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014 - Take Heart

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014 - Take Heart
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In a world where fear and chaos seem to reign, it's time for Christians to take heart and embrace courage. Matt Chandler's new book, 'Take Heart,' reminds us that even in the age of unbelief, we can thrive by standing firm in our faith and living with conviction.
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0:30 This is Undaunted Life on Man's Podcast. I'm your host Kyle Thompson. Let's get into it.
0:46 For the church, the skies are growing dark in the West, but the sky is not falling in.
0:51 In fact, this is a great time to be a Christian. I know that it may not look like that,
0:56 from terrorist attacks to racial injustice to political chaos to an increasingly secular world
1:01 that seems to have lost its moral center. We find ourselves in some unique and challenging times.
1:06 Fear runs rampant across our cultural landscape, and especially, and increasingly,
1:10 fear sits in the pews of our churches. Talk to most Christians, or read most Christian blogs and
1:15 social media streams, and it's clear that the church isn't what it was. Or rather, it isn't
1:21 where it was. What do I mean? Bernie Sanders will explain for me. In spring 2017,
1:27 the Vermont Senator, who came closer than anyone expected to winning the Democratic nomination
1:32 for U.S. President in 2016, discovered that Russell Vogt, Deputy Director of the Office
1:37 of Management and Budget, holds to the Orthodox Christian belief on salvation, and that, therefore,
1:43 he believes that Muslims are "condemned." Here is what Sanders said in Vogt's Senate confirmation
1:49 hearing. It is hateful. It is Islamophobic, and it is an insult to over a billion Muslims
1:54 throughout the world. This country's sittsens' inception has struggled, sometimes with great
1:59 pain, to overcome discrimination of all forms. We must not go backwards. Welcome to the age of
2:04 unbelief. Unless you want to place your head in the sand and leave it there, there's no denying
2:09 the fact that fewer and fewer people are claiming to be Christians throughout the West, and that
2:12 Christians are losing social status, in favor, more and more, almost by the day. For those in the
2:18 United States, we're seeing "Christian America" pass away right before our eyes. Our one nation
2:23 under God doesn't look and feel the same way anymore. Many European nations are way downstream
2:30 from there. It is the end of the age of Christendom. Whether it's legislation around issues such as
2:35 gay marriage and transgender identities, or the debate around what religious liberty really is,
2:40 and whether it even matters, or the popularity of the new atheists like Richard Dawkins and Carl
2:46 Sagan, or just the way our neighbors and co-workers look at us, even if we mention that we agree with
2:51 what Christ said about salvation, relationships, or truth, we're in a new era. It was one thing
2:57 to move toward a pluralistic society where we lived among those who looked and thought differently
3:02 than us, and who believed differently than us on some of our close-held beliefs. Now that's not
3:08 good enough. We're currently experiencing the intolerance of intolerance. Hopefully you catch
3:13 the hypocrisy in that. Christians with traditional convictions and understandings of sexuality and
3:18 marriage are seen as bigots. Churches are being viewed as hate groups. Our beliefs are,
3:23 Bernie says, and millions of others think, hateful. Our positions are, Bernie says, and millions of
3:28 others think, backwards. Welcome to the age of unbelief. What are we going to do in it?
3:33 I believe we can thrive, really. That was an excerpt from the introduction to Take Heart,
3:40 Christian courage and the age of unbelief, which was just released this week. So if you're listening
3:45 to this on time, it was just released this week. And that was written by Matt Chandler,
3:49 who's the lead teaching pastor over at the Village Church down in Dallas. And so this podcast today
3:54 is going to be a review of that book. So first of all, I'd just like to really thank the Village
3:58 Church and their team for sending me an advanced copy of this book. I was able to read it a couple
4:03 of months ago to kind of formulate my thoughts on it and get a really good idea as to what I think
4:09 this could do for, for my audience and for people that looking on Daunton life or in men's ministry.
4:14 And so that was just a really, really nice thing of them to do to send that my direction. I really
4:18 enjoyed getting to read an advanced copy. Now, obviously, if you've been following me or been
4:22 following this ministry for any length of time, you know that we have like a super like massive
4:28 theological man crush on Matt Chandler, like we just love him here at Undaunted Life. We just,
4:33 we love what what he's about. We love what he stands for. We love the fire that he preaches with.
4:37 We love how he speaks about truth even in the face of just this kind of the moral pluralistic
4:44 kind of ridiculous even counter cultural Christian culture that we see where everything's just kind
4:49 of up in the air and you can just believe whatever you want. We like that Matt Chandler kind of sticks
4:53 it out and stays true. And I mean, if you know Matt Chandler story, the guy should be dead. He
4:56 should have died of brain cancer years ago. And so it's almost as if this guy has a new lease on
5:01 life and he preaches every single week like it's his last sermon. And I know a lot of people kind
5:05 of say that about different people like always playing this like it's his last game. And she's
5:09 doing this like it's her last time ever in the boardroom like, but but I really mean it. And if
5:14 you've been listening to a sermons for any length of time or especially for years and years as I
5:18 have, you know, you'll know that to be true. But this book goes into a lot of different directions.
5:23 I mean, really even in the very beginning of the book, you're gonna look at stats about the decline
5:27 of Christianity in the West, the decline of Christian thinking in America overall. And so it really is
5:34 going to go into a lot of these areas, but it's going to be a very, very hopeful read for most of
5:38 us. So I mean, first of all, if if you can see the cover, which, you know, we'll include a link to
5:42 the Amazon link, the cover is super dope. We love the cover. Obviously, we love lines here at
5:47 Undaunted Life, we like to focus on the line of Judas or the fact that there's a line on the cover.
5:51 It's as if it was written for us only, which was amazing. But what is this book about? And I could
5:57 have gone into my own little synopsis and I'll kind of do a little bit of that later. But I'm just
6:01 going to read directly from the Amazon description, because I think this is a very apt and obviously
6:05 a very appropriate description. So here's what it reads on Amazon. "Christianism is dead,
6:11 and that's a good thing. The Christian culture that has underpinned Western society for centuries
6:16 has been eroded. We're now at the point where to disagree with people and issues such as marriage
6:20 and sexuality is seen as hateful. Christians are no longer seen as honorable, but as bigots.
6:26 But history testifies that the more people try to destroy Christianity, the more it grows.
6:31 So we are entering an exciting period of time because we're back in the place where Christ
6:35 Church can survive and thrive at the margins of society. In this stirring passionate book,
6:41 Matt Chandler shows us we need Christian courage like never before and how to live with compassion
6:46 and conviction able to look around positively and reach out confidently. It encourages us
6:53 not to be thwarted by fear, but to depend on God and have confidence that Christ will build
6:57 his church despite continual marginalization. A must read for any Christian who wants to understand
7:03 how to stand firm and walk forwards in an increasingly secular culture. So what I'm going to do today
7:09 is I'm going to review this book and some of my major takeaways from this and really summarize
7:14 some of the content without giving too much away. So if you've read the book already by the time
7:20 that you've heard this podcast, you're going to know that I'm going to go over a lot of different
7:24 things, but I'm leaving out a lot of the meat of the book because I want you to experience that
7:29 in the narrative way that Matt Chandler puts it out there. Okay, so let's just go ahead and launch
7:35 into this. Okay, the beginning of the book kind of goes into a discussion of the plight of Christianity
7:41 and Christian thinking in the modern West because, and I think that's an important distinction
7:44 because we think of, oh, Christianity's on the decline is being attacked, but really it's Christian
7:49 thinking as well. It's like Christianity as a worldview. So all of us tend to respond to the
7:55 plight a little differently. And Chandler did a really, really great job of putting our different
8:02 responses into these four categories. So we're seeing this, this anti Christian nature going on.
8:08 How do we respond to it? So here are the four approaches that he threw out there. The first one
8:12 is the converting culture approach, the converting culture approach. So in this approach, you want
8:19 to make sure that culture reflects Christian and or biblical principles and values. That's what you
8:25 want to make sure it happens. So think, you know, the modern Christian right politically. So,
8:30 you know, different politicians that you've identified with that would even call themselves
8:33 Christian right. That's kind of where this approach comes from. So this could lead to some unholy
8:38 alliances with groups that we don't necessarily want to align with. And I think that goes really
8:43 well with a quote from this section. And here's the quote. And yes, Christians are called to seek
8:47 the good of those around us and to pursue justice and to love good and shun evil. But we get into
8:52 trouble when we confuse the earthly city with the heavenly city, until Christ returns, this world
8:58 will never look as it should. You can't use politics to build the new Jerusalem and you can't
9:04 legislate people into the kingdom of God. Okay. So that's the converting culture approach. The
9:09 second approach he talks about is the condemning culture approach. You'll probably be very familiar
9:14 with this one. So basically, we are going to remove ourselves from culture as Christians. We're just
9:18 going to be outside of a culture. So we're going to get up on our high horse. We're going to point
9:22 down at all the sinners and all the crazy folk. And we're just going to condemn them from our
9:26 perch on high. That's kind of what we're going to do. So the Anabaptist movement, some of you may
9:31 have heard of the Anabaptist movement that has a lot of this condemning culture approach. There
9:35 was a very popular book that came out called the Benedict option. And it uses this approach. It
9:40 basically calls it a strategic retreat. And so Chandler doesn't really dig this option very much.
9:47 I think you can see for some obvious reasons. And here's a quote from this section talking about
9:52 the condemning culture approach. So here we go. My concern is that by itself, I just don't think
9:58 the idea is all that biblical. We are to be the salt of the earth as we see in Matthew 5 verse 13.
10:04 And salt maintains its flavor while it is rubbed into the food it is being used to preserve.
10:09 Not only that salt spreads its flavor too. There comes a point where we have to actually get our
10:14 hands dirty and show and share the good news of Christ. And proximity and relationships are
10:20 essential to making that work. It requires involvement in the local community and in the
10:24 public square. If God's Old Testament people could have called to seek the welfare of the city of
10:31 Babylon during their exile from the homeland in Jeremiah 29 seven, then we should be seeking
10:36 the welfare of others too. After all, however, ungodly your context, you are not in Babylon.
10:42 Okay. So that that's a really good summation of the condemning culture approach and some of
10:46 the issues that you might have with that. So let's move on to the third approach. That's the
10:49 consume culture approach. Okay. So this one is the most personally frustrating for me, especially
10:55 inside the church. And you've heard me talk about this in other podcasts. And we'll certainly talk
10:59 about that throughout future episodes. But basically it's this idea that in order to stay relevant.
11:05 Yeah, I'm using air quotes right now to stay relevant. We have to look like the rest of culture,
11:10 essentially do what they do, act how they act, you know, to a degree, right? This approach tends
11:16 to begin with good intentions, but it can so easily fall off the rails, right? And here's a quote from
11:22 this section of the book that I think sums it up very nicely. Okay. But the problem comes when we
11:26 start to put too great a focus on culture to the neglect of the gospel. And that even goes for
11:31 social justice. What happens is that we start to want the implications of the gospel more than we
11:37 want the actual gospel. Those who take the consuming culture approach follow culture,
11:42 first and foremost, before the Bible, neglecting and compromising on significant aspects of faith.
11:48 These men and women begin to look more and more like the world and less and less like the church.
11:53 When the voice of a culture and not the word of Christ is what governs the church, then it is no
11:58 longer the church. It is just a social club of people desperately trying to keep up with the
12:03 cultural fashion. Ironically, that's the quickest way to close your church. Why would anyone bother
12:09 coming to a church that is indistinguishable from anything else? I think that is such a fantastic
12:14 point. Like he points out accurately that these first three approaches are all born out of fear,
12:20 right? So if you're using the consumed culture approach, the condemned culture approach,
12:24 or the convert culture approach, those are all things that you're doing out of fear. That's how
12:29 you're operating, right? And so there's a fourth approach. And that is the one that we need to take.
12:35 And that's really what the whole of the book is about. And that's the courageous approach, okay?
12:40 So the entirety of the book goes into a lot of different detail and spells out a lot of different
12:45 ways that we can operate that kind of keep us out of those first three approaches because it's
12:49 really the courageous approach, which is going to have the most positive in terms of outcomes.
12:53 Because like I said, on those other three, those are things that can have positive outcomes,
12:59 but they are not wholly positive W-H-O-L-L-I positive. They're just not wholly positive,
13:05 whereas the courageous approach has the most positivity possible throughout it, okay? And one
13:11 of the things that he does early in the book that I think is very, very important for us is he takes
13:15 a look at Christendom, okay? And even saying we're living in the twilight of that period, right?
13:21 And so this is basically Christianity being at the forefront of culture. That's what Christendom is,
13:27 right? And we've all kind of lived in different points like this. So I'm a younger guy, but for
13:33 even some of you folks that are a little bit older listening to this podcast, you have experienced
13:37 times where Christianity was really at the forefront of culture, that our politics was downstream of
13:42 Christian Judeo-Christian thought, you know what I mean? But you got to really look at it this way.
13:48 The first thousand years of Christian history was crazy. You've heard me talk about the book
13:52 tried by fire a lot, but in a thousand years, it was just an inconceivable way that Christianity
14:00 grew because we were basically going from every conceivable world power was trying to stamp out
14:05 Christianity, especially the Roman Empire. And then we became the most widely accepted religion
14:10 on the planet in a relatively short period of time. Like that's pretty incredible. That speaks
14:16 to the truth of the gospel and to the gospel accounts that we see in the New Testament.
14:21 But there were a lot of changes that happened in the church because of Christendom because
14:26 Christianity did have such a high status in most people's brains. And so Matt Chandler actually
14:32 goes into detail on four of the ways that the churches changed. So I'm going to go over those
14:35 right now. But one of the first ways that the church changed was as Christendom formed,
14:41 you began to get what was considered to be a Christian civilization for lack of a better way
14:47 to put it. So it was essentially binary. It was basically Christendom versus, you know,
14:52 the heathens and the barbarians. That's how he puts it in the book. And so basically,
14:56 your faith and how you set up your life had largely to do with where you were born, right? If you
15:02 were born in a Christian nation, a Christian civilization, well, then you were just a Christian,
15:06 almost by writ of birth, right? But if you were born in a place that did not look at Christianity
15:11 in the same way that did not have a Christian culture, you were seen as outside of that, right?
15:15 You're a heathen or a barbarian. The second way that it changed the church is the church moved
15:20 kind of from the margins of society and became basically the center of political and cultural
15:26 power. So this is really a far cry from what we saw in the early Roman Empire, just because a lot
15:32 of things in that time, you know, we learn a lot about the martyrs and so how they were physically
15:37 tortured in the ways that they were destroyed and martyred. But that wasn't the only way that
15:43 they were maligned. A lot of these early Christians were just basically kept out of the public square.
15:49 They were being, you know, there was pregnancy against them in terms of hiring, in terms of
15:53 business dealings. They were just kind of seen as outside of the culture, right? But you know,
15:58 now the church has kind of moved from away from that to being at the center of all these decisions
16:02 that are happening. The third way that the church changed was that Sunday became an official day
16:07 of rest and that church going was at the very least socially mandatory. And so now when you see
16:14 children, they may not understand what that socially mandatory thing means in terms of church.
16:18 But I know in my parents generation, especially living in Oklahoma, growing up in Oklahoma,
16:22 that was just something you did. You went to church, right? It didn't matter if you believed. It didn't
16:27 matter if you got anything out of it. You just went because that's the thing that you needed to do.
16:32 If you ran a business, you were not open on Sunday. Like that is just not something that you saw.
16:36 It was just very if seen as a very sacrilegious type of a thing and anti cultural at the time.
16:42 And the fourth way you saw the church change was Christiandom changed the way churches worked.
16:46 So if you think about it this way, and we've talked about back on the fourth podcast kind of
16:51 how men have left the church and why and those different things, but part of that is now we have
16:55 large groups of professional Christians, I guess would be the best way to look at it. So
17:00 these are your pastors or your people that that work for a church or something like that.
17:04 They are professional Christians. And that was something that would kind of be considered
17:08 ridiculous if you if you talk to people that were from the first few centuries, it would be ridiculous
17:12 for them to think that, Oh, there are people that just get paid to do this. So I don't need to share
17:16 the gospel with people because there are people that do this for a living. It's kind of an interesting
17:20 thing. But he goes from a Christiandom and kind of what that's done and how that's kind of gone
17:25 through history and what it's done to modern Christianity in the modern church. And then he talks about
17:29 how the enlightenment really began to disrupt Christiandom. Okay. So the enlightenment happened
17:35 during the 18th century. And it was basically a movement started by philosophers and these free
17:39 thinkers. And essentially, this is really distilling it down. And it's oversimplifying it. But I'm
17:44 doing that on purpose. Man kind of became the center of the universe. Like the individual person
17:50 was the center of the universe. And so I'm going to read a section from the book where he he goes
17:55 into talking about the enlightenment. So here we go. Given its emphasis on man as the center
18:00 of life, the enlightenment was the source of modern day individualism, materialism and consumerism.
18:06 Each of these not only led people away from the church, but they also greatly influenced the church,
18:11 both in the way people understand it and the way it operates. Basically, we began to see church
18:16 from a consumerist point as the place that exists to help us to serve us and to meet our needs,
18:23 not as a place in which to be the body of Christ or to worship God. So rather than the church being
18:28 something we give our lives to, it became another option on the great and ever growing menu of life
18:33 and leisure choices. Maybe we do it. Maybe we don't devotion to the gathering of God's people and
18:38 the worship of God's name became an add on to the rest of life. And unfortunately, churches have fed
18:45 into this consumeristic individualistic model of faith. Sermon series and books seem to be less
18:50 about the character and nature of God and well, the actual Bible and more about the ways that we
18:56 can improve or better our lives. There's been a shift from orienting our lives around God in his
19:01 story by orienting God around our life stories. It's what Christian Smith dubbed moralistic
19:07 therapeutic deism. It is religion of trying to be good to be good people so that we can feel good
19:14 about ourselves. And God's name is mentioned here and there. And he's really somewhere in the
19:19 distance. What ends up happening is that the local church enters a competitive marketplace
19:23 against other churches. Rather than being on mission and longing to see people come to know
19:28 Christ, we just reshuffle the deck of Christians in a given city. These things just get out of hand
19:34 and our churches start to look more and more like the world and less and less like Christ.
19:39 It's getting to the point where you just show up, push a button on your chair and someone brings
19:43 you a mocha to drink. Then at the end of the performance, because that's what it is,
19:47 you basically pick up your kids at main event. I'm exaggerating, of course, but not much.
19:52 I think this is a very important part of the book here. And you talk about what you see in the
19:58 modern day church and you've heard me say it a bunch, it's these Ted talks with Bible verses.
20:02 That's what we're getting now. And again, I don't mean to sound like an old curmudgeon that's
20:05 like, "Ah, we need to go back to the way it was. What's with all this dang rock music?" Like,
20:08 it's not one of those types of things. But it's enlightened thought from the enlightenment that
20:14 has basically caused what we're seeing now. And then, yes, the church landscape has become a
20:19 marketplace and I'm not immune to it either. I mean, you go to a church and then all of a sudden,
20:23 a church, you know, stops meeting your needs, right? Have you ever heard someone say that or even
20:28 yourself say that? Oh, it's just not really meeting my needs right now. And I wish the music was better
20:32 and I wish the sermon content was better. Like I've heard myself say all those things that's been
20:37 created, but a little bit by Christendom being kind of taken down piece by piece via the enlightenment.
20:43 And it's caused churches to move in that direction. And so the interesting thing that he talks about
20:49 in the book is that Christianity is now going back to the margins of society. It's spent literally
20:55 centuries as kind of being the forefront, the central hinge point for a lot of people, a lot of
21:01 decision making, a lot of legislative ventures. But now it's moving back to the margins. And one of
21:06 the first examples that he looked at was a story about Chick-fil-A. So there was an interview that
21:13 the current CEO and the son of the founder of Chick-fil-A, Dan Kathy, there was an interview that he did
21:18 with a Christian publication. It was like a Christian magazine. And he was asked about his business model
21:24 and this was his response. This is Dan Kathy again, the CEO of Chick-fil-A. We are very much
21:29 supportive of the family, the biblical definition of the family unit. We are a family-owned business,
21:34 a family-led business, and we are married to our first wives. We give God thanks for that.
21:39 We know it might not be popular with everyone, but thank the Lord. We live in a country where we
21:43 can share our values and operate on biblical principles. Not a whole lot going on right there,
21:49 right? Again, this is a Christian that's being interviewed by a Christian for a Christian magazine
21:53 and none of that seems outside of the realm of acceptable doctrine, right? I mean, this is really,
22:00 it's not that crazy of a statement. Like, this is not some sort of insane thing. But this went
22:06 around and it made the rounds in all these different media venues. And it was seen as an outrageous
22:12 thing for a modern human to say. Like, what does he mean we're talking about being married to our
22:18 first wives? And what does he mean by the biblical definition of the family unit? And obviously,
22:23 you're seen as a bigot, you're seeing it as all these different things. And so, kind of, you know,
22:28 what, even in hindsight, I bet Dan Kathy wouldn't have done this, he had a follow-up interview.
22:33 And even in the book, Matt Chandler says probably not the best thing for you to do. Never do a follow-up
22:37 interview. Try to maybe do something else. But he was asked about his views on marriage. So obviously,
22:42 this was, you know, diving down a little bit deeper. And this is what Dan Kathy had to say about that.
22:46 I think we are inviting God's judgment on our nation when we shake our fist at him and say,
22:51 we know better than you as to what constitutes a marriage. I pray God's mercy on our generation
22:56 that has such a prideful, arrogant attitude to think that we have the audacity to define what
23:02 marriage is all about. There was extreme outrage to this. Okay, I can almost see where the outrage
23:09 would come on this one. I can almost see it. It makes a little bit more sense. But still,
23:13 if you're looking at it through the Christian lens and the Christian worldview, this is not
23:16 beyond the pale, like at all. This one doesn't even register. And this led to a lot of virtue
23:23 signaling, which we talked about in the last podcast, but virtue signaling by politicians and
23:27 by city saying, you know, we're not going to let you be a part of our city. Your values are not our
23:32 values. And all these companies were kind of basically, look at us. We're so woke. We're so
23:36 awesome. We're going to be anti chicken sandwiches. And so what's funny about this story, I guess,
23:41 it's not really funny, as it actually affected me directly. Back in 2012, that's kind of when this
23:47 story broke, I was working for Major League Baseball at the time. And whenever I was in college in
23:53 different times, I worked with a company locally here in Edmond, Oklahoma. And they did a lot with
23:58 the Chick-fil-A company and with Dan Kathy and with their foundation and all those different things.
24:03 And so I kind of had an idea of who Dan Kathy was as a man, right? Not just as a business owner and
24:08 someone who's the CEO of very large corporation. But you know, it was just an interesting thing
24:13 because I felt like I got to know this guy's heart. And so there was a day, and I'm trying to
24:17 remember all the details, but there was basically a day where people were going to be boycotting
24:22 Chick-fil-A, right? There were same sex couples that were going up to the register and just basically
24:27 making out at the register. They weren't even ordering or anything like that. They were picking
24:31 outside and basically just trying to disrupt business. And so people that were in support of
24:35 Chick-fil-A, so a lot of Christians or people that were more so on the right politically,
24:41 they were going to be it was like national buy a chicken sandwich from Chick-fil-A day. Like that's
24:45 kind of what it ended up being. And so I'm woke up that morning and a lot of what I did in my job
24:50 had to do with Twitter and social media. And so I saw kind of this outrage and I didn't really look
24:55 very far into it. Like where it came from and what everyone was saying, I just saw that there were
25:00 two people on the issues in my head. I'm thinking, so today in this country buying a chicken sandwich
25:07 and or not buying a chicken sandwich is some big like political statement. And I thought about how
25:12 ridiculous that was. And so I tweeted something along the lines of, well, I guess this is where
25:16 we're living now. So everybody enjoy your chicken sandwiches today. Like, let's let's go support
25:20 Chick-fil-A. It was something like that. And the the pushback and really the the the negativity
25:27 that I got for Major League Baseball for putting that tweet out there was was fairly substantial.
25:32 There was like an entire group of people that were part of the marketing team that
25:35 kind of stopped me and talked to me about, you know, do you know the ramifications of what you said?
25:40 And gosh, how that could be seen as offensive. And we know it's your own Twitter account,
25:45 but you are representing Major League Baseball right now. And I was just in there almost like,
25:48 what are they talking about? Like, this is ridiculous. Now, I did not realize that
25:52 one of the C suite executives for Chick-fil-A, I think he died of a heart attack. I think it was
25:57 the guy who was handling the PR of the issue. I didn't I didn't know that. Not that that necessarily
26:01 would have changed what what I put out there. But it was just so interesting that I had to answer
26:06 to all these people that, you know, more so aligned with the atheist left, that's who these people I
26:11 was working with is what they were talking about. And basically the idea that I would even hint at
26:16 the fact that I supported the biblical definition of what a family is and what a marriage is was
26:22 seen as abhorrent, like absolutely outside of culture and completely unacceptable. So it wasn't
26:27 like this massive reprimand. I didn't have to take it down. I didn't have to issue an apology or
26:31 anything like that. But it was almost like they were just, you know, trying to school this this poor
26:36 little Oklahoma Christian and kind of bring him up to speed about how they do things in the Northeast.
26:42 It was a very condescending thing at the time. I was kind of confused by the whole thing. But now
26:46 when I'm looking back on it, you know, several years later, it was just like, what a stupid thing.
26:50 What a stupid thing to even have to sit through when people say things like that. But that's one
26:54 example of what we're seeing across the globe. And that's such a small example. But that's just one
27:00 personally from my own life. And I'm sure you guys have your own stories. And I'm actually,
27:04 you know, interested to hear your stories, if you have something like that, where you fill as if
27:08 you've been maligned by modern culture, go and shoot me an email info@undaunted.life. Again,
27:13 info@undaunted.life. I'd like to hear your story and, you know, commiserate with you or at least
27:18 understand what's going on around us. But the thing about it is all the things that I've talked
27:23 about up to this point. So we've got the enlightenment and we've got everything that's happened with
27:27 Christendom, the rise of which and what we're seeing now in the fall. Because of all this,
27:31 we pretty much get to the entire point of the book, the entire reason why Matt Chandler has
27:37 written this book. And there are three things that he writes. This is towards the middle of the book
27:42 that I think sums up where the book is going and why people should read it. And the first is that
27:46 the church thrives on the margins. The church thrives on the margins. Okay. So if you think back to the
27:52 first several centuries of the Christian church, which again, if Jesus didn't exist, which we talked
27:57 about on a, on a past podcast and different things like that, if there was no reason to believe that
28:03 this could be a thing that would have survived. There's, there's no reason to accept that there
28:07 would have been so many people that were converting to this. And when Christianity was on the margins,
28:11 it was healthy. It was very, very healthy. It was very gospel centered and gospel driven. Okay.
28:16 And the second reason that we can, we're looking at this book and looking at it as a prescriptive
28:23 way for us to live, essentially, is that it gives us a perspective required to see that
28:28 Christendom was essentially a mirage. It's such an interesting point. I've never really heard it put
28:33 that way, but Christendom was a mirage. Like this idea that somehow we had control over culture,
28:40 that we had control over the world, that somehow, I mean, it's kind of ridiculous to even say it,
28:45 that that we didn't really need to depend on the Triune God, that we didn't need to depend on that
28:49 to affect culture. I mean, because whenever Christianity is at the center of everyone's mind,
28:55 and at the center of legislation and of politics and of culture, you don't really feel the need to
28:59 ask the Holy Spirit to intercede for you, right? It's kind of one of those types of things. But
29:03 it's great that we've seen the mirage kind of break down right now that it's like,
29:07 look, it looked like Christian Christians were in control, looked like Christianity was dominating
29:12 culture. But that was never really the case. And the third thing we look out here is, and this is
29:18 Matt Chandler saying this, but he says, I don't mourn the passing of Christendom,
29:21 because I think a lot of people claim to be Christians who aren't Christians. And if you listen to
29:25 Matt Chandler sermons, which I would highly, highly, highly suggest that you do that, I listen to the
29:30 village church podcast every week. He talks about this from time to time about he operating in Dallas,
29:37 there's kind of this nominal Christianity where you are Christian in name only, right?
29:42 So someone asked you, Hey, are you a believer? You just say yes, instinctively, because you were
29:46 born in Texas, or because you were born in Oklahoma, or something like that, or I went to a Baptist
29:50 church as a little kid with my family. And so what you get is when Christianity is at the center of
29:56 things, and when it's the dominant ideology and the dominant party, if you look at it politically,
30:00 right? When it's the dominant type of thing, you just kind of say, yeah, I check that box.
30:05 Like I'm cool with that. Yeah, I'll call myself a Christian without any true understanding about
30:10 what being a Christian is and what the gospel even means. And so I think that's very important for us
30:15 to think about is when we're looking at the points of this book, and we're looking at where we're at
30:20 currently in Christianity, we have to be realistic about where we're at. Okay. So I'm going to read a
30:25 quote here actually from chapter three, and this is a quote about courage, because again, you know,
30:30 I talked about this when I talked in the virtue signaling podcast, which wasn't one podcast ago
30:34 was two podcasts ago, but in the virtue signaling podcast, you know, when you're at the Academy
30:38 Awards and you're sitting in a room full of a bunch of people that already think the way that
30:42 you do, you are not courageous for saying things that they agree with, right? So if you're sitting there
30:47 with a bunch of pro-abortion people and you say something that is very pro-abortion, that does not
30:52 make you courageous. It makes you normal. Like there's nothing courageous about doing something
30:57 like that. And so I think it's important for us to look at courage in the right way, especially
31:02 since that's one of the central themes of this book. So there's a quote in chapter three by James
31:06 Neil Hollingworth. And it's this courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that
31:12 something else is more important than one's fear. I'll read that again. Okay. Courage is not the
31:18 absence of fear, but rather the judgment of something else is more important than one's fear, right?
31:25 We have to put our current circumstances in the right mind frame. Like we have to be logical,
31:32 we have to be balanced. Okay. There's so much in modern culture that we've confused what courage
31:39 actually is, right? I think most people would see a police officer, you know, jumping, you know,
31:45 guarding someone with their body to protect them from bullets is courageous. Firefire running into
31:50 a burning building to go and grab children and get them out there to get them to safety, you know,
31:55 soldiers going into the into war, basically running towards the sound of bullets. We see those things
32:00 as courageous, right? But we have to look at it through the context of what we're doing as modern
32:05 Christians. And are we operating in a courageous way? And that leads to a major point for us in
32:11 chapter four. And like guys, this is like the most undaunted life point in this book. Like,
32:17 it's just an incredible, incredible part of this book. And we just could not agree with it more.
32:22 So I'm going to go ahead and read the quote here. Yet it's an attribute that when we know it,
32:26 consider it and believe it, will give us courage in this age of unbelief. It is the understanding
32:32 that God is a warrior. This attribute of God has almost completely vanished today.
32:38 When did you last hear a sermon on the warrior nature of our God? When we think about God,
32:45 we tend to think about Nickelodeon, not HBO, about Disney, not Dunkirk without realizing it,
32:51 we can end up with a Tinker Bell Jesus, who has a bag of pixie dust. And all he does is sprinkle us
32:56 with blessings. He never gets upset about anything. You can't do anything wrong. His sprinkle dust is
33:02 there to help us understand that. Yes, you really are amazing. Now, don't get me wrong. You cannot
33:07 think too much about or appreciate too deeply the grace, mercy, long suffering patience and
33:12 kindness of the triune God. We must never neglect those attributes of God. God is not only a warrior,
33:19 and this is only one way of thinking and speaking about him. Of course, he's more than a warrior,
33:25 but he's not less. Make no mistake, the Bible does paint God as a warrior. The Lord is a man of
33:33 war. The Lord is his name from Exodus 15 verse three. That is what makes this God so terrifying.
33:40 Is he loving? Yes. Gracious? Yes. Merciful? Yes. Long suffering? Absolutely. Tinker Bell?
33:50 Not at all. Not at all. He is a warrior, and he fights for his people. And he wins.
33:57 That is worth the book, guys, that little group of quotes alone, that is worth the price of admission,
34:05 especially for us here at Undaunted Life. This stuff is why we love Chandler so much.
34:10 Like he brings it and he just brings the truth no matter how counter it is to you, no matter how
34:15 it strikes you. Again, there is so much focus on the Lamb of God, and there's almost no mention of
34:21 the line of Judah. We talk about this all the time. We are not saying that the Lamb of God is a bad
34:28 thing to talk about. The reason why Undaunted Life is here is because there's almost no mention of
34:33 the Lamb of God. There's no mention of the warrior side of our Jesus, right? Again, I love the quote.
34:39 He's more than a warrior, but he's not less. Stop trying to pacify Jesus. Like that's not
34:47 the way we need to understand our Savior. He is not less than a warrior. There's this idea that
34:53 what you're just kind of a Neanderthal, if you look at the warrior way too much, like it's
34:58 ridiculous. And I love at the end of this quote, and he wins. He is a warrior, and he fights for
35:03 his people, and he wins. In modern culture in 2018, winning is almost seen as a negative,
35:10 right? As this negative and modern society, like we shouldn't even try to win, right? So
35:15 capitalism, it's about winning. So like capitalism is evil. You know, what if our child loses if we
35:21 put them into a sport? What are we going to do? So what are we going to do? We're going to make
35:24 sure they don't keep score at the flag football game. You know, what if someone's left out? You
35:28 know, we're not going to have the kids pick teams because that's going to make the person that's
35:32 picked last feel bad. Well, yeah, that's kind of the point. Like, but there's just this idea that
35:38 we can't even look at somebody that could win something. But that's what Jesus is. Jesus is a
35:43 winner. Like he wins in the end. The trying God, it triumphs over evil. That that's what we're
35:51 living in. That's the story. That's the narrative that we're living in right now. And I just love
35:55 the way that Matt Chandler pointed it out. It doesn't take some sort of deep exegetical knowledge
36:00 of the scriptures to understand what he's saying is absolutely true. Again, like I always says it,
36:04 Tinker Bell, Jesus, that's hilarious. I normally say boyfriend Jesus. I might have to steal that
36:08 from him. But that's what we think about Jesus now. He's Tinker Bell. He's like a genie, right?
36:12 We just, you know, rub the bottle or rub the lamp and then he's just going to pop out. All right,
36:16 what do you need? Like here, I'm your Jesus. I'm here for you. And if you're just like, Oh, I just
36:20 need, I just need to cuddle right now. I just need you to help me. I just need you to protect me.
36:24 It's just like, can we, can we depend on the warrior Jesus a little bit too? Can we even just
36:28 talk about him? Again, we're going to talk about him. And we would encourage all of you to do the
36:32 same. We would encourage you to talk to your pastors about talking about those things. I say
36:37 these things always to challenge you guys. Why do you only hear about the Lamb of God in the modern
36:42 day church? Where's the line of Judah? I love that Matt Chandler goes into this. Okay. And now
36:47 we have to look at going further into the book. It's the reality of how this plays out in culture.
36:52 Okay. So there's a quote in there from a British pastor in evangelist named,
36:56 named Rico Tice. And here's the quote, there is increasingly hot increasing hostility
37:02 to the gospel message. But there is something else going on too. There is also increased hunger.
37:08 The same rising tide of secularism and materialism that rejects truth claims and is offended by
37:13 absolute moral standards is proving to be an empty and hollow way to live. You're more and
37:19 more likely to find people quietly hungering for the content of the gospel. Even as our culture
37:25 teaches them to be hostile towards it. That is such an important line. That last line right there,
37:31 I'll reread it. Even as our culture teaches them to be hostile towards it. That is the reality
37:38 of where we're living. Guys, your head is in the sand if you think anything differently. Okay.
37:43 For those of you listening that have children that are in school, what is it that you think the
37:47 teachers are telling them? Now you may be homeschooling them. Maybe they're in a private school or
37:52 something like that. But a lot of these teachers seem to align the same politically. A lot of these
37:57 teachers unions seem to have a particular worldview that they want to be espoused within those classrooms,
38:03 right? Our culture is teaching our children to be hostile towards the reality of the gospel,
38:08 right? It's pushing them towards pluralism. It's pushing them towards secularism and materialism
38:15 and narcissism and all those different things. And we have to be able to stand in the opposite
38:20 direction of that. Okay. I mean, the gospel itself was always going to rub people the wrong way.
38:25 Like because it draws a line in the sand, right? And lines in the sand, especially now are very,
38:31 very uncomfortable. Everybody wants a squiggly line, but it only squiggles when they want it to
38:35 squiggle and they want to erase parts of the line as well, right? And the more pluralistic we think
38:41 and the more pluralistic we go, the rougher the gospel will feel to people. But it doesn't actually
38:47 make the gospel any rougher, right? It's good news. After all, that's what the word means.
38:53 But the gospel will feel rougher, but it's the same gospel. We don't need to change it.
38:58 Like if you go back to some of the approaches we talked about earlier, this idea that we have to
39:03 change the gospel so it's more efficient or that it's communicated better so that people
39:08 accept it more. We kind of like don't talk about certain parts of the Bible. We talk about others,
39:13 like there's no reason to display the gospel in any other form or fashion than how it's currently
39:18 being displayed. Like that's it. And so there is an increased hunger for things that kind of buck
39:25 modern culture. And you know here, we're also big fans of Jordan Peterson here at Undaunted Life.
39:30 And I just recently was listening to an interview that he did. And it was very important because he
39:35 was kind of talking about something very similar to this. So I'm going to actually read a quote here
39:39 from that interview. You see, because I see the same thing when I'm talking, my audiences are
39:44 often composed mostly of men between say 20 and 35, not exactly young, but young enough.
39:50 And they're desperate for a discussion about responsibility and fair play and noble being
39:56 and working properly in the world. And to hear the idea that their lives actually matter,
40:02 that if they straighten themselves up and fly right, that they'll have a beneficial effect on
40:06 themselves and their family and the community and that the world is starving for that. And then
40:12 through them as individuals, not for them as a group, but for each of them as individuals.
40:18 Yeah, it breaks me up. Every time the topic comes up, it breaks me up because it's so damn sad.
40:24 We're so stupid. We're alienating young men. We're telling them that their patriarchal oppressors
40:29 and denizens of rape culture, and tyrants and waiting, and that we fail to discriminate between
40:34 their competence and their tyranny. And it's just awful. It's so destructive. It's so unnecessary.
40:40 And it's so sad. What's important about that quote by Dr. Jordan Peterson is that he's having
40:48 a lot of men in his audience that are wanting to be talked to about about how to be a good nobleman,
40:55 about how to take responsibility. All these things we basically been told that modern boys don't want,
41:00 right? We've been told that these modern boys and these teenagers and these young men that they
41:04 don't want to be responsible. They just want to play video games. Well, not necessarily. That's
41:09 what they're defaulting to. Because, you know, for a lot of guys and you know this to be true
41:14 about yourself, it's certainly true about me. If there's not a great chance that I'm going to win,
41:17 it's something I'm probably not going to do it, right? I mean, to a degree, right? So if there's a
41:22 sport that's just you're absolutely awful at, and it's not important to you to get better at that,
41:26 you're probably just not going to play. That's that whole concept of, oh, I'm going to take my ball
41:29 and go home type of thing. I mean, it's that same type of an idea. So if guys are constantly told
41:35 that they're awful, that they're, you know, perpetuating rape culture, and that they're a part of the
41:39 patriarchy that is destroying Western society and all these different things, where do you think
41:42 they're going to retreat to? They're going to retreat to places where they're in complete control.
41:46 They're in complete control of their world when they're playing Madden, when they're playing
41:50 Call of Duty, when they're playing World of Warcraft, they're in complete control of that,
41:53 right? They're in complete control of their fancy football roster, their fancy baseball roster.
41:57 They're going to completely in control of that. They can make trades, they can drop players,
42:01 they can, you know, change their lineup however they want. So they retreat to the places where
42:04 they have control. How about pornography? They were treating to pornography, right? Because they
42:07 can control what happens there. Because if they're done looking at a woman performing an act,
42:12 they go to the next one, and the next one, and the next one, and the next one until they decide
42:16 they want to ejaculate, right? Like that that's where they have control. So we're constantly
42:20 going to be seeing men moving towards those sides of things where they are in complete control.
42:25 And I'm going to bring it back around to the original point here, which is there's the reality
42:30 of how this is going to play out in culture for us. You know, it takes courage in the modern culture
42:35 to express yourself and express the gospel as a part of who you are as a person. And for a man,
42:42 that's what's going to actually take courage to be able to stand up and do those types of things.
42:46 And this book ends with, you know, how we can be courageous. And it encourages us by
42:52 demonstrably stating that we all of us were made for right now. Like this was not an accident. So
42:59 for all the listening to this podcast right now, it's not an accident that you're alive in 2018
43:04 that you weren't born a thousand years ago, or a thousand years from now, or somewhere in between.
43:09 Like there's a reason for you being here right now. Okay, we were made to operate in this post
43:15 Christendom world. But this is my encouragement to you guys. And that's what's encouraging about
43:19 this book as well is you have to be ready for it. Because a lot of us are frontrunners.
43:24 And some of you are even going to bucket the idea that I would bring that up. But a lot of us
43:28 operate as frontrunners. We are very, very happy when our team is routing the other team. We get
43:34 really uncomfortable when our teams get smashed, right? You know, we love to be a part of a team at
43:40 work that is succeeding. But if they even suggest that you would go to a weaker team that you could
43:44 potentially make better, some of us, it's just in our core of our being, we don't want to do that.
43:49 We're okay with being frontrunners. Well, guys, the days that Christianity is the front runner in
43:55 society and in how people think they're done, they're finished. I'm not saying they can't come
44:00 back. This isn't like a, you know, Hellfire brimstone type of thing. But those days are gone. They're
44:05 just gone, especially if you're listening to this in the United States, it's going away,
44:10 especially if the United States goes the way of Europe where everything is becoming very socialistic
44:15 and very even more pluralistic than what you can imagine. And the standards go into the toilet.
44:19 That's where the country continues to go as well. And so you have to be able to be ready for that.
44:24 You have to prepare your heart, you have to steal your senses, and you have to make sure that you
44:28 can operate in that type of an environment. Okay. So as we wrap up here on the review of the book,
44:34 I'm going to give everyone listening to this podcast the three reasons why modern Christian
44:39 men should read this book. Okay. And they're fairly simple and fairly straightforward.
44:42 The first one is it's short. Okay. And I hate that I even have to say that. But I know my audience,
44:48 guys, this book is just over a hundred pages long. This is not some super voluminous thing. It's not
44:54 like reading an encyclopedia. It's not like reading the Odyssey. It's very short. It's very,
45:00 very readable. Okay. But also this should serve as a primer for other materials or other things
45:06 that you should be thinking deeply about. Okay. And one thing that I want this to lead to for you
45:11 is to read another book by Matt Chandler, which is called the explicit gospel. So this is probably
45:16 like a top five favorite book for me. So obviously we put out that list on our website that we talk
45:22 about all the time. The hundred books that every modern Christian man should read. That's in my
45:27 top five on that list. Like we don't have that list, you know, set up in like a top one through 100
45:31 type of thing. But that's a top five book. That's the best book that Matt Chandler has ever written.
45:35 And I'm not hating on his other books. I'm obviously reviewing one of those as we speak. But it's an
45:40 incredible and incredible book. And so this book has a lot of the same qualities of that other one.
45:45 But the explicit gospel gets into such a more definitive nature of how the gospel should operate
45:51 in our lives. And it's completely appropriate when we're talking about how it operates in modern
45:55 culture. Okay. So first reason to read this book, it's short, you can read it in like an hour,
45:59 hour and a half guys. So quit bellyache and just nut up and read it. The second is it will call out
46:04 your cowardice towards modern culture. Okay. Because we live in this culture, we don't really want to
46:10 offend anybody. And we don't want to, you know, put a mean comment on social media, because we don't
46:14 want it to be taken out of context. And but guys, the gospel is offensive. That doesn't mean you need
46:20 to be offensive while you're displaying it to somebody. But it is offensive. You are challenging
46:25 people's worldviews. And Satan has got most of these people by the balls. And so if you're thinking
46:30 through a pluralistic, materialistic mindset, that is of the devil. It's not of God. And so the
46:36 gospel is going to be contrary to that, right? It's going to be vinegar in the mouth of these
46:41 people that are spewing these hatred, these hate filled ideologies. Okay. So again, the second
46:46 reason you should read this book is it will call out your cowardice towards modern culture. And the
46:50 final reason is it will reinforce the wholeness of the person of Jesus, the wholeness of the person
46:57 of Jesus. Again, we say it all the time and we will continue to say it. He is a lamb and lion.
47:04 Okay. He is caring and powerful. He is supporter and warrior. He is both. He's not 50% one 50% the
47:11 other. He is wholly both 100% both. Again, just to repeat the three reasons why you should read
47:17 this book. Number one, it's short. Number two, it will call out your cowardice towards modern
47:21 culture. Number three, it will reinforce the wholeness of the person of Jesus. All right, guys,
47:26 before we let you go, we're going to do a quick resilience boost. As you know, by now, we are
47:29 a men's ministry and our mission is cultivating manly resilience. Specifically, we do that by
47:34 providing content like this podcast that forges spiritual, mental and physical toughness. And
47:38 today it's a mental and spiritual resilience boost for you. And you know, every time we review a book,
47:44 that's going to be one of the things that we suggest. So make sure you pick up a copy of
47:48 take heart Christian courage in the age of unbelief by Matt Chandler. Pick it up on Amazon. The link
47:53 to that is going to be in the description. Pick it up at your local bookstore. Do it on your e-reader,
47:58 whatever you need to do. Make sure you get that while at the same time you're buying that book,
48:02 go ahead and put the explicit gospel on your list. Like I mentioned, this is going to be take
48:08 heart is going to be a book that kind of will springboard you into other ways of thinking.
48:12 You cannot go wrong by reading the explicit gospel. There's also like a group study that goes with
48:17 that that I've taken groups of people through before. So if you're the type of person that
48:21 leads a Bible study or a Sunday school or a men's group, that I could not recommend that content
48:27 any higher than that. So that concludes our review of the book take heart. And we just want to thank
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In a world where fear and chaos seem to reign, it's time for Christians to take heart and embrace courage.
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Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than one's fear.
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