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The Ugliness of Gay Adoption and Surrogacy (Ep. 426)

February 9, 2023 1h 2m Full transcript available
The Ugliness of Gay Adoption and Surrogacy (Ep. 426)
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In this heavy episode, Kyle Thompson tackles the disturbing realities of gay adoption and surrogacy, emphasizing the inherent dangers and societal implications. He argues that children deserve a mother and a father, and that the normalization of same-sex parenting is detrimental to their well-being.
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0:18 This is "Undaunted Life" a man's podcast.
0:21 I'm your host Kyle Thompson.
0:23 Let's get into it.
0:25 But whoever causes one of these little ones
0:27 who believe in me to stumble, it
0:28 would be better for him to have a heavy millstone hung
0:30 around his neck and to be drowned in the depth of the sea.
0:33 That is Matthew 18, 6.
0:35 Those are the words of Jesus.
0:36 Guys, we're so happy to have you here on today's episode.
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4:24 - So last week, last Thursday,
4:26 did an episode, just kind of low key.
4:28 Some people think I woke up and chose violence
4:30 and maybe I did last week.
4:31 But last week we talked about Andy Stanley being a hair tick
4:34 because he is in our last week's episode.
4:35 We didn't do any quick hitters
4:37 'cause I wanted that episode to stand alone.
4:38 This episode will stand alone as well.
4:41 But on the Andy Stanley episode,
4:42 I got some interesting responses from the audience.
4:44 So I did want to go over a couple of things.
4:45 So this may take me a little bit.
4:47 It'll make sense here in a little bit
4:48 before we get to the main, I guess, subject of today.
4:52 But a couple of questions came up
4:53 that I got from audience members that I wanted to address.
4:55 One question was this.
4:56 You encouraged anyone that currently attends
4:59 any of Andy Stanley's churches or network churches
5:01 to leave and find another church.
5:03 Shouldn't you encourage those people to stay there
5:05 and fight for what's right?
5:07 So I understand where this question is coming from.
5:09 And I agree with the sentiments of the question,
5:11 but your responsibility,
5:13 and this is exactly what I told to the person
5:14 that asked me this question.
5:16 Your responsibility is primarily to your family, okay?
5:21 To supporting your wife and your children.
5:23 That is what your primary responsibility is and should be.
5:27 Not the health of North Point Community Church
5:30 or any of the associated churches.
5:32 That is not your job, okay?
5:34 Your job is to make sure that you are spiritually
5:37 leading your family in a very good direction,
5:40 that you're performing headship over that entire process, okay?
5:43 So if Andy Stanley's churches go down in number,
5:46 which I don't assume that they will,
5:47 that's not really a problem
5:48 that you should necessarily be worried about.
5:50 But also the thing is, is,
5:52 let's say you go to one of the associated churches.
5:54 So not North Point where Andy Stanley actually preaches live,
5:57 but you go to one of the other ones.
5:58 You go to Buckhead Church or something like that.
6:00 Do you honestly think that you,
6:02 just as a singular member,
6:04 are gonna be able to change the entire Andy Stanley apparatus
6:08 by complaining?
6:11 Like, and you might, like you and your wife
6:14 and maybe your home group or I don't know what they do
6:16 over there, maybe they have Sunday school classes
6:17 or something like that.
6:18 But you all get together and there's a few dozen of you
6:20 and you're gonna make it uncomfortable for Andy Stanley
6:23 and the staff and all those different things.
6:24 Do you honestly think that you're going to change
6:27 Andy Stanley and his church?
6:29 Is that what you think is going to happen?
6:31 'Cause I'm gonna tell you something
6:32 that's way more likely to happen,
6:33 is that you're gonna get pulled down with his church.
6:37 That's what's most likely to happen
6:38 because again, they're very pragmatic.
6:40 And they're very attractive and the things that they say.
6:44 So the odds are is that the siren song
6:46 that they're singing is going to influence you even more.
6:49 So there's more to say there, but I'll leave it there.
6:50 The other question that I got is,
6:52 so how should people that work on staff at churches
6:56 treat gay people, right?
6:57 I had a staff member at a church say like,
6:59 how should we treat people that come in
7:00 and say that they're gay or whatever?
7:01 Like, aren't all sins the same?
7:03 So I would say to you, like treat them like any other sinner,
7:08 any other sinner in your church.
7:09 So don't ignore their sin, call out their sin,
7:13 point them towards repentance.
7:14 And if their sin persists and it's detrimental to the body,
7:18 expel them from the body.
7:20 I mean, we see this in the Pauline letters,
7:21 we see this in Acts, like this is pretty standard.
7:25 But in terms of sins all being the same,
7:27 again, I'll point you back to 1 Corinthians 6, 18
7:29 that I talked about last week,
7:31 free from sexual immorality,
7:33 every other sin a person commits is outside the body,
7:35 but the sexually immoral person
7:37 sins against his own body.
7:39 There's a description there that that sin
7:41 is wholly different than other sins.
7:44 Now, when Christ or when God is looking upon us,
7:47 he sees sinner, unless we have the blood of Christ
7:50 covering us, right?
7:51 Sinner, right, categorically,
7:52 you're either binary, yes, sinner or no, you know, covered,
7:55 you know, you're taking care of.
7:57 But to pretend that, you know, telling a white lie
8:00 and, you know, performing a homosexual act
8:03 is the same thing.
8:04 Like, again, that's like a church camp idea
8:06 that, oh, you know, all sins are the same.
8:08 And, you know, murderers are just the same
8:09 as people that cheat on their taxes.
8:11 No, it is a fundamentally different thing.
8:14 And if you kind of soft pedal homosexuals
8:17 that are in your congregations,
8:19 that becomes a major, major problem.
8:21 And all this kind of coalesce this week,
8:24 because, you know, here I am, I've got this clip
8:26 of this preacher, you know, doing these things,
8:27 Andy Stanley, and then I go back and look at his past.
8:29 And, you know, again, go back to listen to episode 423
8:32 from last week where I kind of unpack that.
8:34 But then I came across a clip this week
8:36 from Pastor J.D. Greer, okay?
8:38 So to be honest, I didn't know, I know the name.
8:41 Like, I know he's kind of prominent in the Christian sphere.
8:44 Like, he's the lead pastor of the Summit Church,
8:46 which is a multi-site church in North Carolina, I believe.
8:49 And he's formerly the president
8:50 of the Southern Baptist Convention, the SBC,
8:52 which is the largest denomination in America.
8:54 Then he was president from 2018 to 2021.
8:57 But this clip came across.
8:59 And again, I've never seen him speak.
9:01 I never watched, you know, an entire sermon of his.
9:03 I just, you know, tangentially knew about his name.
9:06 But this clip came out and there are some concerns
9:09 that I have about this clip.
9:10 So it's about a minute here.
9:11 So let's go to the clip.
9:13 - You say, you must say, I love you more than I love being right.
9:16 And so even if you don't see things my way,
9:19 I'm gonna keep bringing you close
9:21 and I'm gonna remain committed to you.
9:23 This is where the Christian community has so badly failed
9:26 to live out Jesus' ministry.
9:28 The church ought to be the safest place on the planet
9:34 for a teenager with same-sex attraction to reveal that
9:36 or to come out.
9:38 Because sinners are always safe exposing their hearts
9:40 to Jesus.
9:42 It does not mean that we consent or agree.
9:44 It just means we never turn away and we never stop loving
9:47 and we never stop drawing them close.
9:50 And we church, we must be the biggest advocates against,
9:53 biggest advocates against discrimination
9:56 and abuse against the gay community.
9:58 And where we have not church, we must repent.
10:01 And if some of you have been the victims of that abuse,
10:03 tragically often it was done in the name of Jesus,
10:05 that was not Jesus, that was Satan dressed up
10:07 and Jesus is close, because that is not what Jesus was.
10:10 - So to be clear from the jump here,
10:14 this clip alone, again, just under 60 seconds,
10:17 it's not enough to write off J.D. Greer entirely, right?
10:20 Because I saw some people doing that online.
10:21 It's like, I certainly don't think it's enough
10:23 to call him a heretic.
10:24 I don't think he's in the same category as Andy Stanley.
10:27 In all honesty, I actually also tried and tried
10:30 to find this entire sermon from where this clip
10:33 was taken and I spent a good amount of time on it.
10:35 I just couldn't find it because I wanted to watch
10:38 that clip in the context of the entire sermon.
10:41 So I couldn't.
10:41 So you can tinge the things that I'm about to say
10:44 through that lens that yes, I'm just basically evaluating
10:46 this one clip, but there are some concerns
10:49 and I have some questions.
10:50 So if I were speaking with Greer,
10:52 I would ask him several questions.
10:54 One would be this, you, so this was a, you know,
10:57 from this little clip here.
10:58 He said, you must say, I love you more
11:00 than I love being right.
11:02 So what I would ask him is, is Rightness over sin
11:06 included or excluded from that statement?
11:09 You know, you must say, I love you more
11:12 than I love being right.
11:13 But what if you're right about the person's sin?
11:15 Do you need to love them more than pointing out
11:19 the truthfulness of their sinful behavior
11:21 and their sinful heart?
11:24 Is Rightness over sin included or excluded
11:26 from that statement?
11:28 Also, you know, from a quote from the clip there,
11:30 the church ought to be the safest place on the earth
11:32 for a teenager with same sex attraction
11:34 to reveal that or to come out.
11:38 So we kind of stuck that on the end there to reveal that
11:40 or to come out.
11:41 So what I would ask him is, do you believe that identity
11:45 is found in Christ or in sexual preference?
11:48 Because just saying the words or to come out
11:50 in modern parlance, we take that to mean
11:52 someone is announcing to the world,
11:54 to their family and to the rest of the world,
11:56 that they are gay, that they are trans,
11:59 that they are non-binary, pansexual, whatever.
12:01 That's the language that we use.
12:03 And so, yes, you should be safe enough inside of a church
12:08 to reveal that you have same sex attraction.
12:11 But to come out, that's a wholly different thing.
12:14 Because if the church goes along with that,
12:16 they are saying, yes, your identity is as a homosexual person.
12:20 Not that your identity is found in Christ
12:22 and that you're a new creation,
12:23 but that your identity is found in your sexual preference,
12:27 which again, is a choice.
12:29 There's also a quote here, he says,
12:30 sinners are always safe exposing their hearts to Jesus.
12:35 What I would ask Greer is, what do you mean by safe?
12:38 And was their sin safe?
12:40 Because Jesus had this really pesky habit
12:44 of pointing out people's sins.
12:45 He also had this really pesky habit
12:48 of forgiving them for their sins.
12:50 But he didn't just skip over the pointing out their sins
12:53 and go straight to the forgiveness.
12:54 He didn't do that.
12:56 Because if you don't know that your behavior is sinful,
12:58 then what do you need to turn away from?
13:00 Because again, repenting means turning
13:02 like 180 degrees, go in the opposite direction.
13:04 So if you're not, if you don't understand your level
13:06 of depravity, then what exactly are we talking about here?
13:09 Another quote was, we church must be the biggest advocates
13:12 against discrimination and abuse against the gay community.
13:16 I would ask Greer, what do you mean by discrimination
13:18 and what do you mean by abuse?
13:20 And I guess this leads to another question I would ask him
13:23 is why do you feel the need to apologize to gay people
13:26 for generic and undefined things
13:29 like discrimination or abuse?
13:31 Is it possible that you're apologizing to people
13:34 with same sex attraction that merely had their sin
13:37 and depravity pointed out by a person
13:40 that was lovingly directing them towards Christ?
13:42 Because let's say that you're in a homosexual relationship
13:46 and you're acting out homosexuality.
13:47 Okay, so you don't just have same sex attraction,
13:50 but you're actually in a relationship
13:51 where you're acting out and doing things sexually
13:53 with somebody of the same sex, okay?
13:56 And somebody lovingly points out to you
13:58 that that is sinful and that you should repent
14:01 and not do that anymore.
14:02 In our modern times, that would be considered discrimination.
14:06 That would be considered abuse.
14:08 So J.D. Greer, I would like to know what you mean
14:11 by discrimination and abuse, because obviously
14:14 if people are being discriminated and abused
14:16 in an unjust way, I'll stand with you on that.
14:19 But pointing out someone's sin, yeah, I can't really cosign that.
14:22 So there's several reasons why a clip like that
14:25 is concerning even in context, okay?
14:28 So the first thing is, is he's reading
14:30 from what seems to be a notebook,
14:32 but the notebook, I guess, is supposed to look like a Bible,
14:34 which is just kind of strange to me.
14:35 And I mean, again, I've never really watched any of his sermon.
14:37 So is that like his thing?
14:39 Like what's with the notebook?
14:40 'Cause he was literally like reading his sermon to me.
14:42 I mean, I think that church has like 12 different campuses.
14:44 So you think they'd have enough money to like
14:46 buy the guy a podium or an iPad to make it not so obvious
14:48 he's just sitting there reading and serving to us, but whatever.
14:51 But the clip seems to be downplaying
14:53 the sin of homosexuality.
14:54 Again, I'm using this one clip without the context
14:56 'cause I couldn't find the context.
14:57 This clip seems to be downplaying homosexuality,
14:59 the sin of homosexuality.
15:00 This is kind of a new modern thing.
15:03 The clip also sounds oddly like many of the other,
15:05 you know, homosexuality is just a sin
15:07 like every other sin clips that we've seen from pastors recently.
15:10 I, you know, I addressed that just a few minutes ago.
15:12 But he was also once quoted as saying that the Bible,
15:16 and this is a direct quote, quote,
15:18 appears more to whisper on sexual sin.
15:22 Unquote, that the Bible appears to whisper on sexual sin.
15:27 I think there's a lot of people that were in Sodom and Gomorrah
15:30 that would maybe quibble with that,
15:32 would maybe disagree with the fact
15:33 that the Bible only whispers about that.
15:36 Now, I did hear somewhere that he said that he regrets
15:40 using those words and would not use those words today,
15:42 which, you know, I couldn't find out if that was true or not,
15:44 but let's just assume that it is true that he does regret it.
15:47 Does he still mean it though?
15:49 Because I've regretted a lot of things that I've said
15:51 that I still mean that I still believe in,
15:54 but I regret saying them because maybe it's wrong timing
15:56 or wrong place or something like that.
15:57 But I would be curious, like, do you still mean that
15:59 that the Bible appears to just whisper about sexual sin?
16:03 And again, that clip by itself is concerning,
16:07 but most of the things in it, you know, to be honest,
16:09 could be clarified or, you know, just explained away.
16:13 So that clip in a vacuum is just really not that big of a deal.
16:17 The problem is that clip isn't the only concerning thing
16:20 that J.D. Greer has said.
16:22 I'll try to go quickly through this
16:23 because we got a lot of ground to cover in our, you know,
16:26 main topic today, but he used to be the president
16:28 of the Southern Baptist Convention, like I mentioned,
16:31 during his annual address that he delivered in 2020,
16:33 as president, he called for all SBC members
16:36 to declare the slogan, "Black Lives Matter."
16:38 And in that same address, he denounced the use
16:41 of the slogan, "All Lives Matter."
16:43 Okay?
16:45 Now in that address, he said, "I do not align myself
16:48 with the Black Lives Matter organization."
16:50 But he wants all SBC members to shout their name and slogan?
16:54 I mean, how blind can you be?
16:58 Like, no, no, no, don't say "All Lives Matter"
17:00 'cause that's triggering, but yeah,
17:01 definitely say "Black Lives Matter."
17:02 So he's a guy that said that.
17:04 And then in 2021, during his speech that he gave
17:06 to the SBC Executive Committee, he addressed the fact
17:09 that conservative SBC members were publicly criticizing him
17:13 and the SBC leadership for, you know,
17:15 their left word drift on social issues,
17:17 which I think clearly they were doing.
17:19 And how did he respond?
17:20 By comparing those folks to terrorists.
17:23 Okay, so here's a direct quote from that speech
17:26 he gave to the SBC Executive Committee.
17:28 "Every moment that you or me or Dr. Floyd
17:30 engages in a silly argument or spends time debunking
17:32 on truth is a moment I'm not focused on the Great Commission.
17:35 I think we need an attitude like President George W. Bush
17:38 called for in 2001.
17:40 We make no distinction between those committing terrorism
17:42 and those who harbor terrorists."
17:44 What in the, so you get criticized by conservatives
17:49 and then you're like, yeah, they're just like terrorists.
17:51 Really?
17:52 And in that same speech, he said this, quote,
17:54 "We should mourn when closet racists
17:56 and neo-Confederates feel more at home in our churches
17:59 than do many of our people of color."
18:02 So there's a grandiose sweeping statement
18:06 that there are closet racists and neo-Confederates
18:08 in the SBC churches and that people of color
18:12 can't feel comfortable.
18:14 Like, that's, I mean, what in the world?
18:17 Like, what a crazy, crazy thing to say out loud,
18:19 much less think.
18:20 And then also in the same speech, he said this, quote,
18:22 "I received the emails and phone calls from people
18:25 in our Southern Baptist churches who do fit that description.
18:28 The reality is if we in the SBC had shown as much sorrow
18:31 for the painful legacy that racism and discrimination
18:34 has left in our country as we have passion
18:36 to decry critical race theory,
18:38 we probably wouldn't be in this mess."
18:41 Which is just an astonishingly stupid thing to say.
18:45 That all of the sudden, if you're a Southern Baptist church
18:49 that you are not concerned about racism
18:52 and you're not concerned about the sin of partiality,
18:55 but, oh, we're really, you know, concerned about CRT
18:59 and to do this false equivalency
19:01 that we didn't fight against racism.
19:02 So now we're fighting against CRT.
19:04 It's like just an astonishingly dumb thing for him to say.
19:08 But also, he literally describes the false accusations
19:11 made against him from the conservative members as demonic.
19:16 And this reminded me of what Matt Chandler did
19:17 a couple of years ago when he was, you know,
19:19 talking about race.
19:20 And he basically said, if you think he's Marxist
19:22 and you think the stuff that we're doing
19:24 is critical race theory and blah, blah and all that,
19:26 well, that's not coming from a holy place,
19:28 that's coming from Satan.
19:30 And I was like, really?
19:31 So someone criticizes you for buying a Marxist worldview,
19:35 hook line and sinker and then sneaking it into your church.
19:38 We're demonic.
19:40 Okay, that's rich.
19:42 But, and again, I promise I'm gonna go as fast as I can.
19:44 The most egregious thing that we know that he did
19:47 as SBC president, this is JD Greer,
19:49 was the crap that he pulled at the SBC convention in 2019.
19:53 So if you wanna deeper dive into all of this,
19:54 go back to the interview I did with Tom Askel back in December.
19:57 He gives some background, some details on this,
19:59 but essentially at the every SBC convention,
20:02 there are resolutions that are voted on in past.
20:04 My understanding is that no resolution comes to a vote
20:07 unless the committee on resolutions decides
20:09 that a resolution can be voted on.
20:11 Okay, so back in 2019 at the SBC convention,
20:14 the chair of the committee on resolutions,
20:16 a guy named Dr. Curtis Woods of Southern Baptist Theological
20:18 Seminary, he oversaw the passage of eight resolutions
20:22 in about 45 minutes, okay?
20:24 Each of those eight resolutions were voted on
20:27 and debated individually, okay?
20:29 But then, oddly, JD Greer, again,
20:33 the president of the SBC at the time
20:34 made a very, very weird move.
20:37 He called for a motion to pass resolutions nine
20:41 through 13 as a package.
20:44 So the first eight were considered on their own individually,
20:47 but then let's do nine through 13 as a package.
20:50 And 'cause again, all those other ones were debated
20:52 and voted on individually.
20:53 So why the sudden need to rush to approve
20:57 five resolutions simultaneously?
20:59 Well, it all hinged on resolution nine.
21:02 The name of that resolution was on critical race theory
21:05 and intersectionality, okay?
21:07 So that resolution, resolution nine,
21:10 would approve the SBC wide use of CRT
21:14 and intersectionality as, quote, tools of analysis, okay?
21:18 Tools of analysis.
21:21 So there was a bit of a curve level on the floor
21:23 to make sure that they debated resolution nine.
21:26 My understanding is that they did so,
21:28 but in an unbelievably brief and insufficient way.
21:31 And Tom Askel offered an amendment to resolution nine
21:34 that stayed to that CRT and intersectionality
21:36 were incompatible with Christianity,
21:37 but the amendment was denied
21:38 and the resolution actually ended up passing.
21:40 When the chair of that committee,
21:42 Dr. Curtis Woods, rejected the amendment.
21:45 He said this, quote, critical race theory
21:47 and intersectionality are simply analytical tools.
21:51 They are to be used as a tool, not a worldview,
21:54 but obviously with anybody with a functioning brain
21:57 and more than two brain cells,
21:59 knows that this is a farce.
22:01 Tom Askel was and continues to be 100% right
22:05 about CRT and intersectionality.
22:07 It is in fact a worldview that is a biblical
22:10 and antithetical to Christianity.
22:12 But again, I take you way back to in J.D. Greer.
22:16 Yes, the same J.D. Greer
22:18 that has this unbelievably awkward history
22:21 with saying things that sound like they were written down
22:23 for him by some purple haired,
22:24 nose ringed non-binary Cal Berkeley College professor
22:27 was the one that suggested that we must combine
22:31 resolution nine with four other resolutions
22:34 and just, you know, pass it real quick
22:35 so that everyone could go to, you know,
22:37 get dinner or something like that.
22:39 Excuse me.
22:40 So am I to just assume that it was a coincidence?
22:44 Like, am I just to assume that J.D. Greer
22:47 only had the most integrity-filled reasons
22:50 for wanting to do that?
22:52 Or was something more nefarious afoot?
22:54 And he was just blazing the trail for it.
22:56 Because here's the thing that I know.
22:59 In order for atheistic ideologies like communism,
23:02 now morphing into wokism, you know,
23:04 where you get CRT and all these other different things.
23:06 In order for those things to work,
23:07 in order for the plan to be carried out,
23:10 you need two kinds of people, okay?
23:12 Number one, you need conscious, nefarious actors.
23:15 And number two, you need kind-hearted, useful idiots.
23:18 That's what you need.
23:21 Because the people that are driving the ideology,
23:24 the people that are creating the ideology,
23:26 those are the conscious, nefarious actors.
23:29 But there aren't enough of those people
23:32 to really make society-wide change.
23:35 So you need a bunch of kind-hearted, useful idiots.
23:39 And so I think of it like, excuse me,
23:43 I think of it like when you have a public school teacher
23:45 that is teaching critical race theory things in their class,
23:48 but they call it something else.
23:50 They're like, oh, it's not critical race theory.
23:51 It's blah, blah, blah.
23:52 Well, who's what's it, right?
23:54 They're useful idiots.
23:55 And I'm not saying all public school teachers
23:56 or teachers of any kind are idiots,
23:59 but I'm just saying that they're so kind-hearted
24:01 and they don't even want to feel bad
24:03 and they don't want anybody to feel
24:05 as if they're being targeted.
24:07 So they will just go along to get along.
24:09 But that makes them a kind-hearted, useful idiot.
24:12 So in J.D. Greer's case,
24:14 I don't think he's a conscious, nefarious actor,
24:16 if I'm being honest,
24:17 but he certainly may be a kind-hearted, useful idiot,
24:21 I guess time will tell.
24:22 So just to kind of conclude this,
24:24 I do think that we need to keep an eye on Greer.
24:27 He seems to be trending in a very dangerous direction.
24:30 And hopefully he'll correct course quickly.
24:32 You know, and just a reminder, guys,
24:34 pastors, yours or someone else's,
24:37 they're not in any way, shape or form,
24:39 above correction or criticism.
24:41 Okay, if you have a public profile, just like me,
24:44 I get criticized all the time, believe me,
24:45 I should send you guys the emails.
24:47 I can criticize all the time.
24:48 If you're a public person,
24:49 it is okay for you to be corrected and critiqued.
24:52 And in this case, just like I said,
24:54 I've tried to be as fair as possible
24:55 to Andy Stanley last week
24:56 and to J.D. Greer this week,
24:58 I even tried to show you that there's a separation
24:59 between those two,
25:00 even though I think they're hanging out
25:02 in some of the similar philosophical circles.
25:04 So there, we'll just kind of go in,
25:05 put a bow on that for now.
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25:35 All right, so let's dig into what I want to talk about mainly
25:38 for today.
25:39 And in order to set up what I want to discuss with you today,
25:41 I need to go over a couple of news stories with you.
25:44 And again,
25:45 just quick content warning.
25:46 The first story that I'm going over
25:48 has some very, very graphic sexual details.
25:51 If you're listening to this with children,
25:53 I would highly suggest you listen to this first
25:55 and determine whether or not it's okay for your kiddo.
25:57 Again, this, it's rough.
25:58 Okay, so I'm not gonna sanitize the details
26:00 or the language in this story.
26:02 So discretion is encouraged
26:03 if you have young listeners with you.
26:04 So there I've said it.
26:06 But on January the 17th of this year,
26:08 townhall.com released an investigative report entitled
26:11 "Tapes".
26:12 We investigated a suburban LGBTQ pedophile ring.
26:15 Here's what we found.
26:16 So very ominous title and it only gets worse from there.
26:19 So I'm gonna give a link to the full article
26:21 and there's multiple articles
26:22 that I'll just put in the show notes
26:23 so you guys can read them later.
26:24 But this was actually a follow-up article
26:26 to a story that townhall.com ran in August of last year
26:30 of 2022 and I'll include that in the show notes as well
26:32 so you guys can both read those.
26:34 But this story is centered around William Dale Zullick,
26:37 Jr. and Zachary Jacobi Zullick.
26:40 Okay, so they are a gay so-called married couple
26:43 because again, you can't be gay and be married
26:45 but you know, technically in this country you can be.
26:47 They are activists and the LGBTQ plus movement
26:50 in an early 2018.
26:52 They were allowed to adopt two young boys
26:55 that were brothers and I believe they were six
26:57 and four at the time and they did so
26:59 through a so-called Christian special needs adoption agency.
27:03 Okay, so remember that, this is a gay couple, two men
27:06 that adopted a six-year-old boy and a four-year-old boy.
27:08 So many people said at the time and continued to say
27:11 that this was a great thing, that these boys were adopted
27:15 into a loving family and that this was a beautiful thing.
27:17 It's like, but this couple spent the next several years
27:20 taking those children, you know, gay pride parades
27:22 and going to do lobbying for a bunch of left-wing causes.
27:25 But then in August of last year, it was reported
27:28 that both William and Zachary were arrested
27:30 for sexually abusing their two young adopted boys
27:33 and forcing them to perform in child pornography, okay?
27:37 But now I just wanna read directly to you
27:40 from the updated town hall article from January.
27:43 Again, discretion is advised, I can't give any more warning
27:45 so let me get a quick drink and we'll get after it.
27:47 All right, here we go.
27:50 A months long town hall investigation reveals disturbing
27:53 new details about the affluent LGBTQ activist couple
27:56 accused of sodomizing their young adopted sons.
27:59 Now ages nine and 11.
28:01 The distribution of homemade child pornography
28:05 of the sexual abuse, or sorry, I messed that up,
28:08 but they're now ages nine and 11
28:10 and they distributed homemade child pornography
28:12 that they did with these kids.
28:13 So here, back to the article.
28:15 Half a year after the shocking story
28:16 made the national news, town hall is the only outlet
28:19 following up on the criminal case in Georgia
28:21 that has since seen zero headlines written about it.
28:23 We found that it's far, far worse
28:25 than what we first reported.
28:27 Not only did the married men allegedly rape the two boys
28:30 who were adopted through a Christian special needs adoption
28:32 agency, they were pimping out their children
28:34 to nearby pedophiles in Atlanta area suburbs,
28:37 town halls follow up investigation discovered recorded
28:40 jailhouse calls, a trove of never before seen court documents
28:43 and testimony from a family member who spoke exclusively
28:46 to town hall under the extent to uncover the extent
28:49 of the physical and emotional trauma,
28:51 the two elementary school aged brothers endured,
28:54 as well as the red flags that the state overlooked
28:56 during the same sex couples,
28:58 faster than expected adoption process.
29:00 The adoptive father's 33 year old government worker,
29:03 William Dale Zulloch Jr.
29:04 and 35 year old banker Zachary Zach Jacoby Zulloch,
29:07 who was previously accused of raping a child
29:09 from Oxford, Georgia, have been indicted by a grand jury
29:12 on charges of incest, aggravated sodomy,
29:15 aggravated child molestation, felony sexual exploitation
29:19 of children and felony prostitution of a minor.
29:22 William and Zachary are each facing over nine life sentences
29:25 and they pleaded not guilty.
29:27 According to a copy of the 17 count indictment town hall
29:29 has obtained, the adoptive dads allegedly performed oral sex
29:33 on both boys, forced the children to perform oral sex
29:36 on them and annually raped with their sons.
29:39 In at least one instance, the anal rape injured
29:41 the older Zulloch child who just turned 11 years old
29:45 in mid December.
29:46 Court records indicate that the child sexual abuse stretches
29:49 back to as early as late 2019 and intensified
29:53 in January of 2021, March, 2021, and December 2021
29:57 as the offensive or as the offense dates are listed.
30:00 William admitted to forcing his 11 year old adopted son
30:04 to perform an active sodomy aka oral copulation on him
30:08 with the intent to satisfy his own sexual desire
30:11 reads a sworn affidavit filed in support of Williams
30:14 his oversight arrest back in July 27th.
30:18 An updated criminal affidavit says the child sexual abuse
30:21 was filmed by Williams husband Zachary with whom
30:24 he routinely engaged in sexual abuse of acts on the boy.
30:27 Zachary, the household's breadwinner confessed
30:29 to being the cameraman and authorities allegedly found
30:32 a folder on his cell phone labeled us that contained videos
30:35 of Williams sexually abusing the child.
30:37 The indictment also charges the Zulloch codefendants
30:40 with soliciting two other men through the use
30:42 of popular social media platforms in the greater Atlanta
30:44 metropolitan region to perform an active prostitution
30:47 with their child that suffered physical injuries
30:50 from being brutally raped town hall is the first
30:52 to publicly identify these two alleged members
30:54 of the pedophile ring in the heart of the peach state.
30:57 27 year old Hunter clay lawless and 25 year old
30:59 Luis Armando Viscaro Sanchez, both of Loganville lawless
31:04 who snitched on the Zullochs told local law enforcement
31:07 he received numerous messages via Snapchat from Zachary
31:10 about quote effing his son tonight.
31:13 And I'm sanitizing just a little bit
31:15 but effing his son tonight and to be prepared to receive
31:18 images as well as videos of the father raping
31:20 the adopted child.
31:22 Zachary met lawless through a mutual contact
31:24 and an identified man going only by the first name Blake
31:27 on a gay dating app grinder.
31:29 Following the virtual introduction Zachary sent photographs
31:31 and videos to lawless of a little boy he referred to
31:35 as his son quote, I'm going to F my son tonight
31:38 stand by unquote Zachary allegedly messaged lawless
31:41 on Snapchat and then sent pictures of himself sexually
31:44 abusing his 11 year old child after he was busted lawless
31:47 tonight having any physical contact with the Zulloch boys
31:50 but told law enforcement officers that Zachary invited him
31:52 multiple times to engage in sexual acts with him
31:55 and his two children.
31:56 A list of the state's evidence includes 149 images collected
32:00 at the Zulloch home to flash drives containing Zachary
32:03 and lawless his phone data sexual assault nurse examination
32:06 results from the children's medical forensic exams
32:09 which garnered DNA evidence such as bodily fluids
32:12 and documented injuries a text message from lawless
32:15 a Snapchat letter to written letters from older brother
32:17 or from the older Zulloch child and a discontaining a data dump
32:21 from this caro Sanchez's iPad and iPhone.
32:24 So let's let that sink in for just a moment there.
32:29 It's it's unspeakable.
32:33 I mean as I was preparing this podcast I was like
32:36 I'm fighting back tears just so so mad
32:42 because I have two sons that are a couple of years apart
32:45 and these brothers for years were with these men.
32:50 These demons was probably a more apt way of describing them
32:56 and a side note to this story by the way.
32:59 To all of you be known for what I'm for
33:02 not what I'm against people.
33:03 What do you think about a story like that?
33:05 Are you against that or would it be unloving
33:07 to talk about it cowards?
33:10 And then also to all of the, you know,
33:12 all the people that think that the death penalty
33:14 for any crime is too harsh or for those that think
33:17 the death penalty, you know, is rarely appropriate
33:20 but only for murder and not for any other crime.
33:23 You still sure about that?
33:23 You sure?
33:26 Because these men are facing life in prison
33:32 and not the death penalty.
33:33 Do we need these two guys in society anymore again
33:37 innocent until proven guilty?
33:38 But the evidence is damnable.
33:40 At this point, they need to have their day in court.
33:44 But as I told you before, I don't think
33:47 that the death penalty should be limited to murder.
33:49 Especially in this country where we typically only
33:54 we'll take the lives of people that have murdered
33:55 multiple people and had other extenuating circumstances.
33:58 These two men, if convicted, should die immediately.
34:02 You know, they get, you know, one appeal and then that day.
34:06 So if their appeal is gonna wrap up by noon that day,
34:09 let, you know, anyone who still claims them,
34:11 no, hey, you're gonna have a couple hours with them
34:13 and then we're gonna take them outside of town.
34:14 We're gonna put a bullet in the back of each of their heads
34:16 and either the vultures will eat them
34:18 or you can come and collect their terrible worthless bodies.
34:21 That's what I think that should happen.
34:23 So that's obviously an extreme story.
34:26 But then there was also a picture
34:28 within the last week that went viral
34:29 that is gonna play into kind of what we're talking about today.
34:32 But it's a picture that was posted by Mark Lowen on Twitter
34:35 and it's a picture of two gay men holding a six week old baby.
34:39 And this is what they wrote.
34:40 "After six weeks in wonderful Canada
34:42 "and tearful farewells to our incredible surrogate and friend,
34:45 "it's time to go home to Lisbon with our new family member,
34:48 "our most beautiful hand luggage.
34:50 "Canada, you are a shining light of democracy and equality.
34:53 "Thank you for letting us fulfill our dream."
34:55 Okay, so two gay men, they obviously rented a woman's womb
35:00 and, you know, woman has this baby six weeks later.
35:03 These two gay men taking their baby back with them to Lisbon.
35:06 Most people, or I would say a lot of people, not most people,
35:09 a lot of people had very, very positive reactions to this.
35:12 They said it was very, very beautiful.
35:13 But then there were a lot of other people that said,
35:15 "Yeah, this is actually pretty sad."
35:16 And I would, of course, agree with those people.
35:18 I'm sorry, guys, for the multiple breaks.
35:21 So a voice is really, really struggling right now.
35:23 But with both of these kinds of stories,
35:26 at least generically, gay couples adopting children.
35:30 And in some cases, using surrogates to have a family
35:33 and we're being told that this is a beautiful thing.
35:35 There's a common word that's used to describe
35:38 what's happening, that it should be celebrated,
35:40 that it should happen more and more,
35:42 and that it's totally normal and healthy.
35:44 But this won't come as a shock to any of you.
35:46 I have a different view.
35:48 I think that gay adoption and surrogacy
35:51 is an ugly, ugly thing.
35:53 It should not be celebrated.
35:55 It should never happen.
35:57 And it's totally not normal and not healthy.
36:01 Now, am I saying that every gay couple
36:03 that adopts little boys will end up raping them
36:05 and pimping them out to other pedophiles?
36:07 Of course not.
36:08 Of course, I'm not saying that.
36:10 There are plenty of awful, demonic, sick parents
36:13 and heterosexual relationships.
36:15 But statistically speaking, children suffer physical
36:20 and sexual abuse at the hands of men
36:23 far more than they do at the hands of women.
36:26 So putting them in a household with two adult men
36:31 just increases the likelihood of abuse taking place.
36:35 Against statistically speaking, that is 100% true.
36:39 But as I was thinking through those two news stories,
36:43 I was thinking a lot about gay adoption and gay surrogacy
36:46 and really how ugly it is overall.
36:48 With gay, and there's so many different reasons,
36:50 but one of them is with gay marriage
36:52 it involves two consenting adults.
36:55 With gay adoption, the children cannot consent
36:57 to being raised that way.
37:00 And I mean, when that thought occurred to me,
37:02 I was like, that needs to be talked about way more.
37:05 Because yeah, especially if you're a libertarian,
37:07 it's like, yeah, they're just gay dudes
37:09 are gonna go do their own thing.
37:10 It doesn't bother me in my marriage.
37:11 But when they start having families,
37:14 when they start adopting children,
37:16 when they start doing this weird in vitro fertilization,
37:19 swirl thing where we don't know
37:20 who semen is gonna actually go into the egg
37:23 and we don't know we're gonna just gonna put in
37:25 some random woman's body or something like that
37:26 or 20, 25 years in the future
37:28 when we're gonna have synthetic wounds
37:30 or something like that,
37:32 that's when it becomes an issue.
37:34 'Cause children can't consent
37:35 to being raised in a family like that.
37:37 And another reason why I really think you should be
37:41 against gay adoption and surrogacy
37:43 is the father-mother children
37:45 or father-mother-child family structure
37:48 is literally the basis of human society and civilization.
37:51 Because obviously we don't get human society
37:55 and civilization without procreation.
37:58 That only occurs with a man and a woman.
38:01 Now we live in this modern time
38:02 where a man and a man are a woman and a woman
38:04 or a single man or a single woman,
38:05 they can just pretend that it's their child
38:08 and they can just have one created and a lab for them
38:11 or they can just adopt a kid or something like that.
38:13 And all of a sudden that's somehow supposed to be different.
38:17 But the basis of human society crumbles,
38:21 the foundation literally crumbles to ashes
38:24 if you don't have father-mother children.
38:27 Natural, biological, father, mother, children.
38:30 And also when you're researching things like that,
38:33 you'll find these studies, right?
38:35 These studies that discover that children
38:38 in same-sex households fare better
38:40 or the same as their straight,
38:42 mother and father counterparts.
38:44 But the thing about all these studies that I found,
38:46 when you dig in just a little bit,
38:48 those studies are riddled with errors and inaccuracies.
38:51 And I won't go into too much detail there
38:53 because I'm gonna link to a Heritage Foundation report
38:56 that looked at these things that,
38:57 you get the big headline on Washington Post or New York Times
39:00 or Vox or something like that.
39:02 Kids that are raised by two gay fathers or two lesbian mothers,
39:05 they actually fare better than all the straight kids.
39:07 No, actually they don't.
39:09 Another reason why I really think
39:11 that you should struggle and be against gay adoption
39:14 and surrogacy is there's actually great evidence
39:18 to suggest that children raised by homosexuals
39:21 have a much higher likelihood
39:23 of experiencing sexual and gender disorders.
39:26 And we've kind of seen this,
39:27 we kind of see this even just by looking at culture,
39:30 isn't it so interesting when you have these parents
39:33 in California or, you know, in Chicago or in Portland
39:37 or in Austin or in DC or in any of these liberal hubs, right?
39:41 You have this one parent that'll have three kids,
39:43 one of them's trans and one of them's pansexual.
39:46 It's like, really?
39:47 Like statistically speaking, that's almost impossible.
39:52 And I mean, Jordan Peterson even talked about this recently
39:54 on a Joe Rogan podcast,
39:55 it's like the chances of that are so unbelievably slim,
39:59 there's a much, much higher likelihood
40:01 that one, if not both of the parents
40:03 are destructive narcissists
40:05 and they're literally influencing their kids
40:08 to think that they are something that they're likely not.
40:12 You're being introduced to homosexuality in the household
40:16 and the normalization of these reprehensible,
40:19 abominable behaviors.
40:21 And then that leads to the child experiencing
40:23 sexual and gender disorders.
40:25 Again, not great evidence at all
40:27 for kids growing up in homosexual relationships
40:29 or homosexual households,
40:30 having good outcomes on the back end,
40:32 but great evidence to suggest that when that happens,
40:34 it's actually way more negative for the children
40:36 specifically because they create sexual and gender disorders.
40:40 Another thing that I thought about is,
40:42 we already thought, you know, as society,
40:43 as people that we could mess and finagle
40:47 with the traditional successful family structure
40:50 and model and experience no issues.
40:54 And just be honest, I don't think that we need to experiment
40:56 with doing that again.
40:58 Because, you know, back in the '60s, sexual liberation,
41:01 you get into no fault divorces,
41:03 there's tons of divorce families
41:06 and babies out of wedlock.
41:07 The government sold a bill of goods to single mothers.
41:10 Look, you don't need a man.
41:12 Actually, if you have a man in the house,
41:14 we're not gonna be able to give you any money.
41:15 So just, if you wanna have sex
41:17 and, you know, do all your different things
41:18 and you get pregnant, you know,
41:19 one will provide you a means to kill that baby,
41:22 but if you wanna keep that baby,
41:23 don't worry about baby daddy,
41:24 don't worry about any of that stuff,
41:25 we'll take care of you.
41:26 You know, Uncle Sam will take care of you.
41:29 And that has caused an unbelievable number of issues.
41:33 Society-wide.
41:34 There are, I would say probably the overwhelming majority
41:38 of societal issues, not governmental issues or whatever,
41:41 societal issues stem from fatherlessness,
41:44 because it's something that's been encouraged.
41:46 You know, hey, if this man's not meeting your knees,
41:49 just leave him, don't worry, we'll take care of you.
41:52 And the problem that it creates is, you know,
41:55 I guess why in the world do we think
41:57 that adding gay and lesbian parents to the mix
42:00 would be a good idea?
42:01 So we thought, you know, no fault divorce would be a good idea.
42:05 We thought, you know, women not having a man in their life,
42:07 you know, father's not being around their kids.
42:08 We thought all that was a good idea.
42:10 And now we're supposed to listen to you when you say,
42:11 oh yeah, having gay and lesbian parents,
42:13 that's gonna be no problem.
42:14 And I think it stems from another concern,
42:18 which is pretending like homosexual relationships
42:20 and heterosexual relationships are fundamentally the same
42:24 and superficially different
42:25 is literally the exact opposite of reality.
42:27 They're superficially the same and fundamentally different, okay?
42:33 Because homosexual relationships don't even provide
42:36 for the opportunity to naturally procreate.
42:40 So just by that one stance,
42:42 homosexual relationships and heterosexual relationships
42:45 are completely fundamentally different.
42:47 And yes, they're inherent heterosexual relationships.
42:50 There are people that biologically cannot conceive
42:52 for whatever reason, and it's typically heartbreaking, right?
42:56 And there are means by which that can be taken care of
43:00 and that you can work around that.
43:02 And there's different things that I'm not gonna get into today
43:04 where people can still have a family, okay?
43:06 'Cause I would certainly never say to anyone
43:09 that's an adoptive parent
43:09 that you're somehow doing something wrong.
43:12 I personally know women that cannot conceive,
43:16 but they're the best mamas
43:17 to the families and the children that they've adopted.
43:20 So obviously I'm not going against just normal adoption.
43:23 But to say that those types of relationships are the same,
43:26 fundamentally at its core when you're looking at truth,
43:28 it's just not real.
43:30 But then also promiscuity and gay relationships,
43:33 so specifically to men,
43:35 promiscuity in those relationships is astonishingly high.
43:38 That's kind of like a joke in the gay community
43:40 to where it's just like every married man
43:42 kind of also has boyfriends on the side.
43:44 That's just something that they do.
43:46 There's not this overwhelming focus.
43:48 Again, this is a satanic worldview
43:49 that even leads to where homosexuality is normalized,
43:52 but it's not even a normal thing for you to be
43:55 just dedicated to your one partner,
43:57 your one homosexual partner.
43:59 Again, that's a joke in the gay community
44:01 that they have so many sexual partners.
44:03 And so when you think about that in a family context,
44:06 if that happens in your family context,
44:09 don't you think that's gonna have an impact on children?
44:11 You're already showing them homosexual relationships
44:13 as if that's a natural thing.
44:14 It's not even, again, take spirituality, take God out of it.
44:17 It's not natural in nature.
44:19 Because again, if you just think with that,
44:20 we're all just highly evolved chimps
44:22 and there's just a bunch of highly evolved things
44:24 running around, like two females or two males
44:28 having sex with one another
44:29 doesn't lead to the propagation of the species.
44:32 And so they're already seeing that nonsense
44:34 in a human form in their household,
44:36 but then what if promiscuity comes in?
44:38 And I guess one last one that I wanna talk about here
44:40 is just surrogacy commodifies the wombs of women.
44:45 That's what surrogacy is.
44:49 I don't see a good argument for surrogacy for gay couples
44:52 where you literally just put this, you just inject this,
44:58 you know, sperm and egg and this zygote
45:00 and you just inject it into a woman
45:01 and you're basically renting her womb from her.
45:04 That was one of the things
45:06 that whenever Russia invaded Ukraine,
45:07 Ukraine is one of the biggest countries for surrogacy.
45:11 And that was really gonna hurt their surrogacy numbers,
45:13 which was gonna hurt their GDP.
45:15 But it's like, where are the second,
45:18 third and fourth-way feminists on surrogacy?
45:22 On women, 'cause we're not supposed to objectify women,
45:25 turn them into objects.
45:26 What is surrogacy for gay couples doing?
45:29 You're literally creating an object
45:32 that you're inserting something into
45:34 and then you're getting it out on the back end
45:35 and pretending it's yours and pretending it's beautiful.
45:38 But if I were to coalesce all this down,
45:41 I would say that my main reason for feeling this way,
45:44 that gay adoption and surrogacy is ugly
45:46 and that we shouldn't do it,
45:47 is that children deserve a mother and a father.
45:51 They indeed deserve a mother and a father.
45:56 Now, in our modern time,
45:57 the word deserve is definitely overused.
45:59 I deserve free healthcare.
46:00 I deserve to have you pay for my college.
46:02 That's obviously not something that comes into play here.
46:05 But children, literally long for their biological parents.
46:09 Gay adoption and surrogacy just exacerbates
46:13 the spade of children that live apart
46:15 from their mothers and fathers.
46:16 For any of you parents out there
46:19 that have adopted children, you know this to be true.
46:22 You painfully know this to be true.
46:24 That when the child figures out or finds out
46:27 that you are not their biological parents,
46:29 again, there's beauty in the fact
46:31 that you're parenting that kid.
46:32 So I wanna edify you in that way.
46:34 But they have a longing for their biological mother and father.
46:39 And so allowing gay adoption and surrogacy
46:41 literally increases the spade of children
46:44 that are gonna be going through that.
46:46 And also, in lesbian or, you know,
46:48 singer mother households caused by gay adoption or surrogacy,
46:53 it creates a very detrimental situation
46:56 where the children grow up without their fathers.
46:58 Again, I've talked about this a lot.
47:00 Go buy the boy crisis by Warren Farrell.
47:01 Read that.
47:02 When dads are not present, when fathers are not present
47:05 in a society, the society crumbles.
47:08 Again, the stats are damning.
47:10 For little girls, sexual promiscuity goes up,
47:13 grades goes down, criminality goes up,
47:15 STDs goes up.
47:16 For boys, violence goes up, murders go up.
47:21 Again, sexual promiscuity goes up, grades go down.
47:24 Like, you know, their ability to earn money
47:26 and get an education over their life,
47:27 it's all affected by whether or not dad is there.
47:31 And so in these single mother households,
47:33 'cause I know that there are people out there
47:36 that will literally have a sperm donor
47:38 so that they can get pregnant
47:39 so that they can be a single mother
47:41 hoping one day they'll have a husband.
47:43 And if not, they're choosing single motherhood.
47:46 And statistically speaking, you know,
47:49 they're exposing that child to an undue amount of risk
47:52 and children need both.
47:54 Because the same is true in the opposite.
47:56 In gay or single father households caused by gay adoption
47:59 and surrogacy, it creates a very detrimental situation
48:01 where children grow up without their mothers.
48:04 Because I know this is shocking to say in 2022,
48:07 mothers and fathers give different types of things
48:09 to their children.
48:10 You know, fathers speak to them in a different way.
48:15 They call them up in a different way.
48:16 They show them how to protect.
48:18 It's more aggressive, the rough housing,
48:20 all those different things.
48:21 Again, read the boy crisis.
48:22 It's a must read book for anyone with sons.
48:25 But then children need mothers too.
48:28 Literally this morning, I snuck in behind my son.
48:31 He's sitting at our, you know,
48:32 'cause we have these barstools
48:33 and he's sitting at our island.
48:35 And his face is basically at, you know,
48:38 eye level with the island, right, the countertop.
48:41 And I sneak up behind him and I go to like, you know,
48:43 blow a raspberry or whatever on his neck.
48:46 And he, you know, he laughs and like jerks his head away
48:49 and bangs his head on the counter, okay?
48:51 Completely my fault.
48:53 Immediately felt like I felt this big
48:56 and I felt like a heaping pile of crap.
48:58 Just the worst possible situation.
49:01 I go to hug him and oh, I'm so sorry
49:03 and I'm patting his head and all that.
49:05 And what do you bet he did?
49:07 He pushed me away and ran to mom.
49:09 Now, I was the source of the problem, right?
49:12 'Cause I'm the one that technically made him hurt himself.
49:14 So I'm the one that hurt him.
49:16 But had he even just fallen down
49:17 and any other time where he falls down
49:19 or bumps into something, he doesn't run to dad dad.
49:22 He runs to mama.
49:22 Children need that.
49:25 They absolutely need that.
49:28 And now of course that can't always be possible.
49:32 There are fathers that leave.
49:34 There are fathers that die.
49:35 There are mothers that die at childbirth.
49:37 This product of the fall is we have all these
49:40 detrimental things that happen to life.
49:41 So that's not always possible.
49:43 But we as a society should always shoot
49:47 for the ideal over the convenient.
49:48 Always shoot for the ideal over the convenient.
49:52 Because there's a situation that came up
49:54 even here recently and I have to be careful
49:55 'cause the person may be listening to this,
49:57 but it was a single guy.
49:59 And I met him 'cause there were some work
50:01 that we were both doing.
50:01 This was years ago.
50:02 And he's one of those guys at the moment
50:04 I shook his hand and met him, I'm like, oh, this guy's gay.
50:06 But then he started talking about his girlfriend
50:08 and some of his relationships had it gone awry.
50:10 And I'm like, oh, this guy doesn't realize he's gay yet.
50:12 And it was just something that popped up in my head.
50:14 It's like, this guy's very clearly a homosexual,
50:16 but he just hasn't gotten there yet, I guess, okay?
50:19 And this is a guy that goes to church
50:20 and he volunteers and all those different things.
50:22 And I found out years later that he had become somehow
50:26 a foster parent and he was fostering
50:29 like an 11 year old or 12 year old boy
50:32 and then he adopted this boy.
50:34 And then the next time I heard about this man,
50:36 it was because he came out as homosexual.
50:39 And again, I don't know this guy personally,
50:41 I have no idea what's going on in their house.
50:43 But it's not exactly a secret that a lot of adult
50:46 homosexual men have boyfriends that are underage.
50:51 That's something that gets a lot of people canceled
50:53 even talking about something like that.
50:54 Like there was a conservative commentator
50:56 that got canceled for pointing that out.
50:58 Like, what was his name?
51:01 Milo Yiannopoulos.
51:02 Yeah, he just pointed that out.
51:03 He's like, yeah, it's not that big a deal.
51:04 Obviously, I think it's a huge deal.
51:06 It's a huge deal because it's a homosexual relationship
51:07 but it's also a huge deal because it's pedophilia.
51:10 But this is something that is common in the gay community.
51:13 Again, I'm not making that up.
51:15 I'm not throwing stones, I'm just describing reality.
51:18 And so it's like, in that situation,
51:20 what was the wisdom behind giving this young boy
51:23 to this man?
51:24 Like, what kind of follow up is there?
51:27 Like, it's just, it's a terrible situation
51:29 all the way around, in my opinion.
51:31 But the bottom line here is,
51:32 as no matter who does the study,
51:34 as long as, you know, it's an honest and well done study,
51:37 when it's done, the truth is this.
51:40 More healthy children come from families
51:43 with a father and a mother both in the home
51:47 where the father is the breadwinner,
51:48 the mother is mainly taking care of the house
51:51 and where the family is involved in the local church
51:54 than any other kind of arrangement.
51:56 That's it, hard stop, period, end of story.
52:01 Father, mother, both living in the home, married,
52:05 father's breadwinner, mother,
52:07 typically takes care of the household
52:09 and the family is involved in the local church.
52:10 The outcomes for those children and those families
52:13 is higher than any other possible scenario
52:15 that you can put out there.
52:17 So when I talk about the ideal, that's what I mean.
52:20 So we shouldn't make it easier for us to usurp the ideal,
52:24 to chop out the foundations of the ideal.
52:28 But we also, as we wrap up here,
52:29 we need to talk about this from a biblical perspective, okay?
52:33 Because normalizing babies in same-sex scenarios
52:37 would continue to erode God's very first command
52:41 to Adam and Eve.
52:42 Be fruitful and increase in number, that's Genesis 128,
52:45 and then be fruitful and multiply,
52:47 that's repeated for Noah's family in Genesis nine.
52:50 So again, when you normalize babies,
52:53 being thrust into these same-sex scenarios,
52:56 you're going directly against God's mandate and commands.
52:59 Also, as I mentioned earlier, God gave us marriage
53:03 and he gets to define it,
53:04 'cause he's the one that invented it, okay?
53:06 So Genesis 224, therefore a man shall leave his mother
53:09 or his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife
53:12 and they shall become one flesh.
53:14 Where do we get this concept of marriage?
53:16 To highly evolved chimps being with one another?
53:20 That, that's where we get that idea, okay?
53:23 So the federal government of the United States
53:25 doesn't get to define what marriage is.
53:26 You don't get to define what it is for you and your truth
53:29 and your lived experience, God does.
53:32 But also, we see in Matthew 19 that Jesus upholds
53:35 the sanctity of marriage.
53:37 Read Matthew 19, it's very interesting.
53:39 And so I guess to kind of put a bow on all this guys,
53:42 this is a hard one for a lot of reasons.
53:45 This is a very difficult thing to talk about
53:48 because of the things that happen,
53:50 because of the negative things that happen.
53:52 All of this is a product of brokenness,
53:54 that we live in a post-Genesis 3 world
53:56 that we're even talking about these things
53:58 is because of that.
53:59 So above all of these things,
54:01 if you don't have the blood of Christ,
54:03 if you're not covered by the blood of Christ,
54:04 if you don't have your faith in the fact
54:07 that he is the resurrected savior
54:10 and he died so that you could have a way to the father,
54:13 that's a problem.
54:14 That's something that you need to reckon with.
54:16 You may have never prayed before
54:17 because you don't think that God exists.
54:19 Pray as if he does exist.
54:21 Reach out to him and say,
54:22 "Hey, reveal yourself to me.
54:24 "Get yourself a Bible."
54:25 I promise, wherever you're out in America,
54:27 you can find one in about five minutes, right?
54:29 You can download one on your phone in the next 30 seconds,
54:31 okay?
54:32 Read through the scriptures.
54:34 Read through the Gospels, Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John
54:36 and see if the story of Jesus resonates with you.
54:40 Ask God to reveal himself to you.
54:44 I think he'll be shocked at what you find.
54:46 So specifically to gay adoption and surrogacy.
54:48 Don't be one of those go along to get along Christians.
54:53 Don't be one of those loser cowards that's just like,
54:55 "Oh, I wanna be known for what I'm for,
54:57 "not what I'm against."
54:58 If things are ugly and sinful,
55:00 it is incumbent upon you to point it out
55:04 and fight against it.
55:05 When we talk about love, that's kind of the new thing.
55:08 Like, "Oh, you know, we're just gonna love.
55:09 "We're not gonna talk about your sin.
55:10 "We're just gonna love."
55:11 It is unloving to ignore someone's sin
55:14 'cause it's their sin that sends them the help.
55:16 So no, you should not support gay relationships.
55:20 You should not support gay marriage,
55:22 which is basically gay mirage.
55:24 It's not a real thing.
55:25 And gay adoption and surrogacy.
55:27 Don't be one of those Christians that I've talked to
55:29 that are like, "Well, I guess it's better for them
55:31 "to be in a gay household than it is
55:32 "for them to be in foster care."
55:34 How do you know that?
55:35 Why would you even say such a thing?
55:38 To pretend as if that you really agree
55:40 with a Judeo-Christian ethic and with the father, mother,
55:44 children's set up and then say something like that.
55:47 Oh, it's probably better.
55:49 If you think about it for any length of time,
55:50 that's not where you're gonna end up.
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In this episode, we discuss the recent viral story about a gay “married” couple that was arrested for raping and pimping out their two adopted children and forcing them to perform in child pornography. We also discuss the viral picture of another gay “married” couple with their baby that they had just purchased via surrogacy. We have been told repeatedly that gay adoption and surrogacy is a beautiful thing, but it’s not; it’s ugly. Let’s get into it…

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