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225 – BOTCHING AFGHANISTAN | Mike Ritland

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225 – BOTCHING AFGHANISTAN | Mike Ritland
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In this episode, Kyle Thompson and retired Navy SEAL Mike Ritland dive deep into the heartbreaking situation in Afghanistan, reflecting on the consequences of the U.S. withdrawal and the sacrifices made by service members. They discuss the failures of leadership and the implications for future military engagements.
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0:37 This is Undaunted Life, a man's podcast. I'm your host Kyle Thompson.
0:50 Let's get into it. All right, guys, we're going to keep this botching Afghanistan series going,
0:54 but we're going to do it with a new guest that you're not familiar with in terms of my podcast,
0:57 and that is Mike Ritalin. So Mike Ritalin is a guy that we are going to have on our podcast,
1:00 and we're going to do a proper podcast with him later on down the road. But Mike Ritalin is a
1:04 retired Navy SEAL. He is an expert dog handler, and that's kind of his business, but he's also a
1:08 best-selling author. He's written a lot of stories about his military career and how we should respect
1:13 a lot of the dogs that are used in these areas. I was on the Mike Drop podcast, so that's how a
1:16 lot of you actually found our show is I got attacked by one of his meat missiles, and then I went on
1:20 his show to talk for about three hours. We had a really, really good conversation. But again,
1:24 we are going to have him on, I believe it's in about four or five weeks to talk about a new book
1:27 that he has coming out. So we're going to do the normal fanfare with that. But we're going to go
1:30 ahead and get into the story here. And guys, I really loved his perspective on a lot of these
1:33 things because Mike is not one to mince words. And again, there's kind of a language warning
1:37 on this episode for any of you guys that maybe have sensitive ears around or little kids or
1:41 something like that. Mike just talks and I just let it go and I don't edit out anything. I want
1:45 people to give me their honest feelings. But I really enjoyed his perspective on a lot of different
1:49 things because yes, he was on the ground in the Middle East and he's lost friends and he knows
1:53 gold star families and he serves a lot of those people even still today. But again,
1:57 I really, really dug his opinions. You should check it out. Obviously you're about to because
2:00 you're going to listen to this. So guys, without further ado, let's get into it.
2:02 All right, Mike Ritalin. Thank you so much for coming on the show. I know that we're going to be
2:06 doing a more proper show here on down the line, but the circumstances just predicated having this
2:10 conversation sooner. It's insane what's going on in Afghanistan and you know what it's like on the
2:16 ground there, you know, it's like on the ground for those people. And so as with everybody else in
2:21 the series that we've done, I just want to kind of back away from the mic for a second to just
2:24 let you say what your initial thoughts are as to kind of what you're seeing and what's currently
2:29 going on in the country of Afghanistan. Sure. I appreciate you having me on and asking me what I
2:34 think in a word heartbreaking is probably the single most app descriptive word that I can pick to
2:44 you know, to convey what kind of what I feel and then just how it seems like things are going there.
2:50 You know, and for a number of reasons, I think that there's the obvious one of seeing, you know,
2:56 what we spent 20 years there doing essentially was erased, you know, at least one dimensionally
3:03 or as kind of a singular view, you know, which is tough to watch, you know, to see, you know,
3:09 thousands of our men and women lose their lives to set up certain mechanisms in that country
3:16 to be a certain way. And then they all just vanish in a matter of days is tough to watch.
3:21 It's also tough to watch to see just the amount of bloodshed that continues there and the rapid
3:30 exchange of kind of culture going from, you know, essentially a free democracy within reason.
3:40 Going right back to the way that it was pre 9/11, I would argue that it's actually more
3:44 dangerous than the 9/11 or pre 9/11, because they have a lot more experience. They've got a ton of
3:50 our equipment. You know, they have infrastructure put in place and recruiting pipelines and things
3:56 like that. So, you know, their capabilities could possibly be more. And I think that probably the
4:04 single biggest reason why I find it heartbreaking is that it didn't have to go down that way.
4:10 You know, I know a lot in the in the media on the administration side are saying, you know,
4:14 we plan for every contingency. And I would just say, well, [inaudible], because if that was the case,
4:18 it wouldn't be happening. And that's I don't know who listens to that and thinks, yeah, you know,
4:23 they did everything they could or saying that like the previous administration agreed to this deal.
4:29 And so, you know, it's out of our hands like that's a chicken chip response to and that, you know,
4:34 there's about 40 other deals that the last administration signed and agreed on that they've
4:40 reversed, you know, in a matter of days, you know, that they didn't want, you know, and so I think
4:46 it's just such a feckless and and a spineless way to to conduct yourself. I mean, as a president,
4:54 it's your job to to legitimately say that it's my responsibility in the buck stops here, not with
5:00 a caveat, not with a but not with a and I mean, just plain and simple, like it's your responsibility.
5:06 I mean, if I hire somebody that does something wrong, ultimately, that's my fault. You know,
5:11 yes, there's free will and there's, you know, people's decisions to make a choice. But, you know,
5:16 that's that's the big, big rub with being in a leadership position is that you take ownership
5:20 of of what happens. And, you know, you can't can't have it both ways and talk out of both sides of
5:26 your mouth the way the way that they're doing. I also think, you know, from kind of a more
5:30 strategic or tactical side, you know, what we're seeing right now and I don't know when this will
5:35 air. But, you know, you've got tens of thousands of citizens about 10,000 American citizens and tens
5:44 of 1000 Afghans that are supposed to evacuate and come here that are scattered all over the country,
5:50 you know, and so it's like, well, we've got the airport secure. You didn't, you know, that's why
5:54 there's people hanging on the planes and fought and coming off as well as, you know, the simple
6:01 fact that the fact that that wasn't planned for and they didn't have some mechanism to get those
6:06 people out of there. I think you're going to see over the next couple of weeks some really, really
6:09 horrible stuff because, you know, the Taliban, there's, you know, 100,000 plus of them scattered
6:14 all over the country, a lot of them centered around Kabul and the airport right now. You know,
6:20 so you can have the airport secured, you know, congratulations. But how all of these people are
6:26 going to get from where they're at to that airport? I don't see how they're going to do that. I mean,
6:30 the Taliban isn't going to just say, Oh, you're American. Yeah, come on, come on through. Like,
6:34 they're going to cut their head off, you know, so, you know, to me, the fact that those things
6:39 weren't planned for weren't, weren't, you know, accommodations weren't made. I think just speaks
6:44 volumes to how out of touch they are. And I think that the administration, not unlike, you know,
6:52 past administrations, plural, I think they're all guilty of it to a certain degree of surrounding
6:56 themselves with yes men and echo chamber folks that tell them what they want to hear. But I think
7:01 this is on a next level as far as that goes, or this wouldn't happen. And you can hear it even,
7:07 you know, in in press briefings where whether it's the president or the press secretary or the
7:14 department of defense or what have you, you know, I mean, they're all just kind of saying the same
7:20 thing. And it kind of reminds me of the the emperor's close story. And then it's like,
7:25 you can watch what's happening. And they're saying, well, that's not happening. Or, you know,
7:29 it reminds me of like, back in, you know, when Iraq back in the first Gulf War, there was that
7:37 Baghdad Bob that was like, maybe it was, I'm not sure exactly when it was. But, you know,
7:42 that the press secretary for the Iraqi regime was like, now we've got America right where we want
7:46 them. And, you know, they're on the run. And you know, it's going to be rivers of American blood
7:51 here shortly. You know, like while they're getting the [inaudible] kicked out of them, you know, and it's
7:55 just like, that's what that seems like to me is that, you know, these people in these these
8:01 upper echelon of government are just, I mean, they're blinded by their own arrogance. And it's,
8:05 it's frightening and sickening. The one, I would say silver lining though that that and I know for a
8:11 lot of veterans out there and just a lot of patriotic folks in general that probably look at this and
8:16 think to themselves, you know, what would, what were we there for? What did we accomplish? You
8:22 know, did our troops die in vain? And most people say, no, they didn't, you know, they did their
8:26 job and they volunteered. But I'll take it a step further from a, from a more kind of,
8:31 not just trying to make, make somebody feel better about what happened there. But, but legitimately is
8:36 that, you know, in interviewing Dr. James Mitchell, I learned a lot in reading his book called
8:44 Enhanced Interrogation about what, what intelligence was gleaned from the interrogations of a lot of
8:53 the masterminds of 9/11, including Sheikh Khalid Mohammed, as well as a Khalid Sheikh Mohammed rather,
8:59 as well as a number of other higher ups in al-Qaeda that basically all corroborated the same thing,
9:05 which was, you know, 9/11 was, was executed on the principle or the, the expectation that we were
9:14 going to respond in similar fashion to the last 10 years of al-Qaeda attacks on America, which were,
9:20 which was basically, let's lob a few Tomahawk cruise missiles to some training camps and call it a day.
9:26 They were not expecting us to launch a full-scale invasion of Afghanistan and knock them on their
9:33 ass. And in, in most cases, it was, you know, if we had known that, we wouldn't have done it the way
9:38 that we did it. And so the two things that I think came out of the last 20 years in Afghanistan that,
9:44 that we as a nation should be proud of. And, and if there's one thing I can say, you know, is absolutely
9:50 the case and, and why it was worth doing what we did there as long as we did, is that number one,
9:56 is that we prevented another 9/11 from happening for over two decades, number two. And this is
10:01 probably the most important thing for the long term and internationally is that not just al-Qaeda
10:08 and Afghanistan and Taliban and, and associated parties, the entire world knows that if you bring
10:14 an attack here to this country and, and attack civilians and, and a scale with which they did on
10:18 9/11, that we will use absolutely every resource in our arsenal to come to wherever you're at and
10:25 spend as much time as it takes to hunt you down and [inaudible] kill you and, and completely, you know,
10:30 redesign your entire culture, if that's what it takes to, you know, to prevent it from happening.
10:36 And so, to me that, that's something you can't put a price tag on because the reason it happened
10:43 in the first place is because they assumed we wouldn't do that. You know, now there's absolutely
10:46 no question. A couple of other things I think that are important though is, is that for us to,
10:52 to learn from this, not that we didn't already know this, we should have learned this from Vietnam
10:57 and, and a host of other conflicts we've been in, but, is that, you know, nation building is a mistake,
11:02 a huge mistake. Trying to set up democracies in countries that aren't democracies is a mistake.
11:09 I think it's, it's an arrogant and painful mistake on our part to assume that everybody
11:15 wants to live in democracies because they don't. I mean, Afghanistan is a good example. Yeah,
11:18 there are some people there that do, and some people that are, are, are broken and [inaudible],
11:22 rightfully so now that that's not happening. I mean, there's kids now that are, you know,
11:27 20 years old that were born that never knew what Afghanistan was like prior to 9/11 that are in
11:32 college. That's going to be a sobering [inaudible] wake up call for those folks. But, but the reality
11:37 of it is, is that, you know, whether it's Afghanistan or parts of Indonesia or the Southern Philippines
11:43 or North Africa, you know, the Horn of Africa, I mean, there are a lot of places in the world where,
11:49 where they want to live the way that they live, you know, or, or enough people there want to live
11:54 in, in that manner to where it's not going to change. And you can't force it on them. I mean,
11:57 the fact that it's, it's taken a week to go back to, you know, seventh century AD, essentially,
12:03 in terms of, of how they're conducting themselves tells you enough to, to where, you know, that,
12:08 that's clearly how, at least collectively they, they want to live. You know, again,
12:13 I know there's plenty of people that don't want to live that way, but not enough to,
12:16 to fight enough to change it or, or to leave or to what have you. So, you know, those, again,
12:23 I think are important things for us as a nation to consider, you know, and not make those same
12:29 mistakes. And, you know, one that we should have already learned. But, yeah, Mike, you brought up
12:33 a lot of great things there. Obviously, you mentioned the, all the contingencies, you know,
12:37 Biden gets up there and says, Oh, we thought of every contingency. It's like, Oh, so you planned
12:41 for the, for the airport to get overran. You planned for people hanging on to, you know, the landing
12:46 glare and landing gear into the sides of the plane. Oh, I didn't realize you planned for that.
12:50 That's so interesting. And of course, that's not something that that they would ever admit to.
12:53 One thing that I did key in on that you said is that, you know, obviously they didn't expect
12:58 us to come back at them with the full force that we did after 9/11 to basically make them pay for this.
13:04 But I'm curious as of right now, because again, we heard the narrative forever that, Oh, we can't
13:09 still be in these endless wars and these wars are never going to end. And how much blood and
13:12 treasure is it going to take? Even though we hadn't taken a casualty in or a death in warfare in
13:17 Afghanistan in 18 months, it wasn't like, and people were talking about it like it was World War
13:21 II or something like that. But do you feel like the American public has that kind of an appetite?
13:28 Because I've thought about another 9/11 quote unquote a lot. And I'm wondering like in 2021,
13:34 you know, 2001 is an unrecognizable time period because of how we're living now, because of cultural
13:40 revolutions and all that. Even if there was another 9/11 style attack, do you feel like it would be that
13:46 same, you know, garnering moment for the entire populace that no, we're going to get behind the
13:52 government and we're going to send our boys and girls over there to fight for us. It's like,
13:55 do you feel like it would be the same? 100% 100% and here's why is think about what what your life
14:01 was like on September 10, 2001. It was about like it is now people [inaudible] heads buried in the sand
14:07 worried about [inaudible] that didn't matter. You know, and it took getting, you know, the hornets nest
14:13 kicked over the way that it did for the entire country to collectively come together and decide,
14:18 you know what, [inaudible] this, we're going to pay him back. So it's still there. It's just, you know,
14:23 unfortunately, you know, that adage of, you know, strong, strong or good times create weak men,
14:29 you know, that whole thing. You know, that's part of the cycle that we're in right now. We're in the,
14:34 you know, we've had good times long enough to where, you know, we're worried about what pronouns
14:40 to use and, you know, who should be able to [inaudible] next to who in a bathroom. And, you know, if you
14:46 don't call me by, by, you know, the sex that I identify with, and that's a microaggression,
14:52 you should be arrested for it, you know, I mean, it's laughable. It really is. I mean, when if,
14:57 if watching the last six days doesn't put some of that in perspective, then I think you're, you're,
15:02 I would say legitimately crazy, you know, if you're like, if you can't watch what's going on and
15:09 realize that 99% of the [inaudible] that goes on here that people argue and fight and [inaudible] about,
15:14 is just absurd, laughably absurd, then I think you're out of your mind, you know,
15:20 because I can tell you, like, right now, over there, if you think any of that [inaudible] is on anybody's
15:26 radar, it's not, you know, people are trying to not get killed and set on fire and heads cut off
15:31 right now, not, you know, all the other just societal [inaudible] that takes place here where
15:37 people are complaining about everything, you know, but, you know, further kind of to your,
15:44 your question of, of, you know, do they have that, that appetite for it? I think it's also
15:49 important to remember, you know, kind of taking a few steps back to where we were, say, 30 days ago,
15:56 is that, you know, we were in a position where, like you said, the last casualty was
16:01 February, I think, of 2020, it's been about 18 months since a combat casualty happened.
16:05 We were in a position to basically say, hey, we have just enough contingent there between troops and,
16:12 and, you know, other bases and, and capabilities within, you know, an hour or two flight to where,
16:22 you know, the Taliban wasn't attacking us. Now, if you think that it was because the deal that
16:26 Donald Trump, Trump struck that they were just, well, that's what we agreed to. So we're going to do
16:31 that. As you can see what's happening right now, they don't stick to their [inaudible] word. The reason
16:35 why they didn't attack for the last 18 months and didn't do [inaudible], even with 2500 troops is because
16:40 they knew what would happen if we did, or if they did, you know, and so similarly, again, I, I will
16:47 go back to the, you know, that was the deal that was made and it was out of our hands is such a
16:51 crock of [inaudible]. I mean, they didn't give us their, their permission for us to invade their country
16:56 the first [inaudible] time. You know, we don't need their permission. We were already there and, and
17:00 it would have been very, very simple and easy. And this isn't Monday morning quarterback. I mean,
17:04 to me, this is common sense for anybody who's ever spent any time in that region. Frankly,
17:09 even most people that have never stepped foot in that country that just have some shred of common
17:13 sense can look at that and say, you know, this, this is working out pretty well. It's keeping things
17:19 at bay and we should just stick with it because we have almost nobody there in terms of real
17:24 numbers. I mean, 2500 troops is a very, very low footprint, but we had had invested enough time
17:29 and enough ass whippings over there for them to understand what what the alternative was if they
17:35 start messing around. So to change that, I think is dumb. I mean, it wasn't an endless war at this
17:40 point. The war's been over essentially. And we've been just maintaining a finger on the polls, if you
17:45 will, and making sure that, you know, cats away, mice will play isn't taking place. Well, now the
17:51 cat just just flew, you know, and now the mice are, you know, completely overrunning the entire
17:57 country and we're doing Jack squat about it. And so it didn't need to change. You know, Biden could
18:03 have very easily said, you know what, I know I said we were going to pull everybody out. We're
18:07 going to hold hold what we got indefinitely. And if you don't like it, we can we can go back at it,
18:13 you know, so, you know, to me that that's just the deal, you know, you're also at a point where,
18:19 you know, if you had to say, you know, we'll kick it up a notch and take the gloves off too and
18:22 stop caring about collateral damage, you know, we can go that route to we as a nation have done
18:27 that in the past, IE World War II, where, you know, we were facing a similarly dedicated enemy.
18:34 And it took those types of measures to say, Hey, you know, this, this isn't a good scenario. It's a
18:38 lesser two evils and we're doing what we have to do to get the point across to say, you're going to
18:43 stop [inaudible] with us. You're going to pay with your life. So we could have gone that route too. It's
18:47 just, you know, I think I don't think I know our current administration is, they've got their head
18:53 in the clouds. I mean, that's that's reality. But I don't, I don't want to make it about politics.
18:57 It shouldn't be and it really isn't. I mean, this is very simply, you know, you're in charge. You
19:03 made a series of really, really [inaudible] decisions. You know, and now, now this is what you're saying
19:09 because of it. I do think some of the military leadership is absolutely to blame too. I mean,
19:14 when you've got General Millie or Miley, I think his name is, you know, kicking, you know,
19:20 books off of the reading list and adding white fragility and, you know, going to, you know,
19:25 and talking to Congress about white rage and, and saying that, you know, the top three
19:30 terrorists, these are the top three terrorist threats to our country are
19:35 refusing COVID vaccinations, questioning, you know, COVID protocols, celebrating
19:41 Fourth of July and other or I'm sorry, between Fourth of July and 9/11, celebrating 9/11
19:48 or having 9/11, you know, party celebrations, what have you. And then lastly, but certainly not least
19:55 is questioning the the election results. You know, that that's the Department of Homeland
20:01 Security's top three terrorist threats as per them. I mean, it's absurd, you know, and so
20:06 if our military would focus less on social projects and, you know, the proper use of pronouns and
20:14 white fragility and transgender experiments in the military and just focused on one simple thing,
20:20 which is let's stay good at whipping some ass. I don't think we'd be in this position either.
20:24 So just it's heartbreaking. Yeah, you wish the focus would be on that and being as lethal as
20:30 possible. Because again, you have, you know, these people that are in the Pentagon talking about
20:34 climate change in a militaristic context is like, what are we going to do? Shoot nukes at the moon
20:38 or like try to like get rid of sun rays using, you know, different types of beating use. But
20:43 something that you came up with, which is kind of undergirding all of this is that you were over
20:47 there actually dealing with these people day in and day out, you were dealing with interpreters,
20:51 you were dealing with informants, you were dealing with people that were helping you.
20:54 And that is the those are the people now that the Taliban are apparently going door to door
20:59 and executing these people and their entire family tree, right? And so for you, that's one
21:04 of the most damnable things for me as I look forward into the future is is if we do go back,
21:09 not only are we going to have to take back these these cities, you know, house by house, block by
21:14 block grid by grid again, which I don't know if we have the stomach to do that. But who's going
21:19 to help us? Because if because if you're these people in the ground, why in the world would you
21:22 trust the Americans that you wouldn't? Yeah, you wouldn't. I mean, and you can't blame them, you
21:27 know, I mean, would there still be some people that would help? Because you know, the alternative
21:31 is getting their head cut off. Sure. But it's going to be much, much more difficult. And you know,
21:37 it paints a pretty terrible picture, you know, to the rest of the world for any future things
21:43 that happen that, you know, that America's not going to have your back. And it's just going to make
21:47 everything moving moving forward much, much more difficult. Well, from your perspective,
21:52 because you've kind of seen these things play out, you know, I've just thought to myself, we're
21:56 not going to see the true ramifications of this one micro decision by Joe Biden for decades. I feel
22:02 like we're this is going to be playing out for a very, very long time. But if from your perspective,
22:07 what can the American public expect to see in the next 12 months? You know, what would you,
22:11 what would you think? Yeah, I mean, so I don't subscribe to or necessarily agree that,
22:16 you know, that now all of a sudden overnight that the world is far more dangerous. I think,
22:22 you know, it's impossible to argue that it's more dangerous. I don't think that it's now all the
22:27 sudden 9/11 is going to happen in three months. Again, I really don't think that, you know, does
22:33 does that chance exist? Of course it does. But again, I'll revert to the last 20 years of, you know,
22:40 they they understand that. And that's why they've kept their distance the way they have over the
22:44 last few years is because they knew what the alternative was. You know, they also feel confident
22:50 enough in in the inability of our government at this juncture to do anything about it for them to
22:58 feel confident and comfortable enough to do what they're doing, which which is alarming. It also
23:02 tells you a lot about again, how they feel about Joe Biden. I mean, you know, to me, that's the one
23:08 thing like all politics, [inaudible], media, aside, the rose colored glasses that each political party
23:13 is guilty of seeing their own guy from is that, you know, that the litmus is the other countries,
23:18 you know, and you're seeing that right now. That's impossible to argue. I mean, they're doing what
23:22 they're doing right now because they don't they don't respect America being led by who is in charge
23:28 right now. And I use that very, very, you know, suspect, you know, it's not that he's in charge,
23:36 but I mean, he's the figurehead of the government and the country, unfortunately. And what they're
23:42 doing right now tells you everything that you need to know about how threatened they feel and how
23:47 serious they take him. They don't. You saw the same thing with with ISIS, you know, in Obama
23:52 in his second term is that absolutely no respect for American power with those people at the helm
23:58 because they're not doing anything about it. I mean, there's a reason why and this isn't about,
24:03 you know, right versus left or whatever, this is just, you know, solid internal leadership,
24:08 international leadership versus not, is that, you know, the litmus and the and the mirror reflection
24:14 of of how it's going and what the world thinks of you is how they how they treat you, how they
24:19 interact with you. And right now they're [inaudible] laughing us because that didn't happen when when
24:23 Trump went into into Iraq and stomped the [inaudible] out of ISIS in a matter of months and, you know,
24:28 killed back daddy. I mean, that they disappeared. You know, you stop saying all these
24:34 refugees, you know, piling into Europe and causing problems, you stop seeing, you know, Al Qaeda and
24:41 ISIS affiliates doing lone wolf attacks all over Europe and threatening to do it, do them other
24:46 places, all of that [inaudible] stopped. Why? Because he handled business the way that you need to the
24:51 same way Ronald Reagan did and, you know, with the carry the big stick attitude. And so, you know,
24:57 it's it's really unfortunate. Like I said, it's heartbreaking to see it. Ultimately, you know,
25:02 I pay attention to it. I'm watching and I'm keeping tabs on it. But I try not to let myself get
25:07 consumed with it because I think it's counterproductive. I mean, I, I focus on the things primarily that
25:14 I have the ability to do something about. And so that's that's what I spend most of my time focusing
25:19 on. So you obviously talked about the difference between, you know, how the Trump administration
25:23 with all their awards, but how they treated foreign policy and warfare versus an Obama or
25:27 a Biden administration. So from your perspective, do you feel like it's going to take the because
25:32 you said you didn't want to make it about politics, but obviously it is about politics. And you know
25:35 that just as well as everybody else does. Is it going to take another red tie in office for us to
25:41 kind of have that attitude or was, was Trump a unique figure was bushing unique figures to
25:45 Santa's going to be able to do it is, you know, Nikki Haley going to be able to do it? Like,
25:48 what are your thoughts there? No, I don't think so. I don't think it has to be a Republican to do
25:54 that. I think, you know, there are people on the left, you know, that, that I think, you know,
26:00 would have handled it better than, than Biden. But, you know, to me, ultimately, it really boils
26:06 down to one, one key thing is that you either have your, your country's best interest in mind,
26:10 or you don't, you know, and, and the reality of it is, is that right now the current people that are,
26:17 that are in office seem based on their actions. And I strongly believe that. And, you know,
26:23 one of my favorite adages is what you do speak so loud. I can't hear what you say is that I don't
26:28 give a [inaudible] what, what you say behind a podium, what your mouthpiece says, whatever, what you're
26:32 doing tells everybody everything about, about what your intentions are, what your priorities are,
26:37 etc. The fact is, is that, you know, from, from based on their actions, they care more about
26:44 optics and aesthetics and what people are going to think of them. You know, then they do, you know,
26:49 what, what their own country is, is having to go through. And the irony of it all is, is that,
26:55 you know, you, you kind of lose both ways that way. You know, when, when you do everything trying
26:59 to appease everybody, you end up [inaudible] everybody off. And that's what's happening is, is now like
27:03 their own party isn't even back in them. You know, I mean, it's, it's surprising to, to see people who,
27:09 you know, I mean, just no matter what the guy did would not hold him to task, you know, and hold
27:16 him accountable that are, that are really slamming him and questioning everything that he's doing
27:20 right now, which is at least refreshing to see, you know, because, you know, one of the things I
27:25 talk about in the book that's coming out is, is, you know, if you can't hold yourself, slash your
27:32 own party to the same standard, you hold the other guys to, you know, then you're a useless
27:36 hypocrite and you're no better than anybody else, you know, so it is nice to see that, that there's
27:42 some balance there. Absolutely. And as we wind do a close here, it's kind of hard not to end with
27:48 these types of questions, but you've alluded to this and I know you well enough to pretty much be
27:52 able to know your answer, but I want you to give it to my audience. And so it's kind of a two-part
27:55 question. The first is, do you regret going over there and risking your life considering how this
28:02 has ended up, but then also parlay that into your personal message, Mike Ritland's message,
28:08 to Gold Star families that have either lost dads or brothers or, or, you know, spouses or, you know,
28:15 their, their family members came home without their limbs or busted up in the head or something
28:19 like that. So go ahead and just kind of speak on those two things. So just, just to throw you off,
28:24 I do regret it and I have no message about that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that'd be great.
28:28 No, I 100% I don't regret it. And this really ties into the message for Gold Star families,
28:36 as none of us do, you know, or I mean, I can comfortably say I speak for everybody that I know
28:41 at least, you know, is that none of us do. And there's one simple key reason is that, you know,
28:47 for myself and for most veterans, even the ones that don't come home, I think, you know, that we
28:54 all do what we do because we want to do it. It's a voluntary force. We chose to be there. We,
28:59 we know, you know, what we're signing up for and what the risks are that are involved. And there's
29:03 no place we would rather be than, you know, with our brothers and arms doing, you know, or getting
29:10 our hands dirty on behalf of Uncle Sam for our country. Having said that, it's easy, you know,
29:17 having been in Iraq, it's easy to look back on it now and be like, [inaudible], was that a mistake? Like,
29:20 why did we really go? You know, and you can ask yourself all those questions. But, you know,
29:25 to me, none of that really matters. And the reason it doesn't matter, and this would be my message
29:29 to Gold Star families, is that, you know, all of us volunteered to, to hand over a blank check up
29:38 to and including our lives payable to the United States government when we signed on the dotted
29:43 line and stand there with our right hand up given the oath. Past that, you know, it's up to our
29:49 elected leaders to decide what's, what our usage is in the best interest of the country. And they
29:55 decide where we go and who we fight and how we do it and all of those things. But for us,
30:00 it's just very simply, I'm volunteering to serve my country in whatever capacity my country sees,
30:06 you know, best fit for me to do so. And that's it. You know, and that's a very noble and honorable
30:11 thing to do. And it's, you know, serving a greater good that most people frankly aren't willing to do.
30:17 And, you know, that should be enough, you know, for everybody to hang their hat at the end of the day
30:22 and say, I'm proud to have volunteered and roger'd up to, you know, trust and love my country enough
30:28 to let them send me to go do whatever the [inaudible] they thought I should be doing. And I did it to the
30:33 best, my ability. And I came home and I'm proud of doing that, because that's really all that
30:37 matters. I mean, you can't control any of those other things. You can control whether or not you
30:41 volunteer or not. And that's it, you know, so and whether or not you give it your all and and
30:47 sort of honorably and things of that nature. So, you know, again, I don't view any of it in vain
30:52 for all of those reasons. All right, well, Mike, we are going to have you back on here before too
30:57 long and we are going to have a more proper interview where we break down some of your books and
31:01 everything. But I definitely wanted to get your opinion on all this very quickly. Is there anything
31:04 else you want to let us know before we let you go? No, just, you know, for all of us out there that
31:09 see that and are [inaudible] off again, just keep your chin up and realize the big picture of the good
31:14 things that came out of it. You know, I mean, at this point, there's nothing, nothing we can do
31:18 right now to change what's going on right now. The people that are in charge, you know, are the ones
31:26 pulling the strings and all we can do is, you know, try to find the best out of it and maintain
31:32 a good attitude and don't let, you know, things like that, you know, send you on a spiral downward
31:37 that, you know, causes problems. All right, Mike, thanks for coming on. Absolutely.
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Mike Ritland
In a word heartbreaking is probably the single most app descriptive word that I can pick to convey what kind of what I feel and then just how it seems like things are going there.
Kyle Thompson
You can't control any of those other things. You can control whether or not you volunteer or not. And that's it.
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