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093 – Thoughts On Mass Shootings

August 29, 2019 49m 06s Full transcript available
093 – Thoughts On Mass Shootings
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In this episode, I tackle the recent wave of mass shootings in America, dissecting the political narratives that emerge and the societal issues that contribute to this violence. It's time to confront the uncomfortable truths about our culture, mental health, and the role of fatherlessness in these tragedies.
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0:37 This is Undaunted Life, a man's podcast. I'm your host Kyle Thompson. Let's get into it.
0:44 All right, guys, today we are going to be discussing the recent rash of mass shootings that have
0:49 occurred in the United States. And you might be a little bit surprised at the timing of this podcast,
0:54 because obviously that rash of shootings occurred several weeks ago from the time that
1:00 you're typically going to be listening to this. If you're listening to this on time,
1:03 we had the Gilroy, California shooting. We had the shooting in El Paso, Texas and Dayton, Ohio,
1:08 and pretty much Chicago every weekend. But everybody wanted to give their take immediately.
1:13 If not on the Saturday of that shooting or the Sunday of that shooting on the Monday after,
1:18 you know, the first full day of the new cycle, they wanted to kind of give you, you know, their
1:23 opinion. And they wanted to give it to you as fervently and defensively as possible and
1:27 whatever the thing might be. But for me, I made a very conscious decision that I wanted everything
1:33 to calm down, including myself before addressing this issue. Okay, because again, it's one of
1:40 those things that when this comes up, it becomes very incendiary for a while. And then it kind of
1:46 fades away. And then invariably it comes back, right? But for today's podcast, what this isn't
1:52 going to be is this isn't going to be guns in the reality of evil part two. So if you go back to
1:57 episode 10 of this podcast, okay, so very early on in this podcast, I address this, this was after
2:03 shooting out of school in Florida. So I kind of broke that I broke a lot of things down in that.
2:09 So I went into some of the arguments that pro gun people and anti gun people make and how they're
2:13 wrong. I went into some of my personal opinions. I went into a lot of different areas. And so some
2:18 of that stuff I'm going to rehash. But to be honest with you, I just listened to that episode. I
2:22 re listened to it about a week ago. And I cosign everything, like everything that I said, there's
2:27 not a single thing on there that I would change. There was one time I think I misspoke, I said
2:31 something like a class three license is what you need to get an automatic weapon. But the more
2:36 specific way of referring to it would be, you know, a class three special occupational tax,
2:42 you know, that kind of thing, the tax stamp type of a deal. And so that would be the only thing I
2:45 would change was just I'd make it more clear what exactly I was talking about. But still I cosign
2:50 everything there. But what's funny about this podcast and my preparation and for you guys,
2:55 you don't really know one way or the other. But for most of the podcast, I do put quite a bit of
3:00 effort into preparing myself before the podcast, right? There are some podcasts that I just get
3:04 ready and go I put myself three or four bullet points down on a piece of paper and then I just
3:08 flow for 45 minutes. And then others, I'll spend several hours researching and kind of getting my
3:13 thoughts and my philosophies together before I present it to you in a in a cogent manner that
3:17 hopefully has a narrative arc that you can follow. But with this one, this was a different podcast
3:22 when we were 93 podcasts in this one, I spent a whole lot of time thinking about what I would say,
3:30 but not a whole lot of time actually prepping what I would say. And so to be clear, what I mean by
3:35 that is I spent a lot of time I spent several weeks thinking about this subject. But not specifically
3:42 how I would address it with you all. But I've just spent time thinking about it like marinating
3:47 on in and around this subject matter. But then when it came time to put my notes together to
3:53 get in front of you today, you know, I didn't really put a whole lot of thought into it. I put
3:57 some thought into it, of course, because I want this to be valuable for you. But that's just something
4:00 to kind of give you a little peek behind the curtain as to kind of where my mindset's at. But
4:05 the way I think I'm going to do this today is I'm going to present this in kind of two
4:10 massive categories. So I kind of have some generalized issues that that I wanted to bring
4:15 up maybe, you know, about a half a dozen or so, maybe a little bit more kind of just general issues
4:20 about mass shootings. But then I want to kind of get into specifically issues with these shooters
4:25 and how we can try and get some sort of a semblance of an understanding of what's happening here.
4:32 And so I'm just going to go ahead and launch in here without any more fanfare. But in terms of
4:35 the general issues, the very first thing, this is pretty obvious. This issue just has to be political,
4:40 right? I mean, every time you see it, this just goes political immediately, right? I mean,
4:48 Twitter, it was like a cesspool for two or three days, like I'm getting on there trying to see
4:52 stuff about fights coming up, trying to see stuff about, you know, baseball or just random funny
4:57 things. But that this was on everybody's mind. And I'm not, I'm not necessarily dog in the fact
5:02 that there were a lot of people talking about it. Obviously, I'm talking about it. I want that
5:05 conversation to continue happening. But gosh, it was just there was no one listening, right? Everyone
5:10 was just yelling. And so if you came out pro gun, you know, you just got attacked, if you came out
5:16 anti gun, you got attacked from the other side, it was just kind of one of those things. But this
5:20 this was a great opportunity for the Democratic presidential candidates to come out and basically
5:25 just point their finger at everybody, right? And so it's just one of those issues where,
5:30 and I know people said this a lot before, but I mean, I think it bears repeating.
5:34 The bodies are still, you know, still warm, right? You know, some of the bodies haven't been fully
5:41 processed yet. And yet we're already jumping on the narrative bandwagon. And that kind of gets
5:46 me into the next thing is that narrative trumps everything. And that's all pun intended narrative
5:51 trumps, everything. And so if you're pro gun, you've got your narrative, you run right to it.
5:58 If you're anti gun, you've got your narrative, you run right to it. I guess now would be a good
6:02 time to remind you for any of you that have not gone back and listened to episode 10 of this podcast,
6:06 which I would urge you to do so maybe before you listen to the rest of this podcast, I am very pro
6:10 gun very much so pro second amendment. I can seal carry. I try to make sure that all my different
6:16 weapons systems that I own that I can be lethal with all of them and safe with all of them. I've
6:22 got a gun right here by my right hand here in the studio. And it's just, it's one of those things
6:26 that I'm very much on the pro side of this. But I'm also not somebody that sees something like this
6:32 happen. And thanks to myself, I have nothing to see here. No problems here. I'm because there's
6:38 obviously problems. Now we need to start kind of unpeeling, you know, this the problem and kind of
6:44 getting to the core of what it actually is, but kind of getting back into talking about how
6:47 narrative trumps everything. The thing about it is, is if if the shooting that occurred doesn't fit
6:54 perfectly into your narrative of your side, then you try not to talk about it. Okay.
7:00 So, so a few examples here. So people on the right, I felt like we're almost giddy about the
7:07 Dayton shooter. Because the Dayton shooter wasn't a valid socialist and Elizabeth Warren supporter.
7:12 He had talked, interestingly, a lot about, you know, gun control and then he goes out and shoots
7:17 up a bunch of people, right? But then I saw people on the political left that were really,
7:22 I mean, over their skis excited about the El Paso shooter, because he was a white supremacist.
7:27 Because they're like, great, we've got our narrative. You know, they've got their narrative.
7:32 Trump's a racist, Trump's a white supremacist, Trump's an ethnocentric, whatever the situation
7:37 might be. And this guy's going out there spouting the same nonsense that we say Trump spouts.
7:42 So this is perfect for our narrative. Our ratings are about to go through the roof.
7:47 And guys, I'll be honest with you, Trump has been very clunky in his language at times with people
7:53 that do align with kind of the white nationalist very all right side of things. But a lot of people
7:59 talk about what he said after Charleston, whenever he said there were good people on both sides,
8:04 that was a very clunky and very mismanaged statement by him. But in that same speech,
8:10 like here, here I am, y'all are turning me into a Trump Trump, like defender, which I don't tend
8:14 to be. But you in that same speech, he completely disavowed people that were white nationalists
8:19 in the same speech. But again, narrative Trump's everything. Here's another thing you guys maybe
8:25 didn't know about about a week after the shooting that occurred in the El Paso Walmart, there was
8:30 another guy that planned to shoot up a Walmart in Missouri. But the guy was stopped by an off-duty
8:38 firefighter that had his concealed carry and had a gun on him at the time. So I think it was a 20
8:43 year old kid basically comes walking into a Walmart. He had like a bag. I think he had a rifle and he
8:50 had a lot of ammunition. And this firefighter who basically lives left of bang and he's constantly
8:55 looking around and he's a sheepdog, he basically gets this guy at gunpoint and gets him down until
9:01 the police were able to show up. Did you hear about that? I bet you didn't. I mean, if you follow
9:08 some what, you know, more right wing sources, I'm sure you heard about that because it's a good guy
9:13 with a gun stopping a bad guy with a gun. Did you hear it on CNN? Did you hear it on MSNBC?
9:19 Did you was it on the front page in the New York Times? I mean, he didn't see it because it's all
9:23 about narrative. This subject, abortion, immigration, it's all about narrative. And if you're narrative
9:30 and your story doesn't fit, then they're not going to run with it. And another general issue
9:35 that we kind of talk about is kind of the demonization of objects, right, of inanimate objects,
9:42 which is exactly what guns are. Guns are not evil, right? They can be used for evil, but they are not
9:51 for evil. And I use this example all the time. If we were sitting across a table from one another
9:57 and I set my gun on the table in between us, loaded, ready to go with the safety off,
10:01 it's not going to jump up and shoot you. It can't do that. It doesn't have a mind of its own. It
10:05 can't reckon. And so, you know, a battle on be, I don't know if you guys follow them, but you should
10:10 follow them on Instagram and Twitter, Babylon B, they're basically satire. They're more kind of
10:15 right wing Christian kind of satire news, stuff like that. They basically said that, you know,
10:20 there was one where they said, you know, the police showed up at this event and they arrested an AR 15,
10:25 right? Because it's the AR 15. That's evil, right? Because a lot of people on the left that want
10:30 to demonize guns, it's because they don't really like demonizing people unless they're white nationalists,
10:35 they'll hop all over that one. But they, they just don't want to demonize people because people
10:39 can't be bad, right? Because we're all very highly evolved monkeys and we evolved in order to be
10:44 at peace with one another. If you listen to, you know, basically the four horsemen of new wave
10:49 atheism, right? But we keep demonizing objects. But around the same time you saw this latest rash
10:55 of mass shootings, there were mass stabbings in the United States that left multiple people dead.
11:01 But you just don't hear people talking about how we shouldn't have knives,
11:05 not an American. You hear that in the UK, but you, but you don't hear that here.
11:09 But it's like, it's a thing. And I say this all the time too, way more people in the history of
11:15 humanity have been killed with pointy things, you know, sticks, spears, knives, swords, you know,
11:23 gladius, like those types of things, they've been killed with those things. But we don't hear all
11:27 these people in the streets yelling about how we should ban pointy things, right? Again, kind of
11:31 goes back to narrative. I guess another thing that I've thought about a lot over the last several
11:35 weeks is it's times like these that you realize people don't know crap about guns. I mean, they
11:41 don't know anything about guns. And here's the thing guys, I've told you this before, I did not
11:45 grow up in a family that talked about guns at shotguns. I knew there were guns in the home,
11:50 but I never saw them. I certainly never went out and shot them. And so as an adult, I started
11:54 learning about guns on my own, like very, very basic, basic one of my friends who is quite the
11:59 gun collector, he basically set a bunch of guns down. He showed me single action and double action
12:04 and, you know, semi automatic and automatic. And he really broke it down into these different
12:09 categories. And I mean, that was about 12 or 13 years ago. And I've just continued to learn
12:13 along the way. But you hear people say these things in public or on Twitter, on television or on
12:20 podcast. And it's like, like, this isn't that hard to understand. Like you don't ever have to have
12:26 shot a gun before to understand the difference between a semi automatic and an automatic.
12:31 I mean, I'm listening to, uh, who was at Brennan's job was on the Joe Rogan podcast,
12:35 right? Again, this is supposed to be about MMA. But sometimes they veer off into other subjects.
12:39 Usually it's about drugs or cars or something like that. But they got on to gun violence and
12:43 Brennan's job is like, no one needs a semi automatic weapon. Why does anybody need a semi automatic
12:48 weapon? And you could tell by the way he said it, he was thinking machine gun. And even if not,
12:55 he was thinking that an AR 15 is like a machine gun. And it's not like that's a semi automatic.
13:01 He doesn't have the foggiest idea that almost every pistol owned by a person in the United States
13:05 is a semi automatic weapon, right? One trigger pull one bullet. And so you just hear these things
13:13 and it's like, Oh, like it just it's like your brains being split apart. And it's just so frustrating
13:20 and infuriating because part of the reason why you can't have debates on this is because most
13:24 people are stupid on one side. And then this specific debate, it's usually the anti gun people
13:30 that are really, really, really ignorant about guns. But in this type of situation, it's like,
13:35 look, we've got to define our terms, but we've also got to define our shared knowledge if we're
13:39 going to have a very cogent and a very productive conversation on this issue. But people don't know
13:46 anything about guns. It's really hard to do that. The next thing is it's, you know, I've thought
13:51 about this a little bit, but the same people that want so desperately to decry white supremacist
13:57 violence as any sane person would be included, they tend to go silent in the wake of Islamic
14:05 fundamentalist violence. And you know what, just for categorization purposes, let's not even talk
14:10 about, you know, Boko Haram or the Taliban or ISIS, let's not talk about that. Because some people
14:16 kind of put that in a category by itself, right? They put that over there. I'm talking about just
14:21 the random people that will scream Allahu Akbar in a coffee shop and then start stabbing people.
14:27 I saw a video here recently, I think it was in Sydney, Australia, where a guy was basically going
14:33 around stabbing people. And then he started jumping on cars, screaming Allahu Akbar. And then he kept
14:38 saying, shoot me in the face, shoot me in the face. I was kind of like a suicide by cop thing.
14:42 And all these guys got together and they basically stopped and they put it, it was kind of weird.
14:46 They put a bunch of chairs on top of them. And they were like sitting on these chairs to basically,
14:50 you know, they had dearmed the guy and then they had kind of gone on with that. But when we see
14:54 Islamic fundamentalist violence, we don't seem to hear the same cries from the same people.
15:00 Like, why is that? Because to me, white supremacist violence is sinful and needs to be eradicated
15:09 and stopped. And Islamic fundamentalist violence is sinful and it needs to be eradicated and stopped.
15:18 Like, why can't you say both? Can two things be true at the same time? Is that possible?
15:23 So that was interesting to me. Like, we just, we see these voices get really, really loud when
15:30 the narrative fits what they want. I guess, you know, the theme of this podcast today could be
15:33 narrative. But then the next thing I was thinking about is there's been a lot of entities and
15:38 companies that have responded to this in just the dumbest ways possible. Like, it's absolutely
15:43 incredible. So there's a company here in Oklahoma where I work that I'm very, very familiar with.
15:49 And right after this rash of shootings, they sent out a memo, right, to most of the managerial
15:55 staff at this office, basically saying that they have a strict no guns in the office policy.
16:01 Okay, and here's the thing, if you run your company and you would prefer guns not to be there,
16:06 and that's your thing, it's your company. Hey, that's your right to do that.
16:10 But in your response to criminals going around, killing innocent people, if in that response,
16:18 your knee jerk reaction is let's make sure all the people that work here who are not, in fact,
16:24 criminals, let's make sure that they have less of a chance to defend themselves.
16:28 Let's make sure that the full smart, the, you know, the, the, what am I trying to say here,
16:34 the, uh, force multipliers. There we go. The force multipliers are on the other side of the
16:39 equation on the evil side of the equation. Like really? These are really smart people
16:47 that are coming up with some of the dumbest ways possible. Okay. So because here's the thing, guys,
16:53 98% of the mass shootings that have occurred in the United States since 1950 have occurred in
16:58 gun-free zones. You dummies. Come on. So making an office, a gun-free zone does not make that
17:08 office safer. I mean, you don't need a lot of paper to prove this. You give me one sheet and I
17:14 can draw it out pretty quickly. It makes you all very much less safe. And so if you're a concealed
17:20 carrier and you are in that office and now all of a sudden they are checking you every day to make
17:25 sure that your gun's just in your car. Hey, hey, we're not saying you can't carry a gun. Just keep
17:30 it in your car. What good does that do the people in that office as someone comes into that office
17:35 intent to kill them? What good does that do them? What are they going to throw a stapler at them?
17:41 My goodness. It's unbelievable. I don't understand it. But you know, you have people that are
17:48 anti-gun people or more leftist or more liberal. And when something like this happens, it's a way
17:52 that they can virtue signal. It's a way that they can, you know, make them feel good. Like, oh,
17:57 you know what? These, these guns, we're just, we're going to get them out of the hands of
18:00 everybody because these guns are so dangerous. But then the last thing I knew you guys were
18:05 probably waiting on me to talk about this red flag laws. Okay, red flag laws. So if you're not
18:09 familiar with red flag laws, this is something that's kind of making the rounds right now. And
18:14 even in conservative circles or public in circles, but basically it's a way that you could petition
18:19 the local government or the local judiciary. If you feel like someone that you know, right?
18:26 Maybe your brother or your best friend or someone at work that you think is a harm to themselves or
18:30 other people. And they own guns that you could, it's basically a temporary gun restraining order
18:37 that the government can come in and intercede and take those weapons away for a period of time.
18:43 That's not been defined. But for a period of time until you cool off or they determine that
18:48 you're able to own guns again or whatever the case may be. And there's a lot of hay being made
18:52 in conservative circles about this that people are actually on board with this. And I'm pretty
18:55 sure if I went back to my podcast 10 that I talked about these types of laws and how in
19:00 general, I liked the idea of that. But at the same time, there's a caveat, which is who exactly is
19:06 determining who gets the guns and who doesn't, right? Because here's the thing is if I don't like
19:12 somebody, like, why wouldn't I just go to the local government and petition them to take take
19:17 their guns away? Just screw with them. Here's another thing. What if I know somebody and I really
19:23 want to steal their crap? But I know they have guns. What inside of a red flag law would keep the
19:30 government from being able to take those persons guns away, thus making it easier for me to break
19:36 in and steal their crap? Like what? That's the thing with these red flag laws is the biggest
19:43 concern to me is right now people feel comfortable because red candidates have the Senate and we've
19:49 got a red candidate in the White House. But would you be talking about red flag laws if it was
19:55 blue across the board? Like it was when Obama was a first made president and that he had the house
20:00 and the Senate, like, would be, would we be okay with that for pro second amendment, pro gun
20:07 people would be, would we be okay with that? So I like the idea of red flag laws, but with a lot
20:13 of grandiose ideas, once you start talking them out, the issues start rearing their ugly heads
20:19 and it becomes very, very complicated very quickly. And so to be honest with you, I would be surprised
20:26 if there wasn't some sort of gun legislation that was passed in the United States. But if
20:30 something is passed, it's really not going to stop these things from happening. So if you go from
20:35 being able to have a 30 round magazine to only being able to have a 10 round magazine in certain
20:39 states, it's not going to stop mass shootings. You know why? Because there are millions and millions
20:42 and millions of 30 and 40 round magazines already in circulation. Right. If there's certain guns,
20:48 if they go back to the assault weapons ban, right, that we had in the 90s, which did not curb violence
20:53 with assault weapons at all with assault rifles at all. If we go back to that, it's not going to
20:59 stop anything because the most popular rifle in the United States is the R15. It's already in
21:04 circulation. But here's the other thing. With a lot of these mass shootings, and we start getting
21:10 into a lot of different articles and a lot of different things like that with a lot of those
21:13 types of things, people just don't understand the statistics. And I'm going to, I'm going to link to
21:18 an article later that I'll talk about. But basically, when you start getting into the statistics around
21:22 guns, most of the gun deaths in the United States, like two thirds of the gun deaths in the United
21:26 States are suicides. Okay, which are tragic. But that's a coward taking the cowards way out and
21:32 shooting themselves. Again, let me say it's tragic. It's horrific. I can't imagine what it would take
21:38 for someone to get to that place. But that's the overwhelming majority of gun violence.
21:43 And then you start getting into other like one fifth of all gun violence and gun deaths in the
21:47 United States are gang related. Again, tragic. I wish these people wouldn't do these things.
21:53 These gangs of all colors, right? Of all races of all types of people. And so we can't
22:00 basically put all of these gun violence cases in the same category. A crazy lunatic loser walks
22:08 into a Walmart and starts shooting people indiscriminately. That is very different than a gangbanger in
22:13 Chicago, driving by seeing rival gang members and shooting at them and killing them. They're not
22:18 equivalent, right? These are all people that have the Amago day. It is tragic in every single situation,
22:25 but it's different. It is just very, very different. But again, most people don't know their stats.
22:31 A lot of stats can be manipulated. And depending upon what entity it is, again, they're just going
22:36 to play back into their own narrative. So again, guys, that kind of wraps up me talking about just
22:41 generalized issues about these mass shootings. But now I want to get in and talk a little bit
22:45 more about issues with the shooters. And so from the top, I'm going to go and say this,
22:49 don't expect me to come up with a way that this can all be fixed. Okay, which, you know, if you're
22:57 going to oppose something, you should be able to propose something. I kind of try to live by that
23:00 mantra. And the thing is, there's a lot of things that I'm about to talk about. I'm not saying that
23:05 these are the issue. I'm saying that a lot of these things are contributing factors. Because I can,
23:12 I can kind of hear some of the negativity and some of the responses I'm going to get already.
23:16 But the thing is, is a lot of people have been jumped on for making some of these similar arguments.
23:20 But I'm just saying, if we look at all of these things individually, maybe they don't describe
23:25 a negative outcome. But if we look at all of these things, you know, as a whole, as a whole of a
23:32 narrative, then maybe we can start figuring out ways to fix this. Okay. So one of the first issues,
23:39 I think it's just a generalized issue is just the internet. And I know I'm not an old curmudgeon.
23:44 I'm not going to say, you know, cut off your internet and all those different things. But
23:47 the thing about the internet, if you think about it in 2019, the internet is not just a thing that
23:52 we do from time to time, we live in it. So when I think back to the first time I had the internet,
24:00 which was seventh grade, we had a gateway computer. And you know, a friend of a friend built it for
24:04 my parents, the computer that is, and we were able to get on AOL, right? And we had instant messenger,
24:11 and we had the 56K modem and the dial up in the hole, the whole nine yards. So what the internet
24:17 was for me, for a lot of my life growing up, it was a thing that you went to, and you farted around
24:23 on for like 20 or 30 minutes, and then you moved on with your life. Because you basically spent 15
24:29 minutes going to two different websites, you know, clicking from thing to thing, you couldn't really
24:33 download anything at the time. There was no YouTube, there wasn't any of that. So it was a thing you
24:38 did, you didn't live in it. And so for a lot of you guys out there that are into particular sports,
24:43 you know, me, what you get to, or maybe you with golf, or maybe like playing pickup basketball,
24:47 you don't live in it. That's still kind of a thing that you do, even if you do it a lot.
24:51 But just think about how often you're on the internet. I mean, for iPhone users, remember when
24:57 you started getting those updates on your screen time? Like, did it kind of make you sick?
25:01 And so for the kids that are growing up now, for a lot of these young males that are perpetrating
25:07 these crimes, you know, you got to think these are people that have lived on the internet,
25:11 the internet, internet seems real, but it's not. And I also was thinking about cyber bullying.
25:17 So, you know, I think I was very normal in school in that, you know, I did a little bit of bullying,
25:22 and I got bullied as well. You know, I was a, I was a fat redheaded freckle face kid,
25:27 kind of an easy target. And so that's kind of one of those things where bullying was something that
25:34 you could go home from. So if you got bullied mercilessly, and I'm just guys don't think that
25:40 I'm trying to diminish bullying in any way, shape or form, I'm certainly not doing that.
25:43 But let's just say you were bullied from before first hour until after the last hour of the day,
25:48 all the way through lunch, you still got to go home. You got some sort of reprieve, right?
25:55 And I know there's guys listening to this right now that we're bullied mercilessly. And I'm so,
25:59 so unbelievably sorry that that happened to you. It's, it's wicked and it's terrible and I wish
26:03 it wouldn't have happened. I hope it made you stronger. I hope you didn't pick up any bad habits
26:08 along the way, but you know, it's a bad deal. But now in this internet culture that we live in,
26:12 kids are going home and the bullying continues, if not intensifies. And so let's say you're the
26:19 quiet kid, you're kind of the weird kid, maybe the goth kid, you know, you didn't play sports,
26:23 you're not really that smart, you're kind of on the fringes. Well, you're going to get picked on
26:27 at school and then you're going to go home. And if you get online, it's not going to stop.
26:31 Like you don't get a reprieve if you get on Twitter or Snapchat or Instagram,
26:37 like you just don't get a break from it. And so bullying can literally be a 24 seven cycle for
26:43 people. I hear I hear from guys that have daughters, it's absolutely horrific for their girls,
26:47 because maybe they kind of go on and go out of limb and do their hair a different way and go to
26:52 school or they wear a different color that they weren't sure look good on them or not. And then
26:56 they just get picked on at school and then, you know, people send a message as soon as they get
27:00 home saying that they should kill themselves because they were the wrong sweater, right? It's
27:05 absolutely terrifying. But then the other thing I thought about with these shooters is video games,
27:09 okay? And so this has obviously been brought up before about the kind of ubiquitous nature of
27:14 violent video games that we have in kind of the glorification of violence inside of these video
27:19 games. And I know a lot of people as soon as you bring up video games, in terms of its correlation
27:24 to gun violence, it's like, well, there's not been, you know, any things that definitively prove that
27:28 this guy played Call of Duty and then he went out and shot people like on Call of Duty and all those
27:32 different things. So you're not gonna hear that argument from me. Okay, guys, you're not gonna
27:35 hear that video games lead to that. However, however, we have to be clear about something.
27:41 Video games that are incredibly violent. They absolutely desensitize us to violence.
27:48 There's no way around it. Because if you've never seen gore, and I'm talking the same thing,
27:57 and so the desensitize the violence, that expands out into TV shows and movies as well. But even
28:01 within video games, I mean, as a kid, you know, you're playing Mario Carter or Ken Griffey Junior
28:07 Baseball or just, you know, something like that. And even Goldeneye, the kind of the first, first
28:13 kind of first person shooter that I can remember on the N64, like there wasn't there wasn't like a
28:17 lot of blood and it was kind of hard to play. And it was kind of it was just fun. But video games
28:22 now, video games that I play like Call of Duty, they're unbelievably violent. Unbelievably violent.
28:31 And so how could we say that a lot of these boys that are going out perpetrating these shootings,
28:36 a lot of these young men that are doing these shootings, how could we say that these violent
28:41 video games didn't have an impact? There was one shooting that I heard about at a school where
28:47 there was a firearms expert that came in afterwards and you know, they're kind of surveying the scene.
28:52 And it was a especially horrific shooting. I think there were seven or eight students that
28:57 were killed. They were all killed with headshots. So for those of you that aren't very familiar
29:02 with guns, when you're practicing shooting, the silhouette that you're typically shooting at
29:08 has rings starting in in center mass. And when you're taught to shoot, you're taught to shoot
29:14 people's center mass and stop them. So when people are like, what do you have to shoot them
29:18 and kill them? Why couldn't you just shoot them in the leg? Because it's freaking difficult to do
29:22 you dummy, pick up a gun and try it sometime. It's really difficult to shoot someone in the leg,
29:26 especially if they're running towards you. Okay. But this kid had shot all these people point
29:32 blank in their faces and killed them all. He said it was an unbelievable display of accuracy and
29:41 marksmanship from a kid who prior to this shooting had never even shot his weapons. I think he stole
29:49 his weapons from from a family member. He had never shot these weapons. But if you've played
29:54 these first person shooter video games, your your hand I coordination and things that that can take
29:59 place, especially in games where you're given extra bonus points for shooting somebody in the
30:03 head or something like that, it absolutely aids in your ability to be able to perform and do that
30:08 in real life. No, having a PlayStation controller in your hands and having a rifle in your hands is
30:14 not the same thing. But if you've been desensitized to the violence into watching the blood spray all
30:20 over the screen and all over you and those things, if you're in the zone in that moment, how can we
30:24 say that that doesn't have an impact? And again, I'm not saying that that's the reason why we had
30:30 these mass shootings, but we have to look at again, I'm going to keep coming back to this. We have to
30:34 look at everything as a whole, like what direction is the world going in that and why are we seeing
30:39 more of these types of things? But like, why are the mass shootings getting bigger? Why are they
30:45 hap seemingly happening more often? Okay. So another thing that I kind of kind of getting off the
30:51 desensitized to violence side of things is kids don't really have an opportunity as they're growing
30:58 up and developing now of conflict resolution in the way that maybe you grew up or your grandparents
31:06 or your parents or something like that. You know, there's not a whole lot of communities right now
31:10 where the kids play outside. Like I live in a community that's gated and you know, just today,
31:17 there was I saw a kid on a bike and it was so weird. I was like, what the heck is this kid doing
31:21 in the street in the bike? Like that was my immediate thought whereas growing up, it's like, oh, look,
31:25 there's like 17 kids that we drove by on this one street just trying to get to our driveway,
31:30 kids on bikes. You don't see kids playing outside a lot. And when kids play outside with one another
31:37 without adult supervision, yes, they can get into trouble. But also, you know, they're gonna play
31:41 games where, you know, they're creating rules, they're creating hierarchies. They're doing all
31:46 kinds of things. They're they're learning how to have conflict resolution, like those types of
31:51 things. Because one thing that we've seen as well as there's been this big push towards this
31:56 postification of society that we can't let kids fight anymore. Now, no, I'm not advocating for kids
32:04 to be able to attack one another. But if two kids get into a disagreement, they need to figure it out,
32:09 why wouldn't we let them fight? Like, like, why not? Again, just think about, you know, I've sat
32:16 with my grandpa and there were stories and you've heard me talk about this before where it's like,
32:20 this kid's got a problem with that kid. They both have agreed that they want to figure this out.
32:24 So the teacher would say, son, you grab a friend other kid, you grab your friend, go down the road,
32:30 figure it out. Don't come back in here until you got to figure it out. So they've each got
32:35 someone that can hop in and help them and save them. If things get wrong, they go down the street,
32:39 they get in the dust up, they come back, and they might become best friends. But we don't see that
32:44 now. Maybe because fighting, Oh, gosh, we just can't do that. We got to use our words, but, you know,
32:49 specifically, we can't use, you know, charged words. We can't raise our voices. Like, we've got to keep
32:55 things very, very calm. And let's keep it very, very effeminate and feminine. And let's just talk
33:00 through this. Some things talking, sometimes talking doesn't get it done. And again, I'm not
33:06 advocating violence for children. I'm not advocating that you go out and poke a guy in his chest at
33:11 the bar and you tell him you got something wrong with him and you want to go outside. I'm not
33:14 advocating for those things I'm just talking about. We don't have kids playing outside. They're not
33:18 learning how to do conflict resolution. Kids are fat. Kids are ridiculously fat. Their parents are
33:23 stuffing nonsense down their throats. They're not outside working that nonsense off their inside
33:28 playing Fortnite or farting around on their phone or looking at porn or whatever the situation
33:32 might be. There's also just no outlets for their anger. I think that might be kind of the biggest
33:38 issue that I'm finding right now talking about these few things all once while I'm trying to
33:41 even work in it out work at work it out in my brain at the moment is there's no outlets for rage
33:46 and anger and angst for kids. Because you have some kids that, you know, they get into football
33:52 and they get into wrestling and they get into baseball and you know they just can't wait to,
33:56 you know, smash the ball with their bat and they just want to get that, they just want to get that
34:00 angst out. But most kids aren't doing that. There's a lot of communities where their sports programs
34:06 are falling apart completely because these kids are like why in the world would I go outside? It's
34:10 100 degrees. Why would I go outside and sweat and play baseball when I've got baseball right
34:15 here on my PlayStation? I can just do that right now. Why would I run around and do paintball when
34:21 I can stay inside and play Fortnite on my Xbox? Why would I do that? And their parents certainly
34:26 aren't encouraging them to go outside. Their parents are sitting there. They're fat and stupid too.
34:30 And it's kind of one of those situations where it's like what do you do as a society? What do we do?
34:34 Because people love to define hey we're fatter than we've ever been. Okay, do you do you want to
34:40 advise us on how we can stop that? But my main concern is for these kids that what are they
34:46 supposed to do with all this anger that will surely come even for the kids that are you know nice
34:51 and even killed? What are we supposed to do with them? Do we have any idea? That's a big concern
34:59 for me. That's why I love it. I love it when parents get their kids into real martial arts.
35:04 So when they get them into you know kickboxing as a little kid or into jujitsu or into wrestling
35:10 like stuff like that and I guess if you're going to do karate or a keto or any of those
35:14 nonsense martial arts or something like that at least you're a kid and you're getting to kick
35:18 kick a bag and break a board that was already kind of broken like whatever who cares but it's
35:24 something it's something to get your anger out. It's just something to do. I mean how many of
35:30 you guys listening to this did not get in a single fistfight growing up as a kid. How many of you
35:36 like what did you do to get your anger out? And again again again I'm not advocating for violence
35:43 amongst kids. I'm not saying all right make sure your kids get in a fight once a week. It's not what
35:46 I'm saying. But what would push one of these killers that spent all this time getting bullied
35:52 and playing these crazy video games and you not really have in friends and not really you know
35:57 taking care of themselves physically like what are they supposed to do?
36:01 I guess another way that you could say this and this is a societal problem is what we don't have
36:08 rights of passage. Talk about that a lot. At what point did you become a man and who told you that?
36:15 Did you just kind of think it up on your own? Did you just kind of figure it out on your own?
36:20 Ah guess I'm a man now. How did you know? Because you don't really see
36:26 boys that had very involved fathers, very involved grandparents, very involved friends, male friends
36:34 of the dad in the life of that boy, doting on him, teaching him, instilling wisdom, giving them all
36:41 kinds of knowledge in all these areas that would help them be a better person and a better man.
36:46 You don't see someone that comes from that type of a background, some of that went through
36:49 rights of passage and not because of some religious community. It wasn't you know because they were
36:54 orthodox Jews or something like that. You don't see those kids going around and shooting up places.
36:59 You don't see it. Do you think there's possibly a correlation there? We don't have that.
37:06 So I think that's part of it as well. Then you can also talk about psychotropic drugs.
37:12 Like this is not going to be a long podcast about psychotropic drugs, but it is absolutely
37:19 astonishing the number of children in the United States that are on psychotropic drugs that are
37:24 changing the brain chemicals that they have. There are people that I know that are very close to me
37:30 that have like three year olds, three year old boys that are you know just a little too rowdy
37:35 and they put them on medication. It's like they're a three year old boy. Like what are they supposed
37:41 to do? Like what? Like they're just being themselves. They're rotten little three year old human beings
37:50 you don't need to dope them up. And here's the other thing with a lot of the mass shootings,
37:55 especially school shootings, almost 100% of these boys were on psychotropic drugs.
38:00 That's not to say that if your kid is on riddling that he's going to go shoot up his school again.
38:05 Don't hear me saying things. I'm not saying I'm being very clear with you, but there is a correlation
38:10 here. These these kids are depressed. These kids have mental issues. And what we're doing is we're
38:15 just jamming things down their throat, a lot of which things that haven't been fully vetted out
38:20 and fully researched to understand what the long term ramifications of these drugs are.
38:24 If you take them over the long term, we just jam it down their throat because we don't want to do
38:28 the hard part. For a lot of these kids, they just need to get physical. These kids needs to exercise.
38:34 There is a direct correlation between depression and people who are sedentary between mental problems
38:42 and people that just sit around eating Cheetos all day. Again, you don't see a lot of kids that are
38:48 highly involved and highly active and going around and taking care of business in a lot of these areas.
38:53 And even if they don't do and act out in these violent ways until they were older,
38:57 we have to think about the environment that they were in as they were growing up.
39:01 So I think these drugs have a lot to do with it. Then also, we get into just the overall
39:09 fatherlessness within society. You know, that kind of goes back to rights of passage, but you've seen
39:14 this stark rise over the last several decades of households without the father in them.
39:20 And yet we're blown away that we're seeing little boys act out in these ways. And even
39:26 if these little boys are 25 years old, they're still little boys in their head
39:29 because they didn't have a daddy around. They didn't have that strong male role model. Again,
39:36 go back. How many of these mass shooters profile as a kid that was highly involved,
39:42 had active parents in his life, was an active church life that wasn't on medication. How many
39:47 of those do you see? Can you think of one? You know, the all-star kid that all of a sudden
39:55 has decided he wanted to shoot up his school or shoot up a store. We don't see it. And then I
40:04 guess even a more macro issue would just be secularization overall. We've seen the West become very,
40:09 very secular, especially in the last 10 years. But really, we've seen this gradual decline in any
40:15 type of Judeo-Christian ethic. We're all in enjoying the positives of being under that Judeo-Christian
40:21 ethic. Again, when it's convenient for us, but we want everything to be secularized. And we're
40:26 moving in that direction. We don't want God anywhere. We don't want prayer anywhere. Get your Bible
40:30 out of here. Like, I don't want that nonsense. Is it possible? Is it possible? Is it plausible?
40:39 That in addition to all these things that I've talked about, right? So, you know, cyber bullying,
40:45 the internet and, you know, kids not playing outside and are getting desensitized of violence
40:50 and just the overall personification of society, no rights to passions or drugs, the fatherlessness,
40:54 all that. Could that also be because of how secularized we are? Because fatherlessness inside of
41:03 religious communities isn't as high in non-religious communities. It's still high. It's still awkwardly
41:08 high. Right? I talk about the divorce rights and in the church and outside the church are
41:13 relatively the same. It's absolutely embarrassing. But again, these all kind of go in a certain
41:18 direction. And as we get more secular, we're getting more violent, it seems. How's that possible?
41:25 And again, guys, no one knows how to fix this. So, don't get it twisted. Even if you're
41:30 listening to this, which I don't know why if you're a leftist, if you're 41 minutes in here with me,
41:35 I doubt you're still hanging around. But if you are, none of the candidates you support know how to
41:40 fix this. Right? Yeah, I said it. Bernie Sanders can't fix it. Kamala Harris can't fix it.
41:46 Elizabeth Warren can't fix it. Joe Biden certainly can't fix it. None of these people know what
41:50 they're doing. And here's a trick. Got a little insider information for you. No one knows what
41:55 they're doing on the other side either. These are just slightly smarter, slightly richer adults than
42:00 you. They're not going to fix it. When people come out and say, well, in my first 100 days,
42:07 I'll give Congress the time to act. And then if they don't do it, I'm going to do an executive
42:10 order and we're going to bah, bah, bah, bah, whatever the thing is, it's not going to fix it.
42:13 It's not going to fix it. We will not be able to prevent all these shootings. We won't.
42:20 And don't give me that. Well, if we can just prevent one, it's worth it. If we can prevent one
42:24 shooting, then you start, I don't really want to get into the, you know, into the unit area or the
42:29 anyway, I don't really want to get on that side of things. But the thing is, guys, and this is kind
42:34 of where I wrapped up the last podcast as well is Satan is real. The dark forces on this plant,
42:39 they're real evil will always find a way. And yes, I am for things that could curb evil.
42:49 But at the same time, I'm a sheepdog. And I train to be one. And if the things that you say
42:56 are going to infringe on my ability to be able to defend myself and my loved ones and to push back
43:03 darkness in the process, I'm out, I'm out on it. And again, guys, this isn't a, you know,
43:09 this isn't a sermon. This isn't something where I'm going to like bust out. And this is the scripture
43:13 that proves my point. Like this, that's not coming, right? But Satan's real. And you have a bunch
43:19 of people on the political left that don't know anything about guns that just want your votes.
43:24 They will say anything to get into power or to stay into power. And a lot of these people don't
43:29 believe in Satan. They don't believe in evil. They think we're just highly evolved monkeys.
43:36 So what is their reasoning for wanting to substantiate evil? They'll use words like evil, but they
43:44 don't have a foggiest idea what it means. And they're sorry, certainly not spending any time
43:47 thinking about where it comes from. And so again, like I said, there wasn't going to be some grandiose
43:53 finish to this podcast. It's just kind of one of those deals where I literally just sat down and
43:58 started writing. And I'm like, I feel like all these things have have something to do with it.
44:04 And again, I still support the Second Amendment. I still support people's rights to be able to
44:08 defend themselves and their property. I absolutely, I am that person. But at the same time, I'm not
44:14 excited when I see things like this happen. I can Gilroy or Dayton or El Paso or Chicago or anywhere
44:20 else. And for people to say that because I'm pro gun that I like when things things happen or
44:25 that the blood is somehow in my hands, it's egregious, it's gross. And I know not everyone
44:30 listening to this is a is, you know, thinks the same way I do about the Second Amendment. But
44:36 that's the thing guys, is if we're going to get together, and if we're going to have discussions
44:39 on this issue, we have to know what we're dealing with. This isn't about the guns. This isn't just
44:44 about the guns. This isn't just about thought analysis. This isn't just about kids not playing
44:49 outside. This isn't just about kids being fat. It's much bigger than that. We've got an enemy
44:55 that is going to continue to infiltrate people and encourage them to do these horrific things.
45:02 So we've got to pray. We've got to be in the fight and push back darkness ourselves.
45:09 And we got to get after in those ways. So again, don't have this grandiose ending for you guys.
45:15 Wish I did. I wish I had the answers, but I don't think any of us do. All right, guys,
45:19 before we let you go, we're going to do a quick resilience boost. As you know, by now,
45:22 we are a men's ministry and our mission is cultivating mainly resilience. Specifically,
45:26 we do that by providing content like this podcast that helps you forward spiritual
45:30 mental and physical toughness. So today I've got a couple of resources for you.
45:33 So one is an article that was very, very surprising, a very, very interesting read. It's back from
45:37 2017. But the name of the article is I used to think gun control was the answer. My research
45:42 told me otherwise. So this is by Leah Labresco. And surprisingly, this is from the Washington Post.
45:50 Okay, so not national review, not the daily wire, like not Fox News from the Washington Post,
45:56 not exactly a bastion of a pro gun thought going on over there. But basically, this is a
46:02 statistician and a former news writer from 538 that basically is she's a data person.
46:08 And when she started getting into the data about gun violence, it didn't really fit all the
46:12 narratives that people like the Washington Post were spouting. So I think that's an interesting
46:17 read for you guys. And then for some of you guys that are a little bit more interested in the
46:20 Second Amendment, you pro gun folks, there is a Steven Crowder video again, every time I give you
46:25 something from louder with Crowder, I have to tell you, no, I don't support everything he's
46:28 ever said or done. Some of the things he does are funny. Some of the things he does are ridiculous.
46:32 But this was a thing that he did. It was a Second Amendment American masterclass with a historian
46:37 named David Barton. And so it's like a 30, I can't remember 20 or 30 minute video where they're
46:42 basically talking about the Second Amendment. They're talking about a lot of history around
46:45 that around guns and different things. And so for those of you that are interested in something
46:49 like that, I think it's informative, even if you're not interested in the Second Amendment or guns,
46:53 this is going to be informative to you. Because even if you disagree with the fact that we should
46:56 be able to own guns, this is going to give you the information that will kind of give you an idea
47:00 as to why we even have them in the first place. All right, guys, thanks a lot for listening to the
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47:58 King of Sorrow, which is off their latest record entitled Phantom Anthem. The links are in the
48:02 description. I'm your host, Kyle Thompson. Remember, keep cultivating manly resilience,
48:08 keep forging spiritual, mental, and physical toughness. Keep seeking the lion of Judah.
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