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037 - The Devil And The Catholic Church

August 23, 2018 39m 59s Full transcript available
037 - The Devil And The Catholic Church
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In this episode, we confront the horrific reality of child sexual abuse within the Catholic Church, as revealed by the Pennsylvania grand jury report. With over 300 identified abusive priests and thousands of victims, the church's systemic cover-ups and failures are laid bare, demanding accountability and action from all of us.
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0:00 This is I'm going to life a man's podcast. I'm your host Kyle Thompson. Let's get into
0:15 it. Alright guys, today's going to be a tough one. So I'm just going to go ahead and give
0:18 you that up front. It's called the devil in the Catholic church. So a lot of you know
0:22 where this is going to go immediately. But we are going to be discussing the Pennsylvania
0:26 grand jury report that was released on July 27th of 2018. Basically this was a 1400 page
0:32 report that was created after an 18 month investigation. And it's really the most comprehensive
0:38 sex abuse investigation in the history of the United States and certainly within the
0:42 church, the Catholic church. And so this was investigating child sexual abuse in six diocese
0:49 over 70 years. Okay. So these are six diocese within the Catholic church over 70 years and
0:55 they were in the following Pennsylvania city. So Allentown, Erie, Greensburg, Harrisburg,
1:00 Pittsburgh and Scranton. And so what this investigation sound and what it was found
1:05 in the report is that there were 301 abusive priests that they could identify. Okay. And
1:13 more than 1000 identifiable victims. Now here's the important thing to hear about that. So
1:19 you hear about the 300 and priests, 301 priests sounds terrible because it is. And then you're
1:24 thinking about the 1000 victims. Those are just the ones that were identified. That is
1:30 certainly not the actual number. We can assume that it's many, many thousands, if not tens
1:36 of thousands of more people that were abused. So the report also goes into the massive cover
1:43 ups, because they were common. Obviously, we've heard that before. And the report showed
1:48 that the church leaders often protected the abusive priests while, you know, all but ignoring
1:52 the victims, that that was just a readily available and apparent thing that was going
1:57 on quite often. And so many of these priests were actually just kind of shuffled around,
2:02 you know, from one diocese to another, or you know, one job to another. And it was just
2:07 basically when the heat got got to them a little bit, they would just move them around.
2:12 And so here's, here's the funny thing. Some of the priests even received promotions by
2:16 the Vatican after it was found out that they had been abusing children. I'll say that
2:22 again in case you didn't get it. Some of the priests even received promotions, promotions
2:28 by the governing body of the Catholic church after it was found out that they were abusing
2:33 children that were part of their flock. Okay. I mean, I mean, news has been everywhere.
2:39 So unless you've been under a rock, you've heard about the fact that this report has
2:43 been out there. And when you, if you're watch like, you know, local news, or if you watch
2:47 some of the national news or some of the mainstream media, you've gotten some of the
2:51 reports. But guys, we're going to get into what actually happened. And we're going to
2:56 do that right now. So here's a parental advisory warning here. Here's just a discretionary
3:02 warning for you. If you are listening to this with children, I would highly, highly suggest
3:07 that you either skip forward a bit or pause this and listen to it later. Because this
3:12 is going to be incredibly, incredibly graphic. I'm not holding back even a little bit. So
3:16 again, do what you need to do at this point. If you have small children that, you know,
3:21 you don't want to have to explain some new words to them here in a second, because I'm
3:24 about to give you some descriptions of some of the stories that actually happened in this,
3:29 in these six diocese. Okay. So here we go. A priest sodomized a boy with a seven inch
3:36 long crucifix. So let's let that just hang in the air for a second. It doesn't get any
3:41 better. A priest used holy water to rinse out the mouth of a nine year old boy after he
3:49 forced the boy to give him oral sex. He wanted to make it seem like it was part of some sort
3:55 of a religious ritual. Okay. A priest raped a seven year old girl by visiting her in the
4:02 hospital after she got her tonsils removed. There was a priest that would force little
4:06 boys to take their pants off and sit down and he would fondle their genitals while he
4:11 would jerk off. A group of priests would give certain boys. This is crazy. He would give
4:16 certain boys gold cross necklaces to wear. So these were meant as a symbol to other abusive
4:23 priests in the group. I guess they had like a little club, a little rate club that that
4:28 particular boy had been quote unquote groomed for additional abuse that they had basically
4:34 been desensitized to sexual abuse. And thus would be more compliant to further abuse.
4:41 There was one priest that, you know, when asked why he didn't abuse little girls and
4:44 only abused little boys, he responded matter of faculty to the question, well, they don't
4:49 have a penis. One boy was raped by a priest so violently from the ages of 13 to 15 that
4:57 it caused severe spinal injuries. Think about what you would have to do to somebody in a
5:03 sexual act to cause that. This boy became addicted to pain pills as a teenager. And
5:09 as a result, you know, he eventually died of an overdose from pain pills.
5:16 There's another priest that raped a little girl, got her pregnant and then arranged for
5:20 her to get an abortion. There was another priest that raped a young boy and then forced
5:26 the boy to do confession with him. He forced the boy to confess his sexual sins to him,
5:34 the guy that raped him. And the last one I'll go into here is one victim was forced to
5:39 pose naked as Christ on the cross while the priest photographed him. And these photos
5:46 were obviously saved as keepsakes for these [inaudible]. And they kind of shared it around
5:52 with a lot of their other child pornography that they had taken. So guys, that's a sampling,
5:59 just a sampling of what we know that happened. Just think about that. I know there's a lot
6:06 of dads listen to this right now and I hope you're as [inaudible] off as I am right now. And
6:11 so here's the thing guys is perhaps the most unfortunate news in this report and I absolutely
6:16 mean this and I will never regret saying it. Probably the most unfortunate news in this
6:20 report is that most of the 301 priests named in this report are already dead. They're already
6:27 dead. I mean, this report again was over 70 years, but this was essentially just a historical
6:33 record of crap that went down back in the 60s, 70s and 80s. So most of these [inaudible]
6:37 are already dead. And here's the thing, many of the priests that are still alive. This
6:42 will make your blood boil. They will easily get away with what they've done even after
6:47 this report came out because the statute of limitations has passed in their cases. So
6:52 there will be no justice on this earth for those people that were abused by these by these
6:57 so-called priests. And to be honest with you guys, I would have liked to see these guys
7:03 suffer for what they did. I mean, absolutely. Because here's the thing guys, when I think
7:09 about child rapists and I think about what should happen to them on this earth, again,
7:14 I'm not taking the judgment seat of God here. So don't misunderstand me. I think there are
7:17 only three outcomes that I'm comfortable with for a child rapist. The first is castration.
7:24 The second is death and the third is castration and then death. That's exactly what those
7:31 guys deserve. But I mean, here's the thing guys, the scariest reality of this report
7:39 is this was one report investigating only six diocese. That's it. And it was only over
7:49 like a certain period of time. I mean, guys, just think about that. That's horrifying.
7:58 Because there are currently reports servicing of abuse in Chile, in France, in Australia,
8:03 in some other places where the Catholic church is in the world. I mean, this was supposed
8:08 to have been handled, remember? I mean, just think back for a lot of you guys, think back
8:13 about the outrage that came out in 2002. That's when the first, you know, Catholic sex abuse
8:18 scandal came down, you know, in 2002, that's when the Boston Globe published an investigative
8:22 report that led to five Roman Catholic priests being prosecuted for sexual abuse, like sexual
8:28 abuse of children. Like remember that that was supposed to take care of everything. But
8:33 here we are in 2018. And it's pretty much the same story in Pennsylvania. It's, you know,
8:41 rampant abuse, rampant and regular cover up, shuffling the priests around from one priesthood
8:47 to another and just rinse and repeat and rinse and repeat. I mean, guys, if you haven't seen
8:52 the movie spotlight from 2015, I would certainly suggest you do that. Again, there are elements
8:56 of it that are Hollywood eyes. And of course, it's, you know, a movie made by a bunch of
9:00 people on the left and acted by a bunch of people that are on the political left. But
9:03 it kind of gives you a good idea of what happened in 2002. I mean, and we can assume that this
9:09 is still happening, right? And so here's the thing, you know, I just picked on the on
9:14 the left of the political left. So we should talk about that a little bit. So some people
9:18 on the political left are excited about this. Now, don't misunderstand me. I'm not going
9:21 to say that they are excited that these children were abused. I don't think that anyone in their
9:26 right mind would say that. But I think they're glad that they have the low hanging fruit.
9:30 That's that's an easy target right now. Because to be honest, a lot of people in the political
9:34 left or the or the secularists or the humanists or whatever you want to call them or however
9:38 you want to categorize them. They look for any news, like any news whatsoever that will
9:42 make Christianity look bad. Like any news whatsoever. So this is like a field day. It's
9:48 like great. Like let's take even more of the moral high ground away from them. Now this
9:55 is the same group of people that completely ignores Islam, interestingly enough. Like
10:01 they don't want to talk about the things that is done within Islam and the things that are
10:04 actually in the Quran and the fact that ISIS and al Qaeda and Boko Haram and groups like
10:09 them are actually just doing exactly what the Quran says. They don't want to talk about
10:13 that. But but they want to talk about this. And I'm not saying they should talk about
10:18 one as opposed to the other. I'm saying they should talk about both, right? I mean, just
10:23 think about this. Like the left has loved to use this scandal as a club to beat people
10:29 over the head with. I mean, I remember thinking back and remember I did a podcast about past
10:34 podcast episode about Ireland voting to allow murder in the womb, voting to allow abortion
10:41 in Ireland of all places, right? The thing that was so interesting here is how silent
10:47 I said this in the podcast. How silent the Catholic church was during all of this. The
10:52 Catholic church in Ireland, you know, they just, they didn't have anything to say. And
10:59 the thing that was clear is because they were shunned into silence, because anytime they
11:03 would start to rise up and defend the lives of the unborn and the rights of the unborn,
11:09 they would just be shut down like, Oh, really you want us to take something from from y'all's
11:13 book? Aren't you the guys that, you know, allowed for children to be abused? But all
11:19 of a sudden you care about them since they're in the womb. Sorry, not really going to take
11:22 that from you guys. And can you blame them? I mean, if I was on the political left, if
11:27 I was a secular secularist or if I thought that, you know, I was just a descendant of
11:31 fish and then monkeys and then whatever else these people believe, that's exactly what
11:35 I would do. Are you really going to give me a moral lesson right now? Where's your authority?
11:41 Because you forfeited that the moment that you allowed this to continue happening. But
11:46 it's just so interesting because look at the political left, they didn't cover Hollywood
11:50 sex abuse until they had to until all the Harvey Weinstein stuff came out, right? I
11:56 mean, did we not know the casting couch was a real thing? Did we not know that that was
12:01 going on all the time and everywhere within Hollywood? Did we not know that it's currently
12:06 still happening? But all of a sudden, you know, a hashtag shows up on Twitter and you
12:11 know, we have to talk about it. Sorry, man. I mean, like, that's the thing is they're
12:17 going to use this as a club and I understand why they're doing that. But sorry, you're
12:21 not going to give me a lesson in morality here when you all have selectively covered
12:24 this over the past. So let's get out of the political realm here. But the thing that I
12:29 really think that we need to dig into and really need to think about so that we can come up
12:33 with some form of action is what is the cause of this? You know, what could be causing this
12:38 within the Catholic church? And so here's the thing, you know, there's been plenty of
12:42 people that have offered up solutions and opinions and different things. You know, some
12:45 will say that the celibacy of the clergy or the pro the prevalence of homosexual clergy,
12:52 you know, they'll say something like that. And here's the thing. I mean, a lot of people
12:56 again, we're not going to get into a Catholic Protestant debate here. I don't need anyone
13:00 from anyway, I'll leave that alone. But basically, we don't need to get into that here that I
13:04 obviously think as a Protestant myself that there are massive, massive theological issues
13:09 within the Catholic church. But I think the celibacy thing maybe has has some some standing,
13:14 I don't know. I mean, here's the thing. Cardinal Raymond Burke, he called for Pope Francis
13:19 to clean up the homosexual culture in the church. So people inside the church think it
13:25 might be a problem of prevalence of homosexual clergy, right? And then you have John Jay,
13:31 you know, in his criminal justice report, he pointed out that, you know, basically counteracting
13:37 the homosexual culture argument, he basically said that there's no causative relationship
13:42 between the celibacy or homosexuality and basically the sexual victimization of the children
13:47 in the Catholic church. I guess he did a fairly big study on that. I got the the link that
13:52 I'm going to post at the end of this in the show notes. But here's the other thing guys
13:56 is from 1950 to 2002, 81% of the victims were teenage boys. I mean, overwhelmingly, the
14:07 majority of the victims were male, right? I mean, and most of those victims were post
14:13 pubescent boys. I mean, here's the thing about pedophilia. And, you know, just so we know
14:19 that we have our definition straight, pedophile someone that prays sexually on children of,
14:25 you know, of a certain age, and they essentially give no preference to gender. That is categorically
14:30 what a pedophile is. And so if there is this prevalence of homosexuality within the clergy,
14:36 it would make sense that 81% of the victims were teenage boys. So there's something to
14:41 be talked about there. And I think we should have that discussion. I mean, in some other
14:46 people, and they say this ignorantly, some will say that this is a uniquely Catholic problem,
14:52 which I think is so shortsighted. Because here's the thing. Research would suggest that priests
14:58 commit no more abuse than other males. Think about that. So think about the Boy Scouts
15:04 think about summer camp, think about sports teams, think about, you know, Protestant churches.
15:09 Think about them all. You know, a lot of these groups are trying to get ahead of this right
15:13 now. I think I even saw a report where, you know, some certain, maybe it was a Southern
15:16 Baptist convention or something like that, they're trying to get on the other side of
15:20 this because they sense that they're having the same problem within their flocks as well.
15:25 So this is not a uniquely Catholic problem and saying so is pretty ridiculous. I mean,
15:30 then you have other people that just take it one step further and they just say it's
15:33 a religious problem. It's a problem within religions. But then again, there's research
15:36 that would suggest that sexual abuse is more prevalent outside of a religious setting,
15:41 like a church or a synagogue as opposed to inside of it. So I mean, that that's the crazy
15:46 thing. It's like, what do we do with all this information? It's just kind of floating around
15:51 like, but what do we do with it? It's frustrating. It's discombobulating. You know what I mean?
15:57 But here's the thing that as I'm going through and I've had kind of a week to digest this
16:01 because I would have talked about this last week, but the report came out like the day
16:05 before and I didn't have time to really prepare my thoughts on it. So I've had about a week
16:08 to think about it. And there's a lot of things I feel like people get wrong when trying to
16:13 digest this news. And I don't really understand why. So I just kind of want to talk about
16:17 it openly here. Um, I guess the first thing I noticed is they asked pretty stupid questions,
16:22 like, how could this happen again? And I'm like, the operative word there is again, what
16:29 do you mean? How could this happen again? It never stopped. Clearly. Like at what point
16:35 did it stop? I literally think CNN said, I don't know if it was like one of their, one
16:40 of their things on the website or if it was something they did on one of the television
16:44 shows that they're like, how could this happen again? I thought we had fixed it fixed what
16:48 sin sexual abuse? Like lust? What are you, what are you talking about? Like what a stupid
16:55 thing to say? One and then the other thing, which we've already talked about, they assume
16:59 it's just a Catholic problem. Here's something that will really check you up. The United
17:04 States Department of Education, right? They found that physical sexual abuse of students
17:10 in schools is likely more than 100 times the abuse by priests. I mean, like, what do you
17:20 say to that? 100 times the abuse by priests? Let's say they're half wrong. I mean, they're
17:26 the government, so they don't do very many things well. So let's say they're half off
17:29 their rocker. Then it's 50 times the abuse by priests. That's crazy. Oh, and then the
17:37 other part of this is I've heard people say, you know, they assume that Pope Francis is
17:42 the man to fix this. Really Pope Francis? The dudes of social justice warrior that wears
17:49 a funny hat like this is a guy that won't definitively condemn homosexuality. He just
17:55 won't come out and condemn what it says in scripture, what Jesus maintains about sexual
18:00 purity. This is a guy who just recently basically came out and said that that the Catholic church
18:06 was going to eradicate the death penalty by completely eradicated by giving no credence
18:12 or reflection on Genesis nine six, which if you're not sure what that says, it's this,
18:16 whoever sheds man's blood by man, his blood shall be shed for in the image of God, he
18:21 made man, right? That that's where we get the idea for the death penalty. That's why
18:26 you can be anti abortion and be pro capital punishment. That's why you can do those things.
18:33 I mean, here's the thing. A lot of people look at Pope Pope Francis as the guy who's
18:36 like modernizing the Catholic church as if the Catholic church or any sect of Christianity
18:43 needed modernization. But I mean, the thing was is the Catholic church thought that he
18:49 was the guy, right? He was going to be the guy to take us into the new, the new areas
18:52 we needed to go into, but they ended up just selecting a paper tiger. Pope Francis isn't
18:56 going to do anything about this. He's going to consult with his PR team and his lawyers
19:00 and, and all these different people and he's just going to do the same crap to everyone
19:03 else does. You know, sit around and act like they're busy without actually doing anything.
19:08 So so that's all, that's all fine and good, right? So I've basically told you all of the
19:13 horrific details of some of the things that have happened. And again, those are just the
19:16 things we know about. So let's not use our imaginations and waste time with that, but
19:21 we can assume things commiserate to that or worse than that actually happened. But then
19:25 we got to ask ourselves a question, guys, and you know, I was going there. What is to
19:28 be done about it? You know, I'm not the type of guy that's just going to oppose something.
19:33 I want to propose something and I'm not just going to describe something. I want to be
19:36 able to be to be actionable in one way or another. And so the first thing I think that
19:42 can be done is to really call it what it is. You know, we have, we have all these secular
19:48 journalists and people that are they're trying to find the words for it. They're trying to
19:53 not use their brains, which have been wired for Judeo, Christian thought and morality to
19:57 basically call this something. But guys, it's pure evil, right? And even secular less secularists,
20:04 even though they don't have a concept, a biological scientific concept for what evil is, it's
20:09 just they know it when they see it. But let's call evil what it is evil comes from the devil.
20:14 This is satanic. That's exactly where this is coming from. The devil has a foothold
20:19 currently in the Catholic church. And again, not just picking on Catholics. The devil has
20:25 a foothold in the heart of man. We know that to be true. This is just one of the ways that
20:30 it's manifesting itself. This is just the easiest example to talk about right now is
20:36 the Catholic church. So enough with the euphemisms, enough with, oh, it's evil or it's bad or
20:43 it's abhorrent. It's a horrific or it's tragic. It's any of those things. Yeah, all those things
20:47 apply. But let's talk about what it actually is it's satanic. It's evil. That's what this
20:50 is. It comes from the pit of hell. And so the second thing that I think that is to be done
20:56 is we need to get the death penalty for rape and child sexual abuse, first time. So first
21:03 time offenders for rape and child sexual abuse, they get the death penalty. Boom, done. Does
21:10 that sound a little bit extreme? It's not extreme. It's appropriate. They should die
21:16 for doing that. There are currently only six states that have laws for this, by the way,
21:22 I know some of you are immediately wondering that. So it's Texas, Oklahoma, South Carolina,
21:27 Montana, Louisiana, Georgia. But here's the thing about these laws, guys, is they're incredibly
21:32 weak, incredibly weak. So I want to give you a summary of what the laws are on the books
21:36 in these states. So let's start with the state of Texas. So basically the second conviction
21:41 for rape of a child under 14, that's the standard. The second conviction for rape of a child
21:47 under 14, the first offense could have occurred prior to the law's passage. Right. So they
21:52 basically put a loophole in the language of the policy. This was enacted in 2007. So far,
21:57 they've had zero people sentenced. And of course, zero people have been executed. So my home
22:03 state state of Oklahoma, this is what they say. The rape or forcible sodomy of a victim
22:07 of other under 14, where the defendant had a prior conviction of sexual abuse of a person
22:13 under 14. This was an act in 2006. Zero people have been sentenced to this and there have
22:18 been zero executions. South Carolina repeat offenders of criminal sexual conduct with
22:24 a minor under 11. 2006 was when it was enacted, zero people sentenced, zero people executed
22:31 Montana. Second conviction for sexual intercourse without consent, accompanied by serious bodily
22:37 injury. This was enacted in 1997. Zero people have been sentenced to this and zero have
22:43 been executed Louisiana, aggravated rape of a child under 13. 1995, two people have been
22:51 sentenced to death, but zero have been executed. And finally, Georgia, carnal knowledge of
22:56 a female who is less than 10, presumes force. So that was enacted in 1999, zero death sentences,
23:06 zero executions. So six states, two death sentences, zero executions. And can we just call this
23:13 language super weak? I mean, really? So we're going to give a guy a strike or gal, we're
23:22 going to give him a strike here. Alright, so you can, you know, Oklahoma, let's pick
23:26 on my home state, you can rape and forcibly sodomize somebody under the age of 14. But
23:32 as long as you haven't done it before, you're fine. As long as you haven't been convicted
23:37 before, let's be clear about that. If you haven't been convicted of sexually abusing someone
23:41 under the age of 14, you're okay. We're going to give you one strike. We'll give you a redo.
23:46 We'll give you a do over. I mean, why don't we just make that the same statute with murder?
23:52 You murder a guy? It's like, ah, that was pretty bad. We're not big fans of murder here
23:57 in the great state of Oklahoma or Texas or South Carolina or Montana or Louisiana or Georgia.
24:02 Hey, you know what? We're going to give you a mulligan. Really? Come on. Like, what would
24:08 it have to take to get the death penalty for rape and child sexual abuse for first time
24:13 offenders? Like, talk to your Congress people. Talk to your senators. This is ridiculous.
24:21 So a third thing that I wanted to kind of talk about is, you know, and I'm taking this
24:24 from Matt Walsh over the daily wire, but there must be a purge inside the Catholic Church.
24:30 There has to be. And it's got to be painful. And I'm not going to make Matt Walsh's points
24:35 for him. This is a guy that's obviously on the political ride. If you know who Matt Walsh
24:39 is, it was formerly with the blaze and now with the daily wire, but this is a current,
24:43 you know, in practicing Catholic. And so he has his own unique set of ideas and ways
24:49 that he wants to see this handled. And so I'm going to put his article here at the end
24:53 of this podcast and the show notes. So make sure that you go and get his summary there.
24:57 I won't sit here and read it to you. Now the fourth thing I wanted to think, I want us
25:00 to think through is that the fight, you know, to correct this must occur from within. So,
25:08 so essentially guys, this is up to the members of the Catholic Church here. Like this is
25:11 up to all of the super dedicated members of the church. This is up to the lay Catholics
25:18 like those types of people. But also it's up to the other priests. You know, presumably,
25:25 obviously there are priests that are not abusing boys and girls. We need to hear from them.
25:32 They need to step it up. They need to get loud. They need to talk about this. But then they
25:37 also need to take action. But I think starting with words is pretty important. Guys, right
25:43 before I started recording this podcast, a good buddy of mine here in the city I live
25:48 in Edmond, Oklahoma. He's Catholic. He sent me, he sent me this information. He basically
25:54 sent me the comments by a local priest here. His name's Father Hamilton. And he's of Saint
25:59 Monica's here in Edmond, Oklahoma. But he made some comments about that. And I have the entire
26:05 audio again in the show notes. It's going to be the last link I provide. But around the
26:09 15 minute mark or so 15 or 16 minutes in, I'm not quite sure. But right around that time,
26:14 he's talking about the fifth of five elements that he's describing about what the Catholic
26:19 church can do. And to be honest with you, a lot of the commentary leading up to this
26:26 fifth one, I was fairly impressed by the savagery and forwardness and forthrightness of the language
26:33 that this guy used. But again, that this is a ministry that that is four minutes for Christian
26:38 men. And you know, for men that tend to be a little bit rougher around the edges. And
26:42 so I think this last, this fifth of five things that he talked about is incredibly important.
26:48 So I took the time to kind of transcribe some of the things that he said, because I want
26:52 you to hear it when he says it. And I want to read it to you now so so that I can kind
26:58 of start to sink in even before you do that. So here is a little excerpt from the speech
27:02 that he gave here recently. The final element I will raise is related to how we explain
27:08 the horrific crime and sin of abuse, as well as the rage inducing failed leadership and
27:13 cover up among bishops is what I will call a crisis of weak masculinity, carrying with
27:20 it the loss of the ability to be fatherly. In order to appreciate the God given qualities
27:26 of femininity that are complimentary to God given qualities of masculinity, our society
27:31 has wrongly cast negative light on men and masculinity. To raise up femininity in women,
27:38 which to be clear is a good thing to do. Our society has wrongly cast aspersions upon the
27:42 suppressed and suppressed masculinity in men. Watch how men are cast in entertainment and
27:48 you will get a glimpse of this. The man is often the immature fool who whose presence
27:53 is barely needed for good, balanced family life. Our boys and young men are as a group
27:59 increasingly adrift, locked in an alternate reality of excessive video gaming and seemingly
28:05 without clear purpose. In some organs of society, masculine traits are punished and boys learn
28:11 early that their natural qualities are less than desirable. And now we have reached a
28:16 point where masculinity is referred to as toxic. I suspect that description is not very precise
28:22 and is meant to make men self conscious and soft. Our spiritual fathers are impacted by
28:27 this cultural atmosphere too. There have clearly been some sick men in the priesthood who never
28:33 should have been there. But it is just as clear that in the upper ranks of bishops and cardinals,
28:38 even if they themselves are not abusers, many likewise have no concept of fatherhood because
28:44 they had it once. But those that covered up abuse clearly lost it. Listening to their
28:50 corporate speak is all the evidence needed. A manly father doesn't need experts and lawyers
28:57 and insurance companies to tell him how to act. The failed bishops speak like men who
29:03 are not fathers, because a father would be enraged and in deep pain for his children
29:08 despicably harmed under his guard. Maybe some bishops have mustard that. But I would
29:14 say most of the ones getting TV interviews certainly have not. So guys, you don't really
29:22 hear a lot about a lot like that from the pulpit. Not like that. And this guy starts
29:28 you know, first 30 seconds or so, he's basically giving himself a pre mea copa. He's like,
29:34 I'm going to kind of reserve the right to offend some of you today. It's not how he
29:38 worded it. But that's essentially what he was saying. And man, I'm glad there are guys
29:44 like that in my community. And again, this could just be for show, you know, but you
29:50 know, it seems sincere to me knowing nothing about that guy having never even known he
29:55 existed before this exact moment before I record the podcast. But man, I think that's
30:00 20 minutes of your life you should absolutely give to this guy's point of view because I
30:04 think he nailed it. And the final thing guys I want to talk about here for us as we consider
30:09 what we can do is we can never be quiet. Never. I'm a big individual responsibility guy.
30:20 And I know that there were plenty of people that knew or suspected that this stuff was
30:27 going on in Pennsylvania. And there are certainly people that are suspecting it or know that
30:33 it's going on in other areas of our society. And we've mentioned some of those areas already.
30:36 I won't redo that. But if you know or you suspect and you don't step in, you are a coward. Don't
30:47 be a coward in this moment. I mean, it's that simple. I mean, I think back to, you know,
30:52 the Penn State things are right. You know, you had the Joe Pa, the cover up and you know,
30:57 you had Jerry Sandusky and all those different things. I remember hearing the story for the
31:01 first time because again, I was just kind of getting bits and pieces of the story. But
31:04 I remember hearing about where this kid is kind of how he was described this young guy.
31:11 He's walking through the locker room and he hears somebody in pain sounds like a little
31:16 kid. And he walks over to the shower area. This was, you know, I believe it was on Penn
31:21 State's campus. And Jerry Sandusky is butt raping a kid like this little kid, maybe nine
31:29 10 years old, something like that. He's butt raping the kid. And we hear about this guy
31:35 that witnessed it that he kind of he kind of freaked out. He got frazzled and he took
31:40 off and went and talked to his dad. And so him and his dad, they didn't go to the police.
31:46 They went to Joe Paterno and then, you know, the whole cover up and you know, the story
31:51 from there or at least most of you will. But the thing about the story that was very conveniently
31:58 left out and I don't really know why is that this was not just some like random teenager
32:04 that happened upon this rape. This was like a guy in his early twenties. And the dude
32:12 is gigantic. I remember when I first saw him on on television, I was like, that's the guy.
32:20 That's the freaking guy that saw an elderly man raping a boy. And his first thought was,
32:26 I got to tell daddy. That's the guy. I mean, guys, I want you to put yourselves in that
32:34 situation. So I don't care what age you are. I don't care if you have any fighting experience.
32:39 I don't care if you've never thrown a punch in your life. But if you walk into a locker
32:43 room, you hear the sounds of a boy, a little boy being raped and then you walk around the
32:49 corner and you see it happening. What would you do? And don't kid yourself. What would
32:56 you do? Because this isn't, you know, time for all of us to, you know, have a dick measuring
33:01 contest and be like, well, you know what, I do this and then I would do that. But guys
33:05 I got to be honest with you. Like, I think you would have to rip that person to pieces,
33:11 right? And to be honest with you, I don't know that there's a jury on the planet that
33:15 would send you to jail for it. If you stop something so unbelievably abhorrent, but guys
33:22 to be honest, that's the decision most of you need to make now. And I talk about that
33:25 all the time. It, you know, people, you talk about being a sheepdog, or you talk about being
33:30 prepared and, you know, being left of bang or whatever the terminology is that you use,
33:35 you need to make that decision now that you will be a man of action if the time comes.
33:39 And guys, I'm giving you an extreme example of actually happening upon an actual sexual
33:43 assault while it's actually happening, right? But even if you just notice something that's
33:47 a little bit off about a camp counselor, about a coach, about a neighbor, about a family
33:53 member, you say something or you do something or both. It's certainly not worth your time
34:01 and not worth your effort to spend the rest of your life regretting that you didn't say
34:05 something. I mean, just think about I would assume that most of the guys listening to
34:09 this podcast would have no problems stepping in if they knew it was happening to their
34:13 kid. We're all connected guys. We all have the Amago day. We all have the image of God
34:19 written on our souls. We all deserve to be defended. And if this is really as ubiquitous
34:25 as it seems, all pockets of every religion and every school system and everything that
34:32 these children are under such assault from these predators, we have to be vigilant. We
34:38 have to have our eyes open. We need to pray to God to help keep our eyes open to get our
34:44 faces out of our phones and out of our laptops and to look around, see what's going on. You
34:50 know, a lot of guys are intuitive. I wouldn't say that I'm terribly intuitive. But at the
34:54 end of the day, you will notice something. And if someone comes to you, be ready to act.
35:00 And guys, I know I'm getting pretty fired up in this podcast. But man, just even researching
35:06 the subject matter was terrifying. It was ridiculous that this stuff could happen. But
35:12 again, Satan's real. Satan does have power. It's only the power granted to do him by God,
35:19 but we're in a post Genesis three world here guys. It's certainly not going to get better
35:23 from here, but we can make an impact. We can make a difference. And then we just have
35:28 to pray for Jesus to come quick. All right, guys, before I let you out of here, we're
35:32 going to do a quick resilience boost. And as you know, by now, we are immense ministry
35:35 in our mission is cultivating manly resilience. And specifically, we do that by providing
35:39 content like this podcast that forges spiritual, mental and physical toughness. And today,
35:44 we're going to work on the mental side. And I'm just going to kind of give a little recap
35:47 of a lot of things that we've already talked about in this podcast, because I want to make
35:50 sure you know what resources I put out there for you. So I have a link to the full length
35:55 grand jury report. So that is the 1400 plus page report. I also have a truncated version
36:00 of the grand jury report. It's something more like 800 pages. So if you really want to have
36:05 a terrifying experience, go ahead and read your way through that. I posted an article
36:09 from the New York Times. It's called the Catholic Church sex abuse scandal seven excerpts from
36:14 the grand jury report. So these are just seven of the more horrifying excerpts from that that
36:18 kind of give you an overall idea of what was being said and talked about in the report.
36:23 I have the original Boston Globe report from 2002. It's called church allowed abuse by
36:28 priests for years. So this is what kind of got this all started back in 2002. I mentioned
36:33 that John Jay report. And so I have the report that he put together on the clergy abuse inside
36:38 the Catholic Church. So you can read that it's on psychology today. And then also I have a
36:44 thing from Newsweek. It's called priests commits no more abuse than other males. So that kind
36:48 of substantiates the claim that I made earlier, which is that this is not a uniquely Catholic
36:53 problem. I have that that article that I told you about from Matt Walsh. It's called there
36:59 must be a purge in the Catholic Church and it must be brutal. So I put that there. And
37:03 then also and most importantly, if you don't take down any of that content, any of that
37:07 content whatsoever, please take 20 minutes to listen to the comments from Father Hamilton
37:11 here from Saint Monica's in Edmond because that little excerpt that I read is I mean,
37:16 it's probably it's certainly my favorite part from all of that. But there's a lot of gold
37:20 in there. So guys, again, thank you for hanging with me on such a such a tough subject today.
37:25 But you know, hopefully we're all going to be better for it on the other end. All right,
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