babalu for a long time, sold out believing,
1:13:30 you know, serious. And I'm one of the professors says, Hey, would you mind coming to the gym and
1:13:34 just hanging out? So many guys go through stuff. I think they could use someone pastorally. So my
1:13:39 professors, you know, Christian, I go to the gym about six years ago, I start rolling, and I tell
1:13:45 the Lord God, I am not going to become obsessed with this. I told, you know, I'm telling you, you
1:13:50 know, because skating has been the only thing I've been that obsessed with. But you think about a
1:13:55 black belt, you think about whatever. I'm a white belt, I go on a mission trip to Costa Rica,
1:14:00 within six months of being a white belt. I'm sharing it a gym. And the guy comes over to me,
1:14:05 it's like, you just started, hey, will you meet my professor? I go in the gym, meet the professor,
1:14:10 he's teaching a class. And he says, I want to change this right now. Will you show us a technique?
1:14:16 He literally, I'm a white belt. And he literally, and I said, Lord, I'm only going to do this. I'm
1:14:22 going to give it all to you. And as soon as you don't want me to do too, let me, he has me share
1:14:27 this technique, probably the one of the only things that I ever learned from someone. I checked my
1:14:31 black belt, it showed me it was the technique the guy was going to show. And I've never seen it
1:14:36 anywhere else. Only Leo Vieira does it. And the professor almost has tears in his eyes. And he
1:14:42 says, I have not seen that technique. That was a blue belt. I was going to show it tonight. I can't
1:14:47 believe this. Hey, will you share your story? The pastor I'm with connects with him goes to the gym.
1:14:52 He's a purple belt. Now we go back in six months, we do an outreach to the area, because many kids
1:14:58 are attacked, raped women, all the stuff, one in six, jujitsu, I end up getting my blue belt. And
1:15:04 then I so now I start traveling. I'm using skating. I'm using jujitsu. God has put me around all these
1:15:09 people. So to me, as a 42 year old guy who doesn't wear spandex and flex, I'll go in the gym and roll
1:15:15 around with you and have fun. I think I'm a purple belt with like two stripes. I've been doing it for
1:15:20 six or so years, seven years. But to me, it's this, it's, I've got some flow grappling hit me up. Hey,
1:15:26 man, I watch all the stuff that you're doing. We'll come into the town, come week, meet and get
1:15:30 assay. I'll connect with all these like, you know, heavy guys who, Brazilians are super open to God.
1:15:37 So I'm like, Lord, if you want me to use this that I love, you know, and you don't really get
1:15:41 head in jitsu unless you're old with goofballs or you're being a brute or it's an accident, you
1:15:45 know, with a white belt. So to me, it's like takes care of my health. It's fun. I probably talk to
1:15:52 people more about jujitsu ministry than I do about skating anymore because skating is everywhere.
1:15:57 Right. And I just, I feel like it's honestly a God thing. Again, like guys like Benny, who's been
1:16:02 on the podcast or talking to these guys and there's, you know, there's a guy Jason Lambert who actually
1:16:07 in for the UFC years ago, I went to a UFC witness to him while we were watching it, came to the
1:16:13 church, came to faith. And he's a serious believer now, you know, like literally came to faith. So
1:16:19 I have these crazy stories. So to me, it's just like God using it. And I go, you know, at least
1:16:25 two or four to five times a week. And the gym, it's a checkmate gym under a Gracie covering its
1:16:32 transition. And so one of the cool thing about it is, and I was just talking with one of our brown
1:16:37 belts out our story yesterday. And when when you're around someone for a length of time in the gym,
1:16:44 you get a pretty good idea of who they actually are. Because you might know someone in the gym
1:16:48 for a year or more before you know what they do for a living. Because everyone's wearing a
1:16:53 gay and a belt, right? And so the thing that you know about that person is the belt colors,
1:16:57 tells you a little something about them. But also how they roll tells you something about them,
1:17:01 how they respond when they get tapped, tells you a little something about them. It tells you
1:17:05 whether or not you can trust them. Because if you see them a week later with their chest out like,
1:17:09 Hey, hey, I tapped this guy. You're not gonna believe because he's one of our best guys. It's like,
1:17:13 okay, you just log that away in your brain. So Jiu Jitsu's are great, a great way for you to kind
1:17:17 of understand that. And I have a group of guys that get together every Sunday. And we call it
1:17:21 Fight Club, but we're all reading the same book. We come together and we talk about the book we
1:17:25 are relating. I lead people through a workout and then we all train Jiu Jitsu. And these aren't guys
1:17:29 with MMA backgrounds. These aren't guys that have a collegiate wrestling pedigree. These are just
1:17:34 dudes. Yeah, they're just dads in there. Some of them are like, Hey, I'm gonna be a white belt
1:17:38 for my entire life. But this is that's where they go. And it's it's a workout. They get to learn
1:17:42 how to fight a little bit. So Jiu Jitsu's just an incredible tell you something funny, though,
1:17:46 you're saying this. And so, you know, I mean, I was probably up to 246 when I was like, you know,
1:17:51 my wife's mom would have been sick or at home a lot. There was so much COVID stuff. And so I'm like
1:17:57 eating in more than that. So in the gym, they would call me like polar bear, you know, kind of like
1:18:01 big. And so I was saying, yeah, so that like, so we're releasing this to the world polar bear. It's
1:18:05 funny. So I'm always, you know, in the gym, they call me pastor, you know, as soon as someone says
1:18:10 something like wrong, they're like, dude, the pastor's here, you know, and I'm there like almost every day.
1:18:15 So I invite the scale of the church. And she's a little Asian girl with a mask on, you know,
1:18:19 she comes in. I never even really seen her face. She comes in the back of the church. And I always
1:18:23 stand in the back kind of like watching. And and pastor gets done. It's like, Hey, say hi to someone.
1:18:28 And so there's a lady sitting here. And she reaches over and says to little Asian lady,
1:18:33 how did you hear about the church? And she points to me and she says polar bear.
1:18:39 My friend next to me, you didn't know they call me polar bears. I'm preaching this again.
1:18:47 They're probably going to say polar bear. But I'm saying, it is I'm very passive because I always
1:18:53 hated bullying. And also there aren't that many guys like as big. So I will almost play defense
1:18:59 law, kind of like down at her said, Hanzo Gracie got on him about and said, Hey, you play this
1:19:03 being real passive. You've got to also go on attack. I figure it more like this. I can either get
1:19:09 one position and go and only do that and be the best guy at that in the gym. Or I can kind of
1:19:13 catch all these things. And as I get higher up the belt, I'm going to have more tools that are
1:19:18 casually coming together. That's kind of how I am. So if I roll with you and you're like, Brian,
1:19:23 I've got a tournament in a week, and you really want to go, I'm like, Oh, go go crazy. I'm expecting
1:19:28 you to try and do everything because I'm focused on your goal. But if you're just like, Oh, hey,
1:19:32 what's going on? Just like, yeah, whatever. So I'm gonna do stuff. But I don't care enough.
1:19:37 But I care enough about the art and the school and the gym. And I'd say 75 80% of the people in
1:19:43 there are believers. A lot of conversation afterwards and a lot of scripture. And just, you know,
1:19:49 it's a religion like skating, skating's a religion being a gangster's a religion, you know, NFTs,
1:19:54 or have you called it's a belief system, jujitsu. I'll tell you something funny, we did a big
1:19:59 outreach once. I Leo Vieira comes speaking, you know, Leo's like what five time well champion.
1:20:05 We have a little mini ramp and there's probably a couple thousand people. He's so nervous. And
1:20:09 there's like 100 people from jujitsu all their ears. And he's super nervous. He speaks once and
1:20:14 I'm helping him. And I'm telling everyone what the techniques are while the role and all the
1:20:19 jitsu fighters are looking at me like, how does this guy know Leo's doing pretty good. And then the
1:20:24 next competition comes up that the microphone goes out. And so they like, Hey, you have to have him
1:20:29 go to the main stage. So Leo looks at me. There's like 10,000 people. One of the best grapplers in
1:20:35 the world, super nervous to walk down to the main stage. Here's his testimony gets done and is like,
1:20:42 this is what I want to do. So, you know, I think God's just raising a load of us up at the time.
1:20:47 I know for you, well, you'll be in your journey. I mean, this is just, you know,
1:20:51 it's just becoming all things to all men. Like Paul said, in a bank skate park on the mats.
1:20:57 Just leaving it. That sounds like a great place to roll. So if I find myself out there in California,
1:21:01 I may have to run by quick story, though, I also have a jiu-jitsu nickname. It might not be as
1:21:06 cool as polar bear, but I had been training for about five or six months. So white belt,
1:21:10 very, very green. You know, I'm 30, 31 years old. And Andre Galval comes to our school to do a
1:21:15 seminar considered to be one of the greatest ever. We're talking top three greatest geek
1:21:20 competitors ever. He's got a super fight coming up with Gordon Ryan, no geek at ADCC this year.
1:21:24 But it's at the end of the seminar. It's after three hours, right? And for the last two hours of my
1:21:28 life, I've been a blur. I don't even know the starting positions. I'm so confused. And he starts
1:21:32 pointing at people to have to come out and roll with them, right? And so he points to this guy,
1:21:36 he points to that guy. And I'm taking video of everybody because I want them to have video
1:21:40 of when they're rolling with one of the greatest of all time with any points at me. And I'm like,
1:21:44 Oh, no, like, I suck. I'm a white belt. And this guy's great. And as I walk out there to slap
1:21:50 bump, he goes, Oh, you look like a Viking. And because my beard was a little longer,
1:21:56 my hair was all over the place. And from that day on, guys at the gym,
1:22:00 I call me Viking. And the thing about it is, is it's like, you better be pretty good. It's like,
1:22:04 if you're going to wear a pink G and you're a guy, you better be a killer. Same thing if you're
1:22:08 going to walk around with a nickname, like Viking, you better go to class at least once a week.
1:22:12 So it's kind of the thing just trying to live up to that name is kind of where I'm at. But Brian,
1:22:17 we've covered a we've covered a lot of ground this conversation. But I want to end with this.
1:22:20 I do a segment towards the end of my interviews. It's called what would you say to someone that said?
1:22:24 And so what I'm going to do is I'm going to say, what would you say to someone that said? And I'm
1:22:28 going to fill in the blank. And you have 30 seconds maximum to give me your answer regardless of the
1:22:34 subject. Okay, so this is our lightning round. Okay, so you up for it? Yeah. Okay, let's get into
1:22:39 it. We'll ease into it here. Okay. What would you say to someone that said Tony Hawk is the
1:22:44 greatest skateboarder of all time? I could say I agree with that to the degree of what he's done.
1:22:50 Yeah, I could put other people more technical better. But yeah, I could, I could agree with that.
1:22:56 Okay. I say Mark Gonzalez and Rodney Mullen, what they brought to us, but I could say Tony. Yeah.
1:23:02 Yeah. Classic burn quiz. There's a lot of other names. All right. Keep going.
1:23:06 What would you say to someone that said even Christ couldn't fix my wife?
1:23:14 Well, he died for us. So really the birds on here, Christ, all of the charity gave
1:23:19 himself for here. So Christ can, but in her stubness, if she hears his voice and rejects it,
1:23:25 if she's not one of his sheep, then that's on here. Yeah. Absolutely. All right. Next one here.
1:23:30 What would you say to someone that said the only football is American football?
1:23:35 Um, I'd say get this guy some coffee and some water because you don't even really use your
1:23:41 blood and that low for bread thing. Um, you know what? Football players though, over here,
1:23:46 they're tough. They're not like, you know, soccer players back there. Sadly, I'll tell you this.
1:23:51 Do you know where the name is soccer comes from? I don't guess I do know. It's the dumbest thing
1:23:56 ever. An American called it associate football and out of associate. They just got the word soccer.
1:24:02 And I'm like, that's it. You know, that's, that's it. So yeah, we're going to blame that on someone
1:24:07 from Canada because there's no way an American came up with that. All right. Next one here. What
1:24:10 would you say to someone that said Christianity and the skateboarding community can't mix? There's
1:24:15 too much darkness in that lifestyle. Um, skateboarding is neutral. You know, it's whatever it is. It's
1:24:21 um, influence. They say music and skating are the two most influential things in America. They
1:24:27 influence from the coasts. So I would say, um, again, become more things to all men. The skateboard
1:24:33 itself is nothing. And I'm going to use that, whatever's in my hand. God used prostitutes,
1:24:39 tax collectors, you know, skating is in a sin. So use that platform to reach people like the
1:24:44 maths, like everything else we're doing. All right. Next one here. What would you say to someone
1:24:48 that said the Beatles are super overrated? My mom used to see the Beatles in the, in the cavern.
1:24:57 My sister's friends and some of their family members. And what they did at the time, I would
1:25:03 say go watch that new show that just came out on Disney. Paul McCartney. I did not realize it.
1:25:08 It is like Mozart or someone. It is shocking. It is shocking. And I would say, no, what they did
1:25:13 at the right time, their American influence from buddy Holly and blues and all the rest.
1:25:17 And there's no way they're too famous. You know, and I've always kind of preferred them to Elvis,
1:25:22 my wife Elvis and the Beatles. You know, I don't even listen to it that much because they're so
1:25:26 good. I don't need to think about it. You know, it's just like, I feel like I should be talking
1:25:30 to your wife right now because she's clearly the one that's right. Elvis is far superior
1:25:35 to those silly little weird, hair-cutted Beatles. But you know what, we'll move on.
1:25:38 I know this ever right one song.
1:25:40 Probably. Wow. This is my interview. This is my interview, Brian. I'm the one that asks the
1:25:45 questions. Do you know who's middle name is Presley? What? Do you have a son whose middle name is
1:25:50 Presley? I don't. But I probably should have another one just so I could do that. Yeah, I do.
1:25:55 Dakota, Presley, some now. Okay, that might be the dopest name I've ever heard for a kid. I
1:26:00 automatically am super disappointed in my choices. God, okay, thanks for, you know, bringing me
1:26:05 down here towards the end. All right, I just got a few more questions. You're sorry, middle
1:26:08 name's Lennon, right? Hey, I might as well take a dime. No, no, we're not going to edit this part
1:26:17 out. I don't know that I'm blending this part, get out to the world. All right, just a few more
1:26:20 for you, Brian. What would you say to someone that said, I'm scared to skateboard. I'm afraid
1:26:24 I'll get hurt. I would say I'm cautious to put your feet over the bolts, knees over your feet,
1:26:32 hips over your knees, get a good base, maybe put a helmet on. But yeah, you can learn. But
1:26:38 if you're over 30, 40, trying to impress the kids, guys, get low to the ground, get something big
1:26:43 because too many dads with dad bods wreck their legs. You slam bad if you don't know what you're
1:26:49 doing. But go to the skate park. Someone help you out. They love it. Right. All right, a couple
1:26:53 more left here. What would you say to someone that said, I'm scared to train jujitsu. I'm afraid
1:26:57 I'll get hurt. I'd say you should be scared not to train jujitsu because you have five takedowns,
1:27:04 a couple of jokes. I mean, you know, you know, the first time we got on the mat and someone
1:27:07 put some pressure on your face, you think you're going to die? Right. I don't even notice anymore.
1:27:12 I get knee on bellied and that whole saying I'm a loving on a fighter. The fact that you are a
1:27:16 lover should be why you train jujitsu. Guys, Kelly Slater said it. Jujitsu is the first sport
1:27:22 you should put your kids in. Not because it's a sport because it's a self defense mechanism.
1:27:26 I love it. It's so relaxing. It's so peaceful. It's a family unit and go to jujitsu some people.
1:27:34 Yeah, absolutely. All right, man. Last question of the day. What would you say to someone that said,
1:27:38 I can't figure out how to fix my marriage. I'm desperate.
1:27:41 Well, Jesus told them Moses permitted you to divorce because of your hardness of heart.
1:27:52 And if we are Christians, we don't have a heart heart. We have the Holy Spirit. And with God,
1:27:57 all things are possible. And God said to the son of God brings together, let no man separate.
1:28:02 So I would say for you, our problem in America is we've been raised on Disney. We have a mindset
1:28:08 that life is about me. I'm going to live here. We're going to have this much sex, make this much
1:28:12 money, enjoy this much downtime, do as much jujitsu, white picket fence. And God says, no, no, seek
1:28:18 face the kingdom. I would tell you, die to self like Jesus did for his wife, go into battle for
1:28:25 that wife, cover it like Christ loved the church, and start believing for a miracle. Because if you
1:28:31 are 20 right now 25 30, you're like, what is this marriage thing? Yeah, you guys related and all
1:28:37 the good things when you met, she looks hot, she looks beautiful. I can't wait for the matting
1:28:41 day. Well, you know what? Now there's diapers. Now there's a boss. Now he's trying to go to jujitsu.
1:28:45 You're relating in the chaos. Keep going. Love will never fail. I love that we talked about men.
1:28:52 Guys, stand tall, fight for your marriage. Because if you trust Christ, if you're not running towards
1:28:58 sin, it will always prevail. God brought one woman to Adam, and she was a standard of beauty,
1:29:04 and he actually put man out the way at that time. So I just, I tell a lot of guys this,
1:29:08 die to self, get in the word, and commit yourself to here. And the Bible says, live with your wives
1:29:15 in an understanding way. Maybe she's mad at the church. Maybe she's mad at you. Maybe she's
1:29:20 walking towards sin. But God wants to use you to show her the love of Christ. Focus on that.
1:29:26 Don't bail because it's never really over. You're still going to be each other's life to some degree.
1:29:30 So right, man, I love it. I think that's a great place to leave it. But that is all for me. Is there
1:29:34 anything else you want to get off your chest? You know, I just love jumping in and being as free
1:29:38 as this into the Americans. Listen, who still think I'm speaking in tongues, I'm not English people.
1:29:44 You do a good job because even Oklahoma 20 years ago, people are more like,
1:29:48 watching my accent, like what's he doing? We need to engage, jump in. I say English people are more
1:29:55 like that dry humor kind of what Ted Lasso. So I love this stuff. You know, just I'm here to put
1:30:01 the truth out people to hear, but if it relates to my life and the things we love, praise God,
1:30:07 he used that, you know, to get to people. So that's great. That's why we're here, man. Well,
1:30:11 Brian Sumner, thank you for coming on Undaunted Life of Man's podcast. Thanks for having me,
1:30:15 but I'll see you on the max. God bless. There you go, guys. I hope you enjoyed my time with Brian
1:30:19 Sumner. But before we let you go, we are going to do a quick resilience boost at Undaunted Life
1:30:23 or Mission is equipping me into pushback darkness with content that for just spiritual, mental and
1:30:27 physical resilience. So here are the links I've got for you today. I've got a link to Brian's website.
1:30:31 I've got a link to his I am second film, his Instagram, and also his book never fails a 30 day
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1:31:05 podcast is our song cutting the ties, which taught their 10th anniversary re recording of their album
1:31:09 leveler. The links are in the description. I'm your host, Kyle Thompson. Remember, keep pushing
1:31:15 back darkness, keep forging spiritual, mental and physical resilience. Keep seeking the lion of Judah.
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Brian Sumner
I was living the American dream, but I was still losing my soul.
Brian Sumner
I was trying to disprove everything I could about the Bible.
Brian Sumner
I had an encounter with God in 2004. I was never the same.
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In this episode, we welcome Brian Sumner to the show. Born in Liverpool, England, Brian made a name for himself in the UK as a skateboarder, and he came to the US at the age of 15 to join Tony’s Hawk’s Birdhouse Skateboards team. During his professional career, his life and marriage began to fall apart. He set out on a journey to disprove the existence of God only to find Him and dedicate his entire life to Him. He is now an evangelist, pastor, author, and speaker. In this interview, we discuss how he got into skateboarding, what it was like riding for Tony Hawk, why his marriage fell apart and how God redeemed it, how he came to faith in Christ after considering suicide, why he started training jiu-jitsu, who he thinks is the GOAT of MMA, and much more. Let’s get into it…

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