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194 - LILA ROSE | Fighting For Life

May 4, 2021 46m 52s Full transcript available
194 - LILA ROSE | Fighting For Life
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In this episode, Kyle Thompson welcomes back Lila Rose, founder of Live Action, to discuss her new book, 'Fighting for Life.' They dive deep into the pro-life movement, the challenges of political activism, and the urgent need for men to step up and fight for the innocent lives of children.
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0:00 (upbeat music)
0:02 - This is Undaunted Life, a man's podcast.
0:20 I'm your host Kyle Thompson.
0:22 Let's get into it.
0:22 All right guys, today we've got the return of Lila Rose.
0:25 She is an alum of this podcast.
0:27 She was here with us on episode 145.
0:29 So for those of you that maybe I've not heard of her
0:31 or have not listened that episode yet,
0:32 she is the founder and president of Live Action.
0:34 So they are a pro-life organization
0:36 that she started in her living room
0:38 when she was just 15 years old.
0:40 And Live Action exists really just to try
0:42 to eradicate abortion entirely, right?
0:44 That's why they're here.
0:45 They do that in two ways, that one is through education.
0:48 And so they publish really the most widely read news sites
0:51 on the pro-life issue.
0:53 They're one of the most widely followed things
0:55 on all social media in terms of the pro-life cause.
0:57 And the other way that they do this
0:58 is they do investigative journalism.
1:00 So they've infiltrated the pro-abortion lobby
1:02 and the industry and actually exposed their lies
1:04 and abuses and the things that they've done
1:06 actually in some of those clinics.
1:07 And really their large online presence
1:09 is why they become a target, right?
1:11 They've been targeted for throttling of their posts
1:13 or for shadow banning and different things like that.
1:15 We don't get a lot of into that.
1:16 In this particular podcast, the main reason
1:18 why we had her back on is because she is releasing
1:21 a new book.
1:23 Guys, and if you're listening to this on time,
1:25 it is out today.
1:27 So you can go get it on all the platforms
1:29 where you can find books and it's called fighting for life,
1:32 becoming a force for change in a wounded world.
1:35 And guys, the reason why we bring on people like her
1:38 is because she doesn't mince words, right?
1:41 She doesn't look for the most politically correct way
1:44 to say something, right?
1:45 She's just going to get into it and get after it, right?
1:47 Especially on an issue like this.
1:49 There's not a whole lot of room for nuance.
1:51 There's not a whole lot of room for euphemisms.
1:53 And so we really appreciate her style
1:55 and the way that she goes about things
1:58 and her organization has grown
1:59 because she has been able to spearhead it in a direction
2:02 towards the eradication of abortion,
2:03 which is obviously something that we support here
2:06 on this podcast and have continued to support
2:08 and will continue to support into the future.
2:10 So guys, I don't want to keep her from you any longer.
2:12 So without further ado, let's get into it.
2:14 Lila Rose, welcome back to undaunted life of man's podcast.
2:20 - Thanks for having me on.
2:21 Great to be back.
2:23 - Yeah, we're happy to have you on it.
2:24 I just got to tell you, as you know,
2:26 you were the very first female guest
2:28 of undaunted life, a man's podcast.
2:30 But since then, we've had Taya Kyle, we've had Holly McKay.
2:33 And this is a good time to tell all my listeners.
2:35 We have a very simple filter.
2:37 And it's a single filter through which,
2:39 if a female comes on our show
2:40 to talk to our highly male audience,
2:42 that they have to make one thing true.
2:45 They have to be a gangster.
2:46 And you certainly are, Taya is, Holly is.
2:49 And so that is the only thing we don't have people
2:51 on here for no reason, but we appreciate the way
2:53 that you fight and we're gonna get a lot into that today.
2:55 So thank you again for coming back on.
2:58 - Thanks for having me.
2:59 - Absolutely.
3:00 There are some congratulations in order
3:01 because last time you barely mentioned this
3:03 the first time you came on our show
3:04 that you were going to be releasing a book, but we're here.
3:07 Guys, if you're listening to this
3:09 or watching this on time, your new book,
3:11 you're technically your first book has been released.
3:13 It's called fighting for life,
3:15 becoming a force for change in a wounded world.
3:18 So guys, don't worry in the show notes.
3:19 You will have all the ways that you can go
3:20 and pick up the book.
3:22 But the thing that was interesting about this book,
3:23 I just finished it a couple of days ago
3:25 and it was fantastic, is it's hard to categorize, right?
3:28 And I know a lot of people love their categories.
3:30 And so it's kind of an autobiography,
3:32 but it's kind of not.
3:33 And it's kind of a political advocacy book,
3:36 but not really that much.
3:37 So I guess just briefly,
3:38 how would you categorize the book that you wrote for us?
3:41 - So I actually categorize it.
3:43 I've categorized it as a manual.
3:45 And yes, it's a lot of stories in there of life action
3:48 behind the scenes, my own life.
3:50 There's obviously a lot of like pro life,
3:51 like fight for life,
3:53 but it's really designed to give the tools and the lessons,
3:56 some of them more spiritual, more sort of personal,
3:59 and then some of them more practical
4:01 for what does it look like
4:02 to become a force for change in the world?
4:04 And so I wanted to lay out the lessons I've learned
4:07 to provide other people that support in their own journeys
4:11 in fighting for life and fighting to make our world better.
4:14 - When you got a lot of high praise,
4:16 even in the very first few pages of the book,
4:19 you're getting high praise from people like Lee Strobel
4:21 and David Daladin and Abby Johnson,
4:23 but also a fan favorite of me in this podcast.
4:25 And that's Ben Shapiro,
4:26 what he wrote about your book was this.
4:28 Lila Rose is one of the most courageous warriors
4:30 for truth and life in America today.
4:32 Her voice is indispensable.
4:34 And in this book, you'll learn why she fights
4:36 and how you can fight too.
4:38 So I guess just, I would like to know
4:40 what it's like to have people like that
4:42 to think so highly of you and the work that you've done
4:44 and the work that you're putting out in this space.
4:47 - Well, it's super kind,
4:49 but I think it's the results of,
4:52 I mean, working over the last 10, 15 years
4:54 and trying to making mistakes, getting up again,
4:58 getting back in the ring, getting back in the ring.
5:00 And I'm not perfect.
5:02 I've made lots of mistakes.
5:03 I share some of them in the book.
5:05 I'm still learning.
5:06 I'm still learning how to get back in the ring.
5:07 It's constant training.
5:08 It's new levels of training
5:10 and learning how to get out there
5:12 and make a difference in the world.
5:14 But I think other people who are on that wavelength,
5:17 they want to make a difference, who want to fight.
5:19 When they see other people trying,
5:21 they try to encourage them.
5:23 So maybe they're a little overly nice
5:25 in those comments at the beginning of the book,
5:26 but I think Ben's a fighter.
5:28 That's why he's like, you go, you go, girl, fight.
5:31 And other people that,
5:33 where it was very blessed with their kind words,
5:35 they're fighters too.
5:36 And so I think that sort of shared spirit of like,
5:38 we want to fight for what's right.
5:41 You know, bonds us together.
5:43 - Yeah, and I think that that's,
5:45 I kind of said a tongue in cheek earlier
5:46 about us having gangsters on the podcast,
5:48 but that's just true of people that are fighters.
5:51 Like no one would look at Ben Shapiro and think,
5:53 oh, I'm scared of this person physically, right?
5:55 He's not a physically frozen person,
5:57 but intellectually he's a fighter
5:59 and he would fight you tooth and nail.
6:00 You know what I mean?
6:01 Like, so I think it just,
6:02 it gives people a little bit of a different definition
6:04 of courage and people that are willing
6:06 to enter the fray as a fighter.
6:07 But what I want to do now is I want to go ahead
6:09 and get into a bunch of quotes from the book
6:10 because it's going to be impossible
6:11 to encapsulate all the great stuff from the book.
6:13 That's why we're encouraging all of our listeners
6:15 to go buy it, but right before part one of the book,
6:18 you have this quote here.
6:19 "The world needs men and women of conviction
6:21 "who would not sit by as the battle rages.
6:23 "Let's dare to dream of a world that is better
6:25 "and together boldly enter the fray to make it so."
6:29 And so with that, why do so many supposed pro-lifers
6:34 sit idly by?
6:35 Because I see that all the time, oh yeah, I'm pro-life.
6:37 Have you ever done anything that anyone would even know
6:41 that that's the case about you?
6:42 And the answer is almost always no.
6:43 Why does that happen?
6:45 - Mm-hmm, a couple of things.
6:47 I think we've put ourselves in a box of what's possible.
6:50 We're so used to habitually living the normal life,
6:53 the normal life of work at your job,
6:55 maybe have your family, I mean, that's beautiful,
6:57 that's awesome.
6:58 Go to church on Sundays, watch TV in the night,
7:01 go to bed, do it again the next day.
7:03 And we forget that first of all,
7:06 you can make the normal life extraordinary
7:09 with the love and the intention that sacrifice
7:11 you've been to each thing you do.
7:12 But actually, there's more to life than the normal life.
7:17 And we have to allow ourselves,
7:19 and I talk about this in the book,
7:20 to let our hearts be stirred and broken
7:24 for what's happening out there.
7:25 We have to open our minds and our hearts
7:28 to the realization of the crisis on our doorsteps.
7:31 Because it's easy to live normal, in America,
7:34 we have food over, roots over our heads,
7:36 food in our mountain, our valleys.
7:38 We have so many privileges and gifts.
7:40 We're not living in the third world where violence is
7:42 on the street, you know, that we're afraid
7:44 of like our family every night, you know, dying or whatever.
7:47 We have so many securities.
7:48 And so we have to allow ourselves to see,
7:50 there are people literally in our own cities
7:53 who are being torn to shreds, you know,
7:55 human beings, children, who are being dismembered,
7:59 destroyed legally with full consent of the law.
8:02 And we're just living our lives as if it's all happening.
8:04 We can't live that way.
8:06 We have to rouse ourselves to action.
8:08 And that's gonna be uncomfortable.
8:10 I talk about that in the book.
8:11 Like get ready to be uncomfortable.
8:13 It's gonna be leaving our comfort zone.
8:15 It's gonna be standing alone sometimes and looking different.
8:17 You have to be willing, an activist, a world changer,
8:20 a revolutionary, a Christian has to be willing
8:24 to be uncomfortable, to put ourselves in situations
8:26 that seem unusual in order to stand for what is right
8:31 and truly love.
8:32 And so I talk about a lot in that book
8:34 and I think pro-life activism, I think every single Christian,
8:36 if you're a man listening to this podcast
8:38 and you haven't gone outside an abortion clinic,
8:40 just even to pray for a half hour, just to stand there.
8:43 You don't have to say or do anything.
8:44 You just stand there and you pray.
8:45 And you recognize what's happening.
8:46 There's children being killed, the women being lied to.
8:49 This is this blood business.
8:50 But you pray and you intercede.
8:51 You ask God for mercy on those moms, those children,
8:54 the men who are complicit.
8:56 And you ask for God to show you what you can do.
8:59 This is one step.
9:00 I mean, peaceful resistance can be prayer.
9:03 You know, that's the first step,
9:04 but physically placing ourselves at the doorstep,
9:07 you know, on the public sidewalk,
9:08 obviously you don't need to trespass.
9:11 You just stay on there.
9:12 Let yourselves be changed by that.
9:13 And then you start to find out ways
9:15 to get more activist, to get more involved in the movement.
9:17 So, you know, we always encourage us to be peaceful activism,
9:20 but there's so many ways to do it
9:21 where you push me on below, where you make a difference.
9:23 And so I would start with get outside of your comfort zone
9:26 and be ready to be uncomfortable.
9:28 That is a key first step.
9:31 - We're constantly encouraging guys to be uncomfortable
9:33 'cause we talk about cultivating spiritual,
9:36 mental and physical resilience and toughness.
9:38 And I think what encapsulates a lot of what you just said,
9:40 there Lila is a quote from the first chapter of your book,
9:42 which is just allowing our hearts to remain broken
9:44 for people in danger, especially the most vulnerable,
9:47 is a necessary pain.
9:50 There's a lot of pain that we experience
9:52 that there's no necessary to it,
9:54 at least not that we can see, right?
9:55 Not that we can surmise.
9:56 But I think that informs a lot of what we would do.
9:59 And especially when it comes to defending truth.
10:01 And so I want to kind of skip ahead to chapter six
10:03 of your book because I think there are some truths,
10:04 especially around people like Margaret Sanger
10:06 and Planned Parenthood that are not known
10:09 by a lot of people that would consider themselves pro-life.
10:11 So I'll read a quote here.
10:12 "A proud eugenicist and matter of fact,
10:14 a humanizer, Sanger, that's Margaret Sanger,
10:16 viewed herself and her allies as champions of progress
10:19 and women's rights.
10:20 She would not have been a champion of a family like mine.
10:23 The most merciful thing that a large family does
10:25 to one of its infant members," Sanger said unashamedly,
10:28 "is to kill it.
10:30 Taking its cue from its founder,
10:31 Planned Parenthood would go and to kill millions
10:33 of American children and advocate
10:35 against every single proposed abortion restriction."
10:38 So the reason why I bring that quote up
10:40 is because most people look at,
10:42 and I mentioned this in the last podcast I did with you,
10:44 Planned Parenthood is just this mortally neutral thing, right?
10:46 It's just basically, it's like a 24-hour clinic.
10:49 It's like, oh, I can either go to Planned Parenthood for this
10:51 or I can just run to the doctor's office real quick.
10:53 But they don't understand the evil
10:55 of a woman like Margaret Sanger.
10:57 They don't understand the evil of the inner workings
10:58 of Planned Parenthood and we could certainly spend
11:00 the rest of our time together just talking about that.
11:03 But from your perspective,
11:04 have you noticed that a lot of people on the pro-life side
11:06 don't even know who Margaret Sanger is,
11:08 doesn't even know some of the things that she believed
11:10 and why she started the organization she did?
11:12 - Yeah, I think you're absolutely right.
11:13 A lot of people I think are pro-life in the sense,
11:15 they're like, oh yeah, I'm personally against abortion,
11:18 but once you start to actually take time to study,
11:21 and in the book, along with this manual,
11:24 it's tons of information about the abortion industry,
11:26 of course, once you take time to actually look at
11:28 what's happening and what has happened in this country,
11:31 really over the last 100 years,
11:33 since Planned Parenthood was founded, it's mind-blowing.
11:36 There is a multi-billion dollar abortion industry
11:39 in this country that has deep pockets
11:41 that is actually behind some of the most powerful
11:43 politicians in the world that has friends
11:47 and highest places in corporate America.
11:49 Social media companies, the CO of Facebook,
11:52 gives millions of dollars to Planned Parenthood.
11:54 Every year, their abortion numbers,
11:56 over the last 10 years, have increased.
11:57 The overall abortion rate is slowly dropping.
11:59 Thanks be to God, thanks be the hard worker
12:01 of the pro-life movement and mothers choosing life,
12:03 but Planned Parenthood's numbers are going up.
12:06 They have a goal.
12:07 They want to kill, they want to lie,
12:09 and they want complete domination,
12:11 not just of the United States.
12:12 They're in other countries trying to legalize abortion
12:14 in Argentina, they just did it in Ireland,
12:16 they did it two years ago, they are working daily.
12:18 So this is a battle.
12:20 There is evil, evil is real.
12:22 Of course, we wanna persuade and convert.
12:25 We wanna pray for the people that are
12:26 in the abortion industry.
12:28 We ultimately give them to the mercy of God
12:31 as we give ourselves,
12:32 but we have to fight the lies that are being told.
12:34 We have to fight on the political terrain
12:36 and the cultural terrain.
12:37 And so, the book details a lot of that,
12:39 but yeah, Margaret Sanger, she was a dehumanizer,
12:41 a eugenicist, but she's a woman who's dead now.
12:45 God rest her soul,
12:46 may she have converted at the last moment,
12:48 but she founded a corporation that has killed by itself,
12:52 just in the United States, over 3 million children.
12:55 And that's just in the last 15 years.
12:58 She is responsible for the political lobby
13:01 that would eventually develop
13:02 that has killed 60 million children
13:05 in the last 40 years in America.
13:07 The global death toll to abortion is over 100,000 daily,
13:11 children, 100,000 globally,
13:13 because of an abortion agenda
13:15 that started in the United States largely.
13:17 We started it.
13:18 So we gotta educate ourselves,
13:20 and we gotta be willing to fight this.
13:21 And part of fighting it is knowing what's happening
13:24 so we can educate other people.
13:26 - Well, obviously the United States,
13:27 we're very proud about our exports,
13:29 but we have exported some very evil things,
13:31 even as a nation that was founded on Christian principles,
13:34 even though that's uncomfortable for people to even talk about.
13:36 But I think it goes to a quote that I believe was in your book,
13:38 where it's attributed to Joseph Stalin,
13:40 which is that a single death is a tragedy,
13:42 but a million deaths is a statistic.
13:44 And so it's like, if your child dies,
13:47 or if your neighbor dies, you feel that.
13:49 But if someone's neighbor across the world dies,
13:51 it doesn't hit you the same.
13:53 And when we talk about things like the Holocaust,
13:55 or when we talk about slavery,
13:56 when we're talking about any of these things,
13:57 or the Gulags, or Maoist China,
13:59 there's all these huge numbers
14:00 that we literally can't wrap ourselves around.
14:02 We can't wrap our minds around these types of things.
14:05 And it just kind of goes to this idea
14:07 where we just end up numbing ourselves.
14:08 We're like, we're just numb to these numbers.
14:09 Oh, another million babies were killed
14:12 in abortions in America this year,
14:14 and we just don't even really think about it.
14:15 And I think that that kind of head in the sand attitude, Lila,
14:19 it really carries over into the church,
14:20 which there's a quote from chapter seven of your book,
14:22 'cause a short one is just this.
14:24 Despite the prevalence of abortion,
14:26 even among churchgoers, which is true,
14:28 our pastors never addressed the topic at youth group
14:31 and would very rarely address it
14:33 with the larger congregation.
14:35 So you were talking specifically about your upbringing
14:38 at your church, right?
14:40 But I can tell you, and sure this is a news to you,
14:42 that is indicative of churches across the globe,
14:45 the church that I attend now,
14:46 every church that I've ever attended,
14:48 if they talk about abortion, they mention it.
14:51 They just kind of mention, oh, it's bad,
14:53 and it isn't culture going to hell in a handbasket,
14:55 and they just mention abortion in this litany
14:57 of other evil, horrible things
14:59 that are going on in our country, right?
15:01 But it makes me furious, Lila,
15:03 that these pastors, these, really,
15:07 these effeminate pastors that just can't stand up
15:09 for themselves, they have no spine,
15:11 that they're not really addressing this issue
15:13 with the requisite amount of force.
15:16 Do you see the same thing?
15:17 Have you seen some changes to that?
15:19 Help me, help bring me down,
15:21 'cause I'm getting serious, I'm probably turning red,
15:22 but like, help me understand why they're doing that.
15:25 - I mean, imagine, just contextually,
15:27 if there were toddlers, beautiful little toddlers,
15:30 two-year-olds being dragged to killing centers
15:33 where they're dismembered by their parents,
15:34 and the church, literally a mile away is like,
15:37 praise the Lord, Jesus, and they're not doing anything.
15:39 There's no full-time ministry to stop it.
15:41 There's no full-time political action to stop it.
15:43 What is the church?
15:45 But that's happening, they're younger than toddlers,
15:48 they're two years younger, they're in the womb,
15:50 but they're just as human, just as a child,
15:52 and just as much a child, and so I feel that burn,
15:56 and I know even myself, I gotta do more, myself,
15:59 and my family, we gotta do more, this is a crisis,
16:02 and it's good to feel that burn, let yourself burn,
16:04 let yourself get angry, let yourself, your heart break.
16:08 Look, if you are in a church and your pastor's not
16:09 talking about abortion, keep knocking on his door,
16:12 sit down with him, meet with him, love him, say hey,
16:16 what about this, what about this?
16:17 Offer, be the man who goes in there and says,
16:20 I will help start the full-time parole administering this church.
16:23 Here I am, I have my job, but I will dedicate,
16:27 whatever I can do to make sure that this church
16:30 is involved in educating, in activating, and in serving,
16:34 making sure that any pregnant mom, even a single mom,
16:37 she does not feel like she has to go to that abortion clinic,
16:39 she has embraced, she has supported,
16:41 we educate our young people, there's post-abortion ministry,
16:44 be the change in your church, be the change in your church.
16:48 Don't just be like, oh, I'm a pastor driving me nuts.
16:50 If your pastor's a pastor is driving you nuts
16:52 and you have done nothing about it,
16:53 that's your fault at the end of the day, you know?
16:56 And I tried to put that to practice myself,
16:58 you know, when I realized about abortion,
17:00 my pastor's not doing anything as I could see,
17:03 I had not kept knocking the door from my pastor,
17:05 I'm like, hey, I want to give a acrylic presentation
17:07 to my youth group, you know, I kept, for a year,
17:09 I begged him, and I, you know, did all this work
17:12 to prepare it, and finally he let me.
17:14 So, you know, you can make progress,
17:16 but you have to be willing to be the one
17:17 who makes the progress.
17:19 - Right, I think that's an important point,
17:21 and I've told guys to do this in other contexts as well,
17:24 but a lot of pastors sometimes think
17:25 if they say something bold from the pulpit,
17:28 that no one's gonna have their back,
17:29 and they're afraid of that.
17:30 And so I tell guys all the time,
17:32 whatever the issue is within your church,
17:33 just to tell them, pastor, if you decide to go,
17:36 if you decide to draw a line in the sand
17:39 on the subject of abortion, or pick an incendiary topic,
17:43 I will be standing on the side of the line where you are,
17:45 I will back you up, I will protect you,
17:47 I will cover you in prayer,
17:49 and, you know, cover you physically, if need be.
17:51 But I think a lot of people don't really have that,
17:53 have that in them from the church side,
17:55 but then there are also some cracks,
17:56 and I think you brought this up in your book as well,
17:58 with certain pro-life organizations,
18:00 where there's things that they could be doing
18:02 that instead they're choosing not to.
18:04 I don't think that's very indicative of live action
18:06 in what you've built, Lila.
18:07 But there is a quote from chapter 16
18:09 that I'd like to get a little bit more context on and insist.
18:12 What troubled me more than death threats
18:13 was hearing some leaders of like-minded organizations
18:16 say behind closed doors that they couldn't support our efforts
18:19 because the time wasn't right yet.
18:21 Leaders who didn't seem to think
18:22 that defunding the abortion industry was even possible,
18:25 at least not for years or even decades.
18:28 These should have been our allies.
18:29 Instead, they were becoming obstacles.
18:31 They had other agendas,
18:33 and defunding Planned Parenthood wasn't one of them.
18:35 It seemed to me that for some of them,
18:37 the time would never be right.
18:39 And so from the outside looking in,
18:41 you live this fight, you know, every minute of every day,
18:43 I feel like that quote is indicative
18:45 of a lot of pro-life organizations.
18:47 And I guess the question is,
18:48 is it because if abortion is criminalized,
18:51 then that organization won't have any power anymore,
18:54 and there won't be anything to fundraise against it?
18:56 You know what I mean?
18:57 - Yeah, I've heard that complaint.
18:59 You know, what I really think it is,
19:00 is it's just getting that normal, like that inertia,
19:04 like being unafraid to push the envelope,
19:06 being afraid to push the envelope,
19:07 being afraid of leaving the comfort zone,
19:09 getting so used to business as usual,
19:11 that you're afraid of trying something different
19:14 because business as usual sometimes has worked.
19:16 And listen, live action can fall into this.
19:18 Any organization, any individual,
19:20 any activist can fall into this.
19:22 You start out strong, you're an activist,
19:24 you're doing stuff, and then you're like,
19:25 oh, you keep doing it,
19:26 and you kind of get comfortable with what you're doing,
19:28 and you keep doing it,
19:29 and then someone else says, what about this?
19:30 Maybe you should try this and say it's more effective,
19:32 or it's smarter, or it's better,
19:33 and you're like resistance, you're resistant to the change.
19:36 So I wouldn't go as far as saying,
19:37 oh, they personally are just trying to keep their jobs
19:40 as much as they're just fearful
19:43 of being uncomfortable, which again goes back to,
19:46 we have to always allow ourselves to be uncomfortable.
19:48 We should never get comfortable in our activism,
19:50 we should never get comfortable
19:52 in the demands politically that we're making.
19:55 And so when I was demanding,
19:56 we gotta defund Planned Parenthood,
19:58 they were comfortable with saying,
19:59 oh, we should ban partial birth abortion.
20:02 That maybe will save a few hundred children a year,
20:05 thanks be to God, and even then,
20:06 they'll just change the abortion procedure
20:08 and kill the baby a different way,
20:09 and not a single child was saved, right?
20:12 But that was like their big thing.
20:13 That was the big thing.
20:14 It's like, let's think bigger.
20:16 What about banning all abortions?
20:18 Why are we just gonna ban a few?
20:20 Let's go for them all, go for broke.
20:22 That's what the movement should be focused on actually.
20:24 And so to this day, live action internally,
20:28 the bigger we get, the harder you can fall.
20:31 So as we get bigger and big is good, big is strong,
20:33 but as we get bigger, it's like, look,
20:35 we gotta keep the edge.
20:36 Keep the edge of what are we really fighting for
20:38 and be willing to risk and get uncomfortable to achieve it.
20:40 So that's sort of how I diagnosed
20:42 that sort of comfort zone activism,
20:45 comfort zone pro-life work.
20:46 And I think anybody can fall into it,
20:48 including myself, including live action,
20:50 if we're not willing to stay uncomfortable.
20:53 And so that I think is the denominator and those leaders,
20:56 they were just same old business as usual,
20:59 but business as usual wasn't enough.
21:02 It wasn't solving.
21:03 Planned Parenthood was getting more money than ever.
21:05 So it's like, we gotta switch it up.
21:06 And so I have a chapter called Pivot,
21:08 which is about switching your strategy
21:10 to make it more effective.
21:12 Don't get used to whatever you've been doing in the past,
21:14 'cause you've always done it.
21:15 Switch up your strategy, keep trying new things
21:18 to push the envelope to be effective.
21:20 And I'm still doing that today.
21:22 The game's not over.
21:23 The fight is on.
21:25 We have so much more work left to do.
21:26 - Well, I think the way he said is comfort zone activism.
21:29 That's kind of like jumbo shrimp.
21:31 Those things do not work together.
21:33 Both of those things could not be the same thing.
21:35 But I was gonna go into this a little bit later
21:37 in the podcast, but you mentioned it,
21:39 so I wanna go ahead and go there.
21:40 I feel like there are a lot of half measures being done.
21:44 And then a half measure is done, a bunch of morons clap,
21:47 and then we go on about our regular life.
21:49 So we celebrate heartbeat bills,
21:51 but some abortions take place before the heartbeat.
21:53 And you've detailed cases.
21:55 I've heard other cases detailed of Planned Parenthood
21:57 doesn't want to find the heartbeat.
21:59 And so you can manipulate what's going on in the room
22:01 to where you don't find a heartbeat, right?
22:03 And we celebrate states that are born
22:05 that say you can't do an abortion
22:07 for the listed reason of Down syndrome.
22:09 But a woman could just as easily say
22:11 that they want an abortion for literally any other reason,
22:13 and they can get it.
22:14 It can be granted to them.
22:15 You saw the LA Times article from,
22:18 as I was listening to this,
22:19 it will have been a couple of weeks ago saying,
22:21 a woman shouldn't have to give a reason.
22:22 They should be able to get an abortion for any reason.
22:24 So I think this begs the question, Lila,
22:26 which is should we still be trying these half measures
22:29 legislatively, or should we only want
22:32 the full criminalization of the practice of abortion?
22:35 - Yeah, so the end game and the focus
22:37 needs to be full criminalization, 100%.
22:40 So live action, we'd say two things.
22:42 Full legal protection and defund all abortion.
22:45 Like those are the two,
22:47 if you're gonna come to me for political strategy advice,
22:49 I say defund any, even including hospitals,
22:52 anybody that does abortions,
22:53 and then full legal protection of children, period.
22:57 Will we still celebrate a heartbeat bill?
22:59 Like if I see legislators doing a heartbeat bill
23:02 in a state that there wasn't one,
23:03 do I think that that is better
23:05 than what was there before?
23:06 Yes, am I gonna tell them,
23:07 okay, stop there, you're good.
23:09 Congrats, you did it, no.
23:11 So I think it's a nuance.
23:12 I think we do have to celebrate people working really hard
23:17 and doing important things that can save lives,
23:20 but I think we need to focus the end game, right?
23:22 Like you said, the end game is total criminalization,
23:24 complete legal protection,
23:26 and that needs to remain the focus.
23:27 So I think it's a both and,
23:29 and there's a lot of strategies and different philosophies
23:33 and legal theories and all this stuff,
23:35 but at the end of the day,
23:36 and I was just doing an interview
23:38 about the Supreme Court,
23:40 the Supreme Court pays attention.
23:42 You know, the whole question is,
23:44 where's the country trending?
23:46 And when we see states doing total abolition
23:49 or working towards total abolition,
23:51 heartbeat bill is the closest beyond,
23:53 you know, except for total abolition,
23:55 but it's definitely better than 20 week ban, right?
23:57 It's definitely better than, you know,
23:58 Born Alive Survivors Act to save the child
24:00 if it survives the abortion attempt, right?
24:01 Just those kids, when the Supreme Court sees the hard core,
24:05 you know, we mean business as a movement,
24:08 that makes, first of all, that affects hearts and minds,
24:10 but that does affect legal theory
24:12 that can lead to overruling Roe.
24:14 And so I do think, you know, to your point,
24:16 we got to focus end game on where it really should be,
24:18 which is personhood, right?
24:20 It's acknowledging the child just like anybody,
24:22 any other person under the law, treat the same,
24:24 you know, murder is criminalized,
24:26 each state handles that differently,
24:27 let them handle it and make sure
24:29 that those children aren't protected, but yeah,
24:32 I mean, it goes back to what are we asking for?
24:35 What are we asking for as a movement?
24:37 One of the live actions, future pivots, you know,
24:39 we've done a lot on education, changing hearts and minds,
24:41 we're gonna be launching a very robust political program
24:44 in the next two, three years
24:46 that will be aggressive on complete legal protection
24:49 because I've, you know, been dissatisfied
24:50 with our movements, half measures as you say.
24:53 Am I going to, you know, not say a half measure
24:56 is better than no measure?
24:57 No, but that means I'm gonna do my job, right?
25:00 Work to position my organization
25:02 that I can contribute and lead.
25:04 So I think that the bottom line is,
25:06 I've just long kind of long-winded it,
25:07 the bottom line is don't just complain.
25:09 If you don't like how legal strategy is done out there guys,
25:12 go on be a better legal strategist
25:14 and put the work in, build the organization,
25:16 build the political force.
25:18 Otherwise, you know, support the best out there,
25:22 support the best out there and try to make it better.
25:24 - Absolutely, and with that,
25:26 you kind of touched on it a little bit.
25:28 But as we sit here right now,
25:29 and by the time this is released,
25:30 maybe things have moved a little bit of,
25:31 as we sit here right now,
25:33 there are current bills for equal protection
25:35 for all humans in the states of Oklahoma,
25:38 my state thankfully, South Carolina, Texas and Arizona, right?
25:41 And that means the criminalization of abortion,
25:44 not the regulation of it.
25:46 But just to be honest,
25:47 and this is a little bit of my ignorance,
25:49 I can't find a lot of details on these,
25:51 and I can't find counter arguments
25:53 of whether or not these bills are just posturing
25:56 because people do that all the time.
25:57 They write a bill that knows gonna get killed in committee,
25:59 but they can at least put it on a bumper sticker
26:01 or a commercial.
26:02 But what are your thoughts on those bills
26:04 that are currently working through the system
26:05 in Oklahoma, South Carolina, Texas and Arizona?
26:08 - Well, and they have to be written intelligently.
26:10 You know, I would have to read,
26:12 you know, I don't know the latest version.
26:13 I've seen some of these bills.
26:14 I've seen some that were written poorly
26:16 and some that are written intelligently.
26:17 And what I mean by that is, you know,
26:18 when pro-abortion activists say,
26:20 "Oh, you're gonna criminalize miscarriage."
26:22 Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, right?
26:23 There's all these like complaints.
26:24 It's like, "No, of course not."
26:25 But if you're sloppy with how you write the law,
26:28 you could have, you know, an activist judge.
26:30 I don't think many of these even exist,
26:32 but let's just say theoretically
26:33 for the sake of the argument, you know,
26:35 who does something crazy
26:36 because the law was written sloppily.
26:37 So when we're working to create complete legal protection,
26:41 the laws have to be written in a really smart airtight way
26:44 to make sure that we really achieve complete legal protection
26:46 without having other weird things happen
26:48 around miscarriage or pregnancy
26:49 or things that are not intended.
26:51 So, you know, I think, you know,
26:53 there is model legislation.
26:54 I know some organizations work on model legislation.
26:57 Live action has not done that to date.
26:59 Again, we will be getting into that
27:01 because I think it's a need in the movement.
27:03 There's not enough of it being done.
27:05 But I would say, you know,
27:06 that's a great question moving forward.
27:09 You know, what is the,
27:11 who is doing it the best of those states?
27:13 I can't answer that right now.
27:15 Who has the best legislation?
27:16 I think Alabama has had really good, you know,
27:19 I've seen good things out of Alabama
27:21 for the legislation that they've tried.
27:23 But I think there's ultimately, you know,
27:25 I think there's a lack of leadership at the national level
27:28 for what does the state,
27:30 what does the ideal state legislation look like?
27:32 So that's a great opportunity, maybe someone listening.
27:34 They're like, that's a calling for me.
27:35 I know it's something live action
27:36 will be working to address, you know, soon
27:38 as we pivot yet again from education is key,
27:42 but we need more work on the political front
27:44 because there's not enough,
27:45 there's not enough focus right there.
27:46 There's not enough being done right there yet.
27:48 - Right, and so this next question,
27:50 I wasn't really planning to go there,
27:51 but you keep bringing up things that I think are important.
27:54 There's this concept of sanctuary cities
27:56 and sanctuary states.
27:57 So that's been mentioned as part of,
27:59 maybe a state can be a sanctuary state,
28:01 meaning there, we will not allow anything in this state
28:05 that, you know, lends itself to abortion.
28:07 There will be no abortions performed in this state
28:09 and basically give a big finger to the federal government
28:12 and be like, hey, we have sanctuary cities and states
28:14 that don't abide by federal legislation in law.
28:17 This is just one more thing.
28:18 What are your thoughts in terms of pro-life states
28:20 or pro-life, you know, legislators
28:22 in those states doing something like that?
28:23 - I would love to see Governor Greg Abbott, you know,
28:26 or Governor Ron DeSantis just say, nope, nope,
28:29 I'm not gonna let people kill people in my state.
28:31 Nope, not gonna have, I'm gonna call them,
28:32 call them, you know, my security forces
28:34 and we're just not gonna do it.
28:35 And just what are they gonna do?
28:36 They'll have the federal government
28:38 send in the US military to force Ron DeSantis's, you know,
28:42 you know, state, you know, authorities
28:44 to let parents kill their children.
28:47 I mean, I'd like to see that kind of, you know,
28:49 unprecedented leadership at the state level.
28:52 So to get that, to make that possible,
28:55 you've got to build a big coalition of support, right?
28:57 Behind, I mean, unless there's act of God,
28:59 a miracle of courage from that leader,
29:01 which you can pray for.
29:02 Otherwise, working in the real world,
29:04 you need to get a big coalition of support.
29:06 So again, that's another political strategy
29:09 that live actions thought about.
29:11 We're considering, we're looking at launching
29:13 a political arm for that.
29:15 If you're a donor and you're listening,
29:16 you wanna support that, we're gonna be raising money for that
29:18 and building a team for that.
29:19 But that's the kind of thing that I think needs to happen
29:22 for the tipping points politically
29:24 to really reach the end game.
29:26 And they say they're super pro-life.
29:28 So why can't they do it?
29:29 - Again, that's part of the thing.
29:31 And that really dovetails nicely into what I wanna talk about.
29:34 Next, it's an excerpt from probably
29:35 my favorite chapter in the book in his chapter 18.
29:37 But it's where we get into these people
29:38 that are very, very concerned about
29:41 what their constituents might think or say
29:43 as opposed to worrying about the people
29:44 that can't protect themselves, namely,
29:46 these babies that are in the womb.
29:47 So I wanna read these a couple of paragraphs
29:49 are separated by a little bit in chapter 18,
29:51 but I think it's fantastic.
29:51 So here, back to the book.
29:53 Those first years in DC taught me
29:55 the stark realities of politics and organization building.
29:57 We faced a decades old entrenchment
29:59 of apathy and inaction around abortion.
30:01 Yes, we were featured regularly on conservative TV shows.
30:04 We riled up activists and fired up
30:06 a few Republican members of Congress.
30:07 I met with Senate leaders.
30:08 They listened politely and agreed with me in principle.
30:11 Some even spoke with me at the press conference or rallies.
30:13 However, we also faced many obstacles.
30:15 Perhaps the biggest obstacles of all
30:17 were the desperate fear many politician leaders had
30:20 of an openly hostile media
30:21 and how the media's negative coverage of their words or votes
30:24 might impact their reputation with constituents.
30:28 And a little bit later in the chapter, you say this.
30:30 The House had the power to remove from the budget
30:32 funding for Planned Parenthood in all abortion clinics
30:34 and redirect it to authentic healthcare providers
30:37 who helped save lives instead of ending them.
30:39 Even though pro-abortion politicians controlled the Senate
30:41 and the White House, the House could refuse to approve
30:44 any budget that allowed funding for abortion clinics.
30:46 Yet, House members were afraid to do that.
30:49 If the government shut down over abortion funding,
30:51 the media would blame them and they knew it.
30:55 So Lila, in the margin of my book,
30:57 which I don't like writing in books,
30:59 it drives me nuts, it makes me feel funky, right?
31:01 I wrote who gives an F in the margin of my book.
31:05 I'll keep it PG.
31:06 But like, we're worried about what Don Lemon might say
31:09 on CNN, or we're worried about the morning show on MSNBC.
31:13 Like, you have been in those rooms and I haven't, right?
31:16 So it's okay for me to be righteously
31:17 and dignit sitting here in my studio.
31:19 But for you, what is it like when you see these people
31:22 that stand in front of their donors
31:24 or in front of their voters and say,
31:25 I'm gonna do this and I'm gonna support you
31:26 in Washington only to become a coward
31:28 the moment they get there?
31:30 - Yeah, I mean, a few thoughts.
31:32 First of all, if you get up on a table and you say,
31:34 who gives an F, which I was tempted to do
31:36 in a number of meetings, you know,
31:38 you're probably not gonna get invited back ever again
31:40 in the room.
31:41 So you gotta like, you gotta play the game enough
31:44 to be at the table, but then you have to also not care
31:47 about being at the table as your end game.
31:50 And so that's the tricky thing, you know, and again,
31:53 I haven't, we haven't succeeded yet.
31:55 So I'm talking about someone who's had some victories,
31:57 but the ultimate victory, we haven't won yet, right?
32:00 I'm still figuring it out how to get there.
32:02 And you know, I have a lot of ideas,
32:03 the political arm we're planning to launch will,
32:05 you know, have some great strategies.
32:06 But we're not there yet, as you know, Kyle,
32:08 we have not achieved protection.
32:10 You know, there's children being killed today,
32:11 2,363 children today killed.
32:15 So ultimately, you gotta play the game enough
32:20 to move the pieces while still thinking outside
32:24 of their game, because they're used to certain rules
32:27 that you can't win with, because the rules were set up
32:30 by the opposition, right?
32:32 The opposition set up the playing field right now.
32:34 The opposition said, Oh, you have to, you know,
32:38 you gotta have the media like you, right?
32:40 The opposition said, Oh, you need to, you know,
32:43 always permit some abortions because of Roe v Wade, right?
32:46 The opposition says, you know, if you do this,
32:48 then you're not gonna be elected anymore.
32:50 So they're thinking in terms of what the opposition has said,
32:53 and you have to almost introduce a new paradigm
32:56 for how to think about political success.
32:59 And you know, I think that's one of the reasons
33:00 Trump was so attractive to people, Donald Trump,
33:02 because he had this like, he had to blew through paradigms
33:05 to a degree, although for four years of Donald Trump,
33:08 Planned Parenthood funding went up overall federally.
33:10 A lot of people don't talk about that.
33:12 You know, when he funded the vaccines,
33:14 they were still using aborted baby cell lines
33:17 in the testing of several of the coronavirus vaccines.
33:20 I mean, so there were things that were done,
33:21 which like that's not good enough, right?
33:23 So it's a work in progress.
33:26 It's meeting people where they're at and urging them on
33:28 and pushing them on and prodding them on.
33:30 But I think ultimately the end game, again,
33:32 is to step outside of the system, to say, okay,
33:34 we're gonna build our own candidates.
33:37 We're gonna get behind our own, you know,
33:38 the kind of governor who would just say, no,
33:41 I'm shutting down our abortion clinics, sorry, not happening.
33:44 Again, what's the federal government gonna do
33:45 send in the U.S. militia?
33:46 Like, what are they gonna do?
33:47 We have to think really, really big here.
33:50 And we have to stop playing the games
33:52 we've been playing for the last 40 years.
33:53 I think ultimately that's the future
33:56 of achieving victory as a movement.
33:59 It's gonna be hard.
34:00 It's gonna take time.
34:01 It's gonna take building coalitions
34:03 that are bigger than we've had before.
34:05 But we gotta do it.
34:06 And I think we're gonna do it.
34:08 And I think we're positioned to do it.
34:09 You know, I think the movement, you know,
34:11 the urgency you feel, how do people feel it?
34:13 But they're looking for leaders.
34:15 They're looking for people who are willing
34:16 to push the envelope politically.
34:18 And so, you know, as we get those leaders,
34:21 I think a lot of people are gonna wanna follow
34:22 and support them.
34:24 - Absolutely.
34:25 And that's why we will continue to follow organizations
34:26 like yours and make sure that your information is out there
34:28 as you do pivot because that is very important
34:30 to the continued fight that we all face.
34:32 One thing, and this is kind of getting a little bit granular,
34:35 but this has come up for me and it's come up with me
34:36 even with discussions of people at church.
34:38 Towards the end of your book,
34:39 you talk about how abortion is never medically necessary.
34:43 Okay?
34:44 And now whenever I've said that to people,
34:46 they look back at me like I just said,
34:48 the moon is made of cheese.
34:49 Like they can't like fathom they're like,
34:52 that's your lying to me.
34:53 Why would you say something like that?
34:55 But specifically, even in high risk situations,
34:58 that is the truth, but from your perspective,
35:01 just give my listeners the words to say.
35:03 So when someone's like, you know,
35:04 well, what about the life of the mother?
35:06 You know, what about in that situation?
35:07 And they respond, abortion is never medically necessary.
35:10 And then they get the normal pushback.
35:12 What would you say to that person?
35:13 - Yeah, so first of all, just know,
35:14 there are thousands of medical professionals.
35:16 There are literally thousands of OB/GYNs,
35:19 the American Association of Pro-Life Obstetricians
35:21 and Gynecologists who say definitively
35:24 that the intentional direct taking of an innocent life,
35:27 abortion, is never medically necessary.
35:29 So this is not some like activist opinion.
35:32 This is not some, you know,
35:33 idea that somebody has in Pro-Lifer.
35:36 This is the position of thousands of medical experts,
35:38 globally too, the Dublin Declaration,
35:40 thousands of medical experts saying it.
35:42 Okay, why do they say that?
35:43 And why do so many people say it is medically necessary?
35:45 Because we have taken the shortcut
35:47 of just kill the baby if there's any issue whatsoever
35:51 because it's easier, all right?
35:53 Just because something is easier.
35:54 If you're a doctor, your patient come in,
35:56 they have, you know, coronary, you know, issues,
35:58 they have their diabetes, whatever.
36:00 Yeah, would it be easier for you as a doctor
36:02 to just kill your patient so you don't have to treat
36:03 any of the issues?
36:04 In a sense, yes, right?
36:06 You don't have any issues to deal with.
36:07 There's no problems anymore.
36:09 That's not healthcare, that's murder, okay?
36:12 So in a pregnancy that's high risk
36:15 or there's an issue with the baby,
36:16 you know, maybe the baby has a disability
36:19 or an acephaly water on the brain, something like this,
36:22 you have to work to treat the child,
36:24 treat the pregnancy to make it as healthy as possible,
36:27 treat the woman to maximize the best outcomes.
36:29 But going in and intentionally killing that baby
36:32 is not a medical treatment period.
36:34 It's akin to killing your diabetic patient.
36:37 So that's the bottom line.
36:39 You know, there's a lot of, you know,
36:41 different complications that can happen in pregnancy
36:43 in very rare cases, severe complications.
36:45 In the most severe of all complications,
36:47 in a situation with preeclampsia or something where,
36:50 you know, especially if this happens later in pregnancy,
36:52 there's some serious health issue for the mother
36:55 who ongoing pregnancy.
36:56 The doctor can often monitor that pregnancy
36:58 and choose to deliver the baby early, right?
37:01 They might be the best decision,
37:02 try to make sure the baby's pass-by ability,
37:04 maybe we'll be a pre-me, deliver that baby early.
37:07 That's not an abortion.
37:09 Early delivery with the intent to fight for that baby's life
37:12 and fight for the mom's life is not an abortion.
37:14 You're trying to save the baby's life.
37:16 And abortion is going in there and saying,
37:17 I'm gonna kill the baby first,
37:18 which is what they do in an abortion and then deliver it.
37:21 Keep in mind too, for every abortion,
37:23 you have to deliver the baby,
37:24 whether it's first trimester, second trimester,
37:26 or third trimester.
37:28 The difference with health care instead of killing
37:31 is you actually try to save that child's life
37:34 instead of killing that child.
37:36 - When I think it's very important,
37:38 and I appreciate the way that you talk,
37:39 'cause you don't use a lot of euphemisms,
37:41 which I appreciate.
37:42 I tend to be a pretty to the point person,
37:44 but it's like, no, this isn't a woman's right to choose.
37:46 This is a woman paying a mercenary to murder her baby,
37:48 so she doesn't have to, right?
37:50 Like, it's okay to say things that way,
37:52 but we have to be forceful and understand
37:53 what is actually happening in these types of situations.
37:56 And that gets back to this whole concept of fighting.
37:58 And no, we're not likening this to fighting evil overseas
38:01 or even fighting in an octagon or something like that.
38:04 But I really like how you ended your book.
38:06 This isn't the very, very end of the book,
38:07 because guys, if you wanna hear that part,
38:09 which it's fantastic,
38:10 you gotta make sure that you pick up the book.
38:11 But in the last chapter, chapter 27,
38:13 you say this towards the end of the chapter.
38:15 What is the vision for which we fight?
38:17 We fight for the innocence of all children
38:19 and the right to be loved and protected.
38:21 We fight for the sacredness of every human being
38:23 from the first moment of their existence
38:24 when God Himself designs a new, unique,
38:26 and totally irreplaceable life.
38:28 We fight for justice for the day when our laws treat
38:31 all people equally and no one is left out.
38:34 We fight for that breakthrough moment
38:35 when respect for God's justice reigns in every human heart.
38:39 We fight for the dignity of every woman and girl,
38:41 and that each one might know her worth.
38:43 We fight for motherhood and fatherhood
38:45 and for the sacredness of family.
38:47 We fight for life, for the precious gift of a life lived
38:50 as fully and abundantly as God intended here on earth
38:53 and in hope of the eternity to come.
38:56 So that seems to be the calling card of this book.
38:59 Yeah, everything crescendos with that moment,
39:02 but you're very, very intentional about calling this a fight.
39:07 Why?
39:08 - Because it is.
39:11 It's a battle against evil.
39:14 Jesus Christ dying on a cross.
39:16 He was fighting for us to the point of death.
39:19 That's the example He gave us for our sake
39:21 so that we could live eternally
39:23 and because of our sin that we wouldn't be lost to death,
39:27 lost to sin.
39:28 And we have a job to get up and follow Christ.
39:31 And He says, pick up your cross and follow me.
39:34 That takes fight.
39:35 That takes fight.
39:36 And so I just would say to anybody,
39:39 back to being uncomfortable letting our heart break,
39:42 also really focusing on what we're fighting for.
39:45 I talk a lot about family and faith
39:47 because those things are beautiful.
39:50 Who are we fighting for?
39:51 What good we are fighting for.
39:53 So keep the vision of what we're fighting for in mind.
39:55 Train yourself for the battle.
39:57 I share a lot of tips I've learned
39:58 for what that looks like, strategies, tools,
40:02 and then get in there.
40:03 It's not gonna be perfect.
40:04 You're not perfect.
40:05 I'm not perfect, but God wants us to show up.
40:07 And if we are willing to do that,
40:09 I think we can change this.
40:11 I think we absolutely can change this.
40:13 We can change this country. We've changed it before.
40:15 We can change it again for the better.
40:18 And we can make this nation one that is just
40:21 instead of permitting the destruction that we've permitted.
40:24 - Well, to that end, this is my last question of the day.
40:27 This was actually my planned last question.
40:28 And it's because I tend to be a very pessimistic guy.
40:31 A lot of people, I don't strike them as pessimistic,
40:33 but I just kind of have that tendency.
40:34 The glass always have empty.
40:35 I don't know, I need some rewiring there.
40:38 But I'm also very pessimistic specifically
40:41 about abortion ever being completely banned
40:44 and criminalized in the United States.
40:46 I'm hopeful for some of the things in individual states,
40:49 but I'm a very pessimistic guy.
40:51 Am I crazy to think that that's never gonna happen?
40:54 Am I just having a lack of faith help me here?
40:57 - Yeah, I mean, I'm a student of history.
41:00 I talk a lot about history in the book.
41:02 You look at history, some of the darkest moments,
41:04 both in our country and globally.
41:05 And there was plenty of reason for pessimism, right?
41:09 Hitler was on the move, he was taking over swaths of Europe.
41:13 The United States was being crushed in so many ways.
41:16 There was nuclear warfare, there was the axis of evil.
41:20 People really thought this might be the end of the world for us,
41:22 especially with the nuclear war that was seen imminent
41:26 with the Soviet Union and the horrors going on in the Soviet Union.
41:29 There've been so many times globally.
41:31 When it looked like D-Day was here, like the global D-Day,
41:34 and it was gonna be game over soon.
41:36 And in our history, there were so many people, Kyle.
41:40 I studied this in college, and I continued to study it
41:42 as a grew-live action, and I talk a little bit about this
41:44 in the book, who said it's impossible to eradicate slavery.
41:48 This is an institution that goes back thousands of years,
41:50 and it did, it went back thousands of years.
41:53 It is impossible to eradicate.
41:55 It's just too entrenched, it's economically necessary.
41:59 Racism is natural, and even, you know, God forbid,
42:02 they would say God-given, like there would be this,
42:04 you know, Christian emphasis for it among some very corrupt pastors,
42:07 and it was just so entrenched.
42:09 And it wasn't until people said who dared to believe differently.
42:14 And I think that is a fighter.
42:15 A fighter dares to believe differently.
42:18 They refuse to accept defeat.
42:20 They refuse to accept no for an answer,
42:22 and they get up, and they keep fighting,
42:24 even when all seems lost, and God can do anything
42:26 with a fighter like that.
42:28 So be a fighter like that, because God has the ultimate victory
42:32 to hand us, if we are willing to get up and meet Him,
42:35 and have the hope in our hearts that He wants to give us.
42:38 - Well, I certainly appreciate that sentiment,
42:40 and I can't think of a better place to leave it.
42:41 I appreciate you letting us dig so much into the details of your-
42:44 - And fight with hope.
42:45 - Yeah, fight with hope.
42:46 You can't leave that one out of it.
42:47 - And I'll say one more thing.
42:48 No, one more thing.
42:49 When you're fighting, be a cheerful warrior.
42:51 You know, if you're fighting Kyle, we're fine fighting.
42:53 I'm like, we're never gonna win, but I'm gonna still fight.
42:56 Nah, that's not how you become a champion.
42:59 You go in the fight and you say, we are gonna win.
43:02 We are just gonna win.
43:03 Oh, by the way, we have God, truth, and love on our side.
43:05 How can we not?
43:06 So we are gonna win, okay?
43:08 So go in there with the winning spirit,
43:10 and watch how it infects people.
43:12 Watch how your hope and your optimism infects people.
43:15 - Absolutely.
43:16 And hopefully you didn't mean that I sound like that,
43:18 'cause I don't literally sit there and stop my feet.
43:20 Is that okay?
43:21 - No, I know.
43:22 - You know, I was a little key dig.
43:22 I'm okay with it.
43:23 I can accept it.
43:24 But no, I really do appreciate that sentiment a lot.
43:27 We've talked about a lot of the details of the book.
43:29 I was glad we were able to get into some of those details,
43:31 but that is all for me.
43:32 Is there anything else you wanna get off your chest?
43:34 - Thank you.
43:35 Thank you for being a strong leader and for speaking out.
43:39 So boldly on this, it's necessary.
43:41 And I just hope folks listening will be inspired,
43:43 encouraged by the book and join the fight.
43:45 If you're already in it, be equipped and encouraged.
43:47 And if you're not in it, please join.
43:49 - Lila Rose, thanks for coming back
43:51 on Undaunted Life on Man's Podcast.
43:54 - Thanks for having me.
43:55 (upbeat music)
43:57 - There you go, guys.
44:00 I hope you enjoyed my second conversation with Lila Rose.
44:02 And I can pretty much guarantee you
44:03 that that will not be the last.
44:05 Before we let you guys go,
44:06 we are gonna do a quick resilience boost.
44:07 As you know, by now at Undaunted Life,
44:09 our mission is equipping men to push back darkness
44:11 by providing content that forges spiritual,
44:13 mental and physical resilience.
44:15 So the resources we've got for you today,
44:16 we've got a link to the book that we talked about,
44:18 fighting for life, becoming a force for change
44:20 in a wounded world.
44:21 Now guys, you can buy this anywhere as of today.
44:23 So go support local bookstores,
44:25 support Thomas Nelson who is actually publishing this book,
44:27 support them any way that you can.
44:29 Also, I've got a link to the live action website
44:31 and a link to the Lila Rose Show.
44:32 That is her podcast.
44:33 All right guys, thanks so much for listening to this episode.
44:35 Wherever you're listening to this,
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44:55 And we want to thank the band August Burns Red
44:57 for allowing us to use their entire music library
44:59 for our content.
45:00 The intro outro track on this podcast
45:02 is their song Defender,
45:03 which is off their latest record entitled Guardians.
45:05 The links are in the description.
45:07 I'm your host, Kyle Thompson.
45:09 Remember, keep pushing back darkness,
45:12 keep forging spiritual, mental and physical resilience.
45:16 Keep seeking the lion of Judah.
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45:23 ♪ My voices say that you're out that way ♪
45:28 ♪ My need to defend us ♪
45:32 ♪ Open and pray ♪
45:34 ♪ Make more peace ♪
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