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AMA: Squirrels, Tattoos, Saban, Man-Friendly Churches, & More (Ep. 554)

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AMA: Squirrels, Tattoos, Saban, Man-Friendly Churches, & More (Ep. 554)
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In this AMA episode, I tackle your burning questions about faith, theology, and even squirrels. We dive deep into the debates of Calvinism versus Arminianism, the nature of pride, and how to create man-friendly churches. Plus, I share my thoughts on Nick Saban and the importance of humility in our lives as men.
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0:57 If that is not the way you learned Christ, assuming that you have heard about him and
1:00 were taught in him as the truth is in Jesus, to put off your old self, which belongs to
1:05 your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires and to be renewed
1:10 in the spirit of your minds and to put on the new self created after the likeness of God
1:15 in true righteousness and holiness.
1:17 That is Ephesians 4, 20 through 24.
1:19 That doesn't connect anything I'm going to be talking about today, but it's just awesome
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2:20 Let's get into the first question here, a two part question for your AMA.
2:23 Do you feel the debate between Calvinism and Armenianism is strictly collegial, or is
2:28 it salvific in nature?
2:30 The second part is do you feel the same about the debate between Protestants and Catholics?
2:36 Okay.
2:37 So let's go to the first one.
2:38 Obviously we've talked about Calvinism and Armenianism a lot on the forging table.
2:43 We have a few guys, Matt and Ryan, they would find themselves in the Calvinist camp.
2:47 And so everyone else is not really there.
2:49 We can get down with some of the parts of tulip, but not some of the other parts I've
2:52 talked about before, that limited atonement makes no sense to me in terms of my read of
2:56 scripture.
2:57 There are Calvinists out there, not Ryan and not Matt, that seem to be worshiping at
3:01 the altar of Calvin.
3:03 And so they seem to be more a fan of Calvin than they are of Jesus in a lot of ways.
3:06 And again, some of the reform guys and Calvinist guys can get over their skis, but when it
3:11 comes to the whole Calvinism versus Armenianism thing, I don't think it's salvific at all.
3:16 I really don't.
3:18 I think you could have, you could have put your faith in Christ for their propitiation
3:23 of your sins where he pays off your sin debt and you could repent of your sins and believe
3:28 things that are wrong theologically.
3:31 So you might think Calvinism is wrong theologically and you might be able to defend that.
3:35 You might think Armenianism or any other type of way of thinking about theology, which
3:39 is, you know, the study of God, you could think about those things and be incorrect.
3:44 But at the same time, you could have put your faith in Christ for the payment of your sin
3:49 debt and repented of your sins because according to scripture, according to what we see in
3:54 the New Testament, that's what it takes to be a Christian.
3:55 And that really leads into the discussion about Protestantism versus Catholicism as well,
4:01 because I think that when guys like John MacArthur higher respect deeply, who I've talked about
4:06 a lot of times on this podcast about how much I respect the man, I think when he says things
4:11 like all Catholics are going to hell, it's like, bro, what are you doing?
4:14 All of them, you're telling me that as a category that if you are Catholic, if you go to a Catholic
4:22 church, if you go to mass, instead of a Protestant worship service, that you're definitely going
4:28 to hell that it's an apostate religion.
4:30 Now, there are some massive problems with Catholicism because again, they don't just look to the
4:36 scripture for their answers, they look to the church fathers, they look to church tradition,
4:42 and that's kind of where they get everything and kind of they kind of mangled altogether
4:44 to get their doctrine.
4:46 But to say that there are no Catholics that have put their faith in Christ for the propitiation
4:51 of their sins and have repented from their sins, I think is absurd.
4:55 It's dogmatically terrible to say a thing like that.
4:58 So to answer this question, and so we can move on to the next one, Calvinism versus Armenian
5:03 ism, Protestantism for versus Catholicism.
5:06 Yes, there are some definite things where it's like, here's a line that you can't cross,
5:10 there are certain things that are binary, but it's not most of the things that people
5:14 treat it as.
5:15 So there are Calvinists in our meaniness that treat that as if it is a salvation issue.
5:18 There are young earth and older people that treat that as if it's a salvation or salvific
5:22 issue and just simply not.
5:24 All right.
5:25 Next question here, is there a sorry, is there good in being proud?
5:30 What is the root of all sin, but is it good to have pride in your abilities, knowing they
5:35 are God given or is all pride bad?
5:38 Humility seems to be a hard goal to achieve.
5:41 So it's interesting that you asked this question because this year, that's been something
5:44 that I've been focusing on because as I've talked about, we had a ton of momentum coming
5:48 into 2024.
5:49 I mean, that interview that day with my Glover really shot us to the moon number two in our
5:53 category on Spotify, top 150 overall out of over five and a half million podcasts as of
5:59 January of 2023.
6:00 So you know, a year ago, there were five and a half million, 5.5 million podcasts on Spotify.
6:07 We were in the top one 50, like that's insane, right?
6:12 So it'd be very easy for me to start patting myself on the back a lot and thinking, man,
6:16 you really got to going on, you know, you Hey, if you too, if you can grow red beard and
6:21 wear black VNX like me all the time, you two can be just a successful like, and it could
6:25 get that way.
6:26 I've been praying for a lot of humility because I'm getting a lot of speaking inquiries and
6:30 I'm getting it from people that frankly don't have the means or really the plan to bring
6:36 in a national speaker like me to come and speak at their thing.
6:39 I'm getting invitations to go on other people's podcasts.
6:42 And I'm even having people that are like, Hey, I haven't launched my podcast yet, but
6:46 I think I'm going to launch it in February.
6:48 So it's like, well, you think you're going to do it?
6:50 Are you going to actually do it?
6:52 And I want you to be my first guest.
6:53 And so it's like, in my head, it's like, okay, so you want me to give you an hour of my time
6:57 that I can't get back so that I can give my message to your non-existent audience.
7:02 I mean, that's kind of hard for me to kind of work through, but I'm trying to, you know,
7:06 work through that, that continuum of humility to pride, but to get back to the question,
7:13 I can see an argument for how pride is the root of all sin.
7:16 But to say that, I just think it's our broken sin nature that leads to pride, which is one
7:22 of the sins, I don't know that it's the root of all sins, but you might be able to defend
7:25 that.
7:26 But I think you're thinking about it categorically a little bit differently because I think you
7:30 should have pride in your abilities because they are God given.
7:34 I think that's a great point.
7:35 So if you are tall and long and lean, athletic, and you can jump and you have good touch and
7:42 you become a professional basketball player, well, you didn't tall yourself.
7:48 You know what I mean?
7:49 If you didn't just sit in a room and concentrate really hard until you became 6 foot 10, like
7:53 you didn't do that, God gave that to you as a gift.
7:56 Now there are people that are tall that suck at sports.
7:59 So their gift is just, hey, at a concert, you're never going to have an obstructed view.
8:04 You know, that's going to be their thing.
8:05 But your skills and abilities, especially the immutable things about you that you can
8:10 change, yeah, I think it's okay to have pride in that, but to not act in a prideful way.
8:15 I think, I think you should be proud of the way that you were made.
8:18 Like when people are like, you know, there's this whole, I don't see color debate going
8:22 on where, like, if you tell someone, hey, I don't see color, you'll have people say,
8:25 oh, that's great.
8:26 That's so progressive of you.
8:27 And then another person right next to him might say, oh, are you not seeing my skin color
8:32 and you're not really understanding the plight I've had living in this country?
8:35 But here's the thing that I would tell people, whatever you look like.
8:39 So whatever your natural look is your natural height, your natural hair color, natural eye
8:43 color, natural skin tone, natural, all those things.
8:46 Those are a gift from God.
8:48 Because if we all look the exact same, it'd be pretty boring.
8:50 I'm going to be real honest with you.
8:53 They wouldn't be that interesting to live in a world like that.
8:56 And so it's like, no, you shouldn't have white pride or black pride or green eyed people
9:01 pride or blonde hair pride.
9:03 I don't think that that's the thing.
9:05 But just know that the things that God gave you were given to you for a reason and you
9:08 should be proud of that.
9:10 Don't act pridefully.
9:12 Don't act as if you were better than others.
9:14 But sure, be pride, be proud.
9:16 All right.
9:17 Next question here.
9:18 If attacked by squirrels, how many could you kill before they overtake you?
9:23 So I remember when I got this question, like I just remember laughing and being like, God,
9:27 my audience is just like absolutely ridiculous.
9:29 But then I've been obsessed with this question.
9:31 I've been like thinking through that scenario in my head a bunch because I've never had
9:35 like a hands on interaction with a squirrel, right?
9:38 So I got to take a lot of assumptions here.
9:40 So I'm assuming it's not just one squirrel that I have to take care of and then a minute
9:44 later, another squirrel, I'm assuming the person that asked this question, I'm, you
9:49 know, taking some license here, I'm assuming that person thinks it's like a whole bunch
9:53 of squirrels attacking me at the same time.
9:56 Now squirrels are small.
9:58 They've got sharpish teeth or they can use them sharply.
10:02 They don't weigh very much.
10:04 They're not very big.
10:06 So I don't know, man, I feel like if a bunch of them attacked me all at the same time that
10:12 they could get me maybe before I kill any of them, because just think about it.
10:15 It's like, I go go back to like, what is it, the movie, the mummy back in the day where
10:19 all those beetles crawled in that guile at once, it's like, if you can't like take care
10:23 of one of them at a time because you're you're dealing with all of them.
10:25 So maybe I'm breaking this question down like way too scientifically here, but I'm really
10:30 thinking through the scenario like, what if I find myself in a post post apocalyptic squirrel
10:34 world where I have to defend myself or defend my family?
10:37 How many of I can take out?
10:39 So I'm going to say I could take out at least 50 before they overtake me.
10:45 Is that too many?
10:46 Is that too few?
10:47 I got to be honest, I've never seen a squirrel attack anybody.
10:51 So I'm just going to stick with 50 or put the over under at 50 and a half.
10:55 And so I'll be taking bets.
10:57 You can put them in our donation page on our website.
10:59 How about that?
11:00 All right.
11:01 Next question here.
11:02 I recently found your podcast and have been listening to it almost daily.
11:05 I'm a 19 year old who has recently been struggling on knowing what career path to take.
11:10 I know that any decisions that I make will ultimately affect the rest of my life.
11:13 And I do not want to make the wrong one.
11:16 I was just wondering if you could speak to this on your podcast or have any resources
11:19 that you could recommend.
11:21 So some of you probably smiled or maybe giggled a little bit during this question because
11:26 it's coming from a 19 year old.
11:28 And so I don't want to be dismissive because I actually did respond to this guy.
11:31 Back to any of you other youngins listening to this, I know there's some teenagers listening
11:34 to this.
11:35 We're so thankful for you.
11:37 This is the age where you can make some mistakes.
11:40 Now, I don't mean criminal mistakes because one criminal mistake may may pretty much end
11:45 your life.
11:46 It'll certainly end your freedom, but when it comes to your profession, when it comes
11:50 to your career, make a bunch of mistakes at this age, what you don't want to do is make
11:55 a bunch of mistakes at like in your 40s or 50s.
11:59 So I'm not like super proud this is just the way the cookie crumbled.
12:02 But again, I graduated top of my class in my undergrad and top of my class and my graduate
12:06 degree.
12:07 But in the first 10 years of my career, I counted them up the other day and the first
12:12 10 years of my career, I had 11 different jobs, everything from selling insurance to
12:19 mowing lawns to selling coupon books door to door, which was awful.
12:23 And I just had a bunch of random jobs here and there some part time, some full time.
12:27 And it's just kind of the way the cookie crumbled for me.
12:30 And now I'm doing this.
12:31 And this is where I feel like I'm most over the X.
12:34 And so one thing that I did, especially in my financial planning days, I would see people
12:39 in their late fifties, mid to late fifties, and they were like switching jobs again.
12:45 And I would talk to them about their lives and their career and that's just been their
12:48 entire life.
12:50 They did a job for two or three years.
12:52 Oh, this isn't really serving my needs.
12:53 They would go to do the next job and then they'd go to do the next job and they built
12:56 this career where they never actually got ahead because they kept hitting the reset
12:59 button.
13:01 They thought they were making lateral moves, but actually they were just starting back
13:04 over from the bottom.
13:05 And so you just don't want to be that person.
13:07 So I think it is a very good idea for you to think through, okay, what are my skill sets?
13:13 What are the things that I'm naturally good at?
13:16 What are the things that I like to do?
13:19 What am I passionate about?
13:21 And where do all those things overlap?
13:24 Because there are people that are very passionate about singing that can't sing.
13:28 They weren't gifted with a beautiful singing voice.
13:30 And so it doesn't matter how hard they work out if they will not become a successful singer.
13:34 That's just not going to be in the cards for them.
13:36 And then there are people that have a particular skill set.
13:40 Maybe they're good with numbers, but they're not passionate about it.
13:43 Like the thought of waking up and staring at spreadsheets all day for 10 hours a day
13:48 for the rest of their lives until they retire doesn't really sound appealing to them.
13:53 Because they probably shouldn't go towards that.
13:55 But for all of us, there is God's given mandate for us to have a particular level of dominion
14:03 over a particular sphere of creation.
14:07 So whether you're working in a factory or you're a farmer or you're a counselor or you're
14:12 a teacher or you're a fireman or a CEO, you have skill sets that God has put in you already
14:20 that He will help you get better at if you go towards that direction.
14:24 And so to the 19 year old here or to anybody else that's listening to this that's kind
14:29 of in that, just understand that you don't, you could get a degree in something that you
14:34 never use and it not be that big of a deal.
14:37 Most of the most successful people that I know guys that have college degrees, their
14:41 degree has nothing at all to do with what they ended up doing.
14:46 Now some of them do like they, they went to school and they got their CPA and now they're
14:52 a CPA.
14:53 They're like a, you know, they're certified public accountant.
14:55 Great.
14:56 They needed to do that.
14:57 Some of them are lawyers.
14:58 They needed to go to undergrad and then they needed to go to law school and pass the bar
15:02 and now they're an attorney.
15:04 But for a lot of people like me, I got a communication degree.
15:06 So you could say, well, you're communicating right now, but yeah, mine was in corporate
15:09 communication.
15:10 That's certainly not what I'm doing.
15:11 Some people are getting a degree in history and then they're going and working in sales
15:15 or they're getting a degree in sales and going and working in a, you know, corporate
15:20 advancement.
15:21 I mean, there's all these different things that you could do.
15:22 Just don't put too much pressure on yourself right now.
15:25 Like you're 19 years old.
15:26 I'm assuming you're not married and I'm assuming that you don't have kids.
15:29 And so you can make some dumb mistakes.
15:32 Don't be done with your money.
15:33 Make sure you save your money.
15:35 Make sure you're pointing yourself in the right direction and just make sure you find
15:37 yourself over the X or where you think God needs you to be.
15:40 All right.
15:41 Next question here.
15:42 Going back any dead musician, who would it be and why this is easy and this one's going
15:46 to be quick.
15:47 Some of you already knew this is coming.
15:49 Give me back Johnny Cash.
15:50 Okay.
15:51 That's who I want actually give me back 37 year old Johnny Cash.
15:57 So he can be the same age as me.
15:58 And so we can kind of work our way through the next several decades of our life.
16:01 Just hearing his stories and listening to his music.
16:04 He's one of the greatest artists of all time.
16:05 I want him back.
16:06 All right.
16:07 Next one here.
16:08 Tobacco, alcohol and tattoos, all things I've seen you partake in.
16:12 All deemed sinful by the church I grew up in was my church wrong.
16:16 If so, why and how do I relearn my ingrained convictions and biases, basically prejudices
16:23 against them?
16:24 Okay.
16:25 So here's the thing with tobacco, alcohol and tattoos.
16:27 If you don't want to have any part of any of those things because that's what you feel
16:30 convicted to do, sure, go for it.
16:32 I don't care.
16:34 If you want to partake in those things, sure, I don't care.
16:40 Those take them all one by one, so tobacco, obviously, if you're smoking cigarettes, that
16:45 is a horrifically stupid thing to do that I can't believe anybody any it does anymore.
16:50 And the direct line between doing that action and cancer, which is destructive to your body,
16:55 the only body that was given to you, a body that Jesus sacrificed his body for, that's
17:01 a bad thing.
17:02 But cigars is not the same.
17:03 So some people think they're the same, but they're not cigarettes.
17:06 You inhale into your lungs before you expel the smoke back out.
17:09 Cigars, you can't really do that.
17:11 And so when I, back in my insurance days, I remember having to ask the question about
17:18 tobacco use, but it was always delineated.
17:20 So if you had ever dipped, which is terrible, or smoked cigarettes, like if you had done
17:26 that once in the last two years, you had to be put down on the application as a tobacco
17:30 user once, if you smoked one cigarette in the last two years and took one dip, one snuff,
17:36 and chew in tobacco, one thing you were a tobacco user, but you could have up to 24 cigars
17:41 a year to a month and not be considered a tobacco user.
17:47 Why?
17:48 Because it's not the same.
17:49 They're not created equal.
17:50 So I think you need to honor God with your body.
17:52 I don't think smoking cigars is deleterious of your body.
17:55 Then we have alcohol.
17:56 So I did an entire episode actually.
17:57 Let me go.
17:58 You're about to hear my incredibly loud keyboard.
18:02 I'm going to actually find what episode I covered alcohol on on the show because it was really
18:06 early on.
18:08 And okay, Christianity and alcohol episode 57, good grief.
18:12 What was I even talking about back then?
18:14 That was one of the first episodes of 2019.
18:16 So episode 57 Christianity and alcohol.
18:19 So go back and check that one out.
18:20 I go into a big long thing about that.
18:23 There's a lot of different ways of looking at it, but no, as a category, drinking alcohol
18:26 is not sinful.
18:28 Drunkenness is sinful.
18:30 Then we get into tattoos.
18:32 So a lot of old school people think that tattoos are wrong.
18:35 They point to things in Leviticus about marking your bodies and all that.
18:38 But again, if you just look at the text without context, it's just text and without getting
18:41 into a big, long exegete of the tattoo scriptures and things like that, when it's talking about
18:46 marking the body, these were pagans that were marking their bodies as a service to the pagan
18:51 gods that they were serving.
18:53 It's not the same as you getting a tattoo of Jesus or getting a tattoo of something that
19:01 you think looks cool or even a tribal, if that's your thing, do people still get tribal tattoos?
19:05 Pray for you if you do.
19:06 But anyway, those things in and of themselves are not bad.
19:10 Now if you get a vulgar tattoo or a tattoo of like a demon or something like that or the
19:16 Enneagram or something like that on your arm, then yeah, that's a problem.
19:20 You don't need to be doing that.
19:21 In terms of you relearning the ingrained convictions, well, if you need to relearn, if you feel
19:29 like maybe you were brought up and those things were said, they were sinful as categories
19:33 and you don't believe that anymore, well, then just change your mind.
19:35 It's okay to change your mind.
19:37 I've changed my mind on tons of things.
19:39 There were things that I literally thought I could not be convinced otherwise of and
19:42 I was convinced otherwise.
19:44 And this is one of those things.
19:45 It's just a matter of conviction that if you feel that it's not good for you or it wouldn't
19:50 be good for the people around you, for you to get tattoos or drink alcohol or smoke any
19:54 type of tobacco product whatsoever, then don't do it.
19:57 Like you don't need to have this, you know, internal consternation about it.
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21:36 Next question here.
21:37 What do you think about Nick Saban retiring?
21:39 Is he the college football coaching goat?
21:40 So here's the thing, I'll start with the second one at the very beginning.
21:44 He's clearly the college football goat.
21:48 Like in terms of coaching, like how is this even a debate?
21:51 Like in my opinion, no one is even close to Nick Saban.
21:55 So I don't want to hear about Bear Bryant.
21:58 Don't tell me about Barry Switzer, Tom Osborne, you know, Woody Hayes, Bud Wilkinson, like,
22:04 you know, Urban Meyer, like, don't give me any of these coaches, okay?
22:08 Because just in the counting stats, I think what a Bear Bryant win, three, four national
22:11 titles.
22:12 Well, Nick Saban has seven, okay, one at LSU and then six at Alabama.
22:17 But in his tenured Alabama, I think it was their 17 years, he wins six titles.
22:23 But the crazier thing about it, because yeah, you know, you had to win any one during the
22:27 college football playoff era and the BCS era, like that's all that's great.
22:31 But I think almost every single year that he coached Alabama, the team was number one
22:35 at one point during the year.
22:37 That's crazy.
22:38 And if you look at the last 17 years and you just look at the SEC, has there been a more
22:45 dominant time period for the SEC or for any conference in the history of college football?
22:52 So the ubiquity of talent now is way higher than it was when, you know, I can't remember
22:57 the, there's a Minnesota, University of Minnesota head coach back in the day that I think won
23:01 three or four titles back in like the thirties or forties or something.
23:05 It's like they were probably like the fastest guy in the country was probably running like
23:08 a five, four, 40, right?
23:11 And so the ubiquity of the incredible talent now, especially coming out of States like
23:15 Texas and Florida and Ohio and Pennsylvania and California, it's insane, recruiting is
23:19 insane.
23:20 But the SEC is the name brand for college football, not the big 12, not the ACC, obviously, not
23:27 the pack 10, not the big 10 or a pack 12 or big 10, like none of these conferences have
23:31 what the SEC has.
23:33 And so like around here, everyone's excited for OU in Texas to go to the SEC and it's
23:38 like be careful what you get excited about, be careful what you wish for because OU goes
23:42 from playing Oklahoma State one week in Kansas, the next and Iowa State after that in Texas
23:47 Tech after that.
23:48 Now, it's like, well, you play Bama this week, then you play Georgia, then you play LSU,
23:53 then you play Mizzou, like, it's like a murderer's row and during that time period, Nick Saban
23:59 dominated, Florida had a little flare up with the Tim Tebow and in urban Meyer, and then
24:05 that went away, trying to think, you know, LSU won a title in there, they probably had
24:10 the best college football team of all time, frankly, back in 2019, I think it was 2019.
24:15 So LSU had a little flare up, you know, Georgia won a couple in a row, they should have been
24:18 in the college football playoff this year.
24:21 But the, the most dominant in the entire conference of, you know, the most dominant conference
24:27 in the country was Bama year in and year out.
24:30 It's just absolutely incredible.
24:32 So he's easily the college football go in terms of coaching, but he's actually in that
24:36 conversation for just best coach of all time, regardless of sport.
24:40 So he's the best coach for college football, best Major League Baseball manager of all
24:44 time is Tony LaRusso when it comes to the X's and O's winning World Series as in, in both
24:49 the AL and the NL, he's the top NBA, it's Phil Jackson, college basketball, if you're
24:54 an old school guy, it's John Wooden, if you're a new school guy, it's coach K, you know, I
24:58 think coach K, what he did winning, I think four championships is almost more impressive
25:02 than what John Wooden did with the, you know, nine or 10 that he won, because back then
25:07 there wasn't the ubiquity of talent when John Wooden was winning and when coach K was winning
25:10 these titles, you just the sheer number of teams that they had to beat and the tournaments
25:15 they had to win was crazy.
25:16 And the NFL, you've got Vince Lombardi, you know, I don't know what you would say for
25:20 the NHL or any of these other sports.
25:22 But I think you have a really, really good argument considering the competition, considering
25:27 the conference, considering how hard it is to crude to recruit players and to keep players
25:33 and injuries and all these different things and staff and, you know, constantly having
25:36 people in your staff get coaching jobs somewhere else, you're coaching trees super wide, but
25:40 then you keep losing that talent.
25:42 I think there is a tremendous conversation to say that Nick Saban is not just the college
25:46 football, greatest coach of all time, but the greatest coach of all time, regardless
25:50 of sport anywhere.
25:51 So that's my thoughts on that.
25:53 All right.
25:54 Next question here.
25:55 What are five things you'd recommend or have personally seen as successful in making
26:00 a church man friendly?
26:01 So I won't spend a lot of time on this, but when I got this question, I just jotted down
26:05 the first five things that came to mind.
26:06 But if I'm looking for a church that is man friendly, one of the first things I'm looking
26:10 for is expository preaching instead of Ted talks, because Ted talks get you away from
26:15 the source of truth was whereas expository preaching is literally preaching the truth.
26:20 It's more mainly than capital T truth.
26:22 The second is make sure the volunteer opportunities prioritize men.
26:27 Notice I didn't say make sure that volunteer opportunities involve men.
26:31 No, no, prioritize men, because when the men are volunteering, the women and children will
26:37 be right there behind them.
26:38 Look for a church that is allowing them in to lead.
26:41 A third is that Psalms and hymns are sung as opposed to modern contemporary Christian music.
26:46 Now this one again is just kind of like a little bit of a preference thing for me.
26:50 But when you just read, so take take the smoke machines away, take the different harmonies
26:55 away, take the the instruments away or whatever, take the sound machine away and you just read
27:01 the Psalms and hymns versus reading the lyrics of contemporary Christian music.
27:06 It's not even comparable.
27:07 It's absurdly not comparable.
27:09 So and think about the voices that you hear when a contemporary Christian music song is
27:15 being sung versus when a song or a hymn is being sung in a church with a bunch of dudes that
27:21 don't mind getting down and singing to God.
27:23 So that's another one.
27:24 The fourth one I would say is a church that has plans to activate their men when needed.
27:31 So this is kind of attached to the second one in terms of volunteer opportunities, but
27:35 a lot of churches don't have an activation plan.
27:37 So I live in Oklahoma.
27:39 So tornadoes are a thing and unfortunately we do have some violent tornadoes that destroy
27:43 property and lives.
27:45 And the thing is, I love seeing when churches have a shed out back that's full of chainsaws
27:55 because in Oklahoma, when all these streets fall down in their own houses and, you know,
28:00 it's a day or two after and these people are trying to pick up what's left of their their
28:03 property and their possessions and things like that.
28:05 You know what I love seeing because this happened during the last big, you know, F five turn
28:09 a tornado that we had here about a decade ago is I just saw dudes showing up with chainsaws.
28:16 And I showed up with the chainsaw, but I was solo.
28:18 I had a couple of guys with me, but you know, it was just like me and a couple of buddies,
28:22 but I saw people that were coming from churches and it's five or six dudes with chainsaws
28:26 and they were ready to get after it.
28:28 They weren't being paid.
28:30 They just showed up.
28:31 They saw a tree down, you know, in a particular area.
28:35 They start cutting up the tree and putting it in a pile.
28:36 So it's easier to get out of there.
28:38 But churches that have a plan to activate their men, maybe you, you live on the East Coast
28:43 and hurricane seasons, one of those things and you have a plan in place for the men in
28:46 your church that are getting it get after it kind of dudes.
28:49 So those are going to be the dudes are going to go over to the widows house and board up
28:53 her windows for or afterwards go and make sure that she's checked on and things like
28:58 that.
28:59 But they have a plan in place that activates their men.
29:01 So that's a fourth one and a, in a fifth one, again, that's not an exhaustive list.
29:04 It's just the first five I could think of is making sure that the lead pastor or preacher
29:08 isn't soft.
29:10 And I mean that in a lot of different ways, because sometimes you go to a church and it's
29:13 just like, Oh, that guy is just soft as tissue, it's pudgy, he's got soft hands.
29:21 He's talking about the softer parts of scripture.
29:23 He's not demanding anything of anybody.
29:25 He's more teacher, less preacher.
29:27 He's not demanding that, you know, discipleship be a part of what's going on.
29:32 He's kind of a go along to get a long guy.
29:33 He's, I want to be known for what I'm for, not what I'm, I'm not what I'm against type
29:37 of a guy.
29:38 And man, that's just a hard guy to follow because shepherd is leading his flock.
29:46 But the flock gets to choose whether or not that they're led by them.
29:50 They just get to choose that, right?
29:52 And so those are just five that I'll put off top of my head.
29:54 I'll list them again.
29:55 Expository preaching instead of TED talks, making sure the volunteer opportunities prioritize
29:59 men, Psalms and hymns as opposed to modern contemporary Christian music, having plans
30:04 to activate your men when needed and making sure the lead pastor or preacher isn't soft.
30:09 All right.
30:10 Next question here.
30:11 I've been listening on and off for about a year now.
30:14 I say on and off because I digest a few different podcasts.
30:17 One of the things I've heard you say often is that a lot of worship music is home erotic
30:20 and other such statements.
30:22 I'm curious if you have suggestions for music to the contrary.
30:25 I listen to a lot of the bands you do as far as metal goes, but that doesn't always hit
30:29 the spot of worship for me.
30:31 Do you have suggestions for worship music?
30:33 If not, I would love to see you put together a starter list could even be across all genres.
30:38 Thanks for all you do to move men into warriors for Christ and their families and to the brothers.
30:44 Prayers for you and your family.
30:45 As I know being a light in this dark world brings the enemy in like a mall to the flame.
30:50 God bless.
30:51 So thank you very much for the question and thank you for the kind word.
30:52 So I've talked about this a lot.
30:53 I kind of talked about it a second ago, but just to be more specific, I do have a Christian
30:57 metal playlist on our website.
30:59 So you can just go to I think it's and onto that live backslash playlist.
31:03 I think that's literally the URL.
31:05 The thing with that list is not every member of every one of those bands is a Christian
31:10 and not all those bands have stayed Christian on Christian labels throughout their entire
31:14 time.
31:15 And so these are just bands at the time they were introduced to me.
31:17 They were on Christian labels or purported to be Christians publicly.
31:20 So I threw them up there on the list.
31:22 But in terms of what you would consider to be normally like kind of contemporary Christian
31:26 music, the only ones that I really like that are consistently good and biblical are Shane
31:31 and Shane and then the altar music.
31:33 And so Shane and Shane, they obviously have a huge catalog.
31:35 They've covered a ton of contemporary Christian music.
31:38 They've covered a ton of songs that I personally find annoying and vapid and stupid.
31:41 But when you listen to their Psalms records, especially Psalms too, which I think is the
31:45 greatest Christian worship album of all time, it's like it's so incredible and it's so just
31:50 dripping in scripture.
31:52 And so most of the stuff that they write themselves, not the stuff they cover from other Christian
31:56 music artists, I tend to like.
31:58 And then the altar music, that's more like kind of like bluegrass country type Christian.
32:03 They're incredibly small.
32:05 They're not very well known, but we need to blow them up because they're fantastic.
32:09 Now on the metal side, if you're looking for bands that are like where the lyrical content
32:14 is very scriptural and where most of these people have basically stayed Christian and
32:19 stayed outward about it.
32:20 Obviously holy name, that's the intra-altrow music for our show right now.
32:24 There's another band called O-Sleeper, there's four today, convictions, impending doom, cliff
32:30 side.
32:31 That's a new one I picked up last year, bloodlines and reformed.
32:34 So reformed is a new one, very, very brutal music, but scripturally like, I mean, they're
32:39 called reformed for a reason.
32:40 And so those are the ones that I would put out there.
32:43 The reason why I wouldn't put together a huge Christian playlist across multiple genres
32:47 of like legitimately Christian things is because there's constantly people that are going
32:50 to postate, they're constantly people that are deconstructing and then finding themselves
32:54 outside of the church and outside of the family of God and all these different things and
32:58 it would just take forever to like keep up with these, you know, sketchy, flaky artists
33:02 and whether or not they're still currently thinking that the gospel is a real thing and
33:06 really is good news or not.
33:07 But anyway, those are just a few suggestions.
33:09 Hopefully that helps.
33:10 All right.
33:11 Next quick, not quick hitter.
33:12 I mean, quick hitter mode.
33:13 Next question here on the AMA, do you have family members who disagree with your beliefs?
33:18 If so, does that make family gatherings awkward?
33:21 So this one's pretty easy answer because obviously I family members that disagree with my beliefs,
33:25 but in my family, I don't know how it is with your family, but we don't really get into
33:29 awkward subject matters very much like it's not like, okay, we sit down on Thanksgiving
33:34 and we do our prayer and then it's like, all right, guys, let's talk about abortion.
33:37 What are the arguments?
33:38 Like, that's not really something that's ever happened.
33:40 I will say that there is one family member, I won't name the family member, but they let
33:46 Donald Trump break their brain.
33:48 Like it, Donald Trump just kind of has that effect on people where he breaks their brains.
33:51 But the combination of Donald Trump, the things that he would say, the things that he would
33:56 tweet, the things that CNA would say about him, and then COVID and then all the things
34:01 that went along with that in January six and all that, like this person basically lost
34:06 their mind when it came to all that stuff.
34:09 And they became just almost impossible to talk to in general, not, not just about politics
34:16 because this was not someone that I would seek out a political discussion with basically
34:20 ever.
34:21 But you're going to have people like that in your life and you just, you know, do your
34:24 best to love them and honor them and respect them and just kind of move on.
34:27 But yeah, doesn't really happen that much in the Thompson family tree.
34:31 All right.
34:32 Next question here.
34:33 I'm a single dad, a Marine as well as a business owner in a really toxic co-parenting
34:39 situation.
34:40 What should I do to instill good Christian values in my daughter as she grows up?
34:45 What would you say?
34:46 So that's a tough one.
34:48 Obviously, the only thing I know about you is that you're a single dad, a Marine, you
34:52 run a business, you're a Christian and you're co-parenting with a woman that you deemed
34:56 to be toxic.
34:57 So that's a lot, but still kind of leaves me with some stuff that I'm not really sure
35:01 of.
35:02 But taking the scenario that I'm kind of painting in my brain, you're not in a super unique
35:07 situation, unfortunately.
35:09 I know a lot of guys that married some very busted up women.
35:16 Just sinful, depraved, evil, like, okay, I probably shouldn't say that story.
35:24 So I won't.
35:25 But I'll just say that I know some stories that led to unbelievably sinister and, um,
35:34 try to be diplomatic here.
35:38 Some scenarios where the situation was caused by the woman being an evil, you know what?
35:45 And it led to men doing things and acting out in ways that were incredibly damaging
35:50 to them and to the people around them.
35:53 And it's, um, it could all be drawn back to a single woman that knew that she could ruin
36:00 a man's life by doing X, Y and Z.
36:03 Luckily I'm not in that situation.
36:04 Hopefully, and luckily most of you guys aren't in a situation like that, but those situations
36:08 do occur.
36:10 And so it's not, um, a good thing that divorce happens, especially if you got divorced, not
36:17 for the death of your partner or sexual immorality.
36:21 And so if you send by breaking off your marriage with your spouse, like none of that's good,
36:25 but then we end up being in life, right?
36:27 So you're, you're in the situation now.
36:29 You didn't want to be in the situation, but you're in the situation now.
36:31 You're separated from, you know, the mother of your child and the co-parenting is probably
36:37 not going well.
36:38 There's probably shots being taken back and forth.
36:39 So here's just some advice.
36:41 I'll top my head.
36:42 Number one, control the controllables.
36:45 You can't control how she acts.
36:48 You can control how you act though.
36:50 So if she yells at you, you get to choose whether or not you yell back.
36:54 If she does something conniving to you through your daughter, you get to choose how you frame
36:58 that when your daughter comes to talk to you about it because, you know, my parents got
37:02 divorced and I was a bit of a ping pong ball between them.
37:05 You know, my mom would threaten my father to do things.
37:08 And if he didn't do them, she would threaten to, you know, up the child supporter and my
37:12 dad would say things about my mother to my face that I couldn't, you know, do anything
37:16 about.
37:17 And then I would just have to walk home with this guilt of knowing this thing that he said.
37:20 And it's just, it's a really kind of toxic situation.
37:23 So don't put your kid in the middle of that.
37:27 But ever say anything bad about the mother, that, that kid's mother to the kid, because
37:34 you know what the kid can do about that?
37:36 Nothing.
37:37 So if you're bitter and you hate your ex-wife and she's evil and she's this and she did
37:41 this thing and she cheated and she stole money and she, whatever the thing is, what can the
37:46 child do about that?
37:49 Nothing.
37:50 Now, when they become an adult and maybe they're going down the road towards marriage or they're
37:56 in a young marriage, having a sober conversation about your marriage to their mother and what
38:04 that was like and some of the toxicity there and so that it can be a learning opportunity
38:08 for them so that they can avoid some of the same pitfalls that maybe you experienced.
38:12 That's totally fair game.
38:14 But don't bring your kid in the middle of that.
38:17 In terms of instilling good Christian values, well, when they're at your house, you get
38:21 to control the moral and spiritual temperature of the house, be a spiritual thermostat, not
38:28 a spiritual thermometer.
38:30 So let's just say your ex-wife is an atheist and she's instilling all these secular ideas
38:38 into your kid, these left-wing, crazy, kooky ideas in your kid.
38:42 You can't control her.
38:44 You can only control you, right?
38:46 And we live in a country where if you're a dad, like the mom basically has to be a serial
38:51 killer for her to not have custody rights to the child.
38:54 So suing them to get rid of their custody rights is not really like a realistic thing
38:57 that happens.
38:59 But the overall thing is when they're with you, disciple them, catechize them, do Bible
39:05 study with them, do scripture memorization with them, go to church with them.
39:10 Even if you don't get your kids on Sunday, like work out a way where you can take them
39:15 to church.
39:16 And if your wife is, or your ex-wife is there, like find a way to be around them in a spiritual
39:21 context.
39:22 And so again, I guess the overall thought there would be just control the things you can control.
39:27 You can't control how your ex-wife is going to react.
39:30 All right.
39:31 Next question here.
39:32 My name is Dylan, a 25 year old married dude from Nashville.
39:34 I was recently ordained as a deacon in my church.
39:37 Congratulations.
39:38 I used to view deacons as just old men in the church who prayed over dying, prayed over
39:42 dying people.
39:43 Okay.
39:44 To learn that's not really the case, yeah, surprise, surprise.
39:47 What advice, wisdom or lessons would you give a brand new young deacon?
39:51 So with one like this, find you one of those old men that you saw previously is just being
39:58 like one of those old gray haired guys that, you know, prayed over dying people and fricking,
40:03 you know, get in his inbox or show about his house and say, Hey, can you disciple me?
40:08 Like, that is the best thing that you could do because, dude, when I was 25 years old,
40:13 I was 12 years ago, I again, right around 25 is when your brain is fully developed.
40:18 I was doing some smart things and I was doing a lot of dumb things.
40:20 I thought a lot of dumb things.
40:22 I wish I had an old head that could, you know, help smooth out some of those rough edges.
40:28 That could help me learn and operate in better ways in the world and specifically and most
40:33 importantly, within the church in a ministry context.
40:36 Like if that's the context, you find yourself, dude, that's so valuable, don't lean on your
40:41 own understanding.
40:42 Okay, so in terms of this world, find you an old head or two that can disciple you.
40:47 That can help you.
40:48 You know, you go to breakfast with that dude once a week or once every other week, you
40:52 know, he needs to be around your family.
40:54 You need to be around their family, find you a spiritual mentor.
40:57 But then also it's like, you've got God's word in front of you.
41:01 I know we don't really think of the Bible as God's word because if we really did, we
41:04 would read it more.
41:05 I mean, just think about that.
41:06 Like obviously, if you thought you had God's communication to all of humanity in your hands,
41:11 couldn't you open that up and read it more often than you can do?
41:13 So that's a side point, but go into the scriptures.
41:17 You know the different things in terms of ministry and leadership within the ministry
41:21 we see in Titus and other stuff in the Pauline epistles and look at those things.
41:26 Look at the fruits of the spirit and look at those types of things and see, where am
41:29 I deficient?
41:30 Where do I need to get better?
41:31 And again, utilize a mentor to get better, utilize somebody that's been a deacon before.
41:36 They can maybe help you avoid some pitfalls.
41:38 Just try to lean on your 25 year old understanding.
41:41 All right, we got, oh, looks like we got our last one here.
41:43 So last question.
41:44 Have you been able to meet one of your heroes or favorite musicians or athletes?
41:49 So not necessarily a, well, wait, that's kind of weirded funny.
41:52 I'm having to edit it as I'm reading it.
41:53 Okay.
41:54 Do they live up to the hype with how connected you are?
41:57 I assumed you've had some good and bad experiences with this.
42:00 And do you have a plan for helping your boys learn how to deal with pedestal people?
42:04 So I guess I would be people that put themselves on a pedestal.
42:06 So yeah, I've, I've got to meet a lot of people throughout my career.
42:10 Again, I had that weird job back when I was 25.
42:12 So I wasn't a deacon, but I worked at Major League Baseball and it was a content creation
42:17 type job.
42:18 And I literally have a list on my phone of hundreds of professional athletes, all stars
42:22 MVPs, Hall of Famers, singers, actresses and actors, models, like celebrities, all kinds
42:30 of people that I met and interacted with that year.
42:33 And the thing that I realized pretty early on is they're just people.
42:37 So we would have these, these ballplayers come and these are people that are making, you
42:40 know, in some cases, tens of millions of dollars on their contracts, some of them hundreds
42:45 of millions of dollars on their contracts.
42:47 And you know what they did?
42:48 Well, if it was hot outside, they'd want to come into the air conditioning or if it was
42:51 cold outside, they wanted to come into the heat.
42:54 They would, they would get hungry and thirsty.
42:55 So they would want to eat food.
42:57 They would want to relax and where we worked, there were no fans around.
43:00 So they didn't have to be on and, you know, no one could get autographed.
43:03 So it was just kind of like a chill situation.
43:05 So they were just people.
43:06 Now, I will say the person I was most nervous to meet when I was meeting all these, you
43:11 know, famous baseball players and current players and all that is actually really funny.
43:15 It's a guy named David Eckstein.
43:17 So he won the MVP of the 2000 and what would that have been 2006 World Series.
43:24 Yeah.
43:25 Carlos won in 2006 and 2011.
43:28 So he was the World Series MVP in 2006 and he's about this big and he's like five foot
43:33 five or five foot six, play shortstop and you could tell that guy run every last bit of
43:39 skill that God gave him out in order to just throw the ball across the diamond, but he had
43:44 some big hits.
43:45 I think he had a home run or two in the World Series and it's just like, this was a World
43:48 Series champion from the Cardinals and I was, I was nervous to meet him, but he was super
43:52 nice guy, super accommodating and it was really cool because, you know, with our job,
43:56 we couldn't ask for pictures or anything like that.
43:58 But I did kind of ask him, I was like, Hey, would you mind if I get a picture, a picture
44:01 with David Eckstein?
44:02 That would be really, really cool.
44:03 But then on the flip side of that, the only [inaudible] bag I met all year when I say I met
44:08 hundreds of these quote unquote important people, I met hundreds of them.
44:13 There was one guy that stood out as an absolute tool.
44:16 And the thing about it is before he showed up, I was like, there were only two people
44:22 doing that job that I was like, I don't want to interact with these two people.
44:26 So if they come through, I need to be like sick that day.
44:28 And it was Nigel Morgan and Brandon Phillips.
44:32 And so Brandon Phillips of the Reds, second baseman for the Reds All-Star was going to
44:36 be coming through that day.
44:38 And I was like, okay, you're a professional, just be a professional, you don't like this
44:42 guy personally.
44:43 And then let me back up the reason why I don't like David or Brandon Phillips personally is
44:47 because there was a thing, I can't remember what year it was, but he was talking trash
44:51 about the Cardinals, you know, in the media and stuff like that.
44:55 So there's a game in Sensi and he's the lead off hitter and he goes up and typically with
45:00 the lead off hitter, he would take his bat and, you know, you know, tap the, the catcher's
45:05 shin guards almost says like, Hey, let's play ball, have a good game.
45:07 That type of thing.
45:08 Well, he does that to Yadi or Molina.
45:10 And Yadi goes, don't do that.
45:12 Not after what you said.
45:13 And then Brandon Phillips starts John and then Yadi or Molina starts John and then it turns
45:18 into this big kerfuffle, like there's this big fight, big brawl in the backup catcher
45:24 for the Cardinals actually got kicked in the head by Johnny Quato and it ended his career.
45:31 He got such a bad concussion that he ended his career that all started because of Brandon
45:36 Phillips.
45:37 Okay.
45:38 So I'm already kind of mad about that, but I'm like, Hey, I'm going to be a pro.
45:40 I'm just going to interact with the guy, shoot the video and just move on with my life, but
45:43 he was so rude to me because I was wearing a Cardinals jersey and everyone, he was just
45:48 kind of smiling and laughing and wearing his sunglasses inside and everyone else is laughing
45:51 and I'm like, Okay, buddy, but I worked with two young ladies at the time.
45:56 They were a part of my team.
45:58 And so they thought MLB thought it would be a good idea to have these young ladies interact
46:03 with Brandon Phillips and do like an interview with them.
46:06 And so this is just kind of like, you know, these are mid 20s, late 20s young young ladies
46:12 interacting with his ballplayer.
46:14 And so he's a jerk.
46:16 He's a [inaudible], but he's also apparently a sexual deviant.
46:20 So they're asking him questions because at the time, I think he had the most followers
46:24 on Twitter of any baseball player that was playing at that time that would have been
46:27 2012.
46:28 I think Nick Swisher and him were going back and forth.
46:31 And so these young girls are just asking him questions are like, Hey, you know, if we
46:35 wanted to get more followers on Twitter, you know, you've obviously built this big following
46:38 like, what advice would you give us?
46:40 And this was literally his answer.
46:42 He goes, show your tits.
46:47 I was like, are you kidding me?
46:50 Like I went to the, the people that were running the event because the girls didn't know how
46:54 to react.
46:55 They were incredibly embarrassed.
46:57 They tried to laugh it off and shake it off, but he just thought it was funny.
47:01 And obviously they cut that out of the final interview, but that's just the type of guy
47:04 that brand is Phillips is or was, I don't know if he is still that way.
47:07 Hopefully he's not still that way.
47:08 But that's how how he was.
47:10 I remember going to the staff members of Major League Baseball and I'm like, if you don't
47:14 get Brandon Phillips out of the studio right now, we're going to have a major issue because
47:19 he'd already been kind of been needling me all day.
47:22 And then he said that and you just don't say that to women like that.
47:25 Like, are you kidding me?
47:26 We're in this professional studio environment and you're going to act that way.
47:30 And so of all the people that I've met to kind of get back to your question, there's
47:33 really only one that like super disappointed.
47:35 Well, he didn't disappoint me because I thought he was a [inaudible] before and then he just confirmed
47:38 it.
47:39 But here's kind of my habit now because yes, I've had the tremendous opportunity.
47:44 Of being able to meet some incredible people and interact with them one on one, Jordan
47:49 Peterson, John Cooper, Joby Martin, Chad Robocho and Tim Kennedy and Mike Glover and some of
47:59 these people that I've been able to do things with in person.
48:02 And these are people that have, you know, tens of thousands of followers on social, if
48:06 not hundreds of thousands, if not millions of followers on social.
48:09 And you can really build these people up in your head is to being like, Oh my gosh, they're
48:13 like, they're just unattainable and they're just like these really cool people.
48:16 And what am I going to do?
48:18 But they're just people, y'all.
48:19 They have to eat, they have to go to the bathroom.
48:22 They got to sleep.
48:23 They got to travel for work.
48:25 They got to do work.
48:26 They got to make money.
48:27 They got to support their family.
48:28 They got to grow their business.
48:29 They got to, you know, do their ministry.
48:30 They got to do whatever these things are.
48:32 At the end of the day, they're just people.
48:34 So one that I didn't mention was Phil Robertson.
48:36 Well, I've been interacting with Phil Robertson and Jason Robertson and Al Robertson and a lot
48:42 of other members of the clan and Si and, and I've, I've seen them every summer for the
48:46 last three years and I'm going to go down there again this year.
48:50 They're just regular people.
48:52 Did they do something that was incredibly irregular?
48:55 Did they build this enormous empire that started with, you know, making duck calls in a trailer
49:01 and then becoming like the best and biggest show on television and just the media appearances
49:07 and the licensing deals and just all the money and all the influence.
49:12 But guess what?
49:13 They're just people.
49:16 Phil Robertson still lives in the same old house that they built back in the 70s or that
49:20 he bought back in the 70s.
49:21 That's just right out there on the river.
49:24 Like and if you met any of these guys that are in this family, again, that for the Bronson's
49:29 purposes are loaded financially.
49:32 If you met him, you would just think, oh, just a guy, well, there's a guy that likes duck hunting.
49:37 You know, you look at a guy like Phil, man, the guy's always walking around with his
49:39 Bible.
49:40 He's always talking about this.
49:41 Jesus, dude.
49:42 They're just regular people.
49:43 So for you, I guess the coral area or the less one be for you is like, if you find yourself
49:47 in a situation where you're, oh my gosh, I'm about to meet my idol.
49:51 I bought the VIP ticket to the Jordan Peterson show and now I'm actually going to get to
49:54 meet him.
49:55 It's okay to be nervous.
49:56 It's okay to like, you know, make sure that you make a good impression, but they're just
49:59 people at the end of the day.
50:00 They do extraordinary things.
50:02 They've done extraordinary things, but they're just as extraordinary as you in that they
50:07 are image bears of God.
50:09 Just like you are.
50:11 So when you think about it in those terms, are they an image bear of God?
50:16 Do they have millions of dollars and maybe you don't, perhaps they drive a cooler car
50:21 than you.
50:22 Have they, you know, released more books and sold millions of copies of records and have
50:25 they done all these cool things?
50:27 Yes.
50:28 They're an image bear of God and they are a sinner in need of a savior, just like you.
50:33 Don't treat them any different.
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