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189 - JUSTIN BRIERLEY | Unbelievable Conversations About Belief

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189 - JUSTIN BRIERLEY | Unbelievable Conversations About Belief
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In this episode, I sit down with Justin Briarley, the host of the Unbelievable podcast, to discuss his journey of moderating debates between Christians and atheists for over a decade. We dive into his book, the importance of dialogue in faith discussions, and the challenges of remaining neutral while advocating for truth.
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0:33 - This is "On Daunted Life" a man's podcast.
0:51 I'm your host Kyle Thompson.
0:52 Let's get into it.
0:53 Our guys today, we've got a very special interview for you.
0:55 It is with Justin Briarley.
0:57 So you should have heard that name before,
0:59 because I talk about his show on my podcast,
1:02 literally all the time.
1:02 He is the host of the Unbelievable Radio Show
1:05 and podcast on premiere Christian radio over in the UK.
1:09 He's also the author of a book called Unbelievable,
1:11 why after 10 years of talking with atheists,
1:14 I'm still a Christian.
1:15 And guys, if you've heard me talk about this before,
1:17 it's been in the context of some of the best
1:20 and most polite debates you might ever see.
1:22 So this guy has spent, I think over 10 years now,
1:25 recording these interviews typically between an atheist
1:28 and a theist, but it's not just on, you know,
1:31 whether God exists or whether he doesn't.
1:32 He goes into a lot of different areas.
1:34 Like he'll go into areas of culture,
1:36 areas of race or areas of like specific minutiae
1:39 within the Bible or within theology.
1:41 But the thing about it is,
1:42 and you might find this typical because,
1:44 oh, he's English, everybody's polite over there.
1:46 But the thing is, is I've never heard more cordial debates
1:49 than the ones that he does on his show.
1:51 He is a tremendous moderator
1:53 and he's incredibly humble about it.
1:54 So I try to like poke him a little bit to let him know,
1:56 like he's actually really, really good at this.
1:59 But we really got to dig in on this podcast
2:01 on what he really enjoys about moderating,
2:05 why he enjoys moderating, why as a Christian,
2:07 he tries to be Switzerland,
2:09 he tries to just sit there in the middle of these conversations
2:11 and you know, what he does to kind of fight his urges
2:14 to want to just jump in and maybe save the Christian guy
2:17 or gal who's maybe not doing so well in the interview
2:20 or something like that, but also the book.
2:22 I thought the book was an incredibly accessible book
2:24 for most people and it's a book that,
2:26 if you're not like a big apologetics or theology nerd,
2:30 it's again, it's very accessible.
2:31 It's something that you can read.
2:33 It's something that you could even read with your kids
2:34 and get a better idea as to kind of what's going on
2:37 with some of these larger worldview topics.
2:40 And you know, it's going to be a little bit over
2:41 some of your kids' heads and most of our kids' heads,
2:43 but it just kind of is what it is.
2:44 But I really enjoyed spending time with him
2:46 because you get to go a little bit of a layer deeper
2:49 because when you're listening to his show,
2:50 he's just kind of again, the polite cordial moderator.
2:53 But in this interview, we got to dig down
2:55 in some more personal things.
2:56 So I really, really enjoyed that time.
2:57 So guys, without further ado, let's get into it.
3:00 Justin Briarly, welcome to Undaunted Life of Man's podcast.
3:05 - Thank you so much.
3:06 It's so great to be with you.
3:08 - I'm so happy you were the second guy from the UK
3:10 that we talked to.
3:11 We talked to a Welsh explorer.
3:12 So it's good to have some accents on our podcast.
3:15 And so I do want to give you the opportunity
3:18 to describe a little bit about what you do.
3:20 'Cause one of the things that I love to do on this show
3:21 is if there's an author or a show host or something,
3:24 it's always cool to hear them describe
3:26 what they've produced in their own words.
3:28 'Cause I've talked about the unbelievable radio show
3:30 and podcast a lot of times on this podcast.
3:33 I talk about it and refer people to it
3:34 as many times as I get the opportunity to do so.
3:37 But if you would briefly in your own words,
3:39 give us a rundown of what your show is all about
3:41 and why you decided to format it in the way that you did.
3:44 - Well, thank you so much for the invitation.
3:47 So I run a show and have been running a show
3:49 for, wow, 15 years actually called Unbelievable
3:53 with a question mark.
3:54 And it's all about bringing Christians
3:55 and non-Christians together in dialogue.
3:58 So it broadcasts actually on a Christian radio station
4:01 here in the UK, but it's really picked up
4:03 an international audience through the podcast.
4:05 We kind of got into the podcasting thing quite early on.
4:08 And so we actually have quite a diverse listenership
4:11 of both Christians and non-Christians across the world.
4:15 And it's very much about asking the questions.
4:18 Does Christianity make sense?
4:19 Can it stand up intellectually?
4:22 Is there evidence for God?
4:24 What about the history of Christianity,
4:26 the science and faith mix?
4:27 All of those kinds of questions we do on the show.
4:29 I sit down each week with different people
4:32 on both sides of these questions to debate them.
4:34 And yeah, it's been great.
4:37 It's been a great journey for me
4:38 as I've engaged with lots of atheists especially
4:41 along the way.
4:42 So we have a lot of atheist listeners now
4:44 all over the world.
4:46 But it led eventually to me writing a book as well about that.
4:50 It's called "Unbelievable,"
4:51 why after 10 years of talking with atheists,
4:53 I'm still a Christian.
4:54 So very much my case for Christian faith
4:58 and looking at some of the arguments and objections
5:01 for and against Christianity
5:02 that I've been dealt with on the show over the years.
5:05 And the show has kind of gone off in other directions too.
5:08 We were on a regular conference in London
5:12 and we've also done a few in the States as well
5:15 over the years.
5:16 We've got a special video debate series
5:17 called "The Big Conversation."
5:19 In fact, our next one begins this Easter actually.
5:22 So the very first episode of our third season
5:25 of "The Big Conversation,"
5:26 bringing some of the biggest Christian
5:27 and atheist thinkers together
5:29 for the biggest questions in life.
5:30 That begins on Good Friday.
5:32 So yeah, that's kind of what I do.
5:35 And I enjoy it.
5:37 It's always a challenge.
5:39 It's always stimulating.
5:40 And it's just enabled me to get to know
5:43 so many interesting people over the years as well.
5:45 - Right, and that's a great primer to the things that you do.
5:47 We're definitely gonna talk more about "The Big Conversation"
5:49 in your book, which I just finished here recently
5:51 and it's fantastic.
5:52 But one thing I did wanna kind of point out,
5:54 and I'm sure people appointed this out to you before,
5:56 I remember listening to some of your episodes
5:58 from years and years ago, right?
6:00 And it seemed like at that time,
6:03 'cause you typically do one, you know,
6:05 theist guest and one atheist guest.
6:07 That's typically how it works out.
6:09 But you seemed especially keen to jump in
6:12 into the debates a little bit earlier on
6:14 in your moderation career,
6:16 especially if the Christian guest was getting buried.
6:19 Like if they just weren't doing a good job,
6:22 it's like you couldn't help yourself a little bit,
6:23 but you don't really do that anymore.
6:26 You are a tremendously and almost like painfully good,
6:29 you know, moderator.
6:30 You are the Switzerland of moderators.
6:32 And so how hard is it for you to bite your tongue
6:36 during some of these debates?
6:38 - It is hard sometimes actually.
6:40 I've got to confess.
6:40 I mean, there's very often, as you say,
6:44 if you feel like, well, either side really is getting buried,
6:47 you kind of want to kind of stand up
6:49 for them a little bit.
6:50 But I am a Christian and I bring that with me
6:52 into the studio.
6:53 It's not like I can pretend I'm not a Christian,
6:55 though I do try as far as possible
6:57 to be that neutral person,
6:59 just making sure that both sides are heard,
7:01 both sides are brought out.
7:03 But yeah, I mean, it's interesting that you say,
7:06 you feel like it was earlier on in my career
7:08 that you've heard me kind of inserting myself more
7:11 into the conversations.
7:13 I guess I've always tried to make sure
7:15 that I'd bring the guests on
7:17 who are going to make the best case on either side.
7:20 And so I don't have to do that in a sense.
7:22 I must confess, I did quite recently, you know,
7:24 insert myself into one show.
7:26 We would, I was hosting a debate between
7:29 Guy called Dan Kimball, who's written a good book
7:31 on some of the hard parts of the Bible,
7:33 some of the most controversial passages in the Bible.
7:35 And I had him on with quite a hardened atheist guest
7:38 who came in to sort of debate that.
7:39 And Danny did a great job,
7:41 but there was a point of which I felt actually,
7:44 I really wanted to step in and ask some questions
7:46 that I didn't feel Dan was quite asking
7:48 about the subject, namely sort of how as an atheist,
7:53 what do they, is it within their rights
7:57 to criticize the Bible morally,
7:59 if there is no such thing as an objective moral standard
8:01 in the first place is a kind of philosophical issue.
8:03 But I kind of went in on that
8:05 and we did a bit of back and forth
8:06 and I ended up saying, oh, I'm sorry,
8:08 I shouldn't be the one debating you.
8:09 And I kind of handed it back to Dan,
8:11 but it's, so it's still a temptation to do that
8:13 because, you know, inevitably,
8:16 if you feel something hasn't quite been addressed,
8:18 you want to sort of try and do that yourself.
8:20 But I try and avoid it when I can.
8:22 - Well, I think you do a fantastic job of it
8:24 because there are a lot of times,
8:26 and you've mentioned this before,
8:27 and I think you mentioned it in your book,
8:28 there's a lot of people,
8:29 if they listen to your show for the first time,
8:30 they're not sure what you are and what you believe.
8:33 They're not sure that you're a Christian
8:34 or you're an atheist, they don't have any idea.
8:36 And so I think that lends itself well
8:38 to some of these conversations between people
8:40 that, you know, maybe the world isn't familiar with
8:42 all the way up to the big conversation
8:44 and maybe that's a good time to transition
8:45 to the big conversation.
8:47 You've had some real heavyweights debate on there.
8:50 You've had Jordan Peterson,
8:51 which is a huge guy for this podcast, "Listenership,"
8:55 but also Stephen Pinker and John Linux
8:57 and Daniel Dennett and in season two.
8:59 And then you said you're going into season three here soon.
9:03 Let's talk a little bit about the big conversation
9:05 and where did the idea come from
9:07 to really have these sit downs
9:08 between these enormously popular people?
9:11 Yeah, yeah, well, thank you.
9:12 I mean, the big conversation really is unbelievable,
9:15 but kind of with bells and whistles on in a way
9:17 because it was actually prompted by us wanting to,
9:22 we approached the Templeton Foundation,
9:26 which is a big grant-giving body in the US.
9:29 And I'd had loads of guests on the show
9:31 who had been funded by the Templeton Foundation
9:34 and they're interested in exploring science and faith
9:37 and the big questions of life and that kind of thing.
9:40 And we went to them with this proposal.
9:42 We'd like to put together a special video debate series
9:45 where we bring some of the biggest names out there
9:47 and we put them together in studio
9:50 and ask some of these big questions.
9:51 And thankfully they said yes
9:55 and it was particularly the funding for that
9:59 that allowed us to both be able to approach
10:01 some of those bigger names,
10:03 be able to bring people over,
10:05 be able to put on live events
10:06 and be able to kind of make sure it reaches
10:08 a wide audience as well.
10:09 So that was really part of the reason
10:11 was that we would be given the opportunity
10:13 through some funding for the show.
10:14 And yeah, and I think it's also just the fact
10:18 that the show has grown in popularity appeal,
10:21 has become more and more well known.
10:22 And so in that way, we were able to kind of, you know,
10:25 get up the guts to ask some of these really big names on.
10:28 I have to confess that the Jordan Peterson thing,
10:30 it was also just a lot of good luck as well in that case
10:33 because I had been hearing about Jordan Peterson
10:37 sort of in 2017.
10:39 He'd kind of, you know,
10:40 been become known for this stand he'd taken
10:43 against the enforced use of pronouns in Canada
10:45 and that kind of thing.
10:46 And people are being emailing me.
10:49 This was before he got really big saying,
10:51 "Oh, have you heard about this guy
10:51 "doing these biblical lectures?"
10:53 Really interesting sort of secular Canadian psychologist.
10:56 So he was kind of a little bit on my radar
10:58 and as I was then preparing to invite people
11:01 for this first season of the big conversation,
11:03 I had, I met up with an American friend
11:07 in London while he was over and he said,
11:09 "You've got to get this guy Jordan Peterson on your show."
11:11 So I said, "Okay, I'll try and make it happen
11:13 "for this big conversation season."
11:15 I emailed his publisher,
11:17 I realized he's got this book coming out
11:18 called "12 Rules for Life" and the publisher says to me,
11:22 she says, "Yeah, we should be able to fit you in.
11:24 "He's actually coming over to London in January
11:26 "for a bit of promotion for his book."
11:28 So I thought, "Fantastic, we'll get him in."
11:31 Well, as the date draws closer,
11:34 she starts emailing me saying,
11:35 "Ooh, this guy seems really popular.
11:37 "I hadn't expected how popular this guy is."
11:39 And she kept trying to whittle down the amount of time
11:41 I had because he was getting asked to do this interview
11:44 and that interview and suddenly they were booking out,
11:46 these big auditoriums for him.
11:49 And so finally, but I managed to keep like at least an hour
11:52 with him and this was her debate
11:54 with an 80s called Susan Blackmore.
11:56 And we actually filmed that in early January 2018,
12:00 just before he actually went kind of stratospheric
12:02 because it was just a couple of days after that recording
12:05 that he had that infamous interview
12:07 with Kathy Newman in the UK.
12:10 - Kathy Newman. - Julie Newman, news presenter.
12:12 And then he just like, pfft, it went crazy after that.
12:15 But I'd managed to bag my Peterson show just before that
12:19 and we held onto it until we released
12:20 this big conversation later in the year.
12:22 So yeah, a lot of people have discovered the show
12:24 because of that particular show.
12:27 - Yeah, and I would say, 'cause again,
12:29 I knew that was around the time of the Kathy Newman interview.
12:31 I wasn't sure it was that close.
12:33 But again, the thing that I like about this is
12:35 these are recognizable names.
12:36 These are people's whose names you recognize
12:38 from best-selling books.
12:40 And then they're coming and they're having these very cordial
12:42 but pointed conversations about everything, you know,
12:46 who we are, how did we get here?
12:47 Where are we gonna go when we die?
12:49 Like those foundational fundamental questions.
12:51 And in your book that you mentioned from the top of the show,
12:53 you go over a lot of those questions as well.
12:55 So again, the book is entitled "Unbelievable,"
12:57 why after 10 years of talking with atheists,
12:59 I'm still a Christian.
13:00 And so I would categorize it as a very accessible
13:03 apologetics book with a few sprinkles of autobiography
13:06 in there because I feel like you bring in your story
13:08 into the book as helpful.
13:10 But I did wanna point out one thing since we have
13:12 a little bit of limited time.
13:13 In the last chapter of your book,
13:15 there's a quote that I want you to kind of elucidate
13:17 further for our audience.
13:18 And I'll read the quote here.
13:19 It also feeds into the question that sometimes gets asked
13:22 by both atheists and Christians.
13:24 Why doesn't God simply make his existence obvious
13:27 to everyone?
13:28 If he is there, why does he hide himself?
13:31 Having devoted my life to hosting hundreds of debates
13:33 on the evidence, I've come to a rather shocking conclusion.
13:37 Maybe God isn't interested in people simply believing in him.
13:41 So go a little further on that because I felt like
13:44 of all the things to extrapolate from your book,
13:46 it was the arguments you were making there.
13:49 - That's interesting, yeah.
13:50 I mean, I come across this one frequently
13:52 and it's a fair question from many atheists.
13:55 Well, if God does want us to believe in him,
13:58 why doesn't he just make it undeniably true?
14:00 Why is he hidden himself in the way that he has
14:03 if he does exist?
14:04 And yeah, I'm increasingly, I've felt actually,
14:09 as I said, as you quote there in the book,
14:11 I don't think God is simply that interested
14:13 in us simply believing in him.
14:15 I mean, the Bible says even the demons believe
14:18 and tremble, but the point is what is God actually interested?
14:22 I think what God's interested in is us trusting in him,
14:25 loving him.
14:26 And that's a lot different to just believing in him.
14:29 I can believe that there's a cup of tea here in front of me.
14:33 It doesn't really make a lot of difference to my life though.
14:36 I don't have to put any trust in this.
14:38 You've got your coffee or whatever.
14:39 But it doesn't impact me a great deal.
14:43 Simply believing in things is giving your mental assent
14:47 that something exists really doesn't make much difference.
14:50 So, you know, I sometimes come across atheists as well.
14:55 I love my atheist friends and, you know,
14:58 the vast majority of my atheist friends and people
14:59 are highly respected and they're truthsy
15:02 'cause you know, they're genuinely looking for it.
15:04 But I do sometimes find atheists who say,
15:07 look, I would believe in God if he did,
15:11 if I had X, Y, Z proof, okay, and I'm buying okay.
15:17 And would you worship that God then
15:19 is sometimes my next question if I could, you know,
15:21 give you the evidence you need.
15:23 And that's a bit of a different question
15:26 to simply believing in God because actually,
15:28 when you worship something,
15:30 you have to feel like it's worthy of your worship.
15:33 And very often, an atheist would say,
15:35 well, no, I don't think I necessarily would worship that God
15:37 because this God would also have to satisfy X, Y, Z
15:41 other moral, you know, I couldn't believe in a God
15:43 who, you know, allows this or does that or whatever.
15:46 And the point is that at some point,
15:50 it's not about simply believing in God.
15:52 It's about whether you want that God in the first place,
15:55 I often feel.
15:56 I think there's often an underlying issue going on
16:00 about whether someone even wants there to be a God.
16:03 So it's kind of almost peripheral as to, you know,
16:07 just proving that that God exists.
16:08 The question is, does that person actually want that God
16:11 to exist?
16:11 Would it make a difference to their life
16:13 if that person did?
16:15 I think there's also a point here as well,
16:17 but God doesn't want to force himself on anyone
16:20 in the sense that I think there may be a case
16:23 for saying, God, there's a reason for God choosing
16:26 to remain hidden because, you know,
16:29 it would almost like take away our choice to trust in God
16:34 if you were kind of presented with God in a way
16:37 that's completely undeniable.
16:39 It's almost as though, you know,
16:40 God would be forcing God's self on everyone.
16:43 And I think God doesn't do that.
16:45 I think God sort of invites people to trust
16:48 and invites them into a relationship.
16:50 And that is a bit different.
16:51 And if you were sort of making your existence so obvious
16:55 that it could be, it couldn't be denied,
16:57 I think that would somehow for me be a problem
17:00 for people genuinely being able to choose God
17:04 if they wanted to.
17:05 - Well, and that's the argument that C.S. Lewis makes
17:07 in mere Christianity where he talks about, you know,
17:09 a world full of automatons.
17:11 It's not a world worth creating.
17:12 And by the way, it's not coffee.
17:14 It is tea 'cause I knew I was talking
17:15 to a proper Englishman this morning.
17:17 So, but no, that totally makes sense.
17:19 But it brings up a point since we've already been talking
17:21 about Jordan Peterson.
17:22 He's been asked, you know, a million times,
17:24 do you believe in God?
17:25 You know, do you believe in, you know, a deity?
17:27 - Yeah, I asked him as well, yeah.
17:29 - Right.
17:30 And one of the best times that I feel like he gave that answer,
17:33 he got so choked up because he's like,
17:34 if you actually believe that,
17:36 can you imagine what your life would be like?
17:38 And I think for a lot of people, it's like,
17:40 they want to conveniently be able to box their theism
17:42 or atheism, categorically.
17:44 But it's like, no, no, no, no.
17:45 This is not a category of your life.
17:47 It's your life.
17:48 It's the only question because here's the thing is,
17:50 as a theist, as a follower of Jesus Christ,
17:53 if I'm wrong about all of this, you know,
17:55 I've wasted about 10% of my money.
17:57 I've wasted time going to church.
17:58 I've wasted time talking to you and reading your book.
18:00 But if you're wrong as an atheist, it's everything.
18:04 You know what I mean?
18:05 Like that, like, that's what's on the line
18:07 of one of us being wrong.
18:08 But here we go, I'm preaching.
18:09 This is your interview.
18:10 Let's move on because this is a question
18:12 from the very beginning when I knew we were going to do
18:14 this interview that I wanted to ask you.
18:15 So it's a two-part question.
18:17 So I want to know if you could hold a debate,
18:20 if you could moderate a debate between any two living people
18:24 that have not been on your show yet,
18:26 and I have a guess as to who that would be,
18:28 I want to know that.
18:29 And then I want to know the second part of the question,
18:32 if you could moderate a debate between any two people
18:35 in history, regardless of the language they speak, right?
18:38 So let's just assume you can understand what they're saying
18:40 if they, for whatever reason, didn't speak English.
18:43 So the debate between two people that are alive
18:45 that haven't been on the show yet,
18:46 and the debate of all time.
18:48 And I do have a guess for both,
18:49 but I'll let you know if I was right afterwards.
18:52 - Wow, wow, what a question, gosh.
18:54 Okay, so two living people who haven't yet been on the show.
18:58 - Yep.
18:59 - Oh, well, on the atheist side,
19:02 if it's an atheist Christian debate,
19:05 I would probably have to go for someone like Sam Harris,
19:10 maybe he's kind of been the one that got away so far,
19:14 very, very well-known atheist.
19:16 Huge, huge audience as well.
19:19 So in a way, it's partially just 'cause I'd love
19:22 to kind of tap into all those Sam Harris fans
19:24 and introduce them to the show as well.
19:26 But I think he's a fascinating person,
19:28 and I'd love to get him on the show at some point.
19:31 Who would I put him into conversation with though?
19:32 That's the big question, isn't it?
19:36 - I've had most of the kind of big Christian intellectuals
19:41 on the show at this point,
19:43 so I'd be tempted to go back to what I was looking at.
19:46 - Let's change it a little bit.
19:48 - Yeah, go ahead.
19:48 - Right, so let's change it a little bit.
19:50 So Sam Harris is your new one.
19:51 So who would you wanna put opposite of Sam Harris?
19:53 You can put anybody.
19:54 - I could put anyone, okay, all right.
19:56 I would love to hear Sam Harris maybe engage
20:00 with someone like a Tim Keller.
20:02 I think that would be a really interesting discussion
20:04 to put them together.
20:06 I think there is some fascinating other people like,
20:11 he's coming on my show soon, actually,
20:13 for this first season of the big conversation.
20:14 But Bishop Robert Barron, I think,
20:16 is a really interesting Christian thinker
20:19 with a huge audience and doing really interesting things.
20:22 So there's someone else that I think would be
20:25 a great match up for someone like Harris.
20:27 But yeah, something like that.
20:32 I don't know, would you tune in for that?
20:33 Would that be one that you'd watch?
20:37 - Of course, because one of the things,
20:38 and I wanna make sure I get the second part of the question,
20:40 the thing about Sam Harris is I feel like he's the least
20:43 genuine of the new atheist because he doesn't scream as loudly.
20:47 And so all the other ones are bombastic and rah,
20:50 and they're very aggressive.
20:51 He's not very aggressive, but he's very smug.
20:54 He's very a matter of fact.
20:56 And so not only does he come off as a dummy
20:58 because of his arguments, he comes off as a very,
21:01 very smug elitist at the same time.
21:03 And so I am not a fan of Sam Harris.
21:06 Now I do approve of some of the ways
21:08 that he takes people down, like when Ben Affleck
21:10 was jumping down his throat on the Bill Marshall,
21:13 he just dismantled him by being calm.
21:14 And so in that way, I respect him,
21:16 but I don't find his arguments to be incredibly compelling.
21:19 But so that's what you would do for the two of the people.
21:23 - There were others I was sort of on the edge of as well.
21:26 I'd love to get Steven Fry on the show.
21:30 He's a well-known character here in the UK as well.
21:32 And in a sense, has a much more of a kind of general public
21:36 know who Steven Fry is.
21:38 And I'd love to have him on because you probably remember
21:42 in that video of him kind of berating God
21:44 what he would say to God if he went to heaven.
21:47 That kind of did the rounds a few years ago.
21:49 And I've never really seen him have a proper conversation
21:51 on that, so it'd be great fun to get him
21:53 in conversation with someone.
21:54 I have approached him a few times,
21:57 but it's always a very polite reply of no,
22:01 basically, so one day, who knows, who knows.
22:05 - All right, so now we got to get to your all-time
22:08 moderation debate.
22:09 So any two people in history, you're in between them.
22:12 You got three microphones.
22:14 Who's talking?
22:15 - Okay, so maybe in recent history,
22:21 if it was an atheist-Christian matchup,
22:25 I would love to see someone like C.S. Lewis versus,
22:30 I don't know, Nietzsche, or someone like that.
22:35 Some kind of incredible, that would be like,
22:39 the debate of the decade, wouldn't it,
22:41 to two people of that kind of stature.
22:43 I mean, if I'm allowed to go even further back,
22:45 I mean, who wouldn't want to see the apostle Paul
22:48 in Athens doing his thing?
22:51 Maybe opposite one of the great Roman philosophers
22:54 or Greek philosophers, Aristotle Plato, who knows.
22:59 If I've really got my choice of any ancient figure,
23:02 that would just be extraordinary, wouldn't it,
23:04 to see that kind of a matchup.
23:07 And I love reading that passage in Acts 17,
23:11 where you see Paul debating the thinkers of the day
23:14 in Athens, because that's kind of what I feel like
23:17 unbelievable is trying to do today in our generation.
23:21 But gosh, wouldn't it have been great
23:22 to have been in the crowd that day and see what happened there.
23:25 - Yeah, it would have been unbelievable.
23:26 I mean, I had a feeling you might say Paul,
23:28 but I really thought you would say C.S. Lewis,
23:30 because I feel like C.S. Lewis wrote about 15% of your book,
23:34 because you've called a C.S. Lewis so many times.
23:37 But as, so here's the thing, as a C.S. Lewis fan,
23:39 we have a book list on our website called 100 Books,
23:43 Every Modern Christian Man Should Read.
23:45 And we've got 15 different categories.
23:46 We have leadership and business, we have marriage,
23:48 we have money.
23:49 There's an entire section called C.S. Lewis.
23:51 He has his own section on the book list.
23:54 And so that's how important I think his writing is to us.
23:57 But yeah, I mean, a C.S. Lewis versus a Nietzsche
23:59 or a Karl Marx or someone like that,
24:02 I feel like that would have just been absolutely incredible.
24:04 But we are gonna drop down out of the world
24:06 of make believe now and come back down to the real world.
24:09 And so I feel like this question is gonna summarize
24:11 some of the other questions I wanted to ask you.
24:13 And it's, let's say this was the end of your career today.
24:16 Hopefully not, hopefully I don't get you in trouble
24:18 on this podcast so much that your career's over.
24:20 You know what I mean? Let's say today was the end
24:22 of your career and you could leave just one of your debates
24:27 that you've moderated for humanity.
24:30 So everything else that you've produced up to this point
24:33 gone in an instant, but you can leave one
24:35 that represents just and brierly, unbelievable,
24:39 premier Christian radio, whatever you wanna do.
24:41 What is that one debate that you feel like defines
24:45 what you've done up to this point?
24:47 I'm making you pick your favorite children.
24:48 - I know, I understand that. - Yeah, gosh.
24:51 Oh man, man, the trouble is actually just remembering them
24:54 all as well.
24:56 There's been like nearly 800 of them now.
24:58 So I'm kind of, I'm really struggling to think what,
25:03 what were they all and, you know, what,
25:07 I mean, there were ones that kind of, you know,
25:09 stick in the memory as really interesting,
25:12 great discussions between interesting people.
25:18 I mean, ah, this is really tough.
25:20 I mean, one of the ones I enjoyed the most,
25:22 and again, I'm probably just picking this
25:24 'cause it's happened in the last couple of years
25:26 and there were probably more if I wrapped my memory
25:30 going further back, but one of the ones I enjoyed most
25:32 was actually bringing John Lennox and Dave Rubin together.
25:36 We did that out in California in October 2019.
25:39 - Great interview.
25:40 That was great.
25:41 - Part of our big conversation season too.
25:43 And it was just very different because Dave Rubin
25:48 was so lovely, so very open and willing to basically
25:52 be grilled by me and the audience as well
25:55 in their questions.
25:56 And you just got the sense actually he was really
26:00 genuinely open to the idea that maybe there is a God
26:04 and maybe that God can be known.
26:06 And that kind of allowed us to go to a level
26:08 you don't normally go to in these debates.
26:10 Very often you do end up just at the conceptual
26:12 analytical debate level.
26:14 And there's a place for that.
26:16 That's where a lot of people are.
26:17 But it's really interesting sometimes to move beyond that
26:20 and to be able to actually say,
26:23 kind of engage more at an emotional, personal level.
26:26 And I feel that's what happened in that discussion.
26:27 And there was just, it was such an electric atmosphere
26:30 in the room when we did that thing live
26:33 with the audience there.
26:35 People were just on the edge of their seats
26:37 because there was a real sense that we were really
26:39 digging into a genuine sort of heartfelt conversation
26:45 on stuff that really mattered.
26:47 So it had an intellectual edge to it, obviously.
26:49 But it felt as much like John was really helping us
26:52 to engage some of the deepest desires
26:56 that Dave Rubin has.
26:57 And he just said some really interesting things.
27:00 He talked more than I'd heard him ever talk before
27:02 about his own spiritual journey, if you like,
27:05 where he'd gone from being sort of in the new atheist
27:08 or sort of camp to actually now essentially
27:10 rejecting the label Ateus saying that he's really
27:13 on this journey seeking.
27:13 He obviously talked at some length about the way Peterson
27:16 had influenced him as well in that.
27:18 So yeah, if I was forced to choose off the top of my head,
27:22 that might be a contender for the one to leave behind.
27:25 Well, the Irishman in me really likes the fact
27:28 that you picked one of John Linuxes.
27:30 So that was really helpful.
27:32 But I do want to, as we wind down our interview here,
27:34 there's a segment of our show that I love to do called,
27:37 "What would you say to someone that said?"
27:39 And then I fill in the blank with a statement.
27:42 And this might be a big statement,
27:43 it might be a small statement, but this is lightning round.
27:46 You have 30 seconds or less to give us your answer.
27:49 So we're going to strip away all the niceties,
27:51 we're getting just to the meat and potatoes.
27:53 So what do you say, yep for it?
27:54 - Yeah, so to remind me what I'm doing again,
27:56 I have to just insert something.
27:59 - Well, so basically, I'm going to say,
28:00 what would you say to someone that said,
28:02 oranges are the best fruit?
28:03 And you just have to give your opinion,
28:05 your answer to that in a little 30 second or less, John.
28:08 - Okay, all right, just my, off the top of my head,
28:11 immediate answer, I'll do my best.
28:14 I can't guarantee it'll make any sense, but I'll try.
28:16 Okay. - That's all right.
28:17 All right, here we go, let's try the first one.
28:19 What would you say to someone that said,
28:21 Justin Briarley is a wonderful moderator?
28:23 - I'd say, thank you very much.
28:26 I'm so glad you think that.
28:27 I don't always do a very good job,
28:29 but if you say I do, I'm very happy to accept that compliment.
28:32 - All right, what would you say to someone that said,
28:35 Justin Briarley is a terrible moderator?
28:37 - I would agree with you that often I am,
28:40 and there are many times when I've done a terrible job
28:43 of moderating debates, but please judge me in the hole
28:47 rather than by the last one you watched,
28:49 which obviously went very badly.
28:51 - That's very humble of you, but yeah, I appreciate that.
28:53 All right, let's keep going.
28:55 What would you say to someone that said,
28:57 Richard Dawkins is legitimately scared
28:59 to debate William Lane Craig?
29:03 - I'd say I think there may be some truth in that
29:06 because when we have ever invited him to debate anyone really
29:10 who's actually got the intellectual ability
29:12 to answer his issues, he's always turned us down.
29:16 And he's debated other people who frankly are easy wins.
29:21 So yes, I think you're telling the truth, sir.
29:26 I would say at that point.
29:27 - All right, Roger, that next one here.
29:29 What would you say to someone that said,
29:31 I'm not smart enough to engage in a debate
29:33 with someone about my faith?
29:35 - I'd say that's fine because ultimately talking
29:42 to someone about your faith is not ultimately
29:45 about winning an argument.
29:47 It's fine to say to someone, I don't know if they ask you
29:51 something or they challenge you with something
29:53 which you don't know, but just be truthful.
29:56 But say, I'd love to continue the conversation.
29:58 Let me go away, do some reading, find out a bit more,
30:00 and let's return.
30:02 Don't let fear stop you from continuing conversation.
30:07 And ultimately, people are just as interested in
30:09 the way you say things and the way you live your life
30:11 as your intellectual arguments as well.
30:15 - Right, I think that actually dovetails nicely
30:16 into the next one.
30:17 What would you say to someone that said,
30:19 apologists are more concerned about being right
30:22 than they are about serving people?
30:24 - I would say, unfortunately, you're probably true
30:28 a lot of the time, and it's one of the great dangers
30:30 of apologetics that we can make an idol
30:33 out of our intellectual arguments.
30:36 And ultimately, I don't think people ever are argued
30:39 into the kingdom of God.
30:40 Now, intellectual arguments dismantling some objections
30:43 may be a key part of someone's journey towards faith.
30:46 But ultimately, if the way you act towards them
30:50 isn't an example that they would like,
30:53 if what you're showing them isn't attractive
30:56 in the first place, people aren't gonna listen
30:58 to your arguments in the first place.
30:59 So I would say, yeah, we need to be people
31:01 who have good intellectual arguments,
31:03 but also lives that actually look like Jesus.
31:05 - Absolutely, just a few more here.
31:07 What would you say to someone that said,
31:09 in the end, a loving God couldn't possibly
31:12 send anyone to hell?
31:13 - I would say, yeah, I think I'd agree with that.
31:20 I don't think a loving God does send anyone to hell.
31:22 My view is that people choose it for themselves.
31:27 If there is a hell, the only reason people are there
31:30 is because they didn't want what God was offering.
31:33 And I believe in freedom.
31:34 I believe that some people choose that.
31:36 Now, it's a great mystery.
31:39 And you may think, well, why on earth
31:40 would anyone choose hell over God?
31:42 But actually, when I look around me,
31:44 I see a lot of people who choose to live lives
31:48 that are self-contained, selfish,
31:52 people who, if they were asked to bow
31:55 before anything other than themselves would struggle
31:58 to do that.
31:59 So for me, I don't believe in a God who sends people to hell.
32:03 I believe in people who choose it for themselves.
32:05 - All right, great answer, a couple more here.
32:08 What would you say to someone that said,
32:10 many people worship pastors more than they worship Jesus?
32:13 - I'd say there's probably a lot of truth in that, sadly,
32:18 because unfortunately, a lot of Western Christianity
32:22 is built kind of as a bit of a copy of the culture,
32:27 which is a very celebrity-driven culture right now.
32:30 And so that's the way often ministries and platforms
32:33 are built on a similar kind of celebrity-driven culture.
32:36 I think there are people out there with big platforms
32:39 who do use it wisely and humbly.
32:41 But unfortunately, it's very easy to fall into the trap
32:44 of following an individual rather than following Jesus.
32:47 And I think some of the most recent scandals
32:50 in the Christian world have taught us just how dangerous
32:52 that is, Ravi Zacharias and other key Christian leaders
32:55 who have fallen from grace.
32:57 It's a stark reminder that we need to be pointing people
33:00 towards Jesus and not to ourselves.
33:02 - Absolutely.
33:03 All right, Justin, the last and maybe the most important
33:06 question of the day, what would you say to someone that said,
33:09 talking with a British accent doesn't actually make you smarter?
33:13 - I would say, of course it does.
33:16 Can't you hear just how smart I am
33:18 by this amazing accent I have?
33:21 I've been told by all of my U.S. friends,
33:23 it makes me 50% smarter just speaking with this accent.
33:26 So I'm gonna claim that and I won't hear any different, Kyle.
33:30 All right?
33:31 - Hey, fair enough.
33:32 And if you need me to refer to you as sir,
33:35 Justin Briarly from now on, I can certainly do so.
33:37 And I gave you your partner over there,
33:39 Ruth Jackson, a compliment the other day.
33:41 I complimented her on her voice.
33:42 And she said, hey, people over here don't compliment my voice.
33:45 I should spend more time in the States.
33:47 Anytime either of you wanna come over and hang out with us,
33:49 we would surely love to have you.
33:51 - Yeah.
33:52 My serious answer to that though, Kyle,
33:53 is of course it doesn't make me any more intelligent,
33:56 but if it gives the impression I'll use whatever I can.
33:59 So yeah, thank you very much.
34:01 - I will absolutely take that.
34:02 Well, Justin, I really appreciate all your time
34:04 and we have gone all over the place,
34:05 but that is all for me.
34:07 Is there anything else you wanna get off your chest?
34:10 - Well, I would just say if you're interested in the show,
34:13 you can find it, you know, just search up in podcasts,
34:15 unbelievable, you should find it.
34:17 But yeah, do look out for our forthcoming season
34:19 of the big conversation.
34:20 Kicks off on Friday the 2nd of April.
34:23 You can download it on our podcast.
34:25 You'll be able to watch it
34:26 on our unbelievable YouTube channel as well.
34:29 And you can go to thebigconversation.show
34:31 to get signed up and make sure that you don't miss it.
34:34 We're kicking off with a great debate
34:36 between Bishop Robert Barron,
34:37 who's a big thinker out there,
34:39 and a well-known atheist YouTuber called Cosmic Skeptics.
34:42 So that's one not to be missed.
34:44 It begins soon.
34:46 And if you want more from me,
34:47 indeed, we've got signed copies of the book
34:50 and even a free kind of audible,
34:52 you get free audio book with an audible trial
34:54 and that kind of thing.
34:55 The easiest place to go these days
34:57 is my personal website as well,
34:58 which is JustinBriley.com to find out more.
35:01 - All right, guys, we will have all of those links
35:03 in the show notes, but for now, Justin Briarley,
35:05 thanks for coming on Undaunted Life, a man's podcast.
35:08 - Thank you, Kyle.
35:09 Great to be with you.
35:10 (upbeat music)
35:14 There you go, guys.
35:14 If you enjoyed my time with Justin Briarley, guys,
35:16 I really enjoyed the conversation I had with him
35:18 and it potentially might lead to some other interesting things
35:20 that we're gonna be doing with the unbelievable show.
35:22 So make sure you stay on the lookout for that.
35:24 But guys, before we let you go,
35:25 we are gonna do a quick, resilient boost.
35:27 As you know, by now, we are a men's ministry
35:28 and our mission is cultivating manly resilience.
35:31 And specifically, we do that by providing you content
35:33 like this podcast that helps you forge spiritual, mental,
35:37 and physical resilience and toughness.
35:38 So guys, the links I have for you today,
35:40 I've got Justin Briarley's website.
35:42 So it's just JustinBriarley.com.
35:44 I've also got a link to the Unbelievable Show website.
35:46 And then there's also an American website
35:48 so you can check that out as well.
35:49 And then there's an Amazon link to his book Unbelievable.
35:51 And then there's the big conversation website.
35:53 So guys, you should really spend some time
35:55 with those conversations because, I mean,
35:57 it's kind of in the name.
35:57 They are big conversations.
35:59 These are incredibly big topics with these huge people
36:03 that are huge in the areas that they study
36:06 and they're great intellectuals.
36:08 And it's amazing that they were able to get these people
36:10 in the same room to have these discussions.
36:12 So you should definitely spend some time with that.
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