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202 - Intro To "How To Build A Godly & Manly Foxhole"

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202 - Intro To "How To Build A Godly & Manly Foxhole"
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In this episode, I'm launching a new devotional called 'How To Build A Godly & Manly Foxhole.' This week, we'll release daily lessons to help men cultivate strong, resilient communities grounded in faith. It's time to stop theorizing and start building your foxhole.
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0:48 This is on Daunted Life of Man's podcast.
0:51 I'm your host Kyle Thompson.
0:53 Let's get into it.
0:54 All right, guys.
0:55 Happy Father's Day.
0:56 Father's Day is not a big holiday for most people because this is typically just a day
0:59 to crap on fathers all over the world, but we are celebrating Father's Day by giving
1:03 you a present.
1:04 Right?
1:05 I got you guys a present.
1:06 Right?
1:07 I didn't even get myself a present.
1:08 This is technically my second Father's Day, but I'm not even going to get anything because
1:11 I was working hard for you guys.
1:13 I've got an announcement to make, and that is that we have a new devotional that we are
1:17 launching today.
1:18 Okay?
1:19 It's called how to build a godly and manly foxhole, how to build a godly and manly foxhole.
1:25 So guys, we're going to talk about that a little bit.
1:27 This is going to be a very short episode because basically what we're going to be doing is
1:30 we're going to be releasing every episode or every part of this devotional, every day
1:34 of this devotional for the rest of the week, right?
1:37 So right after the posting of this, I'm going to drop day one of how to build a godly and
1:41 manly foxhole.
1:42 And then every day for the rest of the week, we're going to post the next days, you know,
1:47 whatever lesson, whatever you want to call it, and it's going to culminate on Saturday
1:50 with day seven.
1:51 So before I get into the content of what that is and kind of do an introduction to this
1:55 whole thing, I do want to give a special thank you to our partners and to our donors.
1:59 Okay?
2:00 So back in episode 190, right?
2:01 It is called we're going for it.
2:02 I explained to you guys that we're really going to go for it.
2:05 Like we're really going to do everything that we can to equip men to push back darkness.
2:09 We're going to just try to 10x everything that we're doing, but we couldn't do it without
2:12 you guys, right?
2:13 So a lot of you guys stepped up.
2:15 You stepped up and you became monthly partners with us or even just one time donors and what
2:20 we're able to do with those funds and the focus that we're able to put on this types
2:24 of content.
2:25 It could not have happened without that, right?
2:27 It just couldn't have happened without that.
2:28 So when you guys get to see this devotional and go through this entire devotional, it's
2:32 going to be a big deal for you.
2:33 It's going to be a big deal for the men around you, but we couldn't do that without our partners
2:37 and donors.
2:38 So again, special thank you and another special thank you to some of our team members.
2:41 So these are some of the guys that kind of help with some of the stuff with undaunted
2:43 life.
2:44 They were really integral in the development process of all this kind of helping me process
2:47 the content, you know, kind of get the flow of everything.
2:50 And so by name, Derek Edwards, Derek England, Eric Browning and Matt Grasmire, guys, I really,
2:56 really appreciate everything that you've done for this and just believing in this project
2:59 from the beginning.
3:00 So I want to thank you guys.
3:01 Now, I will go and tell you guys that you're going to be able to access this plan in several
3:05 different ways.
3:06 Okay.
3:07 So the first way to access this plan is on this podcast feed.
3:09 So wherever you're listening to this Apple podcast, Spotify, Google podcast, it or wherever,
3:13 you can just listen to this feed, right?
3:16 So that's going to be again, day one is dropping today and then day two tomorrow, so on and
3:20 so forth until Saturday.
3:21 So you guys will have it all here.
3:23 So that's just if you just want to be able to listen to it.
3:25 Okay.
3:26 Now our website is also a place that you can get this content, but you will actually be
3:31 able to download the content, right?
3:33 We want you to be able to download this audio so that you can have it, you know, on your
3:36 phone or on your iCloud or wherever that you have it so that you can continue listening
3:39 to it, even if you don't have the podcast feed.
3:42 Okay.
3:43 So that is a special link that we'll have there later on in the show, but it'll be in the
3:45 show notes.
3:46 It's undaunted dot life, backslash donate, backslash foxhole.
3:49 Okay.
3:50 So that's a way that you can download this content for yourself.
3:52 And the last way is to get this on the U version Bible app.
3:54 Again, that's one of the most downloaded apps in the history of apps.
3:57 It's the biggest Bible app by any stretch of the imagination, but I will tell you just
4:01 kind of a little bit of a side.
4:03 The content is slightly altered for you version.
4:06 Okay.
4:07 So you version kind of came to me and they're like, we want to do this plan.
4:09 And so it's like, all right, I put this thing together.
4:10 It's an audio plan also with a notes component and then the Bible component.
4:15 But there are a few things that I said during the creation of this devotional that they weren't
4:20 too fond of, right?
4:21 They thought it would potentially be too divisive or too offensive.
4:24 And so we had to kind of go back and forth with them for a couple of weeks.
4:27 So there are slight alterations to the plan on you version.
4:30 So if you do it on you version and then you come over to our website or to our podcast
4:34 feed, just know that it will be slightly different.
4:36 But don't worry guys, you know, I'm not just going to sell myself down the road to piece
4:39 some people that are a little bit sensitive.
4:41 So just know that the content, the meat of the content is still the same.
4:45 Now I do want to talk a little bit about what this content is.
4:47 And I guess the best place to start is why this subject, why do men need to know how
4:52 to build a godly and manly foxhole?
4:55 Okay.
4:56 So we talked about the concept of the foxhole in this podcast before and we've mentioned
5:00 it other places as well, but most men don't have one, right?
5:03 I mean, we keep hearing all the time like, you know, men don't have any friends and men
5:06 are lonely and men are depressed and men don't have anyone they can count on.
5:10 And I kind of extrapolated that out further to say that, you know, a lot of men have six
5:14 PM friends, right?
5:16 Friends that they can call up until about six PM.
5:18 And then after that, they're pretty much not available to you.
5:20 But very few guys have three AM friends where you call this person at three AM.
5:25 Your world's world is falling apart and you can already hear them getting their keys or
5:29 you know, they're putting their gun in their, their holster, like they're grabbing the show,
5:32 but they're assuming we're burying a body.
5:34 They're just armed for bear.
5:35 They're ready to go to serve you and to serve your family and whatever they need to do.
5:39 Most guys don't have those three AM friends.
5:41 Most guys don't have a group of men like that either.
5:44 So we constantly talk about cultivating spiritual, mental and physical resilience.
5:48 And the thing about that is, is it's easy to kind of figure that out for yourself.
5:52 It's not that easy.
5:53 You know, obviously I wouldn't talk about all that, all that much if it was that easy,
5:56 but you can focus on you because you can control the things that you can do.
6:00 But very few men try to cultivate a group of men that are also doing the same thing.
6:05 Men that are surrounding them that are also cultivating spiritual, mental and physical
6:09 resilience.
6:10 I mean, that, that's a, that's a hard thing for most men to even fathom.
6:13 And imagine being in a small, tight knit community of men that are all doing that same thing
6:18 and doing it in the same direction and grounding it in, in Christ and in the gospel and all
6:23 those things.
6:24 That's an amazing thing that men need, but they don't have it.
6:29 They simply do not have it.
6:31 Another reason why I'm, I'm doing this content is because I asked guys a couple of months
6:36 back, I was trying to get some of the guys that I know that have listened to this podcast
6:39 from the beginning to give me some feedback like, Hey, what are like the five episodes?
6:43 Like if you had to encapsulate undaunted life of man's podcast and they're like five episodes
6:47 like this is our philosophy.
6:48 This is what we do.
6:49 This is the best that we can produce.
6:51 And you know, which one, which episodes are those?
6:53 Right?
6:54 And then there were a lot of different episodes that were thrown out.
6:56 There were several dozen suggestions, but every single person, every single one of them
7:01 that I asked for this.
7:02 That's a lot of guys said episode 104 of this podcast called your foxhole.
7:08 And I knew that was an important episode, but I didn't realize it was that important to
7:12 so many people because these are guys from all different kinds of backgrounds, different,
7:16 you know, places in life, different stations in life.
7:18 And all of them said episode four, your foxhole.
7:22 So I was like, you know, why, why is that?
7:23 I asked some guys for feedback and it was just like, man, this is just not something
7:26 that's easy to do.
7:27 Like it's something that's really hard, but like we're thirsty for, we want that.
7:32 And so I just wish I knew how to do that.
7:35 So that is exactly why we're doing how to build a godly and manly foxhole, right?
7:40 Again, we get into all the content there.
7:42 I don't want to kind of rush it at this point because I want you to kind of take this seven
7:46 day journey with us.
7:47 But guys, you need this and I'm going to show you how to get there.
7:51 But here's my call to action.
7:52 Again, this is a shorter episode because we've got a lot of content that we're going to be
7:55 given to you guys over the next week, week and a half or so.
7:57 So number one, okay, listen, absorb and apply this content immediately.
8:03 Obviously you need to listen to it.
8:05 If you're the type of person that likes to listen to it and take notes, I think that
8:07 would be a great thing for you to do on the you version side.
8:10 There are actual notes there that I kind of give you like the highlights of what I'm
8:13 talking about here.
8:14 But I want you to kind of take your own notes and things that are important to you.
8:17 Absorb that kind of bring that into you internally and figure all that out, whatever that looks
8:20 like for you, but apply it immediately.
8:25 Don't theorize about this content.
8:27 It's kind of like those people that never get in shape because they're constantly getting
8:29 ready to get in shape, right?
8:32 Like they're buying the shoes, they're reading about, you know, what types of pavement is
8:36 best to run on and you know, what time of day and what, you know, what a climate and
8:40 like, no, no, put on your shoes and go run, right, throw your gear on and go to class.
8:46 Like it's those types of things.
8:48 Listen to this, absorb it, but then apply it immediately.
8:51 I give you very practical ways to do this.
8:53 So apply it.
8:54 Okay.
8:55 So that's number one.
8:56 Get your men and your church involved in this.
9:00 Okay.
9:01 So around the time that this is being released, I'm actually going to speak at a men's event
9:05 where this is going to be the main focus.
9:07 And this is for, you know, ages 12 and up and it's going to be this big thing.
9:11 It's going to be great, but I'm going to be looking at these men to be like, no, no,
9:14 this is what you need to do.
9:16 You need to develop this type of an atmosphere.
9:18 Okay.
9:19 So the men that are in your life, whether you would call them a foxhole or not, right?
9:22 And if you don't know what that means, you know, definitely take a look at this content
9:25 once it's coming out, but for the men that are around you in your life, whether you
9:29 have a men's group or you have that group of guys that gets together once a month to
9:33 do this, that or the other thing, get them involved in this content.
9:37 Go through this content together.
9:38 If you want to get together at six a.m. and talk about it over coffee once a week, like
9:41 go for it.
9:42 If you want to create this and let this be a seven week plan for you in your group, a
9:45 seven month thing, like let that be what this is also get your church involved.
9:50 Cause as I've talked about a lot, most churches don't have a men's ministry.
9:54 They might do men's events, right?
9:57 Once a year they, they do a chili cook off or they, you know, bring in the retired football
10:00 player to come talk about how you used to chase women and all that.
10:03 Now Jesus has saved him and that's not men's ministry.
10:05 That's programming.
10:06 That's an event.
10:08 So guys, if you want me to come to your church, right?
10:12 Whether you're the pastor or you're just part of the flock, you got to hit me up, right?
10:16 We got the content here.
10:17 We got the ways that you can get ahold of me and get ahold of us through the website.
10:20 Again, just shoot me an email info at undaunted.life.
10:23 I can come to you guys and talk about this content, right?
10:26 We can take even the seven days where I kind of elucidate all these points very tightly
10:30 and we can expand it out even further from that.
10:32 So that's the second part.
10:34 Get your men and your church involved.
10:35 Okay.
10:36 Here's the last call to action for the day before I let you guys get into the rest of
10:39 the content, partner with us to push back darkness.
10:43 Again, this devotional, which we believe that God is going to do an amazing thing and amazing
10:49 work because of the things that we're able to talk about during this devotional, right?
10:53 The words that he gave us to use, but we were not going to be able to do that without partners.
10:59 I said that from the top of the episode.
11:01 Are people that are monthly partners with us are one-time donors?
11:05 When you do those things, we can produce these things, right?
11:09 I said from the beginning, when if you go back to episode 190, you know, we want to do
11:12 more of podcasts.
11:13 We want to do some more devotionals.
11:14 We want to put together some curriculum.
11:16 We want to do all this.
11:17 We want to do all that.
11:18 But when you guys give, that allows us to do those things.
11:21 I know everyone gets a little bit weird about asking for money.
11:24 No, no, no.
11:25 We need your money.
11:26 We need your buy-in because that's what you do when you give money to somebody.
11:30 You tell them, "Hey, I really like your product.
11:32 I really like what you do.
11:33 I want to support it."
11:34 So, "Oh, it's 20 bucks.
11:35 Okay.
11:36 Here's 20 bucks."
11:37 But this is what we've done.
11:38 This is important for any of you guys that are thinking about skipping over this because
11:40 I'm asking about money.
11:41 We did not put a price tag on this content.
11:44 We thought about it.
11:46 We thought about putting 10 bucks, 15 bucks, 20 bucks because we know this is valuable.
11:50 We know this is valuable content for people that people would buy.
11:54 They would give money to, but we don't want to limit to that.
11:58 So if you just want to take in this content for free and just take the free ride, fine.
12:02 I hope you'll apply the content, but we want to leave you guys with the ability to donate
12:08 the amount that you feel like is commensurate with the impact that you've gotten from this
12:13 devotional.
12:14 Okay?
12:15 So, for some of you, we're asking a minimum of $10 because we feel like what we produce
12:19 is a quality thing.
12:20 So that's about the price of a e-book or something like that.
12:23 So 10 bucks.
12:24 But we know other guys are going to go well and above that.
12:26 We know guys are going to become monthly partners with us and we know guys are going to just
12:30 kind of dump, you know, kind of that one time a year of money into our coffers and all
12:34 that.
12:35 And that's how we keep all of this going.
12:37 So we're asking you to please help us push back darkness.
12:40 And that's the specific way that you can do it.
12:42 So again, the calls to action are one, listen, absorb and apply this content immediately.
12:46 Number two, get your men and your church involved and number three, partner with us to push
12:50 back darkness.
12:51 So guys, the quick resilience boost here at the end, again, on Daunted Life, our mission
12:54 is equipping men to push back darkness with content that for just spiritual, mental and
12:58 physical resilience.
12:59 This devotional is certainly part of that.
13:01 The podcast is a part of that.
13:02 So I've got two links for you.
13:03 Number one is the audio download link.
13:06 This is also where you go to become a monthly partner for us, right?
13:09 So if you go to www.undaunted.life/donate/foxhole, right?
13:15 So that's the way to get to it.
13:16 It's going to be in the show notes.
13:17 If you want to check it out later, we would ask that you would make a donation or become
13:21 a monthly partner.
13:22 And then you've got the audio download right there.
13:23 But guys, even if you just want the audio download, you can skip right past it.
13:27 We're not blocking it from you because we want this content in your hands, but we want
13:30 you to partner with us.
13:31 The other link is to the you version version.
13:33 Okay.
13:34 And so that is a version that is slightly altered like I told you from the beginning.
13:37 But if you like to do your devotional through them, you can do it that way.
13:40 All right, guys.
13:41 Thanks so much for listening to this podcast.
13:42 We really do appreciate it.
13:43 Wherever you're listening to this, please subscribe, rate and review.
13:46 If you want me to come speak live at your event or on your podcast, just shoot me an
13:49 email to info@undaunted.life, follow us on Instagram and TikTok and like us on Facebook.
13:55 You can also check out our website for everything else, including how to donate to keep more
13:58 content like this coming again.
14:00 That's just undaunted.life, www.undaunted.life.
14:04 We also want to thank the bay at August Burns Red for allowing us to use their music for our
14:07 content.
14:08 The intro out to track on this podcast is our song cutting the ties, which is off their
14:12 10th anniversary re-recording of their album Leveler.
14:15 The links to all of this are in the description.
14:18 I'm your host, Kyle Thompson.
14:20 Remember, keep pushing back darkness, keep forging spiritual, mental and physical resilience.
14:27 Keep seeking the lion of Judah.
14:57 [music]
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