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216 – Manhood Lessons Learned From My Time With Phil Robertson

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216 – Manhood Lessons Learned From My Time With Phil Robertson
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In this episode, I share the invaluable manhood lessons I learned from my time with Phil Robertson. From his rugged authenticity to his unwavering commitment to the gospel, Phil exemplifies what it means to be a true man of God.
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1:53 So as many of you know by now, I was on the Phil Jason, Al Robertson podcast.
1:59 So that is the unashamed podcast is with the Blaze Network.
2:02 And it's usually one of the top two or three Christian podcasts out there,
2:06 depending upon when the episodes are released or whatever.
2:09 And pretty much it was such a cool experience.
2:11 And that's what I'm going to go into today.
2:13 I'm going to go into the experience of what it was like to be on the show,
2:15 what it was like to be around that family, be around those people.
2:18 'Cause I've been asked about it at Nogem.
2:20 And so I'm like, okay, I need to just go ahead and explain my experience
2:23 and kind of what went down.
2:25 So I guess the easiest way to start would be just like,
2:27 how in the world did I get on that show?
2:28 That's the number one question I'm getting is like,
2:30 how did you make this happen?
2:31 Well, without going into it too terribly much of the detail,
2:34 it all started with Taya Kyle.
2:35 So Taya Kyle was a guest on our podcast earlier this year.
2:38 We did a two part series with her.
2:39 And, you know, we're just so indebted to Taya for so many things behind the scenes
2:44 that I'll leave personal because of our friendship.
2:46 But she introduced me to somebody who introduced me to another somebody
2:50 who then thought it would be a very, very good idea to get me on this show.
2:54 So that's kind of the, without all the details,
2:56 and I'm not being cryptic for cryptic sake,
2:58 but it's just, you know, Taya Kyle really saw a lot of potential in the show,
3:02 but she also saw a lot of potential in you guys.
3:04 And she used the term, I can't remember if she said it on the show,
3:06 but just rugged Christians, this rugged Christianity
3:09 and how we need to kind of bring that back.
3:11 And she sees this show as a conduit through which we can do something like that.
3:15 So she's done what she can to kind of elevate the profile of what we're doing.
3:18 And then obviously that crescendoed with my appearance on Phil, Jason, Al's show.
3:22 And so that was kind of how I got on the show.
3:25 But, you know, basically, I don't live that far away from West Monroe, Louisiana.
3:30 And so we decided whenever we were putting this together that,
3:32 Hey, I would actually go down there and be interviewed in person.
3:35 And so my wife and I decided, okay, let's make it a little vacation, a little road trip.
3:39 And so we hadn't taken a road trip yet with sweet baby James.
3:42 So our 14 month old, we just kind of packed up and we kind of broke up the drive on the way down there.
3:47 You know, saw some, some family on the way and then kind of did those things.
3:51 But then we made our way all the way to West Monroe, Louisiana, which is about eight and a half hours
3:55 from my front door, essentially.
3:57 But one of the cool things about getting there when we did is I actually got a text message
4:01 from Al Robertson.
4:02 So one of the hosts of the show and Phil and Kay Robinson's,
4:05 Robertson's oldest son, eldest son, he actually wanted us to come over and do dinner with their family
4:11 the night before the recording of the podcast.
4:13 And so we're like, yeah, yeah, of course, we'll come over and hang out with you guys.
4:17 And it was so, it was so weird because you walked in and you saw a bunch of people that you recognized
4:21 from television.
4:22 So you got Al there and then everybody's favorite, crazy uncle, uncle, sigh.
4:26 My wife actually sat next to sigh whenever we were eating ribs and everything else for dinner.
4:30 John Goodwin was there or Godwin rather.
4:32 And so it was just kind of a cool experience to be around those folks.
4:36 And again, these are salt of the earth people, right?
4:38 These are, you know, we had mentioned it several times when we were doing dinner.
4:41 It's just like, man, y'all are our people.
4:43 And they say the same thing to us.
4:44 And it's just because there's no pretension.
4:46 And there's, there's no like pretending to be something that we're not.
4:50 You're just there having a good time with people that are just good people.
4:53 And the guy that was actually on the podcast just before me, he's a world champion arm wrestler.
4:58 He was there, him and his wife were both there.
5:00 And he's got COVID right now.
5:01 And I guess he's not doing too terribly well.
5:03 So I want to make sure that we, we pray for him.
5:05 Yeah, you know, kind of, kind of a crazy situation, but it was just such a, a neat thing for our
5:10 family to do because we got to see our son interact with the daughters of the family.
5:15 And they were all very, very nice and accommodating and caring for, for baby James.
5:19 And, you know, we kept him up, passes bedtime so that we could have a little bit of extra fun.
5:23 But it was just a very, very unique experience getting to hang out with him the night before.
5:27 And part of the thing that that does is it makes you more comfortable with somebody because
5:31 I've walked into interviews or walked into presentations before where I didn't get any
5:34 interaction time with the people that I was talking to beforehand, like none.
5:38 And so I'm not a terribly like nerve wracked person to begin with, but you do want to kind
5:43 of get a feel for people.
5:45 Like, Hey, are these people, do they have a sense of humor?
5:47 Or do they get angry and offended easily?
5:49 Or are they more aloof during conversations?
5:52 Do they kind of move around and not really pay attention?
5:54 You want to kind of figure those things out because it's going to affect how you talk with
5:58 them and how you interact in those situations.
6:00 But all I can say is I just got even more excited after spending that evening with them and spending
6:05 several hours with that family.
6:06 I just got even more excited about doing this interview because it's like, okay, these
6:09 are normal people.
6:10 They're just as they seem.
6:11 So let's kind of get this going.
6:13 So let's roll into the day of the recording of the interview.
6:17 So just kind of give you a little bit of my mindset.
6:20 I was a little worried going into this interview because I didn't know what it was going to
6:25 be like to be around Phil specifically.
6:27 And a lot of the things today that we're going to be talking about are going to kind of center
6:30 on Phil as this, this patriarchal man, man's man, you know, type of a thing.
6:36 But he just has one of those personalities where he's, you're not sure if he's going
6:42 to like you, I guess.
6:43 And that doesn't, I don't mean by any interesting imagination mean to say that, oh, he's mean
6:47 or he's rude or he's, he's unnecessarily biting.
6:49 He's certainly none of those things and none of that came through on the show, but he's
6:52 just a more so of a quiet guy, seemingly an introspective type of guy.
6:57 And I didn't get to hang out with Phil prior to the interview.
7:00 So basically I was just going to walk into the studio, throw on the headphones and go.
7:03 And you know, it was going to essentially not get very much time with him beforehand.
7:07 And so I was, I was a little bit concerned about that because I didn't know how that
7:10 would completely work out.
7:12 But on the day of, you know, we're going out there and a member of his team came out and
7:16 picked me up and he's taking me out to Phil's house because where the podcast studio is in
7:20 his shop, which is on his land.
7:22 And so it was raining cats and dogs on the way down there, but then we finally did get
7:25 to Phil's shop.
7:26 And it's just like you would expect any other shop, like there's nothing special about it.
7:29 Everything inside of there was covered in dirt and had a purpose and all those different
7:33 things.
7:34 And I was able to kind of sneak in there in the previous podcast and got to see them kind
7:37 of wrap up.
7:38 But there was kind of a cool thing that happened at the end of their interview when they were
7:41 talking with this world champion arm wrestler.
7:43 This is when they had already done the ads and, you know, we're coming off air and, you
7:47 know, that this is all off air.
7:49 But Phil just kind of looks at the rest of the room and, you know, size there and hours
7:52 there and, you know, it's just kind of one of those deals and he goes, man, I just wear
7:56 all the men.
7:58 I feel like the men have just disappeared.
8:00 And what's funny is Al Robertson looks over at me in the corner and says, well, that guy's
8:05 about to talk about it with us.
8:06 And, you know, Phil kind of looks over there like, Oh, that guy.
8:09 Okay.
8:10 Yeah, let's make this happen.
8:11 So that kind of made me more comfortable with the situation because I was like, okay,
8:14 like there, there is a thirst for the topic that we're going to be talking about.
8:17 There's certainly an idea as to kind of where we're going to be going with this conversation.
8:21 But with me, I'd rather just kind of walk in and flow.
8:24 Like when I'm being interviewed, I don't want to know the questions.
8:26 I don't really even know what you want to talk about.
8:28 I just want to go with it and kind of see where we end up.
8:30 So I thought that was kind of a cool thing because you could tell that Phil was primed
8:34 for that conversation.
8:35 And for any of you wondering, I haven't mentioned Jase yet, Jase was actually out.
8:39 He was doing some speaking gig for this trucking company, you know, out on the South Carolina
8:43 or something like that.
8:44 So he wasn't there.
8:45 Hopefully we can get back there and have a conversation with Jase, but then we did the
8:48 podcast and it was such a fun time because it was just Phil and Al and me and Al had really
8:56 looked at some of our content and some of our things that we had put out there, especially
8:59 the latest devotional and the live performance of that where I was basically talking about
9:03 what it takes to make a godly and manly foxhole to build those things.
9:07 And so I think he really took a liking to the content and that showed in some of his questions.
9:12 And we really just kind of flowed and we just flowed with scripture that we knew and we
9:16 all had our Bibles out and we're quoting from things here or there, but you could tell that
9:21 they were both very, very interested in this concept, but they were also very taken aback
9:25 by the fact that I was such a young guy talking about these things.
9:29 Because we kind of kicked off starting, you know, talking trash about millennials and
9:32 all that.
9:33 And hey, I'm cool with all that.
9:34 We started that off air and I was like, Hey, let's go ahead and hit record.
9:36 Let's get this conversation going.
9:38 And so feels like, Hey, what is up with these 30 year olds and, you know, what is up with
9:42 these people?
9:43 Why are they doing these things?
9:44 So that's kind of where it started.
9:45 But you could tell that they just, they're not used to these types of opinions and this
9:50 type of thought process from someone that's my age.
9:52 And that's kind of well earned on some of the millennials, you know, some of the bad
9:55 rap that we get is something that we haven't earned, but we've certainly earned that.
9:59 But you know, we do the podcast.
10:00 I think the conversation went incredibly, incredibly well.
10:03 We'll put a link in the show notes so that you can judge for yourself.
10:05 And if you didn't enjoy it, just don't tell me.
10:07 I don't really care, but it's just one of those things I really, really enjoyed the time.
10:10 Yeah.
10:11 I got a little gift for Phil and for Al and, you know, it's a book that I'll kind of
10:14 keep that between us, but it was a book that I thought that each one of them would gain
10:18 some value from, you know, based on some of the things I know about their personalities.
10:21 So it went really, really well.
10:23 But then afterwards I was invited back to Phil and Miss Kay's house for a bit.
10:26 And so it's like, great.
10:27 Yeah, I'd love to meet Miss Kay and that was kind of a cool experience.
10:30 So we drive back through the woods and we pull up on this property and we go inside and
10:35 I think I was telling me on the way in, he's like, hey, this is the same house that they
10:39 moved into in the 70s.
10:41 So even though they've made, you know, millions of dollars and they have this big, you know,
10:45 platform and all these different things, they're living in the same house.
10:49 The same exact house that all the kids grew up in, right?
10:53 Just normal salt to the earth people.
10:54 So I go inside the house and there's Miss Kay and you know, I kind of, I don't know, is
10:58 she a hugger?
10:59 Like I assume she's a hugger and I go for the handshake and she just kind of comes in with
11:02 the bull hug and I was like, yes, I really wanted to hug Miss Kay.
11:04 So that's what we did.
11:05 And you know, she immediately turns into hosts and she goes and gets me this, this biscuit
11:09 and she brings me something called mayha jelly and I hope I'm saying that, right?
11:13 But apparently how it was explained to me is that's like a fruit that is in that area
11:17 of the country, you know, Bayou, you know, Louisiana, Northern Louisiana type area or
11:21 something.
11:22 And it's only, it's only comes out of the trees, like three weeks out of the year or
11:26 something like that.
11:27 I'm still trying to piece together the story.
11:28 But then there's not much you can do with that fruit before it all goes bad and so they
11:32 just make a ton of jelly out of it.
11:33 So she brings me like this biscuit with this mayha jelly and it was so tart and so sweet
11:38 and so delicious.
11:39 And so I was like, okay, now I'm being fed by Miss Kay.
11:42 And then she brings me, you know, this peach and you know, she sends me home with some
11:46 peaches because sweet baby James and my wife Kelsey weren't able to actually be in the
11:49 studio at the time because we thought James might freak out and start crying and pooping
11:53 all over himself.
11:54 And so we were just, it was such a cool thing that they were still thinking about Kelsey
11:58 and thinking about my son and it was just a very, very fun time to spend with them.
12:03 I sat in the living room, we did was just me and Phil and Miss Kay and we just sat there
12:07 and they were just kind of talking and then Miss Kay got up and went and talked to Alice
12:10 and where else in the house.
12:11 And it was just me and Phil sitting there and we were, he was just kind of telling me
12:13 some stories.
12:14 And I was just sitting there like, I just wanted to sponge it all up because I knew it
12:18 would be weird if I pulled my phone out and like started taking notes or something like
12:20 that.
12:21 So it's like, okay, I just want to internalize these stories and kind of remember them because
12:24 I felt like I was learning a lot of lessons from this guy because Phil seems to be one
12:30 of those guys that has tangible direct wisdom, right?
12:33 He's telling you, hey, I'm about to give you some wisdom right here, son.
12:36 And then there's other times where it's like there's kind of that accidental wisdom where
12:39 it's like just by virtue of how you've led your life and how God has formed you, you're
12:43 going to be giving wisdom to people.
12:45 But the thing that was interesting is from the moment I left that situation and we're
12:48 on our road back from West Monroe to Oklahoma City, Edmond, Oklahoma City.
12:53 And I just kept thinking about the lessons I learned from my time being around Phil Robertson.
12:58 Okay, and you could, I guess, extend this out to the lessons I learned just spending time
13:02 with the Robertson family and the extended family, the friends that were over there the
13:06 night before.
13:07 But I really wanted to break this down into a few categories to make this tangible and
13:11 really sticky for you guys.
13:12 So the three categories in terms of the manhood lessons I learned with my time with Phil Robertson
13:16 is the time spent with his books, right?
13:19 Because I read a couple of his books before I went out there and saw them.
13:22 The time spent with him in person, right?
13:24 You know, actually seeing him and interacting with him, just, you know, mono mono or in
13:28 the same small group and in time spent observing.
13:31 So time spent with his books, time spent in person and time spent observing.
13:35 So let's go and start with the time spent with his books because I wanted to make sure
13:38 I read a couple of his books because it's like, okay, I've heard him speak, I've watched
13:41 the show, but I wonder whenever he sits down alone at a computer or whatever is, you know,
13:47 kind of helping maybe type it up or whatever the thing is, when it's just him and his thoughts,
13:51 what are the thoughts?
13:52 So the two books I read where the theft of America's soul and Jesus politics.
13:55 So I want to first talk about the theft of America's soul and the subtitle is blowing
13:59 the lid off the lies that are destroying that are destroying our country.
14:03 And the first lesson I guess I learned is that the lie quote, unquote, the lie is almost
14:09 always more attractive than the truth, right?
14:12 And I think we, we know that.
14:14 But when someone says it and that's one of the things about whenever you read Phil Robertson's
14:18 writings is it sounds like him talking, right?
14:20 So he's not going to blow you away with all this blow-veating language and all this, you
14:24 know, flarity words like he gets to the point, right?
14:27 So you're not going to expect, you know, a C.S. Lewis or a Thomas soul or a Jordan Pearson
14:32 level of like, you know, off the wall intellect, but still incredibly smart wisdom, right?
14:38 But the thing that's interesting is about the chapters about this book.
14:42 So in the chapter, in the chapters, each one of them talks about a specific lie in the
14:46 specific truth.
14:47 So I want to go ahead and read the chapter titles here.
14:49 So this is again, the chapters from the theft of America's soul.
14:52 Chapter one, the lie, God is dead.
14:54 The truth, the God of the Bible is not dead and he never will be.
14:58 Chapter two, the lie, there is no devil.
15:01 The truth, the devil of the Bible is real and he is our enemy.
15:05 Chapter three, the lie, the truth is relative.
15:08 The truth, there is absolute truth and it comes from God.
15:12 Chapter four, the lie, God did not create life.
15:15 The truth, God is the author of life and only he can nourish and sustain it.
15:20 Chapter five, the lie, sex is for self gratification, the truth, God created sexuality for his
15:25 purposes and our good.
15:28 Chapter six, the lie, virtue is outdated.
15:31 The truth, God's standard for all time is the standard of virtue.
15:35 Chapter seven, the lie, laws can be ignored or changed if they are inconvenient.
15:40 The truth, law and order come from the word of God.
15:43 Chapter eight, the lie, unity is not possible.
15:46 The truth, unity flows from a God centered culture.
15:50 Chapter nine, the lie, church participation and day to day life should be kept separate.
15:55 The truth, the church is God's presence in the day to day world, keeping the world from
16:00 becoming hell on earth.
16:01 And in the last one, chapter 10, the lie, Christian should shut their traps.
16:05 The truth, God's people are his prophetic voice in the world.
16:10 And so when you're going through that, you're looking at all these huge topics, right?
16:16 Each one of those chapters could have been a book in and of itself, but he kind of brings
16:20 it in there as kind of a summary of these ideas that really are kind of fighting at
16:25 the ties of what's going on in our country, something that I literally talk about in this
16:28 podcast all the time.
16:29 And I usually come at it from more of a cultural perspective, like look, we are coming apart
16:32 at the seams as a country and it's because of all these different crazy ideologies.
16:37 And so hearing it put so poignantly, right, and so simply in this book was very, very
16:42 refreshing.
16:43 And so that was a big lesson that I learned, a big manhood lesson that I felt like I took
16:47 from this.
16:48 And the second one from that book specifically from the theft of American, the American,
16:51 the theft of the American soul, there you go.
16:54 The second one that I thought was good.
16:56 And I think I mess up the title again, it's the theft of America's soul.
16:59 All right, Kyle, get it together.
17:00 Let's move on.
17:01 We're all doing this here together.
17:02 We're doing this live.
17:03 The next one is the gospel message is always appropriate to share.
17:09 The gospel message is always appropriate to share.
17:12 So one thing if you listen to the unashamed podcast or if you listen into any of the talks
17:18 or things like that, he's constantly sharing the gospel with people.
17:22 He's constantly challenging people with the gospel message up to and including the president,
17:27 the former president of the United States, Donald Trump spent several times, you know,
17:31 I think he spent two or three times with Trump basically talking to him about the gospel.
17:35 But in chapter seven of this book, he's talking about where he was asked by the warden of the
17:39 Angola prison in Louisiana to come and be a guest and to interact with the inmates.
17:44 Now, Angola prison, from what I understand used to be one of the most rough prisons of
17:49 the rough prisons in the United States.
17:51 Most of these people are there and they're going to die there, right?
17:54 This is a serious maximum security prison and the warden kind of wanted to bring in more
17:58 scripture and really kind of take care of of these guys in a different way.
18:02 But I loved how Phil described his time there.
18:04 And so I'm going to go and read you a quote here from chapter seven of the theft of America's
18:08 soul there.
18:09 Nailed it.
18:10 Gotcha.
18:11 Here's a quote.
18:12 There in front of the roughest crowd I'd ever seen.
18:13 I told those men I knew why they were there.
18:16 They were murderers, rapists, thieves.
18:19 They were the ones who disobeyed God's laws, had broken the 10 commandments that served
18:23 as the basis of American law.
18:25 And this is great here.
18:26 I love this.
18:27 I love this woman.
18:28 This is the end of the line for most of you.
18:30 I said, most of you are going to die in this prison, but I have some good news for you.
18:35 You can be under lock and key, but you can still be free.
18:40 I went on to share the good news to that group, told them if they renounced their law breaking
18:43 ways and followed Christ, they could be set free from the sin and shame of their heinous
18:47 acts.
18:48 What's more, they could have eternal life.
18:50 I closed my gospel presentation and the men were dismissed.
18:53 The warden brought in another group, then another.
18:56 I shared the good news of Jesus with every man who came through those chapel doors and
18:59 when I was finished, the warden brought me more good news.
19:02 Some of those killers on death row, the ones who weren't permitted out of their cells,
19:06 had heard my little sermon.
19:07 The warden had streamed it through speakers into their cells.
19:10 Some of those men, the vilest of all lawbreakers, heard the news.
19:14 They could have a clean start as far as God was concerned.
19:17 In the days after I visited, I'd come to find out that more than a few men had accepted
19:21 the good news.
19:22 They'd come to a saving knowledge of Jesus and had been baptized in one of the irrigation
19:26 lakes there on it at Angola.
19:28 Their law breaking records had been wiped clean in the eyes of the almighty.
19:32 They'd been set free even if they couldn't avoid the consequences of their actions, even
19:36 if some of them might be executed for their crimes.
19:38 When they awoke to the afterlife, they would be in heavenly eternity.
19:43 So that is just an incredible lesson that I learned from Phil is that he never shies
19:49 away from sharing the gospel.
19:51 Again, whether he's meeting with the president of United States or at the time he met with
19:55 him, he was going to try to be the president.
19:57 This was during the primaries or if he's in prison with murderers and rapists, he's always
20:01 sharing the gospel that that may have been the biggest impact that that I had in terms
20:06 of reading his stuff before I went out there was this dude is always, always sharing the
20:10 gospel.
20:11 Now let's go to the second book that I mentioned and that's Jesus politics.
20:13 The subtitle of that is how to win back the soul of America.
20:16 So this was the book that was written right before the theft of America's soul.
20:19 And so there's a lot of kind of through points that he kind of takes and carries into that
20:22 book.
20:23 But the first lesson that I really pulled from that is that Christians should legislate
20:26 their morality.
20:28 Let me repeat that.
20:29 Christians should legislate their morality because you hear from people all the time,
20:34 like don't legislate morality like that's ridiculous.
20:36 But as most people point out, a lot of smart people pointed out is like everybody is legislating
20:40 their morality.
20:41 We just have differing opinions as to what the best morality is, what the most appropriate
20:46 morality is.
20:47 So I'm going to go ahead and read you a quote from the introduction of this book.
20:51 Yes, in our delusion, we've decided we're capable of governing ourselves without reference
20:55 to the policies of King Jesus policies established in love and manmade laws based on our finite
21:01 judgments have only ever led us astray.
21:04 There's good news though.
21:05 As followers of Christ, we've been given the antidote to America's soul sickness.
21:09 What's the antidote?
21:11 Jesus politics.
21:12 In this book, we'll explore the problems facing America and the king's policies as to each
21:15 of those problems.
21:16 I'll offer the king's declarations about those problems and the declarations that make up
21:20 his kingdom manifesto.
21:23 Then I'll share how you can use your vote to advance the kingdom manifesto and then a
21:27 little bit later in the intro, it says this.
21:30 So no matter what side of the political aisle you choose, you know this.
21:34 If you are a member of this kingdom, King Jesus makes demands of your life.
21:39 This includes the political candidates you support, the political groups you give your
21:42 money to and the votes you cast.
21:45 So as for me in my house, we donate to pro life and pro religious liberty policy groups.
21:51 Cast our votes for those who side with and advance the politics of the king.
21:55 Share the good news of the king with the people in our lives in the hope that they might become
21:59 members of the kingdom and might use their voices and votes for King Jesus.
22:04 Okay.
22:05 That that is something that is so, so important because so many of us have gotten into this
22:10 idea that we need to keep our Christian heritage.
22:13 We need to keep our Christian morality to ourselves.
22:16 That's for us.
22:17 You know, let's just live and let live.
22:18 You know, we're not going to really bother you.
22:20 You don't really bother us.
22:21 And that's not the mandate.
22:23 And you especially see that when Christians don't want to engage in the political realm.
22:27 And I've talked about people in this podcast before, the people that I respect deeply,
22:30 that don't want to engage in politics.
22:32 They don't want to engage in culture, but that is where the fight is taking place.
22:36 And that is where the gospel is needed, maybe more so than anywhere else on the planet,
22:40 right?
22:41 So that's the first lesson that I learned from that book.
22:43 And the next one was that this, and this really goes into the last part of that intro
22:46 that I read, it's that Christians should vote for kingdom values.
22:50 You should use your vote when Christians are just like, I'm not even going to vote.
22:53 I'm not even going to be in the political process.
22:55 What does it matter?
22:56 Anyway, it's, you know, we're all going to heaven and you know, it's the, it's the gospel
22:59 message.
23:00 That's what we need to be focused on, but your values are bringing glory to God and in our
23:05 modern context, especially in the West, it's our government that perpetuates values and
23:10 spreads them across all kinds of people.
23:13 So there's a quote near the end of the book and it says this, it's Jesus politics, the
23:16 kingdom manifesto in action, says this, and these are great.
23:19 These are all good things to live by vote for leaders who will protect capitalism, the
23:23 system that best allows people to direct their money towards kingdom causes, vote for leaders
23:28 who will promote religious liberty, protect our rights to practice Christianity in every
23:31 public square and who live lives aligned with Jesus politics, vote for leaders who seek to
23:37 preserve gun rights while offering kingdom based solutions to the anger that's tearing
23:40 this country apart.
23:42 Vote for leaders who elevate the creator over creation who don't use environmental hype
23:46 to create fear and procure power.
23:49 Vote for leaders who advance the policies of life, the policies of the king and look
23:52 for opportunities to serve women with unexpected or unwanted pregnancies with the truth from
23:58 the king for their circumstances.
24:00 Vote for leaders who cling to the biblical view of the family who promote policies designed
24:04 to strengthen families instead of destroyed them, then promote organizations that do the
24:08 same.
24:09 Vote for leaders who protect the medical system from godless politicians.
24:12 Get involved in your community to help provide the medical needs of those around you.
24:17 Demand that our leaders reflect the character of Jesus that they extend forgiveness and
24:21 pave the way for meaningful political debate instead of continual partisan bickering.
24:26 Speak out against ungodly laws and serve your fellow man.
24:29 Call people to repent and join the king whose law is always love.
24:33 Live your lives in a manner worthy of the king in a way that invites others into the kingdom
24:37 in the hopes of winning back the soul of America.
24:41 So guys, again, I spent a lot of time with his writings before I went in there to that
24:44 interview.
24:45 And that's just kind of an encapsulation of some of the things that I really, really
24:48 took from it.
24:49 And there's a lot more.
24:50 Don't worry.
24:51 I will have those books in the show notes for you.
24:52 But then I want to transition to the time that I spent with him specifically in person.
24:56 And again, I don't want to, you know, diminish the time that I spent with anybody else that
25:00 was there.
25:01 But again, he, he's the main guy, right?
25:03 And they were, that was kind of the main guy they wanted to get me connected with.
25:06 So I want to talk about my time spent in person with Phil Robertson.
25:10 The first thing that I learned is that there is power and using someone's name.
25:13 And I keep saying this is the thing that I've learned a lot of these things I already knew,
25:17 but it was just reinforced in a major way.
25:19 But there is power in using someone's name.
25:22 From the moment I walked into the studio, even before I put my hand in his hand and shook
25:26 his hand and introduced myself, he referred to me by name.
25:29 Hey, Kyle, I got a question for you.
25:31 Kyle, that's a good point.
25:32 And that, that continued even when we went back to his house.
25:35 Now Kyle, let me tell you a story about such and such and so and so he used my name.
25:40 And as you know, when someone uses your name, you, you feel better, right?
25:44 Like it's like, oh, this person's valuing me enough to remember my name.
25:48 And that's another reminder to me.
25:49 I'm really bad with names, right?
25:51 And I have been in the past, I've tried to come up with some different mnemonic devices
25:55 or different things to help me remember names.
25:57 But it's been one of those things that have been a struggle for me.
26:00 And I know that people know to sometimes when I'm struggling to remember their name.
26:03 And I know that that feel makes them feel diminished in a way.
26:06 And so I don't want to do that.
26:07 And this was a good reminder to, you know, make sure that I can figure out a way to be
26:10 better at that.
26:11 Another lesson from the time that I spent in person with Phil is that you don't have
26:14 to speak loudly or often to make an impact.
26:18 Okay.
26:19 Now, this is going to hit a lot of you in the teeth because it does for me as well.
26:24 Most of the time you think in order to make an impact, you have to say the thing in the
26:26 loudest way possible, whether you're talking in person or you're saying it on Twitter or
26:30 you're saying it, whatever, you got to say it loudly, right?
26:32 I need everyone to hear me, everybody pay attention because I'm so smart, right?
26:36 But also you got to talk all the time, right?
26:39 You can't let a single thing go past you without voicing your opinion in the loudest
26:43 way possible.
26:44 And that is the exact opposite of how Phil comports himself because I've never actually
26:50 heard him speak loudly.
26:51 I'm sure he has, right?
26:53 Especially when every details, you know, his past life and some of the sinful things that
26:56 he was a part of.
26:57 I'm sure he has, but he doesn't.
26:59 And even when you listen to the show, he picks his spots, right?
27:03 If you listen to the normal show, you know, Jason Allen seemingly do most of the talking,
27:07 but when Phil breaks in, everybody's paying attention.
27:11 And he has a tremendous impact on people without being bombastic.
27:15 And that was a great lesson that I learned from Phil.
27:18 Another lesson that I learned from spending time with him is that there is power in story.
27:22 And again, I knew these things, but I was constantly on the edge of my seat.
27:26 I was literally on the edge of his seat, you know, in his living room.
27:28 And as he's telling me these stories about people that, you know, would call the duck
27:32 call shop, right?
27:33 This was early on before the television show and they'd, you know, be cussing up a storm
27:36 on the phone, you know, just a normal conversation.
27:38 And then he would challenge him and say, do you know your blaspheming the God that created
27:42 you?
27:43 And these people getting all huffy and puffy and people driving from two states away to
27:45 come meet him at his property to have this conversation about Jesus.
27:49 And, you know, he's telling me the story and it's like, man, and I've read that story
27:53 before that specific story.
27:54 And it's just like there's so much power in a story.
27:57 And especially, and if you're not from the, the South of the United States, it, that's
28:01 seemingly something that is a very southern thing, right?
28:04 So, you know, your grandpa or your great uncle or something like that, perhaps they haven't
28:08 spent as much time, you know, marinating themselves and all these intellectual writings and different
28:13 things like that.
28:14 Maybe they can't quote Shakespeare or anything, but they have so much wisdom to, you know,
28:18 give you just from stories from, from their personal experiences growing up, even if some
28:24 of them kind of border our borderline tall tales, it's one of those interesting things
28:27 is there's such an amazing amount of power and story.
28:30 And the last thing I'll say in terms of what I learned from spending time with Phil in
28:34 person is that truly manly men don't have to flaunt their manliness.
28:42 Truly manly men don't have to flaunt it.
28:45 And that's one thing that I try to remind people, especially when I'm speaking live because
28:48 I never want to come off as the guy that's speaking and saying, okay, if you don't drive
28:51 a four wheel drive truck, if you don't have boots, if you don't have a beard, if you don't
28:55 have muscles, if you don't drink whiskey, if you don't, you know, whatever, you know,
28:58 on and on and on that, you know, you're not a man because I try to always draw that line
29:02 between actual biblical manhood and caricature manhood, Western American caricature manhood,
29:08 right.
29:09 And that's kind of the thing is most of the time you're seen as a manly man, if you've
29:12 got big muscles and you're always wearing a cut off shirt, right, you're flaunt, right?
29:17 Maybe you're really good at a particular sport and you're constantly posting videos of you
29:20 doing that sport.
29:21 And how good you look at it, right?
29:23 You're constantly showing people pictures of your truck or, you know, this, this animal
29:27 you took down.
29:28 And again, there's nothing inherently wrong with any of those things.
29:32 Unless inside your heart, you're trying to flaunt some sort of manliness quality where
29:38 the, it'll make the women's swoon and all the other men be jealous, right?
29:41 So it's kind of one of those things, but Phil Robertson doesn't have to flaunt a thing.
29:47 He's been very open about who he was in his early life until Jesus snatched him up out
29:52 of that life.
29:53 He was a rough dude, right?
29:55 Getting drunk.
29:56 You know, I just messing around on, on Miss K and not being a good father, not being a
30:01 present father.
30:02 He's been very open about those things in his writings and in his speeches, right?
30:06 But you would think after he turned his life around that it would still be something like
30:09 he would feel the need to flaunt his manliness, but he's not flaunting anything.
30:13 He just is a godly and manly man.
30:18 It's just weaved into who he is as a person.
30:21 He just so happens to be into hunting.
30:22 He just so happens to be a business owner.
30:25 He just so happens to have a beard, but none of those things and he wouldn't say any of
30:28 those things define him as a man, right?
30:32 He's a man because this is a guy that cultivates spiritual mental and physical resilience daily.
30:36 He's in his seventies and he looks way better and is moving around way better than people
30:40 maybe 20 years younger than him, right?
30:43 So just an amazing thing to be around.
30:45 A guy like that that's so soft spoken and yet so manly and in this last session here before
30:51 we let you go is I want to kind of tell you about the lessons that I learned in the times
30:55 that I spent just observing Phil Robertson, right?
30:58 So in the times when I wasn't directly in his presence, but I was just kind of watching
31:02 him or watching what was going on around him.
31:03 So the first thing is this.
31:05 He is a true American patriarch and patriot because that was one of the things whenever
31:11 I was kind of getting prepared to go out there and do this whole podcast and everything.
31:14 I'm like, this is one of America's great patriarchs.
31:18 Now it was a television show on A&E that kind of, you know, springboarded his his family
31:22 into prominence, but you got the sense when you're around him that he would be doing and
31:26 saying the exact same things today had the show never happened.
31:30 And if duck commander and all these other things had never blown up, he would be doing
31:34 and saying the same things.
31:35 And as I've heard him say before and I love this quote, he said, the only thing that's
31:38 changed about him and his family is the menu.
31:41 You're like, the menu, he's like, yeah, used to, we ate the bad parts of the cow.
31:46 Now we've made enough money and we're comfortable enough to where we can eat the good parts of
31:50 the cow, right?
31:52 He's just such a patriotic man that he's cemented so much time thinking and praying about what
31:57 was going on inside the United States and what he could do to change it that he wrote
32:00 multiple books on it.
32:01 And he's got another book that I got to hear about, which, you know, I can't really talk
32:04 about on air, but the book that's going to be released next year is going to go even further
32:08 into this because I got the sense that, you know, after Trump lost the election, because
32:12 apparently Joe Biden got 80 million votes, you know, a dead guy got 80 million votes.
32:16 Apparently that's a thing that actually happened.
32:18 But he seemed like he maybe pulled back a little bit from some of the more public things
32:24 he was doing in this area.
32:25 But I think this book is almost his attention grabber back to the American public.
32:30 Like, hey, this is still the direction that we need to be headed.
32:33 And here are some of the issues that I'm seeing.
32:35 But he's spending so much time thinking about these things that even though he's in the latter
32:38 stages of his life, right, he's in his 70s.
32:41 He doesn't have probably, you know, 100 years left in front of him, right?
32:45 He's still spending a lot of time trying to impart his wisdom on other people and to the
32:49 good of America.
32:51 So I think that's amazing.
32:53 And another thing that I learned just from time observing Phil Robertson is that he has
32:58 the authentic respect of those around him.
33:02 Even if they're not around him.
33:03 Okay.
33:04 And so what I mean by that is the night before when we were having dinner over at Al Robertson's
33:08 house and you know, kind of interacting with those people, everybody was still talking
33:12 about Phil and everyone kind of had a Phil story or a philosophy, you know, right?
33:17 You know, forgive the pun.
33:18 But like they were talking about those things and they were talking about it with kind of
33:22 an air of reverence and respect, not like, oh, you know, they, you know, they were scared
33:26 of him or something like that.
33:27 But it's like, they just respect the man so deeply, right?
33:31 And whenever he would talk, when, when other people are talking, you know, you're kind
33:35 of doing this, you know, kind of round table thing, whenever he would start talking, everybody
33:39 just kind of tuned in.
33:41 And I remember, I'm reminded when Jordan Peterson talks about whenever he's giving presentations,
33:45 if he sees people kind of fidgeting in the crowd or looking around or pulling out their
33:48 phones or something like that, he knows that he's not really connecting with him, but he
33:51 knows he's really, really hitting the mark when everybody is just staring at him and
33:56 they're still.
33:57 And I feel like I got to see a little bit of that on a micro sense that whenever Phil
34:00 spoke, people automatically perked up and started paying attention.
34:04 Because I don't get the sense that Phil just talks to hear himself talk.
34:07 He talks when it's necessary.
34:09 So I thought that that was great to see that he has the authentic respect to those people
34:12 around him.
34:13 And as a man, as a Christian man, you should kind of want the same thing for you as well,
34:17 right?
34:18 And then I guess the next thing that I would say is that he is ridiculously humble, like
34:24 ridiculously humble and this man has every reason to not be humble, okay?
34:31 Because just by virtue of the fact that you have money in the United States or anywhere
34:35 in the world, if you have money, you don't have to be humble and a lot of people will
34:38 forgive you.
34:39 Right?
34:40 I mean, the thing is, is like, if the, if the guy with the nicest car that lives in the
34:44 nicest house and has the biggest, most expensive watch, if he's a little bit of a [inaudible], most
34:48 some of us are like, ah, you know, I get it.
34:50 You act that way, but I, dude, you're worth tens of millions of dollars.
34:54 So I understand I get it.
34:55 We all kind of give those people a little bit of a pass, but Phil Robertson doesn't need
34:59 that pass.
35:01 He's just a humble guy.
35:03 As I mentioned, they're living in the same house, him and Miss K are living in the same
35:07 exact house they moved back into back in the 70s, like 50 years ago.
35:11 And with how good duck commander is done and duck dynasty, the show and the books and all
35:16 the speaking engagements and all the, and all the licensing deals and all those things,
35:20 right?
35:21 That family has so much money.
35:23 We didn't talk about it, but I can just read the tea leaves, right?
35:26 They've made a lot of money, but he's choosing to live a humble life.
35:31 Now, I'm sure he's got his, you know, redneck toys and his backwoods toys and all those
35:34 different things that that money takes, but they're doing something different with their
35:38 money.
35:39 And I hope to learn more about what they're doing someday, but even just listening to some
35:42 of his writings, you get the sense that they're giving money to these, these charities and
35:46 they're giving money to individual people to kind of help them, you know, really taking
35:50 that, you know, first century church thing seriously, that ecclesia type thing seriously,
35:56 that the ax church seriously, that that's the sense that I get.
36:00 And you only get that from being a ridiculously humble person, which Phil Robertson is.
36:04 And the last thing I'll say on this for today is Phil Robertson is marinated in the gospel
36:10 and the Holy scriptures, marinated in it.
36:15 If you listen to the unashamed podcast for any length of time, or you listen to him talk
36:19 in an interview for any length of time, the scriptures are just there.
36:24 They're in his head, they're in his heart, and they come out of his mouth.
36:29 And the interesting thing that I was talking about with Al is, you know, A&E knew that this
36:33 was a Christian family that they were showing on Duck Dynasty, that they, that they prayed
36:37 during the show, but they didn't want to have like, you know, basically a sermon given
36:40 every episode, but Phil would basically be quoting scripture while just talking in the
36:47 show and the, the producers didn't know his scripture and those things would make it into
36:52 the show.
36:53 He wasn't quoting it as, as scripture, like, well, according to John two versus seven,
36:57 like he didn't say anything like that, but he was just speaking truth.
37:02 And he was speaking the gospel news, the good news, right, and speaking the scriptures and
37:08 they made their way into that show, but it was because he was marinated in it, because
37:12 that's who he is.
37:14 And you can't just quote scripture like Phil did off air on air around people like, you
37:20 know, just with me, just being able to quote scripture without spending time in the scriptures.
37:26 And that, that is also I've said, you know, I've tried to narrow it down to like one big
37:29 thing, but that was another huge thing for me is you can't get that way by not studying
37:35 the Bible, right?
37:37 And I try to give you guys as many resources as possible, you know, the hundred books every
37:41 modern Christian man should read and these devotionals and that, you know, I'll link
37:44 to books and I'll share them on social media and stuff like that.
37:47 But we don't want to lose sight of the gospel.
37:50 We don't want to lose sight of where the gospel is housed, which is in our holy scriptures,
37:53 right?
37:54 And to know where the scriptures came from, how they got to us from 2000 years ago in some
38:00 cases and maybe even further back or definitely further back in a lot of cases, right?
38:05 But it was a great encouragement to me that when I studied the Bible, I shouldn't be studying
38:09 it to read the chapter and just get done so I can check the box for the day.
38:13 But so I can be marinated in it so that I can understand how this is applicable so that
38:18 I can pull it out when it's necessary not to win some debate, not not to prove to somebody
38:22 how smart we are because we memorize something just because it's literally written on our
38:26 hearts.
38:27 All right, guys, we're going to do a quick resilience boost before we let you out of here.
38:30 As you know by now at Undaunted Life, our mission is equipping men to push back darkness with
38:35 content that for just spiritual, mental and physical resilience.
38:38 So here are the links I've got for you today.
38:40 I've got the link to the Undaunted Life shop so you can go get your t-shirt or your rash
38:43 card.
38:44 Also, I've got a link to my appearance on the Phil Robertson podcast and then also it has
38:48 links to my appearance on the Mike Ritlin podcast, the Mike Drop podcast, and also Cooper stuff
38:52 with John Cooper.
38:53 Then I've got the unashamed podcast.
38:54 So it's going to take you to the blaze website.
38:56 So wherever you like to listen to your podcast, you'll be able to get the link there.
38:58 I highly encourage you to listen to that show.
39:01 And then also I've got links to the two books I talked about, the theft of America's soul
39:04 and Jesus politics.
39:05 All right, guys.
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