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144 - Race In America, Part 3 - How Do We Reconcile?

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144 - Race In America, Part 3 - How Do We Reconcile?
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In this episode, we tackle the complex issue of race in America and how we can reconcile differing views. It's time to confront the uncomfortable truths and take actionable steps as men of faith to address these challenges head-on.
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0:00 This is Undaunted Life, a man's podcast.
0:20 I'm your host Kyle Thompson.
0:21 Let's get into it.
0:22 All right, guys.
0:23 Here's the thing.
0:24 I tried to get canceled two weeks in a row, but I'm still here.
0:28 Guys, aren't you just so excited?
0:30 We made it to the third part of the Race in America series, and guys, I got one more
0:34 shot at it.
0:35 I've got one more shot at the title, and I'm going to try my absolute level best to make
0:39 so many people angry in this episode.
0:41 I'm kidding.
0:42 I'm getting a little bit ridiculous.
0:43 The thing is with these last two episodes, I've been very, very pleased with the feedback
0:46 that we've gotten from you all that this content has been helpful for you.
0:50 And the reason why I feel like I'm hearing that and the feedback that I've gotten from
0:53 some people is a lot of pastors, which is even during times of COVID when a lot of you guys
0:58 aren't even going physically to church, you're still turning to your pastors to figure out
1:01 what to think about things.
1:02 You're not really getting this content from them.
1:05 So if you follow a lot of politicians or a lot of political theorists or political commentators,
1:09 you may get some of this if you read the opinion pieces or op-eds in different newspapers,
1:14 you're perhaps going to get this.
1:15 But the big thing that's so interesting is no one's really talking about this in any
1:19 level of depth.
1:20 And so a lot of guys are kind of stuck like, well, here's some of the thoughts, I think,
1:23 but is this wrong?
1:24 Or, you know, is this factually incorrect?
1:26 Or, you know, what about if this opinion is going to fill in on that opinion?
1:30 But that's the thing, guys, is today we're going to wrap up and we're going to talk about
1:33 how we reconcile.
1:34 Okay, we're going to talk about, you know, we talked about what happened, we talked about
1:38 what's really going on.
1:39 And now we're really going to talk about how we reconcile.
1:41 But I just got to urge you, you've got to listen to the other two episodes.
1:44 You have to listen to episode 142 and episode 143 because these are all built to, you know,
1:51 built on the backs of one another.
1:52 And so you can't really listen to episode two without listening to episode one.
1:55 And you can't really listen to this episode without listening to the first two.
1:57 So please stop what you're doing.
1:59 If you've made your way to episode 144, go back to episodes, start there.
2:02 You know, it's a decent chunk of content, so you're going to have to get some time for
2:06 that again.
2:07 Listen to it at one and a half or two times speed if you can stand it so that you can
2:10 get that content in.
2:11 But just going to give you a little bit of an idea of where we've gone.
2:13 This isn't going to be a full on recap of everything we've done in the first two sessions
2:17 so far.
2:18 But the first one we talked about what happened.
2:20 We talked about what happened in George Floyd.
2:22 We talked about the ratio of Brooks situation and we certainly talked about how those two
2:26 situations are very different and how a lot of different things go into those situations
2:29 and aren't really being talked being talked about in a super accurate way.
2:33 And in last week's episode, I think I recap and I said that there were three foundational
2:37 thoughts, but then I listed six.
2:39 So but there were six foundational thoughts that, you know, might make people angry to
2:42 hear, but you need to hear and those were that America's not a racist country.
2:45 The second is the declaration of independence was an abolitionist document.
2:49 The third is that there's no such thing as systemic racism in modern day United States.
2:53 The fourth is there are zero countries on the planet that are devoid of racist people.
2:56 The fifth is there's no such thing as reverse racism.
2:59 There's just racism.
3:00 And the last one was there are not two Americans basically talking about people that say, hey,
3:05 there's white America and there's black America and they're not the same.
3:07 That is silly.
3:08 That doesn't make any sense.
3:09 But last week's episode, we talked about what's really going on.
3:12 And we talked about how right now in our current context, you can't just not be racist.
3:17 You have to be anti racist.
3:20 It's a whole different level of what you have to be in order to be inside the overton window
3:24 or unable to be, you know, accepted in modern day culture.
3:27 But then we went on a deep dive into what black lives matter.
3:30 The organization is versus what, you know, obviously what the black lives matter sentence
3:34 means.
3:35 Then we got into what all lives matter means.
3:37 And then also all black lives matter.
3:39 We talked about abortion.
3:40 We talked about a lot of different things that the black lives matter organization, the
3:44 Marxist developed organization, they don't want us to look at all black lives mattering
3:49 because if all black lives matter, then they have to kind of look at themselves in the
3:51 mirror.
3:52 But then also we did talk about Marxism.
3:54 We talked about how Marxism and the things that he was thinking and writing in the 1800s
3:58 have given rise to cultural Marxism intersectionality, critical race theory and how that's kind
4:02 of informing the things that we're seeing now in this kind of postmodern world that
4:05 we live.
4:06 And the big point of that podcast was the pagan atheistic left.
4:10 So the political left, they're trying to destroy America from within.
4:14 And that does even sound, you know, whenever you hear that someone say something like that,
4:18 it sounds a little bit tin foil, Hattie, like, ah, really?
4:21 Is that really what's happening?
4:22 I bet George Soros is behind it.
4:23 But the thing is is where there's smoke, there's fire and they're literally saying it out loud.
4:28 Again, people like Representative Ilhan Omar, which by the way, any of you listening in
4:31 Minnesota, what is wrong with y'all?
4:33 How the world does someone like that get elected to high office in the United States?
4:37 That's just crazy to me.
4:39 But it's this entire worldview that requires the destruction of what we're seeing around
4:44 us currently in order to rise up and have this new perfect utopian structure, which,
4:49 you know, obviously isn't realistic.
4:50 And what we ended there, that episode at the end was the top 10 unintended slash intended
4:56 consequences of all this unrest and destruction and disintegration.
4:59 And the unintended is basically, if you're thinking like these are unintended consequences,
5:04 you're probably thinking like a sane person and the intended consequences a little bit
5:07 more on the tin foil hat side, but those 10 very quickly were people that don't know
5:10 anything about policing will be creating new and improved policing standards and practices
5:15 and new and improved as in a scare quotes, by the way, number two, the cycle of bad cop
5:19 hiring because good people don't want to be cops now is going to basically be perpetuated
5:23 in the future.
5:24 Third is that crime, especially crime that affects people of color the most is skyrocketing
5:28 across the United States, and that will continue as police stand down or actively kept from
5:32 standing up.
5:33 The fourth is real racism, racism might actually increase.
5:37 The fifth is obvious or oblivious.
5:39 People will erroneously believe that they can appease the mob.
5:42 The sixth is that people that aren't ready for retribution are poking the wrong bears.
5:46 Seven fake racism claims and hate crimes are about to go through the roof.
5:50 You know, that's true.
5:51 Number eight, the government run public schools will stop teaching our children about our great
5:54 forefathers out of fear of being branded as a racist.
5:58 The ninth is hating America will become a billion dollar industry.
6:01 Perhaps it already has been created one or become one.
6:04 And the last one is empathy field Christians are buying this Marxist critical race theory
6:08 and intersectionality nonsense hook, lying in sinker and they're calling it the gospel.
6:12 So we're going to spend a little bit more time going into that today.
6:15 But for today's episode overall, it's basically, so what in the world do we do now?
6:19 Great.
6:20 Kyle, you spent the last, you know, the last two episodes, that's, you know, couple hours
6:23 two and a half hours worth of content telling us what's going on, what's really going on.
6:27 But now we got to get down to brass tacks.
6:29 What do we do?
6:31 What do we do with that information?
6:32 Great.
6:33 What's going on in education?
6:34 And again, like I've told you in every episode so far, I'm not even getting into all the
6:37 different ancillary things, the different tertiary things that are part of what we're
6:41 seeing here because there's way too much to cover, too many things have happened.
6:44 But now we're just stuck with the question, which is, how do we reconcile?
6:48 What do we do?
6:50 As well, meaning Christians as men of God as, you know, other lion sublines in the tribe
6:56 of Judah, like what do we do at this point?
7:00 And so guys, again, I'm limited in my ability to be able to create content and I'm only
7:05 as as big as my intellect and what God allows me to say, but the best way that I could possibly
7:09 think of how to basically bring all this to a crescendo or wrap this whole thing up is
7:15 to bring you contrary ideas, but do that at the same time.
7:21 So essentially, I've got a lot of statements I'm going to go through here.
7:23 Maybe a couple dozen or so that are essentially we should not do this.
7:28 But what we should do is this kind of a situation, okay?
7:31 And guys, these aren't in any particular order.
7:34 I mean, I kind of move some stuff around after I kind of got my thoughts down because again,
7:37 I've spent the last, you know, two plus months now only really thinking about this and how
7:42 I'm going to bring this content to you in a way that is going to be meaningful and expedient
7:45 for you to be able to use.
7:47 And so I'm just going to flow with them and they're all on the macro subject of race in
7:51 America, but they are going to do deep dives into different areas.
7:54 So let's just go ahead and launch in the first one here is we should not assume that we can
7:59 fix racism.
8:02 We should, however, realize we are up against a sin nature that can only be cleansed by
8:07 God.
8:09 One of the interesting things of what I'm seeing from people on the political left or
8:12 people that are, you know, individuals that are screaming for racial justice or for us
8:17 to, you know, level the playing field on a quality for all in the Black Lives Matter
8:20 organization is I think that most of them cognitively believe that they can fix racism
8:29 that that they can eradicate racism that all of a sudden they will be able to make racism
8:35 a thing of the past.
8:36 You've even heard guys like Joe Rogan, which a lot of you guys are fans of and I'm a fan
8:39 of as well.
8:40 He's taught, he's talked about, you know, in the future, he talks about robots and how
8:43 we're just advanced apes and maybe we're going to go backwards and evolution.
8:45 He's talked about all these different things.
8:47 But at the same time, he's saying like, you know, in the future, whenever we don't have
8:50 any racism, dot, dot, dot, and it's just the fact that these people don't get it.
8:57 These are people that come from a secular worldview from a pagan worldview.
9:00 And they think that we can progress beyond racism.
9:04 And it's such a silly thought that if these people were to actually sit down and think
9:08 about that, they have to realize that there is a nature inside of human beings that that
9:13 can't be helped, there's a sin nature of the post Genesis three world that that, you know,
9:18 that welcomed sin into the world.
9:20 And I thought that this was great.
9:21 I don't remember who said this, but there was a pastor that basically was getting up
9:24 saying that you're born with sin nature and apparently some mother got up and said, are
9:27 you saying my two year old or my three year old is, you know, they're sinful and they're
9:31 bad and all these different things.
9:33 And the person basically, you know, the woman at that point is a heckler, but the guy just
9:36 handled the situation by saying ma'am, did you have to teach your kid to interrupt you?
9:42 Ma'am, did someone have to teach your kid to steal toys to be selfish?
9:48 And of course, at that point, you understand that, that there is no fixing that sin nature
9:53 by the standards that the people are thinking, right?
9:55 You have to have the intercession of God.
9:58 Like that's something that absolutely 100% has to happen.
10:01 That's not something that you can, you can take care of otherwise.
10:04 And so again, we should not assume that we can fix racism.
10:07 We should realize we are up against a sin nature that can only be cleansed by a good loving
10:11 creator God.
10:12 The next one is we should not ever apologize to the mom.
10:17 We should attempt to educate them.
10:19 But if that doesn't work, we must destroy their arguments and preferably publicly.
10:23 Again, I talked about this in the last episode.
10:25 There are people that are well meaning people that are just weak minded and weak willed
10:29 and they don't understand that the mob doesn't care if you apologize.
10:34 You can never apologize loud enough.
10:35 You can never bow low enough.
10:37 You can never do any of those things.
10:38 You will not receive retribution.
10:41 You will not receive grace.
10:42 You will not receive forgiveness.
10:44 But the thing about it is, is most of these people in the mob, they're people, right?
10:48 Some of these people, I wouldn't say that the majority of the people that are in these
10:51 mobs are so on the, on the extreme side of the, of being a zealot that they're unable
10:56 to be reasoned with.
10:57 Now there certainly are some and obviously just go to YouTube and you will see plenty
11:01 of that.
11:02 Just go to any time a, a conservative speaker is invited to a college campus or you know,
11:06 anything that we saw in Chaz Chop, all those different things, a lot of these people just
11:09 lack education.
11:11 You know, I saw a, an unbelievable stat and I can't, I can't remember it exactly off
11:16 top of my head.
11:17 So I don't want to say it incorrectly.
11:19 But basically the generation, like basically if you're in your thirties or forties, what
11:23 you think about America and what teenagers and early twenties people think about right
11:27 now in terms of what they think about America, it's getting so much worse because these people
11:32 in the public school systems and in their colleges, they're being steeped in this, this
11:37 ridiculous version of history of American history that we were just basically, we're
11:41 a racist nation, history started in 1619, you know, not at 1776, like it's those types
11:47 of things.
11:48 And the thing about it is is most of these people just need a real education and that's
11:51 one thing for me as a father, now that I'm a father, I'm already thinking about and trying
11:54 to figure out which books that I'm going to make sure that the kid reads in which documentaries
11:58 we watch and which movies that we watch that are going to teach them about the founding
12:01 fathers and teach them everything about the founding fathers, teach them about the, about
12:04 American history, teach them about World War II and the things that we were able to do,
12:08 the things that we were able to accomplish as a country that made us so great, right?
12:13 But the thing about it is, as I'll repeat it here now, we should not ever apologize to
12:17 the mob.
12:18 We should attempt to educate them, but if that doesn't work, we have to destroy their arguments
12:21 preferably publicly.
12:22 We need people to see that their arguments cannot stand on their own merits.
12:25 The next one here is that we should not provide so-called reparations to black people in
12:30 the United States, but we should be realistic about our ability to right wrongs.
12:35 Okay, so here's the thing, black lives matter and many other groups think that the United
12:40 States should provide reparations to all black people in America, even those that are not
12:46 descendants of African slaves brought over to the United States.
12:50 I didn't make that up.
12:51 That is something that they actually believe.
12:52 So if you're Jamaican and you're in the United States and you weren't part of the African
12:55 slave trade, no one in your ancestry was, doesn't matter.
12:58 You get reparations.
12:59 Nigerians that are over here now, it doesn't matter.
13:01 Aborigines that look black, doesn't matter.
13:03 You all get reparations.
13:05 The problem, the big problem here with any person or group that fights for reparations,
13:10 it's immediately when you ask them how it will work, when you are trying to get down
13:15 to the specifics and saying, hey, how is this going to work in real life?
13:18 How is this going to work in practice?
13:20 Okay, because there are things that you must demand that pro reparations people, people
13:25 making that argument, you must demand that they explain these things.
13:28 And they're not in any particular order, but here's a lot of questions that I've wondered
13:31 about the reparations argument that no one can seem to answer.
13:34 One, do all white people, no matter what, have to pay their reparations?
13:40 And on the same thing, do all black people, no matter what, get to receive reparations?
13:45 Okay, got to answer that?
13:47 Also, what is an appropriate amount to pay each black person?
13:51 You know, what's an amount of money or amount of land or capital or investment?
13:57 That's the right amount to pay each black person.
14:00 Another one, how long will the reparations be paid out for?
14:04 Will the payments continue with each successive generation of black people that are born
14:08 in the United States?
14:09 Will it just continue at if an item or is it something that there's an end date for?
14:14 You got to answer that.
14:15 The next one is, will whites have to pay a set amount to black people or will that change
14:21 based on the net worth of the white person or the black person?
14:25 Does the fact that they're, you know, poor or, you know, well off, does that mean anything?
14:30 Next one, if a black person in America is not a descendant of a slave, do they get reparations?
14:36 Got to make sure you answer that one.
14:38 Next one, if a white person can prove that no one in their family tree ever owned an African
14:43 slave in America, do they still owe reparations?
14:47 Got to have some sort of an idea of that.
14:49 The next one is, will the white side of any white black interracial married couple, oh,
14:55 the black side of the white black interracial married couple reparations?
15:00 You know, I mentioned a couple of podcasts ago that my mom is married to a black guy.
15:04 Does she owe him reparations?
15:06 Like does she just like walk it across the house and hand it to him while he's sitting
15:09 in the chair?
15:10 Another one is this, is what if you are just part black?
15:13 Do you get partial reparations?
15:16 What if you were just part white?
15:17 Do you only pay partial reparations?
15:21 What about blacks that are descendants of black slave owners?
15:24 Yeah, there were black slave owners in the United States and in Africa.
15:28 What if they're descendants of those people?
15:30 You know, what kind of reparations do they owe or will they receive?
15:34 What about blacks that are descendants of black slave traders?
15:38 That's something a lot of people don't like to talk about, but there were a lot of people
15:41 that were going and rounding up, you know, there were African tribes that were rounding
15:44 up members of rival tribes and selling them to white people and sending them off into
15:49 slave trade, right? they were, they were getting rich off of creating slaves out of someone
15:52 that looked like them that had the same amount of melanin as them.
15:55 You know, what do we do with those people, the descendants of those people rather?
15:59 What about this?
16:00 Will rich black people still be entitled to reparations?
16:04 So do, do I have to give reparations to Oprah, to Michael Jordan, Kanye West, Will Smith,
16:11 do I owe reparations to these people?
16:14 Here's another one.
16:15 Are whites, you know, the ones that are with all that melanin privilege, all that white
16:19 privilege, do they still have to pay reparations?
16:22 You know, there's someone that's literally below the poverty line, but they're white.
16:26 Do they have to pay reparations, regardless?
16:29 And here, here's another one is, can the reparations extend out beyond the African slave
16:34 trade in America?
16:35 Because again, we have to take this to its logical conclusion.
16:38 Can it extend out beyond that?
16:40 So here's the thing.
16:41 Here's a great question for me.
16:42 I'm Choctaw Indian, I have Choctaw Indian blood in my veins.
16:46 Can I demand reparations from the tribes that enslaved my ancestors?
16:53 And could they ask the same of me?
16:56 Can all those other nations that Choctaws made slaves of?
17:00 Can they come to the Choctaw nation of which I'm a part and ask for reparations?
17:05 Here's the other thing.
17:06 What about if my Choctaw ancestors participated in shadow slavery in the American South?
17:11 Do I have to like pay double reparations?
17:14 Because I was enslaved by other tribes, you know, my people were enslaved by other tribes.
17:18 And also, we were part of that in the American South where we also had black slaves.
17:23 Is that like double bad?
17:24 I mean, here's the other thing, since I'm Irish, a lot of me is Irish, can I demand reparations
17:28 from England?
17:29 Now, it's a dubious point, and it's a dubious claim that the Irish were enslaved by the
17:32 English.
17:33 You know, there's, there's evidence that goes both ways.
17:35 Some look at it as a conspiracy theory, but let's even take it back all the way to Celtic
17:38 times.
17:40 At some point in my family tree, because I'm mainly an Irish and Scottish mutt, my people
17:44 were taken slave by somebody.
17:47 Can I figure out who those somebodies were and go to those countries and get my reparations?
17:53 And guys, I really could keep going, but I'll save you.
17:55 Do you see the problem?
17:58 The reparations argument is just for show, you guys.
18:00 It's for posturing.
18:01 Like, it could never work in real life.
18:04 Even people like Ta-Nehisi Coates, like he's written this entire, you know, book or pamphlet
18:09 on, on reparations and then when it gets to the end, when it's like, can we actually
18:12 do this?
18:13 He's like, yeah, I don't really think so.
18:14 I don't really know how we would actually make that happen.
18:15 It's like, what exactly are we talking about them?
18:18 Like, like why are we having this discussion?
18:20 So it's disingenuous, but I do like this was a few weeks ago, Jeff Durbin was pointing
18:24 this out on his podcast that what if white Americans said to Japanese Americans?
18:29 So current Japanese Americans, if we said to them that we wanted them to kneel before
18:34 us and apologize for the past sins because some of their ancestors may have been involved
18:41 in World War II, World War II, and may have tried and or did kill white American soldiers.
18:49 What if we demanded that of Japanese Americans?
18:53 Just think about that.
18:55 That sounds pretty ridiculous, doesn't it?
18:57 Well, then tell me how that is fundamentally different than a black person telling a white
19:01 person that they owe them reparations in 2020.
19:05 Because here's the thing guys, in case you needed this spoiler alert, I have never personally
19:10 owned slaves.
19:11 Ever.
19:12 I know it might seem incredibly surprising with all my white privilege, but I've never owned
19:15 a slave in my entire life.
19:18 No one in my family tree that I've ever met has owned a slave and no one in my family
19:25 tree has ever owned an African slave in America.
19:28 I can pretty much guarantee it.
19:31 Again, Irish and Choctaw, India.
19:34 I don't know.
19:35 You crap.
19:36 I don't know anybody, anything.
19:38 Okay.
19:39 Now, there are people that are on the other side of this argument that says, well, scripture
19:44 provides us a biblical basis for reparations.
19:47 So we need reparations.
19:48 You're right and you're wrong.
19:50 Because guys, if you go to Exodus and Leviticus, so Exodus 21 versus 33 through 36, and then
19:55 it continues in chapter 22, verses one through 15, talks about reparations in Leviticus chapter
20:02 five, verses 14 through 19, it talks about reparations as well.
20:05 But here's the big key, the big key about people making that argument is the Bible does
20:10 describe reparations, but specifically they describe reparations or restitution and how
20:15 it's to be paid to a specific person, the person who was wronged, the person who is owed
20:24 restitution, whose owed reparations.
20:27 Now, there are some more liberal scholars, biblical scholars that argue that you could
20:32 actually broaden that out to include a specific group.
20:36 But even then, the reparations argument doesn't work because it would be talking about a specific
20:41 group of people that was wronged.
20:45 Because you know what I can't do as a white person, even if I had all the guilt in the
20:48 world in my heart over American slavery and all those different things.
20:52 And if we could prove that actually, you know, my great, great, great grandfather was the
20:55 biggest slave owner in Georgia or whatever situation may be, even then, I do not owe
21:02 reparations to anybody because I am not the one that sinned.
21:07 You know, what I feel this tremendous desire to, you know, try to find descendants of slaves
21:12 that my great, great, great grandfather owned and talk to them about that and say how, how
21:17 I'm sorry that that happened to them and all those different things.
21:19 But I don't owe them anything because I can't square that circle for them.
21:24 I can't pay that debt.
21:27 So again, the reparations argument is absolutely, absolutely ridiculous.
21:30 Again, we should not provide so-called reparations to black people in the United States or anywhere.
21:35 But what we should do is be realistic about our ability to right wrongs.
21:39 And here's the thing, guys, is we can't really right wrongs that happened in the past from
21:43 our ancestors that we never met and probably don't even know their names.
21:46 So next one here is we should not allow people to treat the government as daddy and we should
21:52 demand that fathers be fathers.
21:54 So here's the thing, guys, every sociological study that I've ever seen that I've ever read
21:58 about the family comes to the exact same conclusion.
22:01 All of them do children do the best in homes where both mom and dad are present.
22:07 And you can dig down and say, well, what if mom and dad don't really love each other?
22:10 What if they don't have sex a lot?
22:11 And what if they don't have like a very outwardly loving relationship?
22:14 And what if they final?
22:15 Nope.
22:16 None of that matters.
22:17 It does matter.
22:18 Don't don't misunderstand me.
22:19 It does matter.
22:20 But just the fact that a child grows up in a home where mom and dad are both present, that
22:23 child has a tremendously high higher ability to be resilient, the ability to do well in
22:31 school, to not drop out, to not be a problem child.
22:34 It's incredible.
22:35 But the reality is, is in the United States, almost 75%, three out of four black children
22:42 in the United States are born out of wedlock.
22:46 And then about 60% of black children live in a home without mom and dad are present.
22:52 It's usually just mom.
22:55 That is not a recipe for success at all.
22:58 Because single motherhood is encouraged by the United States government.
23:03 And it's highly, highly subsidized in the black communities.
23:06 So I read this great article, I'll try to remember to put it in the show notes here.
23:10 But according to Robert rector at the Heritage Foundation, I'll just go ahead and read this
23:12 quote.
23:13 "Throughout US history, marriage was the norm.
23:16 Prior to the mid 1960s, nearly all children were born to married couples.
23:20 When the war on poverty began in 1964, only 7% of children were born to unmarried women.
23:26 However, over the next four and a half decades, the share of nonmarital births exploded.
23:32 In 2013, 41% of all children born in the United States were born outside of marriage."
23:39 It went from 7% to just over four decades later to 41%, almost half.
23:46 Guys, there's this false narrative that in the black community, fathers aren't around
23:52 because they've been thrown in jail, right?
23:54 You know, we have the war on drugs, and that is disproportionately targeting black people
23:59 and those types of things.
24:00 But that argument is very, very misleading, right?
24:04 Because the overwhelming majority of black fathers are not in jail.
24:08 Just statistically speaking, I'm not even talking about sociology at this point, just
24:11 statistically speaking, the overwhelming majority of black fathers are in jail.
24:15 They're just not in the home with the children.
24:18 They're gone.
24:19 They're somewhere else.
24:21 They've abdicated their responsibility as a father.
24:25 And the interesting thing here is, again, you're hearing me say this, and as I've admitted
24:29 to you before, because I feel like I have to, quote, admit it to people now, I'm a white
24:32 guy.
24:33 And so this sounds like, oh, how dare you talk about that community?
24:35 How dare you do all these different things?
24:37 The funny thing is, is the same people that would fight against the words that I'm saying
24:41 say the same thing to black people, let's say it.
24:44 When a conservative, a black conservative, or when a, you know, a black pastor or something
24:49 like that comes up and basically says these things, they're treated, they're called an
24:54 uncle Tom.
24:55 They're called, you know, a coon, they're called all these horrific names because they're just
25:00 saying like, hey, black dads, you need to be in the home.
25:03 If you got her pregnant, you need to marry her.
25:07 That's like a crazy thing to say in 2020.
25:09 But when all the data points to that being to what's best for the kid, then we're not
25:14 going to have as many kids that get into gangs.
25:16 That's just statistics.
25:17 We're not going to have as many kids that are dropping out of high school or not going
25:20 to college.
25:21 It's just statistics.
25:22 We're not going to have as many kids getting into trouble and going to jail and their late
25:26 teens or early twenties.
25:27 It's just statistics.
25:29 Like I'm not appealing to any other type of argument aside from the one that I can see
25:33 right in front of me in black and white, right?
25:35 It's just right there in front of me.
25:36 So we should not allow people to treat the government as daddy, but we should demand
25:41 that father's be fathers.
25:43 Again, easier said than done because we're 40 years down the road in terms of this experiment
25:48 in welfare and all these different things with single motherhood, but you know, it's
25:51 just kind of where we're at.
25:52 The next one here, we should not teach children that they are victims no matter what.
25:58 We should teach them how to be resilient.
26:02 So in the book, The Coddling of the American Mine, which I'm surprised I'm done an entire
26:06 episode on that.
26:07 I probably should at some point, but it's a fantastic book.
26:08 It's probably the best book I've read so far this year in the coddling of the American
26:12 mine.
26:13 It talks about safetyism.
26:14 It talks about all these kids on college campuses, how they feel like words are violence
26:17 or if you disagree with them that that's that's somehow violence towards them and they need
26:22 to be, they need to be protected from that.
26:24 Okay.
26:25 But there's another thing that's very nefarious that a lot of people are doing is they're teaching
26:28 their children, especially, you know, children that are from, you know, the people of color,
26:33 so Latinos or blacks or whatever the situation may be, they're teaching their children that
26:37 no matter what you do, son, no matter what you do, honey, you're always going to be behind.
26:43 No matter what you do, you're never going to be able to succeed.
26:46 Not really.
26:47 No, no matter how hard you work, the man's going to keep you down and that man happens
26:52 to be white, Christian, cisgendered, conservative, whatever the situation may be, they're always
26:57 going to be keeping you down.
26:59 What a horrific thing to teach a child.
27:01 Now, I have my personal qualms with people that tell their children, you can do anything.
27:06 You can be anything you want to be because if mom and dad are both below five five odds
27:11 are that kids not going to end up in the NBA, just say it.
27:13 We don't see the gene pool really making that happen.
27:16 I think it's really, really good for parents to encourage your children to explore and to
27:21 figure out the things that they truly are passionate about, the things that God has put
27:25 inside their hearts that have been imbued on them.
27:27 I think it's great for parents to encourage that while at the same time saying, okay,
27:32 you're probably not going to be an astrophysicist because you're really, really good at baseball,
27:35 whatever the situation might be.
27:37 But I've just heard so many parents and I've seen the evidence of it that these parents
27:41 are just telling their kids that no matter what, they're not going to be able to succeed.
27:44 They're not going to be able to overcome.
27:46 And that is not a recipe for success for these children.
27:49 I feel really bad for these kids.
27:50 I hope that they can break out of that.
27:52 The problem is if they break out of their homes and then they go to college, all their
27:55 professors are going to tell them the same thing.
27:58 And we'll certainly get more into that later as to kind of the ancillary consequences of
28:02 what happened in those types of situations.
28:04 But I would ask these people that are telling their children, hey, you know, honey, you're
28:08 black, there's just no way you're going to be able to succeed in America.
28:11 I just want them to be able to explain that to me, to maybe get on a whiteboard and, you
28:15 know, get a marker and jot down exactly what they mean by that.
28:20 You know, just really, really narrow it down.
28:23 Because one of the great things that I've learned from Jordan Peterson is whenever he
28:26 was doing his clinical psychology, when people were coming in with these phobias, these like
28:31 literally phobic level fears of certain things, regardless of what they, what they were, his
28:35 goal was not to decrease the fear level in them.
28:39 His goal for them was to increase their courage.
28:43 And so if you're sitting there, and even if you honestly, if you're the mom of the
28:46 dad of this child of color and you're thinking to yourself, man, they just, and they're just
28:50 not going to be able to succeed like all the other white kids in their class, even if you
28:53 believe that, why would you tell them that?
28:57 Because there's nothing actionable with telling them that unless you're trying to pull some
29:00 reverse psychology thing, why not teach them to be resilient?
29:04 Why not teach them to be an overcomer, regardless of the situation?
29:09 Why don't you teach them that their immutable characteristics don't define them?
29:14 And we'll certainly get to more more into that here in just a second.
29:16 So I don't want to put the cart before the horse, but guys, we should not teach children
29:20 that they are victims no matter what.
29:22 We should teach them how to be resilient and we'll get into the next one here.
29:25 We should not treat people a certain way based on their race alone.
29:29 We should treat people as individuals.
29:35 I know this is crazy to think in the world of intersectionality, but we have to treat
29:39 people as individuals.
29:40 So a great story came up.
29:41 So for those of you who are familiar with my foxhole, this is from Mike, the grinder.
29:45 So this is a very well-meaning guy, very thoughtful guy, very smart guy.
29:49 He sent out a message to our foxhole groups and you could just tell this was maybe a week
29:53 or two after George Floyd had been killed and we saw all the riots and all the unrest
29:58 and all the things going on in the city that we're in Oklahoma City.
30:00 We're certainly not immune to all of that, but he sent out a message to our group and
30:04 it essentially said something along the lines of, Hey guys, you know, let's go and he talked
30:08 about a specific part of town where there's a high population of black people.
30:12 How about we just, you know, I don't know, just go down to that neighborhood and hold
30:15 up signs and say that we'll, you know, mow lawns form or, you know, we'll help fix things
30:21 in their house or, you know, just, just help the black community out.
30:25 And again, I'm not dogging on Mike because he's a very well-meaning guy and I know what
30:29 he was talking about there came from a very, very genuine and positive place.
30:34 But I called him immediately after I saw the message and he and I just had a discussion
30:37 and I said, how offensive of you to think that going to that neighborhood and holding
30:43 up a sign would somehow assuage the mourning that that community quote unquote might be
30:49 in because you're going to drive to a part of town that you perceive to be a quote unquote
30:55 black part of town and you're going to assume that the black people that you see on that
30:59 part of time to part of town need your help specifically.
31:04 They need you to mow their lawn because well, they're not capable.
31:07 They need you to fix their sink or to, you know, fix their fence because, well gosh, they're
31:11 not capable.
31:12 They don't have the means to do so.
31:15 It's a paternalistic mindset that somehow these people are helpless, which is insane
31:22 because they're not helpless.
31:25 But if you hear about a specific instance, a specific person that needs help and you
31:32 want to hop in and be Superman, I say be Superman hop in there and get after it.
31:37 And if that person happens to be black, great.
31:40 If they happen to be polka dotted purple and green, great too.
31:45 But this idea that we should treat people as groups and that will somehow fix something.
31:50 It's just silly.
31:51 It's paternalistic.
31:52 It doesn't make sense.
31:53 So again, I'm not dogging on Mike because I do believe he was coming from a place of
31:57 genuine concern.
31:59 But this is where I kind of want to fight against this, this idea of quote black community,
32:04 the black community or the gay community or the trans community or the Latino community
32:09 or the illegal immigrant community.
32:11 These aren't communities in the way that we normally think about a community.
32:16 Think about your neighborhood.
32:17 That is a community.
32:18 Could you all live?
32:19 Maybe it's a gated community.
32:20 Maybe it's just, you know, a specific area on the map where this is this neighborhood.
32:23 We all call it by this.
32:25 That's a community.
32:26 But doing something aside from fixing the sidewalk or changing out the trees in that
32:32 community, there's nothing that you can do that directly affects the entire community.
32:36 The same is true when George Floyd is killed.
32:40 You're assuming that that affects all black people the same way.
32:44 When an illegal immigrant dies trying to cross the border, you're assuming that that affects
32:48 all people that look like that person, even if they're not from the same country as that
32:51 person, you're assuming that that affects them the same.
32:54 That's silly.
32:55 And I think we would do well to do not look at intersectionality as a viable theory because
33:02 it's not because guess what?
33:05 If I'm standing in front of a half black, half Native American transqueer, lesbian, who's
33:11 in a wheelchair, they have the Amago day, they have the image of God written on them.
33:20 So in those instances, they're no different than me.
33:24 When you look at us, in terms of a picture of them and a picture of me, there's nothing
33:28 that that we're similar, right?
33:30 We don't look similar at all.
33:31 We probably don't have similar worldviews, but we both have the Amago day.
33:35 So why in the world should I treat them as if they're part of a larger group when I could
33:39 treat them as an individual?
33:43 Because Jesus died for all mankind, right?
33:45 He died for all of us.
33:47 He didn't die for the black community or the Latino community or the white community
33:51 or the trans community or the gay community.
33:53 He died for all of us.
33:55 So to try and section this thing off as if that's going to help us in this situation,
33:59 don't get pulled into that.
34:00 I see a lot of Christians getting pulled into the intersectionality and getting pulled into
34:04 these arguments that are post modernist arguments that come from Karl Marx.
34:08 Don't get tricked, guys, guys, we should not treat people a certain way based on their
34:12 race alone.
34:13 That's racist.
34:14 We should treat people as individuals.
34:17 Next one here.
34:18 We should not pretend that we are color blind, we should embrace the uniqueness of people
34:24 as a gift from God.
34:25 Okay.
34:26 So here's the thing.
34:27 You see a lot of people, a lot of well-meaning white people, liberal, woke white people that
34:29 say, well, I'm color blind.
34:30 I just don't see race.
34:32 I just look at somebody and they're just a person with eyes and a mouth.
34:35 And that's it.
34:37 It's ridiculous.
34:38 And again, that's condescending because of course you're not color blind.
34:42 Even if you are guys, I know a lot of guys are color blind, but you know what I'm saying?
34:45 In terms of race, of course you're not color blind.
34:48 But when I run into somebody that is a different race than me, I think that's interesting because
34:55 I know just by guessing they probably had a slightly different upbringing than I did.
34:59 Maybe they ate slightly different food.
35:01 Maybe grandma talked to them in a different way than my grandma did.
35:05 I think that's awesome.
35:07 I want to embrace the uniqueness of people because that is truly a gift from God.
35:13 God gave us these different races.
35:15 He gave us these different languages and these different cultures and these different norms
35:18 and these, these different ways of dressing, different ways of preparing food, like whatever
35:22 the situation may be.
35:23 And that is so awesome.
35:25 We talk about America being a melting pot.
35:27 That's the melting pot of the world.
35:29 Why in the world would you travel maybe to another country or another part of the country
35:33 that you're in where a lot of people don't look like you and just pretend that they do?
35:38 They're just a human.
35:40 All humans are pretty much the same thing.
35:41 Some are tall.
35:42 Some are fat.
35:43 So this is a very different situation.
35:47 Don't pretend that you're colorblind because you're not.
35:49 It's dumb.
35:50 It doesn't even make sense.
35:51 Embrace the uniqueness of people.
35:52 It's a tremendous gift.
35:53 So no, we should not pretend that we are colorblind.
35:55 We should embrace the uniqueness of people as a gift from God.
35:58 Next one here.
35:59 We should not destroy the history of the United States and its founders.
36:03 We should educate people on the true history of the United States and its founders.
36:09 So guys, we talked about this a lot in the last episodes.
36:11 I'm not going to labor the point, but tearing down statues of Thomas Jefferson, taking George
36:16 Washington's name off of a school or a street or any of those types of things or not uttering
36:23 their name because they did some really horrific things.
36:25 In addition to the great things that they did, it doesn't do anything unless you're a Marxist
36:29 and that's your plan for the beginning because you can't have this utopian vision of the
36:34 planet if you also have history because history tells us that your plan doesn't work and it's
36:39 not going to work and it won't ever work.
36:41 Regardless of how forcefully you try to put it down our throats, okay, but we need to
36:46 educate people.
36:47 That's why I talked about my son.
36:48 I'm going to educate him and any other kids that were blessed to be able to have on the
36:50 true history of the United States.
36:52 And I'm not going to hide from him.
36:54 The horrific things that were done by some of the founders.
36:56 I will 100% tell him about what Thomas Jefferson did with slaves, how he basically kept some
37:01 of his slaves in sexual enslavement in addition to just regular enslavement, right, and father
37:08 children with them and the horrific things they're in, but also he's got to wrote the
37:13 Declaration of Independence, which if you remember from the top of this episode when
37:16 we went over that two episodes ago, that's an abolition, abolitionist document because
37:21 it's okay to have a little bit of dissonance with our, with our people from the past.
37:27 How can Thomas Jefferson write this amazing document that led to the abolition of all the
37:31 slaves in the United States while owning slaves himself and not treating them very well?
37:37 How can we do that?
37:39 The way that you do that is you educate people.
37:41 You teach them about sin nature.
37:43 You teach children.
37:44 Hey, our founders were not perfect men.
37:46 Christopher Columbus was not a perfect man.
37:49 People in the West that have perpetuated a Western ideology that is undergirded by the
37:54 things that we've learned from a Judeo Christian worldview.
37:56 They're not perfect people.
37:57 And you don't really have to go farther than the Bible to realize that there's not perfect
38:01 people.
38:02 One of my favorite people in the history of ever is King David.
38:05 Do we really need to go over the things that King David did?
38:08 Right?
38:09 Murder, adultery, like the list goes on and on with this guy.
38:13 So can we not talk about King David?
38:17 Do we remove King David from our Bibles?
38:19 Because he did some horrible things.
38:21 He got a woman's husband killed so that he could sleep with her.
38:26 I mean, again, you have to take this to its logical conclusions, but guys, we should not
38:31 destroy the history of the United States and its founders.
38:33 We should educate people on the true history of the United States and its founders.
38:37 Next one here, we should not automatically believe every person of color when they claim
38:41 that they have been a victim of a racist act.
38:44 We should treat every alleged instance of racism with skepticism as with literally any
38:49 other claim of wrongdoing or crime.
38:52 So that might sound a little bit insensitive, but there are, I don't know if I mentioned
38:56 this in last episode or not, but there are organizations in the United States that are
38:59 now doing diversity training and implicit bias training, and they're basically telling
39:03 all of their management, Hey, if a person of color comes to you and claims that they're
39:07 a victim of a racist act, just believe them until proven otherwise, which sounds insane
39:15 because it is in what other part of society would we be okay with that that we would basically
39:23 just believe them before we see any evidence because again, you're not going to find me
39:27 as the guy that if there is evidence of a racist claim, I'm certainly not going to say
39:31 that they should ignore that too.
39:32 They should fight against it.
39:33 We'll certainly talk a more about that later, but this idea that this is somehow evening
39:37 the score by believing all of these individuals that's silly because of what I said in the
39:42 last episode, which is that these instances of fake hate crimes are going through the
39:46 roof in the United States.
39:48 And a lot of these people that are quote unquote, I've said that about 1000 times in this episode,
39:53 but if they're quote unquote victims of hate crimes, a lot of these people, you know, perpetrated
39:56 them on themselves, they spray painted the N word on the side of their building building.
40:01 They're the ones that hung up a noose in their dorm room, like they're the people that are
40:05 doing it.
40:06 They're just crying out for attention and more often than not, it wasn't something perpetrated
40:11 by a racist white person or a racist, any other color of person.
40:15 It's something that they did themselves because I don't know, they thought that could gain
40:19 points again.
40:20 Jesse Smollett thought that he was his career was going to explode because of that.
40:23 Well, it kind of exploded in the opposite direction.
40:25 But again, we should not automatically believe every person of color when they claim that
40:28 they should they have been a victim of a racist act.
40:31 We should instead treat every alleged instance of racism with skepticism as with literally
40:35 any other claim of wrongdoing or crime.
40:37 You don't automatically believe stuff until you've seen an evidence that doesn't really
40:41 make a lot of sense to do that.
40:43 Next one here, we should not defund the police.
40:46 We should refund the police.
40:50 Now, I say refund because there are a lot of police departments in the United States that
40:55 have had their budgets cut, especially in the wake of what happened to George Floyd and
40:58 Rayshard Brooks, as if that's going to help anything.
41:02 An interesting thing about some of those cities, so Chicago, New York, Milwaukee, some of these
41:07 cities that have done some of these silly things, Minneapolis murders have skyrocketed
41:11 and felony crimes have skyrocketed.
41:14 I talked about that in the last episode, but this idea that defunding the police is going
41:18 to help us, it doesn't make any sense unless you think like a Marxist thinks and you say,
41:23 well, we have to get rid of the police so that all the citizenry will depend on us and
41:27 us as big brother, us as the government, right?
41:30 The evil government that they're going to tear down and build back up as a phoenix rising
41:34 from the ashes in the image of Karl Marx, right?
41:38 But we need to refund those police departments.
41:39 In addition to that, we need to increase the funding, right?
41:42 Again, Andrew Yang doesn't say a lot of smart things.
41:45 Every cop should be a purple belt in Jiu Jitsu.
41:47 That's going to take time.
41:48 That's going to take money.
41:49 You've heard Jaka Willing say before that he thinks cops should be training 20% of the
41:52 time.
41:53 So if they work five days a week, one of those days is just spent training, training with
41:56 their firearms, training with grappling, training with, you know, law, just, you know, setting
42:01 the law, making sure that they're, they're all squared away.
42:03 But most of these cops after the academy, the standards just basically disappear.
42:08 Physical standards, mental standards, those types of things, they just disappear.
42:11 Well, if you're going to have better cops that are better able to handle the situations,
42:16 the almost 40, 400 million interactions with the United States populace every year, we've
42:21 got to have more funding for them so that they can do the training.
42:23 Now, you don't just increase the funding and the training just happens.
42:26 When you increase the funding, it has to be allocated to the right types of trainings.
42:29 But again, this whole idea of defunding the police, no, we should not defund the police.
42:33 We should refund the police.
42:34 Next one here, we should not pretend that people of color cannot be racist.
42:39 This is a, this is a big one.
42:40 We cannot pretend that people of color cannot be racist.
42:43 We should realize that racism can take many forms and can be perpetrated by anyone.
42:48 That looks like anything, right?
42:51 This idea that because, you know, and this, this comes from intersectionality, this post
42:55 matter, modern thoughts in terms of critical race theory, that, you know, the blacks or
42:59 other people of color, they can't be racist because they've never been the power.
43:03 They've never been in the majority, okay?
43:05 Only white people can be racist.
43:07 This doesn't even make sense on its face because we've seen a lot of racist things happen
43:12 in the black community.
43:14 Like again, I said the black community and when there's not really a black community,
43:17 but let me, let me take you back to a story I said in the first podcast.
43:19 I remember growing up, I saw blacks being racist to other blacks.
43:23 I saw, you know, I guess, I don't know what they would call themselves, but not dark-skinned
43:28 black people, not light-skinned black people, but somewhere in the middle, they would make
43:31 fun of the other two groups.
43:33 You know, regular black people would make fun of light-skinned black people and make fun
43:37 of dark-skinned black people.
43:38 Some of it went way beyond teasing, right?
43:41 Some of it was pretty horrific, some of the stuff that I saw.
43:44 So are those racist things?
43:47 Like they're certainly gross things, but I've also been around people that had been
43:53 beat up just because they didn't look like the race of the people that beat them up.
43:56 And spoiler alert, the people doing the beatings weren't white.
44:01 So those things are racist because if a group of six white people beat up a black kid just
44:05 because he's black, that's super racist and those kids should go down for that.
44:10 But if you reverse the roles and six black dudes beat up a white kid just because he's
44:13 white, that's hyper-racist.
44:17 So sitting around here pretending that people of color cannot be racist, that doesn't make
44:20 a lot of sense.
44:22 There's no way that you can actually defend that type of a thing.
44:25 And the reason is is because most people think in terms of racism and reverse racism, right?
44:29 So in the instances where a white person is being, you know, basically treated differently
44:33 because of their race, well, that's reverse racism, well, we've already talked about that.
44:36 There's no such thing as reverse racism.
44:38 There's only racism.
44:39 So again, we should not pretend that people of color cannot be racist.
44:41 We should instead realize that racism can take many forms and can be perpetrated by anyone.
44:47 Next one here.
44:48 We should not stand for the soft bigotry of low expectations.
44:52 We should judge everyone on an equal standing.
44:56 So some of you might be familiar with that phrase.
44:58 Some of you might not.
44:59 But the soft bigotry of low expectations is a phrase that was coined by Michael Gerson.
45:04 So he's a speech writer for George W. Bush, most attribute that quote, though, to W.
45:11 Because he said it in a speech to the NAACP back in 2000.
45:16 And so most people think that it was George W. Bush that came up with that, but it was
45:19 actually Michael Gerson.
45:20 But essentially, it's expecting less of someone based on their membership in a group based
45:25 on immutable characteristics such as race.
45:29 So the way that we see this and the way that W presented this, when he was talking to the
45:34 NAACP, he was talking about the No Child Left Behind Act, which I'm not here to talk
45:37 about whether that was a success or a failure.
45:40 But he was essentially talking about when you have lower expectations on an entire group
45:44 of children because of the race that they're associated with, that that's not good, that
45:48 we can't do that.
45:50 And so it's very bigoted to do that, actually.
45:54 And so we see this in a lot of cases.
45:55 So I guess the most stark example is college admissions standards.
45:59 And so you've probably heard a lot about this with Harvard and different things like that.
46:02 But there are a lot of colleges, pretty much all colleges will admit people from different
46:06 races and they will change the standards for those people in terms of admissions, okay?
46:11 So for certain scholarships or for just admissions, if you're a black person in the United States,
46:15 you can actually get a lower SAT or ACT score.
46:19 You can have a lower GPA, you can be involved in less things.
46:22 And you will be judged as equal to someone of another race that has to basically jump
46:28 over a higher bar.
46:30 You know, they have to get a 26 on the ACT, you only have to get a 22, that type of situation.
46:35 So the problem is, is these colleges, they create these quotas based on race, racial quotas,
46:42 gender quotas, whatever the situation may be.
46:44 And so they get the freshmen numbers.
46:46 So let's say they're their quota goal is to have 25% incoming freshmen being black people,
46:50 okay?
46:51 And then they stop tracking for the most part.
46:55 The problem that we see is with students of any race that are led into a college at standards
47:00 that are below the standards that are set by the university, the majority of those people
47:04 don't graduate.
47:06 And so you have these really, really hard schools where a lot of some heart people get
47:10 there and don't succeed.
47:12 And then you lower the standards for other people just so that they can get in and then
47:17 they don't finish.
47:18 What good is that?
47:20 That is a really negative outcome that comes from the soft bigotry of low expectations.
47:25 And so we've seen a lot of stories, and I've seen a lot of studies that I've looked at,
47:29 especially with these black high school students that are being accepted into colleges that
47:33 are kind of beyond them academically.
47:35 And then they get to these, and it's not beyond them academically because they're black, it's
47:38 just beyond them because of their background and their ability to understand.
47:42 They would be impossible for me to get into those schools as well, or most of the friends
47:45 that I know of all races.
47:47 But when you let them in just because of the color of their skin, they get there and then
47:51 they can't perform.
47:53 Or maybe worse yet, the professors just kind of pass them along.
47:58 And they just kind of give them the grades that they haven't really earned just because
48:01 of their immutable characteristics, such as their race.
48:05 It doesn't set that person up for success because you have to tease it out.
48:08 So let's say, you know, you admitted them from high school with lower standards and lower
48:12 grades and they get to college and they drop out.
48:14 That's a bad outcome.
48:15 Let's say you get them into college and you say, Oh, well, you know, they're black.
48:18 And so they probably had a bad home life and they probably had a bad education system that
48:22 they were a part of.
48:23 So let's give them an A, even though they earned a C or whether the situation may be,
48:27 they end up graduating and then they go out into the job market and they can't hack it.
48:33 And again, switch the races out and do this with any group.
48:36 It's the same thing.
48:37 If you were to change it for Asians or Latinos or whites or whatever the situation may be,
48:41 it's bad for them, quote unquote, as a group, this is the quote unquote podcast, but as
48:46 a group, it is bad for those people because at some point along the line, the other shoes
48:50 going to drop, whether in college, whether they're looking for a job, whether they're
48:54 trying to develop their career later on in life and they haven't learned the basic skills
48:57 to do so.
48:58 There's a really good friend of mine that, you know, he just couldn't write and he had
49:02 me try to look at one of his papers in college and the dude just couldn't write and it's
49:06 like at that point, I can't help him.
49:08 I'm just his buddy.
49:09 I'm a junior in college.
49:10 I know a good amount about English and I'm a decent writer, but this is a guy who needs
49:13 to basically go back to junior high and learn how to put a sentence together.
49:17 I can't fix that.
49:19 Think about it in the same way as a boss.
49:22 If you got a business degree, but you don't know anything about accounting, you don't
49:25 know anything about finance and you don't and you've never written a business proposal
49:29 of any kind and they're supposed to hire you in their business.
49:32 That's not their job to teach you those things.
49:34 You're supposed to come as a ready made package for those things.
49:37 So again, it's not beneficial to these people to do stuff like that.
49:41 So again, we should not stand for the soft bigotry of low expectations.
49:44 We should judge everybody on equal standing.
49:47 Next one here.
49:48 We should not participate in tokenism.
49:50 We should honor the best in every situation regardless of their immutable characteristics.
49:54 So tokenism is basically, you've heard of the thing, oh, the token black guy, the token
49:58 Asian, whatever the situation may be, but it's elevating somebody.
50:02 This is kind of attached to the soft bigotry of low expectations actually interesting how
50:06 these are back to back, but when you provide tokenism, that's where you're bringing somebody
50:10 into a fold that they didn't deserve to be there in the first place and you're only doing
50:13 that based on their immutable characteristics.
50:15 And so the most egregious example of this is unfortunately from one of my favorite people
50:19 on the planet to listen to or otherwise, and that's Matt Chandler.
50:22 So some of you know about this and you know where I'm going, but this was several years
50:25 ago.
50:26 I believe that this was an assortment.
50:27 I tried to find the sermon.
50:28 I wasn't able to find it, but you know, there were articles written about it and it's all
50:31 over the place.
50:32 But essentially Matt Chandler, he's taken on the racial reconciliation thing as one of
50:36 his big issues and more on that in a second.
50:38 But essentially what he did is he said if he was doing a church plant, okay, and he needed
50:43 to hire the best pastor, right to basically lead that church plant as part of, I think
50:48 he was still in the axe 29 network at that time, he might still be and he had two candidates
50:53 that were the final two candidates.
50:56 And there was a guy that was an eight out of eight out of 10 and another guy was a seven
51:00 out of 10.
51:01 And let's say the guy who was an eight out of 10 was a white guy and the guy that was
51:05 seven out of 10 was a black guy.
51:07 He said he would hire the black guy and Vodie Bockham who, you know, we'll talk about more
51:12 later in this podcast, Dr. Vodie Bockham, he eviscerated Matt Chandler for this and rightfully
51:17 so because he said that's tokenism and that's racist.
51:21 Why in the world would you risk part of your ministry or just from a business standpoint?
51:27 Why would you hire someone that's not the best person for the job and your only reasoning
51:33 is because of a characteristic that they cannot control their race, the color of their skin.
51:39 Why would you do that?
51:42 There are a lot of companies guys and we talked about universities a second ago.
51:44 There's a lot of companies have racial quotas now.
51:47 There's a lot of boards of directors that have said, okay, we need to have a certain number
51:50 of women on this board, certain number of women of color, some certain number of LGBTQ
51:54 people, whatever situation we'd be, how is that helping the bottom line of the company
51:58 overall?
51:59 It sure is making you feel good.
52:01 I mean, your hands going to be sore from pat and yourself on the back so hard, but at
52:04 the same time it's like, how does that help anyone?
52:07 And again, this is this idea that we should not be treating people based on their groups,
52:12 based on their immutable characteristics.
52:14 That's like saying, we're only going to hire tall people, only people out above six foot
52:17 four.
52:18 Well, what if they're six foot 10 and they're morons, but what do you do at that point?
52:24 Oh, well, we said we were going to hire this many tall people.
52:26 So I guess we'll just keep doing that.
52:28 It doesn't make sense, guys.
52:30 We can't operate that way.
52:31 So we should not participate in tokenism.
52:33 We should honor the best in every situation regardless of their immutable characteristics.
52:38 Next one here.
52:39 We should not excuse personal responsibility.
52:42 We should hold incredibly high standards for personal responsibility.
52:47 And so if you're tired of hearing me talk about this, let me go to a quote from someone
52:50 that you might have heard of before.
52:51 So Martin Luther King, Jr., he gave a speech or a sermon in 1961 in St. Louis.
52:56 And this is what he said, quote, Negroes are 10% of the city of St. Louis and are responsible
53:01 for 58% of its crimes.
53:03 We have to face that.
53:04 And we have to do something about our moral standards.
53:07 We know there are many things wrong with the white world, but there are many things wrong
53:11 in the black world too.
53:13 We can't keep blaming the white man.
53:15 There are things we must do ourselves, unquote.
53:19 So one thing that we see a lot in these types of situations, and again, this comes from
53:22 kind of the paternalistic instinct that I talked about earlier, is, you know what?
53:26 These people just, they can't do any better than what they're doing right now.
53:29 So I'm going to help them up because I'm white and I'm great and I'm really, really
53:34 smart and I'm super liberal.
53:35 So I'm going to help these people.
53:37 But in those types of situations, we're excusing personal responsibility for these people.
53:42 Because that's one thing that I find that's very interesting is you'll talk to these people
53:46 that are like, you know, what is a, is a black person that grows up in Baltimore?
53:50 What are they to do aside from dealing drugs?
53:54 What are they to do as aside from joining a gang?
53:57 There are no other options.
53:58 Well, guys, if that was actually true, then there would be a 100% crime rate in these
54:02 communities.
54:04 And there's not we have choices, all of us.
54:10 Some people, they were born and they woke up on third base.
54:14 That's just what their life is.
54:15 They're almost all the way home.
54:17 Some of us were not even out of the batter's box yet.
54:20 Some of us get the silver spoon.
54:21 Some of us don't get a spoon at all.
54:23 We're all dealt a different hand, but we all have the ability to choose unless you're
54:27 Sam Harris and you think we're dancing to our DNA or, you know, whatever that other
54:31 guys, I can't think of the four horsemen of atheism right now because I'm too fired up.
54:34 But in this type of situation, assuming that you believe in free will and autonomy and decision
54:40 making, personal decision making, how can you also not agree that personal responsibility
54:44 is important?
54:46 Because if you choose not to study for the exam, it doesn't matter how good or bad your
54:50 school is.
54:51 You're not going to learn that you're not going to do well in that exam.
54:55 If you don't put the time in in the weight room, you can't expect to be stronger come
54:59 next football season.
55:02 What kind of a football coach is going to say, Oh, you know what?
55:05 You didn't do any of the off season sprints.
55:06 You didn't do any of the two of days.
55:08 You didn't do the lifting program.
55:09 But you know what?
55:10 That's okay.
55:11 We're going to make you strong.
55:12 That doesn't work that way.
55:14 You have to put in the work as an individual.
55:16 So why in so many situations do we look at the individual as, as if they're the only
55:21 thing that can do something except when it comes to the issues that we're talking about
55:24 today, these people just can't help it.
55:27 They're a victim.
55:28 They're not ever going to be able to overcome or you can encourage people and teach them
55:31 how to make better decisions, which is usually easier when mom and dad are in the home.
55:37 So this idea that if we excused personal responsibility that we've done sort of favor
55:41 to somebody, that doesn't do them any favors because again, the other shoe drops, it always
55:46 will drop.
55:47 So we should not excuse personal responsibility.
55:48 We should hold incredibly high standards for all people in terms of personal responsibility.
55:54 Next one here.
55:55 We should not ignore instances of blatant racism.
55:59 We should not ignore instances of blatant racism.
56:02 We should stand and fight against every specific instance of racism that we encounter.
56:08 And I just encountered a doozy this week.
56:12 Oh my goodness.
56:13 So a lot of you guys have heard about this.
56:15 Many of you have not, but the, I can't even believe this.
56:18 It's so crazy.
56:19 I'm going to read the whole thing to you though.
56:21 The National Museum of African American History and Culture released a graphic that went viral,
56:26 just a graphic and you probably had never heard of the National Museum of African American
56:29 History and Culture before, but now you will have heard of them.
56:32 Basically they released a graphic that was titled this, the Aspects and Assumptions of
56:36 Whiteness and White Culture in the United States.
56:40 So I'm going to read this list to you.
56:42 Okay.
56:43 And I just want you to ask yourself this question as I read through this list.
56:46 And the only question is this.
56:47 Is this racist?
56:48 All right.
56:49 Maybe a secondary question.
56:51 Would David Duke agree with this?
56:52 If you don't know who David Duke is, crazy white supremacists, lunatic, probably shouldn't
56:56 be alive.
56:57 Okay.
56:58 David Duke, if he would agree with this and also ask yourself, is this racist?
57:02 So I'm just going to read this.
57:03 This is a description of what whiteness is and white culture, okay?
57:08 So I'm just going to read basically the little description here and then we're going to get
57:11 into the list.
57:12 White dominant culture or whiteness.
57:14 So whiteness is white dominant culture refers to the ways white people and their traditions,
57:19 attitudes and ways of life have been normalized over time and are now considered standard
57:23 practices in the United States.
57:25 And since white people still hold most of the institutional power in America, we have all
57:29 internalized some aspects of white culture, including people of color.
57:33 So basically the list I'm about to read you according to the National Museum of African-American
57:37 History and Culture.
57:39 These are things that if they are part of who you are, these are negative because they
57:43 come from whiteness, which is the basically the institutional power in America that should
57:48 be torn down.
57:49 Great.
57:50 So let's get into the list.
57:51 First thing, rugged individualism.
57:53 The individual is the primary unit.
57:55 Cultural for Alliance independence and autonomy is highly valued and rewarded individuals
57:59 soon to be in control of their environment.
58:01 You get what you deserve.
58:03 That's whiteness.
58:04 Family structure.
58:05 So basically the nuclear family father, mother, 2.3 children is the ideal social unit.
58:10 Husband is breadwinner and head of household.
58:11 Wife is homemaker and subordinate to the husband.
58:13 Children should have own rooms be independent.
58:15 That is whiteness.
58:16 That's family structure emphasis on the scientific method, even sciences, racist objective, rational,
58:22 linear thinking is a white thing cause and effect relationships and quantitative emphasis.
58:27 That's whiteness.
58:28 That's emphasis on scientific method.
58:30 History is whiteness based on Northern European, uh, Northern European immigrants experience
58:36 in the United States, heavy focus on the British Empire and the primary, uh, or the primacy
58:40 of Western that's Greek and Roman and Judeo Christian traditions.
58:43 That's whiteness.
58:44 The next one is Protestant work ethic.
58:46 Didn't know that was a thing.
58:48 Hard work is the key to success work before play.
58:51 If you didn't meet your goals, you didn't work hard enough.
58:53 That's whiteness.
58:54 Next one here religion.
58:56 That's whiteness.
58:57 Christianity is the norm.
58:58 Anything other than Judeo Christian tradition is foreign and no tolerance for deviation from
59:02 a single God concept.
59:03 So that's whiteness next one here status, power and authority wealth equals worth.
59:08 That's a white thing.
59:09 Your job is who you are respecting authority, heavy value and ownership of goods, space
59:14 and property.
59:15 That's whiteness.
59:16 Future orientation is whiteness.
59:18 And for the future, delayed gratification, progress is always best and tomorrow will
59:22 be better.
59:23 That's whiteness.
59:24 Time is whiteness or racist.
59:25 I guess you could say if you follow a rigid time schedule or time is viewed as a commodity.
59:31 That's whiteness.
59:32 The next thing is aesthetics based on European culture, stakes and potatoes, bland as best.
59:37 Women's beauty based on blonde, thin, you know, Barbie types, man attractiveness based
59:41 on economic status, power, intellect.
59:44 That's a, that's whiteness.
59:45 These are whiteness based on Christian religions or based on white history and male leaders.
59:50 Justice is whiteness.
59:52 That's based on English common law, protect property and entitlements and intent counts.
59:56 The next thing is competition is whiteness.
59:59 So being number one, winning at all costs, the winner, loser dichotomy, action orientation,
1:00:04 master and control nature must always quote, do something unquote about the situation,
1:00:08 aggressiveness and extraversion decision making a majority rules.
1:00:11 That's when whites have power.
1:00:12 So that's all competition.
1:00:14 That's all whiteness.
1:00:15 One here, communication, the King's English rules.
1:00:18 That's whiteness.
1:00:19 Written tradition, avoiding conflict or intimacy, not showing emotions, not discussing personal
1:00:24 life and being polite.
1:00:26 Those are all whiteness.
1:00:27 So to recap from the national museum of African American history and culture, the aspects
1:00:32 and assumptions of whiteness and white culture are rugged individualism, family structure,
1:00:37 emphasis on the scientific method, history, Protestant work ethic, religion, status power
1:00:41 and authority, future orientation, time, aesthetics, holidays, justice, competition and communication.
1:00:48 Now, thank you for indulging me as I read through that entire thing.
1:00:52 Let's go back to the two questions I made sure you asked yourself.
1:00:55 Is this racist?
1:00:57 I'm pretty sure it's racist, pretty sure it's crazy racist.
1:01:02 And that's basically because of the answer to the second question, which is, would David
1:01:05 Duke like that?
1:01:07 I guarantee you, this is the only thing that David Duke has ever in his entire life printed
1:01:13 off from the website of the national museum of African American history and culture and
1:01:17 put on his own wall.
1:01:18 He may have even framed this because he agrees with this because he doesn't think people
1:01:22 of color are capable of those things.
1:01:25 But think about how insane that is.
1:01:28 This got such bad backlash even in our current culture that the national museum of African
1:01:33 American history and culture had to take it down.
1:01:35 I'm glad it took a screenshot of it before they took it off their website.
1:01:39 But that is a blatant example of racism.
1:01:43 And everyone should be able to agree with that.
1:01:45 If any one of you posted that on your Facebook because you thought it was a good thing, you're
1:01:48 a moron, right?
1:01:50 Or you're a racist or both.
1:01:53 But the thing about it is, and all kind of, you know, move away from this graphic thing,
1:01:57 is when we do see a specific instance of racism, as men of God, we should be the first ones
1:02:02 to stand up.
1:02:03 That's why I agree with what Ben Shapiro says is if you can show me a law that is racist
1:02:07 and intent, or you can show me an actual instance of a hate crime or something like that, I
1:02:11 will stand beside you as you fight against that.
1:02:14 You know, it's my duty bound as a Christian to do such a thing.
1:02:19 Because whenever you do a racist act against somebody, you're violating the Amago day.
1:02:24 That's just the reality of it.
1:02:27 But the thing is, is you have to point it out when it's racist, no matter who the one
1:02:32 perpetrating it is, and we shouldn't ignore it.
1:02:35 I think it's good wisdom for us as Christians to not just sit idly by and ignore things that
1:02:39 are happening.
1:02:40 There's a lot of Christians that ignore the fact that a million babies are slaughtered
1:02:43 in the womb every year.
1:02:44 I don't like that.
1:02:46 The same thing is I don't like when people do turn a blind eye to blatant instances of
1:02:49 racism.
1:02:50 And the thing is, is you can't do what aboutism.
1:02:52 If you see is something that's a blatant instance of racism, real racism, you can't
1:02:56 be like, well, what about all the times when it wasn't true?
1:02:59 You can't lean on that crutch because every situation is different.
1:03:02 That's kind of the point of this whole podcast.
1:03:04 Situations are different and contextual and unique, and people are different and contextual
1:03:07 and unique.
1:03:08 They're not parts of groups.
1:03:10 Every situation should be met with a little bit of skepticism until you can wait for the
1:03:13 dust to settle.
1:03:14 So we should not ignore instances of blatant racism, guys.
1:03:17 We should stand and fight against every specific instance of racism that we encounter.
1:03:22 Next one here.
1:03:23 We should not try to guarantee a quality of outcome.
1:03:26 We should ensure that there is a quality of opportunity.
1:03:29 Okay.
1:03:30 Not going to spend a lot of time on this one because a quality of outcome is something
1:03:34 that you can't do.
1:03:35 Like I said, some people wake up on third base, some people have a silver spoon, but the government's
1:03:39 job is to clear the playing field, not level it.
1:03:45 Because when you have individuals, there is no such thing as a quality of outcome.
1:03:49 You can't possibly do that unless you mandate it.
1:03:52 That's communism.
1:03:53 That's socialist.
1:03:54 You can't have that happen, guys.
1:03:57 It's not realistic.
1:03:59 Not everyone's not going to end up in the same place.
1:04:01 I'm not sitting around, you know, basically kicking weeds and being all, you know, naval
1:04:05 gazing because I'm not as tall, strong, athletic as LeBron James.
1:04:09 I'm not doing that.
1:04:12 So we're going to have different outcomes for our life, but I guarantee you there's
1:04:15 things that I do better than LeBron James.
1:04:17 Now he's probably not going to be too concerned about that, but at the same time, we can't
1:04:21 guarantee that and expecting the government to hop down and do that a silly.
1:04:25 We should not try to guarantee a quality of outcome.
1:04:27 We should ensure that there is a quality of opportunity.
1:04:30 Next one here.
1:04:31 We should not be offended for people.
1:04:34 We should instead allow people to react however they decide to.
1:04:37 So I've seen a lot of this lately where people who are not part of the affected group, if
1:04:42 you would call it, I don't want to say quote unquote again, but the affected group, they're
1:04:46 not actually offended by it.
1:04:48 It's everybody else that's offended.
1:04:49 So the, the perfect example is the Washington Redskins.
1:04:52 So the Washington Redskins came out about a week ago and said that they're going to be
1:04:55 changing their, their team nickname after however many decades as that team, you know,
1:04:59 the Redskins are always kind of in the cross hairs anytime there's any racial unrest in
1:05:02 the United States because that name is racist.
1:05:04 And the thing about it is it's very interesting because every time this happens, there are
1:05:10 polling groups that go to Native American communities and ask them if they consider the
1:05:14 name Redskins to be racist.
1:05:15 And you know what's interesting?
1:05:18 Maybe 90 plus percent every time they're asked say that, no, not bother by it.
1:05:23 That's not racist.
1:05:25 90, 90 plus percent every time say that they're not offended by that.
1:05:29 And I wasn't able to guarantee that this was true or fact check this, but I'm pretty sure
1:05:33 the original logo, the Redskins logo was created by the name by a Native American, the tribe
1:05:39 I can't remember.
1:05:42 And so we all have all these white woke liberals that are coming out of the woodwork saying
1:05:47 this is racist.
1:05:48 We've got to change it.
1:05:50 And the Native Americans who are the ones that are supposed to be offended by this are
1:05:52 like, eh, not bothered by it play ball.
1:05:56 So again, guys, if you're trying to be offended for someone else and I have, I have people
1:06:00 that I know very, very closely there, they're, they go over the top with their reactions
1:06:04 to things because they think they're doing a favor to someone in their life that they
1:06:07 care about that that it should be affecting.
1:06:09 Right.
1:06:10 I know that's a little bit obtuse to say it that way, but guys, we shouldn't be offended
1:06:13 for people.
1:06:14 We should allow people to react however they decide to.
1:06:17 The next thing is that we should not be cold-hearted.
1:06:19 We should mourn with those who mourn.
1:06:21 Okay.
1:06:22 So Romans 1215, more with those who mourn.
1:06:24 I know that there are a lot of people that have kind of hardened their hearts in times
1:06:27 like these because it's really easy to do that because you see all of this negativity.
1:06:32 You see all this disintegration in the communities that we're in.
1:06:36 We see all of this, you know, just nonsense and ignorance and a lot of these different
1:06:39 subjects.
1:06:40 So it'd be very easy to be cold-hearted and you might miss out on an opportunity to be
1:06:44 there for somebody who is actually hurting, who is actually mourning and might need your
1:06:48 assistance and might need your help.
1:06:50 So we should not be cold-hearted.
1:06:51 We should mourn with those who mourn.
1:06:54 Next one here is we should not believe the claims of systemic racism blindly.
1:06:59 We should treat systemic racism as systemic racism theory.
1:07:05 So people just throw out systemic racism as if it's a reality.
1:07:07 As I've talked about in the first episode of this whole three part series is that it's
1:07:12 not.
1:07:13 Dynamic racism is not a thing in the United States in 2020.
1:07:16 We did have some systemic racism in the past and I talked about those at length.
1:07:19 We don't have that now.
1:07:21 So we can't just grant it the elevation of just being believed blindly.
1:07:30 It's a theory.
1:07:32 Now when you test the theory, it comes back particularly bad for those that are propagating
1:07:36 it, but treat it as a theory.
1:07:39 This is a theoretical way of looking at a particular subject.
1:07:42 So we should not believe the claims of systemic racism blindly.
1:07:45 We should treat systemic racism as systemic racism theory.
1:07:49 Next one.
1:07:50 We should not judge people by their actions on their worst day.
1:07:52 We should have grace for people concerning the race issue.
1:07:55 So this is not what I'm saying.
1:07:57 I'm not saying that we shouldn't call out racist for doing racist things.
1:08:03 That's not what I'm saying.
1:08:04 I'm not saying that, ah, you know, don't give that grand wizard to the KKK.
1:08:07 Such a hard time.
1:08:08 You know, he was just having a bad day.
1:08:10 That there are people that have done things in poor taste in the past.
1:08:14 And I don't think that they should be judged for their entire lives based on that.
1:08:17 You know, I talked about blackface and one of the episodes and no Jimmy Kimmel dressing
1:08:21 up as Carl Malone versus Jimmy Kimmel dressing up as Sambo.
1:08:24 Those are not the same things.
1:08:26 Little black Sambo that those aren't the same things.
1:08:28 That's blackface.
1:08:29 That's blatantly racist and meant to be racist, okay?
1:08:33 But you know, we'll talk about cancel culture here in a second, but we should have grace
1:08:36 for people on the racial issue.
1:08:38 There's a lot of ignorance and I didn't think I was going to tell the story, but I might
1:08:43 as well go ahead and do it because I was telling someone about the other day, but I'll leave
1:08:47 the person out.
1:08:48 But let's just call it a person that I know, okay?
1:08:50 This person that's a little bit older and they were in the army, okay?
1:08:53 They came from a very, very poor background.
1:08:57 They grew up so poor that they didn't really know what Christmas was until they were in
1:09:00 their teen years.
1:09:01 And that's not hyperbole.
1:09:02 That's just really what happened.
1:09:03 So this is a black person who grew up poor, gotten a lot of trouble and had to join the
1:09:07 army or go to jail and they chose the army.
1:09:10 Now this person was taking a shower.
1:09:12 They were at basic training and they're taking a shower and they're, you know, they're all
1:09:14 in the showers.
1:09:15 They're naked.
1:09:16 And he noticed that there's these two white guys that are watching him while he's bathing,
1:09:19 white showering.
1:09:20 So at first, he just thought, you know, maybe their eyes were wandering and then he realized
1:09:23 these guys were looking at him, right?
1:09:26 And so he finishes a shower, he puts his clothes on and then he goes up and he confronts these
1:09:31 two white guys.
1:09:32 You know, he was ready for a fight, right?
1:09:34 He looked at me, looking at me for you, sizing me up that type of thing.
1:09:37 He was ready for a fight.
1:09:38 That's what he was used to.
1:09:39 And those, those white guys were really, really embarrassed and they were like, man, we're
1:09:42 so sorry.
1:09:43 Like we, we didn't mean to stare at you.
1:09:44 And we're sorry to even admit this, but you're the first black person that we've ever met.
1:09:49 And we were taught growing up that black people had tales.
1:09:54 Yeah.
1:09:58 These dudes were 18, 19 years old and they grew up in a community that taught that black
1:10:04 people had tales.
1:10:06 And so when they saw a naked black person for the first time, they were looking at them
1:10:11 thinking themselves, well, where's the tail?
1:10:16 I mean, it's a horrific story.
1:10:17 I get when I've told people that in private situations, it's been, it's uncomfortable
1:10:22 to even say, but in those situations, if we treat what those men did as the unforgivable
1:10:28 sin, we're missing out on an opportunity to educate these people because you know what
1:10:32 ended up happening, you probably know how the story ends, they didn't fight.
1:10:36 They became friends, you know, the, the, my buddy who's the black guy in this situation,
1:10:41 he was shocked and appalled and offended.
1:10:44 And then he got over it and he just said, God, these dumb, dumb white boys.
1:10:50 And then they became friends and these white people got an education on what it is to befriend
1:10:55 a black person in America because they had gone almost two decades without doing that.
1:11:01 And so I would think it would be horrific to treat those two guys as just products of
1:11:06 their environment because they were just blatantly ignorant.
1:11:10 They weren't being racist or I guess they were being racist, but they didn't know it
1:11:13 because they were so ignorant.
1:11:15 I mean, can you imagine growing up for 18 or 19 years, never having seen a black person
1:11:20 except on television and having probably someone in his family tell them, Oh, yeah, black people
1:11:24 just have tales.
1:11:25 They're pretty much monkeys.
1:11:26 These horrific things that people have said, how would you know to know any different?
1:11:32 These people didn't grow up in the age of the internet.
1:11:34 They couldn't just research it real quick.
1:11:36 And you just say that in biology class in 10th grade, Hey, I heard black people had tails.
1:11:41 Is that true?
1:11:42 Mr. So and so like you can't do that.
1:11:44 But can you imagine judging them based on that one instance?
1:11:49 So I think we should have a lot of grace with people around the race issue because you have
1:11:52 to ask yourself, is is racism an unforgivable sin?
1:11:57 Because I personally don't think it is.
1:11:59 Because if you think that racism is an unforgivable sin, then you don't believe in the totality
1:12:03 of the power of God.
1:12:04 I don't think you want to open that can of worms.
1:12:07 So we should not judge people by their actions on their worst day.
1:12:10 We should have grace for people concerning the race issue.
1:12:13 Next one here.
1:12:14 We should not act as if saying black lives matter is neutral.
1:12:17 We should educate people on the ideal ideologies of that organization.
1:12:20 I'm not going to go into that any further, go to the last episode.
1:12:23 I break that down in great detail, but the NBA putting black lives matter on jerseys
1:12:27 and black lives matter on the court.
1:12:29 That is not a neutral saying that is a description of a Marxist ideology coming from a specific
1:12:33 organization.
1:12:34 We can't do that.
1:12:35 We should not act as if saying black lives matter is neutral.
1:12:38 We should educate people on the ideologies of that organization.
1:12:41 Next thing.
1:12:42 We should not grant cancel culture any power.
1:12:45 We should steal our nerves and that's steal S T E E L. A lot of people are being canceled
1:12:49 now.
1:12:50 I've kind of joked about it at the top of the last two episodes about, Hey, I'm still here.
1:12:52 I haven't been canceled, but a lot of people they're, they're pulling up tweets from their
1:12:56 past.
1:12:57 So they're pulling up off color comments or pulling up these types of things and they're
1:12:59 trying to cancel these people.
1:13:00 They're trying to get rid of them.
1:13:02 And most part, and again, second time mentioning Jordan Peterson, but Jordan Peterson is a guy
1:13:06 that, you know, if he sneezes, it becomes front page news on the New York Times and
1:13:10 is, is he perpetrating white power and because he sneezes and is this where the culture is
1:13:15 headed with white male cisgendered people, you know, whatever the situation might be.
1:13:19 But he basically says that every time he gets caught up in one of these usually faux outrages
1:13:23 from people, is he just basically steals his nerves, spends the next two weeks, kind of
1:13:28 just letting everything die down and then he moves on with his life.
1:13:32 He might be on Twitter less than those two weeks.
1:13:34 He might check his email a little bit less those two weeks, but then he just moves on
1:13:37 with his life.
1:13:38 So the thing about cancel culture is it only has power if you, if you let it now, if you're
1:13:43 a Hollywood actor or actress listening to this right now and you're a conservative and
1:13:47 you're anti black lives matter, the organization and all these different things.
1:13:51 And you say that out loud, you can't also assume at the same time you're still going
1:13:55 to get those A list movies.
1:13:57 Again, if you're in college and all of your professors are wildly left and you want to
1:14:02 sit there and you want to argue for principles from conservatism and the ride and Christianity
1:14:07 and whether the situation may be, you can't also assume that you're going to get straight
1:14:10 A's.
1:14:11 There's going to be some sort of a, some sort of a backlash there, but cancel culture is
1:14:15 only as powerful as you allow it to be so we should not grant cancel culture any power.
1:14:19 We should just steal our nerves.
1:14:21 Next one here.
1:14:22 We should not pretend that art doesn't negatively impact the issue of race in America.
1:14:27 We should be incredibly careful about what we consume and whether or not we believe it
1:14:31 outright.
1:14:32 I'm specifically talking about rap music.
1:14:34 Okay.
1:14:35 So I am a fan of rap music.
1:14:37 I grew up in a town where there was a lot of rap music made.
1:14:39 A lot of my friends were rappers, whatever situation may be there.
1:14:43 But to sit here and pretend that the content of rap music has no impact on black culture
1:14:50 or black children in America is silly because when you have guys referring to cops as pigs
1:14:58 and saying that they should be killed and you're a 12 year old, maybe that's going to
1:15:02 have an impact on you if you're here a guy referred to women as [inaudible] and hoes in their
1:15:10 music and you're a 14 year old boy and you're just starting to explore dating with girls
1:15:15 and stuff like that.
1:15:16 You don't think that has an impact the violence that's described in a lot of rap music.
1:15:24 You don't think that has an impact on people.
1:15:27 So again, I know that's like the old timey white guy argument like, Oh, rap music.
1:15:30 That's the worst.
1:15:31 We need to get rid of all that.
1:15:32 I'm not saying we need to get rid of all that.
1:15:33 But some of these same guys that are making literal millions and millions of dollars with
1:15:37 this racist, violent, misogynistic, pro drug use, you know, anti Christian worldview and
1:15:43 those types of things, they can't also come out and say, Yeah, black lives matter.
1:15:47 We're fighting the system.
1:15:48 We're doing all these things.
1:15:49 It's like, bro, you're part of the destruction of the system.
1:15:51 And I don't mean in the way that you think you're hurting black people with your music.
1:15:57 And here's the other thing.
1:15:58 I've seen some concerts where, you know, there it sees rappers on stage and the audience
1:16:02 is, you know, 90% white and they're singing along with the lyrics of a song that has the
1:16:07 inward in it.
1:16:08 And then they have the audacity to be offended.
1:16:13 These rappers are teaching suburban white kids to use the inward and they're offended
1:16:18 and appalled when they see it right in front of their faces.
1:16:21 I find that incredibly interesting.
1:16:24 And the same thing goes for TV shows and movies and things like that when you're portraying
1:16:29 this lifestyle, right, this thug life lifestyle and, you know, I'm not going to let the man
1:16:33 hold me down lifestyle and the only way that I know how to fight that is with violence that
1:16:37 has an impact.
1:16:38 So we should not pretend that art doesn't negatively impact the issue of race in America.
1:16:42 We should be incredibly careful about what we consume and whether or not we believe it
1:16:46 outright.
1:16:47 Next one here, we should not wait on our pastors to tell us what to do or how to act.
1:16:53 We should let God guide us.
1:16:55 And this goes back to the thing I said from the top guys.
1:16:57 I'm talking to a lot of guys about this issue and their pastors aren't.
1:17:01 Why aren't they?
1:17:03 Why aren't they talking about this issue?
1:17:06 Why are they staying on whatever biblical series, not that that series isn't important?
1:17:11 Why aren't they talking about this?
1:17:13 Because to the pastors listening to this, your flocks are confused.
1:17:17 Your flocks are coming to me.
1:17:19 I don't have my MDiv.
1:17:20 Like I haven't read the Bible as much as you have, but I'm letting God guide me through
1:17:26 these discussions because I feel like I told you from the first episode, I was never going
1:17:30 to talk about race on this podcast.
1:17:33 It was too hot of an issue six months ago when nothing was going on.
1:17:36 And now it's, it's still red hot in the wake of the George Floyd killing.
1:17:41 But there are guys literally waiting around for their pastor.
1:17:44 Maybe this Sunday he'll talk about it.
1:17:46 Ah, you know, maybe I'll call him next week.
1:17:48 Maybe we can grab coffee and we can talk through this.
1:17:52 But guys, we shouldn't wait on our pastors to tell us what to do or how to act.
1:17:55 We should let God guide us.
1:17:57 He's the ultimate guide anyway.
1:17:59 And the next one here is related to it.
1:18:00 We should not allow Marxism to infiltrate our churches.
1:18:05 We should call out our pastors and encourage them to be steadfast in the face of societal
1:18:09 pressure.
1:18:10 Kind of going back to the Matt Chandler situation from earlier, the thing about Matt Chandler,
1:18:14 and I hate this with that he does this on this subject, but he is basically creating
1:18:20 a straw man of anybody that is challenging him on this issue.
1:18:25 He basically calls out his church and calls out anybody that criticizes him when he talks
1:18:29 about racial reconciliation, basically calling them racist.
1:18:34 Like basically, if you don't think the same way that I do exactly on this particular issue
1:18:38 and how we're supposed to move forward, you're a racist and you need to search your heart
1:18:41 and you need God to do a work in you.
1:18:43 That's his, that's his mindset.
1:18:44 And again, I love everything that Matt Chandler has basically said and done except for this
1:18:48 issue.
1:18:49 But what Matt Chandler doesn't realize is he has allowed Marxism to be smuggled in to
1:18:54 his church and it is ideology and theology, really.
1:19:00 There's this whole woke church movement that he's co-signing.
1:19:02 Eric Mason is, you know, I think he literally wrote the book called woke church, but the
1:19:06 thing that the thing about it is is as the flock, we've got to be able to point out to
1:19:11 our pastors when they're doing this type of thing and that is dangerous.
1:19:15 And you go to a pastor like Matt Chandler and you say, great, here are the things that
1:19:18 you just said.
1:19:19 Here are the things that Karl Marx said in the communist manifesto.
1:19:22 Can you please show me the difference, sir?
1:19:25 Can you please show me the biblical basis for your argument and how it's different than
1:19:29 what I'm seeing in the communist manifesto?
1:19:32 Can you show me the difference?
1:19:34 Because guys, if we don't fight against it, our pastors are just going to continue operating.
1:19:38 Again, a tribute to ignorance, what you can't attribute to malice, don't assume that they're
1:19:42 doing it on purpose.
1:19:43 Matt Chandler is doing it on purpose now, but some of the guys that are saying these things,
1:19:47 they think they're well-meaning.
1:19:48 Some of these pastors that are talking about this issue that are taking a very soft stance
1:19:51 in making a very, very postmodern argument for something that shouldn't be postmodern,
1:19:55 we've got to be able to call that out.
1:19:58 So we should not allow Marxism to infiltrate our churches.
1:20:00 We should call out our pastors and encourage them to be steadfast in the face of societal
1:20:04 pressure.
1:20:05 Next thing here, I think we only got a few left.
1:20:07 We should not depend on earthly justice.
1:20:10 We should depend on perfect justice.
1:20:14 Here's the thing guys, this postmodern intersectionality, Marxism, this is all pagan justice.
1:20:23 You have to have the social justice movement be based on something other than the justice
1:20:28 of God.
1:20:29 And it is, because when you look at the Black Lives Matter website, you look at their rallies,
1:20:33 do you hear anything that even vaguely resembles the gospel?
1:20:36 Do you hear anything?
1:20:37 And the thing about it is, is when you have a pagan, naturalist, materialist, atheistic
1:20:43 worldview, you have to have justice on this planet, because there is no cosmic justice.
1:20:49 Talked about this before, there's no cosmic justice in the atheistic worldview.
1:20:54 You have to take justice.
1:20:55 Vengeance is yours, not gods.
1:20:58 But for you guys, depend on earthly justice, whether you're being directly affected by
1:21:03 the issues that are going on right now, or you're just watching on the sidelines, we
1:21:06 should not depend on earthly justice.
1:21:07 We should depend on perfect justice.
1:21:10 And guys, I think this is the last one here.
1:21:11 Yeah.
1:21:12 Last one here.
1:21:13 We should not side with what the world thinks is right.
1:21:17 We should rest on the unchanging ever present gospel.
1:21:23 So I've got some reminders for you, and you might want to go back and listen to this section
1:21:27 over and over again, because these are good reminders.
1:21:29 Here's one.
1:21:31 He was pierced for our transgressions.
1:21:33 He was crushed for our iniquities.
1:21:35 The punishment that brought us peace was upon him and by his wounds, we are healed.
1:21:39 That's Isaiah 53 five.
1:21:42 For even the son of man did not come to be served, but to serve and give his life as
1:21:46 a ransom for many.
1:21:48 That's Mark 1045.
1:21:50 God so loved the world that he gave his one and only son that whoever believes in him
1:21:53 should not perish, but have eternal life, John 3 16.
1:21:57 All the prophets testify about him that everyone who believes in him receives forgiveness of
1:22:02 sins through his name, Acts 10, 43.
1:22:06 He was delivered over to death for our sins and was raised to life for our justification.
1:22:10 Romans 4 25, but God demonstrates his own love for us in this while we were still sinners.
1:22:17 Christ died for us.
1:22:19 Romans 5 eight guys, if you think the gospel isn't enough, if you think the good news of
1:22:27 Jesus and his sacrifice for us isn't enough.
1:22:32 If you think that it's the gospel plus something else, if it's the gospel plus critical race
1:22:39 theory, the gospel plus intersectionality, the gospel plus postmodernism, the gospel
1:22:44 plus Karl Marx, the gospel, plus this stack of woke books, I got news for you.
1:22:51 You're going to be let down and you're going to have a very muddy and muddled worldview.
1:22:58 And, and I don't know how to encourage you in any other way other than we know how the
1:23:03 story ends.
1:23:06 We know the path to salvation.
1:23:10 We know that Jesus died specifically for us.
1:23:12 He died for all sinners of all shapes, sizes and races.
1:23:19 Why can't you rest in that?
1:23:22 If you somehow have disagreed with most of what I've said and still made it this far
1:23:26 into the podcast, what else are you resting on?
1:23:30 What are you adding to this?
1:23:32 Because nothing needs to be added, guys.
1:23:35 We should not side with what the world thinks is right.
1:23:39 We should rest on the unchanging ever present gospel.
1:23:43 Well, guys, there's your three part series.
1:23:45 I don't know if, if I'll ever do another three part series.
1:23:48 This only second time I've done a series of any kind, but there you go.
1:23:51 I did my best with it.
1:23:53 I mean, if you're not satisfied with the last three episodes, maybe don't pass go.
1:23:57 Don't go pass episode 144 because I spent a lot of time thinking about this.
1:24:01 A lot of time preparing these podcasts I've probably spent more time preparing these three
1:24:05 podcasts and any other three podcasts combined that I've ever done up to this point.
1:24:10 So that doesn't speak to the quality necessarily because that's in the eye, the beholder.
1:24:14 But guys, I did everything that I could to really wring out every last thought that I
1:24:19 had on this.
1:24:21 And I looked at a lot of materials.
1:24:22 I got a lot of other opinions and that I brought it to you in this way.
1:24:26 So it's the best I got.
1:24:27 I'm relieved that it's over with, but there you go.
1:24:29 All right, guys, before we let you go, we're going to do a quick resilience boost.
1:24:32 As you know, by now, we are a men's ministry and our mission is cultivating mainly resilience.
1:24:36 Specifically, we do that by providing content that for just spiritual, mental and physical
1:24:39 toughness.
1:24:40 So for you today, I've got an incredible three part.
1:24:44 It's not technically a three part sermon series, but it's three sermons back to back by the
1:24:48 same guy.
1:24:49 Guys, this is the trilogy you need in your lives.
1:24:52 If you're a Lord of the Rings fan, John Wick or whatever trilogy you can think of, this
1:24:56 is the trilogy you need, okay?
1:24:58 These are all by Dr. Vody Bockam.
1:25:00 He's one of my favorite pastors to listen to.
1:25:02 So the three episodes or these three talks that he gave were for a founder's ministry,
1:25:08 but he talked about ethnic Gnosticism, cultural Marxism and racial reconciliation.
1:25:12 He specifically focused on Ephesians two versus 10 and 11.
1:25:16 Those are incredible guys.
1:25:18 They're all an hour a piece.
1:25:20 I think the last two may be even a little bit over an hour.
1:25:22 It is so worth your time.
1:25:25 You have my permission to skip maybe the next few episodes of this podcast so that you can
1:25:28 go and listen to those.
1:25:30 It really informs a lot of the things that we talked about here in this three part series.
1:25:33 So Dr. Vody Bockam, ethnic Gnosticism, cultural Marxism, racial reconciliation.
1:25:38 I've got the YouTube links for you here.
1:25:39 I've also got the statement on social justice and the gospel.
1:25:42 This was something that was really floating around a lot of the reform circles and those
1:25:46 types of things.
1:25:47 It's an interesting read.
1:25:48 And then I also have an article that I talked about earlier from the Heritage Foundation.
1:25:51 It's how welfare undermines marriage and what to do about it.
1:25:54 So that kind of undergird some of the things that we talked about there.
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