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090 – Q&A Vol. 10

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090 – Q&A Vol. 10
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In this episode, Kyle tackles listener questions on a variety of topics, including whether Christians should watch R-rated movies, his favorite Westerns, and predictions for upcoming UFC fights. He emphasizes the importance of discernment in entertainment choices and shares personal anecdotes to illustrate his points.
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2:16 Should Christians watch our rated movies?
2:19 Okay, so with this question, I feel like I'm going to say a lot of things I said.
2:24 I don't remember what Q&A podcast episode it would have been.
2:26 It would have been nine or eight or something like that.
2:29 But I was asked, should Christians watch Game of Thrones, okay?
2:32 And so here's the thing, obviously whenever I talked about on that episode, Game of Thrones
2:36 is a show that has a lot of violence, a lot of sex, it has language,
2:40 basically everything that you can't do on cable, that's why they do it on HBO, right?
2:43 And so they use a lot of poetic license to really stretch the boundaries on that show.
2:48 And the same can be said for a lot of R-rated movies.
2:51 And I even just think about over my lifespan.
2:53 I mean, I was born in 1986 and, you know, when I got into like junior high and high school,
2:57 I was able to start listening or start watching R-rated movies rather.
3:02 And the things that were R-rated back in the day versus what we see in R-rated movies now,
3:06 and I don't want to sound like an old curmudgeon, but it's like, man, I feel like things are getting
3:11 way, way worse. Like, I remember even in high school, I loved watching horror films.
3:16 Like, you know, it was just one of those things where it's like, you got all your buddies together,
3:19 you either went to the movies or, you know, watching at somebody's house.
3:22 And it was like, you know, you didn't want to be the one that got scared and, you know, like,
3:25 jumped or anything like that. But it's like, back in the day, it was like, okay,
3:28 kind of true, creamy type stuff, like stuff like scream and, you know, things that are kind of in
3:34 that genre. It's like, okay, you could absolutely see somebody actually getting a, you know, suit,
3:39 and then I even am asking, you know, going out and, you know, destroying an entire town.
3:43 But now a lot of the horror films seem to be way more on the satanic side of things, right?
3:48 It's about people that have been possessed or just this unbelievable, unspeakable evil.
3:53 And so I feel like horror films have gotten, you know, more severe and more intense in that aspect.
3:57 And I feel like a lot of R-rated movies have gone that way. But I guess the way that I would answer
4:01 this question would be, if you feel like you are going to sin because of the things that might
4:08 influence you in one of those R-rated movies, and you shouldn't watch it, right? If you feel like
4:13 there's nothing that you can get out of that that will help you operate in today's culture or to,
4:20 you know, benefit in your friendships or to have things in common with other people,
4:24 then just skip it. And guys, here's the thing, there's a lot of movies that are R-rated that
4:30 off the top of your head, you know, aren't movies that are going to cause, you know,
4:33 call into question your salvation. Like if you watch Braveheart, that's an R-rated movie,
4:36 right? And he has a sex scene in there, right? There's, there's boobs in that movie for a very
4:41 short period of time. But whenever you think back and think about that movie, you probably think
4:46 about a hundred other things in that movie other than the sex scene. But here's the deal. If you
4:51 watch a movie like that, and you have very, very violent tendencies in your heart, and that's
4:55 something that you have to war against inside your soul, something that you need the Holy Spirit
5:00 to help you get over, you probably shouldn't watch a movie with that much violence in it.
5:04 You see what I'm saying? And so I feel like if it causes you to stumble, and I guess the easiest
5:09 one here, guys, is most R-rated movies are rated that for three things, one language,
5:14 two violence, three sex, and not necessarily in that order. And guys, if you have a problem with
5:19 pornography, if you have a problem with masturbation, if you have a problem with lust,
5:23 most R-rated movies are just out for you. And guys, just to be honest with you, I've saved myself
5:29 and my marriage and all the things in between a lot of trouble by just going to internet, movie
5:34 database, imdb.com, typing in a movie, and then clicking on the parents guide. Because there have
5:39 been movies that I've been like super, super pumped about, right? And pumped because of the
5:44 storyline, because the trailer looked good, because good action, because my friend saw and
5:48 liked it, whatever the situation might be. But then I look at the adult, or at the parental guide
5:54 on IMDB, and it's just like, you know, just covered in sex. And of course, as with most
6:00 every sex scene in every show in every movie, it doesn't add anything. It doesn't add anything
6:05 to the plot. It doesn't add anything to the movie overall. It's just something for weirdos to get
6:10 off on, right? It's very marketable at sales. It hits that demographic that they need, right?
6:15 But that's the thing is there've been a lot of movies that I've just skipped, because it's like,
6:18 man, it's just not worth it. It's just not worth it to have that level of temptation. And for me,
6:23 lust is one of my big temptations. So it's like, you know, I'm just going to skip this one.
6:27 There are literally two other movies that I could watch in the place of this one that are going to,
6:31 you know, tempt me to, you know, stumble or something like that. So should Christians watch
6:35 our rated movies, I think it's fairly contextual to the Christian and to the movie itself. But in
6:40 general, I would say it's okay unless you think that you're going to sin. Okay. Next question.
6:44 Do you like Westerns? And if so, which is your favorite? So, okay, Westerns. So obviously,
6:51 I grew up around the same time as a lot of you guys listening to this. And so I, you know,
6:55 laid in bed next to my dad and we're watching your Clint Eastwood Westerns and John Wayne
6:58 Westerns and stuff like that. And I just loved it because I was around my dad, right? And it's just
7:02 kind of one of those cool things that you can share with your father. But as an adult, I can
7:08 tell you that I way more enjoy modern Westerns than I do the old ones. Okay. And so you might
7:14 be asking like, okay, what is a modern Western? Okay. So some of my favorite modern Westerns are
7:19 like, like hell or high water, no country for old men, wind river is another one. I think that
7:25 was made by the same guy as hell or high water. There's a movie called hostels. That was a good
7:30 one. There was one that was like set in Australia called the proposition. I think that may have been
7:35 even a remake of an old one or something like that. But again, it's those modern Westerns.
7:39 Because here's the thing, I just got to be honest with you guys. When those old Westerns come on,
7:43 on television, or as you're like clicking through Netflix or Amazon or something like that, and
7:47 you see an old Western guys, it is so hard for me to enjoy those films. It is so unbelievably
7:53 difficult. And the reason is it's just because we've had modern movie making for a really, really
7:59 long time. We've had modern acting and modern action and CGI and those types of things. And
8:05 so when you go watch those old films, I get super distracted by how goofy the acting is,
8:10 how ridiculous, like when someone gets shot and they end up stumbling around for 17 minutes before
8:15 they fly through the window, like it's those types of things that are just really, really weird.
8:19 And so it's kind of one of those deals where it's like there's certain bands that your parents
8:22 listen to that you just don't understand. You just don't get like, why would anyone like this band?
8:26 Well, if you grew up in the same era that they did, that was like the best of the best, right? Like,
8:31 I'm again, I've talked about this before. And I know you guys don't like it. I'm not a Star Wars
8:34 person either. Because whenever I saw the first Star Wars, what was that? Is that episode four?
8:38 I'm sorry, nerds. I don't really know what what the thing is. But I think it's episode four.
8:42 When I first saw that, I was like, this is dumb looking like compared to some of the stuff that
8:46 we see now it's dumb looking. But if you watch that at the time, it would have been absolutely
8:50 astonishingly mind blowing that you could do that on film, right? And so again, they were kind of
8:56 getting back to the question here. I do like Westerns like it's there's a lot of me that feels like I
9:00 should not have been born the way I was born into the family that I was born in. I should have been
9:05 born on a ranch in Montana, helping out with cattle on horseback all day. I feel like I'm much
9:10 more attracted to that type of lifestyle for whatever reason. So I really do dig the Westerns.
9:14 But again, I am more so into the modern Westerns. All right, next question. Art, another movie
9:19 question three in a row. So here he goes. What is your favorite movie? So this one's an easy one.
9:23 And I don't see anyone really coming up and challenging this movie. But it is gladiator.
9:28 That is funny enough compared to the first question. That's the first R rated movie that I was actually
9:32 allowed to go see. I went and saw it with my sister and our babysitter way, way back in the day.
9:37 I was so excited to see that movie. It didn't disappoint. And that's another one of those movies
9:42 that I will rewatch at least once a year, once every other year, something like that. And I feel
9:46 like I get something more out of it. I just love everything about the story. I'm incredibly
9:51 interested in Roman history in that time period. Like it's just it's an overwhelmingly good film.
9:57 And there are other films that that are up there that I really have enjoyed. And you know,
10:03 some of them were period pieces. Like I mentioned Braveheart earlier, I really enjoyed that film.
10:06 And there's there's some really, really great films out there that I rewatch. I mean, Hello High
10:10 Water is a film that I've watched over and over really these last several years. I've gotten a
10:14 lot of enjoyment out of that, you know, zero dark 30. There's just there's a lot of films like that.
10:19 But nothing really takes a cake like gladiator. All right, guys, next question.
10:23 What is your favorite Instagram account to follow? Okay, so so I've got my personal
10:28 Instagram at Kyle OKC. And then we've got the undaunted live Instagram. But probably my two
10:35 favorite to follow. I can't just do one. So sorry, whoever asked this question. But I like Juji Mufu.
10:40 So if you don't know what I just said, Juji Mufu. So that's JU JI M-U-F-U. Okay, so Juji Mufu. So
10:49 there this is this guy that he went viral several years back because there was a video of him with
10:54 his shirt off in a pair like sweatpants. And he's got one foot on on he's got one foot each on a
11:00 like like a folding chair or something like that. And then he's overhead. He's got a barbell with
11:06 like 135 pounds on it right. So he's got a 45 on either side. And then you just see this guy do
11:11 the splits slowly with the barbell over his head. And he's just doing the splits. And he's kind of
11:18 like the long hair like blonde guy. And he starts screaming. And then you know, he gets all the way
11:22 down into a full split and then he chucks the barbell. And that was kind of the the video that
11:27 made him go viral. And so he's got I think well over a million subscribers or followers on Instagram
11:32 now. And he just does all these insanely athletic things that make me feel like the fattest most
11:38 unathletic person possible on the planet. Because this guy weighs, I don't know, he probably weighs
11:44 at least, I mean, close to 250 pounds. But this guy can do the splits. He's an incredible gymnast.
11:51 He can do like these crazy backflips and, you know, whatever gainer flips in the air does all this
11:56 crazy nonsense. But the dude's like a like a lunatic. He's hilarious. And so he won't just do a video
12:02 of who him doing deadlift, which would be impressive enough because he's like an unbelievably strong
12:07 human being. But he does it wearing like this cow head and he's surrounded by fire and he's got
12:11 friends in the background throwing chalk at one another. And so it's just it's a guy that I wish
12:16 would post more. But it's kind of one of those things like if he posted two or three things a day,
12:20 I think it would get a little bit old. So I he may post one or two things a week, but that's a
12:24 really good one. And then the other one is at Steve Butcher tattoos. So Steve spelled normally,
12:30 butcher spelled normally in tattoos. So this guy might be the most talented tattoo artist on the
12:35 planet. This guy does a lot of photo realism tattoos. So if you're on Instagram or Twitter,
12:41 you've probably seen this guy's work just randomly. He's done a lot of tattoos of like
12:45 Kobe Bryant Russell Westbrook. And you know, he did that famous photo of Duane Wade throwing that
12:50 alley to LeBron James when they were on the Miami Heat. But he's done like animal portraits. He's
12:56 in all kinds of crazy things. But when you look at the videos and the pictures of the stuff that
13:00 he's done, it doesn't even look real. Like it looks, it looks so unbelievably good that you're
13:06 like, this has got to be like a CGI video or got to be a Photoshop picture. But this guy is doing
13:11 photo realism at a level that I've never seen before. And so I'm, I'm really into black and gray.
13:16 That's why all my tattoo works black and gray. And part of the reason is is because when most
13:20 people try to do photo realism, it turns out really, really poorly, especially when they try to bring
13:26 color in. But again, just, just trust me, look up the guy actually, you know what I'll put the,
13:31 I'll put the links to this guy's page here at the end. So you can check that out. Okay, next question.
13:36 What is your favorite Instagram account? You've recently followed. Okay, so there's a couple
13:41 that I've recently followed that I think you guys would really enjoy. There's one that I just
13:44 follow literally like yesterday as of the recording of this, it's we the people holsters. So that's
13:50 at we the people holsters. And the reason why I followed them is because actually I heard of them
13:54 on the Ben Shapiro podcast, but also some other different places. And my dad just bought me a new
13:58 holster for my SIG 1911 from them. It's got the don't tread on me flag kind of print on there,
14:05 which is really, really cool. I'm excited to check that out. But they've got a cool account
14:09 that you can follow. And the next one is Pat McNamara. So I think I've talked about Pat McNamara
14:13 before on this podcast. He did a podcast show with Joe Rogan. He got on and was kind of forgot
14:21 what what all he was doing. But he's like a survivalist guy, but he was also I think an SF guy.
14:25 But his Instagram handles at T Max Inc. So at T-M-A-C-S-I-N-C. But the cool thing about this guy is he's
14:34 kind of got this ridiculous look and this like, you know, really long chin hair that comes to a
14:38 point and all that. But this guy's like, I think close to 60 years old in the videos he posts of
14:43 him working out are absolutely insane. I freaking love it because everyone kind of thinks about in
14:50 terms of their body, whether you're 20 years old or 30 or 40 or 50, whatever the thing is,
14:53 you always kind of look at that next stage of life and you're kind of like, man, well,
14:57 I'm but I'll be out of my athletic prime and I guess I won't be able to do this and I won't be
15:01 able to do that. But this dude does does some amazing things physically. And he's just a really
15:08 simple guy, really simple diet, basically just meat meat and veggies and that type of a thing.
15:12 But he's just in incredible shape. And so he's an inspiration to me that I'm like, okay, when I'm
15:17 twice my age now, they're about sir, you know, 20 years older than I am now and I'm around his age,
15:22 it's totally possible to still be in the game. It's totally possible to still be a sheepdog,
15:26 it's possible to be prepared. And you know, you don't have to just succumb to life because you
15:31 turned 30 or because you turned 40 and it's like, I guess I'll get fat and be out of shape now.
15:36 No, so that's a guy that'll get you really, really fired up. All right, guys, next question. Well,
15:40 actually, I guess it's not necessarily a question. Some of you guys are wondering what my predictions
15:44 are for some upcoming UFC fights. So there's a lot of really good fights coming up this year.
15:49 And actually, by the time this podcast is released, there's going to be another one. So I'm going to
15:54 take a risk here. I'm going to predict a fight now that hasn't happened yet. But by the time you
16:01 hear this, it will have happened. So it's Colby Covington versus Robbie Lawler. Okay. So that's
16:06 actually coming up. I'm recording this on a Monday and it's coming up this Saturday. So
16:10 I'm very excited for this fight because of the implications it has for the 170 pound division,
16:14 the welterweight division, the UFC, because Kamara Usman is currently the champion. He
16:17 absolutely destroyed Tyrone Woodley. Tyrone Woodley is still technically the number one contender,
16:22 but no one's really dying to watch him get back into that fight, especially because of how easily
16:27 Kamara Usman dealt with him. But the interim champion, that the guy that should have been fighting
16:32 Tyrone Woodley was Colby Covington, because Colby Covington absolutely murdered RDA. He murdered
16:37 RDA. And I did not think that was happening. I thought RDA was going to smoke him. And it was an
16:41 absolute, absolute slaughter by Colby Covington. And so Colby was supposed to get like nasal surgery
16:48 and the UFC just wanted to put Tyrone into a fight quickly. And so they put him in with Usman. And
16:52 then, you know, all the heat in that division is basically between Tyrone Woodley and Colby
16:56 Covington. And now all of a sudden, you know, Tyrone's not the champion anymore. But Robbie
17:00 Lawler is always that guy that you just can't count him out. He almost put away Ben Askren before
17:05 Ben Askren got the choke. And for any of you guys wondering, I do not think that was an early
17:09 stoppage. I think Ben Askren did choke out Robbie Lawler with that Bulldog choke. He was out for a
17:13 second, Herb Dean did the right thing by stepping in and stopping that fight. But back to this,
17:18 I think Colby Covington is going to wear out Robbie Lawler. And this is why. And it's crazy to
17:23 even say that because Robbie Lawler is an absolute maniac, like cyborg, Terminator type guy. But
17:29 we've already kind of technically seen this fight before. Because RDA beat the brakes off of Robbie
17:36 Lawler a while back, right? And so in that fight, Robbie Lawler did hurt his knee. But RDA put an
17:42 unbelievable pace on Robbie Lawler. And here's the thing, Colby Covington, like I said earlier,
17:47 beat the brakes off of RDA. He put a pace on RDA that RDA couldn't keep up with it. I mean,
17:52 it was one of the more impressive things I've seen cardio wise. I mean, using cardio as a
17:57 weapon inside the UFC. And so again, I know MMA math doesn't work out exactly, but it's like Colby
18:02 beat RDA, RDA beat Robbie Lawler, you know, Robbie Lawler shouldn't be able to touch Colby Covington.
18:08 But these guys were also teammates at the time. I think they were both at ATT together. And so
18:12 that was something that, you know, there's a little bit of storyline there. Dana White's already came
18:16 out and said that he thinks Colby Covington or he says that Colby Covington will be getting the
18:21 title shot if he beats Robbie Lawler. So that's just kind of where I'm at. I think Colby Covington's
18:25 going to win that fight. But again, like I said, the fight has already happened by the time you're
18:29 listening to this. So I either sound like an unbelievable genius or I sound like a weirdo. So
18:33 it's just kind of how it goes. But let's go ahead and get into some other fight cards that we have
18:36 coming up. So at UFC 241, that's on August 17th, we have Cormier versus Mia Chitch 2. Then we also
18:43 have on that fight card, Anthony Pettis versus Nate Diaz and Joelle Romero versus Paulo Costa.
18:47 So let's start with your Romero and Paulo Costa. So that is the battle for the best body in the
18:53 history of the planet Earth. So here's the thing guys, I'm not gay. But those are two of the most
18:57 beautiful human beings I've ever seen in my entire life. Like they look like they were created in a
19:02 lab, both of these guys, right? Whatever Rocky movie that was whenever he went against a guy that
19:06 looked like he was created in a lab in Russia. That's exactly what this one is. But Joelle Romero
19:10 is isn't as he's in his 40s. But genetically, he's a freak, but he just he just an unbelievable
19:17 looking athlete in his performance in the octagon is the exact same. Impolo Costa is the same. He's
19:22 a Brazilian fighter and up and coming Brazilian fighter. This is kind of one of those things where
19:26 if Joelle Romero wins, he basically vaults himself to a title shot again in Apollo Costa wins. He's
19:31 basically probably one fight away from a title shot is would be what I would assume. I think the
19:36 the real interesting thing about this fight is Joelle Romero has not fought since June of 2018.
19:41 That's when he fought Robert Whitaker in a fight where I felt he won, but he actually lost via decision.
19:46 Robert Whitaker kept his belt. Don't worry. We'll talk more about Whitaker here in just a second.
19:50 But Joelle Romero has been out for over a year. Again, father time is undefeated. This guy is well
19:56 into his 40s. And Paulo Costa is that up and coming guy. But here's the thing is until further
20:01 further notice, I think Joelle Romero is the best 185 pounder in the world. In my opinion,
20:07 I feel like he should have won those fights. He's did more damage to Robert Whitaker,
20:11 but in terms of the 10 nine system for five rounds, I can see how you give it to Robert Whitaker.
20:15 But unless Paulo Costa's got something special, I think Joelle Romero is that dude still in that
20:21 division. And so I got my money on Joelle. Now the we'll keep working our way up the card. Now
20:25 you have Anthony Pettis and the return of Nate Diaz. So right from the beginning, I'll tell you
20:29 guys not a Diaz brothers fan. A lot of you guys out there love Nick and Nate. They're just annoying
20:34 to me, right? And I didn't like Nate for years before he fought Connor. So that has nothing to do
20:38 with Connor McGregor and all that kind of stuff. It's just they're annoying dudes. And I'm not a
20:43 huge fan of their fighting style. Kind of like the pillow hands type stuff. Now I do like and
20:48 respect how they've been able to perform over a long period of time. But here's here's the thing
20:52 that people don't like to talk about a lot. Nate Diaz isn't that great of a fighter.
20:55 Like he's lost an unbelievable amount of fights like you be blown away at how many fights that he's
21:01 lost. But he made his entire career by calling out Connor McGregor and then going in and backing
21:06 it up and beating up Connor McGregor, right? Like that that's what happened. But they have not
21:12 or Nate Diaz is not fought since August of 2016. August of 2016. If that sounds familiar,
21:20 that's whenever Connor won the rematch, right? Five round decision over Nate Diaz, right? So
21:25 it's been a really long time since that guys in the octagon, it will have been over three years,
21:30 right? Or right at three years by the time he gets back in the octagon and the thing about Anthony
21:34 Pettis, Anthony Pettis has been active. He just knocked out Wonder Boy. He looks great at 170
21:39 pounds. That's where this fight is going to be taking place, not at 155. And so that's the thing
21:43 is just by virtue of the fact that Anthony Pettis has been more active. I've got to give the nod
21:47 to Anthony Pettis here. And here's the other thing is Nate Diaz has kind of a swarming style.
21:52 But I don't know that he has the skill to overwhelm Anthony Pettis. So Anthony Pettis got overwhelmed
21:59 by Tony Ferguson when they fought last year. But the thing about that fight is he almost finished
22:04 Tony Ferguson. He heard him in the first round, but then Tony is just an animal and absolutely
22:08 put it on Pettis. And Pettis actually broke his hand in that fight. So I think if nobody gets hurt
22:13 actually in the fight, if we're just looking at fight Xs and O's, I think Anthony Pettis takes this
22:18 this fight easily. I don't think that Nate Diaz is going to be able to box with them. And that's
22:22 kind of crazy to some of you guys that know Nate Diaz and know his boxing. But the thing with Anthony
22:26 Pettis is he's a complete fighter, right? I don't think this fight is going to go to the ground. I
22:29 don't think this is going to turn into a Jiu Jitsu match. I think those guys kind of cancel each other
22:33 out when it comes to how slick their Jiu Jitsu is. But Anthony Pettis is going to go in there and be a
22:37 kickboxer. And if we saw anything and learned anything from when Nate fought Connor, Connor wore out
22:43 Nate Diaz front leg. Nate Diaz puts a ton of weight on that front leg. And he does not check
22:48 kicks and he doesn't change his stance either. He doesn't keep, you know, going back and forth
22:52 between, you know, conventional and Sal Paul and all those different things. And so that's the
22:55 thing is I think Anthony Pettis is going to wear out that front leg and do enough to win that fight.
22:59 But then we get to the main event on UFC 241. And that is the big, big rematch between Steve
23:04 Amy Ochich and DC Daniel Cormier. And so the thing about that fight is Steve Amy Ochich was
23:12 the biggest, the biggest and best UFC heavyweight in the history of UFC heavyweights. He defended
23:20 his belt more times than anybody in UFC history. He beat a who's who of heavyweights. But then
23:25 Daniel Cormier took his first fight up at heavyweight in a long time. Again, a lot of people forget
23:30 that he started his career at heavyweight when he was when he was doing stuff over in strike force.
23:34 But then whenever he came over, he wanted to do a light heavyweight because his teammate was
23:39 fighting at heavyweight came Velasquez. But then Cormier made his basically UFC debut at heavyweight.
23:45 And he starches Steve Amy Ochich in the first round. He knocks him out. He was a beautiful punch.
23:51 It was from the clinch. And then he just kind of brought a right hook snuck that in there and
23:54 absolutely put me a chitch out. And here's the crazy thing about me a chitch is in this fight.
23:59 He took one shot from DC and it knocked him out. But he took several shots from Francis in Ghana,
24:04 you know, in their title fight, and it didn't put him out. So the thing about this fight that I
24:08 think is going to be the difference is Cormier has been knocked out recently. He was knocked out
24:14 by John Jones. The only time he's been finished. But Steepay has been knocked out more recently.
24:19 Neither one of these guys have fought since. And I don't know if you guys remember, but you know,
24:22 Brock Lester came in the ring or in the octagon after this fight and gotten Daniel Cormier's face.
24:26 And for basically six months, it was dangled in front of us that we were going to get DC versus
24:30 Brock Lesnar. Then Brock Lesnar just basically went back to WWE. It was just kind of this thing.
24:35 So Steepay and Cormier have not fought since they fought each other. But the thing about it is,
24:40 I don't think that Steepay is going to be able to control the octagon in terms of wrestling.
24:44 I don't think that he wants to necessarily get into a clinching match with DC either.
24:49 And until further notice, Daniel Cormier is one of the greatest fighters of all time.
24:53 Like outside of his fights to John Jones, one of which became a no contest, the one where he got
24:58 knocked out because John Jones popped for a PEDs. He's the he's one of the greatest fighters ever.
25:03 He's one of the five greatest fighters we've ever seen in any weight class. Steepay is not
25:08 necessarily in that conversation. I think Steepay is the greatest heavyweight in UFC history, but
25:14 Cormier knocked him out. So I think Daniel Cormier is going to win again. I don't really
25:18 know how it's going to happen. I don't necessarily think this is going to be a drawn out five round
25:22 fight there. These guys are just too heavy handed, but I got to give it to DC. So let's move down to
25:27 UFC 242. That's in September. That's September 7. So one fight that we need to talk about on that
25:32 is to be Nirmagamedov versus Dustin Poiret. So if you remember, Dustin Poiret just got through
25:37 beating not that long ago, beating Max Holloway. Max Holloway came up from 145 to 155. And they
25:43 kind of did an interim title fight and Dustin Poiret absolutely put it on one of the best
25:47 fighters in the world in Max Holloway. He won four out of the five rounds. It wasn't particularly
25:52 close. He looked way too strong for Max. He looked his boxing looked way too quick. It was actually
25:57 an incredible, incredible performance, but he's going to be thrown to the slaughter here. I do not
26:02 see anything in Dustin Poiret's game that makes me think he can beat Habib. The biggest thing
26:07 about Habib is he's been his own worst enemy his entire career because he's fought so many injuries.
26:12 He had a huge swath of his career that were completely wiped out or wiped out by injuries.
26:17 And so that's just kind of one of those things with Habib is no one's going to be able to stop his
26:21 takedowns. Right? And Dustin Poiret is not the wrestler that's going to stop Habib, right? It's
26:27 going to take a Ben Asgren level, George St. Pierre level type of fighter to stop Habib's wrestling,
26:32 right? And Tambib, even though he caught Connor with that overhand right, he does not have great
26:36 stand up. I'm sure his stand up has improved, but his is a grinding style. And here's the thing,
26:41 guys, is this is going to be a grinded out fight for Habib. He's just going to take Dustin Poiret
26:45 down and he's going to rag down. I don't think he finishes Dustin Poiret, but I do certainly think
26:50 Habib wins this fight easily. Very, very easily. And then one week later, actually free on television,
26:56 UFC fight night is going to be Cowboy Sironi, Donald Sironi versus Justin Gaechee. Holy cow.
27:03 This fight, like at the moment it was announced, I mean, everyone's just like, you've got to be
27:07 kidding me. Like that is going to be one of the most violent fight. Well, here's the thing.
27:12 It's got Cowboy Sironi and Justin Gaechee fighting. If they were fighting anybody else,
27:17 it would be one of the most violent fights you would ever see because those two guys are involved,
27:20 but they're going to be fighting each other. I mean, of all the fights that we're talking about
27:25 here, and I'm excited about all of them. I'm excited about this one way more than those,
27:30 because there is a zero percent chance that that's a boring fight. And I've said that before. I said
27:35 that whenever. Oh gosh, who was it? Derek Lewis and Francis and Ghana were supposed to fight
27:40 or when they did fight, right? I was like, there's no way this is a terrible fight. It ended up being
27:44 literally one of the worst fights in UFC history, but you will not see a bad fight here. And to be
27:48 honest with you, I can't imagine that this fight doesn't go to a finish somehow. I mean, again,
27:54 this is going to be a man. I'm pretty sure that's a main event. So that's a five round fight.
27:57 That is way too long of a fight for how both of these guys fight. I mean, they do a ton of damage,
28:02 and I just don't really see a scenario where one of them doesn't get hit by the other or popped by
28:08 the other. And man, this is a coin flip of any coin flips. I actually didn't really make a decision,
28:13 before the podcast, what I thought the the winner was going to be. But just here on the spot,
28:17 I've probably got to give it to Justin Gaechee. So I don't think Justin Gaechee is necessarily
28:23 a more complete fighter than Donald Saroni. We don't really see Justin Gaechee use his wrestling and
28:29 all. I don't think we're going to see cowboy use his wrestling at all. I think this is going to be
28:32 a stand up fight. But Justin Gaechee just has a different level of dog in them. And right as I
28:37 say that, it's like he's fighting cowboy. They're pretty much the same person, right? But one
28:41 where's a cowboy hat? But if I got to pick somebody, I'm going to pick Justin Gaechee. All right. And
28:45 then the last fight we're going to talk about here is that UFC 243. And that's on October 5th.
28:48 And that is going to be Robert Whitaker, Bobby Knuckles. He's going to be fighting Israel Adisanya.
28:53 So Israel Adisanya has had a meteoric rise within the UFC. That all came to a pass earlier this year,
29:00 whenever you beat Kelvin Gastalen for the interim title in the best fight of 2019. And I know 2019
29:06 is just barely halfway over. There's not going to be a better fight than that. Like,
29:09 just how it ended up. Because a lot of people were thinking Israel was just going to go in there
29:13 and work Kelvin over. I actually picked Kelvin to win that fight. That fight was 2-2 going into the
29:18 fifth round. Israel Adisanya dug down and found that that inner monster inside of him and ended
29:24 up winning that fight. But the back and forth of that fight is actually the reason why I'm going to
29:30 be picking Bobby Knuckles, Robert Whitaker, to win this fight in Australia. So the thing about it is
29:35 this is going to happen in the same stadium that Holly Holm knocked out Ronda Rousey. There's going
29:41 to be about 60,000 people there will probably be the biggest gate in terms of attendance in the
29:46 history of the UFC. There probably going to be another title fight on that. I think they're going
29:49 to get Volcanovsky versus Max on that fight card as well. So another guy from down in that area.
29:54 But here's the thing. As big as that's going to be, Israel, you know, the representing New Zealand
29:59 and Robert Whitaker representing Australia. And as big as all that's going to be, I'm not sure
30:04 Israel's on the same level as Whitaker. I'm just not not sure he's there. Because here's the thing
30:10 about Kelvin Gasolam is I would pick Kelvin Gasolam against Robert Whitaker and against Israel
30:14 Adisanya. Again, I just feel like he's, he's got that guy. He's just that guy that he's not really
30:18 good at anything in particular, but he's really good at fighting. But that's part of the reason
30:22 why I think Israel Adisanya is going to lose this fight is because Kelvin Gasolam really worked
30:28 Israel Adisanya over. He hurt him multiple times. I mean, Kelvin Gasolam is 185 pounder and he's short.
30:34 He's like five seven and he head kicked Israel Adisanya, who is supposed to be like, you know,
30:40 the next style binder guy, like you can't touch him. You can't get him. You can't,
30:44 you know, can't land anything fancy on him. He got head kicked by a tiny guy that's probably
30:49 the smallest guy, shortest guy in the division. Robert Whitaker is great at everything.
30:55 But the big difference with Robert Whitaker here is he has not fought since June of 2018.
30:59 Again, when I was talking about you all Romero, he has not fought since 2018, right? That same
31:04 fight he got hurt since then he's had some crazy stuff happen. And there's bad luck with him trying
31:09 to fight in Australia, fighting his home country. You know, he had a collapsed bow, I think, and
31:14 before this last fight, they had to cancel, you know, his fight at the very last minute.
31:19 And so it's one of those things that I think if Robert Whitaker can get to the octagon,
31:24 if you can actually walk through the octagon door and they can close it behind him and lock
31:28 the door, I think he'll be fine. I think Israel out of Sonia is an unbelievable talent. I think
31:34 he's he's incredibly smooth in all the things that he does. And you know, if you're into trash
31:40 talking and all that, you're gonna like a guy like that. But Robert Whitaker is just good at
31:45 fighting. He's good at everything. He's good at striking. He's good at wrestling. And he has
31:48 next level toughness. And to be honest with you, I just don't think Israel is going to do anything
31:53 that special in that fight. I think Robert Whitaker has spent too much time preparing
31:57 just to get back into the octagon to get caught by something, something slick by Israel out of
32:01 Sonia. So I'm going to go with Bobby Knuckles. So that wraps up the little session right there.
32:05 For so for those of you that don't like fighting, I'm really, really sorry that you had to endure
32:08 that. But hey, maybe you learned something. So let's go ahead and launch to the next question here.
32:12 Who was your favorite teacher ever? And what made them your favorite teacher?
32:17 This is a very clear answer for me. So this would be John A. Dare. He was my ninth grade
32:22 English teacher. And so here's the thing about Mr. Adair is, well, here's the thing about me,
32:28 just in general, going through school. So I had an older sister. She was one year older than me.
32:33 And we were both in the same classes. We were in honors classes or AP classes. And so she would
32:37 have the teacher the same teacher I would, but she would have them the year before me. But my
32:43 sister was kind of a sit in the front row type person, be really, really quiet, do her homework,
32:47 and you know, make good grades and just not rock the boat. Whereas I, surprise, surprise, was more
32:53 of the class clowns in the back of the class, try to get everybody to have a good time, but also
32:58 had good grades. But I just basically, you know, ensuring that my teacher was going to be a little
33:02 bit tortured. Well, the first day that I'm walking to Mr. Adair's class, I'm kind of aware that
33:08 he's an intense guy. He's got like this, you know, gray Afro thing. And he like doesn't blink. And
33:13 that's like one of his like legendary things that he's got like something in his eyes that like makes
33:17 it to where he doesn't have to blink or something like that. So as I'm walking towards his class,
33:22 me and one of my buddies, Chris, we, we started, you know, just messing around with each other in
33:26 the hallway. So we're like punching each other back and forth, but not not like in a fight, but
33:29 like punching each other in the shoulder and those types of things. And John Adair comes out of his
33:33 classroom. And he basically says, young men, you better stop that right now. Stop that.
33:37 Control yourselves. And it was it was so shocking that I remember like, Oh, shoot. And guess who's
33:43 class I had that very next hour. Yeah, miss arrayed air. So I walk into that class about as sheepish
33:51 and like tail tucked as you could possibly be. And I just sit down and I'm like, Oh, no,
33:57 this is gonna be the worst year of my life. But drator or not not doctor, but Mrator didn't say
34:03 anything. He didn't say anything about it because he said his piece in the hallway, right? He corrected
34:07 us. He got us to stop, you know, farting around. And then we got to it. But the thing about his
34:12 class that was really interesting to me is, you know, he was very, very into Shakespeare and very
34:17 into these novels that he was having us read. And the thing is, is in that class, I had some bad
34:21 some bad luck in that class. Like I'm not like I told you guys before I wasn't the best reading
34:25 comprehender. You know, I wasn't the best test taker. And we would always have this 100 question
34:29 tests on these books that we were reading. And it was like a joke in that class because I almost
34:34 always got an 89, right? And so this was in a 90 to 100 for an A scale. And I would get an 89
34:42 every time. And I mean, it happened so many times that like the last time it happened,
34:48 Mrator came up to me and he's like, Hey, Kyle, you're not going to believe this. But you got an
34:52 89 again. And I ran it through the scan tron machine, but then I hand graded it. You know,
34:57 just in case the the scan tron got one of your marks wrong, I wanted to give you the benefit of
35:02 the doubt. But I, you know, good job. But you got an 89. And so good teacher, very beautiful teacher.
35:08 But the reason why he's my favorite teacher is because of this, because our ninth grade baseball
35:12 team was the best team, maybe in the state that year, we didn't lose a game. We were absolutely
35:18 incredible. And you know, so we had a lot of people come and watch our games that had nothing to do
35:24 with the team didn't have kids on the team or anything like that. But I remember one game,
35:28 Mrator came and he sat next to my dad. And he was there to see me specifically,
35:34 like there to my knowledge, there wasn't another boy on the team that he had as a student at that
35:40 time. But he came out there and he basically sat next to my dad and watched the entire game
35:45 and cheered for me. And if I recall correctly, I think I hit a couple doubles, that game had four
35:48 or five RBIs had had a good good day at the game. Now he didn't say anything about it. When we got
35:53 to class the next day, he didn't do any of that type of thing. But he sat there and had a good
35:58 conversation with my dad and you know, talked about his class and talked about my upbringing and
36:02 those types of things. But at up to that point, I had never had a teacher really go out of his way
36:08 to, you know, look at something that his student was doing outside of class. And it was just kind of
36:14 this a matter of fact thing. And I bet you if I ran into him again, which I haven't seen him in
36:18 probably 20 years or something like that, I doubt he even remembers going to that baseball game.
36:22 Or maybe he does like who knows, but it made a huge impact on me that this guy would spend that
36:26 amount of time just hanging out to just see how one of his students was doing. So favorite teacher
36:32 of all time, Mr. Adair, ninth grade English. All right, guys, next question here. How much do you
36:37 think your life would be different if you had grown up in a family that went to church? Okay,
36:43 so obviously this person has picked up on the me kind of talking about in terms of my past,
36:47 I didn't grow up in a family that went to church, you know, like most families in America, my,
36:51 you know, my family, they got my mom and dad got divorced when I was in like junior high.
36:55 But we didn't really go to church. We were kind of nominally Christians because we
36:58 were Oklahomans, right? So it's like you believe in God just because of where you're from. It was
37:02 one of those types of situations. Okay, how much do you think your life would be different?
37:07 You know, that's a really good question. Obviously, I feel like there's some basic things like there's
37:17 a lot of biblical stories that most of you guys heard like about a hundred times when you're a kid
37:23 that I didn't hear, right? I didn't do vacation Bible school. I didn't have, you know, church camp.
37:28 I didn't have those things growing up. Like those were things that I, you know, tried to do like
37:31 in high school, right? So I was kind of late to the party. And so I think that would have obviously
37:35 been different. I think my biblical acumen would have came along quite a bit faster. You know,
37:41 I don't think if I had grown up in a family that went to church that my parents would still
37:44 be together because obviously if you look at the divorce rates inside the church, they're pretty
37:48 much the exact same as the divorce rates outside the church. I feel like even if it happened
37:54 accidentally, my mom and dad raised me pretty much along the lines of kind of a gospel-centered
38:00 lifestyle. Now we didn't pray. We didn't talk about God. We didn't do any of those things,
38:04 but a lot of things they told me to do and not to do. I think would jive with what we learn from
38:08 Scripture. And I, again, those are two people that their families didn't really grow up going
38:13 to church either. I mean, to be honest with you, that's such a tough question. I don't really know
38:19 that much would have been different. And maybe that's maybe that's something to be said for the
38:24 church, that it doesn't really have that big of an impact culturally, and that there's still the
38:29 exact same problems with churchgoers as everywhere else. There doesn't seem to be an issue except for
38:33 the level of guilt and understanding of sin that really comes with that. But yeah, I think that
38:38 the biggest thing would just be my overall level of comfort with with things inside the church and
38:42 the things that you learn from inside the church. I think that that would be where that would come
38:47 from. Okay, so next question. If you could travel back to any time in history, what time would you
38:53 go to? Okay, well, I'll take this a couple of different ways. So there's the, you know, if you
38:59 could live in any other time in history, where would you want to live part? And that one's easy.
39:03 I would want to live right now in 2019 in America, right? I mean, why would you want to go back to
39:11 some other place where like it was really, really hard to get food and, you know, live past the
39:15 age of 30? So I like, I just, I'm not that interested in doing doing that type of thing. But I'll take
39:21 this maybe literally like if I could just go back and like do like a vacation at any time in history,
39:26 what time would I go to? I mean, is the cheap answer just like, you know, around the Mediterranean,
39:34 you know, after Jesus died, or maybe like in that area, the world when Jesus was living, I guess I
39:39 would be like the basic answer. Like obviously I would want to be near Jerusalem when Jesus was
39:44 ministering and doing those types of things. But to be honest, I think I'd want to be
39:49 in Rome. I mean, I've talked about my interest in Roman history earlier. I think I'd want to be
39:54 in Rome during like, you know, the Julius Caesar, Mark Antony, you know, Caesar Augustus kind of
40:01 time period whenever they were trying to do a lot of different things to attract people and kind of
40:07 expand. But to be honest with you, again, I even think a vacation would be pretty sad because
40:11 you didn't just go to Walmart, you know, and get groceries. You didn't go to McDonald's and get
40:15 something to eat. I mean, it was, it was tough living back at that time. But that's a really
40:18 interesting time period to me. So I think it'd be cool to see that in person. All right. Next
40:22 question. I have a problem with passivity. It's a personality trait. I wish I could overcome what
40:28 personality trait has gotten you in the most trouble. Okay. So I think this guy and I are going to be
40:33 pretty different because I don't really have a problem with passivity at all. So it's literally
40:37 the opposite that's really gotten me into into trouble. It's my fourth rightness. And kind of my,
40:43 my forward nature, kind of my intense nature. And at the same time, just overall anger. I mean,
40:51 kind of the embarrassing thing for me. And I've got a lot of good friends that they razz me about
40:54 it, which, you know, it's it's completely fair. But man, I used to just absolutely lose my mind
41:01 at the dumbest crap, not like lose my mind getting a bar fight, but like lose a video game, you know,
41:06 throw my controller at the wall, like, you know, lose, you know, you know, fly out and saw ball or
41:12 something like that and go and curse in the dugout. Like just just stupid, like super immature,
41:17 like boarish bull crap. Like that was kind of the deal. But it was all because of anger. I literally
41:22 was with one of my friends over the last weekend. And they're like, yeah, we knew Kyle when he was
41:26 way less intense or way more intense. Sorry, way more intense. And the people that were were with
41:31 him, they didn't know me back in the day. And so they look at me now and they're like, Oh my gosh,
41:34 Kyle's like the most intense dude ever back in college. It was like a level of ridiculous
41:39 intense that had like no governor on it, like wild Mustang type of thing. And so that's kind of
41:45 the trait that has gotten me in the most trouble. But I will say this, I think the thing that's
41:48 benefited me a lot and even just kind of creates this difference. And even people that listen to
41:53 this podcast is just basically being forward. I think the thing that I'm most complimented on
42:00 on a podcast like this is thanks so much for not just making another Christian podcast that's super
42:05 boring and super straightforward. You know, thanks for challenging people and coming right out people.
42:11 And so it's almost as if over my lifetime, I've been able to kind of morph a little bit of that
42:16 nonsensical, ridiculous over the top approach into a very directed kind of sniper fire approach to
42:23 really helping people get better. And so maybe that's maybe that was part of the plan from the
42:28 beginning. So if so, God, good looking out. But it's just kind of one of those deals where
42:32 I feel like overall my fourth rideness has gotten me a lot of trouble. But I feel like I'm kind of
42:37 rained that in a little bit up to this point. All right, next question. What is the best piece of
42:42 advice you have ever gotten? Okay, without getting too far into the entire story, because I would
42:47 take a long time to tell the entire story. I used to work for the president of the University of
42:52 Central Oklahoma, William Roger Webb, we just called him P Webb, president Webb. And I actually
42:57 got his scholarship to go to the University of Central Oklahoma. It's called the president's
43:01 leadership council scholarship has given to about 25 students every year out of the, you know,
43:05 11 1200 that apply. My wife actually got it the next year. That's how she and I met was at the
43:10 retreat. But you know, we got a lot of FaceTime with the president of the university, which I mean,
43:15 for any of you guys that went to college, how many times did you get to just sit and chat with the
43:19 president or the chancellor of your university? It just doesn't really happen. But this is a
43:24 guy that even, you know, since I've been out of college for a very long period of time, he's a guy
43:28 that I still talk to periodically will so go to eat lunch and different things like that. So he is
43:32 one of my mentors. He's a guy that gives me good advice and a guy who I will listen to on just about
43:36 everything. But there was something that happened with this job that I had, where it was an unbelievably
43:42 competitive job. And we get all the way to the end. And by any measure, by any metric whatsoever
43:48 that you wanted to use, I far and away exceeded and outperformed every single other person that I
43:55 was with. And I mean, this was a job that like 20,000 or so people applied for, you know, it got
44:00 down to kind of a final three people and they were kind of picking the winner of this overall thing.
44:05 And again, like I said, by every metric possible, I smoked everybody. I did exactly what was required
44:10 to me. But I didn't win this thing within this job. I did not win kind of that final thing. And so,
44:16 I'm obviously I'm flabbergasted. I'm heartbroken. I'm frustrated. I'm angry. I'm all those different
44:21 things. And I was going in to do kind of a wrap up interview at the end of this whole deal. And
44:27 that's kind of the normal thing that you do. You kind of do that, that exit interview type of thing.
44:31 And I was ready to go in and let them have it, right? I was just going to give them a piece of my
44:35 mind. And I know what y'all did. And you know, why would you screw me and blah, blah, blah, you know,
44:39 all this [inaudible] vinegar. And so I talked to President Webb and I basically said, Hey, this is my plan.
44:46 And he just very calmly again, because he, you know, this guy's in his 70s. He knows how to handle
44:49 young bucks. He just goes, look, I don't think in the history of business that anyone has ever
44:56 changed their business based off of what someone said during an exit interview.
45:02 And he's like, if you think about it, if you're still inside the company and you're surrounded by
45:09 people that are still inside the company, and then someone comes to you, who is on their way
45:15 out of the company and says something that is critical towards you. How, how much weight would
45:22 you put in what they're saying? Now, for the most part, you might get some of the best advice and
45:28 some of the most honest answers and feedback from people that are in that exact scenario.
45:32 But the thing remains the same is they're on their way out. They honestly don't really care
45:40 what happens in this scenario, right? So he's like, Kyle, why would you waste your effort?
45:44 Like, like, why would you go in their guns blazing and try to, you know, burn the entire place down,
45:50 like, just go in there, thank them for their time, thank them for the opportunity that they
45:54 provided you and move on with your life. And I was like, huh, okay. Well, I guess I'll do that.
46:03 So I did. I went in. I said, thank you. I did my smiles. I shook hands and I walked out of there.
46:08 And I don't regret it because there's nothing that would have been gained by me or for me or any
46:14 of the people that I love by going in there and just flaming them, right? So that is the single
46:19 best piece of advice that I've ever gotten in a particular context. All right, next question here.
46:24 I really like to travel, but I feel like I'm running out of great places to check out. What is the most
46:29 beautiful place you've ever been to? Okay, so I've done quite a bit of traveling around the world.
46:34 I haven't done as much as I'd like to. I thought New Zealand was an amazing, amazing place. It's
46:39 kind of like Oklahoma with an accent just just, but it's just gorgeous out there. The people were
46:44 amazing. Rome is probably my favorite city in the world to visit just because of all the history.
46:49 And again, that's like the third time I think this podcast has came up with Roman history. But
46:52 the most beautiful place that I've ever been to has to be hands down the Amalfi coast in Italy.
46:59 And so Google the Amalfi coast and just get ready to see some of the most insane looking scenery.
47:06 But the thing about it was is the ride, the bus ride we took to kind of get to the town of Amalfi.
47:12 It was this windy road. And you know, I was even getting like a little bit sick because it's like,
47:16 oh my gosh, we just ate all this Italian food now. We're on the super windy road going back and forth.
47:20 But at one point, I look out the window and I honestly can't tell where the water
47:27 stops and the sky starts. It was like the weirdest thing. I was like, is there like a weird glare
47:33 on the window right now? Like, like what exactly is happening? But I'm just basically looking out
47:37 into the earth. And I just, I just saw this basically sheer glass sheet of beautiful. That's
47:44 essentially all that I saw. And so man, that that is by far the most beautiful place I've ever been
47:50 to. So if you ever get an opportunity, definitely take your girl there, like not saying it wouldn't
47:54 be cool with a bunch of dudes. But it's probably one of the most beautiful romantic places I've
47:58 ever been to. So you should definitely check that out. All right, next question here, I'm having
48:02 trouble finding a long term relationship with a girl that loves Jesus. What should I do? Okay, so
48:09 well, the interesting thing about this question is, is there's a couple of guys in my life that I
48:16 love. I absolutely love these dudes. And both of them, I, you know, they're kind of in their later
48:22 30s. And you know, these are guys that want to be married. They want to have families. But they're
48:27 just not there yet. They haven't found the right girl or whatever the situation may be. And it man,
48:32 it sucks. And I hate it for him. And the reason that I hate it for him is because I feel like they've
48:38 got an unbelievable amount to offer to a relationship, into a marriage. And specifically, if they pro
48:47 create to like to kids, like they're going to raise kids that are going to multiply and become great,
48:52 you know, citizens and, you know, raise other great citizens and kind of stay off some of the
48:57 nonsense that we're seeing in this world, just because I know how their parents minds are and
49:01 all those types of things. And so that's what I want for these guys. But at the same time,
49:06 I don't think that they should settle just for the first available person that that's willing to
49:12 marry them. I don't know if I'm making any sense here, but it's just kind of one of those deals that
49:16 if you're having trouble finding a long term relationship with a girl that loves Jesus, perhaps
49:20 you're not looking in the right places. So let me talk more generally now, I'm not, you know,
49:23 talking about anyone in my life in particular, if you're you're looking for a girl that loves
49:29 Jesus and you're on dating sites that don't use religion as a metric, maybe that's something.
49:36 If you're not in kind of singles groups or go into things at your church, or if your
49:41 church doesn't kind of have a wide swath of people that you can meet and get to know, maybe that's a
49:46 problem, right? Because again, it's like if you're if you're fishing and upon that, you know,
49:52 doesn't really have any dedication to the gospel or any type of like Christian, you know, ministry
49:59 or discipleship or community or anything like that, it's like you might get lucky and find a girl
50:03 that loves Jesus, but you don't want to become, you know, a missionary data, you know, you meet a
50:07 girl that's really, really nice and really, really hot, but then, you know, you're having to like
50:11 try to convince her that Jesus was a real person. It's like that that may not be the best thing
50:15 for you overall, you might end up selling yourself down the river a little bit. But my biggest advice
50:20 that I would give to those people is you can't just keep sitting around and waiting for someone
50:26 to come to you. And so for whoever's asking this question, it's like, I'm assuming something about
50:31 you, but maybe you're not as active in the dating scene as you should be, perhaps. Again, maybe
50:38 you're not fishing in the right places. Maybe you've got really stupid friends, right? And maybe when
50:43 you're around those friends all the time, they kind of like make you smell bad. You know, I mean,
50:47 if all your friends are out, you know, doing drugs all the time and they're drunk and getting bar
50:51 fights and all that crap. And if you're constantly hanging around somebody like that, maybe that
50:56 rubs off on you a little bit, maybe just kind of stains you a little bit, right? So I mean, buddy,
51:02 I feel for you again, I can't really level with you because I met the girl I was going to spend
51:05 the rest of my life with when I was 18 years old. And you know, man, it just it sucks for you. But
51:10 but again, just let me encourage you that if if you don't feel like Jesus is calling you to a life
51:16 of singleness, if you don't feel like you're being told that, you know, you will worship and and
51:22 glorify God by being single, then it would make sense that there's someone out there for you.
51:27 And gosh, if you haven't prayed for it, do that. I mean, I probably should have said that from the
51:32 top. Do just just pray. Pray that she comes into your life. And here's the other thing at the same
51:38 time that you're praying for that. Pray that you can become the person that she would want to be
51:44 around and want to be with that. That's kind of the cool thing that if you're single, but you know,
51:50 ready to mingle, ready to get, find a wife or in those types of things, it's like make sure you're
51:55 the type of guy that she would want. Because you're in a unique opportunity where you can work on
51:59 yourself a lot. Because regardless of if, you know, you have a lot of things to do at work or if you've
52:06 got, you know, a pet or if you like volunteer and do things at the church or, you know, with some sort
52:10 of nonprofit or whatever thing might be, you still got time. You've got time to really work on yourself.
52:15 And so, you know, you know, make sure that you're reading and make sure that you're working out and
52:19 make sure that you're, you know, working on those, those rough parts about your personality. Get
52:24 those things smoothed out before you find her, right? I mean, you're still going to change when you
52:28 get to her. That's one of the great things about having a good woman is they can change you and
52:32 smooth out those rough areas that you didn't even know you had. But again, I'm sorry for you. I know
52:37 you probably don't want me to be saying it that way. But man, I can't imagine that that girl's not
52:43 out there for you. I mean, it's not some romantic comedy type of thing. But it's just like, dude,
52:48 pray for it. Be the type of guy she would want. And then, you know, I assume it'll happen for you.
52:53 All right, guys, as we, I guess we're getting to the last section here, it looks like we've got
52:56 a bunch of would you rathers? Okay, so I guess would you rather questions are getting popular
53:02 now? So we're just going to kind of blow through these and then we'll be done with the episode for
53:05 today. So here we go. The first would you rather would you rather lose the ability to speak or read?
53:12 Okay, would you speak or read? I think I would rather lose the ability to read
53:21 because if you can speak, I think by 33, I feel like I've read a lot and I've experienced enough
53:29 to where I could feel like I could speak my way through the rest of my life now. If it was like,
53:33 you know, you couldn't speak since birth or read since birth, I think it might be different. But
53:36 yeah, I'd rather lose my ability to read. All right, next one. Would you rather be able to fly
53:41 or teleport? Oh, dude, this one's easy teleport. I think I was even asked something earlier about
53:45 if you could have one, you know, superpower, what would it be? But here's the thing about flying.
53:50 People are like, well, why would you want to teleport if you could fly somewhere? That'd
53:53 be cool. It's like, well, what if you wanted to go to like Bangladesh or Spain or something?
53:59 That's a long flight. And it's just you up there, right? I mean, you're just gonna fly over the ocean,
54:04 no big deal. I mean, maybe that would be cool. But I would just rather snap my fingers and just be
54:09 wherever I wanted to be. That one's easy. All right, next one. Would you rather be able to control
54:13 animals with your mind or electronics with your mind? Man, these are good. I think I would want to
54:22 be able to control animals with my mind. Because just sorry, just pump the mic. Just pump the mic.
54:27 We're good. We're good. All right. No earthquakes. I think I would want to do animals. I think I
54:31 would want to be able to control animals with my mind. Because how dope would it be if you were like,
54:37 you know, on a hiking trip, right? I just talked about hiking trip. I went to recently. And what
54:41 if I could like summon the the nearest grizzly bears to like come to our camp and I'd be like,
54:47 Hey, guys, don't worry about it. They're they're friendly grizzlies. And like, Hey, this one's my
54:52 buddy. Let me just hop on his back and ride around real quick. Can you imagine? I mean,
54:56 can you imagine that? Can you imagine like being like in the Bahamas and you're like,
55:01 get some bull sharks to come hang out with you? And everyone's like, all scared of death running
55:04 around and you're just like hanging from one of their fins letting it pull you through the water.
55:07 Dude, tell me that wouldn't be the dopest thing in the world. Now, it would be cool to control
55:11 electronics with your mind. But I just got to tell you, I would I think the animal thing would be
55:15 one of the coolest things ever. I think I'd probably have to be in Vegas and have one of those, you know,
55:18 big kind of magic type show things. But you know, controlling animals would be pretty cool.
55:22 Next question. Would you rather be a okay? Okay, here we go. I'm going to get this out. Would you
55:29 rather be a reverse centaur or a reverse merman? Okay, so I guess a reverse centaur would be as
55:39 instead of having the, you know, the top half of a human and the bottom half of a horse, I would
55:43 have the top half of a horse. Or I guess the other side would be the top half of a merman. So I
55:48 guess I'd be a fish up top. Okay. So if I'm a reverse centaur, do I have horse legs?
55:58 Because I mean, if I mean, that would be kind of cool, because I'm assuming horse legs are
56:02 faster than my legs. I think that'd be pretty cool. But to be honest with you, I think I'd take a
56:06 reverse merman, because then I would assume that I don't just have a fish head, I would assume that
56:12 I would have some fins and gills. So that'd be pretty cool. Can explore things kind of swim,
56:17 right? I feel like that would be a little bit easier. So yeah, we'll go, we'll go with a reverse
56:21 merman to whoever weirdo wanted to ask me this question. All right, next one. Would you rather
56:25 be constantly tired no matter how much you sleep or constantly hungry no matter how much you eat?
56:31 God, that's terrible. I don't want either of those. Well, I feel like if I was constantly hungry,
56:40 then I would just be constantly eating, right? And it would be kind of really hard to not become
56:46 like a gigantic fat. So right. But I mean, when you're sleepy, and when you sleep and you feel like
56:51 yeah, we got a whole lot of sleep. I mean, just your brain doesn't function as well. You're tired
56:56 during your workouts. I mean, all those things happen. So I think I would go with, to be honest,
57:00 I'd probably go with constantly hungry no matter how much I eat, because I feel like I could be
57:04 disciplined with that. But if I didn't have good rest, I feel like I'd lose it. All right, next one.
57:08 Would you rather be feared by all or loved by all? I think that one's pretty easy. If you're
57:13 if you're a secularist, you probably want to be feared by all. But I mean, being a Christian,
57:16 obviously, I think you would want to be, you know what? Actually, just as I was saying that,
57:20 if you're like a devout gospel centered Christian, you're not going to be loved by all. Right? I mean,
57:27 Jesus told us that. So here I am getting theological right in the middle of this question. Would you
57:32 rather be feared by all or loved by all? Okay, since I just kind of blew up the little theological
57:39 thing in my brain, I would probably say feared by all. Because again, we're working our way towards
57:44 a more secular society, way less Christians around way way less, you know, Jesus stuff. And
57:50 especially here in the West. And so I think people are probably going to get to a point where they're
57:53 scared of the gospel. And there's probably a good reason for that because they think they're gonna
57:57 have to give something up to which they will, which is living for themselves. And so we'll go with
58:00 feared by all. I don't know if I took it the way that you asked it, but you know, it is what it is.
58:04 Next question, we got a few more here. So here we go. Would you rather be famous when you are alive
58:09 and forgotten when you die or unknown when you are alive, but famous after you die? Okay, um, you
58:20 know what, I'd probably say unknown while I'm alive, but famous after I die. Because here's the thing,
58:26 most people want to leave a legacy, right? That's a really important thing. And to be honest with
58:30 you, like as a man, I want to make sure I can leave a legacy. But if I'm underappreciated or
58:35 unknown while I'm alive, and then like after I'm alive, you know, someone finds the stuff that I've
58:40 produced or this podcast or something like that. And then it becomes like a big deal. I think it'd
58:44 be cool. I think if nothing else, it'd be cool for my family. It's like, you know, hey, great granddad,
58:48 you know, said this thing and people thought it was funny or, you know, whatever the situation
58:52 might be. So I feel like it would be incredibly selfish just to be really, really famous while
58:56 you're alive and then immediately forgotten. So that's kind of like a lifetime of, you know,
59:00 flashing the pan-ness or something. There you go. I just going to new term, flashing the pan-ness.
59:04 There you go. Moving on to the next one. All right. Would you rather have the power to gently nudge
59:10 anyone's decisions or have complete puppet master control of five people? Okay, y'all are trying to
59:17 give me in trouble. Nudge anyone's decisions or have complete puppet master control of five people.
59:25 Okay, I'm just going to put it this way. I would not want puppet control of people. All right,
59:29 I said earlier, I think it'd be cool to do that for animals. Like I wouldn't, I wouldn't do that for
59:33 any negative purposes, but you know, just think about it. If you're in the middle of the woods and
59:37 you're about to die of hunger, it'd be kind of cool if you can have an elk just walk his way towards
59:41 you and, you know, sacrifice himself so that you can eat dinner. But I would not want to have
59:45 control over people. And that's because I've made too many mistakes as a human. Like, I, and I just,
59:50 you know, if you have complete complete control of another human being, even one, much less five,
59:54 I think that'd be kind of dangerous. But I would like to be able to gently nudge anyone's decisions.
59:58 I think anyone that's been in sales or been in any type of influential type of area. I think I
1:00:02 would like to do that. I would like to think that these podcasts are kind of like that. I would
1:00:05 like to kind of nudge people in a certain direction. So all right, last question here. And then we are
1:00:09 done with this episode of Q and A. So here we go. Would you rather go to jail for four years for
1:00:15 something you didn't do or get away with something horrible you did, but always live in fear of being
1:00:21 caught? Okay, I gotta read that again. Would you rather go to jail for four years for something you
1:00:26 didn't do or get away with something horrible you did, but always live in fear of being caught? Okay,
1:00:31 here's a deal. I would assume something horrible here would be something like, you know, rape or
1:00:36 murder. And so I would hope that I would never be in one of those types of situations. But the idea
1:00:42 of living in fear, like of being caught having to constantly look over your shoulder and constantly
1:00:48 move around or, you know, not trust people. I feel like that would be terrible. Like that's
1:00:52 almost like a lifetime sentence. I feel like so, I mean, as much as I would suck for, you know,
1:00:56 going to jail, going to the pokey for four years for something you didn't do. I mean, that's
1:01:01 yeah, I think four years as much as I would suck. Like I would much rather just do the four years,
1:01:06 do my best to have an influence on guys inside of there and try not to die. And then, you know,
1:01:11 come out on the other side having been, I mean, it would kind of suck once you get out of jail,
1:01:15 because you're still malign for having gone in and, you know, people think you did something. But
1:01:19 yeah, I don't think I could live in fear like that. So, man, you only like step step in your game
1:01:24 up a little bit. Some of these questions were super solid. And again, guys, if you want to hit
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